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A Weekly Podcast hosted by four black gay men Stevie, Malik, Erin & Trey discussing their lives, love life, what affects them & the LGBTQIA Community, against the backdrop of New York City.

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    • Jan 14, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 59m AVG DURATION
    • 151 EPISODES

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    Latest episodes from HIM.

    Episode 148: Save Sum For Yourself.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2022 102:00

    On This Week's Episode, the guys discuss their self-love, self-care tips, the importance of body image, and MJ Rodriguez's Golden Globe win.

    Episode 147: The Year of Resolutions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2022 64:41

    On This Week's Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans + personal goals for the New Year, and tackle a quote from Will Smith's new memoir.

    Episode 146: And Just Like That

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 71:03

    On This Week's Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans, give some advice to the listeners from two ASK HIM questions, and give their opinions on the whole Jussie Smollett trial + the final verdict.

    Episode 145: No Call, No Show.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2021 76:20

    On This Week's Episode Of HIM Podcast, the guys talk about growth for the new year, DaBaby failing to keep his word on donating to LGBTQ+ organizations, and their thoughts on the new film B-Boy Blues.

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    Episode 144: Miss Bossy Bottom.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 70:01

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss what new shows they're watching, sex with friends and the possibility of leading friends on, hookups overstaying their welcome + their Thanksgiving plans.

    Episode 143: Here We Go Again.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 79:56

    On this week's HIM Podcast the guys discuss their Halloween weekend, TS Madison's interview on The Breakfast Club, and how they disagree with LGBTQ+ Ceo who stated the community has forgiven Da Baby. 

    Episode 142: Movin' On Up.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2021 63:16

    On this week's episode of HIM podcast the guys answer some ASKHIM questions, give advice on how to make friends, dealing with social anxiety + cutting off friends who aren't good for you. 

    Episode 141: Filling Up The Cup.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 85:59

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk mental health and the importance of therapy, accountability with friends, and read Dave Chappelle for his transphobic commentary.

    Episode 140: Sneaky Links.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 59:30

    On this week's episode of Him Podcast the guys answer a ASKHIM question geared towards a sneaky link gone wrong,how do their parents self-care influence them, and breaking generational curses. 

    Episode 139: Price Is Goin' Up.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2021 55:26

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast, your favorite Butchqueens talk about their "get ready" process. Malik shares a huge secret with the group, and later on they get into the concept of SHAME & how shows up in their lives. 

    Episode 138: Y'all B!tches is PLAYIN'

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 72:49

    On this week's episode the guys give Lil Nas X his flowers on the birth of his new album, what skill they've mastered this month, and discuss the allegations against Nicki Minaj + her husband.

    Episode 137: Have We Met Yet?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 62:50

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the fellas give a recap of the Met Gala looks, the MTV Awards performances, and offer their opinions on Nicki Minaj's social media rant regarding the vaccine.

    Episode 136: Body Control.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2021 80:47

    On this week's episode, the guys discuss the latest hot topics, what fictional television family would they be apart of, and the new abortion ban in Texas. 

    Episode 135: It's Givin' Passionate.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2021 80:28

    On this week's episode, the guys express feelings about the new variants of Covid, DaBaby's sit down w/ LGBTQ corporations,+ speak on how some gays try to separate themselves from the community.

    Episode 134: A Sad Universe w/ Sadboy.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 77:30

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest SadBoy, and get into who he is as an artist, producer, choreographer,his upcoming project “Planéte Des Larmes” + the meaning behind the title.

    Episode 133: Musical Glitter W/ Wuhryn Dumas.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 86:31

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest Wuhryn Dumas, “ and we get into his musical influences, the creation of his EP “Glitter On Fire” + what he looks for in a his dream guy.

    Episode 132: GIRL shut the FU*K UP! W/ AntzInYoPants.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2021 88:01

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest Antwaun Wright, "AntzInYoPants", as they weigh in on the controversy surrounding Lil Nas X and discuss homophobia and transphobia within the Black Community.

    Episode 131: N!gg@s be BROKE!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2021 71:39

    On this week's episode the guys discuss splitting the bill + being honest about your finances, deleting photos of your ex off social media + one thing they'd change if they could date themselves. 

    Episode 130: This is for MJ.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2021 75:36

    On this week's episode the guys give MJ Rodriguez for “flowers” for her Emmy nomination, the importance of having more trans-representation in television, and a break down on the craziest story from riding the train in NYC.

    Episode 129: Summer Tings.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2021 71:19

    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the fellas talk Pride Month, Miami, the Durand Bernarr concert, and LEGENDARY. #HappyPrideMonth

    Episode 128: Bittersweet Pose.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2021 65:02

    HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys give a recap of their favorite moments of MOBI Fest, the Pose finale, and LEGENDARY.

    Episode 127:

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2021 59:05

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the fellas address the fake woke, talk Pose, and celebrate Aaron’s (Niece) graduation.

    Episode 126: Word 2 Janet.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2021 74:27

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk what they would do with only 6 months to live, more feedback on the current season of Pose, and Billy Porter’s HIV announcement.

    Episode 125: Legendary Mix.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2021 74:00

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk new CDC guidelines, Porsha Williams, new Nicki Minaj, and season two of Legendary. 

    Episode 124: Pose The Conversation.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2021 65:39

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk POSE, highlight mental health awareness month, and share their love for their mothers! 

    Episode 123: N!gg@s Don’t Be Listenin’

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2021 59:00

    On this week’s episode the guys discuss first date questions, cutting off toxic friends, fuck boys ways, and a small check in.

    Episode 122: Ready To Grow.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2021 67:00

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss personal growth, accountability, and respond to an ASK HIM listener question. 

    Episode 121: X Marks The Spot.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2021 72:58

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys chat about hot topics such as Saweetie + Quavo, bills passed against trans youth, Donnie McClurkin, and Lil Nas X.

    Episode 120: A Helping Hand.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2021 71:10

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss cheating, substance abuse, and mental illness.

    Episode 119: No More Public Fun.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 69:17

    On this week’s episode of the HIM Podcast, the guys discuss the most embarrassing text/email they have sent out. Onlyfans placing a ban on users posting public-sex content, the impact “Pose” has had on the world and the hits and misses during this year's Grammys.

    Episode 118: Daddy's Lessons.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2021 61:02

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys reflect on lessons learned, open up about their fathers, and respond to an Ask HIM listener question.

    Episode 117: Expected Apologies.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2021 68:18

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss apologies, accountability, and interracial dating.

    Episode 116: Eliminate Threads.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 73:13

    On this week’s episode of HIM podcast, the guys talk about creating healthy friendship, posting  private text threads on social media, respecting boundaries, and sexual harassment.

    Episode 115: the DL agenda.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 77:59

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys celebrate Aaron & LaQuann's first year anniversary on the podcast. We do a check-in, and tackle the question "Are DL Men apart of the LGBTQ+ community?"

    Episode 114: ask THEM.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 83:51

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys offer up their advice for questions from listeners.

    Episode 113: Respectful D!ck.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 85:50

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss hot topics, consent, and sexual harassment.

    Episode 112: Inauguration Cunt.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 78:57

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys tackle the funniest Break Down, talk sex and the Inauguration.

    Episode 111: It's Givin' Challenge.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 48:49

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk comfort food and drinks, viral online challenges, and have a Covid-19 check in.

    Episode 110: I'm Still Here.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 82:01

    On this week’s episode the men of HIM Podcast talk prosperity, forgiveness, and accountability for their first episode of 2021. Happy New Year!

    Episode 109: No More Ghosting.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 74:01

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk “ghosting” and explore the topic of intimacy.

    Episode 108: Always, Thankful.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2020 57:44

    On this week's episode of HIM podcast the boys give thanks and do a little self reflecting.

    Episode 107: We Elect.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 71:16

    On this week’s episode of HIM podcast, the men of HIM discuss Election 2020, the importance of voting, and how much work needs to be done to make a difference in this country.

    Episode 106: Set Boundaries.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 74:43

    On this week’s episode of HIM podcast, the men of HIM discuss setting boundaries, outgrowing friendships, and meeting people where they meet you.

    Episode 105: MOODBOARD

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 73:02

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the men of HIM discuss love, community and healthy support systems.

    Episode 104: Sex 4 Breakfast.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2020 46:11

    On this week’s episode of HIM podcast the men of HIM talk sexual fantasies, masturbation, and sex toys. 

    Episode 103: Ur Worth It.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 52:11

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the men of HIM talk goals and self worth. 

    Episode 102: Forgive Me.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2020 51:13

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the men of HIM celebrate 3 years of podcasting, talk forgiveness, and ASK HIM is back!

    Episode 101: If It Ain't Broke.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2020 90:47

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the men of HIM discuss receiving gifts, monogamy, and positions and gender roles in relationships.

    Episode 100: That Double OH!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2020 91:48

    On this week’s episode the men of HIM Podcast celebrate the 100th episode, talk dreams and sex work.

    Episode 099: Where We Going?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2020 84:38

    On this week’s episode the men of HIM podcast talk new Black tv shows, favorite eras of music, and the importance of protecting the Black trans community.

    Episode 098: Accountabili-Tea (Pt.1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2020 49:07

    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the men of HIM talk childhood trauma, accountability, and love.

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