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A Weekly Podcast hosted by four black gay men Stevie, Malik, Erin & Trey discussing their lives, love life, what affects them & the LGBTQIA Community, against the backdrop of New York City.

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    • Jun 17, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 1m AVG DURATION
    • 166 EPISODES

    4.8 from 211 ratings Listeners of HIM. that love the show mention: xd, jade, erin, queer, gay, black, voices, relate, loving, lol, thoughtful, guys, love, need, content, job, better, good, topics, listening.



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    Episode 163: U 2 Cute 2 Be Gay.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 71:45


    On this week's episode the guys discuss transparency with a confession from Stevie. We congratulate Saucy Santana's rise to fame & get into the tweets he made about Blue Ivy Carter. We also dive into women's harsh comments about bisexual/gay men & it plays into relationships.

    Episode 162: A Chat With MOBI.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2022 61:45


    On this week's episode, the men of HIM chat with the MOBI team about the importance of safe spaces for queer folx, MOBiFest 2022, & their favorite moments at Pride.  MOBI is a series of curated social connectivity events for gay and queer people of color to see their holistic self while promoting community, wellness, and personal development.We achieve this through our signature programming: MOBItalks, a personal and professional development series for Black gay men  and MOBIfest, an interactive wellness experience that celebrates Black queer voices in fashion, music, visual arts and media. With a focus on wellness, MOBI connects individuals to opportunities to better themselves before, during, and after our events.You can find MOBI at:https://mobi-nyc.comhttps://www.instagram.com/mobinyc/https://twitter.com/Mobi_NYC 

    Episode 161: Innocent Babies.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 78:00


    On this week's episode the men of HIM discuss the qualities that make a good friend. We tackle the topic the heartbreaking mass shooting, in Uvalde Texas. Lastly, we finally got some ask HIM questions, and we get into two of them! 

    Episode 160: I Clocks In.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2022 114:43


    On this week's episode the guys discuss the last time they were too hard on themselves, the new season of “Legendary”, & the mass shooting in Buffalo. 

    Episode 159: Pronoun Research.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2022 96:53


    On this week's episode the guys discuss the kindest compliment they've received this week, Kehlani's radio interview + respecting pronouns, and supporting your partner during challenging times.

    Episode 158: The Check-In.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 107:00


    On this week's episode the guys have an extensive check-in session, discuss friends that flake,the supreme court trying to overturn the Roe v. Wade case, and this year's Met Gala.

    Episode 157: oh HAPPY day.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2022 76:26


    On this episode, the guys discuss what's currently bringing them happiness, the best advice their therapist has given them, how essential rest is, the Grammys, + Chloe Bailey's new song “Treat Me”.

    Episode 156: This What It Look Like.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2022 88:59


    Updated caption: On this week's episode the guys discuss if they would have sex with themselves if they could, Will Smith slapping Chris Rock at the Oscars, and their thoughts on the “Don't Say Gay” bill that affects LGBTQ+ youth. 

    Episode 155: Givin' or Receivin'

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 96:00


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk unusual habits, dating people in between jobs, and splitting rent and utilities with roommates and live in boyfriends/girlfriends. 

    Episode 154: What Are You Waiting For?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2022 84:11


    On this week's episode the guys have a conversation about code switching in the work place, friend's dating friend's exes, dating people something with a huge social media following, and insecurities in relationships.

    Episode 153: How Would You Feel If...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2022 50:00


    On this week's episode the guys have a conversation about their thoughts on stealing, the war with Ukraine & Russia + how racism is occurring, + speak on how mask mandates are coming to an end. 

    Episode 152: Overall Supreme.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2022 64:41


    On this week's episode the guys discuss highlights from the Coldest Winter Ever Ball, businesses denying LGBTQ+ service, + the new “Don't Say Gay” bill that will effect LGBTQ+ youth. 

    Episode 151: Do We Have A Problem?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 68:26


    On this week's episode the guys have a lengthy check-in discussing the difference of setting boundaries with friend vs the workplace,handling rejection, + the importance of showing friends affection.

    Episode 150: A Time To Revisit.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 88:32


    On this week's episode the guys discuss a year or age in their lives they wish they could revisit, if homophobia existed in their household as children, + talk about a few highlights in their week.

    Episode 149: Get Your Life (Insurance)!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 80:22


    On this week's episode the guys discuss lies they've told, identifying personal growth + supporting one another, the importance of life insurance, and Steve Harvey's comments about art being silenced. 

    Episode 148: Save Sum For Yourself.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2022 102:00


    On This Week's Episode, the guys discuss their self-love, self-care tips, the importance of body image, and MJ Rodriguez's Golden Globe win.

    Episode 147: The Year of Resolutions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2022 64:41


    On This Week's Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans + personal goals for the New Year, and tackle a quote from Will Smith's new memoir.

    Episode 146: And Just Like That

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 71:03


    On This Week's Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans, give some advice to the listeners from two ASK HIM questions, and give their opinions on the whole Jussie Smollett trial + the final verdict.

    Episode 145: No Call, No Show.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2021 76:20


    On This Week's Episode Of HIM Podcast, the guys talk about growth for the new year, DaBaby failing to keep his word on donating to LGBTQ+ organizations, and their thoughts on the new film B-Boy Blues.

    Episode 144: Miss Bossy Bottom.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 70:01


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss what new shows they're watching, sex with friends and the possibility of leading friends on, hookups overstaying their welcome + their Thanksgiving plans.

    Episode 143: Here We Go Again.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 79:56


    On this week's HIM Podcast the guys discuss their Halloween weekend, TS Madison's interview on The Breakfast Club, and how they disagree with LGBTQ+ Ceo who stated the community has forgiven Da Baby. 

    Episode 142: Movin' On Up.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2021 63:16


    On this week's episode of HIM podcast the guys answer some ASKHIM questions, give advice on how to make friends, dealing with social anxiety + cutting off friends who aren't good for you. 

    Episode 141: Filling Up The Cup.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 85:59


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk mental health and the importance of therapy, accountability with friends, and read Dave Chappelle for his transphobic commentary.

    Episode 140: Sneaky Links.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 59:30


    On this week's episode of Him Podcast the guys answer a ASKHIM question geared towards a sneaky link gone wrong,how do their parents self-care influence them, and breaking generational curses. 

    Episode 139: Price Is Goin' Up.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2021 55:26


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast, your favorite Butchqueens talk about their "get ready" process. Malik shares a huge secret with the group, and later on they get into the concept of SHAME & how shows up in their lives. 

    Episode 138: Y'all B!tches is PLAYIN'

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 72:49


    On this week's episode the guys give Lil Nas X his flowers on the birth of his new album, what skill they've mastered this month, and discuss the allegations against Nicki Minaj + her husband.

    Episode 137: Have We Met Yet?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 62:50


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the fellas give a recap of the Met Gala looks, the MTV Awards performances, and offer their opinions on Nicki Minaj's social media rant regarding the vaccine.

    Episode 136: Body Control.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2021 80:47


    On this week's episode, the guys discuss the latest hot topics, what fictional television family would they be apart of, and the new abortion ban in Texas. 

    Episode 135: It's Givin' Passionate.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2021 80:28


    On this week's episode, the guys express feelings about the new variants of Covid, DaBaby's sit down w/ LGBTQ corporations,+ speak on how some gays try to separate themselves from the community.

    Episode 134: A Sad Universe w/ Sadboy.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 77:30


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest SadBoy, and get into who he is as an artist, producer, choreographer,his upcoming project “Planéte Des Larmes” + the meaning behind the title.

    Episode 133: Musical Glitter W/ Wuhryn Dumas.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 86:31


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest Wuhryn Dumas, “ and we get into his musical influences, the creation of his EP “Glitter On Fire” + what he looks for in a his dream guy.

    Episode 132: GIRL shut the FU*K UP! W/ AntzInYoPants.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2021 88:01


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest Antwaun Wright, "AntzInYoPants", as they weigh in on the controversy surrounding Lil Nas X and discuss homophobia and transphobia within the Black Community.

    Episode 131: N!gg@s be BROKE!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2021 71:39


    On this week's episode the guys discuss splitting the bill + being honest about your finances, deleting photos of your ex off social media + one thing they'd change if they could date themselves. 

    Episode 130: This is for MJ.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2021 75:36


    On this week's episode the guys give MJ Rodriguez for “flowers” for her Emmy nomination, the importance of having more trans-representation in television, and a break down on the craziest story from riding the train in NYC.

    Episode 129: Summer Tings.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2021 71:19


    On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the fellas talk Pride Month, Miami, the Durand Bernarr concert, and LEGENDARY. #HappyPrideMonth

    Episode 128: Bittersweet Pose.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2021 65:02


    HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! On this week's episode of HIM Podcast the guys give a recap of their favorite moments of MOBI Fest, the Pose finale, and LEGENDARY.

    Episode 127:

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2021 59:05


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the fellas address the fake woke, talk Pose, and celebrate Aaron’s (Niece) graduation.

    Episode 126: Word 2 Janet.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2021 74:27


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk what they would do with only 6 months to live, more feedback on the current season of Pose, and Billy Porter’s HIV announcement.

    Episode 125: Legendary Mix.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2021 74:00


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk new CDC guidelines, Porsha Williams, new Nicki Minaj, and season two of Legendary. 

    Episode 124: Pose The Conversation.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2021 65:39


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk POSE, highlight mental health awareness month, and share their love for their mothers! 

    Episode 123: N!gg@s Don’t Be Listenin’

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2021 59:00


    On this week’s episode the guys discuss first date questions, cutting off toxic friends, fuck boys ways, and a small check in.

    Episode 122: Ready To Grow.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2021 67:00


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss personal growth, accountability, and respond to an ASK HIM listener question. 

    Episode 121: X Marks The Spot.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2021 72:58


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys chat about hot topics such as Saweetie + Quavo, bills passed against trans youth, Donnie McClurkin, and Lil Nas X.

    Episode 120: A Helping Hand.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2021 71:10


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss cheating, substance abuse, and mental illness.

    Episode 119: No More Public Fun.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 69:17


    On this week’s episode of the HIM Podcast, the guys discuss the most embarrassing text/email they have sent out. Onlyfans placing a ban on users posting public-sex content, the impact “Pose” has had on the world and the hits and misses during this year's Grammys.

    Episode 118: Daddy's Lessons.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2021 61:02


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys reflect on lessons learned, open up about their fathers, and respond to an Ask HIM listener question.

    Episode 117: Expected Apologies.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2021 68:18


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss apologies, accountability, and interracial dating.

    Episode 116: Eliminate Threads.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 73:13


    On this week’s episode of HIM podcast, the guys talk about creating healthy friendship, posting  private text threads on social media, respecting boundaries, and sexual harassment.

    Episode 115: the DL agenda.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 77:59


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys celebrate Aaron & LaQuann's first year anniversary on the podcast. We do a check-in, and tackle the question "Are DL Men apart of the LGBTQ+ community?"

    Episode 114: ask THEM.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 83:51


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys offer up their advice for questions from listeners.

    Episode 113: Respectful D!ck.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 85:50


    On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss hot topics, consent, and sexual harassment.

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