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In this episode you'll learn:How EVERYONE needs boundaries with people of the opposite sex.The goal is not celibacy or just not cheating. The real goal is...How community keeps your relationships safe....and so much more!
How God can use one spouse to save the most toxic failing marriages in the world!You're trying to...invite your spouse into marriage counseling and they will not go invite your spouse to read the books that you're reading and they won't do it better your marriage and your relationship but you are in a relationship with the spouses completely unwilling to take steps forwardBUT it feels like...you're just beating your head against the wallyou're destined to fail because you feel like it takes two to tango but your spouse is not moving whatsoeveryou feel like a fool because your spouse is making you look bad in front of your friends and your friends are telling you you should quit you want to treat your spouse the way that they treat youScripture:And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth" (John 1:14). Or do you despise the riches of his kindness, restraint, and patience, not recognizing that God's kindness is intended to lead you to repentance? (Romans 2:4)We love him, because he first loved us. (1 John 4:19)but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5:8)
This is an episode that we recorded for the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle back in 2020, but it's still
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Free Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.comSubmit Your Marriage Question, One-on-One Coaching, Workshops: https://forms.gle/dyw1sr2WSh5eidw79[02:00] What is "Christian community"?[04:55] The Power Of Accountability[06:00] Scripture On Christian Community[08:20] I Want God In My Marriage[09:20] God Works Through His People[11:05] The Gifts Of God In Our Marriage[19:15] You Need Intimacy In Your Small Group
Free Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/fightfairWhat you'll learn:[04:24] The Time Out Rule[06:40] Using The Time Out Rule Correctly[09:40] Intention Beats Accuracy [13:57] God is Still There When You're Not "Productive" [17:30] My Worth Is Set By God[19:12] Humans' First Day At Work[21:42] We Fight Against Our Limits[24:53] You're Trying to Control Your Spouse[27:42] A Podcast/Book Is Not Your Savior
Free Bonus Material Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/74279-how-to-improve-your-sex-life-with-3-easy-steps-eps-55You want:✔ to make more time for intimacy✔ increase the motivation for you and your spouse ✔send and receive CLEAR signals with your spouse But it feels like: -you're disconnected from your spouse-you can't seem to be in the mood at the same timeIn this episode, you'll quickly learn how to make room for play and foreplay.
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In this episode, you will learn how to …✅ Process the change you are experiencing✅Assess your past to recognize your present✅Understand your spouse's response to change✅Grow closer to your spouse through conflict✅Create a plan of action you agree on together✅Anticipate a healthy future for a lasting legacy
In this episode, you will learn …✅[04:00] Why Communication is not one-size-fits-all!✅[12:30] Expectations have to be expressed and managed! When life goes changes your circumstances you must reset expectations✅[21:30] How ALL conflict can be turned into a good exchange.✅[25:30] The 5 Rs to Repair a Conflict✅[31:15] How To Time Travel and Change Your Spouse Memories About Arguments.✅[33:30] How To Risk Rejection To Reconnect With My SpouseMeet Our Guests:https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans/https://theargumenthangover.com/
Marriage Assessment: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/coachingGet YOUR marriage questions answered NOW: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/callusIn this episode, we explore how quarantine has affected your marriage!Free Complimentary Bonus Video Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyTop 3 Gems Dropped:1. This Pandemic is a magnifier
Free Bonus Video Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyTop 3 Gems Dropped:1. We must help our spouse move from Unbelief To Belief in every area of their life.2. Don't give your spouse so many compliments and criticism/corrections. They need to be reminded of the covenant relationship they have with God in Christ more than they need your words.3. Use the 4 G's to help them know their identity in Christ.God is great – so we don’t have to be in controlGod is glorious – so we don’t have to fear othersGod is good – so we don’t have to look elsewhereGod is gracious – so we don’t have to prove ourselvesJoin the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family/buySupport this show and you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Free Bonus Video Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/familyTop 3 Gems Dropped:1. We must help our spouse move from Unbelief To Belief in every area of their life.2. Don't give your spouse so many compliments and criticism/corrections. They need to be reminded of the covenant relationship they have with God in Christ more than they need your words.3. Use the 4 G's to help them know their identity in Christ.God is great – so we don’t have to be in controlGod is glorious – so we don’t have to fear othersGod is good – so we don’t have to look elsewhereGod is gracious – so we don’t have to prove ourselvesJoin the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family/buySupport this show and you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Free Bonus Video Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/38543-did-you-know-that-you-are-making-disciples-alreadyTop 3 Gems Dropped:1. Disciples Make Disciples (It's not our pastor's job... it's on us)2. It's NOT family or mission... It's Family On Mission3. Integration > Addition. We don't add disciple-making into our schedule we integrate it into our lives.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/familySupport this show and as a "Thank You" you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Free Bonus Video Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts/38543-did-you-know-that-you-are-making-disciples-alreadyTop 3 Gems Dropped:1. Disciples Make Disciples (It's not our pastor's job... it's on us)2. It's NOT family or mission... It's Family On Mission3. Integration > Addition. We don't add disciple-making into our schedule we integrate it into our lives.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/familySupport this show and as a "Thank You" you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Big Ideas:1. Find Out What's Really Important To Your Family. Stop assuming you understand the priorities of your spouse.2. Write down what's important. Develop an ideal week on paper and on purpose.3. Give grace. The secret to an ideal week and a mission statement is giving yourself the grace to aim for it week after week. Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/familySupport this show and as a "Thank You" you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get your MBA (Mission, Budget, Agenda) marriage.podia.com/mba
Big Ideas:1. Find Out What's Really Important To Your Family. Stop assuming you understand the priorities of your spouse.2. Write down what's important. Develop an ideal week on paper and on purpose.3. Give grace. The secret to an ideal week and a mission statement is giving yourself the grace to aim for it week after week. Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/familySupport this show and as a "Thank You" you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get your MBA (Mission, Budget, Agenda) at www.themarriagesecrets.com/mba
1. Jesus cares about Justice.2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.5. Engage In The Economy. Using your dollar to only support businesses that share your values.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/familySupport this show and as a "Thank You" you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
1. Jesus cares about Justice.2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.5. Engage In The Economy. Using your dollar to only support businesses that share your values.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/familySupport this show and as a "Thank You" you'll get:-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
3 Big Ideas:1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault. 2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
3 Big Ideas:1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault. 2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Colossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another... 3 Big Ideas:1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your RelationshipJoin the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Colossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another... 3 Big Ideas:1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your RelationshipJoin the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
Ephesians 4:32 And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.3 Big Ideas:1. The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.2. We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.3. Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
Ephesians 4:32 And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.3 Big Ideas:1. The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.2. We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.3. Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
Excuse the audio quality of this interview, but we HAD to share this interview with you. There are TOO many gems in here for us to keep it hidden.There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWN (MARRIED. CULTURED. KNOWN.)Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
This episode is from our inner circle family. We don't do this often but we UNLOCKED it for you. Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
Excuse the audio quality of this interview, but we HAD to share this interview with you. There are TOO many gems in here for us to keep it hidden.There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWN (MARRIED. CULTURED. KNOWN.)Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
This episode is from our inner circle family. We don't do this often but we UNLOCKED it for you. Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.Get Our One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
3 Big Ideas:1. We need obedience driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.2. We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss. 3. We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act.Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode: www.marriage.podia.com/hearandobey[02:00] Phenomenal Family Shoutouts[03:45] How to know the difference between curriculum-driven discipleship versus obedience driven discipleship.[05:45] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me?[06:15] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me in scripture?[07:15] God speaking can feel like a speed bump. (see Jonah 1:4)[08:35] God speaking can feel like a brick wall. (Acts 16:6)[09:45] God speaking can feel like a window.[10:15] God speaking can feel like a mirror. (Luke 15:17-20)[10:45] How do I REFLECT and DISCUSS what God it saying to me?[13:45] How do I PLAN what I'm going to do about it?[17:45] We need ACCOUNTABILITY.[21:00] We must ACT. Matthew 7:24-29[22:30] RecapJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
3 Big Ideas:1. We need obedience driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.2. We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss. 3. We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act.Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode: www.marriage.podia.com/hearandobey[02:00] Phenomenal Family Shoutouts[03:45] How to know the difference between curriculum-driven discipleship versus obedience driven discipleship.[05:45] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me?[06:15] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me in scripture?[07:15] God speaking can feel like a speed bump. (see Jonah 1:4)[08:35] God speaking can feel like a brick wall. (Acts 16:6)[09:45] God speaking can feel like a window.[10:15] God speaking can feel like a mirror. (Luke 15:17-20)[10:45] How do I REFLECT and DISCUSS what God it saying to me?[13:45] How do I PLAN what I'm going to do about it?[17:45] We need ACCOUNTABILITY.[21:00] We must ACT. Matthew 7:24-29[22:30] RecapJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
4 Big Ideas:1. Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved. 2. You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund etc.3. On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough equity built in to profit from selling it. 4. If you’re the "friend with the good job”. Buy a house and have your friends pay you rent.Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode: www.marriage.podia.com/realestate [01:00] Introduction of Chris Winstead www.AllCitySA.com[01:30] Chris calls you the Phenom-ily! *sorry -LJ*[02:00] What is the simplified process of buying a house? Is it complicated?[03:15] How much money do you need in your bank account in order to buy a house?[04:30] Why go to FB and IG first?[05:00] What is equity and why should you understand it?[06:30] Your money is better spent growing in your home than growing in your bank account.[07:00] Renting vs Buying a Home[08:30] Securing the Bag means keeping the bag by not paying rent forever. Pay yourself by purchasing a home.[09:00] Check out the home you’re going to buy at different times of the day[10:00] Why have your landlord raise your rent when you can have a fixed mortgage?[12:00] How long do I have to stay in a house if I buy it? What’s the process of selling?[17:00] What are some successful ways to profit from real estate? What if I’m not married?[19:00] Recap[21:00] Lighting Round QuestionsJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
4 Big Ideas:1. Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved. 2. You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund etc.3. On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough equity built in to profit from selling it. 4. If you’re the "friend with the good job”. Buy a house and have your friends pay you rent.Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode: www.marriage.podia.com/realestate [01:00] Introduction of Chris Winstead www.AllCitySA.com[01:30] Chris calls you the Phenom-ily! *sorry -LJ*[02:00] What is the simplified process of buying a house? Is it complicated?[03:15] How much money do you need in your bank account in order to buy a house?[04:30] Why go to FB and IG first?[05:00] What is equity and why should you understand it?[06:30] Your money is better spent growing in your home than growing in your bank account.[07:00] Renting vs Buying a Home[08:30] Securing the Bag means keeping the bag by not paying rent forever. Pay yourself by purchasing a home.[09:00] Check out the home you’re going to buy at different times of the day[10:00] Why have your landlord raise your rent when you can have a fixed mortgage?[12:00] How long do I have to stay in a house if I buy it? What’s the process of selling?[17:00] What are some successful ways to profit from real estate? What if I’m not married?[19:00] Recap[21:00] Lighting Round QuestionsJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
This episode is all about increasing the passion, intimacy, and commitment in your marriage. You don't want to miss the laughs and lessons shared in this shareworthy episode. This episode is brought to you by:- Abigail, Rodney D., Regina A., Angel U. Gwendolyn L., Talia H., Anthony M., Vashti A., Sgemm B. and the rest of the Phenomenal Family MembersJoin the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.-Premium Content (not found anywhere else) so that you're marriage is set up for success.-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching-The in-depth assessments-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
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