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I am very excited to finally get this episode with Dr. Cat Meyers up! Dr. Cat is a licensed sex and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, published researcher, and international speaker all with in the pursuit of helping people come back to their hearts and their bodies to create erotically inspired lives through sex, love, and yoga. Dr. Cat joins me on this episode to talk about sex, relationships, ketamine, and psychedelics. She talks about how ketamine can be used as medicine and a tool that can help us understand and communicate our emotions which leads to us experiencing what it feels like to be vulnerable and to be received. You can find out more about this goddess Dr. Cat Meyers, her courses, her podcasts, and book at her website sexloveyoga.com and her IG @sexloveyoga. 

Oh this one is going to make the new age feminist so mad and I'm excited for it. We are talking about traditional vs modern women and wives! I'm fascinated by the clash going on between women who follow the modern script that women must want a full time career over all else and the women who are sick of constantly being masculine and instead want to go back into their feminine where they are a homemaker. I talk about my personal struggle of being raised by society to think that success and happiness lie in a career, but I am happiest when I am a wife who supports and looks after my husband and home. We are all for the women who choose on their own accord to be bad ass boss bitches but we are also all for the women who choose to celebrating the natural feminine strengths characteristics. 

We're talking threesomes! They are all the rage and honestly have been for years and years, it just seems to be talked about more out in the open. Though threesomes can happen with any and all sexualities we are mainly talking about hetero/bisexual threesomes here. What we are here to discuss is how people/couples go about having threesomes. We tend to meet a lot of people who think of threesomes as only ffm (female-female-male), which is great if the females are bisexual and truly only want a threesome that way. However, what we dont agree with is when the female does have a desire to be in a threesome with two males. Listens in to find out why. 

In this episode I am joined by Findom Onxy Muse. She opens up about her path of becoming dominatrix and to the world of open sexuality. Starting off as a regular model and going into a monogamous relationship, to opening said relationship up to another woman, to going to her first play party. Eventually we learn how she got out from under the controlling wing of the person who taught her about being a dominatrix and making it on her own. She has a wild story to tell that you dont want to miss. 

This episode Daddy and I are discussing cucking! If you dont know, cucking is the act of "forcing" your partner (typically the man) to watch you have sex with someone else. The cuckhold is typically not allowed to partake or even touch. This is one of Daddys favorite play time activities even when he was the Dom in our relationship, as he would tell me to go play with someone else while he was away traveling. This too is a form of cucking, where the cuckhold is not at all precent but later gets a detailed description of the sexual act. Find out more about cucking and our stories playing out cuck scenes in this episode!

People around the world heard about the sticky muddy situation that happen at Burning Man 2023. Unfortunately most of those people who were not in attendance were told ridiculous news stories, by reporters who were also not on the playa, that is was horrific, people were stranded, that it was the apocalypse.  All of that could not be further from the truth and we're going to tell you about Daddy's and mine experience at Muddy Man. It started not great, we really thought it was going to be our last burn, and then the rain came. When so many people thought it was going to ruin their burn it actually heighten the experience for so many people, Daddy and myself included. We were lucky enough to have been camping at Orgy Dome for the first time and I do not think I have ever been more impressed with a group of people. As the burned turned to a party in place mentality the people at Orgy Dome did not disappoint not only with the partying but with keeping the love and community spirit of Burning Man alive. Don't listen to all the negative news stories saying how horrible burning man was because everyone who stayed at least until the man burn would say it was the best Burning Man ever. For Daddy and myself it went from being our last burn to a dedication that we will forever come back home.

I have the amazing Amber Hull, PhD. on to talk about her new Artemis Luxury Wellness experience. She is bringing together physicians, therapist, and sex professionals together to facilitate and lead discussions of human sexuality and relationships. Amber went through the whole American medical schooling, training, and career to come to the position she is in now with a private pediatric practice of her own. She then realized she also had a passion for human sexual education, as well as, the need for sex education in the professional medical community. Through Artemis, Amber wants to bring together people who are knowledgeable in all aspects of relationships and sexual health: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Artemis is to provide an environment that allows people to ask questions, and share vulnerabilities in a place that is playful, open minded, and fun.

This episode is brought to you from Cap d'Agde in the South of France. Daddy and I spent almost three full weeks in the naturalist (nudest) village where we stripped down to our birthday suites, which also helped us to strip away our resentments, defenses, and blockages within our relationship and our communication. We talk about how you need to be honest about your desires and where your energy is otherwise you, as well as your relationship/s, will not balance. We even chat about long term relationships, cheating, and how no matter how well you lie to your partner, they can feel it because energy does not lie. By exposing our physical self we also exposed so much more stuff buried deep inside ourselves. Listen in to find out how radically honest and transparent communication is where the magic happens.

Daddy and I had some amazing breakthroughs about our relationship while on holiday during some very deep and vulnerable "fun" therapy/fuck sessions. I have taken a pretty big break from podcasting as we -- in my opinion -- were not in a place in our relationship/lives to be giving others sex, love, and relationship advice. There had been a few major needs I tried to get Daddy to hear but it never landed. Now it has landed. It has landed on him that I need my independence and though his words supported me his energy very clearly did not. He would hold onto very specific expectations of our relationship and sex life, he was not fully surrendering to me as my submissive, and he didn't fully trust me that I always had his best interest at the top of my heart. We were finally both able to let go of our baby step rules, let each other be who we truly are, and loving all of each other. We realized our life circumstances have not changed but our love has grown and our communication has improved, which has decreased our stress. Surrender, surrender to trust, surrender to the relationship. 

Were back and were kicking off with Cobra Cummander talking about pegging and anal play. We talk about the bliss that both men, women, and all in between can receive from anal. However, for men, especially straight men being the recipient of butt play can be a challenge to admit due to societies judgements. Yet, why would you turn away from something that brings you pleasure (without harm to others) just because others judge you? We talk about the best ways to start down the anal trail, the different ways to prep for the adventure, and why everyone should at least try the back door. Daddy and I also tell one of our more hilarious first time pegger stories. We're back and you dont want to miss this bum chat. 

Toxic Masculinity is a phrase that - in my opinion - is being thrown around so much that the meaning is almost being lost. Yes toxic masculinity is an issue in todays world - just like toxic feminism - but why is masculinity being considered so toxic? In this podcast we talk about really the two different types of toxic masculinity: the over macho alpha masculine and the new over feminine masculine. Both have their own issues and both are highly driving by todays culture. 

Recently Daddy and I had two experiences just weeks apart from one another that inspired this podcast. Warning! If you are a new age "wok" kid and/or feminist theres a chance you will get triggered at some point during this podcast. We partook in conversations with two different women about ours and their relationship/sex life. Each had their own story with similarities including their opinion of us i.e. judgement, intrigue, discuss, amazement, curiosity, and admiration. We are all for strong, independent feminine energy however when women demand to stand in the masculine and feminine spot in the relationship is when toxicity comes in. Stay tuned for the following podcast talking about good vs toxic masculinity. 

I can hardly believe my transwoman crush Eden Raynes joined me on my podcast. She is a force to be reckoned with and I am ecstatic to have her share her story with me and my listeners. She reveals details of her childhood, family life, growth, and transition from a birthed male to a strong, confident, beautiful woman. We even touch on the controversial topic of what should parents do if their child wants to transition. Then of course Daddy had to jump on the recording to put his two sense and slide in a quick pick up line or two. 

This is a pretty intense episode as I have Daddy and Milfy with me to talk about both of their experiences with their sexual personal lives being -- literally -- judged thanks to nasty custody battles. If you have listen to mine and Daddy's podcast talks before you have probably heard us talk about how his ex wife took away his rights to see his son over our personal sex life and public sex education personas. Milfy has had a similar experience with her baby daddy. Listen in as we talk about how they dealt/are dealing with this struggle, thoughts on sex education and judicial system in America, what actually makes a good parent whether monogamous or not, and how we refuse to back down on what we believe in. You don't want to miss this!

My good friend Meesh came to me with the question a couple of her clients have brought up to her: "Can I partake in BDSM if I dont have any trauma?" First and foremost yes, and secondly in todays age we all have some form of trauma we still carry around with us (not all trauma is sexual). We get into this narrative that society has once again drilled into us about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies, and how we need to change that narrative. We talk about the different avenues that drive people into the wonderful, exciting, cathartic world of kink. As well as, both of our personal kink journeys and working through our personal past traumas. Whether you have fantasies/kinks due to serious trauma, are working through your trauma, or just simply enjoy the kink for the kink this is a podcast you dont want to miss.

Christopher Marcus of FreekShow Podcast and PlayHouseMedia joins me to talk about throwing/attending play parties. Chris started throwing parties at age 19 and now ten years later he shares with us some of the lessons and tricks he has picked up. He explains his cocktail mix recipe for play parties from the vibe, themes, and a strict vetting process, to over eagerness, consent, newbies, and party rules. As well as the best way to find people and parties in the LifeStyle. Theres a lot of good information and a lot of laughs you dont want to miss. 

Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent the number one FDA approved premature ejaculation treatment. It is a topical spray for me to help them last longer in the bedroom rodeo. We go over what exactly PE is and its causes, as well as what differentiates. Promescent from other treatments of PE. Jeff continues on to give us the unexpected emotion tale of how he found himself in the sex improvement business. He even divulges the secret to sex enhancement business. Funny and informative, Jeff Abraham, is someone anyone would love to chat with. 

I am so excited to finally have my girlfriend Allie on with me. I have been dying to do this podcast with her to talk about her unique family life. This twenty year old has a very unique view on relationships, monogamous and non. She is 3rd generation swinger! Her parents are swingers and polyamorous, her Dad's parents are swingers, however, her mom's side are extremely religious. She might be young, yet she is one of the most self aware and sexually liberated young women I have ever met. She is definitely someone you want to hear her stories and listen to her view point. 

On this episode I am joined with Alexa Martinez (aka thatsexchick) and her partner/fiance Jordan Maurice Bowditch (aka conscious.bro). This is a powerhouse couple when it comes to overcoming social conditioning and #RelationshipGoals. They are spiritual, realistic, and relatable. We talk about consciousness within oneself (ie who you are), your day to day life, sexually, and in relationships. They explain how they are able to make their relationship flourish from understanding that the other person is not their "everything" so they seek help and sounding boards with friends as well as their own coach, to having weekly relationship board meetings, to scheduling sex. Sometimes you just have to "fuck this out real quick to return the relationship back to neutral."

This one is for the ladies (but guys you should listen too). This episode I was lucky enough to have someone I very much look up to, Arja Hendrikx, join me from half way around the world. She is a vastly experienced Tantra practitioner and teacher who has dedicated her life to helping others get in tune with their body, spirit, mind, energy, and the universe around them. Arja speaks on her journey to Tantra and how it helped her connect with herself, her femininity, and her orgasm. She gives all of us ladies some great tips on how to do the same from going off hormonal birth control, ditching vibrators (yes you read that correct), and taking ourselves on pleasure dates. Ladies this is one podcast you don't want to miss. 

Turn-ons, arousals, kinks, fetishes can constantly change, morph, come and go. Sex is all about exploration and most importantly fun! From getting some sexy lingerie, visiting a sex store, to role playing, to tying each other up, to bringing in other people into the mix or going to a BDSM dungeon. The most important thing is to be honest with yourself and your partner, the person you have chosen to share your life with. As well, be open to when your partner comes to you with their desires, and instead of saying a blanket no, get creative so you both will be comfortable. Have fun!

I am so excited to have Mathias Omotola, one of the people I look up to the most, on this podcast. He is an experienced and certified in energy work, tantra, and orgasmic sexuality, as well as an amazing Dominate. Mathias is in the business of reawakening and taping into the power of your sexual energy. He gives us a sneak peak into his process of comprehension, calibration, purpose, and obligation. As well how to communicate the difficult emotions, energies, and frequencies that arise in our bodies. Like the emotion of love is actually quite tricky while gratitude is evident. Come learn something you wont forget I know I did!

Im very excited to have my friend Maurice on the podcast. He is an entertainer and has worked in the entertainment industry for a while now. Interesting enough through his work in entertainment he has gained fascinating psychology skills. He's not afraid to ask the hard questions that make you think and help you to discover who you really are instead of the story you've been telling yourselves and the world. Let's dig in deep to find your truth and rewrite your story to be more aligned to the true you. 

I am so excited to finally be putting this podcast out. Back in September/August Daddy and I took a month long trip to Tulum. Originally it was simply to get out of America for visa reasons however it turned into one of the consequential months of our relationship. We wound up partaking to three psychedelic trips where our relationship neared its breaking point, to rebuilding and coming back together, to finally the scary testing grand crescendo conclusion. We left Tulum rejuvenated and ready for the rest of our lives together. 

After about two weeks of sickness and another week of an abnormal nose bleed, plus high stress Daddy and I were redlining our intimacy with each other to the point of a massive fight. That was when we realize we needed to re-spark our connection. Something most people who are or have even been in a relationship know the situation possibly all too well. Find out how we rekindled the fire for each other and persevered from such a negative place back into love and affection. 

I have some of my favorite ladies joining me on this podcast. They are some of the most warm hearted, confident, strong, sexy sluts I have ever met in my life and that is exactly what we are discussing on this round table. We talk about what it means to be a slut, an ethical slut, what it means to us and what it mean in our puritan decedent, backwards society. If you are a woman, if you are a woman who wants to enjoy sex, or maybe you already do but feel guilty for it, this is a podcast you want to listen to. 

Im very excited to have Sunny Megatron a brilliant sex educator to talk about some very common kink misconceptions. We talk about those silly kink myths like being kinky means you have to be bisexual, you must like pain, you dislike vanilla sex, you need a partner to practice kink, you are not really kinky unless you are publicly in the community, you must be poly. We talk and laugh on the ridiculousness on what society and Hollywood make you believe kink is. If you ever thought of kink in a negative way or maybe just want a laugh you definitely want to listen in.

Im oh so excited to have two beautiful ladies joining me on this podcast as it hold dear to my heart. We are talking about submissives! There is a wide variety of experience in submission at this round table as I am going on ten years of being a submissive, Kellie is about four years, and Luna who is a fresh submissive on six months. We talk about what it means to be a submissive or what a good submissive is to us. We each elaborate on our journeys into submission and onwards, as well as what really gets us to drop into subspace. Then we talk about the big watch outs and considerations/precautions that are needed when entering into a submissive role. I love this podcast and Im sure you will too!

Im over the moon to have two of my favorite ladies here with me on this podcast. These two amazing women are two whom I look up to greatly in the lifestyle as they are able and greatly enjoy being Switches, i.e. they like being both dominates and submissives. They discuss what being a switch means to them, what makes a good dom/sub, and their personal journey to discovering these two sides of themselves. We even cant help but get into some good personal stories. You don't want to miss hearing what these ladies have to say.

Im so excited to have some of my favorite Dominates here with me on this podcast round table! I am especially excited that there is a rage of dominate subcategories represented: two of my guest being more classic formal Doms and two more inconspicuous mental Doms. They discuss what it means to be a Dom to them, how they express their dominate side, and they journey to discovering their Dom persona. Not only that you get to hear me get spanked for the first time on the podcast! If you are into or interested in a D/s relationship you definitely don't want to miss this!

Really excited about this podcast because this is going to be a pretty confrontational for many people out there. We are talking about relationships with large age gaps between the partners. Daddy is 23 years older than me and we would not ask for anything different. It works for us though we get a lot of judgements for it. We talk about our experiences and go over some big talks we and anyone in large age relationships must have. As long as there is true love these can be some of the most prosperous and fulfilling unions.

On this podcast Daddy and I discuss the many different ways to being a Dominate. It is not always just about inflicting physical pain. Many Doms are considered soft or Daddy Doms who are not as formal and protocol oriented but instead more nurturing and guiding, and mentally dominate, as well as a wide range in between. We talk about our personal journey of D/s to DDlg and even touch on brat trainers. If any of this sound appealing to you this is a podcast you want to tune into. 

What is the difference between BDSM and Abuse? If you dont already know listen to this podcast and youll learn there are many distinct differences. We talk through 4 major bullet points of pain vs pleasure, protection vs fear, power given vs power taken, and open communication vs no communication as well as aftercare. We even talk about our own experiences navigating through BDSM to make sure there was no abuse and hope to help others keep both eyes out for the red flags and to stay safe and pleasure filled. 

I am very excited to have a group of wonderful me with me at my Men in the Lifestyle round table. These guys talk about how they got into swinging and their journey since. They elaborate on what it is like to be a man in the lifestyle from excited to protective of the women. Then we get into the common misconceptions of swinger men from the idea that it,s a free for all to being in a room with another naked man while laughing the whole time. This is something you don't want to miss. 

Im super excited to have six - yes six - sexy, beautiful, intelligent, confident women with me on this podcast to talk about what it is like to be a woman in the Swinger Lifestyle. We talk about our journeys from discovering swinging to where each of us are today. Each give their own view on being a woman in the lifestyle and two of the newer ladies talk about their first experiences. We also break through some very common misconceptions about being a swinger female. This is one round table ladies you dont want to miss, nor do the men want to miss either. 

On todays podcast we talk about the difference between compresion and voyeurism. We talk about how there are different types or levels of compersion and its necessity for swinging. We then get into jealousy, what it is, how to deal with it, and Daddy gives a few great examples of his experiences with jealousy. 

Every relationship has boundaries from monogamous to open & swinger to polyamorous, or do poly relationships have boundaries? We discuss the boundaries of each of these with a concentration on our poly boundaries and the boundaries (or lack there of) of other polyamorous relationships we know. 

We're going to debunk the idea that monogamist couples are the happiest. In fact people in polyamorous, open, and swinger relationship are just as happy if not happier. What does it mean to be in a polyamorous, open, or swinger relationship? We go into detail about each so you dont want to miss out. 

During these scary times while most of us are in isolation/quarantine possibly with our significant others it could be incredibly fun or detrimental for the relationship. We want to give you a few simple techniques to make sure that you and your partner stay cool, calm, connected, and come out of this stronger in your relationship. We also give some techniques that can be practiced solo to get better connected with yourself.

We talk about what it is actually like to be in the lifestyle community. We go over common misconceptions, fuck buddies vs friends, starting off and the lack of pressure, hows it female empowered, and that it does not make you gay to be in the same room with another naked man.

We're back and better than ever. We wanted to reintroduce ourselves, who we are, how we became who we are, and why we live out lives the way we do. We are kinky, open, poly, weird and in love with each other. Stay tuned to hear our weird stories, what we've learned from them, as well as interviews with others on similar paths.