Your host, Angela Myer takes you on a journey toward shifting your perspective from self-doubt, fear, hate and anger. Angela wants to support you in discovering and awakening your authentic self. The Undetected Narcissist Podcast is here to educate, suppo
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Send us a textWhat happens when forgiveness becomes the most radical act of self-healing? Angela Meyer returns with Season 4 of The Undetected Narcissist podcast, offering a revolutionary approach to recovering from narcissistic abuse through compassion rather than continued anger.After nearly concluding the series, Angela was profoundly moved by listeners who found her unique perspective transformative when other resources kept them trapped in resentment. One gentleman's story particularly resonated—after following another narcissism expert for years, he was disturbed when they rejected the concept of "forgiving the unforgivable." Through prayer, he discovered Angela's work, calling it "the answer to my prayers." This validation confirmed the critical need for her compassion-focused approach to continue.This season delivers 25 comprehensive topics designed to support your healing journey, including exploring codependency, breaking trauma bonds, developing sovereign boundaries, healing from generational trauma, and finding forgiveness for the unforgivable. Each episode integrates practical tools: metaphor stories that clarify complex concepts, journaling prompts for self-discovery, quick meditations, grounding techniques for anxiety, affirmations to rebuild self-compassion, and strategies to reclaim your personal power.As a mental health professional, trauma-informed human consciousness guide, and empowerment strategist who has personally walked this healing path, Angela speaks from authentic experience when she says true recovery cannot happen while remaining stuck in hatred and fear. Whether you're just beginning to recognize narcissistic patterns or working to rebuild after a toxic relationship, her guidance offers a path toward genuine peace rather than perpetual victimhood.Subscribe now to embark on this transformative journey toward self-empowerment, self-realization, and becoming whole again. Have specific topics you'd like addressed? Email Angela directly—your feedback will help shape future episodes while potentially helping others facing similar struggles.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, I break down the ten steps to shift a person's consciousness from fearing to attract another unhealthy relationship to discovering unconditional love from a higher perspective. I also explain the difference between 3D and 5D consciousness. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, I discuss the miracle of the heart and my personal experience with Lucifer in October 2023, when I was spiritually busted wide open. Some might believe it, and others will not. Either way, this podcast will leave listeners thinking of what life could or would be like if Lucifer was no longer the ruler of Earth. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, I discuss how people are born into and created out of darkness. I discuss the Fall of humanity and how one can become complete in the eyes of the Creator. I also discuss the Last Days and what it means. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, I discuss the exact steps in how to become innocent again. I give two clear examples. I also discuss chapter five, Beyond Sin, from The Book of Innocence by Paul Selig. I am providing wisdom and clarity to the channeled text. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Send us a Text Message.This is the episode I deleted when I was spiritually awakened to my true meaning and purpose for humanity. I got scared and I believe most people would be in my shoes. Now that I am more confident and have healed from that enlightening and traumatic experience, I am ready to share with the world this information about Tobias, who is from Vega. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, I discuss Tobias. I tell you who he is, where he is from, and what is his purpose for humanity and the ascension process. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
This bonus material explains what it feels like in the first and second upper rooms. The first upper room is LOVE and the second upper room is joy. I am being guided to share it again. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss acceptance, free will, and what it will take for humanity to have and create a whole new, uplifting world. This channeled information pushed my comfort zone, yet I comprehended the importance of the channeled teachings. Enjoy!Support the Show.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss and unpack what is the complete Christ Spark and why it is important for the evolution of the soul. This information is channeled and I found it extremely fascinating because I do not have a religious background or teaching. I am a spiritual person, yet the information channeled will explain this concept in a manner that everyone will be able to comprehend. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the collective consciousness and unpack it so everyone can easily comprehend its purpose and value for humanity. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the various levels of human consciousness perception from the lowest at shame up to peace. These examples will explain why at times people cannot see eye to eye. I include communication tools and techniques in how to shift one's rigid perspective into a conscious state of neutrality, acceptance, and wisdom.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the human consciousness's energetic setpoint of pride. Many people strive to achieve this position, but it is destructive and weak. Learn how to rise above it and discover true happiness. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss trust issues, why people have trust issues, and how to rebuild trust. Some signs can make us stop when we see a pattern repeating itself. Are we repeating the lessons of the past from a family member's wound or trauma? I give examples of a few patterns that can be passed down from generational trauma and what tools to use to release those energetic patterns within ourselves. How Master the Upper Rooms can support one in rebuilding their life and discovering their authentic self.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Double voice daily affirmations to support one from shifting their perspective from anger and resentment, into self empowerment and courage to raise above the hardships of life. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss different ways one is evil and destructive to themselves. I cover self-sabotage and explain how to break the vicious cycle.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
This guided meditation for heartache will support you in healing those fragmented parts of yourself and allow you to finally let go of the person who broke your heart. You can use this process anytime and invite different people each time. Many blessings and enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss sex! I give you several examples of how sex is different in the upper and lower rooms. I break down attachment styles, so it is easier to determine who is ready for love. After listening to the podcast, there is a guided meditation to support anyone who has experienced heartache at any age or stage in their life. Enjoy! Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
This guided meditation allows one to unlock their subconscious mind and to make a positive shift in their rigid perspective to support anyone in becoming unstuck. To move past hate, anger, fear, disappointment, and regrets. Then, align with the courage to view things differently. To use the tools of Master the Upper Rooms and sit with trust and neutrality when one thinks again of this troubling friendship or person.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss friendship, teamwork, disastrous people, and your relationship/friendship with Self. I breakdown friendship with the teachings of how to Master the Upper Rooms to shift your perspective, beliefs, and attitude when one is stuck in an unhealthy friendship. There is a bonus material guided meditation that pairs with this podcast. So, please listen to the podcast first before trying the guided meditation process for Mastering the Upper Rooms and Friendships.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I explain what happened to me in 2023. I discuss the concept of how to comprehend and understand the different levels of human consciousness as well as what to expect in Season Three.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
After watching the Fair Play movie, written and directed by Chloe Demont, I realized that millions of people, including Chloe are in the dark about, "reactive abuse". Over a dozen popular magazines, news channels, movie reviews, and film festivals were all brilliantly gaslighted or plan not educated about mental health. For example, Rolling Stone, Vanity Fair, Entertainment Weekly, Today, Netflix, New York Times, Sundance Film Festival, and ABC News. Therefore, I want to teach you to see and hear what I took away from watching this movie, Fair Play, from a mental health professional. LOL...This is episode 69. Fitting for the content within this podcast episode. Please support this show by going to Donately. Thank you and happy holidays to you.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss why we all must gather our strength and courage when exploring our own shameful family secrets. There is shock value in this podcast and a few tears, but there is an important message everyone NEEDS to hear. To view the blog post, https://undetectednarcissist.com/shame-and-family-secrets/.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
This episode discusses why we should parent ourselves, our inner wounded child, parts that dominate the primary personality, and how everyone has baggage. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I interview Kim Holman and Meg Judge. We discuss how to break multigenerational abuse, their FREE 90-minute parenting workshop, parenting tools, parenting yourself, why we are so hard on ourselves, and how to model self-care to your children. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the window of tolerance, hyper-arousal, hypo-arousal, and nervous system check-ins. I offer several tips and suggestions for anyone of any age regarding managing and reducing stress and anxiety. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss pathological demand avoidance (PDA). PDA is part of the autism umbrella and is not in the DSM5, which can go undiagnosed or misdiagnosed as conduct behaviors. When everyone is in the dark, family law will focus on blame, instead of mental health awareness. Therefore, I discuss family law and autism, how family law does not understand autism, masking, hyper-arousal, the window of tolerance, and hypo-arousal.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss dealing with toxic parents, list 25 tools, and provide communication tips. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the followings: 25 signs you had a toxic parent, how to identify toxic parents, is being a toxic parent a mental disorder, how to deal with toxic parents, and why is it unhealthy to be raised in a toxic home environment. To view blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the following.Is my partner toxic?Can my toxic partner change?30 traits of a toxic partnerWhy is my partner toxic?Relationship abuse vs. toxicityIs it possible to fix a toxic relationship?How can you move forward in a toxic relationship?To view the blog post, https://undetectednarcissist.com/is-my-partner-toxic/.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss toxic friendships. I give you 50 signs on how to spot toxic friendships, 20 examples of gaslighting comments, and 35 examples of toxic friendship behaviors and traits. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss employment and how it is essential to learn how to spot toxic people because everyone is writing a story about their life. You can either stay stuck working for a toxic person or find solutions. We all need money to survive. Knowing how to spot the warning signs can save you years of mental and emotional abuse. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this mini-episode, I asked an online AI to unpack some philosophical statements I made within the blog post. The responses were priceless. Enjoy! To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I tell you a story about one of my most challenging clients and how he helped me discover a tool to support others struggling to understand philosophical people. Since this episode is rather long, I have created a bonus material mini-episode to support it. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this Episode, Suzanne Jean and I discuss bullying and mental health awareness. To view the blog post or to contact Suzanne, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss the topic of why many people stop and ask themselves, why do I feel so emotionally weak? I cover why people feel emotionally unstable, numb, drained, fragile, and vulnerable, and I have seventeen solutions for feeling emotionally weak. Enjoy! To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Have you ever wanted a safety room inside your home? You might already have one. Listen to this mini-podcast and discover how to protect yourself against abuse. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss whether love is possible after toxic relationships. The answer is YES! I got married to the most wonderful man. I will tell you what I did to discover unconditional, genuine love and much more. To view the wedding photos, please visit the blog post. Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
This episode discusses narcissistic shame, internalized and externalized shame, shame and the shutdown response, understanding the shame response, the narcissistic blame game, and how to treat shame. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I discuss what parental alienation is, what is not, what estrangement is, and how you prevent parental alienation when dealing with a toxic ex or narcissistic individual. I unpack a lot in this episode; the blog post is a great reference point. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
The number one reason why a victim stays in an abusive relationship is because of money. In this interview with John Peace, Co-Owner of Safe Haven Services (Private Digital Security Box Rentals), we talk about toxic relationships, financial abuse, and how to break free from narcissistic abuse. Learn how to protect yourself and your family members by having a private digital security box rental. Even if you cannot have a checking account or bank account, you can still get a private digital security box to store money and any important documentation. To view the blog post, click here. Plus, Beginning February 27th, Avaiya University has a special online event. Over 35 relationship experts, trauma-informed therapists, Authors & More Share Life-Changing Strategies to Heal from Narcissistic Abuse and Relationship Trauma. Save your seat for this online event now.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I interview Kara Regas. She is a life coach that supports individuals that are stuck in people-pleasing behaviors and perfectionism. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I talk about hidden trauma triggers. I teach you how to spot trauma triggers, discover how you can be a trauma trigger, and how our bodies respond to trauma triggers, and my FREE eBook. Enjoy!Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
I unpack physical and verbal reactive abuse vs. mutual abuse in this episode. I want everyone on this planet to be educated about this subject matter because it can alter your life forever when someone tries to push you over the edge and wants you to snap. Parents should be educating their children about this as well. I will teach you a technique I created called "The End Game," which can spare and save your life. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this bonus material episode, I realized that I needed to elaborate on what is a narcissistic abuse dog whistle. So, I'd like to give examples and three mini-stories to bring about clarity. After all, we learn best from hearing a story. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Welcome to Season Two. In this episode, I discuss temporary narcissism, secondary narcissism, narcissistic abuse, negging, and reactive abuse. I also weave all these subject matters into a story everyone can easily recall and relate to. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this final episode for Season One, I unpack 18 important topics to better support humanity and our future generations. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I interview Jem Fuller. He is the author of the book, "The Art of Conscious Communication for Thoughtful Men." We discuss what it takes to have a healthy relationship, communication tools, mindfulness, raising the next generation, and how his book can help people. Listen, learn, and enjoy! To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
Many people wonder if they are in a toxic relationship. Shannon Petrovich is the author of, Out of the Fog, Into the Clear. She is educated in narcissism and toxic relationship. Listen, learn, and enjoy! Happy holidays everyone. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I interview Jodi Klaristenfeld. She is the founder of FLRRiSH. I am passionate about this subject because both my children were born prematurely. I did not know until my second child that my body is not designed to carry a newborn to full term. She has created a fantastic company that provides resources to newborns and parents throughout the United States. I am so proud of what she has accomplished and created. To view the blog post, click here.Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/
In this episode, I interview Michaell Magrutsche. We talk about the difference between humans and systems, why art is a human superpower, and what are the other three superpowers all humans have within themselves. To view the blog post, click here. Support the showInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelamyerun/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AngelaMyerUN Website: https://www.undetectednarcissist.com Blog posts: https://undetectednarcissist.com/blog/