Gaydars for Gaysians

The long wait brings the most special guest ever...the ex. Aster brings on his ex-girlfriend (cis and straight) to spill the whole tea about their past relationship: how they met, why they were attracted to each other how they broke up, what challenges they faced, ~technical difficulties~, yadayadayada. You never wanna miss this one. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Aster's back with a steamy topic that cis people have been craving about for decades: how do trans people have sex? Joined by our first trans femme guest, Vera, the two trans hotties talk about how they navigated their gender journeys, how their relationships with their bodies and sex have changed over time, and how they enjoy sex while dealing with body dysphoria. The ultimate trans sex liberation has come! Tune in till the end to listen to Vera's hookup stories, which are the wildest ones to be released on the face of internet.If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Aster's back from his long break (I promise I'll be back next week) with a steamy interview with Robert Steele, the author of Banned from California, a biography of Jim Foshee, a gay runaway—and later, gay rights activist—who, after a childhood spent first in an orphanage and then a mental hospital, found himself in the underground world of the early queer scene of 1950s Los Angeles.  Robert explains why he chose Jim as the subject of his book, how Jim endured his abusive childhood and his time in prison, and how he finally transitioned into a gay rights activist and queer history researcher. Robert and Aster also discuss themes such as hypersexuality in gay men culture and Jim's resilience. For more information visit BannedCA.comBuy at https://www.amazon.com/Banned-California-Persecution-Redemption-Liberation/dp/1734010800If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Who has been showered with rejections before? I know I have. Aster is back with our favorite Single Since Birth Karen (ep 14,15,29) to talk about rejections. Join us in our verbal diarrhea of healing from rejections from career opportunities, relationships, and family, as we bare all of our most embarrassing stories of rejections. Sharp right, we give fashion tips because we be fashionable like dat. Cheers!  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe!

And we're back! Aster has been taking some time off because he was vacationing in therapy. In this episode, he sits down with a psychiatrist-to-be Dr. Velma Pepper to talk about everything therpy: why we started therapy, what we talk about in therapy, what kind of therapists we love & hate, why people don't go to therapy, and why therapy can be questionable at times. Tune in to learn about our deepest darkest secrets, and answers to our listener questions collected through instagram related to toxic friendships, lying in therapy, & restarting therapy! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Hi, pretty bitches Jackie and Aster are back talking about everything related to our lewks and bodies, this time specifically about eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and fitness culture. Jackie goes deep into her history with various eating disorders, while Aster rants about how his OCD facilitates his body dysmorphia, separate from his body dysphoria. They discuss fitness culture as well, which they have distinct experiences regarding fitness trainers. You won't expect what Aster had to go through with his personal trainer :)If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Aster has his first legit interview with Anthony Hand, the creator of Maxxie LaWow: Drag Super-Shero, a feature-length animated film anticipated to be released in Spring 2024. Introducing pop culture's very first drag heroine, our super-shero's first silver screen adventure pits her against her archnemesis Dana Bolical. With a nefarious scheme tucked-up and ready for every situation, Dana will quickly become the villain audiences love to hate. Maxxie LaWow will feature a strong LGBTQ+ and BIPOC cast that will make turn heads and raise carefully plucked eyebrows as it evovlves into a camp favorite that will go down in HERstory.Find & Support Maxxie LaWow at Maxxie.com and @maxxielawow on Instagram!Donate at https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/maxxie-lawow-drag-super-shero-animated-film IndieGoGo video: http://www.maxxie.com/donateAdventure Reel: http://www.maxxie.com/adventureIf you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Not an episode, but a new cover! I promise there will be an episode coming up soon; I'm super busy because I just arrived in the States. Enjoy!

TW: Eating disorder, Suicidality, Transphobia, Transmisogyny I'm late because I moved across the ocean, but here's another insightful episode. This week, we're back with another straight girl, Jackie, to talk about how rough her life has been being the "objectively beautiful" one. Can you imagine having every single guy fall for you the moment he lays eyes on you? Every gay man's dream! No but seriously, we talk about the pervasion of lookism in our contemporary society through the lens of the beneficiaries. We also discuss how lookism affects trans people specifically: how Aster unwittingly benefits from society's obsession with beauty, how the gender binary is coerced upon trans people, and how trans women are victims of double jeopardy for both transphobia and misogyny.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

TW: Extremely dark humor regarding mental health and disorders,  self-harm, & self-worthThis episode, we're with aromantic heterosexual Haidy who opens up everything about being bipolar and having ADHD. Currently in her manic stage, she owes up to her God complex and irresponsible sexual decisions. BTW, we're using very dark humor in this episode, so don't take us so seriously. But please, practice safe sex and take your meds! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Pride Month Event is over, but the studio is ever more flowing with the gays. Your fav gay guests,  Rowan (ep 17, 22) & Aiden (ep 35), are back to discuss all about marriage. What do we think about marriage? Do we even wanna get married? Do we want kids, if we can ever have them? What about our ideal honeymoon? Tune in to hear about Rowan's nude cliff wedding fantasy and Aiden's Zoom wedding & love story with Sangwoo.If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT**3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers!2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt!1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team!***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account!TW: Transphobia, Transmisogyny, MisgenderingWe end our Pride Month Medley with the most delightful topic, transphobia. Since Aster doesn't have any Korean trans friends to chat with, he brings the next best option, our polyamorous-pansexual star, Dolphin (ep 21).  We cover the timeline of trans history in Korea--- from the first trans Korean celebrity Ha Risu, onto rise of Radical (Twitter) Feminism, to the intense transphobia in contemporary Korea. We also focus on the major events that ran headlines  last year: the death of Sergeant Byun Hee-Soo & Sookmyung Women's University trans student enrollment controversy. Why are people so afraid of trans people in the bathroom? I swear to god we're only there to shit.   If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT**3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers!2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt!1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team!***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account!Have you ever considered having plastic surgery? Fear not, because we have Irene, a software engineer at Snapchat, in the house to talk about her double eyelid surgery. She shares her wisdom of how she grew to improve her self-esteem while opting to get her surgery. We also give out dating advice & skincare recs in Questions&Stories so tune in till the end!Follow Irene @ireniepoo!If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT**3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges!2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt!1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team!***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account!If you thought last week's episode was too depraved, then you should definitely go to church after listening to this episode. In celebration of pride month, I brought in my gay friend Aiden to talk about why we hate pride month :) We talked why we're so gay and sad, until we take a sharp right turn when Aiden delves into his sexual endeavors and his love for, umm, bodily fluids.If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT**3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges!2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt!1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team!***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account!Pray to God, because sexual depravity in this episode is calling for satan. Did you know that Aster is actually a frat bro? Yes, that house with all the fancy Greek letters. But don't worry, the house is still queer! In this episode, Aster invites his fellow brother and big, Andrew, to spill all the gossip on the queer fraternity and how the fuck those two words can coexist. We also talk about how our individual trans experiences impact our sexual liberation, so we got some humane touch as well :) If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT**3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges!2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt!1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team!***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account!This week, we finally have a queer guest to celebrate Pride Month Event with us! Recording all the way from Washington DC, Kathleen is a newb gayling who is WHITE (yes, those people exist). She tells why she was so late to coming in terms with her raging homosexuality, how she collected all gay members in Texas in her own home, and her gen-Z love story blossoming with facetime dates.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT**3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges!2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt!1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team!***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account!We're welcoming our five-week Pride Month Medley talking about multiculturalism & culture clashes. My guests & I have lived in various parts of the world including Latin America, North America, East Asia, & Southeast Asia. Originally, we were going to discuss how different cultural backgrounds shaped our unique perspectives as global citizens, but we ended up talking about how we were forever scarred by suffocating educational pressure, slut shaming, & most of all, family. I guess trauma unites all shapes and colors! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Hai I know we've left for a hot sec and we promise that we're gonna come back with a very important announcement real soon, but in the meantime, enjoy my cover of UN Village by Baekhyun. It's a one-take recroding without any edits via my phone, so please be generous with the low quality. Let me know if you like it! Any positive reinforcement makes Aster stray a day longer from his depression :) 

From the title, you know that you have our shortest episode coming up hot. Joined by our dear host Ken again, we paint rainbows of joy regarding our amazing, wonderful lives as Gaysians. Hurry, because it's gonna rain pretty soon ;) If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Apologies for the late update, but we're back with our 30th episode with no other but our own host, Kenneth! He spills all the tea about gay men in the military, straight fuckboy-wanna-be's, & his No Nut November. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

You don't want to skip the intro music this episode because this week we're not G4G, but Heteros for Peperos. With Aster's friend, Master, as the judge, three brave contestants of the H.E.T.E.R.O. community compete ferociously in the Heterosexual Olympics, to win the title of SSapterosaurus  of 2021. How do these people survive as cisgender straight individuals in today's oppressive society? Tune in to find out as they are graded on 5 categories: physical experience, emotional attraction, search history, taste in mass media, & lifestyle choices.   If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

TW: Bodily discussions of trans people, AIDSThis week, get ready to get educated by two medical students from Korea & America respectively to discuss medical perspectives on queer identities and experiences. Topics include education about LGBT health care (or the complete lack thereof), transgender health care, blood transfusion & AIDS, etc. Wait till the end to hear their ~professional~ opinions on whether to Fuck, Marry, or Kill needles, stethoscope, & surgical knife. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

We tried our best to address the elephant in the room, racism in Asian communities. We ask for your gracious understanding as we uncover delicate and sensitive topics such as Asian friend groups, internalized racism, Yellow Fever,  and racism/ colorism in Korea.  DISCLAIMER: We address the topic with our perspectives as Koreans. While we're only able to speak on our own behalf, we acknowledge that the term "Asian" encompasses far more diverse backgrounds.If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

This week, Aster snatches Dom Daddy Angela away from her vacation to talk about what needs to be addressed: Asian racism. We start unpacking this heavy load by going over some traumatic childhood stories tainted by racist classmates and the pressure to have "English" names . Oh a PSA by the way, WE ALSO SPEAK ENGLISH if you hadn't noticed yet. Next, we delve deeper into more serious discussions of institutional racism in college endorsed by professors and the "Asian bubble." Tune in to next week to hear us sweat out as we try to walk on a fine sheet of glass while discussing Asian fetishization, internalized racism, and racism within Asian communities. DISCLAIMER: We address the topic with our perspectives as Koreans. While we're only able to speak on our own behalf, we acknowledge that the term "Asian" encompasses far more diverse backgrounds.If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

I'm know I'm late so I'm gonna cut right to the chase: Hayden and I talk about dating and sex as trans individuals, while Hayden also parts wisdom to the future celeb-to-be (yes, that's me, Keeping Up with Aster). Stay till the end to hear us play Fuck, Marry, Kill with cleansing toiletries (wink wink).Follow Hayden @hayden.royalty!If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

G4G has made it! We finally have a not-a-friend-of-aster guest, and they are also internet-famous! Hayden Royalty, whose coming out video had made gayby Aster cry 4 years ago, kindly visited the studio to talk about their Korean-American queer experience, nonbinary-genderqueer identity, and social anxiety. We have a part 2 lined up next week focused on dating, sex, & being internet-famous, so keep an eye out for that as well!Follow Hayden @hayden.royalty!If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

What's up Gaysians! What a ball-slapping comeback with Aster's partner-in-crime Erica Silver to spill so much tea (Trust me, so much tea). Erica confesses her sins of calling herself feminist while being choked in bed by dom daddies, voting for democrats while fucking registered republicans, remaining Christian while being a raging bitch, & many more. We also discuss the Clubhouse phenomenon (RIP) and end the episode playing Fuck, Marry, Kill with Erica's various residences. Follow Erica @smol.oyster!If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

I'm lazy so I'm gonna get right to the point: Rowan's back and we talk about differences between Korean and American queer culture (particularly lesbian), and internalized homophobia (or how much we hate ourselves). To tip it off, we play Fuck, Marry, Kill with Rowan's favorite celestial objects. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Sit down with our guest, Dolphin, and learn all about polyamory & pansexuality. What is it like to be in multiple relationships AT THE SAME TIME? How do you deal with all the fish in the water if you don't discriminate at all? But wait...she's also a devout 유교걸 (Confucian-girl) who loves coexistence with her not-so-tolerating family. Learn all about how you can be a good Korean girl while also attending dungeon parties. We also briefly touch on what it's like to have ADHD. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Fuck the gym, and get ready for this ab workout as you follow #TinderQueen Victoria's instructions on how to cockblock. She opens her vault of stories of horny men all around the world, encountered online and offline. Trust me, you don't want to miss this.We also tackle the question of not feeling Asian enough, and play Fuck, Marry, Kill, & Save with Tinder, Hinge, CofeeMeetsBagel, and Bumble. If you're trying to warm up to the world of online dating, make sure you listen to the end! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

What do you do if your friend changes genders? Aster's friend Victoria Vicious has all the answers. As #tinder-queen, Victoria shows off her #trans-ally skills to give advice on how to help your trans friend as they are socially transitioning. Aster also rants about his damned attempts of pretending to be "stealth" in front of his vocal instructor and fucked-up Korean psychiatry as he got diagnosed with more problems. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

To be fully honest with y’all, today’s episode is definitely not the easiest to follow, but we can assure you that the rough journey will totally be worth it. We start with the introduction of our guest, an extremely heterosexual Korean man (Ken can attest to this, so you know it’s true) and we take a very, very sharp turn to talk about Aster’s highschool trauma from a third person’s point of view. Then we talk about Ken’s personal favorite topic — the army. Ken unpacks his excitement and anxiety (or are they one and the same?) for the army as our very heterosexual male tries to help him sort things out. Then to end it all on a lighter note, we talk about dicks and naked bodies (yes, still with the heterosexual male guest present).If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Who says only straight men can date "straight" women? Sometimes, the queers do it better. In this episode, trans guy Aster invites gay girl Rowan to give tips to straight men on how to hit on straight women successfully. Before we dive into these absolutely practical pieces of advice, Aster touches on Elliot Page's coming out, the similarities between Corona and STD testings, and his unrequited love for his therapist. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Our dear boy Kenneth is going off to the military, so we decided to dedicate an episode to him (finally, after all that talk about Aster). We delve deep into his biggest fears (and fantasies) being surrounded by cishet men, his question of to-come-out-or-not-to-come-out, & his overall feelings about this process. WARNING: This is not his last episode, so stay tuned in for our following episodes, Gaysians!If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Our SinBs hit the studio again, but this time with advice on how to escape singlehood. So here are pieces of advice that you should follow that they all haven't followed (or have tried to follow but failed). Stay tuned in to keep up with Fun, Marry, & Save with our holy SinBs till the end! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Isn’t it depressing that a 23-year old has never been in a relationship? Well, most Koreans will sure think so - but we are here today to prove you wrong. To prove to you that the lives of SinBs (Single-since-births) are more full-of-love than they look, we have invited two other SinB guests who will share their life stories along with our own SinB, Ken. In our first episode about SinBs, they will be talking about how they have managed to stay single until now and will prove you wrong if you’ve thought that a SinB lifestyle equals a lack of sexual or romantic life. In the midst of this, we will also be talking about some of our long, long, long, long-held desires as well as if we’ve actually tried escaping our SinB-hood. Then we will come back next episode to continue with some advice for you to follow (that we obviously haven’t followed) to escape SinB-hood.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

It’s nearing end of October, and so we celebrate the creation of gay culture as we know it: Hocus Pocus and Mariah’s Christmas carol. But if you’re a gaysian, all that is probably behind you since we got to prepare for the deadliest, most stressful time of our lives - Thanksgiving. It is the holiday of family gathering with all our dear relatives paired with their loving advices. Well we will first talk about what we really think about these family gatherings (spoiler alert, we don’t like them very much) and try to give you some advice to avoid getting too stressed. Some are useless, but some, we believe, are actually helpful — surprising, we know. And of course, we end today’s episode by playing a fuck, marry, kill with some family holidays. So stay with us till the very end!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

TW: Suicide, mental health issues, depression, and anxiety.This episode, we have quite a lengthy introduction - we give you the explanation on our hiatus since we owe that to you guys and we have a little bit of fun by critiquing Call Me By Your Name with our vast literature-art knowledge. And with that, you probably can somewhat guess that this episode, we delve back into the past to celebrate the anniversary of a video - Jubilee’s video on suicide featuring Aster. We will be reflecting on the questions asked on the video to see whether Aster’s answers have changed and to see what Ken has to contribute to the conversation (spoiler alert: he doesn’t have much).Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

What’s the recurring theme of our podcast? I mean there is a lot, but the big one is STD: Sexuality, Trauma, and Depression. And this episode sort of brings all those together. You will be hearing from Aster first how his top-surgery went (and he will also give out some very useful advice to anyone considering it as well). Then you will get to listen to our possibly the smoothest transition yet so far to the next topic of body image — with story of both body dysphoria and body dysmorphia, the struggles Aster faces trying to accept his body, and Kenneth’s love-hate relationship with his body and his ass.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

We are already at our 10th episode!! And what better way to celebrate it than with an exclusive episode about all stuff yaoi and BL featuring a special guest? With the help of our former Yaoi manga translator, we talk about the different types of bl involving bears and twinks, obviously some anal sex involving pregnancy, and try to understand what the f*ck a cake-verse entails. Our primary goal, as it always has been, is to ~educate~ our audience so by the end of this week’s episode, you’ll know the difference between uke and seme or fudanshi and fujoshi. At the end we also have some questions for our guests regarding her work so be ready for that!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

We’ve gone over so many topics in this podcast non-stop talking about the Gaysian Lifestyle™. But we’ve yet to cover possibly the most relevant and definitely the most traumatic one yet -- coming out to your (Asian) family. This episode, we become your wiki how and tell you step by step (with maybe too much detail) on how to actually make the best out of a dreadful event. Then we compare having to come out as gay vs. transgender and talk about how to continue to conversation post-coming out (while being very Oprah Winfrey-esque and giving heartwarming advice). We also have stories and questions at the end so make sure to stay for that section!--Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some blowjob tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eating disorders. And then as if nothing had happened, we fuck, marry, and kill bananas, eggplants, and cucumbers. Just make sure that you have some burn medication on the side during and after we’ve spilled all the tea. Because the tea is what? Scalding hot.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Sit with us in this very special episode as we talk about all things Aster -- more specifically Aster’s top surgery. Before he goes into his top surgery, we’ll get to learn what top surgery really entails, how he feels, and what took him to get here. There’s going to be a whole lot of anxiety-coping-laughters, a shit load of more traumatic stories, and possibly a few drops of tears. After this week’s very special episode, we’ll see you guys again next week with another special episode with a guest to spill all the tea!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Were you ever confused when your friend said ‘That twink is so cute’? And then you tried to figure out if ‘that twink’ was that hulking tattooed guy, the long-haired girl, or the thin barista? Well we are finally here to teach you some queer lingo so that you’ll get the full tea when your friend says “Did you hear about the mtf girl dating that kinsey-level 3 twink with an Onlyfans page?” And speaking of tea, hear us spill some scalding hot tea as submitted by our listeners and fuck, marry, kill zoom and her friends.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Surprise! The T pot isn’t fully empty yet. this episode we talk about something that all gays have to do (unless you are a homophobic politician) -- yes, we are talking about coming out. We start with some very early sexual awakening (involving THREE guys) and then move onto some more traumatic story. Prepare some tissue because you definitely will be crying (either from laughing too hard or empathizing). And as always, stay around as we try to fuck, marry, and kill some more bodily fluids.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Hurry and sit down, we need to spill the T -- and yes that is T for Trauma. This episode we talk about all the things that have scarred us for life, from that straight highschool crush (that all you queers had) to an unfortunate coming out story. So be ready to cry-laugh with us because you know trauma’s the only reason we are funny as hell today. And stay till the end to listen to us answer your questions regarding passing tips for pre-T guys and straight guys plucking their brows, and until we fuck, marry, kill blood, sweat & tears (yes BTS).Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Oh damn, look at his wrist snap, that hair flip -- wait are her nails unpainted, and did she just say Kristen Stewart? This episode, we talk about Gaydars for Gaysians: the survival of the fittest -- how we use gaydars as Gaysians to survive in this jungle of heteronormativity. Then stay as we play our own game of fuck, marry, kill with three ridiculous concepts and answer some burning questions people around us seem to have.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Freud always talks about Daddy issues, but does he ever talk about how it just feels so wrong to call your daddy "Appa"? Well, we’ll do it for you. In this episode, we talk about what it means for gaysians to be bilingual: honestly, a curse and a blessing. We talk aboutwhat languages we find romantic then quickly turn it into “Ooh yes, slap me and fuck me harder”. So come and sit with two non-linguists as they talk about language.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__

Straighties, be surprised because we haven’t forgotten about you --- Wait, oh my god, your friend just came out to you! What are you gonna say? What are you gonna say? WHAT ARE YOU GONNA SAY? “Oh, uh, hey look at that red car, I think it’s a Hyundai”. Uh, no. This episode, we talk about some reactions that we would hate and love from y’all when gays come out, act ‘too’ gay, or make out in public. Then stay until the end for a grandiose opening night of our grindr theatre: a dramatic reading.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__