Behind the Law Podcast

In this extended edition of our Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. shares his motivation behind the podcast, insight on how to efficiently handle a divorce case and the importance of developing a strong relationship with your kids. “Do what you can to help others.” – Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. This … Continue reading Motivation behind the Behind the Law Podcast – February 12, 2020 →

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses how to determine if it’s time to dissolve the marital relationship. “The hardest part is making the decision in your mind that you know the relationship is over.” This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses the great entrepreneurship and leadership behind the 2019 film “Ford v Ferrari”. “These entrepreneurs have this approach to things where it’s always a no-nonsense…Competitive to a fault!” This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

New #BehindtheLawPodcast Episode : In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses when’s the best time to get your proverbial start. “No matter where you start from, you can always start.” This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

New #BehindtheLawPodcast Episode : In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses the mentality needed to get ahead. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses a new series he’s been watching about the leaders of some of the biggest businesses that were formed and developed in the Industrial Revolution. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses the importance of having the right influences in life. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

New #BehindtheLawPodcast Episode : In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses how growing up in a toxic family can be worse than a divorce. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. is joined by Associate Attorney Kristen D. Farris. Kristen D. Farris, Esq., has been a Litigation Associate with the Law Office of Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr., LLC for in excess of six years and is a lifelong resident of Orange County, NY. Her … Continue reading Meet Associate Attorney Kristen D. Farris – March 11, 2020 →

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses the negative affects of children being exposed to a loveless marriage. The negative impact on your kids is tremendous. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

New #BehindtheLawPodcast Episode : In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses what people should be telling you if you find yourself in a toxic relationship. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses the importance of not being blind to the level of toxicity in a relationship. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses dealing with tough times. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

You do not have to choose your physical safety to preserve your health safety. The court system is still open. There’s still access for the following items: Orders to show cause, which generally are emergency situations Orders of protection Family offense matters This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses the importance of relaxing, accepting and adapting to the new “norm” right now. Take the precautions. Follow the advice of the experts. Relax, don’t panic. Do the things you need to do. Relax and adjust because this will be the … Continue reading Relax, Accept, and Adapt – March 27, 2020 →

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses how to adjust to the new “norm” without skipping a beat: Social distance. Stay at home. Wash your hands repeatedly. If you’re sick, stay away from as many people as you can. If you feel you have an emergency health … Continue reading Discussing the New Normal – March 30, 2020 →

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses spending time now, if there’s time to spend, to work through the divorce process and prepare paperwork. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses grasping to a sense of normalcy nowadays. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode, Charlotte Guernsey joins Dennis & Joe to talk about the real estate market during the COVID-19 pandemic.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses stepping back to get some clarity. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

In this episode of the Behind the Law Podcast, Attorney Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. discusses reevaluating life during COVID-19. This clip taken from Dennis’ weekly show on Q92.1.

Welcome to the new and improved podcast! This is the show for real people who want real divorce answers from a real divorce attorney. Each week we’ll tackle a new set of questions from listeners surrounding a particular area of divorce. You can submit your questions anonymously at divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com. This week is all about having … Continue reading Episode 1 – Grounds for Divorce and Adultery →

In this week’s episode, we tackle some obscure questions from past clients and on the web. Remember, you can submit your questions anonymously at divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com. This week’s questions are:  My spouse left the country. Can I still divorce them in New York?  If I purchase a piece of property during my divorce, does my spouse … Continue reading Episode 2 – My Spouse Fled The Country →

Making the decision to move forward with a divorce is a huge step and one that many people need help arriving at one way or the other. In this episode, we’ll tackle the question of: When is it time to end my marriage? You’ll hear some tips that will help you either move forward with … Continue reading Episode 3 – When is it time to end my marriage? →

We’re moving along with topics surrounding the beginning of the divorce process which can be a challenge for many. In this episode, we’ll tackle the questions of: Can my spouse refuse my divorce in New York? I’m about to get divorced.  Where do I start? If you’d like to hear your question answered as part … Continue reading Episode 4 – Can my spouse refuse my divorce? →

This episode is all about finding the right divorce lawyer and most importantly, finding the right lawyer for YOU.  I’ve put together 7 tips to finding the right lawyer in this episode. Choose a lawyer that focuses solely on divorce Find a lawyer in close proximity (30-45 minutes) How does their website look? Read the … Continue reading Finding the Right Divorce Lawyer For You – Episode 5 →

What can happen if you choose the wrong divorce lawyer for your case?  That’s the general theme we dive into for Episode 6.  Each answer showcases the downside to hiring the wrong lawyer. What is a general practice lawyer? We’ve been separated for 10 years. Is my spouse entitled to anything that I own? My … Continue reading The Cost of Hiring the Wrong Divorce Lawyer – Episode 6 →

In this week’s episode we dive into 4 options for pursuing a divorce.  This topic came from the question; I don’t want a knock-down, dragged out case.  What are my options? Here are the 4 options I’ll cover, along with the pros and cons of each. Do-it-yourself Divorce Divorce Mediation Collaborative Divorce Litigated Divorce Remember, if … Continue reading 4 Options for Going Through a Divorce – Episode 7 →

In this week’s episode, I dive more into mediation with answers to some questions we received. Can I change my divorce mediation agreement after it’s settled? Can my spouse exclude child support from my mediation agreement? Can I request that our attorneys do not come to the mediation agreement? Remember if you have any questions … Continue reading Divorce Mediation Questions Answered – Episode 8 →

It is okay to date during your divorce?  That’s the question we tackle this week. To answer this, we’re going to look at both the legal and practical sides of the question, as well as the implications of dating during a divorce. If you’d like a divorce or family law question answered on the show, … Continue reading Dating During a Divorce, Is It Okay? – Episode 9 →

This week we tackle the really difficult question of: How to tell your spouse you want a divorce. While there’s no perfect way to do this, I’m going to share some tips on how to do it in this episode.  These tips come from more than 2 decades of handling divorce cases and working with … Continue reading How To Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce – Episode 10 →

This definitely comes as one of our juicier topics, but it comes up all the time. How do you know your spouse is cheating, and what steps can you take when you find out? In this episode you’ll get some obvious signs and some not-so-obvious signs that your partner might be having an affair.  Then, … Continue reading How Do You Know Your Spouse is Cheating (and what to do next) – Episode 11 →

I thought we were happy.  What happened? What leads to a marriage completely falling apart?  In this episode, I’ll share what happened with a client many years ago, and what I believe to be the reason why some marriages just seem to fall apart with no direct cause or reason. If you’d like to have … Continue reading I Thought We Were Happy. What Happened? – Episode 12 →

It might sound crazy, but in being a divorce lawyer for 2 decades, I’ve learned a lot about why marriages fall apart.  So it only makes sense that I share my advice for a healthy marriage.  Here are 10 pieces of advice I can give to any married couple or people that are soon to … Continue reading Marriage Advice from a Divorce Lawyer – Episode 13 →

Parenting during and after a divorce can be very challenging and it’s something I see very frequently.  In this episode, I’ll dive into 6 Dos and Don’ts of Co-Parenting. If you’d like your question answered on the show, please send them to divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com. And if you’re ever in need of top divorce or family law … Continue reading 6 Dos and Don’ts of Co-Parenting – Episode 14 →

Domestic abuse doesn’t always start with physical abuse.  In this episode, you’re going to hear about 7 signs of being in a domestically violent relationship. If you find yourself in a situation like I talk about in this episode, please contact the proper authorities.  And if you should need legal guidance regarding domestic abuse or … Continue reading How Could I Be So Blind? 7 Signs of Domestic Violence – Episode 15 →

One of the unfortunate fallouts from divorce can be the potential of losing a relationship with your kids.  In this episode, you’ll learn some ways to help restore that relationship. If you find yourself in the situation like we talk about in this episode, or need legal advice regarding divorce or family law, please visit … Continue reading Restoring Your Relationship with Your Kids – Episode 16 →

What happens if you go to pick your kids up from school or daycare and the school says your kids were picked up already?  Then you find out your spouse picked the kids up, took them away and says they want a divorce? This situation has happened, and happens way more often than you might … Continue reading My Spouse Took the Kids. What do I do? – Episode 17 →

Empty nest divorce is something on the rise in the US.  Couples have grown kids, amassed some wealth, homes, cars, investments, etc.  What happens to all that stuff if you get divorce later in life? If you need a consultation or just want to speak to a lawyer about your options in New York State, … Continue reading Empty Nest Divorce. What happens to all your assets? – Episode 18 →

How much will I have to pay in spousal support (alimony) and how long will I need to pay it? It’s always a concern for clients as to how much they’re going to shell out for alimony and also how long they’re going to have to pay their ex spouse.  In Episode 19, we dive … Continue reading How Much Alimony Will I Owe and How Long Do I Need to Pay? – Episode 19 →

The topic of prenups comes up all the time.  Should you get one? Why or why not?  In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of signing a prenuptial agreement. Send in your questions: divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com Confidential divorce consultations: https://drvetranolaw.com

This topic gained a lot of attention on my new TikTok profile (make sure to follow). After a divorce, how do you deal with a narcissist ex when it comes to raising your kids? There are a few methods I recommend and you’ll hear about them in Episode 21. Send in your questions: divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com Confidential divorce … Continue reading How Do You Co-Parent with a Narcissist? – Episode 21 →

How do we find hidden money from a cash business to determine alimony? This episode comes from a popular video on my new TikTok profile so check that out.  A few thousand of you are already following me there so THANK YOU! Tax returns aren’t always the best way to figure out how much spousal … Continue reading Cash Businesses, How do you prove income for alimony? – Episode 22 →

Do cheaters get less in a divorce?  The short answer is, no they don’t.  There’s a few reasons why that I dive into for Episode 23. If you have any questions, please feel free to send them to divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com. Free confidential divorce consultations: https://drvetranolaw.com Connect With Me TikTokFacebookInstagram

Should you keep a diary during your custody and visitation case (and even after)? Here are some reasons why it’s important to document almost anything when it comes to your relationship to your children. If you have any questions, please feel free to send them to divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com. Free confidential divorce consultations: https://drvetranolaw.com Connect With Me … Continue reading Why You Should Document Everything in a Custody Case – Episode 24 →

If you think the best way to avoid the “hassle” of a divorce is to just not get married, you couldn’t be more wrong. It’s significantly harder and potentially more expensive to divide assets and handle child custody when you’re not married. In Episode 25, we get into the pros and cons of not getting … Continue reading “Just Don’t Get Married” (Really bad advice) – Episode 25 →

What happens when the non-custodial parent never sees your kids? What can you do legally or otherwise?  This is a tough situation not just for you but especially for your kids. Can you say “NO” to your ex-spouse? If you have any questions, please feel free to send them to divorcestoriespodcast@gmail.com. Free confidential divorce consultations: https://drvetranolaw.com Connect … Continue reading When the Other Parent Never Sees Your Kids – Episode 26 →

In this episode I tackle custody questions taken from one of my recent TikTok LIVE shows.  Here are the questions: Is there any discrimination toward men in family law, and in particular, child custody? What are the chances of getting child custody when there’s an order against my ex? My ex works out of the … Continue reading Custody Questions Answered, Part 1 – Episode 27 →

In this episode, I sat down with Michelle Dempsey.  Michelle is a Certified Divorce Specialist, host of the Moms Moving On Podcast, and author. This is such a great interview packed with loads of great information on how to handle the divorce process emotionally, how to deal with your ex, and lots more. Get in … Continue reading Michelle Dempsey; Moms Moving On, Divorce Specialist – Episode 28 →

Dennis talks with Rhonda Noordyk about the importance of understanding your finances during the divorce process. Rhonda is a Certified Financial Education Instructor, the CEO of the Women's Financial Wellness Center and host of the Divorce Conversations for Women podcast. Connect with RhondaWebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedIn Get in Touch with Dennis https://linktr.ee/DRVlaw

Dennis speaks with Lisa Johnson & Chris Barry of Been There, Got Out, an organization that helps individuals who are dealing with a toxic or domestically violent relationship.  Lisa is a certified domestic violence advocate and Chris is a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach. Connect with Lisa & ChrisWebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedIn Get in Touch with Dennis https://linktr.ee/DRVlaw

In this episode, Dennis interviews Sarah Armstrong, author of ‘The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce.' Sarah is the vice-president of global marketing operations at Google. She is also a mentor to other women in her industry and active in many charitable activities, particularly the Jack & Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation. She is focused … Continue reading Sarah Armstrong, Author; The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce – Episode 31 →

In this episode, Dennis speaks with Jade Bianca.  Jade is an expert matchmaker and founder of Dating After Divorce, the only matchmaking firm dedicated to helping men and women date after their divorce. Connect with Jade Biancahttps://www.datingafterdivorce.com/https://www.tiktok.com/@dating_after_divorcehttps://www.instagram.com/dating_after_div/https://www.facebook.com/datingafterdiv Connect with Dennishttps://linktr.ee/DRVLAW    

In this interview, Dennis sits down with Russell Hartley.  Russell is a Confidence & Dating Coach for Men, a real life Hitch. He is an author, social media personality, and dating coach. He has sold thousands of copies of his courses and is helping people all over the world develop confidence and improve their love lives. … Continue reading Russell Hartley, Confidence & Dating Coach for Men – Episode 33 →

In this episode, Dennis speaks with Leah Marie Mazur, a certified divorce recovery coach and owner of Mindfully Ready. As a certified coach her mission is to help women use their divorce as an opportunity to learn how to love themselves & create an amazing life. Connect with Leah Mariehttps://vm.tiktok.com/TTPd2sFGb3/ https://www.instagram.com/mindfullyready https://www.mindfullyready.com/ Connect with Dennishttps://linktr.ee/DRVLAW

Julie Teffeteller is a Marriage and Relationship Coach who has coached hundreds of individuals through overcoming resentment, breaking the argument cycle, and getting on the same page–even when both partners have completely opposing viewpoints. Connect with Julie Website TikTok Instagram Free Facebook Group Connect with Dennis https://linktr.ee/DRVLAW

Matthew Phifer, MSEd, is a therapist, speaker, trainer, and toxic relationship, narcissism, trauma and emotional abuse expert. He is the founder and owner of Matt Phifer Coaching. His trainings, which feature original work, has been presented in multiple states and countries and he is regularly featured on the radio, publications, and online. Connect with Matthttps://www.instagram.com/matthewlphifer/https://www.tiktok.com/@matthewlphifer … Continue reading Matthew Phifer, MSEd; How to Co-Parent with a Narcissist – Episode 37 →

Jamie Scrimgeour is a Life Coach with a Specialization in Stepfamily Dynamics, the host of the top charting podcast, The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast and creator of the The Exclusive Stepmom Community, an online membership for stepmoms who want to live a KICK-ASS Life. With a focus on personal development, mindset and playing the long game, … Continue reading Jamie Scrimgeour; How to be a Kick-Ass Stepmom – Episode 38 →

Rob Roseman is a former Las Vegas poker pro, divorced dad to 3 kids, and founder of WTF Divorce – a podcast, website and Instagram that helps people dealing with divorce (and laugh about it along the way). Connect with Rob https://www.wtfdivorce.com/ Connect with Dennis https://linktr.ee/DRVLAW

Lisa Johnson is a certified domestic violence advocate and Chris Barry is a certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach. Together they own Been There, Got Out, an organization that helps individuals who are dealing with a toxic or domestically violent relationship. Connect with Lisa & Chris Website Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Get in Touch with Dennis https://linktr.ee/DRVlaw

Jessica Klingbaum and T.H. Irwin are two best friends who got divorced at the exact same time and although they had completely different experiences, they were lucky enough to have each other through it all. They created exEXPERTS online community and the Divorce etc… podcast when they found there to be a lack of resources, support and information during their … Continue reading Jessica Klingbaum & T.H. Irwin; The exEXPERTS – Episode 41 →

Tracy has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years, but she didn't always want to be a forensic accountant. With a dream of one day being a prison warden, Tracy went to Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI to get a criminology degree. A class on financial crime investigations reminded her how much she loved Encyclopedia Brown books … Continue reading Tracy Coenen; Finding Money in Your Divorce – Episode 43 →

Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years of marriage, Rudy A shares his mistakes and experiences to help your marriage, improve your dating life, and prepare you for life after divorce. Connect with Rudy https://rudeadvice.podbean.com/

Verified TikTok stars Heartlyn Rae (featuring Alexis and Julia) have been friends since the 1st grade. These two have taken the social media world by storm with more than 7 million fans collectively across platforms and millions of impressions on their posts. These Artist/Creators have performed at some of the nations biggest events like the Super Bowl Block … Continue reading Heartlyn Rae; FT: Alexis and Julia – Episode 45 →

On this episode, we're joined by Jennifer Warren Medwin to discuss the very prominent topic of marital mediation. Jennifer Warren Medwin, MS is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach, Supreme Court of Florida Family Mediator, a Certified Marital Mediator, and a Co-Parenting Instructor. Her private practice in Pinecrest, Miami is called Seeking Empowerment: Clarity through Partnership. … Continue reading Jennifer Warren Medwin; Certified Divorce Coach & Marital Mediator – Episode 46 →

Alex Beattie, a veteran film and television producer, took her own divorce experience and turned it into a service that helps others navigate marital separation and divorce with financial clarity and confidence. Alex is an experienced Divorce Consultant and Founder of The Divorce Planner. In this episode, Dennis and Alex discuss the ins and outs of planning for … Continue reading Alex Beattie; The Divorce Planner – Episode 47 →

Fiona Kong is a single mompreneur who turned lemons into lemonade! In 2019, she separated from her son's dad and was laid off from her job. After deeply processing her own childhood trauma Fiona wanted to parent and show up for her son focusing on his mental health and emotional wellbeing. A $2 dollar store … Continue reading Fiona Kong; Home Sweet Homes Journal – Episode 48 →

In this episode, Dennis and Amber discuss the pressures faced by modern women, especially moms. They explore the unrealistic expectations of perfectionism and introduce Amber's “Supermom Assessment,” which helps women identify and overcome limiting beliefs. Amber shares personal insights and practical advice on finding self-worth and achieving a balanced life. Amber Shaw is a board-certified health & … Continue reading Amber Shaw; The Wellness Revolution – Episode 49 →

In this episode, Dennis sits down with Lisa Sonni, a certified relationship coach and author, to discuss the challenges of recognizing and recovering from abusive relationships. Lisa shares her personal journey, offers actionable advice for healing and rediscovering self-worth, and explores the importance of self-love and community in the recovery process. Tune in for an … Continue reading Lisa Sonni; Certified Relationship Coach – Episode 50 →