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In today's episode, Colleen breaks down how the language you use—especially when it seems neutral or logical—can silently sabotage your ability to change. You'll hear why “I just need to stop drinking” is actually a negative thought (and how it keeps your brain stuck in the problem instead of moving toward the solution). She explains how to recognize these mental error codes, shift into a more empowered mindset, and start generating real momentum—even with something as small as making it to a yoga class.   Key Takeaways:   Your brain can't solve for what you don't want—it needs clear, positive direction. “Stopping drinking” isn't a goal; it's the absence of a goal. It keeps your nervous system in a stress response. Negative thinking often shows up in normal, subtle ways: “I don't know” “I can't" “What if I don't…” Every time you focus on the negative outcome, You Reinforce It. Instead, swap in positive, do-focused thoughts like: “What I do know is...” "What I can do right now is..." "When I do ____, I'll feel ____."   Action Steps:   Notice the hidden “negatives” in your self-talk—especially around alcohol, habits, and percieved identity. When you catch one, pause and ask: "What do I want instead? What's the positive version of this thought?" Practice shifting your language in small, daily moments—like going to yoga, packing lunch, or regulating your nervous system. Remind yourself: Your brain is a powerful problem-solver—but only when you feed it the right kind of input. If you are ready to get support from a community of women who are co-creating this change with intention and clarity— Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL.    Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    Find me on TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?   Transcript  

Text Me!Episode 221: Shedding Alcohol Identities with Aneta MruzIn episode 221 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Aneta Mruz to the show. They discuss shedding old identities from their past drinking selves and creating new ones in sober life. Aneta Mruz is a change coach and energy practitioner. She shares her nine-year sobriety journey and insights of what she has learned along the way with long-term sobriety. What you will learn in this episode: Exploring the concept of false identities we create during active drinking days, like the "party girl" personaDiscussion of how trauma and childhood experiences shape our tendencies to become "chameleons" adapting to othersAnnetta shares her sober journeyThe powerful understanding that "we are not our thoughts" applies to addiction recovery and mental health Three key tips for creating a new identity: awareness, understanding that thought changes chemistry, and recognizing everything is just a storyThank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Connect with Aneta:Instagram WebsiteFollow Courtney for More Inspiration:Website → www.courtneyrecovered.comRemember: You are strong. You are capable. You are not alone. Keep thriving! Thank you for listening!Join the Soberity Circle today with a 4-day Free trial. Ready to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In today's episode, Colleen shares a personal reflection she recorded nearly a year ago—but it's just as relevant now, especially if you're feeling stuck, off-balance, or like a hot mess who should be further along by now. This episode isn't about getting it all together—it's about what to do when you don't. You'll hear how she used the exact tools from the program to navigate the emotional chaos of working too much, losing old routines post-divorce, and telling herself the story that she wasn't making any progress.   You'll learn how to decode those familiar thoughts, and shift out of judgment into grounded, aligned action. Because stuck is a story. Balance is a feeling. And sometimes the most powerful way to move forward… IS TO STOP TRYING SO HARD!   Key Takeaways:   These are just thoughts—not facts. They're how we explain our emotional state, not what's actually happening. “I'm stuck,”  “I'm out of balance” “I'm not making progress”   The real issue isn't imbalance. It's overwhelm. When your output is high but your results are low, you're probably ignoring your body's signals. Emotional sobriety means listening to those signals instead of overriding them.   Remember this: Your brain will find evidence for whatever you believe. So if you keep saying “I'm not making progress,” you'll feel more discouraged and stuck. Flip the script by doing one small thing—and call it progress.   If you are ready to get support from a community of women who are co-creating this change with intention and clarity— Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL.    Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    Find me on TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer  —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?   Transcript  

Come hang out with Kelsey, Christy, and Meade in our community, here:  https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community We are so excited to share Kelsey Green's testimony with you today. Kelsey is a beloved member of the But Jesus Drank Wine leadership team and someone who played a key role in laying the foundation of our community. In this episode, Kelsey shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming alcohol dependency and how her faith in Jesus Christ brought radical transformation to her life. She opens up about the hidden struggle behind her drinking, her early efforts to seek help, and the life-changing moment she discovered this very podcast—a moment that shifted everything. That encounter with faith led her back to Jesus, and into a life filled with peace, joy, and purpose like she'd never known before. As a mom of twin boys, Kelsey's story is a powerful testimony to the difference surrendering to Christ can make in every area of life. This conversation also explores the power of community, the beauty of real-life friendships formed through the BJDW podcast, and how vulnerability opens the door to true healing. If you're seeking freedom—from alcohol, shame, or the weight of trying to keep it all together—this episode is for you.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: How Kelsey's sobriety journey began with honesty and a podcast The role of faith in breaking free from alcohol How motherhood and sobriety have shaped her relationship with Jesus The importance of vulnerability and grace in the healing process Why community and real connection are vital for long-term transformation How the presence of God brings peace, clarity, and lasting purpose Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

In today's episode, we're flipping the script on what it means to “manifest change” when it comes to your relationship with alcohol. Every habit you have was built through attention, repetition, and belief. You already know how to manifest. You've done it before. The question is: can you do it on purpose? If you've ever told yourself “I know better and won't do that again", but you keep doing it anyway, this episode is a must-listen. You'll learn how shame hijacks your perception, why logic won't get you out of a drinking spiral, and the exact method Colleen uses (and teaches) to help high-achieving women build trust with themselves again—starting with the smallest, most overlooked wins. Key Takeaways  Your Brain is Always Manifesting The more you believe it, the more your brain proves it—even if it's outdated. Whispers Matter Thoughts like “I've had enough” or “I could skip it” are seeds of change. You don't need perfection—just awareness. Focus Fuels Change What you pay attention to grows. Focus on control, not brokenness, and your brain will follow. Behavior Builds Belief You don't have to believe in change yet—just act. Repeated small shifts create confidence over time. Use Your Memory Replay your wins and near-wins. Remembering them helps your brain repeat them. Let's STOP trying to figure it out and START feeling our way through. If you are ready to get support from a community of women who are co-creating this change with intention and clarity— Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL.    Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    Find me on: TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer   —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  Transcript: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/12lE8GIoZE3tDkUIOR-v85MpHSAOQAP7j?usp=sharing 

Text Me!Episode 220: 3 Tips to Get Clean and Sober in Your Twenties w/ Esme In episode 220 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Esme to the show. This is a listener's story! Esme shares her powerful journey of getting clean at 27 after using drugs and alcohol since age 12. She candidly discusses how she navigated her cultural expectations around drinking, rebuilt her social life, and found her own unique pathway to long-term recovery.Esme is 5 years clean and sober. She got clean and sober at 27 after using since I was 12. Esme tried a lot of different meetings NA, AA, smart recovery, EA, and recovery dharma, to name a few. She knew she didn't want to live like that anymore, so she promised to quit. She hasn't looked back since.What you will learn in this episode: Starting drugs and alcohol at age 12 within a culture where drinking was normalized at family gatheringsGetting sober during COVID through virtual NA meetingsDealing with family questioning her sobriety and choosing honesty over making excusesTaking charge of her social life by suggesting alcohol-free activities rather than waiting for bar invitationsExploring different recovery pathways, including NA, Recovery Dharma, and Kaiser's addiction medicine programThree essential tips for getting sober: building a strong support group, practicing mindfulness, and healing generational trauma*If you're a listener who has been sober for at least one year and want to share your story on the podcast, please reach out via Instagram or email Courtney. Thank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Resources Mentioned:The Body Keeps ScoreConnect with Esme:InstagramFollow Courtney for More Inspiration:Website → www.courtneyrecovered.comRemember: You are strong. You are capable. You are not alone. Keep thriving! Thank you for listening!Ready to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In today's episode, we explore a powerful lightbulb moment from inside the Next Chapter program—one that's helping women actually enjoy the mindful drinking experiment and finally feel real momentum. This is for you if you've meant to try mindful drinking but skipped it, overdid it, or didn't enjoy the process. That's not a failure—it's a sign you were missing one critical piece: community support. The breakthrough? Practicing moderation in real time, with real people. Learning how to feel a buzz without slipping into old habits. Releasing perfectionism. And realizing this is about connection, not control. Key Takeaways: ✨ You can't rewire a drinking habit by yourself Habits form in context—and need to be unlearned in context too. ✨ Mindful drinking is about presence, not perfection When the goal is connection, the whole thing becomes lighter and more doable. ✨ There is a therapeutic dose of alcohol—but you have to feel it Alcohol is biphasic: small amounts relax and uplift, but more than that backfires. Finding your line is everything. ✨ You're not failing—you're under-supported If you've tried and didn't follow through, it's not a personal flaw. You just needed more scaffolding.

In today's episode, you'll explore one of the most common patterns that keeps high-achieving women stuck: worrying about what other people might think. Colleen breaks down how the fear of being misunderstood, judged, or perceived a certain way can quietly derail your growth, your boundaries, and your goals. You'll learn why managing other people's emotions never works—and what to do instead when your nervous system wants to retreat. Key Takeaways Fear of what others think is a distraction from your purpose When you're focused on being perceived the "right" way, you're no longer rooted in your own truth. This is emotional disconnection in disguise. Trying to manage someone else's emotions doesn't serve either of you When you avoid hard conversations or withhold your real message to protect someone else's feelings, you rob them of the opportunity to grow—and yourself of the opportunity to lead. Projection keeps you stuck in self-doubt What you think others might be thinking is often just a reflection of your own unhealed beliefs. These projections block clarity and reinforce old stories that no longer serve you.   Action Steps Pause the next time you find yourself adjusting your behavior to avoid being misunderstood. Notice what you're trying to prevent. Ask: What do I know is true, even if someone else doesn't like it? Take ownership of your decisions. If you're wavering, ask: What choice would I make if I trusted myself fully? Stop waiting to be seen as “nice,” “reasonable,” or “agreeable” before you act. What if clarity and alignment are more important than approval? Speak your truth. Not to convince. Not to control. Just to honor the version of you who's ready to rise. Homework Create the time for Self-Reflection. Once you're there, ask yourself: Where are you hesitating to lead or speak honestly because you're afraid of how it will be received? What would shift if you stopped managing their response—and trusted your own? Listen for your response and acknowledge that awareness.

Text Me!Episode 219: Gray Area Drinking: The Hidden Struggle You Need to Know AboutIn episode 219 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen discusses Gray Area Drinking. Courtney breaks down what gray area drinking is, how to recognize it, and how to take back control of your relationship with alcohol without waiting for a crisis.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The definition of gray area drinkingSigns you might be a gray area drinkerThe impact alcohol has on mental and emotional well-beingHow to take steps toward an alcohol-free life (without pressure or labels)Thank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 127 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Resources Mentioned:Get the Book: Grab Your Copy HereJoin the Sobriety Circle Community: Join HereDownload the Free "Sober Not Boring" Calendar: Get Your Copy Work 1:1 with Courtney: Apply HereJoin the Soberity Circle today with a 4-day Free trial. Ready to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In this reflective episode, Colleen shares a personal moment from a particularly full chapter in her life—a season of growth, transition, and pushing hard to bring her program to life. What began as a weekend packed with work turned into a deeper realization about brain fog, creative blocks, and the quiet wisdom of the body. If you've ever tried to think your way through exhaustion or override your energy in the name of getting things done, this one's for you. It's a reminder that alignment matters more than output—and that sometimes, the clearest signal you'll get is the moment your mind starts to go fuzzy. Key Takeaways:   Brain Fog Isn't the Problem—It's the Message It's not a sign to push harder—it's a signal to pause and re-sync. Your body knows before your brain catches up. Fear and Perfectionism Slow You Down Overplanning, overthinking, and trying to get it “just right” can block creativity. You can reclaim flow by choosing presence over performance. Creative Energy Comes From Connection Movement, nature, and space to feel are where the best ideas come from. The most powerful content is felt, not forced. Ask the Right Questions to Get the Right Answers “How do I want to feel?” “What can I let go of to feel that way?” Let your body lead—and let your brain follow. Homework: Notice where you're overriding your body in service of “getting things done.” What's one task, story, or expectation you can release this week? And what feeling do you want to invite in its place? Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  Transcript: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/12lE8GIoZE3tDkUIOR-v85MpHSAOQAP7j?usp=sharing  

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  Stephanie Ziebell shares her personal journey to sobriety and faith, highlighting the transformation that came when she embraced God's grace. A wife, mother of four, attorney, and Christian sobriety advocate, Stephanie knows what it's like to wrestle with addiction and the internal conflict it brings. After years of struggling with alcohol, she found true freedom and now dedicates her life to helping others do the same.  As the founder of Radiant in Battle, an Instagram community with nearly 40,000 followers, Stephanie provides faith-based encouragement and practical tools for those on the path to sobriety. Throughout this conversation, Stephanie opens up about the challenges of being stuck in the over-drinking cycle, the importance of honesty, and how finding a supportive community and turning to God led to a new, more fulfilling life. She discusses the internal battle of wanting to drink, the exhaustion it caused, and how sobriety has given her a fresh perspective on life.  If you're navigating sobriety or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a powerful message of hope, resilience, and divine transformation. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The importance of honesty and vulnerability in overcoming addiction, and how Stephanie learned to let go of shame. How sobriety has allowed Stephanie to rediscover joy and clarity, and how she shifted from selfishness to selflessness. The role of community and support in recovery, and how finding like-minded people can make all the difference. How Stephanie has used her faith to transform past regrets into purpose, and the deep connection between faith and freedom from alcohol.  Stephanie's story is a testament to the power of faith, community, and the strength we all have to overcome addiction and live a transformed life. Connect with Stephanie: Instagram: @radiantinbattle Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  https://a.co/d/fTvdTw6 Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

In this episode, Colleen reflects on a quote that's been echoing in her mind for weeks: “Yes, I'm full of myself. Who else am I supposed to be full of?” — a line from none other than Matthew McConaughey. It's not just cheeky—it's powerful. Because for so many women, being “full of yourself” has been cast as a flaw, a risk, or something to avoid. Colleen shares how a recent, painful experience of being removed from a coaching community triggered a cascade of old programming: shrink yourself, smooth it over, assume you were too much. But instead of collapsing into shame or over-apologizing, she used the moment as an invitation to reclaim her voice and re-anchor in her purpose. This episode is for the woman who's been playing small to keep others comfortable… the woman who second-guesses herself when she starts to shine… the woman who's done everything "right" and still feels like she's holding back.     Key Takeaways:   1. There's Nothing Wrong with Being Full of Yourself Being full of yourself doesn't mean you're selfish. It means you're rooted in your own worth. We've been taught to downplay our confidence so we don't ruffle feathers—but what if your fullness is exactly what's needed? 2. Managing Other People's Emotions Isn't Your Job It's not your job to make everyone feel okay. Your job is to stay connected to your integrity and your purpose. Worrying about how others perceive you steals energy that could be spent building the life you're here to live. 3. Check Your Response Before You Shrink When you feel triggered or called out, ask: Am I abandoning myself right now to make someone else more comfortable? Self-awareness lets you discern between meaningful feedback and misplaced guilt. 4. True Community Is Built on Emotional Responsibility Real belonging doesn't require shrinking. It requires honesty, self-trust, and mutual respect. You can be a safe space for others without taking on their emotional work—and you deserve relationships where that goes both ways.     Actionable Steps:   ✨ Practice being “full of yourself” today. What would it look like to take up a little more space in your own life? To trust your words, your instincts, your bigness?

Text Me!Episode 218: LOTE: Seasonal Depression and Catching up with the Elledge Sisters In episode 218 of the Sober Vibes podcast, the Elledge sisters return with a new episode of Livin on the El-Ledge, a show within a show.Courtney and Kimberly discuss living with seasonal depression, family health crises, and maintaining sobriety through life's most challenging moments. We explore how the Michigan winter blues affect our mental health and share strategies for coping when sunshine feels like a distant memory.What you will learn in this episode:• Seasonal depression hits hard in Michigan winters, with months of gray skies affecting mood and motivation• Kimberly and Courtney both experienced significant health challenges this winter, with pneumonia, flu, and other illnesses compounding seasonal blues• Navigating parent-child relationships as parents age and facing mortality in healthy ways• The importance of being present and showing up consistently in recovery, even when others still view you through the lens of your pastIf you want Kimmy and Courtney to discuss specific topics or answer questions for this season of the podcast, please send a direct message or email and let us know what you want us to discuss!Thank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Resources Mentioned:Codependent No More Connect with Kim:InstagramFollow Courtney for More Inspiration:Website → www.courtneyrecovered.comRemember: You are strong. You are capable. You are not alone. Keep thriving! Thank you for listening!Join the Soberity Circle today with a 4-day Free trial. Ready to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In today's episode, Colleen shares a powerful fable that illustrates what it really means to rise in the face of difficulty—and why your response to a moment matters more than the moment itself. Whether it's a tech failure, a relapse, a hard conversation, or a sudden life disruption, what defines your trajectory isn't the challenge—it's how you choose to relate to it. Through personal stories of rebuilding her business after major setbacks (including losing everything on Facebook and Instagram overnight), Colleen explains how shifting her perspective became her greatest asset—and how the same principle applies when it comes to changing your relationship with alcohol. If you've ever felt buried by circumstances or stuck in a pattern you can't seem to break, this episode is a reminder that your next version starts with one small shift: how you respond right now. Key Takeaways: 1. Response is Everything The mindset you bring to a problem often determines whether you stay stuck or move forward. It's not about avoiding struggle—it's about how you meet it when it shows up. 2. You Can't Change Your Mind from the Wrong Nervous System State When your body is in fight-or-flight, your thinking will match that frequency. Regulating your nervous system is the gateway to opening your perspective and finding new possibilities. 3. Shame Keeps You Stuck—Connection Sets You Free You don't need to expose your deepest struggles to the whole world, but you do need to be seen somewhere. Healing happens when it feels safe to stop hiding. 4. There's Power in the Pause Before reacting to stress, ask: How do I want to remember responding to this one year from now? That question alone can shift you into a higher version of yourself—one choice at a time. Actionable Steps:

Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  In this episode, we sit down with Blake Roberts, a licensed therapist, writer, podcast host, and speaker based in Nashville, TN. Blake specializes in helping men heal attachment wounds, foster healthy relationships, and learn to trust again. If you're looking for ways to support your husband—or any loved one—who is struggling with addiction, this is a must-listen. Blake offers invaluable insights into the healing process, the power of community, and how to move from self-protection to real connection. Blake shares his personal journey, from navigating a complicated upbringing and battling addiction to finding freedom through therapy, 12-step recovery, and faith.  He opens up about key turning points in his life, including an intensive workshop for sex addiction, his decision to quit drinking, and his unexpected shift from pursuing ministry to becoming a therapist. Blake also introduces his latest project, Three Percent, a community he co-founded to help men develop honesty, vulnerability, and deeper connections.  What You'll Learn in This Episode: How family dynamics shape our emotional and relational patterns The role of addiction, therapy, and faith in Blake's healing journey Why honesty and vulnerability are essential for recovery The impact of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy on self-awareness The mission behind Three Percent and why men need safe spaces for authentic connection Connect with Blake: Substack: More to the Story Podcast: Three Percent Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  https://a.co/d/fTvdTw6 Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

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In today's episode, Colleen dives into the balancing act of self-awareness and how it shapes not just our choices, but our fulfillment. She shares her raw personal journey of realizing that she had built a life that looked great on the outside—checking all the right boxes—but left her feeling empty. Instead of blaming external circumstances, she started asking better questions: Am I actually interested in what I'm doing? Am I feeling truly engaged, or just performing? What do I want more of in my life—and what do I no longer need? This episode is about curiosity, not judgment. If you've ever had a nagging feeling that something isn't quite right, but you can't put your finger on it—this conversation will help you explore the real source of that disconnect and how to gently shift toward what actually energizes you.   Key Takeaways: 1. The Difference Between Interest and Obligation Just because you're good at something doesn't mean you actually enjoy it. Being surrounded by people with shared interests is fulfilling—if those interests are truly yours. The more aligned you are with your own desires, the less effort it takes to engage. 2. When You're Not Fully Present, It's a Sign Feeling distracted or disengaged in a conversation? That's useful data. If you often find yourself “playing along” but not actually excited, that's worth noticing. It doesn't mean you have to ditch people—it means you get to explore what you are really drawn to. 3. Self-Awareness Creates More Meaningful Connections The most fulfilling relationships happen when we are fully ourselves. Instead of trying to force interest in things that don't resonate, consider what does spark curiosity for you. Adjusting your social landscape doesn't have to be dramatic—small shifts in how you spend your time can lead to major fulfillment.     Actionable Steps to Tune into Your Own Interests: ✔ Notice when you feel engaged vs. when you're on autopilot. Is this activity (or person) energizing you—or are you just going through the motions? ✔ Shift from judgment to curiosity. Instead of thinking, I should like this, ask: Do I actually like this? ✔ Give yourself permission to explore. What's something you've always been curious about but haven't pursued? ✔ Take small steps toward what excites you. You don't need to overhaul your entire life—start with one simple shift.   Homework:

Text Me!Episode 217: Using House Therapy and Feng Shui to Support Your Sobriety w/ Amy Babish In episode 217 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Amy Babish to the show and the ladies discuss using Feng Shui to support your Sobriety. As well as ancestral patterns beyond the genetics of addiction.Amy Babish, MA, LPC, ATR-BC, is a somatic expert, house therapist (Feng Shui), Alchemical Family & Systems Constellations facilitator, and licensed therapist with over 20 years of experience. She helps people who've plateaued in therapy and mindset work feel at home in themselves, their bodies, homes, lives, and their lineage. Amy guides you to transmute stuck energy and dissolve intergenerational patterns into clarity, alignment, and a sense of profound belonging. She hosts The Soulful Visionary Podcast, where guests receive attuned processes aligning body, space, and legacy.What you will learn in this episode:• Feng shui principles can help remove stagnant energy associated with drinking patterns• The "Taoist trilogy" includes human, cosmic, and earthbound luck—all affecting recovery• Command position bedroom arrangement helps you see challenges before they arrive• Moving 27 things in your space creates significant energetic shifts• Ancestral constellation work uncovers patterns beyond genetics that influence addictionThank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Resources Mentioned:Simple Shui BookConnect with Amy:WebsiteInstagramFollow Courtney for More Inspiration:Website → www.courtneyrecovered.comRemember: You are strong. You are capable. You are not alone. Keep thriving! Thank you for listening!Join the Soberity Circle today with a 4-day Free trial. Ready to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In today's episode, Colleen shares a powerful perspective shift that can change everything about how you experience drinking—without focusing on drinking at all. Instead of obsessing over how much you drink, the real work is learning how to respond to yourself after you drink. She walks through a personal experience of having a hangover without guilt, shame, or frustration—just curiosity, self-care, and a deep understanding of what led to the decision in the first place. This episode will help you in your journey to break free from the belief that drinking is the problem and show you why emotional inflammation—shame, guilt, and self-judgment—is what actually keeps you stuck. Key Takeaways: The Real Cause of Alcohol Use Disorder (It's Not the Alcohol) The root issue isn't how much you drink—it's how you think about your drinking. The cycle of overdrinking is fueled by guilt, stress, and the belief that you should be doing better. Alcohol use disorder is 90% a thinking problem and only 10% a drinking problem. Why Self-Judgment Keeps You Stuck The perception that you failed after drinking too much triggers stress and hopelessness. The more you believe drinking is a problem, the more your brain craves a way to escape that stress. The key to breaking the cycle isn't drinking less—it's removing the emotional charge from your drinking. How to Have a Hangover Without the Emotional Drama The way you treat yourself after a setback determines what happens next. Self-compassion leads to curiosity and learning, which makes future change easier. The most powerful shift is learning to accept yourself, no matter what. Actionable Steps to Shift Your Mindset About Drinking: 1. Separate Your Drinking from Your Self-Worth Instead of asking, “Why did I do this again?” ask: “What was going on before I made this decision?” Drop the judgment—just gather data and learn from it. 2. Reframe How You Think About Overdrinking Overdrinking isn't a failure—it's information. You don't need to promise yourself you'll “never do this again.” What if nothing has gone wrong? What if this is part of the process? 3. Take Care of Yourself Without Punishment Instead of beating yourself up, create a self-care plan for the next morning: ✅ Drink water, eat nourishing food, and get some fresh air. ✅ Move slowly and give yourself space to rest. ✅ Remind yourself: “I am learning. I am growing. I am okay.” Homework: The next time you wake up feeling regret about drinking, pause and ask: ✔ “What if nothing has gone wrong?” ✔ “What would it feel like to be kind to myself right now?” ✔ “How can I take care of myself today—without punishing myself?” Because the truth is, it's not your drinking that needs to change—it's your relationship with yourself. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer   —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?

How many times have you woken up with a nasty hangover and sworn that you'll never make that mistake again?   But as soon as the pain goes away, so does the motivation to keep your promise.    In this episode, I teach you how to create an emergency hangover kit. So you are prepared to see your inevitable setbacks as opportunities for growth instead of shameful failures.   Hangovers serve an essential purpose in the healing process. Once you start learning from your mistakes, you will stop repeating them.   —Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking. You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life. Click here to get my free PRIVATE podcast on How to Reduce Drinking by 80%. —NEW! Colleen's doing Q&A episodes! Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer and YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@hangoverwhisperer  –Click here to take the QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

Join the conversation in our community Here.  In this heartfelt episode, ministry leader Ali Kennedy shares her deeply personal journey from struggling with alcohol to experiencing spiritual renewal and true freedom. Ali's struggle with alcohol began in her early teenage years and continued through college, marriage, and motherhood. Despite being in ministry, she wrestled with feelings of shame and internal conflict around her drinking—hiding a battle she thought she should have already won. The turning point came when she confessed her struggles to close friends, a moment that sparked a journey of surrender, healing, and faith-filled transformation. Throughout the conversation, Ali shares: How confession and vulnerability led to her breakthrough. The role of community and accountability in her healing process. The significance of the 40-day alcohol fast that changed her life. How sobriety brought unexpected mental clarity and personal growth. Ali is using her story to encourage other women navigating transition, faith, and personal growth. As a certified coach, author, and speaker, she equips women and families with biblical and practical resources to stay grounded in their faith in a world that constantly pulls them in different directions. Her story is one of grace, resilience, and radical honesty, reminding us that freedom is always possible—even for those in Christian leadership who feel like they should have it all together. If you're a ministry leader, a mom balancing faith and real-life struggles, or someone seeking hope in your own sobriety journey, this episode is for you. Connect with Ali Kennedy:

In today's episode, Colleen unpacks a common fear for those trying to reduce their drinking: What if I want more? If you've ever found yourself preoccupied with making sure you have enough alcohol to get through an event—or worrying that you shouldn't want more—this episode will shift your perspective. Instead of battling with your brain over how much you'll drink, Colleen introduces a powerful mindset shift: Ask yourself how you can support yourself to feel satisfied and complete with what you actually want. Key Takeaways: 1. The Thought “What If I Want More?” Is Just Mental Noise The fear of not enough is a learned response, not a fact. It's like an old song on the radio—just because it plays doesn't mean you have to listen. The key is to stop reacting to the thought and start questioning it. 2. How You Frame the Goal Changes Everything Alcohol use disorder thrives on negative goals (I don't want to drink too much). Shifting to a positive goal (I want to enjoy one glass of wine and feel satisfied) gives your brain a clear, achievable task. Your brain is always trying to solve for what you want—make sure you're giving it the right instructions. 3. Your Environment & Actions Matter More Than Willpower Instead of focusing on resisting more, focus on setting yourself up for success. Example: Before drinking, pour yourself a mineral water or another enjoyable drink so your brain already feels relaxed. Visualizing yourself feeling happy and complete after a single glass helps reinforce the experience before it happens. Actionable Steps to Make One Glass Enough ✔ Reframe the Question: Instead of What if I want more? ask, → How can I support myself in feeling satisfied and complete with one glass? ✔ Set a Positive Goal: Visualize yourself feeling happy with just one glass. Imagine how good it will feel to go to bed clear-headed and content. ✔ Prep Your Environment: Have a second drink option ready that isn't alcohol (like mineral water & ginger juice). Shift your focus to social connection or relaxation, not just the drink. ✔ Recognize Old Thought Patterns: When you catch yourself thinking What if it's not enough? remind yourself—it's just an old habit, not a truth. Homework:

Text Me!Episode 216: Why focusing on avoidance can hurt your Sobriety w/ Tim PhillipsIn episode 216 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Tim Phillips to the show and discusses how focusing on avoidance can hurt one's sobriety. Tim Phillips shares his powerful story of going from rock bottom to rehab and discovering what works for him beyond traditional 12-step programs.Tim Phillips is the host of the Sober and Happy Podcast and an advocate for individuals seeking to live a sober, fulfilling lifeWhat you will learn in this episode:Tim's journey from morning bartender to sustained sobriety since 2011Why the 12-step model works for some but not everyoneHow trauma healing fits into recoveryThe dangers of making your world smaller through avoidanceWhy exposure therapy can be valuable in recoveryBuilding confidence by facing fears with proper supportThe importance of developing self-trust in your sobriety journeyThank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Resources Mentioned:Get the Book: Grab Your Copy HereJoin the Sobriety Circle Community: Join HereDownload the Free "Sober Not Boring" Calendar: Get Your Copy Work 1:1 with Courtney: Apply HereConnect with Tim:WebsiteInstagramFollow Courtney for More Inspiration:Instagram → @SoberVibesWebsite → www.courtneyrecovered.comRemember: You are strong. You are capable. You are not alone. Keep thriving! Thank you for listening!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In today's episode, Colleen dives into the power of setting a central guiding intention—one that helps rewire limiting beliefs, quiet overthinking, and keep you moving forward even when things feel uncomfortable. She explains how to create a personal mantra that serves as both a compass and a reset button, giving you the emotional resilience to take action in spite of fear, doubt, or past conditioning. If you've ever felt stuck in your thoughts or emotions, this episode will give you a simple yet powerful tool to shift your mindset and step into your next level of growth. Key Takeaways:    Why Overthinking Keeps You Stuck Your mind will always generate thoughts and emotions—but not all of them need your attention. The mindset that sees something as a problem is often the mindset creating it. Learning to recognize and detach from distracting thoughts is a superpower.    Action Over Emotion: The Secret to Moving Forward Acknowledge your feelings, but don't wait for them to change before taking action. The ability to act in spite of discomfort is what creates change. Your brain is wired to resist growth—recognizing and working through this resistance is key.    The Power of a Central Guiding Intention Setting a personal mantra is like installing new programming into your subconscious. Your mantra should be something you believe in as deeply as gravity—something that reminds you who you are becoming. This practice is especially powerful when used on hard days, not just good ones. Actionable Steps: Create Your Mantra: Use the template: I expand in [first word], [second word], and [third word] every day as I inspire those around me to do the same. Examples: I expand in peace, confidence, and joy every day… or I expand in clarity, courage, and freedom every day… Pick words that truly resonate with you. Whisper & Absorb: Say your mantra softly to yourself and let it settle into your body. Breathe deeply and let it sink in before repeating. Expect & Overcome Resistance: Your old programming will push back—notice the negative thoughts that come up. Instead of resisting, simply observe them and return to your mantra. Use It in Moments of Stress: Practice your mantra in peaceful moments so it's available when you really need it. Next time you wake up feeling off, overthink something, or feel stuck, shift your focus back to your mantra. Homework: Write down your personalized mantra and say it out loud every morning. Use it as a mental reset throughout the day whenever you catch yourself stuck in negative thought loops. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer   —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?

Text Me!Episode 215: Thriving in Your First Three Months In episode 215 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen reads the introduction of her book, Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol. If you're navigating early sobriety and looking for guidance, inspiration, and real talk, this quit lit book and this episode are for you.Courtney shares why she wrote Sober Vibes, what to expect in the first 90 days alcohol-free, and how this book can be your go-to guide for support, encouragement, and motivation. Whether you're just starting your sober journey or need a refresher on why you chose this path, this episode is filled with powerful insights to help you not just survive but thrive. The best book for sobriety!What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why the first three months of sobriety are so important What inspired Courtney to write Sober Vibes A reading of the book's introduction How to build confidence and strength in your alcohol-free journeyThank you to our Sponsor:As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. Click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20. Free shipping on all orders! Listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Resources Mentioned:Get the Book: Grab Your Copy HereJoin the Sobriety Circle Community: Join HereDownload the Free "Sober Not Boring" Calendar: Get Your Copy Work 1:1 with Courtney: Apply HereFollow Courtney for More Inspiration:Instagram → @SoberVibesWebsite → www.courtneyrecovered.comRemember: You are strong. You are capable. You are not alone. Keep thriving! Thank you for listening!Join Sober Vibes Patreon for exclusive content. (Just $8/month!) Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In today's episode, Colleen unpacks the hidden ways we keep ourselves stuck—whether it's staying in a comfort zone that no longer serves us, running on autopilot, or avoiding the call to expand into something greater. She explores the four zones we operate from (incompetence, competence, excellence, and genius) and how staying in the wrong one can quietly drain your energy and fulfillment. Plus, she shares the one simple question you can ask yourself daily to shift into a life that feels more open, creative, and aligned. Key Takeaways: The Four Zones That Keep You Stuck Zone of Incompetence – The things you struggle with and really shouldn't be doing. Spending time here out of fear or scarcity (like trying to fix your own tech issues instead of outsourcing) wastes time and energy. Zone of Competence – You can do these tasks, but so can others. Overloading yourself here leads to burnout because you're not fully using your gifts. Zone of Excellence – The place where you thrive and others rely on you, but it keeps you comfortable and prevents you from stepping into the next level of growth. Zone of Genius – Where you feel expansive, creative, and most aligned. This is where fulfillment lives—but getting there requires releasing old patterns and allowing yourself to grow. The Emotional Test: Contraction vs. Expansion Every action, habit, or decision either expands your heart (makes you feel alive, curious, and in flow) or contracts it (makes you feel stuck, drained, or small). Noticing this difference in real-time helps you shift away from habits that keep you playing small—like overworking, people-pleasing, or numbing with alcohol. When the feeling of over-drinking meets redundancy  So many high-achievers stay stuck in the zone of competence or excellence, which leads to boredom and frustration. When we feel unfulfilled, we reach for something to take the edge off—like drinking. Of course.  The "probably" real solution?? STOP IGNORING THE PART OF YOU THAT WANTS MORE FOR YOURSELF. Actionable Steps: Check In: When you feel the overwhelming pressure from the opposite side of the mirror, ask yourself: Am I in a state of expansion or contraction? Expansion = openness, curiosity, creativity.  Contraction = stress, avoidance, overthinking, numbing. Drop It Like It's Hot: If something feels like contraction (overthinking, unnecessary busyness, perfectionism), drop it as fast as possible. Give yourself permission to delegate, simplify, or step away from things that drain you. Prioritize What Actually Moves You Forward: Identify what actions truly create change in your life. Stop wasting energy in areas that don't serve your highest potential. Make Space for Your Zone of Genius: Spend more time doing what makes you feel the most engaged and fulfilled. Trust that stepping into this space will naturally lessen your urge to numb, overwork, or self-sabotage. Homework: Start a daily practice of asking yourself:              ~Does this expand me or contract me? Make a list of things you need to let go of so you can step into more freedom, creativity, and alignment. ~Then, discard by a method of your choice.  

The Lent Fast Starts This Wednesday!!!! Get more information and join us here  Today we welcome Jo Hargreaves, a pastor, psychotherapist, writer, and speaker, to explore the intersection of faith, therapy, and mental health.  As the voice behind The Faith-Filled Therapist, Jo is passionate about integrating theology and therapy, scripture and neuroscience, and ensuring that God remains at the center of conversations about mental and emotional well-being. Jo shares powerful insights into attachment theory, nervous system regulation, and emotional resilience, explaining how our earliest experiences shape the way we connect with God and others.  She breaks down the science behind emotional regulation and how rewiring our brains through intentional practices can lead to lasting healing. Key takeaways from this episode include: Attachment theory helps explain our emotional responses and relational patterns. Nervous system regulation is essential for mental and emotional well-being. Compassion—both for ourselves and others—can transform our relationships. Faith and neuroscience are not in conflict; they beautifully complement each other. Self-reflection and a deeper understanding of our emotional patterns can lead to spiritual and psychological healing. Jesus offers a loving presence that creates safety, healing, and wholeness. Jo also speaks on compassion fatigue, especially for women who are constantly pouring into others. She emphasizes the importance of creating space for restoration and self-care, so we can continue to show up fully in our relationships. If you've ever wondered how mental health and faith intersect or how neuroscience and scripture can work together for personal transformation, this conversation is for you. Jo's wisdom, warmth, and faith-filled perspective offer a fresh take on healing—one that blends science, therapy, and the unshakable truth of God's love. Connect with Jo Hargreaves: Jo Hargreaves Therapy: https://johargreavestherapy.com/ Instagram: @TheFaithFilledTherapist Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade https://meadehollandshirley.com/   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

In today's episode, Colleen breaks down the difference between your comfort zone and your window of tolerance. She explains that while your comfort zone feels safe and familiar, real growth happens on the other side—when you're willing to feel a little uncomfortable and take small actions. Colleen shows how moving your body, even in tiny ways, can shift your mindset and help you manage stress more effectively. Key Takeaways • Stepping Out of Familiarity: Your comfort zone is soothing because it's familiar, but everything you want lies just beyond it. Growth requires you to take small steps that may feel uncomfortable at first. • Understanding Your Window of Tolerance: This is the range where you can handle stress before it overwhelms you. When you're near the edge of your tolerance, it's a signal to pause and act. • The Power of Small Movements: Simple actions—like doing a few pushups, dancing, or even stretching—can help reset your energy and boost motivation. Movement can interrupt unhelpful thought patterns and open up creative energy. • Managing Stress Effectively: Stress isn't inherently bad—it's your body's way of telling you to change your approach. When stress starts to take over, it's a cue to engage in a small, physical action that brings you back to the present. Actionable Steps Check In With Yourself: Notice when you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck. That's your cue that you might be approaching or exceeding your window of tolerance. Take a Micro Action: Do something small and physical—a short walk, a few pushups, or a quick dance break—to help shift your energy and mindset. Shift Your Focus: Instead of getting caught up in negative self-talk or stress, use that movement as evidence that you can change your state. Remind yourself that small actions lead to big changes. Homework For the next few days, when you start to feel overwhelmed or stuck, pause and take one small movement action. Whether it's a few stretches or a burst of dancing, notice how these tiny steps help you regain control and expand your window of tolerance. This simple practice can help build momentum for bigger changes over time. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

Text Me!Episode 214: Moderation vs. Sobriety: What's Right for You? In episode 214 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen discusses whether moderation is the key to a balanced relationship with alcohol or whether it is just another exhausting struggle. Courtney Andersen breaks down the truth about moderation and why it works for some people but not for others, how to recognize if you need complete sobriety, and how to let go of the moderation mindset finally.If you've ever told yourself, I'll drink less or only drink on weekends but found yourself slipping back into old habits, this episode is for you. Tune in to discover if moderation is an option for you or if a sober lifestyle is the path to true freedom.What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why moderation works for some but not for others The key signs that complete sobriety may be a better fit for youHow to stop the mental tug-of-war with alcohol and embrace freedom Steps to shift your mindset and break free from the moderation cycleResources & Links:Join Sobriety Circle – My supportive membership community: Join Here!Grab my book Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol, Available Here!Follow me on Instagram for daily sober inspiration: @SoberVibes Need 1:1 personalized sobriety coaching? Apply Here.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.Let's Connect!Have any thoughts on today's episode? DM me on Instagram or share your biggest takeaway from your stories. Tag me @SoberVibes!Loved this episode? Please rate, review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it! Your support helps more women find the confidence to break free from alcohol and live their best sober life. Review Here! Subscribe to Sober Vibes so you never miss an episode!Support the show

In this episode, Colleen shares her thoughts on the common fear of reverting to old habits—even when you're making positive changes. Instead of fighting those nagging thoughts, she explains how to step back, notice them for what they are, and gently shift your response. It's all about staying present, being kind to yourself, and gradually creating new, healthier patterns. Key Takeaways: Understanding Fear: Fear is just a feeling driven by old stories about not being able to stick with change. Recognizing these thoughts can help you break free from self-doubt. Staying Present: When the familiar fear creeps in, the trick is to stay in the moment rather than getting lost in past habits or worries about the future. A Gentle Reminder to Yourself: A simple, kind gesture—like placing a hand on your heart—can help comfort you and remind you that you're on the right path. Building New Habits: Instead of letting old thoughts take over, you can choose a new response that reinforces positive change and builds stronger, healthier neural pathways. Actionable Steps: Notice the Fear: When you catch yourself thinking, “I can't stick with this,” pause and recognize it as just a thought, not the truth. Stay in the Now: Bring yourself back to the present moment. Ask, “What's really happening right now?” rather than what might have happened before. Show Yourself Some Love: Give yourself a little break: place your hand on your heart and say something kind like, “It's okay, I'm here for you.” Choose a New Response: Decide to respond differently. Instead of reinforcing old habits, choose to create a new, positive pathway in your mind. Homework Bring self-awareness to the moments where familiar fears rear their ugly head. As they strike you, pull back... Pause, breathe, and notice the thought for what it is—a habit from the past. Give yourself a gentle reminder of your progress by placing your hand on your heart and speaking kindly to yourself. Notice how choosing a different response can make a big difference in how you feel.   Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life. Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer   —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?

Are you tired of trying so hard because the changes you make never seem to last?   Most people invest their energy in external problems. They focus on fixing their drinking, eating, relationship, finances or physical health under the false belief that their circumstances and/or habits are holding them back.    But “stuck” is a feeling, not a fact. And your troubles are not the cause of this feeling, they're the effect.    If you felt free, clear and powerful, you would think and act like someone who feels that way. So the first item on your to-do list is to clear the energetic blockages in your body that are keeping you at a lower vibration and creating resistance to change.   Today I'm talking to Kurtis Lee Thomas, a master life coach certified in NLP (neuro linguistic programing), hypnotherapy, fitness and reiki, who traveled the world in pursuit of his own physical healing– seeing doctors, therapists, specialists, taking various medications and even doing ayahuasca ceremonies in the jungles of Costa Rica.    It wasn't until he discovered the ancient art of deep diaphragmatic breathing, now known as breathwork, that he experienced profound and permanent transformation.    Breathwork has changed my life as well. This is the one modality that I'd recommend to anyone who is struggling with anything. Because the results are instant.    Instead of thinking your way through problems, you can simply breath your way to the solution. This breathwork technique allows you to release stress, trauma, anxiety and so much more by moving the stagnant energy that's trapped in your body. It's like 20 years of therapy in one session without saying a word.   Click here to register for a Kurtis Lee Thomas Breathwork Detox.    Find Kurtis on Instagram @ManFromTheStars   —Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL if you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober. Side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking. You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life. Click here to get my free PRIVATE podcast on How to Reduce Drinking by 80%. —NEW! Colleen's doing Q&A episodes! Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer and YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@hangoverwhisperer  –Click here to take the QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?

Join the Lent 40 Day Fast! More info right here! We start March 5th! Our friend Brandi Babb shares her powerful freedom-from-alcohol story—from her early days as a “good girl” who followed all the rules to confronting the painful realities of alcohol use disorder and the internal divide between her faith and her drinking. Brandi opens up about how her struggle with alcohol began at 21 and intensified after her father's passing. She reveals how alcohol slowly stole her sense of self, leading to a split life that masked deeper emotional wounds and feelings of shame. By learning to slow down and tune into her bodily sensations, Brandi discovered a new way to manage cravings and identify long-standing patterns born from trauma and discomfort. This practice of "orienting" herself in the present moment allowed her to reclaim control and gain clarity. Now alcohol-free for over six years, Brandi has transitioned into somatic coaching, using her personal experience to help others bridge the gap between emotional awareness and physical healing. In this episode, we explore how physical reactions to past injuries can manifest in unexpected ways and how reconnecting with our bodies is key to breaking unhealthy cycles.  Brandi's story is a powerful reminder that recovery isn't about erasing our past—it's about embracing it with awareness, compassion, and a commitment to growth. If you're ready to dive into deeper emotional healing and learn practical tools for managing cravings and anxiety, this episode is a must-listen. Bonus: Interested in learning more from Brandi? She'll be joining the BJDW community on March 18th to lead a masterclass on using somatic practices to break free from alcohol. Join us here: butjesusdrankwine.com/community. You can also learn more about Brandi's work here.  Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy https://www.lovelifesober.co.uk/   Learn More about Coaching with Meade   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

In today's episode, Colleen shares a real-life moment of emotional sobriety in action—how a simple email first thing in the morning nearly hijacked her day and how she stopped the stress spiral before it took over. She explains the power of noticing sensations in your body before they trigger habitual reactions and how shifting your focus can change how you experience stress, time, and even your relationship with alcohol. Key Takeaways: Your Body Feels Before Your Mind Reacts Stress is often triggered by habits and thought loops, not real urgency. Your body sends signals (tightness, urgency, restlessness), but they don't mean you have to act on them. Learning to pause and assess before reacting gives you control over how you respond. Not Every Thought Deserves Your Attention Just because a thought feels urgent doesn't mean it is. Your mind follows patterns—it sees stress, assumes a problem, and wants to fix it. But your body doesn't have an agenda—it's just experiencing sensations. How Emotional Sobriety Breaks the Stress-React Cycle Catch yourself before stress takes over by tuning into your body. Ask: “Is this actually urgent, or am I just reacting?” The more you notice and interrupt old patterns, the less control stress (and alcohol) has over you. Actionable Steps: Step 1: Notice When Your Body Feels Tense or Rushed Pay attention to tightness, stress, or urgency in your body before reacting. Instead of jumping to fix the "problem," pause and check if it actually needs attention. Step 2: Separate Sensation from Thought When you feel triggered, ask yourself: “What is my body actually telling me?” Recognize that not every emotion requires an immediate action. Step 3: Shift Your Focus to What Really Matters Before reacting, ask: “Is this how I want to start my day?” Direct your attention toward what's actually important, not just what feels urgent. Homework: Next time you feel anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed, pause and check in with your body before reacting. Ask yourself: “Is this actually urgent, or just my body reacting?” “What would happen if I waited before responding?” Start noticing how much more peaceful and in control you feel when you don't immediately react to stress.   Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer   —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?

Text Me!Episode 213:Creating Inclusive and Sober-Friendly Events w/Laura NelsonIn episode 213 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Anderen welcomes Laura Nelson to the show and discusses the need to revolutionize traditional conference culture by making events more inclusive for sober individuals. Laura Nelson shares her journey to sobriety and discusses actionable steps to create welcoming environments that foster genuine networking and connection without the focus on alcohol.Laura Nelson, M.S., FAADOM, is a dental industry speaker and educator with over 20 years of experience in dental practice management. She founded Front Office Rocks, an innovative online training platform that improves dental office efficiency. Laura also co-founded Sober Life Rocks, a supportive community for professionals making sober choices.• Laura's personal story of getting sober • The focus of drinking culture at current conferences  • Rethinking networking opportunities beyond alcohol • Suggestions for creating engaging programming without drinking • Importance of appealing sober beverage options Join Sober Vibes Patreon here!Thank you for listening.Reviews help the show. Please rate, Review, and Subscribe to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Thank you to our Sponsor.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.To Connect with Laura:Sober Life RocksLinkedInBookTo Connect with Courtney:Follow Sober Vibes on InstagramTo Work with Courtney:Come join the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 Coaching HereOrder My BookFree Resources:Join the women-only Sober Vibes Facebook group30-Day Sober Not Boring Calendar Sober Routine ChecklistWorkshop SeriesMocktail MenuMerchSupport the show

In today's episode, Colleen reveals a surprising connection between your perception of time and your drinking habits. If you constantly feel rushed, overwhelmed, or like there's never enough time, your brain is likely using alcohol as an off-switch. But here's the real shift—your relationship with time, not alcohol, is the problem. Discover how changing the way you think about time can reduce your stress, eliminate the urge to overdrink, and help you feel more in control of your life. Colleen shares powerful mindset shifts and actionable steps to reclaim your time (and your peace) so that drinking naturally becomes a choice instead of a coping mechanism. Key Takeaways: Your Relationship with Time is a Habit, Not a Reality The belief that you “never have enough time” is just that—a belief. Your thoughts about time create the stress, not the actual amount of time you have. Learning to feel in control of your time changes how you feel about yourself, your schedule, and even your drinking habits. The Rush-Stress-Drink Cycle Feeling rushed and overwhelmed activates your nervous system's stress response. When your brain is in constant “go, go, go” mode, it craves a way to turn off. If alcohol is your only off-switch, your drinking will always feel out of control. The Hidden Ways Time Perception Affects Drinking You swing between feeling rushed (not enough time) and feeling bored (too much time). The thought “I don't have time for myself” keeps you in a stress loop. Alcohol temporarily gives you the relief you're not giving yourself throughout the day. Actionable Steps: Step 1: Stop Complaining About Time for 24 Hours Pay attention to how often you say or think, “I don't have enough time.” Instead, introduce the mantra: “I create my own time.” Every time you catch yourself feeling rushed, pause and take a deep breath. Step 2: Shift Your Identity Around Time Instead of seeing yourself as a victim of time, become the person who owns their time. Example: Instead of “I'm too busy,” shift to “I prioritize what matters most.” Small changes like sitting down for one mindful meal or taking a full breath before responding to emails can rewire your sense of control. Step 3: Notice How This Changes Your Drinking When you feel less rushed, your nervous system doesn't need alcohol to slow down. When you feel more present, you naturally drink more mindfully. If drinking has been your escape from feeling overwhelmed, this practice removes the need to escape in the first place. Homework: For the next 24 hours, track every time you tell yourself you “don't have enough time.” Replace that thought with: “I create my own time.” Then, notice if your drinking feels less urgent or impulsive when you feel more in control of your day. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer   —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?

Sponsor of this Episode:⁠https://formulaeq.com/az-event⁠Formula EQ Academy Teaching Healing Retreats Health Reset 2 day Life changing Retreat in Arizona 20% OFF with code EQ at the checkout.Awaken Your Limitless Potential & Transform Your Life:The Breakthrough Experience!Dates: March 29–30, 2025Location: Chandler, ArizonaTickets: ⁠https://formulaeq.com/az-eventAlcohol's Impact on Health and Addiction Eldin and Erik discussed their experiences with alcohol and its effects on mental and physical health. Eldin shared his decision to abstain from alcohol two and a half years ago, citing its hazardous nature and the potential for addiction. Erik agreed, emphasizing that alcohol is a drug and can lead to severe consequences, including cancer and dependency. They both agreed that the benefits of not drinking alcohol, such as improved mental and physical health, outweigh the costs. They also discussed the importance of understanding one's biology and physiology to make informed decisions about substance use.Personal Journeys and Self-Reflection ImportanceErik and Eldin discussed their personal journeys and the importance of self-reflection and self-care. Erik shared his experiences of struggling with drugs and alcohol, and how he eventually found solace in spirituality and a relationship with God. He emphasized the importance of recognizing one's character defects and working on them. Eldin agreed, highlighting the need for individuals to carve out time for self-care and spiritual growth. They also discussed the significance of community and the need to contribute positively to it. The conversation ended with a mutual understanding of the transformative power of self-reflection and positive behaviors.Human Connection and Mental Well-BeingEldin and Erik discussed the importance of human connection and the impact of isolation on mental and physical well-being. They highlighted that humans are wired for connection and that isolation leads to increased stress hormones, while connection triggers the release of feel-good chemicals like oxytocin, endorphins, dopamine, and serotonin. They also discussed the dangers of relying on exogenous substances like drugs and alcohol to achieve these chemicals, as it can lead to a disconnection from one's inner self and a temporary, artificial high. Eldin further explained the concept of "in spirit" and "enthusiasm" originating from Greek words, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a connection to one's inner self and spirit.Bio: Erik Frederickson is a husband, father, and one of the top-ranked Sober and Mental Health Coaches in the U.S.With over a decade of coaching experience and more than 15 years in recovery from drugs and alcohol, Erik is a certified Sober Coach, Mental Health Coach, and Life Coach. He and his wife, both ordained ministers, travel the country speaking and ministering in churches. They are passionate about their faith, their three boys, and helping others transform their lives.He is also the best-selling author of Recovering Reality: Freedom from the Torment of Addiction and is dedicated to guiding people into lasting personal transformation. __________________________________________Sponsor of this Episode:⁠https://formulaeq.com/az-event⁠Formula EQ Academy Teaching Healing Retreats Health Reset 2 day Life changing Retreat in Arizona 20% OFF with code EQ at the checkout.Awaken Your Limitless Potential & Transform Your Life:The Breakthrough Experience!Dates: March 29–30, 2025Location: Chandler, ArizonaTickets: ⁠https://formulaeq.com/az-event

Join the Lent 40 Day Fast! More info right here! We start March 5th! Content Warning:This episode references sensitive topics, including sexual assault and trauma. We recognize that these subjects may be difficult or triggering for some listeners. Please take care of yourself while listening. If you or someone you know is in need of support, please seek help from a trusted resource or helpline. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Today, we welcome Dr. Lisa Stanton to share her powerful testimony. Lisa opens up about her parents' amicable divorce left an emotional void she didn't know how to process. On the outside, she appeared to have it all—private school, sports accolades, and academic success—but beneath the surface, she battled loneliness, perfectionism, and crippling social anxiety. Her struggle with alcohol began early, with an immediate pull toward problematic drinking, and was soon compounded by severe eating disorders. While excelling academically and professionally, she led a double life—outwardly achieving, inwardly unraveling. The weight of it all finally became unbearable during the pandemic, when she was faced with a choice: keep running or surrender. Lisa takes us through the moment she gave up control and turned back to faith, discovering a healing far deeper than she ever expected. She shares the daily practices that helped her break free from destructive cycles, the misconceptions about recovery she had to unlearn, and the profound peace that comes from living in alignment with God's purpose. Her story is a testament to the fact that no one is too far gone, and that true healing—both physical and spiritual—is possible for anyone ready to surrender. If you've ever struggled with addiction, perfectionism, or feeling like you have to have it all together, this episode is for you. You can get Lisa's book "52 Life-Changing Lessons I Learned in Recovery: A Journey Towards Sobriety, Honesty, and Radical Forgiveness" right here. Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind    Learn More about Coaching with Christy Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

In today's episode, Colleen explores a common challenge: the struggle to maintain consistent effort in self-care and personal growth. She uncovers the hidden beliefs that might be driving resistance and shares how shifting your motivation—from fixing yourself to gifting yourself—can transform your relationship with self-care. Learn how to reconnect with your future self, reframe your mindset, and take actions that feel like a gift rather than a chore. Key Takeaways: The Truth About Resistance: Resistance to self-care often stems from subconscious beliefs that you need to “fix” yourself. Shame-driven motivation triggers your brain's habenula, putting the brakes on your energy and motivation. Reframe Self-Care as a Gift: Think of self-care as a way to set your future self up for success, not as a punishment for being “broken.” Actions taken with the intention to benefit your future self feel more rewarding and are easier to sustain. Performance vs. Iterative Mindset: Shift from a performance-driven mindset (judging yourself by today's productivity) to an iterative mindset (learning from yesterday's results to create better outcomes). Celebrate progress and focus on creating strategies that align with your goals and intentions. Curiosity Over Judgment: When you feel resistance, pause and get curious about the story you're telling yourself. Resistance may reveal an action that's misaligned with your true needs or a belief rooted in shame. Actionable Steps: Notice the Story: Pay attention to the thoughts and beliefs that arise when you feel resistance to self-care or personal growth. Ask yourself: What story am I telling myself about why I have to do this? Reframe the Action: Shift your mindset to see self-care as a gift to your future self. For example, “I'm doing this now to make tomorrow easier and more enjoyable for me.” Practice Intentional Choices: Pause before acting and ask, “Does this action align with where I want to be and how I want to feel?” If not, adjust your actions or remove them from your to-do list. Reflect and Realign: Take time to evaluate whether your actions are motivated by self-criticism or self-love. Reorganize your priorities to focus on actions that genuinely serve you. Homework: Identify one self-care action that feels difficult or unmotivating and reframe it as a gift to your future self. Practice gratitude toward yourself for taking that action, and notice how it shifts your motivation and energy.   Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

Send us a textEpisode 212: Pelvic Floor Health during Perimenopause and Embracing Sobriety with Dr. Christine KleinIn episode 212 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Dr. Christine Klein to the show. They discuss pelvic floor health and its significance during perimenopause. They also discuss the often-unspoken struggles women face related to their pelvic floor post-pregnancy or during menopause, emphasizing the importance of seeking help and advocating for one's health. Christine also shares how she quit drinking alcohol and her sober journey!Christine Klein is a doctor of physical therapy and a board-certified women's health clinical specialist specializing in Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy. She owns and operates a private practice pelvic floor physical therapy clinic in Florida where she treats women, men, and children in person and virtually.What you will learn in this episode:Understanding the pelvic floor and its functions Common misconceptions surrounding pelvic floor issues Impact of hormonal changes on pelvic health The importance of advocacy in seeking pelvic floor therapy Practical tips for strengthening the pelvic floor Dr. Christine's sober journey Join Sober Vibes Patreon here!Thank you for listening.Reviews help the show. Please rate, Review, and Subscribe to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Thank you to our Sponsor.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.To Connect with Christine:WebsiteInstagram FacebookOnline Pelvic Floor Course To Connect with Courtney:Follow Sober Vibes on InstagramTo Work with Courtney:Come join the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 Coaching HereOrder My BookFree Resources:Join the women-only Sober Vibes Facebook group30-Day Sober Not Boring Calendar Sober Routine ChecklistWorkshop SeriesMocktail MenuMerchSupport the show

In today's episode, Colleen reveals a powerful strategy for creating lasting change by shifting your identity instead of relying on willpower or discipline. Discover how embracing the mindset of “I'm the type of person who…” can naturally align your behaviors with your goals, without the exhausting cycle of self-criticism or perfectionism. Colleen shares practical steps to practice being the version of yourself you aspire to become, one small, mindful step at a time. Key Takeaways: Willpower vs. Identity-Based Change: Relying on willpower to change behaviors is unsustainable and creates a yo-yo cycle of self-defeat. Instead, focus on becoming the type of person for whom the desired behavior feels natural and effortless. Upgrade Your Identity: Change begins with deciding who you want to be. Use the phrase “I'm the type of person who…” to define and practice embodying your desired identity. Motivation is fueled by progress. As you practice small changes aligned with your new identity, you build evidence that reinforces your belief in yourself. Start Small and Celebrate Progress: You don't need to overhaul your life overnight. Move the needle in small, manageable ways. Notice and acknowledge every win, no matter how small, to keep your momentum and strengthen your commitment to change. Anchor Your Motivation in Who You Are: Align your choices with the type of person you aspire to be, rather than focusing on the behavior you're trying to eliminate. For example, Colleen's motivation to drink less isn't about avoiding alcohol but about staying true to her identity as a confident, clear, and connected person. Actionable Steps: Adopt the Phrase: Fill in the blank: “I'm the type of person who…” Choose a statement that reflects the identity you want to build, such as “I'm the type of person who prioritizes my well-being” or “I'm the type of person who makes time for rest and reflection.” Practice Being Her: Take small, consistent actions that align with your desired identity. For example, if you're the type of person who values mornings, set a goal to enjoy a mindful morning ritual, like watering your plants or journaling. Celebrate Your Wins: Notice and congratulate yourself on the progress you make. When you take an action that aligns with your new identity, pause to acknowledge it: “I'm proud of myself for showing up as the person I want to be.” Make It Fun and Public: Share your identity-based goals with others. Casually weave “I'm the type of person who…” into conversations as a playful way to reinforce your new mindset. Homework: Write down one identity-based goal using the phrase “I'm the type of person who…” Post it somewhere visible and reflect on it daily. Track small wins that align with this identity and notice how your motivation and habits shift over time. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

In today's episode, Colleen introduces a transformative exercise to uncover the deeply rooted beliefs that might be holding you back from achieving your goals around alcohol. Learn how to identify these limiting thoughts, challenge their validity, and replace them with empowering beliefs that align with the identity you want to build. This episode is a must-listen for high-achieving women who are ready to break free from shame-based narratives and create lasting, identity-based change. Key Takeaways: Beliefs Are Thoughts You No Longer Question: Many limiting beliefs feel true simply because they are habitual thoughts you've practiced over time. These beliefs often stem from subconscious narratives about who you think you are. Identify and Challenge Your Limiting Beliefs: Think of someone you admire for their relationship with alcohol and ask yourself: What do you believe about them that makes them capable? Use this reflection to identify the gap between their identity and your current beliefs about yourself. Instead of asking “Why am I like this?”—which reinforces the limiting belief—shift to asking, “In what context is this belief not true about me?” Rewriting the Narrative: Find a context where the limiting belief doesn't apply, or borrow empowering beliefs from your role model. Create a replacement belief that feels true for you and practice thinking it consistently. Remember: Your feelings are a direct result of your thoughts. By changing your thoughts, you change how you feel and behave. Actionable Steps: Reflect on a Role Model: Identify someone whose relationship with alcohol you admire. Write down the beliefs you think they hold about themselves. Uncover Your Story: List the limiting beliefs you have about yourself that might be creating a gap. Identify one belief that feels the most true and painful. Challenge and Replace: Find an instance where this belief doesn't hold true or borrow a belief from your role model. Create a new belief that feels authentic and achievable. Practice replacing the limiting belief with this new thought every time it arises. Monitor Your Progress: Track moments when you successfully challenge old beliefs and celebrate small wins. This builds motivation and reinforces the new identity you're cultivating. Homework: Identify one limiting belief about yourself related to alcohol and replace it with a new, empowering thought. Write it down, and each time the old belief surfaces, consciously replace it with the new one. Over time, watch as your mindset and behavior begin to shift. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

Send us a textEpisode 211:5 Signs You're Ready to Quit DrinkingIn episode 211 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen discusses how detaching from alcohol can be daunting, but recognizing key signs can illuminate the path to sobriety. This episode explores five crucial indicators that reveal one's readiness to quit drinking and emphasizes the importance of support throughout the journey.What you will learn in this episode: Feeling anxious and regretful about drinking  Noticing negative health effects  Exhaustion from the internal conflict of moderation  Experiencing strain in personal relationships  Persistent thoughts of wanting to quit Join Sober Vibes Patreon here!Thank you for listening.Reviews help the show. Please rate, Review, and Subscribe to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Thank you to our Sponsor.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.To Connect with Courtney:Follow Sober Vibes on InstagramTo Work with Courtney:Come join the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 Coaching HereOrder My BookFree Resources:Join the women-only Sober Vibes Facebook group30-Day Sober Not Boring Calendar Sober Routine ChecklistWorkshop SeriesMocktail MenuMerchSupport the show

In today's episode, Colleen challenges you to radically shift how you dialogue with yourself by treating yourself as a trusted friend and cherished companion. Discover how identity-based change starts with the way you talk to yourself and how this simple practice can crowd out negative self-talk, foster self-respect, and lead to lasting transformation. Key Takeaways: Thoughts and Identity: Your thoughts are powerful and habitual, shaping your identity and influencing your ability to change. Behavior-based change—trying to prove your worth through actions—often fails because it conflicts with how you see yourself. Identity-based change is rooted in deciding who you want to be and practicing that identity through small, consistent actions. The Power of Self-Talk: People with a growth mindset tell themselves better stories and respect the main character of their story—themselves. By consciously shifting your inner dialogue to focus on trust, gratitude, and encouragement, you can build a positive relationship with yourself. Creating a New Habit of Supportive Self-Talk: Speak to yourself as though you are your best friend or most important responsibility. Acknowledge and thank yourself for small acts of care throughout the day, like making your bed, preparing a meal, or taking a break. Reframe challenges as opportunities to support yourself and build trust in your ability to handle life's obstacles. Action Steps: Decide Who You Want to Be: Choose the thoughts and identity you want to cultivate. Practice Supportive Self-Talk: Talk to yourself in the third person or second person (e.g., “Colleen needs a walk right now to reset her day”). Acknowledge and thank yourself for the small ways you show up for yourself every day. Build the Habit Gradually: Celebrate your wins, even partial ones, and let positive self-talk become a natural part of your inner narrative. Notice and interrupt negative self-talk when it arises, and replace it with trust-building affirmations. Homework: Throughout the day, speak to yourself in the third person and notice how it feels. For every action you take, remind yourself of how you're working hard on your own behalf, and follow it up with gratitude and encouragement. Reflect on how this shift in self-talk impacts your mood, motivation, and sense of self. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

In this episode, Colleen shares how our habitual thoughts are often attempts to solve emotional problems and regulate our nervous systems. She dives into her own experience of stress-induced burnout, driven by hyper-focus on business analytics, and the creative stagnation it caused. By recognizing these patterns, Colleen highlights how to reset with small, intentional habits that prioritize self-care and help you regain balance and creativity. Key Takeaways: Thoughts as Habits: Most of our thoughts are habitual patterns developed to solve emotional discomfort. Your brain is constantly seeking control and certainty, often at the expense of creativity and emotional balance. The Brain's Narrative: Thought processes aim to regulate your nervous system by telling a story that makes you feel safe. These narratives, while comforting, can sometimes keep you in a stress loop. Burnout and Creativity: Chronic stress, often self-inflicted by overworking or overthinking, depletes creativity and leaves you feeling stuck. Small habits like reading, exercise, or mindfulness breaks can help shift you into a more relaxed and creative state. Breaking the Cycle: Identify the problem your brain is trying to solve and examine the emotion driving it. Ask yourself, "Is this thought process leading to a regulated nervous system, or is it just a hamster wheel?" Reintroduce simple, grounding habits that support balance and mental clarity. Action Steps: Pause and Reflect: Notice your thought patterns and ask, "What emotional need is my brain trying to solve?" Interrupt the Hamster Wheel: Step outside the loop of habitual thinking and assess whether your current actions are helping or hindering your emotional well-being. Start Small: Set a micro-goal to reintroduce a habit that supports creativity and calm, like reading for 10 minutes, taking a phone-free break, or practicing deep breathing. Be Patient: Building new habits takes time. Celebrate small wins and trust that your efforts will compound over time. Homework: Notice a habitual thought process or pattern that keeps you stuck or stressed. Reflect on the emotion driving it and ask yourself if there's a better way to meet that need. Experiment with a small, intentional habit that redirects your focus and supports a more regulated nervous system. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

In this episode, Colleen shares a powerful mindset shift inspired by James Clear's philosophy: meaningful change doesn't require radical transformation. Instead, it's about embracing a process of incremental improvement, rooted in changing your identity and self-perception. Colleen explains why the first step to sustainable change is redefining how you think about yourself and the process of change itself, while introducing the 1% Rule to help you measure and celebrate progress. Key Takeaways: The Problem with All-or-Nothing Thinking: As high achievers and perfectionists, we often set lofty, unsustainable goals that lead to burnout and self-criticism. Shame-based motivation might work temporarily but isn't sustainable—it fades as you start to feel better. Identity-Based Change: Real change happens when you focus on becoming the person who naturally embodies the habits and behaviors you desire. Instead of focusing on perfect actions, focus on who you want to become and how she thinks, feels, and behaves. Change Is a Process, Not a Decision: Progress is about practicing being the person you want to become and allowing setbacks to teach you. Success comes from patience, learning, and steady forward momentum, not from expecting perfection overnight. The 1% Rule: Measure progress in 1% increments. Focus on small, daily wins that compound over time. Examples of small improvements: catching old thought patterns sooner, reducing the intensity of emotional reactions, or noticing a decrease in urges and temptations. Action Steps: Reframe Change as a Practice: Visualize the version of yourself who already embodies the habits and mindset you want. Practice showing up as her in small, meaningful ways each day. Focus on 1% Progress: Celebrate even the smallest improvements. Over time, these incremental gains lead to exponential growth. Learn from Setbacks: View failures as opportunities to learn and reinforce your motivation rather than signs of defeat. Embrace Identity-Based Thinking: Shift your internal narrative to align with the person you want to become, rather than focusing on what you think you “should” be doing. Homework: Spend a few moments today connecting with the version of yourself who is clear, confident, and aligned with your goals. Identify one area where you can improve by just 1% and commit to it. At the end of the day, reflect on what went well and what you learned from the process. Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem?  

In this thought-provoking episode of the Addict II Athlete podcast, Coach Blu sits down with Dr. Andrew Payne, a renowned expert in the addiction medicine, to explore the intersection of the addiction recovery and the medical model of treatment. Together, they discuss groundbreaking research, the evolving understanding of addiction as a brain disease, and how integrating medical approaches can enhance long-term recovery. Dr Payne provides valuable insights into the importance of addressing co-occurring mental health conditions. Coach Blu and Dr. Payne also tackle the stigma surrounding addiction and the medical model, highlighting how compassion, education, and innovative can transform the recovery journey. Whether you're in recovery, supporting a loved one, or working in the addiction field, this episode is packed with powerful tools and information to help you better understand and navigate the complexities of addiction. Tune in for an inspiring and educational conversation that will challenge old paradigms and inspire new hope.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE! For some reason, sharing my alcohol story has always been easy for me. But today's podcast episode has been 42 years in the making. I've never told this story before. Today, I want to tell you all about how I rediscovered Jesus. It's a story of redemption, sobriety, and His unrelenting love that has shaped my life. This isn't a story of religious perfection; it's one of shame and brokenness and a profound reconnection with God that changed everything. Growing up, my mother's unwavering Christian faith was a constant in my life. She planted seeds of faith in my heart, even when I didn't fully realize it. When I went to college and ventured into early adulthood, those roots of faith began to feel distant. Life's demands and distractions pulled me away, and I drifted. Yet, I always felt a quiet, persistent call deep in my soul—a whisper that refused to let me go. In 2018, my world was upended. Losing my mom was a heartbreak I wasn't prepared for. That loss brought me to my knees. In my grief, I found myself turning back to the Bible, searching for comfort, answers, and—if I'm honest—a way to understand myself again. I didn't just read the words; I clung to them. Slowly, those seeds my mom had planted began to bloom. As I delved deeper into my faith, I wrestled with the tension between living in a performance-driven world and embracing the transformative power of grace. I'd spent so much of my life trying to prove myself—to be “good enough.” But God met me in the messiness of my real life. Here's what I've come to know: being a Christian isn't about rules or rituals. It's about a deeply personal relationship with Jesus. It's about freedom—the kind that heals your heart and fills your life with purpose. It's about saying “yes” to grace when everything in you wants to cling to control. Sobriety has been a significant part of my faith journey. For me, giving up alcohol wasn't just about breaking a habit; it was about stepping into a life of clarity and intentionality, free from the things that clouded my connection to God. If you're navigating your own sobriety journey, wrestling with questions of faith, or simply searching for encouragement, know this: God's grace is big enough for your doubts and your struggles. He has good plans and He can redeem your story, just like He did for me. Resources Mentioned: Why We Can Trust The Bible, Suzy Silk, Church of the City New York https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/church-of-the-city-new-york/id1245313998?i=1000652522766 The Gospel of John - Savoring the Peace of Jesus in a Chaotic World by Melissa Spoelstra https://a.co/d/7VgMw5Z Have you experienced a moment where faith changed everything? Join the conversation in our community at https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community.  Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind  Learn More about Coaching with Christy  Learn More about Coaching with Meade Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine  You can find this episode on YouTube HERE.  The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

Send us a textEpisode 210:Grief and Finding Strength Through Sobriety with Rose Clark In episode 210 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Rose Clark to the show, and they discuss grieving and how sobriety helped that process.Rose shares her emotional journey of navigating grief and sobriety after losing her daughter to an overdose. This episode dives into the complexities of embracing powerful emotions, finding connection through community, and rediscovering life after loss.Rose Clark is a Law enforcement officer, a certified hostage negotiator, and a mental health peace officer. She currently works in the patrol division of the Sheriff's Office and is writing her book.What you will learn in this episode: Rose's heartbreaking story of losing her daughter to addiction Struggles with alcohol as a coping mechanismTurning point during the pandemic leading to sobrietyThe importance of processing grief in a sober stateNavigating survivor's guilt and embracing gratitudeTips for others struggling with grief and sobrietyJoin Sober Vibes Patreon here!Thank you for listening.Reviews help the show. Please rate, Review, and Subscribe to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Thank you to our Sponsor.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.To Connect with Rose:Instagram To Connect with Courtney:Follow Sober Vibes on InstagramTo Work with Courtney:Come join the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 Coaching HereOrder My BookFree Resources:Join the women-only Sober Vibes Facebook group30-Day Sober Not Boring Calendar Sober Routine ChecklistWorkshop SeriesJoin for Exclusive Sober Vibes Content on PatreonSupport the show

Send us a textEpisode 209: How NA Drinks Help in Sobriety w/ Deb PodlogarIn episode 209 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Deb Podlogar to the show. The ladies discuss the transformative role of mocktails in the journey towards sobriety. Deb, the Mocktail Mom, shares her accidental path to sobriety and how creating mocktails became an essential and enjoyable part of her life. She also discusses the societal impacts of alcohol consumption, particularly for mothers.Deb Podlogar hosts the Thriving Alcohol-Free with Mocktail Mom podcast and is the author of The Happiest Hour: Delicious Mocktails for a Fabulous Moms' Night In Mocktail recipe book. What you will learn in this episode:Deb discusses her transition from wine to mocktails The significance of mocktails as a tool for those in sobriety Insights into Deb's acclaimed mocktail recipe book Tackling triggers and mindful drinking approaches Join Sober Vibes Patreon here!Thank you for listening.Reviews help the show. Please rate, Review, and Subscribe to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Thank you to our Sponsor.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.To Connect with Deb:Mocktail SummitBook Website Podcast InstagramTo Connect with Courtney:Follow Sober Vibes on InstagramTo Work with Courtney:Come join the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 Coaching HereOrder My BookFree Resources:Join the women-only Sober Vibes Facebook group30-Day Sober Not Boring Calendar Sober Routine ChecklistWorkshop SeriesJoin for Exclusive Sober Vibes Content on PatreonSupport the show

Send us a textEpisode 208: Why Sobriety Isn't About Willpower (And What Works) Welcome to Season 6!In this episode of Sober Vibes, Courtney discusses the misconception that sobriety is all about willpower. Spoiler alert: it's not! She breaks down why relying on willpower alone sets you up for failure, explores the real reasons people struggle to quit drinking, and shares tools and strategies that work for building a sustainable, sober life.This episode is a must-listen if you've ever felt weak enough to quit drinking. Get ready to reframe your mindset, let go of shame, and take actionable steps toward lasting sobriety.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why willpower isn't a sustainable solution for sobriety.The real reasons quitting drinking feels so hard (hint: it's not about weakness).Three powerful tools to help you build a strong foundation for sobriety.How to shift your mindset and focus on your “why” instead of your “what.”The importance of self-compassion and progress over perfection.Join Sober Vibes Patreon here!Thank you for listening.Reviews help the show. Please rate, Review, and Subscribe to the Sober Vibes Podcast.Thank you to our Sponsor.As a show listener, you receive 20% off your order with EXACT NATURE. Make sure to check them out and support the show. EXACT NATURE, click here to shop and save 20% off with code "SV20." Free shipping on all orders!  Please listen to episode 129 with Thomas White to learn more about CBD.To Connect with Courtney:Follow Sober Vibes on InstagramTo Work with Courtney:Come join the Sobriety CircleApply for 1:1 Coaching HereOrder My BookFree Resources:Join the women-only Sober Vibes Facebook group30-Day Sober Not Boring Calendar Sober Routine ChecklistWorkshop SeriesMocktail MenuMerchSupport the show