Second Moms Circle

Welcome to the 2nd Moms Podcast for Christian Adoptive Moms! This episode encourages listeners to combat “joy zappers” this holiday season with tips for moving forward with joy. Learn more about how I help mothers feel good about their second mom roles at dawnbaggett.comSubscribe to the podcast to catch every episode and join the Circle of Second Moms at http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Welcome to the 2nd Moms Podcast for Christian Adoptive Moms! This episode introduces a method for maximizing positive parental interaction and influence while maintaining personal values and commitments. Learn more about how I help mothers feel good about their second mom roles at dawnbaggett.comSubscribe to the podcast to catch every episode and join the Circle of Second Moms at http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Could you be gaslighting yourself?! If you're experiencing blue feelings in your new (or even not so new) mom role, then this episode is for you! I'm Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. If you're an adoptive/second mom, I invite you to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group Or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so!

Are there ongoing effects from your adopted child's trauma history that impact them & their behavior? Effects that also affect you? Then this episode is for you! I'm Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. If you're an adoptive/second mom, I invite you to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group Or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so!

Do you know or suspect that your adopted child with a trauma history has periods, however brief, of dissociation? Dissociation as a possible trauma response in adopted children that may be surprising, even scary for post adoptive moms. As mentioned in the episode your can learn more at https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/dissociation-overview I'm Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. If you're an adoptive/second mom, I invite you to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group Or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so!

Does your adopted child exhibit fierce independence? Tune into this episode to talk about how this may be connected with their prior early childhood trauma, and what you can do to help them and help yourself in addressing this behavior. As an adoptive/second mom, you're invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so.

Does your child or teen tend to overreact with excessive and prolonged drama or explosive behavior? Understanding how trauma affects their ability to calm down is crucial for adoptive moms. Traumatized kids often have hyperactive amygdalas, making it challenging for them to down-regulate from a heightened state and remain calm. This physiological response means that what seems like an overreaction is actually their brain's way of coping with past trauma. Adoptive moms should recognize that extra time and space are not only helpful but essential for their child's healing process. Providing a safe, comforting environment and practicing patience can significantly aid in helping these children manage stress. Additionally, incorporating tools like calming essential oils, weighted blankets, or noise-cancelling headphones can create a soothing atmosphere. Staying calm yourself and offering a steady, reassuring presence are vital steps to support your child. Remember, you're not alone in this journey; resources like the "Circle of Second Moms" guided support group are available to assist you. Join the Circle at http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Today (as I'm recording this episode) is my birthday and I decided to give you a present! When my kiddos were younger I struggled to keep up with all the papers and documentation, and then to find what I needed when I needed it! Enter Trello (No affiliation). This is an app that lets me get to my information and documentation from my phone or computer so I can add and access it when I need to. Today I'm sharing a Board Template with you that you can use with your own Trello account. Grab this gift at https://dawnbaggett.com/page/step-1-trello-template-lm-opt-in As an adoptive/second mom, you're invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so.

What's the perfect recipe for your personal success as an adoptive/second mom? Listen to this episode to learn the three components to composing a Mom Mission Statement and why you want to create yours ASAP! The link to the workbook mentioned in this episode is: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/redefining-success-funnel-1-step-1-lead-magnet-opt-in As an adoptive/second mom, you're invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach. You can also help others discover this podcast by leaving a good rating/review. A big thank you to those of you who do so.

I recently learned that 40% of 18 year olds in the US meet the criteria for a mental health disorder. That percentage is undoubtedly even higher among families of our audience of second moms. And a huge source of stress for you. Long-term stress. Dangerous stress. Let's talk about what you can do on this episode. In this episode I share four simple methods for breaking free from damaging chronic stress and a recovery from its effects. As an adoptive/second mom, you're invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett, post adoption mom coach.

This episode takes a look at the reality of PTSD among many mothers who have experienced their own trauma within the context of post-adoption family dynamics. Adoptive moms are also invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett.

Stress is a big issue for many adoptive families, not only for the adoptive child but the entire family. This episode lists three steps to support an adoptive mom in helping lower the overall stress level by modeling effective ways to address her own stress. Adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me, Dawn Baggett.

Power struggles in post-adoptive families may be similar to others but are often more intense and frequent. I'm Dawn Baggett and in this episode I share a counterintuitive approach for reducing or preventing power struggles with children and teens who experience post adoption attachment challenges. I also offer a free safety plan audit & safety planning guide for second moms. Click here to learn more: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/safety-first For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me.

This episode encourages adoptive moms to do some digging to get to an educational plan that fits the needs of her children & family. One resource shared in the episode is Hand in Hand Educational Consulting run by Brenda Wagenknecht: 520-233-0554 handinhandeducate@gmail.com www.handinhandeducate.com Brenda offers listeners a free 15 minute consult. I also offer a free planning audit & safety planning guide for second moms. Click here to learn more: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/safety-first PLUS For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me.

Today's episode discusses five lessons I learned about free choice & educational options as an adoptive mom with hidden ways those options may impact our families. While I'm extremely grateful for the freedom of educational choice that we now enjoy in this country, it's also important to recognize the limits of those freedoms. If safety is an issue for your family, it is THE issue. I offer a free planning audit & safety planning guide for second moms. Click here to learn more: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/safety-first PLUS For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the *Circle of Second Moms* here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with me.

For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with Dawn.

For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with Dawn.

For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com to learn more about post adoption coaching with Dawn.

The metaphor of a garden beautifully illustrates the journey of adoptive families. This episode is one in a series about “ planting seeds” of learning, growth & love for Christian mothers in post adoptive families. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group or visit dawnbaggett.com for more.

Are you feeling frustrated and defeated due to the resistance whenever you try to teach anything to your adopted child with attachment challenges? This episode about planting seeds of learning is part of a series on “Planting Seeds” of love, growth & learning in the midst of the challenges of post-adoption life. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

This episode of 2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive Moms is a bonus Tuesday trauma tip. I'm Dawn Baggett your host & post adoption mom coach. Understand that I am not a doctor or therapist and nothing in this podcast content is offered as medical or mental health diagnosis treatment or cure. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group.

Are you an adoptive mom who's lost (or just misplaced) those loving feelings? Planting seeds of love is more than just going through the motions but compassion fatigue or other obstacles can make it feel like that's all you can manage to do. This episode is part of a series on “Planting Seeds” of love, growth & learning in the midst of challenges of post-adoption life. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

These Tuesday Trauma Tips are bonus episodes that I am trying out in addition to our regular episodes. Regular episodes tend to be a bit longer while my intention is for these tips to be bite-sized. Audience feedback will be used to determine if these become a more permanent feature of the podcast.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen offline anytime.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Embracing acceptance over accountability offers a transformative perspective for Christian mothers navigating the journey with their adopted teenagers. This approach does not imply condoning negative behaviors but fosters an understanding that these actions often stem from deeper, unresolved issues. Moving towards acceptance allows mothers to establish clear personal boundaries while promoting healing and growth, creating a nurturing environment that reflects their commitment to their faith and family values. By implementing an acceptance lens, these parents can cultivate space where genuine connection and growth can flourish, counterbalanced personal boundaries. As part of the Authentic Modeling Method this shift gives adoptive moms a peek into a powerful approach that can be transformative within a context of unconditional love and forgiveness. This method not only transforms the way mothers interact with their teenagers but deepens their own faith journey, drawing them closer to the essence of Christ's teachings on love and service. >>>Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Adoptive moms often find themselves in challenging situations, especially when it comes to managing defiant, disrespectful, and sometimes dangerous behaviors in their adopted teenagers. Traditional approaches lean heavily towards an accountability lens, believing that enforcing consequences for misbehavior will bring positive change. But this method, though seemingly logical, can actually escalate tensions further. This episode along with part two on this same topic encourages the adoptive mom in this situation to explore an alternative approach to how she views problematic behaviors in the home by viewing problematic behaviors through a new lens of acceptance. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

As the Easter weekend approaches, it's crucial for adoptive mothers to consider their expectations in light of the reality of their family dynamics. This episode emphasizes the importance of acknowledging that not all family members might share the same enthusiasm or faith, leading to potential disappointments and tensions. By setting realistic expectations and focusing on personal worship and connection with God, listeners can experience a fulfilling Easter regardless of their family's level of participation. Podcast host Dawn Baggett advises moms to plan their Easter celebrations with achievable goals for a more peaceful and meaningful holiday, and reducing the chances of conflict and frustration. The emphasis is on the value of individual spiritual growth and the power of prayer in bringing families closer, both to God and to each other. Ultimately, the message is one of hope and faith, encouraging listeners to trust in God's timing and work in their lives and the lives of their loved ones. Dawn underscores the importance of not placing undue pressure on the Easter weekend to magically resolve family differences but instead to cherish the occasion as an opportunity for personal reflection and connection with God. Adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms group. To do that click the following link — http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Journaling about your role as a mom/adoptive mom can illuminate the realistic aspirations and challenges you face in this pivotal role. This exercise encourages mothers to distinguish their maternal responsibilities from other aspects of their personal identity, acknowledging that they are more than just a mom. It stresses the importance of having grounded, realistic expectations while also recognizing one's desires, skills, and limitations. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group; or to apply for private coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist

It's important to identify misplaced guilt and blame that you as an adoptive mom may face, but not always to strike out in defensiveness. When we know that Someone more powerful and able than we are has our backs, we can rest in that knowledge, setting a powerful example to our children and others. Read more in the companion blog at dawnbaggett.com and join the free Facebook Group for Level One support with the join link below; Level Two support for adoptive moms is available with my private coaching program available to group members. Click here for group access: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Adoptive families often navigate a complex landscape of skepticism, fueled by misperceptions and misunderstandings that can threaten the very foundation of family life. The uniqueness of your adoptive family may highlight these challenges further, drawing skepticism from external observers and creating internal pressures. Adoptive parents are encouraged to remember their identity and faith, recognizing they are not alone and that their battles are not merely physical but spiritual. Dawn's mission is to stand in the gap for second moms. In addition to this podcast Dawn hosts a free Facebook group and offers private post-adoption coaching. Learn more at dawnbaggett.com

When behaviors escalate, especially in the teen years, adoptive moms in particular, may be finding themselves scrambling to hold their child accountable, when it feels that no one else is doing so. This can lead to what I call an accountability trap. Learn more on this episode of Second Moms Circle. In addition to following this podcast you may find more Biblically based support for you as an adoptive mom in our free Facebook group, Circle of Second Moms. Here's the join link: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

When you understand their need for autonomy and you build belief into their need for acceptance that lays the foundation for relational resilience when accountability issues arise. When we become an adopted family, a blended family, we interject vulnerability to uncertainty and doubts around acceptance, not only with the new children but with our biological children as well. Listen to more about these heightened vulnerabilities in adoptive families or go to dawnbaggett.com to read the companion blog post. If you'd like support with your second mom experiences join the Circle of Second Moms free Facebook group at https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group for targeted support from a Christian worldview today.

This episode discusses how the natural drive for autonomy in adolescence can get flipped into overdrive in complex adoptive families. To join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Minor conflicts can morph into major clashes that are almost impossible to resolve for adoptive moms. Listen to this episode to learn more. If this describes your experience and you'd like to join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Raising a child with moderate to severe attachment trauma can be like a dense fog for adoptive moms. Listen to this episode to learn more. If this describes your experience and you'd like to join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: https://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Discover 4 Biblical ways adoptive moms can pursue peace during Christmastime and beyond in this episode of Second Moms Circle. If you'd like additional support join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group. And visit dawnbaggett.com for more.

Are you an adoptive mom who's looking for a new direction in 2024? Wondering how you (and your complex family) got here? Ready to ditch (or at least adjust) all the unhelpful advice and traditional methods you know don't work for you and your non-traditional mom role? How would you like a head start on your 2024 Second Mom Success Plan? This is exactly what I'm offering with my 2023 Year End Special Offer! Go to dawnbaggett.com and click on the temporary banner at the top of the page to learn more...quick! Before it's over. I only have a tiny number of slots available through the end of December. You can have a different kind of year in 2024... and you can start right now so you can feel good about your life again.

Planning ahead can help protect your peace during the holidays. While there are many practical things to plan for, such as grocery lists and special events, don't forget to plan for peace as well. Consider the disruptions you anticipate and what is robbing your peace currently. Is it external factors or internal struggles? If you're looking for guidance and support in navigating the complexities of being an adoptive mom during the holidays, consider joining a program like Success For Second Moms. This 12 week program is designed to provide practical strategies and support with like-minded Christian women and a safe environment. Remember, by prioritizing your peace, and seeking the resources and support you need, you can experience a more peaceful and joyful holiday season. If you like this episode, please leave a review and if you'd like to learn more about how help adoptive moms through post adoption Christian coaching visit My website at dawnbaggett.com.

Are you unsure about how to best respond to your child's rebellious behavior? Have you received conflicting advice? Listen to this episode which dives into the topic of parental responses to rebellion by looking at two familiar Bible passages.

Learn about stumbling blocks and how to deal with them in this episode of Legacy Living Today for Second Moms. Consider following the show and leaving a review to help others find it too.

This episode presents four ways to stand up to self doubt as a second mom in a complex adoptive or blended family. For further support contact dawn@dawnbaggett.com or visit dawnbaggett.com. You can also follow Dawn on Instagram and Facebook and join her free Facebook group with weekly livestreams. Are you looking to work with Dawn? Hop on a clarity call to talk about how she can support you further with targeted coaching for second moms.

If you're a mom living in an adoptive or blended family, you'll be interested to hear how I define the gap I have recognized that occurs in many of our families, and that I refer to in my tagline “standing in the gap for second moms”. Listen & discover if you may be approaching, or already in this dangerous gap.

Being a caregiver to children who have suffered trauma, particularly adoptive mothers, can be very challenging and lead to burnout. One way to avoid this is by setting emotional boundaries. These types of boundaries are the dividing lines that protect the separation of your emotional experiences from those of others. By setting boundaries around emotional experiences, you can protect yourself from being trampled upon by others, as well as from absorbing someone else's emotions that could lead to burnout and compassion fatigue. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.

Setting emotional boundaries can help adoptive moms and other caregiver moms in complex families to avoid the risk of burnout and set good examples for the rest of the family. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.

This is a replay episode on a serious and important topic of safety planning for women who are moms in complex and frequently dangerous family dynamics. If you recognize how important this topic is please listen, share & leave a review. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you. Thank you.

This episode of Legacy Living TODAY with Dawn Baggett the foundational responsibilities of parenting, which are protection, provision, guidance, and for Christians, persistent prayer for each of your children and your family. Dive into each of these foundational commitments and be sure to subscribe to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.

Second moms of special needs kids can often feel isolated when their complex family needs and dynamics are hard for others to recognize or understand. Learn more about how I help second moms at dawnbaggett.com. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.

This episode includes suggestions for navigating through conflicting advice, unreasonable expectations and ever-evolving relationships in adoptive and step families through clarity in regard to roles and responsibilities of parents and caregivers. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.

Feeling behind and insufficient as an adoptive or second mom? This episode includes six tips for overcoming these feelings and moving toward success as a second mom. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.