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Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
AI and divorce, divorce mediation, divorce coaching, divorce options, collaborative divorce, and DIY divorce—this episode explores how artificial intelligence can help you navigate divorce while avoiding costly mistakes.Artificial intelligence is changing the way people gather information, organize documents, prepare for meetings, and communicate during divorce. But can AI actually help you make better divorce decisions?In this episode of Doing Divorce Different, Lesa Koski explores the benefits and limitations of using AI during divorce. You'll learn how AI can help you understand the divorce process, organize financial information, prepare for mediation, communicate more effectively, and explore your legal options.You'll also discover where AI falls short and why divorce still requires human wisdom, professional guidance, and thoughtful decision-making.Whether you're considering mediation, collaborative divorce, working with attorneys, or handling parts of your divorce yourself, this episode will help you understand how to use AI as a powerful tool without relying on it as your only source of support.Remember: AI can provide information, but it cannot replace wisdom, experience, or human connection.Timestamps(00:00) Introduction: Can AI Help You Through Divorce?(02:12) How AI Can Help You Understand Divorce(05:48) Using AI to Organize Financial Documents and Information(08:15) Preparing for Mediation, Coaching, and Attorney Meetings(11:10) How AI Can Improve Communication During Divorce(15:02) The Biggest Limitations of AI in Divorce(19:15) Why AI Can't Negotiate or Mediate for You(23:20) Understanding Your Divorce Options(24:05) DIY Divorce: When It May Work and When It Doesn't(27:18) The Benefits of Divorce Mediation(30:12) Working with Attorneys and Limited-Scope Legal Services(33:05) Collaborative Divorce Explained(35:50) When Litigation May Be Necessary(39:12) The Best Ways to Use AI During Divorce(42:08) Final Thoughts: Information vs. WisdomKey Takeaways• AI is an excellent tool for education, organization, brainstorming, and preparation during divorce.• AI can help you communicate more effectively but cannot replace real conversations, negotiation, or mediation.• Divorce laws vary by state, and AI-generated legal information should always be verified.• Mediation, collaborative divorce, and attorney support each serve different needs depending on your situation.• The best outcomes happen when you combine technology with experienced human guidance.Resources Mentioned• Divorce Roadmap• Divorce Clarity Session• Divorce Comeback Community• Minnesota DIY Divorce Course• Divorce Mediation Services with Lesa KoskiConnect with Lesa:Website: www.lesakoski.comTags/KeywordsAI and divorce, artificial intelligence divorce, divorce mediation, divorce coaching, divorce help, divorce process, collaborative divorce, mediation vs attorney, divorce options, Minnesota divorce, DIY divorce, child custody, divorce support, women over 40 divorce, divorce planning, divorce recovery, divorce education, divorce communication, family law, divorce advice
Divorce Mediation: Why Preparation Matters More than you Think Most people approach divorce mediation with one thought:"I have to do this."But what if that's the wrong mindset?Make you check out the $50 Divorce Crash Course. In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport explains why mediation can actually be one of the most valuable opportunities you'll have during your divorce—and how proper preparation can save you time, money, stress, and frustration.Too many people walk into mediation without a clear strategy, without understanding what they want, and without discussing realistic outcomes with their attorney. The result? Missed opportunities, wasted time, and unnecessary conflict.Andrea breaks down exactly how to prepare for mediation, what questions to ask your attorney, and why mediation should be viewed as an opportunity to move closer to your goals—not just another frustrating step in the divorce process.This episode is sponsored by Worthy: the smarter way to sell your jewelry. Get started by heading to Worthy.com/divorcepod and lock in an extra $100 when your item sells for more than $1,500.In This Episode, We Discuss:Why mediation is often misunderstood during divorceThe biggest mistake people make before mediationWhy preparation is critical to successful mediationHow to identify what you actually want from the processCreating a mediation strategy with your attorneyUnderstanding realistic outcomes before you walk into the roomHow to anticipate what your spouse may ask forWhy mediation can provide valuable information—even if no agreement is reachedThe importance of choosing the right mediatorHow mindset impacts divorce outcomesKey Takeaways✔️ Mediation gives you more control than having a judge decide for you✔️ Showing up unprepared can cost you valuable opportunities✔️ You should clearly define your goals before mediation begins✔️ Work with your attorney to develop a negotiation strategy✔️ Ask your attorney for best-case, worst-case, and most likely outcomes✔️ Even unsuccessful mediation can provide valuable information✔️ Mindset matters—view mediation as an opportunity, not a punishment✔️ The more prepared you are, the better positioned you'll be to advocate for yourself and your childrenQuestions to Ask Your Attorney Before MediationIs what I want realistic?What steps will help us get there?What do you think the other side is likely to ask for?What is the best-case scenario?What is the worst-case scenario?What is the most likely outcome?What concessions or "sweeteners" might help move negotiations forward?What should I expect during the mediation process?About the HostsAndrea Rappaport is a comedian, marketer, divorce survivor, and co-host of How Not to Suck at Divorce. Through humor, honesty, and practical advice, Andrea helps people navigate divorce with more confidence and less fear.Morgan L. Stogsdill is Head of Family Law at Beermann LLP and brings legal insight and real-world family law experience to every episode.Divorce Crash CourseThinking about divorce? Currently going through one?Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest mistakes people make during divorce, how to save money on attorney fees, what to expect during the process, and how to protect yourself legally and financially.Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.
Divorce mediation, settlement conferences, and court-mandated hearings are among the most searched — and most misunderstood — steps in the divorce process. People want to know what to bring, what happens in the room, and what it means if things don't settle. But there's a critical piece most people miss: mediation is not the place to discover you don't have the documents, don't understand the numbers, or don't know whether the proposed settlement actually works for your future. In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down what these meetings actually are, what the mediator's role really is (and isn't), and why financial preparation before mediation can change the entire trajectory of your divorce. They also pull back the curtain on the pressure tactics that often show up at the end of mediation — the threat of trial, high retainer demands, and even attorney withdrawal — and explain why the only real protection against that pressure is walking in financially prepared. In This Episode The difference between voluntary mediation, attorney-recommended mediation, and court-mandated settlement conferences What the mediator, judge, and conference officer can and cannot do with your financial information Why “exchanged” doesn't mean “verified” — and why that gap is where costly mistakes happen A real spreadsheet this week that was $400,000 off — and what that means in mediation The pressure tactics that appear at the end of mediation and how to be ready for them Why fear and exhaustion are not settlement strategies How the MDS Financial Portrait changes the quality of the conversation before you walk in Key Takeaways Mediation is not magic. It does not create financial clarity — it reveals where clarity is missing. The mediator's job is to get you to a settlement, not to verify your numbers or find what's missing. The better question going in is not “Can we agree?” It's “Do we understand what we're agreeing to?” Fear is not a settlement strategy. Exhaustion is not a settlement strategy. If you're calling for help two days before mediation, reschedule. Want to go deeper? Read the companion blog post: What to Bring to Divorce Mediation — and Why Financial Preparation Changes Everything Download this episode's free companion resource: The Mediation Readiness Checklist — six things to know before you walk into that room. Visit mydivorcesolution.com to learn how the MDS Financial Portrait helps clients prepare for mediation, settlement conferences, and the financial decisions that shape their future. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you.What You Need to Know About Powers of Attorney, Wills & TrustsMost people going through divorce never think about this…What happens if something happens to YOU before the divorce is final? makes medical decisions for you?Who controls your business?Who can access your bank accounts?Who decides what happens if you're incapacitated?And here's the scary part: if you haven't updated your powers of attorney, the answer could still be your (soon-to-be-ex) spouse.In this episode of The Splitting Smart Podcast, Kelly Bennett sits down with her hubby of nearly 40 years, estate planning attorney Greg Bennett, to talk about one of the most overlooked legal issues during divorce: powers of attorney, wills, trusts, and what you absolutely should update before things go sideways.Because while most people are focused on custody schedules and dividing assets, almost nobody is thinking about who could legally step into their shoes during a medical emergency.And yes… this stuff matters way more than people realize.Kelly and Greg talk about: Can you change your will or trust during divorce?What happens if your spouse is still your medical power of attorney?Can your ex make medical decisions for you while you're separated?Who controls your business if you become incapacitated?What is a financial power of attorney during divorce?Do you need a trust before your divorce is finalized?What happens if you have no estate plan at all?temporary decision-making agreementsThis episode is practical, easy to understand, and full of the kinds of things nobody tells you when you start a divorce.Because protecting yourself during divorce isn't just about splitting assets.It's also about protecting your future if life takes an unexpected turn.About Greg BennettGreg Bennett is an estate planning attorney and partner at Sapere Law & Mediation in Temecula, California. He helps individuals, families, and business owners protect what matters most through expert legal planning. In this episode, he explains how wills, trusts, HIPAA releases, and powers of attorney can become incredibly important during separation and divorce.--RESOURCESMEDIATION STARTER GUIDE: https://mailchi.mp/2939c428981d/mediation-resourcesKELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name https://a.co/d/e4VguRkLEGAL & MEDIATION HELP: https://saperelawfirm.comINSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/saperelawfirmFACEBOOK: https://facebook.com/saperelawfirm
Mediation can look calm on the calendar and feel like a wood chipper in the room. If you're a dad heading toward divorce mediation, this briefing is built for the exact moment the tone shifts, the “reasonable” mask drops, and your parenting time suddenly becomes negotiable. We lay out the tactical mindset that keeps you from getting processed into the weekend-visitor trap and helps you protect a real 50/50 custody schedule.We start with the courtroom math most people miss: family court often runs on a preponderance of evidence, where that extra 1% of perception can decide everything. From there, we unpack the biggest red flag in the room, the 50/50 custody litmus test. If the other parent won't support equal parenting time up front, we explain what that usually means for custody, support, and the next twenty years of co-parenting, and how to shift from “nice guy” hoping to strategic defense.Then we get concrete. We talk about using mediation as intelligence gathering, locking in small wins with an a la carte approach, and building a durable floor through documented agreements like an MOU where your jurisdiction allows it. You'll also hear tools for high conflict divorce dynamics: the legal pad protocol for handling provocation and false allegations, how to “spoon feed” the mediator labeled facts and a parenting log, and how to use ask-based questions that force the other side to show evidence. We close with the decision gap, managing exhaustion, and why you should demand a 24-hour review before signing anything. Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. Most ground is lost quietly through "drift" and decisions made under pressure. Stop the drift today at TheDivorcedDadvocate.com.Access your tactical tools:Risk Assessment: Identify your "quiet loss" exposure in 10 minutes.Protection Session: Book a private triage to ensure mistakes don't become permanent.Your kids are counting on you. Support the show
In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder is joined by Keri Gwynne and Ryan Finley for a direct, practical conversation on what it actually takes to prepare for divorce mediation the right way.This is not about “getting through” mediation. This is about protecting your outcomes.Too many people walk into mediation unprepared. They are emotionally overwhelmed, unclear about their financial reality, and making real-time decisions that will impact them for years. This is where costly mistakes happen. This conversation breaks down how to approach mediation strategically across three critical areas: your children, your finances, and your long-term stability. Keri shares how detailed, well-structured parenting plans reduce conflict and protect children from being pulled into the middle. Ryan explains how to understand your full financial picture, when forensic accounting is worth the investment, and how to ensure nothing is being overlooked or hidden. Together, they highlight what real preparation looks like. Emotional regulation so you can think clearly under pressure, financial clarity so you know what you are agreeing to, and a defined strategy so you are not reacting in the moment.If you are heading into mediation or even thinking about it, this episode will challenge you to stop hoping it works out and start preparing so it does.Key Takeaways• Why mediation outcomes are directly tied to preparation, not luck• How detailed parenting plans prevent future conflict and protect children• The biggest financial mistakes people make before and during mediation• When it makes sense to investigate hidden assets and when it does not• How to walk into mediation with clarity on what you need and what you will accept• Why emotional regulation is critical to making sound decisions under pressure• The role of the right professionals in protecting your long-term outcomesAbout the Guests:Keri Gwynne is a Certified Divorce Coach and CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, a comprehensive divorce service offering coaching, mediation, and family-focused guidance. With certifications in both High Conflict and Transitional Divorce, she has helped guide more than 550 families across the nation through the divorce process with clarity and confidence. Through her own lived experience as a high-conflict divorce survivor, Keri blends empathy, compassion, and resilience with deep professional expertise to help individuals rebuild and reclaim their lives after divorce. Ryan Finley is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence. As a CPA, CDFA, CVA, and court-approved mediator, Ryan brings both technical precision and empathy to the table—bridging the gap between financial analysis and human understanding. His ability to simplify complex financial issues and foster productive dialogue makes him a trusted resource for attorneys and clients alike.To connect with Keri and Ryan: Website: https://www.startingpointfreedom.com/ Website: https://www.freedomfsg.com/Ryan's phone: 941-945-2846About the HostMardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC.For Mardi's gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbbConnect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. 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Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
Flat fee divorce mediation Minnesota, divorce cost Minnesota, and how to divorce without court—this episode breaks down everything you need to know about divorce mediation in Minnesota. Learn how flat fee divorce mediation Minnesota works, what it includes, and how to avoid costly attorney battles.In this Saddle Up segment of Doing Divorce Different, Lesa Koski walks you step-by-step through her flat fee divorce mediation process in Minnesota. If you're worried about the cost of divorce, overwhelmed by the process, or looking for a more peaceful path forward, this episode gives you clarity and direction.Lesa explains exactly what's included in her full-service mediation—from parenting plans and financial agreements to filing guidance—so you can move forward with confidence. She also shares why mediation is often a more respectful, affordable, and effective alternative to traditional litigation.If you want to avoid court, reduce conflict, and protect your future (and your kids), this episode is your roadmap to doing divorce differently.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction to flat fee divorce mediation in Minnesota(02:10) Why divorce costs matter and how to reduce them(04:30) What $5,800 flat fee mediation includes(07:15) Legal information vs. legal advice explained(10:05) Why AI alone isn't enough for divorce(13:20) The importance of guided communication during divorce(16:00) What documents are included in your divorce paperwork(19:10) Parenting plans and why they matter(22:30) Mediation vs. hiring attorneys: key differences(26:00) When attorneys are necessary(29:15) The emotional and financial benefits of mediation(32:40) How mediation helps you start your next chapter well(35:10) DIY divorce course vs. full mediation(38:20) Parenting Plan Blueprint explained(41:00) Final thoughts: creating a better life after divorceKey Takeaways:Flat fee mediation gives you clarity, predictability, and cost controlDivorce doesn't have to be a battle—mediation creates a more peaceful pathCommunication during divorce directly impacts your future relationship (especially with kids)AI tools can help, but human guidance is critical for agreements and communicationHow you end your marriage sets the tone for your next chapterGuest Bio:Lesa Koski is a divorce mediator, attorney, and life coach based in Minnesota. With over 25 years of legal experience, she helps couples navigate divorce in a more peaceful, cost-effective way through mediation and coaching. Lesa is the host of Doing Divorce Different, where she empowers women over 40 to approach divorce with clarity, dignity, and strength.Resource Links:https://www.lesakoski.com/Tags/Keywords:flat fee divorce mediation Minnesota, divorce mediation MN, cost of divorce Minnesota, Minnesota divorce process, divorce without court, co-parenting plan, parenting plan divorce, mediation vs attorney divorce, affordable divorce options, divorce coaching, peaceful divorce
Hi ya, and welcome to another inspiring episode of Spiritual BOOM, with me, your host, Eden Koz. In this #12 Greatest Hits collection, you'll hear from a high-vibe lineup of guests including Kerry K, Jen Mitchell Love, Isabella Young, Dawn DelVecchio, Ragan Thomson, Chase Tuten, Dr. Herman S. Jr., Kristine Kieland and Dr. Jennifer Schlueter who each bring their unique perspectives, wisdom, and raw honesty to the conversation.Get ready for deep dives into topics like transforming divorce from the courtroom to the heart center, breaking free from cults, navigating spiritual activism, healing from eating disorders, and encountering interdimensional energies. You'll also be guided through a powerful “meet your future self” meditation for the "Just Be Practice," helping you anchor into your own wisdom and potential for the year ahead.Throughout the episode, we open up colossally honest conversations about trauma, self-compassion, spiritual awakening, and the next steps humanity is taking in the New Earth journey. If you're ready to explore compassion, truth, and transformation—and maybe even try something a little outside your comfort zone—this is the episode for you.Tune in, breathe deep, and let's step into this powerful space together.Show breakdown and my guests:Eden Koz 00:00:02 - 00:06:34):Show intro, shifting themesDiscusses podcast evolution, purpose, and high-vibe guests.EP 205 Jen Mitchell Love [00:06:35 - 00:13:20]:5D Divorce MediationExplains mediation vs. traditional litigation, soul-centered approach.EP 201 Isabella Young [00:13:36 - 00:16:05]:Cult Realization, EscapeDescribes recognizing and leaving a cult environment.EP 203 Dawn DelVecchio [00:16:13 - 00:18:54]:Stay in Your LaneImportance of focused activism, spiritual empowerment.EP 204 Ragan Thomson [00:19:04 - 00:23:27]:Disordered Eating JourneyShares struggles with anorexia, bulimia, family dynamics.EP 206 Chase Tuten [00:23:44 - 00:28:32]:CE-5 Experience SharedRecounts human-initiated contact with ETs.EP 208 Dr. Herman S. Jr. [00:29:05 - 00:32:51]:Gnosticism, Losing HopeExplains Gnostic beliefs, world-weariness.EP 110 Kerry K [00:33:07 - 00:35:32]:Beyond the VeilSpiritual insights from childhood illness.EP 209 Kristine Kieland [00:35:39 - 00:40:26]:*Host Eden Koz is a New Earth & soul realignment specialist. She also performs spiritual Co#id Vac+ Healings. See her new package offerings to help you ascend into a New Earth human.**Additionally, if you are questioning your Gold IRA because of potential scams (see EP188) or want to invest in a precious metals company with integrity...email: info@milesfranklin.com and put "Eden" in the subject lineMiles Franklin website: https://milesfranklin.com Contact info for Eden Koz / Just Be®, LLC:Website: EdenJustBe.com Socials: TikTok, FB, FB (Just Be), X, Insta, LinkedInJust Be~Spiritual BOOM Podcast - Video Directories: BitChute, Rumble, YouTube, Odysee, ...
Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
Minnesota divorce mediation explained step-by-step. Learn how divorce mediation works in Minnesota, avoid court, reduce conflict, and save money with a guided process.If you're in Minnesota and wondering how divorce mediation works, this episode walks you through the entire process—from consultation to finalization. Divorce mediation in Minnesota offers a calmer, more structured alternative to litigation, helping couples avoid court and move forward with less conflict.In this episode, Lesa Koski explains how divorce mediation works in Minnesota, what to expect in each step, and why so many couples choose mediation over traditional divorce. If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure what to do next, this will give you clarity and a path forward.Timestamps:(00:00) Introduction to divorce mediation in Minnesota (02:10) What divorce mediation actually is (04:30) Why mediation feels scary (and why it works anyway) (06:15) Step-by-step process of mediation in Minnesota (09:40) Parenting plans and financial agreements explained (13:20) How paperwork and filing works in Minnesota (15:10) Why couples choose mediation over court (18:00) Benefits for children and long-term relationships (20:10) How to get started with mediationKey Takeaways:Divorce mediation in Minnesota allows couples to avoid court and stay in control of decisionsA structured, guided process reduces conflict and overwhelmParenting plans and financial agreements are created collaborativelyMediation is often more cost-effective than attorney-led divorceThe way you handle divorce impacts your long-term relationship and your childrenGuest Bio:Lesa Koski is a Minnesota-based divorce mediator, attorney, and life coach who helps couples move through divorce with clarity, dignity, and less conflict. With decades of experience and a heart for guiding families through difficult transitions, Lesa combines legal knowledge with emotional support to create a calmer path forward.Resource Links:Schedule a ConsultationParenting Plan Blueprint Tags/Keywords:Minnesota divorce mediation, divorce mediation Minnesota, how divorce mediation works, divorce without court Minnesota, uncontested divorce Minnesota, divorce help Minnesota, mediation vs litigation, co parenting divorce, low conflict divorce, divorce process Minnesota
Divorce mediation can feel intimidating, especially if you are unsure how negotiations work or what preparation is required. In this episode of The D Shift, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder is joined by certified divorce coach Keri Gwynne and mediator and financial expert and mediator Ryan Finley to discuss how individuals can prepare for divorce mediation with clarity, confidence, and strategy.Keri Gwynne shares how her own difficult divorce experience led her to create Starting Point by Freedom, an advocacy service designed to help individuals navigate divorce with the guidance and support they often struggle to find. Ryan Finley explains how his background in financial analysis and mediation allows him to bring structure and clarity to complex divorce negotiations.Together, they explore how thoughtful preparation, emotional support, and financial understanding can make the mediation process less overwhelming and far more productive.In this conversation, you will learn:• How to prepare effectively for divorce mediation• Why financial clarity is essential before entering negotiations• The role divorce coaches and financial professionals can play in mediation• How preparation can reduce conflict and stress during the divorce process• Why co-parenting planning should be part of mediation discussionsThe discussion also highlights how building a strong team of advisors can help individuals approach mediation with greater confidence and realistic expectations. Divorce is often one of life's most difficult transitions, but with the right preparation and support, mediation can become an opportunity to move forward toward a more stable and positive future.About the Guests:Keri Gwynne is a Certified Divorce Coach and CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, a comprehensive divorce service offering coaching, mediation and family-focused guidance. With certifications in both High Conflict and Transitional Divorce, she has helped guide more than 550 families across the nation through the divorce process with clarity and confidence. Through her own lived experience as a high-conflict divorce survivor, Keri blends empathy, compassion, and resilience with deep professional expertise to help individuals rebuild and reclaim their lives after divorce. Ryan Finley is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence. As a CPA, CDFA, CVA, and court-approved mediator, Ryan brings both technical precision and empathy to the table—bridging the gap between financial analysis and human understanding. His ability to simplify complex financial issues and foster productive dialogue makes him a trusted resource for attorneys and clients alike.To connect with Keri and Ryan: Website: https://www.startingpointfreedom.com/ Website: https://www.freedomfsg.com/Ryan's phone: 941-945-2846About the HostMardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.
In this episode of The MADLOVE Your Life Show, Mary Dee sits down with divorce mediator and negotiation expert Joe Dillon for an eye-opening conversation about how couples can navigate divorce with dignity, clarity, and far less conflict. With more than 17 years of experience helping couples separate peacefully, Joe shares how mediation offers a powerful alternative to costly and adversarial legal battles. Drawing from both his professional expertise and his own childhood experience growing up in a family affected by a painful divorce, Joe explains why the way couples move through separation can shape their lives and their children's lives for decades. Mary and Joe explore the emotional, financial, and practical realities of divorce, including the mistakes couples often make and the surprising ways mediation can help families move forward with respect and understanding. This thoughtful conversation shines a light on how couples can shift from blame and conflict toward cooperation, healthier communication, and a future that protects what matters most. You'll hear: • The personal story that inspired Joe's mission to transform the divorce process. • How mediation works and why it can be more effective than traditional attorney-driven divorce. • The biggest financial mistakes couples make when separating. • Why putting children first can completely change the tone of a divorce. • The mindset shifts that help couples end relationships with respect instead of resentment. • Why mutual responsibility and communication are key to peaceful outcomes. If you or someone you know is navigating relationship challenges, this conversation offers practical insight, compassionate guidance, and a hopeful perspective on moving forward with clarity and integrity. Connect with Joe Dillon: Website: https://www.equitablemediation.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joedillon
⚖️ Divorce Mediation: Pros and Cons | Los Angeles Divorce Divorce mediation can be a powerful tool—but it doesn't replace the legal process. In this video, we explain how divorce mediation works in Los Angeles, why it helps couples reach agreements calmly, and where its limits begin. Mediation helps you decide—but paperwork is what turns those decisions into court-approved outcomes. Divorce661 takes mediated agreements and prepares them into complete, court-ready divorce filings, ensuring every requirement is met so mediation leads to progress—not delays.
⚖️ Divorce Mediation: Pros and Cons | Los Angeles Divorce Divorce mediation can be a powerful tool—but it isn't automatic. In this video, we explain when divorce mediation works best in Los Angeles, why both sides must be willing to participate honestly, and how lack of cooperation can quietly slow the process instead of simplifying it.
If you're getting divorced, don't call a lawyer until you watch this…Getting divorced without destroying your family is possible, and most people are never told about it.In this episode of the Health Pioneers Podcast, Jim Rohr head of marketing at Healthpreneur, talks to Karen McNenny who explains why the divorce system is built for conflict and how families can take a completely different path.Karen is a divorce consultant with 25 years of experience in corporate mediation and human behavior.She is the host of The Good Divorce Show, founder of The Good Divorce Academy, and author of the book The Good Divorce: How to End Your Marriage Without Ending Your Family.She guides couples from the day they decide to divorce through the final decree with less debt and less damage than the traditional process.In this conversation, Karen shares why calling a lawyer should not be your first step.She explains how to tell your kids, how to handle living arrangements, when to start dating, and how to keep your co-parenting relationship strong for years to come.She also breaks down why most couples spend $20,000 to $30,000 per spouse on legal fees when her clients typically spend less than $5,000 total.What we cover in this episode:00:00 Why the divorce system is designed to hurt your family02:13 Why lawyers are built for conflict not cooperation05:25 How to protect your co-parenting relationship long term06:30 How business consulting skills fix broken divorce processes07:58 Why divorce is not covered under family medical leave11:55 Warning signs your marriage is already over16:00 The grief of divorce no one talks about18:36 How to tell your kids about divorce the right way22:36 Why you should not rush to tell the kids25:35 When to start dating during a divorce29:49 How to split assets without destroying each other39:40 Why you should stop saying mom's house and dad's house41:19 Best tips for kids transitioning between two homes44:13 How to get divorced without expensive lawyers49:37 Divorce is a tool of transformation not a weapon50:23 What the Good Divorce Academy offers parentsAnswered In This Episode:Should I call a lawyer first when getting divorced?How do you tell your kids about divorce?What is a good divorce?Find Karen McNinney:Podcast: The Good Divorce ShowBook (2026): The Good Divorce, How to End Your Marriage Without Ending Your Family (Wiley Press)Website: https://www.karenmcnenny.com/Health Pioneers PodcastIf you've ever left a medical appointment feeling rushed, dismissed, or more confused than when you walked in, you're not alone.Health Pioneers is a podcast featuring clinicians and health practitioners who looked at the conventional system and decided to do things differently.Each episode highlights a practitioner who stepped off the beaten path to build a better way of helping patients…one focused on root causes, deeper thinking, and care that actually makes sense.These are thoughtful conversations about how great practitioners think, what they see that others miss, and why they chose a different path.Health Pioneers is a Healthpreneur production hosted by Jim Rohr, our head of marketing at Healthpreneur. Healthpreneur is on a mission to help the best health experts serve the most people, and Jim has spent the past 20 years as a practitioner, author, and advocate for root-cause medicine.
⚖️ Divorce Mediation: Pros and Cons | Los Angeles Divorce
⚖️ Divorce Mediation: Pros and Cons | Los Angeles Divorce Divorce mediation can be a helpful option—but it isn't right for every situation. In this video, we break down the pros and cons of divorce mediation in Los Angeles, including when mediation can save time and money, and when it may fall short. Mediation works best when both spouses participate in good faith and are willing to cooperate on decisions. Divorce661 supports mediation outcomes by preparing accurate, court-ready divorce documents that reflect your agreements—helping ensure what you resolve in mediation is properly filed and approved.
Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
Divorce, mortgages, and the marital home can become one of the most costly mistakes women make after divorce. In this episode, divorce mediator Lesa Koski is joined by mortgage expert Tami Wollensak to break down what really happens when you try to keep the house after divorce—and why so many women regret the decision later.Divorce mortgages and keeping the marital home after divorce can derail your financial future. Learn what most women are never told before signing.Tami shares her own divorce story, the hard lessons she learned by keeping the marital home, and why emotional decisions around housing often lead to long-term financial stress. Together, Lesa and Tami unpack mortgage assumptions, interest rates, lender timelines, hidden costs, and why divorce agreements don't bind banks.If you're divorcing—or advising someone who is—this episode will help you avoid common traps, ask smarter questions, and create a Plan B that protects your future.This is an essential listen for women navigating divorce, post-divorce decisions, and housing uncertainty.⏱️ Timestamps(00:00) Introduction & why this is Lesa's return to divorce work(04:30) Tami's divorce story and the mistake of keeping the marital home(09:15) Why keeping the house feels safe—but often isn't(14:20) Mortgage assumptions explained in plain English(19:40) Why lenders are not bound by divorce decrees(24:10) The hidden costs and timelines of mortgage assumptions(30:00) How HELOCs can completely derail an assumption(36:30) Why attorneys and mediators must plan beyond the paperwork(41:15) The importance of Plan B when the house doesn't sell(47:00) Today's mortgage rates and why the market is different now(52:40) Post-divorce fallout and why issues resurface years later(58:00) Empowerment, hope, and making informed decisions during divorce(01:02:30) Final advice for women navigating divorce and home decisions✅ Key TakeawaysKeeping the marital home after divorce often creates financial strain, not stabilityMortgage assumptions are complex, slow, and frequently deniedDivorce agreements do not bind lenders or banksHELOCs and hidden liabilities can make mortgage assumptions impossibleHaving a Plan B is critical to avoiding post-divorce litigation and stress
Parenting plans, mediation, and negotiations are some of the most stressful parts of divorce — especially when abuse, coercive control, or high conflict are involved.In this episode of The Rising Beyond Podcast, Sybil is joined by Laura, a family law mediator and co-parenting coach, to unpack what mediation can look like when it is truly child-centered and trauma-informed — and when it isn't.Laura brings years of experience mediating high-conflict parenting cases involving domestic violence, substance use, and power imbalances. Together, they explore how mediation can either reinforce harm or become a place where autonomy, safety, and children's real needs are finally centered.This conversation is especially helpful for protective parents who feel trapped by cookie-cutter parenting plans, fear retaliation for speaking up, or are being pressured to “just agree” for the sake of the court.In This Episode, We DiscussWhy mediation often feels re-traumatizing for survivors — and how it can be done differentlyThe importance of autonomy after coercive controlWhy “getting to agreement” is not the same as creating a safe parenting planHow documenting only the bad can distort negotiationsLaura Lorber is an MC3 Certified Mediator, Certified Co-Parenting Specialist, and Program for Infant-Toddler Care (PITC) Fellow. She brings a deeply reflective and facilitative approach to complex family matters, including high-conflict co-parenting, interpersonal violence, and elder care. Laura's evolving theory of mediation centers on the idea that every conflict offers a chance to model and teach — giving families a lasting legacy of learning to navigate challenges with understanding, resilience, and care for future generations.Connect with Laura:Website: www.lauralorberjd.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauramlorber/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lmlorber/Join me on February 18th at 12pm MST for the Parenting to Combat Coercive Control Live Workshop for protective moms focused on protecting and repairing the parent–child relationship: https://mailchi.mp/risingbeyondpc/coercive-controlPlease leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
Many people choose mediation as a way to get divorced in hopes that it will cost less, go fairly quickly, and result in a better coparenting relationship. My guest in this episode is divorce mediator, David Louis, who talks about some of the obstacles to effective communication that can hinder the mediation process.
Mediation can feel confusing, intimidating, and wildly misunderstood, especially when you're being told you "don't need a lawyer" because you're mediating." That's exactly why I invited my good friend and colleague Susan Guthrie back to the show. Susan is going to help break down what mediation actually is, how it works, and how to protect yourself in the process. Susan is a former family law attorney, longtime mediator, and the host of the podcast Divorce & Beyond. She's also my go-to expert when my clients have questions about mediation. In this conversation, Susan and I walk through what mediation really looks like from the very beginning, why mediators are not judges, and why having a consulting attorney is still essential even if you are fully committed to mediating. When you are mediating, the only people who make decisions are the people getting divorced. Nothing is decided unless both of you agree, and that's what gives the process its power. When mediation is done well, it creates space for clarity, informed choices, and agreements you can actually live with, not decisions handed down by someone who doesn't know your life. What you'll hear about in this episode: Misconceptions about mediation and why many misunderstand the process (3:36) Why you must have a consulting attorney, even if you are mediating (15:40) Different forms of mediation, including the benefits of shuttle mediation (27:08) What the mediation process actually looks like from the start (46:40) Bringing other professionals into mediation can save time, money, and conflict (51:54) How to know when mediation is not working and who gets to make that decision (55:24) ✨ If you'd like to watch the video version of this episode, you can find it here. Learn more about Susan Guthrie: Susan Guthrie, Esq. is one of the nation's leading voices in family law and mediation. With more than 30 years of experience as a top divorce attorney, mediator, and trainer, Susan has helped thousands of individuals and families navigate separation with dignity, clarity, and compassion. As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan has built one of the most trusted platforms for real conversations about divorce, healing, and new beginnings. Her expertise and approachable style have made her a sought-after media expert, featured on The Oprah Podcast, NewsNation, NBC's Chicago Today, and numerous other national and regional outlets. Beyond her media appearances, Susan is a respected educator and speaker, regularly training professionals in mediation, communication, and practice development across the country. She is also a best-selling author, sharing practical insights that help individuals and professionals alike navigate change with confidence. Susan's work bridges legal knowledge, emotional intelligence, and innovative thinking — helping people not only end their marriages more peacefully but also begin their next chapters with purpose. Resources & Links: Get Your Curated Podcast PlaylistFocused Strategy Sessions with Kate The Divorce Survival Guide Resource BundlePhoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment CollectiveKate on InstagramKate on FacebookKate's Substack Newsletter: Divorce Coaching Dispatch The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Episodes are also available YouTube! Susan's websiteThe Divorce and Beyond Podcast =================== DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. =================== Episode link: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-348-divorce-mediation-explained-what-it-is-and-how-it-works-with-susan-guthrie-esq/
When I was first separated, I knew nothing about mediation, only what I heard. Some of it was true, and some of it wasn't. My guest in this episode is divorce mediator, Ellen Feldman, who shares some myths and truths about divorce mediation. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/truths-and-myths-about-mediation/
Are you walking into divorce mediation feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or worried you'll walk away with less than you deserve?If you're preparing for divorce—or already in the thick of it—you know how stressful and confusing the process can be. This episode breaks down how to approach mediation with confidence, clarity, and the right mindset so you can protect your rights, reduce conflict, and stay in control of your future.Listeners will...Discover how to prepare strategically so mediation works in their favor.Learn how to identify priorities, non-negotiables, and long-term goals to guide every decision.Understand the emotional and practical dynamics of mediation so they can walk into the room empowered instead of intimidated.Press play now to learn the exact strategies that can help you walk out of mediation with a stronger outcome and greater peace of mind.Join us on our podcast as we navigate the complexities of marriage, divorce, separation, and all related legal and emotional aspects, including adultery, alimony, child support, spousal support, timesharing, custody battles, and the financial impact of dissolution of marriage. Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women's Law Group Website- https://women-winning-divorce.captivate.fm/fwlg Guest's Links: Official website: https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/about-us/our-attorneys/julie-rountree/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-anna-rountree-3967748 Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women's Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast's advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast's creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com
Divorce Mediation, Virtual Breakups & Real Boundaries — with Joe Dillon On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Joe Dillon, co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, to dive deep into the world of divorce mediation, emotional intelligence, and how money and emotion often collide during the end of a marriage. Joe combines his MBA in Finance with extensive training from Harvard, MIT, and Northwestern, and has been a virtual mediation pioneer since 2011—long before it became the norm. But what really stands out is Joe's personal story as a child of a highly litigated divorce, which fuels his compassionate, process-driven approach to helping couples separate without destroying their families.
⚖️ Divorce Mediation vs. DIY Divorce in Glendale | Glendale Divorce ⚖️ Not sure whether to choose divorce mediation or a DIY divorce in Glendale? You're not alone. In this video, Tim Blankenship from Divorce661.com breaks down the pros and cons of each option—and shows you how to decide which is best for your situation.
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⚖️ Divorce Mediation vs. DIY Divorce in San Diego County | San Diego Divorce Trying to avoid court in your San Diego divorce? ⚖️ You might be comparing divorce mediation vs. DIY divorce—but which one is right for you? In this video, we break down the key differences so you can make the smartest decision based on your situation.
Rebecca Stern is the founder of Pearl Mediation who helps families navigate divorce and special education challenges through mediation and strategic consulting.Through her crisis-concierge services, Rebecca guides clients through custody, support, and parenting plans while helping them avoid costly court battles. Her unique model specifically addresses the needs of families with children requiring special education support.Rebecca's personal experience navigating the special education system for her child led her to create innovative solutions for families facing similar challenges. Her work combining divorce mediation with special education advocacy shows how personal experience can transform traditional approaches to family transitions.Here's where to find more:www.Rebecca-Stern.comhttps://www.instagram.com/rebeccasternjdhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccapearlstern___________________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself
Mediation doesn't have to suck—but walking in unprepared absolutely does. In this solo power-packed episode, Andrea and Morgan deliver the exact roadmap you need before entering mediation. Whether it's your parenting plan, finances, or both on the table, this episode walks you through every question to ask your lawyer, how to mentally prepare, and the secret negotiation strategies that'll keep you calm, confident, and in control.What you'll learn:The 4-part strategy to prep for mediation like a proWhat makes a bad mediator—and how to avoid oneWhy your first offer will probably suck (and that's okay)What “sweeteners” are and how to use them to get what you wantTips to regulate your emotions and stay focused during mediationWhether attorney-assisted mediation is worth itHow to build your own mediation “cheat sheet”Why mediation saves you time, money, and sanity (even if it fails)Burning Questions Answered:“How do I know if what I'm asking for is realistic?”“What if my ex throws something crazy at me?”“Do I need to get the mediator to like me?”“Can I call my lawyer during mediation?”“What happens if we can't agree on anything?”Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-courseOur Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuckFriends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.Instagram: @hownotosuckatdivorceFollow Andrea: @theandrearappaportFollow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicago
Send us a textJoin us as we sit down with Enrolled Agent, and Founder of Golden Lion Tax Solutions, Morgan Q. Anderson, to discuss what Divorce Mediation Testimony is, and how it can help you avoid tax headaches after a divorce is finalized.As a leading divorce firm in Portland, our attorneys provide guidance on custody, alimony, separation, estate planning, and more. Learn what to expect in Oregon and Washington divorce cases and how we can help.If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.To learn more about Morgan and how she can help you with your tax questions, you can visit her website at: https://www.goldenliontaxsolutions.com/Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.