The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you. I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust. Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, wife, and working mom. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked. I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ, Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage, Feel authentic connection without the secrets, And move forward with strength and dignity, Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and your marriage can be even better than it was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your life and marriage better than it’s ever been!
Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach, Spiritual Healing, Christian Marriage Counseling
Sister, this episode has the MOST downloads of all time, so I know that it resonates with many of you! Are you stuck in an affair and wondering how to get out? Who can I talk to, and where can I go where I won't be judged or feel shame? Let me reassure you now- not everyone gets access to your heart and story! Today I dive into the very FIRST step of finding freedom, and that is finding and creating safe spaces in your life. These could be by yourself, but I also give a few ideas about safe people and safe physical places. Until you feel safe, you'll stay stuck and unable to move forward towards freedom. Remember: you are not alone! I pray you experience the love of Christ! xoxo, Kristina Next steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect: www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6 Join our safe and growing community- www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
I have ONE 1:1 coaching spot available- Let's connect! (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Friend, if you follow my Instagram stories (@kristinajoycoaching) then you know I've begun working with a fitness coach. I've worked with personal trainers before, but in this season of life, it's hitting differently. Having walked through several years of a healing journey, I found so many similarities between the personal growth of my heart + soul and the growth of my physical health. So today, let me be a tour guide that tells you what's ahead. I pray you're encouraged and motivated to take YOUR next right step. I'm cheering for you! Always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect: www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6 Join our safe and growing community- www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
I have ONE 1:1 coaching spot available- Let's connect! (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Sister, today's episode is unique because I want you to think about sharing it with a friend. Is there something you wish your friend knew about your marriage or affair? Or is there something you want them to understand now that it's in your past? These are my top 8 things I wished my friends knew before, during, and after my infidelity. I pray they help you begin a conversation and reconcile a relationship. SHAME wants to keep you hiding. I'm here to help you expose what's in the dark so you can begin to walk in Truth and freedom. Always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect: www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6 Join our safe and growing community- www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
I have TWO 1:1 coaching spots available- Let's connect! (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Friend, I'm getting honest here and sharing a few of the lies I believed during and after my affair. In my healing journey, I've learned to 1) become aware of my thoughts and 2) repent of the lies I come into agreement with. SHAME wants to keep you hiding. I'm here to help you expose what's in the dark so you can begin to walk in Truth and freedom. Always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Join our safe and growing community- www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
I still have TWO coach-in-your-back-pocket spots in October! Let's connect! (https://forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Have you ever stopped to consider the thoughts and stories you let race through your brain all day? Can you answer the question, What are you thinking about your marriage? Or the affair? Or yourself? I want to challenge you to consider that your thoughts about a situation are not Truth. But you CAN pause and consider- are these thoughts serving me well? Are they Truth? Or should I gain some clarification and more insight? Your thoughts shape your life. It's time you start listening to them. And always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) (https://forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Join our safe and growing community- http://facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
I'm opening up THREE coach-in-your-back-pocket spots in October! Let's connect! (https://forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) One of the greatest pieces of advice I've been given on my journey is: Honesty is kindness. It took me a while to grow into that, but when I did, it radically changed things for me. It all starts with honesty. Yes, speaking truth instead of lies, but also speaking UP instead of hiding in fear and shame. Who do you need to be more honest with right now? And always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) (https://forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Join our safe and growing community- http://facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
ONE spot left to begin coaching in September! Let's connect HERE! One of the biggest lessons I learned after confessing my affair and beginning my healing journey was that God wasn't interested in an agenda. He was not in a hurry for me to heal. He was after my heart, and He wanted me to slow down enough to hear Him. So what did I do while 3 kids were in school and the baby was napping? I sat at my kitchen table and opened my Bible. I didn't have a plan to follow. I just listened for what He had been highlighting to me, and I looked for it in His Word. And He spoke to me in His Word. And sister- He wants to speak to you too. Let's dig in! Always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) Join our safe and growing community- http://facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
ONE spot left for coaching in September! Let's connect HERE! One thing I hear often is some rendition of "I really miss my affair partner, and what can I do about it?" First I'm here to tell you- it's a completely normal response. And the good news is, you don't have to stay stuck in that feeling! Let's chat today about how your feelings stem from your thoughts, and your thoughts come from an identity issue. Always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) Join our safe and growing community Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Looking for immediate coaching? Let's connect HERE! When was the last time you "stopped to smell the roses"...or the dandelions? What's the big deal about these weeds anyway? And what's that got to do with healing from an affair?? Today, I open up my journal from the season after ending my affair, and I share a way that God spoke to my heart through a flower. I guarantee you'll never look at a dandelion, or yourself, the same way again! Always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) Join our safe and growing community Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Looking for immediate coaching? Let's connect! The question that prompted today's episode came from real people with real stories. We live in a world with hurt. And unmet needs. And people who are willing to meet those voids - whether or not they should. But what do we do with the butterflies in our stomach? How do we handle the compliments that are truly flattering? Let's chat, sister! And always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) Join our safe and growing community Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Looking for immediate coaching? Let's connect! I was an adult when I learned "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" was a lie! Words have the power to bring life or death. And that goes for the words you speak as well as the thoughts you think. So today, let's chat about how words can change your perception of a situation, your health and the health of those around you, and your identity. That's a HUGE one. I'd love to know your answers: What labels do you need to let go of? Or what identity do you need to begin living out? Come let me know in the community! And always remember: You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect (It's FREE!) Join our safe community Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Sister- I am THRILLED to be back with you! Summer was a time of great refreshment, and I'm excited to get back into routine and hanging out with you each week. In this episode, I wanted to break down what I mean when I say Intimacy After Infidelity. It's important to know because that's what I'll be talking about and coaching about! So come hang out with me in all the different ways! And remember, You are not alone! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next Steps: Interested in coaching? Let's Connect Join our safe community Email me directly- kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Friend, I am so grateful Jesus was a human just like us. That means I can study Scripture to see what He did, and I want to do that too! One thing Jesus did was have regular times of REST. He got alone. He prayed. He listened. He enjoyed God's presense, on purpose. I'm so excited to do that too. Stay tuned for future episodes of Intimacy After Infidelity- after this season of resting in God! As always, you can still message me and find me in the Facebook Community. You are not alone!
What is it that you really want? Could you describe your ideal life and family in detail? If not, it's time to get serious about dreaming with God again! "Your body cannot go where your brain has never been." Today is all about coloring in the picture of your life and marriage. Begin to tell your brain what is safe and familiar and what YOU choose to pursue. No more letting old patterns control you. Come share your answers in our community! You are worth dreaming with Daddy, my sister! And always remember: You are not alone! Community on Facebook Email me directly
Do you cringe at words like boundaries or rules? I do! But when I reflected on that because I was looking for a new M.O., I realized, I need structure and support. Ahh, that feels better. Last episode we talked about a plant and how we can choose success in thriving instead of failure to thrive. Now, let's dig deeper into some practical applications of what that might look like for you! Come share your structure in our community! You are a beautiful and precious flower, my sister! And always remember: You are not alone! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
Do you cringe at words like boundaries or rules? I do! But when I reflected on that because I was looking for a new M.O., I realized, I need structure and support. Ahh, that feels better. Today, let's dive into an example of a plant and how we can choose success in thriving instead of failure to thrive. Next week, we'll dig deeper into some practical applications of what that might look like for you. You are a beautiful and precious flower, my sister! And always remember: You are not alone! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
Last episode, we talked about getting out of your head and taking back control of your mind and thoughts. Today, I think it's equally as important to talk about our bodies. God made our bodies and called them very good. But do you ever struggle with wanting to go back to your former way of living? The one that didn't honor your body how God intended? Join me as I walk through a few Scripture passages and remind us of what God says. Stop focusing on the past. We have a new nature, created to be holy and righteous! How else do YOU care for your physical body? And always remember: You are not alone! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
Do you ever catch yourself thinking or doing something you wish you could stop? Do you ever feel stuck in a rut like you can't get out of your head? I'm coming at you today with tons of practical tips on changing that! Let's work to rewire your brain so that you can create the habits and life you actually want. I'd love to hear what your next step is! And always remember: You are not alone! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
Imagine if Jesus showed up at your house today and sat down with you. What if He asked you, "Do you want to be healed? Do you want to get well?" How would you answer? Unfortunately, the only "right" answer is the honest one. But there is HOPE for healing and forgiveness in Jesus's name! And always remember: You are not alone! JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat- Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
I had a mentor ask me a really great question: What do you think you need to do next? And my own answer really surprised me. I needed a plan in several areas of my life, because without a plan, I was less likely to get anything done. I realized this applied to exercise. To business. To time with God. And even to my marriage! So are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? What do you need to do next? Listen as I share my 6 tips for both your personal and marriage growth! Always remember: You are not alone! JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
For the first time ever, I'm giving you a sneak peek into a weekly coffee chat I hosted. You women bring so much experience and wisdom to the table, and I'm so grateful to be on this journey with you! We talked about: 1. When an affair affects your family relationships 2. What has helped you grow spiritually on your healing journey? 3. Having an experience of Christ's love- do we have to walk through a traumatic experience? 4. Christ meets us in our anxiety! Always remember: You are not alone! JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
It's that time of year! Roses, hearts, love, teddy bears and chocolate, and- emotional overload. During the affair, holidays were always a disconnecting experience. I disconnected from God, disconnected from my husband, and disconnected from myself. Today, I choose different! Get ready for some mindset work AND practical application! It's time we commit to living in truth, communicating our desires, and working on ourselves. Remember to come tell me what you're changing this week! And always remember: You are not alone! JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
Maybe you've heard the verse "There is no more condemnation" (Romans 8:1) or "Throw off your former way of life" (Ephesians 4:22), but for some reason, the past keeps popping up in your mind and blocking your vision. Even after I was on my healing journey, I still wrestled with everything pointing back to "the affair"! I want to share a sneak peak into a counseling session I had during that season and share a few reflection questions I learned then. Join me on the daily journey of shedding your shame to live in true freedom! And always remember: You are not alone! JOIN US for our weekly coffee chat! Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly
You were created for connection. But somewhere along the line, your Enemy tried to steal it. He tried to disconnect you from others, from God, and even from yourself. But not today! Let's chat about what happens when the Enemy lies to you and why community is really that important. You are not alone! JOIN US for our coffee chat and Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Tuesdays at 8:30 pm EST. Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly Grab Fervent on Amazon (or Audible)
Jumping in today to a difficult question and answer- Is it okay if I still miss my affair partner? And the (short) answer is- yes! But then I would challenge you to dig in a bit deeper. -How are you giving yourself space to ride out the emotions like you ride out a snow storm? -What are you believing about the affair? About the partner? About yourself? About your marriage? -Have you ever written out your whys for why you chose to end the affair? And why you chose to commit to your marriage? You are not alone! JOIN US for our coffee chat and Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Tuesdays at 8:30 pm EST. Ask me for the link! Community on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me directly Grab Fervent on Amazon (or Audible)
Do you know you know you should be praying for yourself and your marriage, but you just can't drag your feet to your prayer closet anymore? Have you started to think that maybe your sin really is blocking your prayers from heaven? You are not alone! JOIN ME for our Fervent book study by Priscilla Shirer! Starting THIS Tuesday, January 9 at 8:30 pm EST. Just ask me for the link... Connect on Facebook Connect on Instagram Email me Grab the book on Amazon (or Audible)
Looking for accountability? Let's connect over HERE! You are not alone! Need access to a coach on demand? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can support you! Ever been part of an accountability group? What was your experience? I've had a few great ones, but I've also been part of a few that fed my shame and guilt. Join me today as I look at a few ideas of what accountability should NOT look like and also some things it needs to have. I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy
Happy 6 months Podcast Family! Today I take a few minutes to reflect on how I decided to share my story publically, a few things I've learned along the way, and some advice on whether or not you should go public as well. Have you ever wished you had immediate access to a coach who gets it? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy PS- Did you know your brain physically heals as you share your story in a safe space? COME join our FREE community HERE! You are not alone!
Want a coach who gets it in your back pocket? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you! One of the first questions in my healing journey was around my identity: who am I now? And more importantly, who does God say I am? So often we look at what we DO for a job or what we accomplish. But what if my identity isn't about my actions? That's great news for those of us who have struggled! Join me today as I use Colossians 3 to answer those questions and more! Where are you? Who are you? And what can I do based off that? I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Join community HERE. You are not alone!
Want a coach who gets it in your back pocket? Email me at kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com and let's see how I can best support you! Sister, Do you resonate with this? Sometimes you don't need another 3 point sermon; you just need someone to sit and hold your heart. Today, I just want to sit and share some thoughts I've had while reading a life-changing book, Quenched. I pray that these thoughts challenge you in the deepest parts to know God more fully and get a clearer picture of how He sees you. (Hint: It's NOT with disgust!) I pray you feel loved and seen, and that this encourages your healing journey. You were rescued and set FREE! It's time to walk in the freedom. Find Jessica Harris's book Quenched HERE Follow Jessica on Instagram @beggarsdaughter Find community HERE
Let's be honest, healing is sort of like an onion. Just when you think it's going to be smooth sailing, then it's time to peel back another layer. Today, I share about a time I almost relapsed, but this time I had a plan. And I had wise counsel who almost made me cry on an airplane. So let's shed that shame and lean in to the hard and holy work of taking every thought captive. Check out the Facebook community where we can be that safe space for the scary moments! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
I get it: the day starts, you get everyone out the door, you're off to work, then you're home for homework, dinner, baths, and bed, and then you crash into bed with any ounce of energy you have left. And for what? To get up and do it again tomorrow? I promise you, friend- there IS a better way! Today, let's talk about eliminating hurry, and creating space for the things that matter. You matter. Your marriage matters. Your children matter. Your time matters. Let's take them back instead of letting the temptation of hurry take control. Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Listen up: God used my passion for Network Marketing to rescue me from the affair. What?! How's that for a business strategy? Today I share the part of my story where I chose to be around leveled up leaders who are determined to make an impact for the Kingdom. I share the lessons they taught me and how it applies to you, too. Now if you are a network marketer who wants to know the upcoming 2024 trends along with how to make a Kingdom-Impact with your business, I have a treat for you! Monique Scrip & Becky Baxter will be hosting a FREE masterclass all about how to use Kingdom strategies to build your business. We would love for you to join us and share with with your teams! Register here: https://scripandbaxter.myflodesk.com/freemasterclass I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy PS- Hear my interview on Monique's podcast! Episode 95: Prioritizing your Marriage Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
What do you get when you squeeze an orange? What do you get when you are put under pressure? Not a joke here- whatever is inside, comes out! Today let's talk about triggers, the emotions that get squeezed to the surface, and how we need God's Truth to cover it all. Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on too! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
What do you think about when someone says "God is Father?" What do you see when you picture God's facial expression towards you? Then what if I held a mirror up to your parenting? Eeek! I felt the same way. As I learned how loving, kind, gracious, and compassionate God is towards me, His child, I couldn't help but think about how I parent my own children! So join me on this parenting journey where I seek to model God's parenting style in my own home! Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on too! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Grab your journal for today's episode- it's filled with juicy questions and tips on creating the habits you need to actually reach your goals. Whether you have a goal for yourself, your marriage, or your job, learn the secrets to set yourself up for success. Oh and don't forget to check out the Facebook community where we can cheer you on! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Can you relate? You sit down to read the Bible and it's silent. You don't know where to start. You aren't sure you believe it anyway. So much of it is confusing, and it probably doesn't even apply to you today! Even though I was raised in the Christian world, the Bible felt dry for most of my life. It wasn't until my affair confession that I finally got serious about God's Word and what it meant for me. Can I share some of my favorite tips with you today? Let's dig into God's Love Letters together ❤ I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
One thing I learned from my coach early on in my journey was that being decisive helps expedite your healing process. Make the decision, choose your choice, and start walking. The worst thing you can do is sit in indecision and wait and sit on the fence while time passes. So let's talk today about what decisions you need to make, AND what else is impacted by your choices. I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION Episodes I mentioned: Ep 4: Radical Honesty- 4 Ways To Rebuild Trust In Your Marriage Ep 6: Get to Know Yourself and Your Needs
Friend, I'm going to spare you the long introduction today. I did something I never dreamed I was capable of. And then I finally hit my rock bottom. BUT GOD. Jesus was so incredibly kind and gracious, and he rescued me from my own mess. He pulled me out of the fire. He saved me from all of the damage I caused and was about to cause. So please be blessed by my story. Be encouraged, you are not alone. Be strengthened, that you need to make things right with such urgency as a life or death situation. And be bold- please let me know how I can help. I love you. I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
How often do you use the word compassion? What about self-compassion? What if I told you it was critical to your healing journey?! Today I dive into what it is, what it says about God, and what it means for you, today. Grab your warm drink and favorite sweater; you'll want to be comfy cozy for this one! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
I was super convicted this week about a situation I should have been covering in prayer. But instead, I found myself passive, saying, "God knows my heart, and He'll work however He wants!" Woah! So today I'm diving into what makes makes us apathetic and flat-line in our prayer life, along with some suggestions for a refresh. God answers prayer! And your prayer life, or lack of, is evidence of your belief. Join me in upping your prayer game, sister! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Hey friend, Do you ever feel stuck in a rut spiritually? We all do. Maybe it's a dry season. Or God feels especially quiet. Or you're trying to rebuild your relationship from the ground up. So where do you start?? Let me tell you about 3 life-giving habits that I'm growing in and how they'll help you, too. Maybe you've heard of one or two, but commiting to all 3 of these is a powerhouse to focusing on your rebuiding your relationship with God. You want to improve a relationship? It takes time and intentionality. Which one can you work on this week? I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Sister, Do you ever read the Bible and think, "Yes! That's so me!" Or the opposite, "There is NO way I could do that!" You may fall in one of those two camps today as we look at Psalm 105:1. Maybe you're ready to "Let the whole world know what God has done," or maybe you're still wondering when God is going to show up in your story. Either way, this verse has 3 commands that apply to all of us. And I'd love to hear your takeaway, too! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Today I referenced: Episode 8 on Lamenting Episode 6 and the SPIES acronym Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Friend, Did you remember there's a war going on all around us? Satan is out for your family, your attention, and any part of your life he can get. But the good news is- you are not alone! Habakkuk wrote a book in the Bible about his conversation with God when his country was at war. And God told him it was about to go from bad to worse! But isn't our God good- He wove hope into the entire conversation along with reminders of truth about who He was and is. So if your situation feels so bleak and discouraging right now, grab your Bible and find Habakkuk- God has a word for you today! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Hey Sister-Friend, When was the last time you checked your phone settings and saw the amount of time you spend on social media? Does that number shock you? Have you ever thought about how much social media takes from your life- time, energy, attention? Intimacy? Let's get real, and really honest, about the potential threats that social media plays in our lives today. It's time to get serious about what we let into our homes, our lives, and our hearts. And if you've been considering laying down your social apps at Jesus's feet- I'm right there with ya! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: Join the community, catch me live, get immediate support: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Come join the NEW community! You are not alone, sister. Join like-minded women from around the world, looking to encourage, inspire, and rebuild their marriage. www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Hey Friend, Have you ever searched for the "definition of cognitive dissonance"? I hadn't either- until I learned that was the phrase I needed in order to explain this terrible feeling I had. The things I preached, the values I held to, the Bible stories I believed in- none of it lined up with how I was choosing to live my life during my affair. So today I break it down for you: What is it, how do you know if you have it, and how do you get out of it?! I'd love to hear your thoughts after the show! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: NEW community! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Come join the NEW community! Find accountability, laughter, and connection with Jesus-loving women just like you. You are not alone! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Hey Friend, Do you find yourself fresh out of a confession about an affair? Are you overwhelmed with what you should be doing now? Everybody you might talk to has a different opinion, or maybe you don't feel safe talking to anybody! (And I don't blame you!) Here I talk about the 3 things I did immediately that helped in our healing journey. These things anchored me, grounded us, and were critical to our emotional health and healing. I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: NEW community! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity WEBSITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION
Come join the NEW community! Come laugh, learn, and connect with Jesus-loving women just like you. You are not alone
Come join the NEW community! Come laugh, learn, and connect with Jesus-loving women just like you. You are not alone
Sister Friend, Are you struggling to rebuild trust with your husband? You're committed to your marriage, but you're not sure exactly what to do or how to keep growing? I remember facing difficult decisions, having hard conversations, and asking what would help us heal the best way possible. So in today's episode, I want to talk about rebuilding trust, prioritizing your marriage, and making difficult decisions. Your actions need to line up with your words because you are 100% committed to truth and trust-building now. Let's dig in together- I pray this blesses you, and I'd love to help however I can! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Next steps: NEW community! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
Girlfriend! Grab your favorite (non-alcoholic) drink- I can't wait for you to meet my friend Ashley! She is a Sober Coach for people trying to break unhealthy drinking patterns, and she has a similar passion like me for helping women find true freedom in their life! What drew me to Ashley when we first met, was that we used similar language: addiction, shame, labels, recovery, freedom. But while I talk about the affair addiction, she talks about it with substances. What a beautiful community that understands the need to put God first and find healing! In today's conversation, we talk about: True freedom from the issue and not "willing" it away. The role your brain plays when your body is doing "new" things. Your identity and how the words you use to label yourself can empower you or keep you stuck. Pull a chair up to the table- let's dig in! I pray you experience the love of Christ today! xoxo, KristinaJoy Connect with Ashley: Instagram: @ashley.sobercoach Bio: www.holyhopecoaching.com Next steps: NEW community! www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Email me: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
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