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Talking points: relationships, money, dominance, death, marriage, sex, culture You know by now wide-ranging conversations are the norm for ManTalks, but this one? Extraordinary. Jillian Turecki and I get into all things relationships, from power dynamics to death and dying to how money matters have shifted relationship culture. Strongly encourage you to listen to this with a friend or your partner and dig around in it. There is NO shortage of things to mull on here. See where your conversation goes! (00:00:00) - Intro and Jillian's defining moment(00:05:59) - How did being with your mom in her final moments change you?(00:11:09) - On death in Western culture(00:17:51) - How do you support a partner through the grief of losing a parent or friend?(00:23:58) - What actually goes into us choosing our partners, and the importance of being self-aware(00:41:12) - Do you think that marriage is dying in American culture?(00:44:29) - Do women still want to get married, and the difficulty of the dating market(00:49:36) - On how 50 Shades of Grey was helpful, but also screwed women over(01:07:23) - On women out-earning men, and what people should question(01:24:37) - On sex, power, and dominance in the bedroom Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world-renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.” Connect with Jillian:-Website: https://www.jillianturecki.com/-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/-Conscious Women Membership: https://www.jillianturecki.com/conscious-woman-Podcast: Jillian On Love: https://apple.co/3PYISuK This episode is brought to you by Cured Nutrition! Cured offers everything from CBD to functional mushroom products to adaptogens designed to help the body thrive in all aspects of the daily human experience. Personal favorite? The Zen sleep bundle. Get 20% off your order here: https://www.curednutrition.com/mantalks/ Men, join me for an intense, depth-oriented training regimen called the Men's Self-Leadership Program. Customized curriculum, direct work with me, and limited to just 8 men: https://mantalks.com/mslp/ Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | TwitterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher, author, and host of the Podcast, Jillian On Love. She has been teaching people how to change their lives for over 20 years. Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teachings and writing to revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching, teaching and writing.

We've all experienced it: the gut-wrenching pain of a heartbreak and the eventual struggle to understand the dynamics of relationships.  In this episode of Habits and Hustle, we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships, discussing everything from the psychology behind relationship patterns to the role of stress, selfishness, and fear of rejection with Jillian Turecki. Jillian enlightened us with her distinctive insights on topics such as the reality of soulmates and the idea that a long-term relationship requires continuous choices. We also took a hard look at trauma bonds, anxious attachment, and the importance of becoming radically self-aware to break destructive cycles. This conversation was not just intellectual but also deeply personal, as it drew from Jillian's experiences and expertise. Finally, we shifted our focus to some of the more nuanced aspects of relationships. We ruminated on gender differences in emotional connections with sex, pondered over the concept of safety for women due to their vulnerability, and tackled the vexing issue of lost attraction in an otherwise fulfilling relationship.  Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others.  What we discuss: (0:00:01) - How did Jillian becoming a relationship coach? (0:11:02) - Are our relationship expectations realistic or selfish? (0:22:47) - How to break bad relationship patterns (0:33:35) - Busting myths about relationships (0:40:30) - How important is emotional connection in sex? Key Takeaways: There's no such thing as one soulmate. People come into our lives for various reasons and not everyone who feels like a soulmate is. Not everything is meant to be a life story. Some people come into our lives to wake us up. Some people come into our lives to help us through a period of time. Some people come into our lives to show us some adventure.  If you lose attraction towards a partner, you have to understand why. A couple can bring it back if they understand the why and they work on the why. And especially if there was once a lot of attraction in the beginning. It is something that typically can be resurrected as long as the other things are sort of rectified and worked on.  We learn about our attachment styles and we learn about what we're experiencing on the attachment spectrum, based on who we are relating to. And it's also very dependent on what else is going on in our lives. For example, if we're going through a very difficult time in our lives, we might become more anxiously attached to someone because we think on a subconscious level that this person is going to rescue us and is going to make it all better.  Learn more about Jillian: Website: https://www.jillianturecki.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/B4smb80j8Am/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049?ls=1&itscg=30200&itsct=qcode_podcasts&at=1001l36mQ&ct=JOL-Chartable My links: Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Natalie Hankins joins me in this episode to share her caregiving story which spans 29 years and is still continuing. She is a caregiver for her now-adult children; as her son has autism and her daughter has Wolf-Hirschhorn Syndrome. Natalie championed through caregiving, finding the therapies that would work best for them including the Relationship Development Intervention by Dr. Steven Gutstein and the Visualizing and Verbalizing, Language Comprehension Program by Lindamood-Bell. She is proud of her 2 adult children and states she is living her purpose as a busy ‘mompreneur'. Natalie is a Life/ Business & Mindset Coach and was first certified as a life coach in 2018 from the Robbins-Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention (one of Tony Robbins' companies) and completed a second certification in mindset coaching in 2021 from The Life Coach School. Natalie loves serving 'mompreneurs', women entrepreneurs, and moms who have children with special needs. She loves to help other busy entrepreneurs achieve their business goals in less time so that they have more time to enjoy their lives.  To learn more about Natalie, visit her website

Signs of an unhealthy relationship. The confidence to put aside the doubt. Asking for more than bread crumbs. Recognizing when it is time to leave. Does a single Spring or Summer and then some really sound all that bad? If you found this mini helpful, check out the full episode (9.7.22 #18) with me and Jillian Turecki. Checkout Magnesium Breakthrough by BiOptimizers for an exclusive offer at magbreakthrough.com/zaddy. In addition to the discount you get by using promo code zaddy, you can unlock special gifts with purchase with retail values of at least 20 dollars. Go to boncharge.com/ZADDY and use coupon code ZADDY to save 15%. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationships. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching. You'll soon be able to tune into her podcast on Qcode Media, Jillian On Love.You can find her:@jillianturecki@jillian.turecki@jilliantureckiFBLinkedinjillianturecki.com Subscribe or keep tuning in at: IGTik toklukecook.comNewsletterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Encore presentation of our #1 downloaded episode of all time!!!In this episode, Relationship Coach and Teacher, Jillian Turecki and I talk all things relationships.  We start off with Jillian sharing a little about her childhood and what led up to her finding her passion in the world of relationships.  Jillian shares some hardships she went through during her "dark night of the soul," from the breakup of her marriage to her mother's diagnosis with stage 4 lung cancer.We chatted about the "unshakeable courage" it takes to face our fears and learn the relationship and communication skills none of us were taught in school.  We talked about the importance of changing the way we see ourselves, the importance of authenticity, the unlearning that must be done, learning how to "feel enough," and actually "make ourselves happy."But most importantly, we chatted about the importance of working on ourselves.  As Jillian says, “Every relationship that I've ever had, had one thing in common, and that was me.”  Hence we need to stop saying "it's all them."Jillian also shared her thoughts on marriage counseling, why that often fails, and why she prefers to work with individuals, as opposed to couples.Other topics included Jillian's thoughts on dating apps, love verses compatibility, how to keep romance and sex alive in a long-term relationship, twin flames, soul mates and so much more! Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves.Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.”Jillian on Instagram: @JillianTureckihttps://www.jillianturecki.com/To stay connected with Better Place Project and for updates and behind the scenes info, please follow us on social media:Website:https://www.betterplaceproject.org/ Instagram: @BetterPlaceProj To follow Steve on Instagram@SteveNorrisOfficialFacebook: Facebook.com/BetterPlaceProjectPodcastTwitter: @BetterPlaceProjEmail: BetterPlaceProjectPodcast@gmail.com

Today you are in for a real treat hearing from one of the leading voices in speaking about relationships. My guest brings you the raw truth to why you aren't getting what you want in your relationships, what you can do to significantly change that and have lasting love. Whether you are in a relationship, single, or even considering ending a relationship…this episode is for you.  I welcome my guest, Jillian Turecki. Jillian is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching. This episode is truly powerful and will provide you with a masterclass on why your relationships fail and how to build lasting love. In this episode we talk about: The relationship we have with ourselves Knowing the differences between your desires and needs How to keep the passion alive in a long term relationship The 3 chokeholds on relationships How to support each other during stressful times The 3 step process for resentment 4 questions to ask yourself if you are considering to end a relationships and more  Episode Sponsored by: Living Prana a new way to supercharge your day by providing nutrient dense superfoods, adaptogens and functional mushrooms all packed into their two delicious pancake and waffle mixes- PranaCakes™ and BrainCakes™. Get 15% off using discount code: PLPPODCAST at checkout. Shop HERE For full show notes and episode resources head to: https://ericalippy.com/jillian-turecki/  Find our guest at: Jillian Turecki | Website,  Instagram ,Facebook Jillian On Love Podcast The Conscious Women membership Follow me on Social Media: Your Host: @ericalippy Podcast: @passionlovepursuit Facebook YouTube PASSION LOVE PURSUIT PODCASTS: https://ericalippy.com/the-podcast/

Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher, and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world-renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.”She also runs a podcast called Jillian on Love Connect with Jillian Instagram Podcast I've teamed up with the amazing Company SLOUCH POTATO the most comfortable clothes you will ever wear and they are designed to be Pyjamas! The best part is you can wear them wherever you want. If you use discount code: STORYBOX at checkout you'll receive 10% off. Just visit https://slouchpotato.com/ Get my new book 'The Path of an Eagle: How To Overcome & Lead After Being Knocked Down'.► AMAZON US► AMAZON AUS► AMAZON UKSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thestorybox. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves.Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems.Fuelled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionise their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.If you or a loved one is experiencing domestic violence visit https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/Find-Help/Help-LinesTUNE IN00:00 - Welcome01:57 - Your relationship with yourself underpins your relationship with others 04:08 - Jillian's heartfelt story of healing08:16 - Number one challenge that inhibits thriving relationships is complaining24:30 - Second key challenge is communication & knowing each others needs41:11 - Third key challenge is selfishness46:46 - Does like attract like or do opposites attract?49:35 - These practices will help you and your partner attune to one another53:40 - Single and ready to mingle? Here's how to manoeuvre ‘the apps'56:57 - How long to wait before jumping in the sack1:05:20 - Why is there a resurgence of polygamous relationships?1:06:41 - Is pain an opportunity for your growth?1:07:03 - Finding your way out of a domestically violent relationship1:08:14 - OutroLISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCASTSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2HJCflVnHRDmvNtI8r2a65?si=692723d115ce4ef2/Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/inspired-evolution/id1272090974/CONNECT WITH JILLIAN TURECKIWebsite: https://www.jillianturecki.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jillibaer/Podcast: https://listen.qcodemedia.com/jillianonlove?c=9cyA2_nfu8rwZRQxaPNf1w&h=a4f5d140883b542d2JOIN THE INSPIRED EVOLUTION COMMUNITYWebsite: https://www.inspiredevolution/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspired_evolution/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/inspiredevolution/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/com/inspiredevolution/Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/inspiredevolution. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Relationship Coach and Teacher, Jillian Turecki and I talk all things relationships.  We start off with Jillian sharing a little about her childhood and what led up to her finding her passion in the world of relationships.  Jillian shares some hardships she went through during her "dark night of the soul," from the breakup of her marriage to her mother's diagnosis with stage 4 lung cancer.We chatted about the "unshakeable courage" it takes to face our fears and learn the relationship and communication skills none of us were taught in school.  We talked about the importance of changing the way we see ourselves, the importance of authenticity, the unlearning that must be done, learning how to "feel enough," and actually "make ourselves happy."But most importantly, we chatted about the importance of working on ourselves.  As Jillian says, “Every relationship that I've ever had, had one thing in common, and that was me.”  Hence we need to stop saying "it's all them."We chatted about marriage counseling, why that often fails, and why Jillian prefers to work with individuals, as opposed to couples.Other topics included Jillian's thoughts on dating apps, love verses compatibility, how to keep romance and sex alive in a long-term relationship, twin flames, soul mates and so much more! Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves.Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.”To stay connected with Better Place Project and for updates and behind the scenes info, please follow us on social media:Website:https://www.betterplaceproject.org/Instagram: @BetterPlaceProj  To follow Steve & Erin on Instagram:@SteveNorrisOfficial @ErinorrisFacebook: Facebook.com/BetterPlaceProjectPodcastTwitter: @BetterPlaceProjEmail: BetterPlaceProjectPodcast@gmail.com

At the center of The Zaddy Zone is Zaddy, but at center of every relationship is YOU. They can be tricky which is why Jillian Turecki is on to offer a bit of guidance for those not having fun. Honestly, relationships should mostly be fun, work and fun. So take some responsibilities for your half of the bed, give your partner the full loaf not bread crumbs! Navigate the new order of relationships in an equal world, identify when it's time to walk away and thank heaven for post ejaculation sobriety! These are just a few of the themes discussed. Enjoy Zaddies!Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationships. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching. You'll soon be able to tune into her podcast on Qcode Media, Jillian On Love.If you missed it, BiOptimizers, magnesium breakthrough and any other BiOptimizers product for 10% off, just go to magbreakthrough.com/zaddy You can find her:@jillianturecki@jillian.turecki@jilliantureckiFBLinkedinjillianturecki.comSubscribe or keep tuning in at:@thelukecookTik-tokthelukecook.comYoutubeNewsletter

If you are interested in working with me one on one or inquiring more about a session, head over to www.nicobarraza.com. She still has the most listened to episode EVER on the show. Jillian Turecki is back for round two of Starve the Ego Feed the Soul and I am thrilled to be able to spend another hour with Jillian talking about the deeper  parts of loving. Jillian's Bio: Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.”Connect with Jillian via her website https://www.jillianturecki.com/ and on social media @JillianTurecki https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/

Kelly and Chip welcome Jillian Turecki to answer all of your dating and relationship questions. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.   Website: jillianturecki.com      Socials: @jillianturecki  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

John Page Burton is the founder and CEO of the JP Burton Group, LLC. For the past 16 years, John has been an internationally recognized leader in the personal and professional development industry. As a certified life and business coach, John has served clients in 11 different countries, written three books and is the creator and lead facilitator of Power Focus 90, a 90 day, total immersion group coaching program that is considered by many to be the gold standard for personal development courses. Over his 30 year career, John has served as an executive trainer for several multi-million dollar organizations and he routinely facilitates workshops and seminars teaching next level, peak performance strategies to leaders across the globe. John studied Human Needs Psychology under his long time mentors Tony Robbins and Chloe Madanes at the Robbins-Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention. He holds certificates of specialization in Positive Psychology (Penn) Conflict Resolution-Management (Cal-Irvine) and Teamwork Skills-Communicating Effectively In Groups (University of Colorado) Johnpageburton.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ltdmediaco/support

Interested in working with me one on one? I work with individuals of all ages, couples, and athletes to hone their mental, emotional, and relational skills to be the person, partner, friend, and professional they want to be. It starts with you, on the inside. Let's get to work. Head over to https://www.nicobarraza.com/ to inquire more and book an appointment.Connect with my on Instagram @ThatBarrazaBoy and on TikTok @ThatBarrazaBoy or just search Nico Barraza and you'll be connected to my social profiles. This week's guest is absolutely blowing up on Instagram and for good reason. Her incredible writing has reached millions, helped hearts heal and relationships mend. Jillian Turecki is a NYC based certified relationship coach, yoga teacher and writer who for 20 years, has been studying the body and mind.Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention, a renowned coaching program known for its innovative strategic solutions to the most difficult relationship problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching.”Jillian and I dive deep into the problems modern relationships are yielding and {surprise} it all starts with the Self. https://www.jillianturecki.com/

Jillian Turecki is a NYC based certified relationship coach, yoga teacher and writer. For 20 years, she has been studying the body and the mind. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive. Through her work, Jillian has helped thousands revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they can transform their love lives. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching. Under the tutelage of Tony Robbins and world-renowned family therapist Cloe Madanes, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention.   “Our entire experience of life boils down to relationship. From the intimacy we crave with a partner to the success we achieve through our work. None of it is possible without understanding our own psychology and the psychology of those we relate to. We never learned this at school, but it is learnable.” - Jillian Turecki   What does it mean to be blocked from love? Your psychology determines your energy and how you show up in your life. “Just because you really want something, doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s coming to you as quickly as you would like it to come.” When we’re in a desperate place we’re blocking ourselves.   5 Ways to identify if you’re blocking yourself from love? Are you afraid? Maybe you want a relationship, but you also associate a lot of pain with relationships. Are you losing faith? Or maybe you’ve put yourself out there so much + are losing faith that it’ll happen. What’s fueling your desire? Anxiety, desperation, fear? Do you feel desperate for love? Maybe even obsessed with a relationship? Like your life, purpose, and calling revolve around getting married. (aka…my life will start when I meet my person)?   How our beliefs impact our ability to attract love: “Whatever we believe, we’ll see evidence of it everywhere.” You have the ability to challenge your beliefs:  Is this really true?  Is it possible you could be wrong? We don’t do anything that doesn’t have a side benefit.  Ask yourself these 2 questions:  What’s the reward you’re getting for the beliefs?  Why are you trying to keep yourself safe + protected?   A Roadmap to Clear the Way for Love: 6 Practical things you can do today. Identifythe beliefs that are holding you back. Break freefrom the addiction of surrounding yourself with people with the same limiting beliefs. Talk to people who don’t share those beliefs about love and are able to offer you a different perspective. Identify the experiencesin your life that have led you here. Ask yourself:Is your perspective freeing you or choking you? Self-worth:When we obsess over love, it’s because deep down we doubt we’re worthy of it. Enough-ness:Where are your fears of not being enough getting in your way?   #1 thing you can do to unblock love: Learn how to be secure in your worth and make yourself happy as opposed to waiting for someone to make you happy: Marriage is not the be all end all. Mixed Messages: if someone is uncertain about you—there have to be boundaries. “If a guy likes you, you’ll know. If he doesn’t, you’ll be confused.”   How buying into the myth of the ‘independent woman’ could be keeping you from love: Are you independent, codependent, or interdependent? Codependence: I can’t be happy unless you’re happy. I don’t know what my needs are. I can’t focus on my life because I’m only focusing on yours. Independence:I don’t need anyone. If I’m vulnerable I’m weak. Interdependence:I love you, but I don’t need you to make me happy.   Resources: Check out Jillian’s website here, where you can join her Conscious Woman Membership. Follow Jillian on Instagram at @jillianturecki Have any questions for Jillian? Reach out to her here! Or email her atinfo@jillianturecki.com.   Did you know we have a Patreon page? Patreon is a platform that lets listeners financially support their favorite podcasts for as little as $5/mo. (That’s cheaper than a cup of NYC coffee y’all!) Head over to Patreon.com/therefinedcollective to see how you can support the podcast (and get some pretty awesome goodies as a thank you)! Another way you can support the podcast is by sharing with friends! Just copy this link and then paste into the group chat with your besties: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-refined-collective-podcast/id1348034641#episodeGuid=30c48f6a66bb4bfca88b0f6522037407   A HUGE shoutout to some of our newest Patreon supporters: Judy Mills, Amanda Curry, Jane Jackson, and LB! We are so grateful for you!   Single ladies— do you feel stuck, lonely, discouraged or frustrated by your dating life, or lack thereof? This is brought to you by my free guide called “6 Tips to Activate Your Dating Life with Intention and Clarity.” These resources propelled me from sitting on the couch to out on a date. Head over to Bit.ly/trwdating to check it out! 

Dawn Watson was born into a religious cult in Brazil that believed in order to spread the love of god, you need to express your devotion through sexual acts. From the age of six, Dawn experienced sexual and emotional abuse. Dawn questioned these beliefs from an early age and when she turned 13, she decided to run away and begin her journey in search of healing from the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual abuses she suffered as a child. In 2014, Dawn went to Tony Robbins' Date With Destiny, where she found the courage to break the silence and share the truth about her life for the first time. This was how she was able to liberate herself from pain and come back to love. Tony's intervention with Dawn was featured in the Netflix Documentary I Am Not Your Guru. Today, she is certified by the Robbins-Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention and helps individuals in the process of redefining their deepest pains through lectures, immersions, online courses, and content on social media. Since Dawn went to Date With Destiny, she has inspired people worldwide with her story. She always receives messages from people from all over the world saying how her story has helped them find ways to recycle pain and live in their truth. She has been giving lectures and teaching courses around Brazil, guiding people on their path of forgiveness and explaining how they can transform pain into power. Visit Dawn on Instagram @DawnWatsonOficial and at DawnWatson.com.br

Jillian Turecki is a relationship expert, yoga teacher and public speaker who for 18 years, has been studying the art and science of fulfillment. Under the masterful guidance of Anthony Robbins, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention known for employing innovative strategic solutions to the most pervasive difficult problems. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, her mission is to help both singles and couples strengthen their relationship with themselves so that they ultimately transform their relationships with others. Jillian is expertly trained in working with the individual, couples, and families, and is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching and teaching. “Our entire experience of life boils down to relationship. From the intimacy we crave with a partner to the success we achieve through our work. None of it is possible without understanding our own psychology and the psychology of those we relate to. We never learned this at school, but it is learnable. To be able to communicate masterfully, that is, to transcend our insecurities, hurt and reactivity is a skill essential to our personal fulfillment.” What do you think is most important in a relationship? If we talk about an intimate relationship, there are a lot of things that are very important to maintain a healthy relationship. The most important part would be respected. It is very difficult to be in a relationship if you do not have respect for yourself. If you do not respect your partner in a relationship, it is impossible to have any sort of intimacy. What do you have to say about self-respect? How can someone disrespect themselves? Self-respect is about honoring where you are and also giving yourself a little push to move forward and grow. Self-respect starts by respecting yourself first. Many times we start disrespecting ourselves through our thoughts that we have about ourselves and doubts e have about ourselves. Most of us indulge in destructive self-talks, addictions or bad habits which actually implies disrespecting ourselves. Every individual needs to decide what self-respect means to them since these standards can vary from person to person. For some people, self-respect might mean saying no to more things and for others, it might mean saying yes to more things. It all depends on how you are living your life and what you need. How closely do you think respect is to settle down in a relationship? It varies from person to person. You should always ask yourself what respect means to you and share it with your partner. You have to share that with yourself. Jillian thinks it is very important that people have an honest conversation with themselves when they are disrespected by their partner and share it with their partners. If you feel perpetually disrespected, you need to look deep into it. Make sure you stand up for yourself and make sure to show the other person to respect you as an individual. It is very important to have a conversation with your partner about self-respect if you feel disrespected in a relationship. How can someone build their self-esteem again if they have been in a toxic relationship in past? If you have low self-esteem regardless of the fact that you are in a relationship or single, you need to work your self-esteem very quickly. It is very difficult to build any sort of intimacy in a relationship if you have low self-esteem. If you are single and you are searching for a partner thinking in the back of your mind that this person would help you boost your self-esteem, that is probably the biggest mistake you can ever commit. People around you can only help you grow, but it is down to you to improve your self-esteem. The fastest way to improve your self-esteem is to commit yourself to grow and to do things that make you feel alive. How can we improve our communication in relationships? All the rules that apply to real-world communication cannot be applied in a relationship. Communication rules in relationships are totally different. Jillian shares three ways to improve your communication to the next level in a relationship. They are the following: Listen more than you speak. Listen to understand, rather than to reply. To understand that you do not just communicate with words, you also communicate with your body. To not always use the words “I feel” because it implies you are giving away a judgment on something. If you are in an intimate relationship with someone, that person is definitely aware of your energy even if they do not think in terms of energy and cannot put it in words. Human beings can naturally feel other people’s joy and stress. Can you talk a little about emotional fitness and how we can integrate it in relationships? Emotional fitness is definitely not about not feeling your emotions. If you have a habit of stuffing your emotions, then you are emotionally not fit. Emotions do two things; they either move through us or get stuck in us somewhere in our bodies. All of us have some emotions that are stuck in us. Emotional fitness is not about being perfect rather it's about self-awareness. You have to be super-aware, you have to take action and you have to have insight in yourself. There are two action steps that can be taken to become aware of yourself. It takes a little bit more effort on the inside and it involves writing down what makes you come alive, what makes you happy or excites you. Commit yourself to make space for that action or habit that gives you the freedom to explore yourself and gives you joy. The second thing that can be done to become emotionally fit is to begin your day by doing something that can help you reduce stress. You have to prepare yourself to deal with stress. Stress is more about how you respond to it and how you integrate it in your body. What is the best advice you have ever been given? The best advice she has been given was from her mom who often used to say to her to “pull up her socks” when Jillian was struggling through her life. It was more like a metaphor which meant to get her head together and move forward. How can we connect with you? You can connect with her through her website. Her website’s URL is http://www.jillianturecki.com Jillian is planning to start a membership program for people who want to gain emotional fitness and deal with stress in way that does not effect their mental and emotional fitness. You can find more about the program through her website. You can also follow her on Instagram through the following URL https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/ Jillian recently launched Emotional Fitness Monthly, the first ever membership based plan 100% focused on teaching people just how to do this. To learn more about how to join Emotional Fitness Monthly: http://www.jillianturecki.com/efm Her newest course, “Grit and Grace: Rehab for the Broken Hearted” is for a limited group of women going through an intense breakup/divorce. To apply for a phone consult, please email at info@jillianturecki.com

In today's episode, we will be discussing Personal Growth Steps Before Your Next Relationship. I recently read an article Jillian Turecki wrote for Mind, Body Green about this and that is what has inspired this episode as I couldn’t agree more.  Today she is here to help us understand the important growth steps we need to do before our next relationship so we can enter into a new relationship and give it the best chance it has to not only survive but thrive! Jillian Turecki is a relationship expert, yoga teacher, and public speaker. For 18 years, she has been studying the art and science of fulfillment. Under the masterful guidance of Anthony Robbins, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention/Coaching, known for employing innovative strategic solutions to the most pervasive difficult problems. She says what she knows with complete certainty: there is no pain like relationship pain. She cares about teaching others how to be proactive in their lives and relationships so that they CREATE the fulfillment they need and deserve. To learn more about Jillian or to engage her services - http://www.jillianturecki.com

Sahar Irwin a Results and Life Coach specializing in helping her clients explore their talents and potential within themselves to realize their ultimate goals. Sahar trained at the Coaches Training Institute, is a graduate of Tony Robbins Mastery University and Leadership Academy, and Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention. She had worked as a Results Coach for Robbins Research International, prior building her own coaching and public speaking business. Sahar continues to work with clients from all parts of the globe, from the United States and Canada, Europe, the Middle East, and New Zealand.

Jillian Turecki is a New York based yoga teacher and certified coach who for over 15 years, has been studying the art and science of fulfillment. Through the practice and teaching of yoga, Jillian has explored in depth the radical impact changing one’s physiology has on a person’s psychology. More recently, she has taken her work beyond the physiology to include studying the way we think, the emotions we consistently experience, and the meanings we attribute to any given circumstance as massive clues to how we lead and experience our lives. Committed to understanding her own emotional patterns and how they have both helped and crippled her at times have been at the core of how she helps others. Under the masterful guidance of Anthony Robbins, Cloe Madanes, Magali and Mark Peysha, Jillian is certified by the Robbins Madanes Center for Strategic Intervention/Coaching, known for employing innovative strategic solutions to the most pervasive difficult problems. Jillian is expertly trained in working with the individual, couples, and families.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.