Podcasts about Reparenting

What if the very strategies that saved you as a child are now sabotaging your adult relationships? In Part 2 of Tony's series on emotional immaturity, discover why your most persistent relationship struggles aren't character flaws—they're outdated survival software still running in the background of your life. Through the powerful ACT metaphor of "The Man in the Hole," you'll understand why working harder with familiar emotional tools only digs you deeper into relationship problems. When someone offers you a ladder out of your patterns, why do you keep trying to dig with it instead? This episode reveals how to recognize when it's time to put down the shovel of old coping strategies and climb toward something completely different. Meet the clients who've made this transformation: the chronic fixer who learned to ask "what do you need from me?" instead of immediately solving, the humor-deflector who shocked a room into silence by sharing something real, and the lifelong people-pleaser whose hands shook as she said "no" for the first time—and discovered her marriage actually got stronger. You'll explore Terry Real's revolutionary insight that childhood adaptations become adult roadblocks, learn the art of re-parenting yourself with compassion instead of criticism, and discover why emotional maturity isn't about never falling into old patterns—it's about recognizing when you're there and having new tools to respond. Whether you struggle with hypervigilance, perfectionism, control issues, or people-pleasing tendencies, this episode offers a shame-free framework for honoring your inner child's brilliant survival strategies while empowering your adult self to take the lead. Because growth isn't about eliminating your protective parts—it's about expanding your repertoire of responses and choosing consciously instead of reacting automatically. Ready to stop digging and start climbing? Your ladder awaits. 00:00 Introduction and Recap 01:23 The Story of Tyler 03:53 Tyler's Realization and Therapy 09:39 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Metaphor 15:46 Revisiting Emotional Immaturity 19:30 Reparenting Yourself 25:05 Examples of Reparenting in Action 29:00 Exploring Emotional Immaturity Traits 40:54 Recognizing and Validating Emotions 42:47 Dependence on External Validation 48:54 Taking Ownership and Accountability 51:49 Mind Reading and Communication 01:03:55 Hypervigilance and Emotional Containment 01:07:12 Perfectionism and Control 01:11:49 Integration and Emotional Maturity 01:15:57 Real-Life Examples of Emotional Growth 01:22:05 The Journey of Emotional Maturity

What if the very strategies that saved you as a child are now sabotaging your adult relationships? In Part 2 of Tony's series on emotional immaturity, discover why your most persistent relationship struggles aren't character flaws—they're outdated survival software still running in the background of your life. Through the powerful ACT metaphor of "The Man in the Hole," you'll understand why working harder with familiar emotional tools only digs you deeper into relationship problems. When someone offers you a ladder out of your patterns, why do you keep trying to dig with it instead? This episode reveals how to recognize when it's time to put down the shovel of old coping strategies and climb toward something completely different. Meet the clients who've made this transformation: the chronic fixer who learned to ask "what do you need from me?" instead of immediately solving, the humor-deflector who shocked a room into silence by sharing something real, and the lifelong people-pleaser whose hands shook as she said "no" for the first time—and discovered her marriage actually got stronger. You'll explore Terry Real's revolutionary insight that childhood adaptations become adult roadblocks, learn the art of re-parenting yourself with compassion instead of criticism, and discover why emotional maturity isn't about never falling into old patterns—it's about recognizing when you're there and having new tools to respond. Whether you struggle with hypervigilance, perfectionism, control issues, or people-pleasing tendencies, this episode offers a shame-free framework for honoring your inner child's brilliant survival strategies while empowering your adult self to take the lead. Because growth isn't about eliminating your protective parts—it's about expanding your repertoire of responses and choosing consciously instead of reacting automatically. Ready to stop digging and start climbing? Your ladder awaits. 00:00 Introduction and Recap 01:23 The Story of Tyler 03:53 Tyler's Realization and Therapy 09:39 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Metaphor 15:46 Revisiting Emotional Immaturity 19:30 Reparenting Yourself 25:05 Examples of Reparenting in Action 29:00 Exploring Emotional Immaturity Traits 40:54 Recognizing and Validating Emotions 42:47 Dependence on External Validation 48:54 Taking Ownership and Accountability 51:49 Mind Reading and Communication 01:03:55 Hypervigilance and Emotional Containment 01:07:12 Perfectionism and Control 01:11:49 Integration and Emotional Maturity 01:15:57 Real-Life Examples of Emotional Growth 01:22:05 The Journey of Emotional Maturity

On this week's episode of Raising Confident Girls, your host, Melissa Jones, chats with Kaitlin Anthony—founder of The BEAM Life, which stands for Be Everything And More. Kaitlin is a passionate mom raising a neurodivergent daughter while running a six-figure business built on purpose, personal power, and doing life your way.Melissa and Kaitlin get real about the ups and downs of motherhood—especially when it comes to raising confident daughters while working through their own insecurities. It's a heartfelt conversation full of honesty, laughter, and some seriously powerful insights.They talk about how important it is to let girls take up space, feel all their emotions, and know they're enough just as they are. Kaitlin opens up about her own journey with body image and self-worth, and how reparenting herself has helped her create a more supportive and emotionally safe space for her daughter.You'll also hear why creative outlets matter, how vulnerability makes you a stronger parent, and why chasing your own dreams can have a huge impact on your kids. In this episode, we cover:Why being open and vulnerable makes you a better parentHow to help girls feel confident expressing themselvesWhat it means to “reparent” yourself (and why it matters)The connection between body image and confidenceHow creative expression builds self-esteemWhy going after your dreams can inspire your kids to do the sameIt's a raw, uplifting conversation about ditching perfection, owning your story, and showing up fully for yourself and your family. Tune in—you're going to feel seen, supported, and totally inspired.Download the Quick Tips PDF of today's episode for future reference.If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let's work together to raise the next generation of confident girls.Connect with KaitlinInstagramWebsiteMelissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn

Do you ever feel like your parenting is completely off track from where you want it to be? You promise yourself you won't yell, then find yourself yelling at your kids before breakfast. You intend to be patient and present, but end up getting distracted by your phone, or snapping at your child. This disconnect between your parenting intentions and reality can leave you feeling guilty, ashamed, and afraid that you're passing on intergenerational trauma despite your best efforts. In this episode, we reveal the origins of our harsh inner critic and how cultural expectations set parents up for struggle. You'll discover practical reparenting techniques, step-by-step self-compassion exercises, and how recognizing your emotional triggers can transform your parenting journey. This isn't about perfect parenting - it's about healing your own childhood wounds through a process called reparenting, so you can break intergenerational patterns and build the connection with your child you've always wanted. Questions This Episode Will AnswerHow can I identify and manage my emotional triggers in parenting?Emotional triggers often originate from unhealed childhood experiences. Notice when you have outsized reactions to your child's behavior—these point to areas needing healing. The episode offers a self-compassion exercise to help you treat yourself with the same kindness that you treat others. Creating space between trigger and reaction allows you to respond intentionally rather than reactively. How does my inner critic affect my ability to parent effectively?Your inner critic—which is often a voice of your parent/caregiver—triggers shame spirals that make it harder to parent effectively. It damages your relationship with yourself and teaches your children to develop their own harsh inner critics. Through reparenting, you can recognize this voice isn't truly yours, but one you absorbed from your environment. Learning to quiet this voice creates space for authentic connection with your child and breaks intergenerational trauma patterns. What is reparenting and how can it help my relationship with my child?Reparenting is giving yourself what your parents couldn't provide during your childhood. It involves a five-step process: becoming aware of your patterns, accepting them without judgment, validating your childhood experiences, reframing your beliefs, and taking action to reinforce new patterns. When you heal your own emotional wounds through reparenting, you become more capable of meeting your child's needs without being triggered. How do I break intergenerational trauma patterns in my parenting?Breaking intergenerational trauma starts with awareness of the patterns you inherited. Practice self-compassion exercises when triggered rather than self-criticism. Use the reparenting process to heal your own childhood wounds. Find supportive community to help you recognize when old patterns emerge. Each time you respond differently to your child than your parents did to you, you're disrupting the cycle of intergenerational trauma. Can self-compassion exercises really help when I'm triggered with my kids?Yes, self-compassion exercises are powerful tools for managing parenting triggers. Dr. Susan Pollak's three-step self-compassion exercise can create the mental space needed to respond differently: acknowledge the difficulty ("This is hard"), remember your common humanity ("Other parents struggle with this too"), and offer yourself...

Send us a textRecovery showed me that I abused and neglected myself physically, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually. I stayed in relationships and workplaces that were toxic, and I put up with abuse from bosses, colleagues, sweethearts, and others. This was all because I had this internalized belief from my family that you just put up with things like that. It wasn't until I was reading the ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families) Big Red Book and read about backfilling the love you didn't get as a child that I realized I could make a change. This week's episode 316 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to backfill the love you didn't get as a child!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm sharing how recovery has taught me to backfill the love I was missing from my childhood and how you, too, can rewrite your emotional narratives, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate deep self-love. Your childhood doesn't define your future. By committing to inner healing, you can break generational cycles and create the emotional support you always needed. Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!After Participating in Private Coaching with Barb, You'll...*Be able to feel peaceful and calm when setting boundaries*Know how to communicate directly with people*Your feelings will become more "right-sized"*Do things because you really want to do them, not because you feel obligated*Live your life by your own values and feel proud of that*Learn to keep the focus on yourself and still be kind and helpful*Come closer to realizing your authentic identitySign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

Send us a textRecovery showed me that I abused and neglected myself physically, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually. I stayed in relationships and workplaces that were toxic, and I put up with abuse from bosses, colleagues, sweethearts, and others. This was all because I had this internalized belief from my family that you just put up with things like that. It wasn't until I was reading the ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families) Big Red Book and read about backfilling the love you didn't get as a child that I realized I could make a change. This week's episode 316 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about how to backfill the love you didn't get as a child!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm sharing how recovery has taught me to backfill the love I was missing from my childhood and how you, too, can rewrite your emotional narratives, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate deep self-love. Your childhood doesn't define your future. By committing to inner healing, you can break generational cycles and create the emotional support you always needed. Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!After Participating in Private Coaching with Barb, You'll...*Be able to feel peaceful and calm when setting boundaries*Know how to communicate directly with people*Your feelings will become more "right-sized"*Do things because you really want to do them, not because you feel obligated*Live your life by your own values and feel proud of that*Learn to keep the focus on yourself and still be kind and helpful*Come closer to realizing your authentic identitySign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

How do the unmet needs of our childhood shape who we are today? And more importantly, how do we learn to meet those needs for ourselves as adults? In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we explore the re-parenting process—a therapeutic model that helps us heal old wounds, develop self-compassion, and rewrite the internal narratives we inherited from childhood. We'll be getting personal as we reflect on on three powerful questions: 1️⃣ What needs went unmet for you as a child? 2️⃣ How did you cope with these unmet needs? 3️⃣ How have you learned to meet these needs for yourself as an adult? From loneliness and perfectionism to people-pleasing and self-expression, we dive into the real-life stories and coping strategies that shaped our past and the lessons we've learned to become the men we are today. Tune in for an honest, vulnerable, and inspiring discussion on how we can become the loving, supportive parents we always needed—for ourselves. Related Link: Inner Child Work Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio Matt Landsiedel Reno Johnston Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

Healing the mother wound isn't just about surviving - it's about becoming the person you always needed. Micah Larsen joins me for a real, raw, and healing conversation about doing just that. Writer and trauma survivor Micah opens up about healing the mother wound, navigating generational trauma, and the powerful journey of reparenting your inner child. Micah shares her experiences with complex PTSD (C-PTSD), emotional neglect, dissociation, and the profound impact of parenting her own son while breaking toxic family patterns.Together, we explore:The emotional complexities of healing when a parent is also woundedHow becoming a parent can trigger unresolved traumaThe reality of dissociation and memory gaps in trauma survivorsLearning self-compassion after a lifetime of high-functioning dissociationPractical tools for emotional regulation, inner child healing, and self-validationWhy asking for help & building supportive relationships is essential for long-term healingBreaking the cycle of emotional neglect & parenting with intentionThis episode is for anyone navigating difficult parent-child relationships, cycle breakers, adult children of emotionally immature parents, and those on the journey of healing trauma through conscious parenting. If you're working on inner child work, breaking generational cycles, or learning how to reparent yourself, this conversation will speak to your heart.

In this fun and frank conversation, I welcome back Britt Frank—licensed psychotherapist, speaker, and author of The Science of Stuck and her new book Align Your Mind: Tame Your Inner Critic, and Make Peace with Your Shadow Using the Power of Parts Work. We explore the empowering intersection of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and shadow work, reframing our inner critic as a misguided protector, not a predator. Britt offers brilliant insights on how parts work allows us to embrace the fullness of who we are—including our compulsive habits, younger selves, and the traits we've tried to exile. Together, we dive into the potency of perimenopause and midlife as a rebirth—an invitation to reclaim our true essence and align with our deepest values. This conversation is a rallying cry to honor your wholeness, connect with your parts, and live from unapologetic authenticity.   ✨ What We Explore Together Shadow work means reconnecting with everything that's true about you—including your gifts. Internal Family Systems (IFS) is not separate from shadow work—it is shadow work in practice. The inner critic can become your internal coach when you understand it's trying to protect you. Our compulsive behaviors are survival strategies, not character defects. Reparenting your younger parts creates emotional momentum and deep healing. Midlife is not a decline—it's an initiation into your second becoming. Self-worth does not kill ambition. In fact, the more full of self-love you are, the more you can create. Connect with Britt: WebsiteInstagram Ready to align with your wholeness and reclaim your truth? Grab Britt's new book Align Your Mind and begin a powerful new relationship with your inner world.   Connect with Me: Newsletter  nancylevin.com Instagram Facebook  

We are made up of three parts The Body, The Soul & The Spirit. When you got born again, it was your spirit that was regenerated however, many of the problems that we are facing on a day-to-day basis are the issues of a wounded and broken soul.

Talking points: psychology, masculinityIf you've ever found yourself in strange push-pull dynamics, self-sabotaged relationships, or just feel like you never get it "right" with women, this may be your podcast. I see a lot of men battle their mommy (and daddy) issues instead of healing them. Let's change that.(00:00:00) - Intro, what a “mother wound” is, and the most common variations(00:14:22) - How a mother wound shows up, from hypervigilance to underachievement to zero boundaries(00:21:19) - How do you work through this? Step one: how to build awareness of it(00:23:56) - Step two: learn how to regulate. Seriously.(00:25:33) - “Reparenting” the child in you(00:27:52) - Stop outsourcing your self worth, and learn how to end your projectionsA Man's Guide To Self-Worth: https://lnk.to/sRB9v6How To Lead In Relationship: https://lnk.to/8xv131***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Main Topic:  Anti-Hustle Culture with guests Rachel May and Emily Golden, book coaches and editors at Golden May Editing, and podcast hosts of the Story Magic podcast.   Up to 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code VALERIE20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/VALERIE20 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance PATREON: Thank you to our existing patrons for believing in our work offline and here in the podcast.  Become a patron of the arts at Patreon.com/valerieihsan for books, writing instruction, coaching, and planning. Go to Patreon.com/strangeairstories for short stories in the paranormal mystery genre.   Segment 1 (Announcements/Author Updates): (Valerie): revamped website  Emily: ARC just came in "Crimson Tide: Up in Molten Lights", 20K in to new book;  Rachel: revising third book is slower than planned. (Erick): Preorder up for Shadow Signals , front and back matter done What are you reading? Valerie: How To Be Old: Lessons in Living Boldly from the Accidental Icon  (Lyn Slater) (Not ready to give up on them, but struggling to finish them:) Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman; The Year of the Puppy (Alexandra Horowitz) ;  The Teller of Small Fortunes Julie Leong  Erick:    Mr. Mercedes (Stephen King), The Autopsy: Best Weird Stories of Michael Shea, (Daniel Clowes) Patience Rachel: Cassie Mint's new book, Wild Peak; the stack is waiting Emily: Assistant to the Villain (Hannah Nicole Maehrer) Segment 2 (Resources/Tips/Tidbits): Tidbit #1: • Tidbit #2:    Segment 3 (Main Topic):  Years ago, in the days before COVID, they met on Twitter through the #WritingCommunity hashtag. As fantasy writers, they immediately hit it off through beta reading each other's work, which evolved into critique partnering, and then a mutual fascination with writing craft. They became obsessed with learning a) how stories worked, and b) how writers' mindsets could help or harm their progress. Together they dove head first into book coaching and editing training, which ultimately resulted in Golden May. Please welcome Rachel and Emily. Value is based in what you produce = hustle culture Pitfalls of hunger to create and make an impact on world. Make money, make a lot, make it fast Sustainable success comes from the opposite place Mindset is more important, untangle perfectionism and hustle culture Generational/societal = capitalism ranked over all; "You are only valuable and worthy if you make money." You can't rest because ...  If you do more, you make more money. We aren't machines. Burnout. Less effective. Care for yourself so you CAN work.  Mindset breeds shame is what drives the hustle culture . Anti-hustle is about separating mindset from the "norm." What did you do to separate and feel worthy? 1. Come down to earth: what are the stakes? Writing is not life/death situation. If I don't ..., then I'm not worthy and I'm gonna die. (Start reframe it) 2. Awareness. Hustle culture. Learn the opposite. (Amy McNee - We Need Your Art) Ask where these thoughts are coming from? Follow the threads. Reparenting inner child. Catch the thoughts in the moment. What's my programming? 1st thought: programming, 2nd thought: what I really believe. Talking to coworkers and family about "letting them down." 3. Join a community interested in anti-hustle. Reframe daily. 4. Devon Price "Laziness Does Not Exist", "Burnout" (Nagaski sisters) 5. Affirmations 6. What is your brain trying to tell you?  Rest is a learned thing. The Power of Ritual (Casper ter Kuile)  We all rest differently.  The tenants of anti-hustle culture: Worth is not tied to our output. Your success isn't determined by someone else's standards. Body and Brain deserve rest.   "I don't have time to learn how to rest." Learned how to be productive in your body.   tenaciouswriting.com goldenmayediting.com Story magic podcast IG @tenaciouswriting   And don't forget: Get 48% off the Magic Mind : https://magicmind.com/VALERIE20 and use Valerie20 at checkout. #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance   Next episode:  Find Us:   Valerie's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/valerieihsan (Find Passion Planner discount codes here.) Erick's Linktree link: https://linktr.ee/erickmertzauthor Patreons:  https://patreon.com/valerieihsan    https://patreon.com/strangeairmysteries Tools: ProWriting Aid: https://prowritingaid.com/?afid=9378 (affiliate link)

In this concluding episode of the guest-host series, Desirae Ysasi and Zach dive into the art of reparenting, integration, and communication in relationships. They explore what it means to revisit your childhood self while also allowing your younger self to guide you through present challenges. Desirae opens up about the overwhelm of parenting through work stress, sharing how her daughter's recent emotional outburst became a mirror for her own emotional state. Zach reflects on a recent conference experience, the power of being seen by your partner, and how receiving feedback can sometimes feel like being put under a microscope. They also discuss the five winning strategies for building intimacy, from speaking to make things better to cherishing what you have. Desirae explains her concept of “history-colored glasses,” a powerful metaphor for how our past influences our present reactions. Whether you're struggling to communicate or trying to feel more connected to yourself and your partner, this episode is full of practical, reflective insights. Key Takeaways Reparenting the Inner Child Desirae explains that reparenting is about becoming the parent you needed as a child, addressing unresolved wounds, and learning to provide yourself with the nurturing and validation you may have missed. History-Colored Glasses The way we see the world is deeply influenced by our past experiences. If you grew up around loving, joyful yelling, loud voices will feel warm. If yelling was traumatic, it will feel threatening. The challenge is to rewrite those old scripts. Learning to Speak to Make Things Better Desirae emphasizes that many of us speak to unload or defend, not to improve the relationship dynamic. Shifting to a “speak to make things better” mindset can completely alter the tone of conflict. Cherishing as a Practice of Receiving Cherishing isn't just about giving love—it's also about receiving it. Desirae explains that learning to accept even small gestures from your partner can be just as transformative as grand gestures. Integration: Bringing All Parts of Yourself to the Table Zach reflects on his own experience of feeling fragmented, wondering how to integrate all parts of himself rather than prioritizing certain aspects and neglecting others. Desirae affirms that all parts have a place, even the wounded, anxious, or insecure ones. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are made up of three parts The Body, The Soul & The Spirit. When you got born again, it was your spirit that was regenerated however, many of the problems that we are facing on a day-to-day basis are the issues of a wounded and broken soul.

Sam Jockel (LinkedIn) came on the show. The founder of ParentTV and the producer of SEEN the film. Our conversation touched in on what parenting may be, both for yourself and for your kids. How does one become a parent? We speak of trauma as something that didn't happen rather than what happened and we speak of what it takes to recover warmth. How seeing your kids, being with them is what parenting is about rather than what you do. This is a wonderfully deep, personal and concrete conversation. It comes with a strong recommendation to actually see the film. It'll be worth it.

The act of reparenting oneself—that hallowed process of nurturing one's wounded inner child—has metastasized into a cultural dogma. We chant mantras of self-compassion while quietly replicating the power dynamics we claim to escape.

Today is Part 2 of the 3 part What In the Woo? Series—offering a fresh perspective on how to work with the term “Inner Child.”  The Inner Child is not your younger self—it's the wounded, emotional, shadowy part within, asking for healing. Your Inner Child isn't you when you were 8 years old. Inner Child is a really effectual term for the part of us that hasn't healed yet—the wounded self, the fragmented self. Interchangeable with the ego or shadow self.  The part of you that gets triggered, goes into fight, flight, freeze, or fawn? That's your Inner Child asking for attention and love. The gift of the Inner Child is that they're always pointing to what's unresolved within us.  Anxiety attacks before big events, losing your phone while hustling, getting sick when you're pushing too hard? Those aren't accidents—they're calls for compassion, not "tough love." True spiritual growth happens when we hold space for our Inner Child reactions—gently, lovingly, without judgment. Reparenting our unmet needs into creative power... and that's Inner Child work. In this episode: How the Inner Child represents your unconscious self Why Inner Child healing transforms emotional triggers How self-sabotage moments are really spiritual SOS signals The power of gentleness vs. tough love How to spiritually grow up through reparenting MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: What in the Woo? 3-part podcast series → Subscribe to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE. What The Sphinx Told Me: LISTEN | READ The Archives: Read on Substack Join the Inner Child class inside the Heart Centered Collective Catch up on Part 1 of the What In The Woo? Series: Are you ego'ing? What IS the ego? Do you DO it, or does it do you? Next week: A look at “following the money” for Mother's Day. Subscribe so you don't miss it. Take the free Stressed to Blessed Quiz

There are so many different types of therapy—and finding the right one for you can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Holly, Kelly, and Emma are joined by somatic therapist, educator, and embodiment guide Molly Bienstock for a powerful conversation about somatic therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), body-based healing, and how to better understand the language of your internal parts.We explore:What somatic therapy is and how it differs from traditional talk therapyHow IFS and parts work helps us connectWhy curiosity over judgment is a powerful healing toolThe connection between trauma, the nervous system, and body responsesHow somatic therapy mirrors shamanic and ancestral wisdomPlus, Molly shares their deeply personal journey of healing after a traumatic injury and how that experience shaped their work in Somatics, embodiment, and therapeutic support. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in deepening their connection to the body, building internal safety, and exploring healing through the lens of Somatics and Internal Family Systems (IFS).Topics Covered:What is Somatic Therapy?Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) and “parts work”Connecting with the Self and reparenting wounded partsTrauma and body-based responsesReframing judgment into curiosityBoundary-setting and “spicy containers” for your inner partsOrienting Practices for grounding and safetyHumor, boundaries, and curiosity in healing workDaily ways to tune into your body's languageConnect with Our Guest: Molly Bienstock (Magic with Molly) @rabbischmoolyResources:Creative Wellness E-Workbook – Use code KEEPCREATING for 15% offWaves of Creativity Retreat in Costa Rica – Nov 9–14, 2025Episode 74: Shamanism & AnimismEpisode 115: Creative Wellness @artoflovingSupport the showJoin the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Get the 28 Day Creative Wellness Challenge E-Workbook- Use the code KEEPCREATING for 15% off! Work 1:1 with Holly through mentorship & coachingJoin the FREE *Creative Wellness Collective* to continue the conversations we have on the podcast with fellow listeners!Give the gift that keeps on giving-- Custom Meditations!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!

Have you experienced Mother Hunger?There are invisible wounds many of us carry, the quiet aches from the care we didn't receive and the connections we longed for but never had.In this intimate and healing conversation, Kelly McDaniel - licensed professional counsellor, bestselling author, and women's advocate, introduces the life-changing concept of Mother Hunger.Together, we explore how early attachment injuries shape our sense of self, our relationships, and even how we experience loneliness, and what it takes to begin the tender work of healing.If you've ever struggled with feeling "not enough," found yourself stuck in painful relationship patterns, or carried a deep, nameless sadness, Kelly's compassionate insights will help you understand why, and how to start reconnecting with your true self.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don't miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Still feeling anxious, needy, or stuck in painful relationship cycles? Reparenting may be the key. In this transformational episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais walks you through the core concept of reparenting—what it is, how it heals anxious attachment, and why it leads to faster, more lasting change. If you've ever found yourself clinging too tightly, afraid of rejection, or losing yourself in relationships, this episode will help you uncover why—and what to do about it.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ What reparenting actually is (and isn't) ✔️ How trauma includes both what did happen and what didn't ✔️ Why anxious attachment forms from unmet childhood needs ✔️ How unmet needs lead to dependency, low self-worth, and staying in the wrong relationships ✔️ A powerful 3-part reparenting exercise to start healing right now ✔️ What healthy self-soothing, self-validation, and internal reassurance look like By the end, you'll learn how to self-source your needs, stop seeking breadcrumbs from the outside world, and finally feel safe, seen, and empowered within.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and globally recognized expert in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With over a decade of experience and more than 70,000 students helped, she's on a mission to teach you how to heal from the inside out.   Helpful Resources:

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Send us a textIn this solo episode, Gemma explores one of the most foundational concepts when it comes to healing relationship patterns—the abandonment schema.Whether you're currently dating or in a long-term relationship, understanding your own abandonment schema and how it influences your emotions, choices, and reactions is essential for cultivating emotional safety and secure connection.Gemma explains:What the abandonment schema is and how it developsHow it shows up in dating and relationships (from clingy overcompensation to total avoidance)The 3 common coping styles triggered by this schema—and how they quietly sabotage your love lifeWhy working with your vulnerable child mode is key to healing the abandonment wound3 powerful reparenting practices to begin calming your inner alarm system and making more grounded, self-honoring choices in loveSupport the showLove Wisely. Something new from Gemma - Express your interest or find out more about joining a special founding round of my new group program - Love Wisely. You can express your interest here. Help support our continued production. Are you a regular listener who loves our show? Consider supporting us with a contribution each month to help us keep going!

Send us a textIn this powerful episode, we explore the father wound — what it is, how it forms, and how it continues to shape our relationships, sense of self-worth, and emotional health. Drawing from personal experience and evidence-based practices, I walk you through key insights and healing strategies, including reparenting, grief work, and authentic forgiveness. Whether your father was absent, abusive, or emotionally unavailable, this episode offers validation, healing, and a roadmap forward.What You'll Learn:What the “father wound” is and how it shows up in adulthoodThe emotional and behavioral patterns linked to unhealed father woundsWhy high achievers often carry hidden wounds from their fathersHow to begin healing through reparenting, IFS, and grief workThe difference between forced forgiveness and authentic releaseWhy you're not responsible for repairing an abusive or absent parent relationshipMentioned in This Episode:The new Overcoming Shame group coaching program: LEARN MORE1:1 Coaching Free strategy call: jerryhenderson.org“Self-Love: The Root from Which Personal Mastery Grows” (transition episode) LISTEN HEREIf this episode resonates with you:Share it with someone who might be carrying this silent wound too. And don't forget — you are worthy of your own love.Chapters00:00 – Welcome and Introduction01:52 – What Is the Father Wound?03:43 – How the Father Wound Develops05:00 – Jerry's Personal Story09:10 – Introduction to Overcoming Shame Group Coaching Program12:20 – The Church, Forgiveness, and Misguided Healing15:59 – It's Not Your Fault25:38 – Mental Health Patterns Linked to the Father Wound27:43 – Differences in Men and Women's Responses30:04 – How the Father Wound Shows Up in Adult Life30:59 – Evidence-Based Healing Tools32:03 – The Power of Reparenting33:05 – Grief Work and Forgiveness on Your TermsI am grateful you are here,JerrySetup Your FREE Strategy Call:Schedule Call Website:www.jerryhenderson.org

In this coaching session, brain nutritionist and podcast host Laurie Hammer, though comfortable on video, feels less so speaking in person. She worries she'll say something incorrect, bore her audience, and wonders if she has anything new to say that's different than others in her field. She also would like to regain confidence she once had and lost, about singing in public.We come up with strategies and mindset shifts to address these concerns. We also explore the root causes of her loss of confidence around singing in public as well as performance strategies to stay focused when emotions arise when singing music that's moving you to tears. By the end, the level of activation from these past performing experiences has substantially diminished.Click here to check the full show notes.

TRIGGER WARNING: This conversation includes discussion about sexual violence, rape, medical examinations after assault, sex, and sexuality. Unfortunately most listeners will have had some interaction with sexual trauma. We hope this conversation helps you move through difficult feelings and find new understanding of what it can mean to heal and/or be liberated from sexual trauma, and empowers you to define what justice means for you in such situations. However we understand the topic of sexual violence is difficult to engage in. Please take care of you and know this is a resource if needed!------------------This conversation is maybe best described as a journey to better understanding sexual liberation and justice for survivors of sexual violence and their loved ones. In this deep and transformative episode of Impostrix Podcast, host Whitney Knox Lee is joined by Leah Forney, an advocate, consultant, and influential speaker who specializes in sexual health and assault prevention within BIPOC communities. One of her specialties is addressing the need for cultural sensitivity in sexual violence response. As they discuss healing from sexual trauma, Whitney and Leah reflect on their personal experiences seeking justice after surviving sexual violence. And Leah shares her insights on how black women are uniquely affected by such trauma. In this episode, we also touch on the idea of "purity culture" and the stigmatization of menstrual health. We share cultural myths that we grew up with regarding the use of tampons and the miseducation of young girls regarding how to care for their changing bodies. Important themes include reparenting one's self, redefining justice, and finding sexual liberation. Key takeaways revolve around the significance of internal healing rather than external punishment, and the role of cultural and historical nuances in the healing journey. They also touch on societal expectations, faith, and the importance of creating safe spaces for survivors. Essential resources mentioned during this episode:Sexual Assault Advocacy for Victims Everywhere (S.A.A.V.E. Me)Sensual Faith: The Art of Coming Home To Your Body by Lyvonne BriggsI Planned For This: Life Organizer for When It's Needed by Whitney Knox LeeJoin the WhatsApp group!Support these charities to help advance culturally sensitive advocacy for survivors of sexual violence, to end period poverty for incarcerated women, and to promote menstrual and reproductive health education. The Courage Couture Gala raising awareness and celebrating the voices of survivors of sexual violence.The Thurman Perry Foundation Girl Code Program aiming to end period poverty for incarcerated women in the United States.Scrub Life Cares nonprofit promoting menstrual and reproductive health education and supply donation to girls and women. 00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning00:58 Welcome to Imposter Podcast Season Four01:48 Focusing on Black Women's Healing02:39 Introducing Leah Forney04:32 Understanding Sexual Trauma in Black Women06:40 Historical Context of Sexual Trauma10:15 The Impact on Black Men and Families14:06 Hypersexuality and Healing22:24 Sexual Liberation and Healthy Sexuality26:31 Faith, Religion, and Sexuality31:09 Tampons and Cultural Taboos33:04 Purity Culture and Public Shaming34:43 Gender Disparities in Upbringing37:18 Healing from Sexual Trauma39:01 Redefining Justice for Survivors47:54 Reparenting and Inner Child Work51:12 The Power of EMDR Therapy54:45 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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Motherhood is often shaped by the beliefs and expectations we've inherited—but what if we could rewrite the script?  In this episode of the Heartful Parent Podcast, I'm chatting with Dr. Gertrude Lyons, an author, Life Coach and creator of Rewrite the Mother Code LLC. Together, we're exploring how personal growth, emotional responsibility, and self-awareness can transform the way we parent—not just our children, but also ourselves.  Dr. Lyons challenges the traditional ‘mother code' and offers a fresh perspective on what it means to mother, extending beyond biological parenting to include all the ways we nurture and care in our lives. If you've ever felt the need to break free from outdated parenting expectations and embrace a more authentic, fulfilling path, you'll walk away from this episode with many thoughtful tidbits. Dr. Lyons shares practical steps for reparenting ourselves, prioritizing self-care, and recognizing the power of rewriting our own stories.  And she gives us a sneak peek into her upcoming book, Rewrite the Mother Code: From Sacrifice to Stardust, which promises to be a game-changer for anyone navigating the complexities of motherhood.  Don't miss this inspiring discussion—it's time to mother on your own terms! Resources: www.drgertrudelyons.com Dr. Gertrude Lyons on IG @drgertrudelyons Dr. Gertrude Lyons on YouTube @rewritethemothercode Dr. Gertude Lyons on LinkedIn @gertrudelyons Dr. Gertrude Lyons on Pinterest @drgertrudelyons Rewrite the Mother Code Podcast Rewrite the Mother Code by Dr. Gertrude Lyons Ed.D Follow Christy @theheartfulparent | Join the Heartful Parent Academy with code PODCAST

In this episode, I sit down with confidence coach Sue Reid for an honest and empowering conversation about what it really means to have self-confidence. We talk about the moments in life that can shake our belief in ourselves, how old patterns keep us playing small, and why building confidence is often less about doing more—and more about how we see and value ourselves. Sue shares thoughtful insight on how to recognize if you might be struggling with confidence, and what it actually takes to begin shifting that. From emotional resilience to the power of community, we explore what it means to grow confidence from the inside out—and why even small steps can change everything.   Three Takeaways: Confidence isn't just about what you can do, it's about how you see yourself. The way we treat ourselves quietly shapes everything, especially our ability to grow. Who you spend time with matters more than you think when it comes to personal change.   Self-confidence isn't about what you can do – it's about how you see yourself  and what you believe you're worth.       Confidence Matters by Sue Reid. https://suereid.substack.com/       Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour     Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It's a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143   Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!  

If you've ever felt too fiery, too loud, too much—this episode is your permission slip to take up space. Today, Jessica is joined by Emma, who opens up about her path of radical self-reclamation.  What happens when the identities you've clung to—like being the “fit, strong, disciplined” athlete—start creating more anxiety than alignment? What if you could let them go and still be worthy?Emma shares how tools like the TBM work have helped her create her own roadmap to her parenting journey—and how along the way, she was able to hold and heal her inner child. Her story is raw, real, and full of moments that will make you pause and reflect on your own path. She sheds light on navigating vulnerability, the push-pull of sharing online, and the sacred power of embracing spiritual awakening and new chapters—not as something to fear, but as the space where your next evolution begins.This is your reminder that you are allowed to change. You're allowed to grow. And you're allowed to soften. The past does not define you—and you deserve to move forward with ease, peace, and radical self-acceptance.**Trigger Warning: Eating Disorder briefly mentioned at 00:16:26**Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: Join the Pathway MembershipReprogram your limiting beliefs and step into your most magnetic self! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.JOIN HEREUse code EXPANDED for 20% off first month Get the latest from TBMLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join HereThe Authenticity Challenge Manifest the life you *actually* want. JOIN NOWBrand New Video Series! Channeling with Lacy: Your Energetic Update for Manifesting + All New STRIPPED DI & EMBODIED DIFree live call on How to Stay Magnetic in 2025? Drop your email here and get the replay!Access brand new Magic Dark Playlist inside the TBM App – Join the Pathway (use code EXPANDED for 20% off first month) New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what's holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestShare a voice note of your manifestation story to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC Infrared Sauna Blanket  Osea - 10% off with MAGNETIC10Undaria Algae Body ButterUndaria Algae Body OilDream Night Cream In This Episode We Talk About:Emma's astrological chart and how it shaped her identityHealing childhood conditioning around being “too much”Performing vs. being: navigating early programmingReparenting through conscious motherhoodPostpartum as a spiritual portal and the unexpected initiationsResistance to wellness and spiritual trends on social mediaUsing tools like astrology, human design, and TBM as a roadmap back to selfAligned action vs. fear-based discipline in manifestationIdentity loss and rebuilding in the postpartum periodRediscovering devotion over discipline in spiritual practiceThe power of intuitive movement and breaking workout conditioningHonoring your creative seasons and the timeline of authentic return Mentioned In the Episode: Find our authenticity challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Inner Child DI, Feel Your Feelings DI, and the Validation DI) Connect with Emma@realwithemma on IGREALWITH The Podcast Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@Lacyannephillips@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast

Today's lesson is radical self-acceptance, how to stop fixing yourself, and finally come home to who you are. Why did I choose this as one of the 10 topics? In my nearly 20 years of coaching women, self-acceptance comes up again and again. It's a pattern I see so often. If you're in a transformational period, doing deep work, chasing self-improvement, and still not feeling like you're enough... you're not alone. That push to grow while still feeling unworthy? That's exactly why this topic matters. If you're someone who keeps chasing the next thing, thinking that will finally fix you or make you feel complete, and it's still not landing, this is the episode I really want you to hear. To make this easy to follow and offer some reflection, I'm breaking the episode into five powerful parts, including the truth about why this is so hard and why it's something we tend to circle back to again and again in our personal growth journey. Of course there is a worksheet for this episode! Download it at http://andreaowen.com/670 What you'll hear about in this episode: What the Hell Is Radical Self-Acceptance? It's not about loving everything, but seeing yourself fully, without judgment or sugarcoating. Why It's So Damn Hard: Cultural and generational messaging to be smaller and quieter, internalized shame from decades of shape-shifting, and the fear that self-acceptance means becoming stagnant. The Wisdom of Your Inner Child: How unmet needs and childhood wounds shape perfectionism and people-pleasing, and why re-parenting in small, present ways leads to true healing Embodied Wisdom—Learning to Trust Your Body's Intelligence: Relearning how to trust your body's intelligence, notice somatic cues, and practice self-acceptance through breathwork, rest, and nervous system care How to Actually Practice Radical Self-Acceptance: Shift your inner dialogue, build safety through compassion, and give yourself permission to be messy, soft, and worthy. Resources from this episode: How to Stop Feeling Like Shit Group Coaching Program Coming Home to Yourself Private Coaching Write Your Way Through It Group Coaching Getting Damn Good At Life Sign up to make sure you don't miss any of my birthday episodes! Lesson 1: Self-abandonment, codependency, and self-trust Lesson 2: The Four Holy Emotions: How Grief, Terror, Rage, and Shame Unlock Your Power Lesson 3: The Magic of Surrender Lesson 4: Life Purpose: Coming Home to Yourself Lesson 5: What's Important for a Long-Term Relationship Lesson 6: Healing My Relationship with Love: From Heartbreak and Fear to Acceptance and Trust Lesson 7: The Three Things We're All Searching For - Freedom, Feeling Alive, and Wholeness Lesson 8: Leaving People Behind to Find Yourself Episode 557: Reparenting and inner child work with Cybele Botran Book recommendations: I love a good personal development book, and you do too, right? I've compiled a list of book recommendations, as mentioned in past episodes. Check out these amazing book recommendations here. Happy reading!   MSN is supported by: We love the sponsors that make our show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: andreaowen.com/sponsors/ Episode link: http://andreaowen.com/670 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

SummaryIn this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss revisits key insights from previous conversations with professionals in the field of therapy and psychology. The discussion covers themes of parental alienation, the importance of community support, and the power of personal agency in overcoming adversity. Lawrence emphasizes the significance of understanding neutral circumstances, the role of judgment in our lives, and the therapeutic potential of writing amends letters for reconciliation. The episode also explores concepts of reparenting, somatic awareness, and practical strategies for fostering gratitude and hope in challenging situations.Key TakeawaysCircumstances are neutral, and our perception shapes our experience.Judgment and evaluation are constant processes in our minds.We have the power to create positive changes in our lives.Understanding estrangement and alienation is crucial for healing.Amends letters can facilitate reconciliation between estranged family members.Reparenting helps heal childhood wounds and fosters self-agency.Agency is essential for healthy relationships and personal empowerment.Somatic awareness connects our body and mind for better emotional health.Practicing gratitude can transform our perspective on difficult situations.Creating hope is vital for overcoming challenges and fostering resilience.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to the Best of Series02:53 - The Volcanic Analogy: Growth Through Adversity04:14 - Understanding Neutral Circumstances11:56 - The Power of Judgment and Evaluation15:18 - Estrangement vs. Alienation: Definitions and Impacts18:59 - The Importance of Men's Letters in Reconciliation22:46 - Reparenting: Healing Childhood Wounds25:35 - Agency and Self-Agency: Empowering Relationships29:57 - Somatic Awareness: Connecting Body and Mind32:19 - Gratitude Power-Up: Transforming Perspectives35:39 - Better by Eight: Creating Positive ChangeIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email-      familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim introduce the concept of “reparenting ourselves,” an approach that may feel unfamiliar yet serves as a cornerstone of emotional healing and spiritual growth. They explain how unresolved childhood wounds can remain “frozen”, influencing our adult behavior, relationships, and emotional patterns until our inner children are recognized and healed.The hosts discuss the signs that show when our inner child needs attention, such as persistent self-criticism, fear of abandonment, emotional outbursts, and excessive people-pleasing—behaviors often rooted in coping strategies learned early in life. These patterns frequently lead to external blame, diverting attention from the deeper, internal issues creating the issue. Gareth and Kim show how reframing such triggers opens opportunities to address one's own unhealed wounds.Our hosts guide us on how we can gradually reshape our relationships both with ourselves and others. While stressing that these wounds were not self-created, they show how healing them is ultimately a personal responsibility—an empowering step toward breaking old cycles and finding the internal nourishment we so often seek externally.Become a Community Member at https://community.garethmichael.com/ to join our community and get early access to new episodes, answers to your personal questions and so much more.Have a question to ask Gareth & Kim? Send us a text!Support the show

In This Bitesize HYL Episode... Kayla discusses the importance of forgiving parents who may not have had the emotional tools to support their children. She emphasizes that forgiveness is not about excusing past behavior but about freeing oneself from resentment. Kayla also shares personal experiences and insights on how to navigate the journey of forgiveness, highlighting the benefits of letting go of anger and the impact it can have on future generations. Takeaways Forgiveness is about freeing yourself from resentment. Parents can only give what they have emotionally. Letting go of resentment is for your own peace. Forgiveness can break generational cycles of dysfunction. Reparenting yourself is essential for healing. Compassion for parents can shift your perspective. Healing starts with personal responsibility. Keywords forgiveness, emotional healing, parental relationships, personal growth, self-compassion, generational cycles, emotional tools, resentment, healing journey, reparenting -- Follow Kayla for more inspiration: Instagram: @kayla.fite TIk Tok: @KaylaFite Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Childhood trauma is one of the most common expressions of generational trauma—and it doesn't stay in the past.Studies show that over 95% of trauma is inherited, often passed down through family dynamics, emotional neglect, and survival patterns that begin in childhood.It lives on in the inner child, showing up as fear of intimacy, emotional shutdown, panic, self-sabotage, and the inability to feel safe in love—even when we want it most.In this episode of The Sovereign Sisterhood Podcast, Elvira and I go deeper into the spiritual and somatic journey of inner child healing, and how it's directly tied to nervous system regulation, faith, emotional connection, and the legacy we leave behind.We share personal stories and explore:-How unhealed childhood trauma affects adult relationships-The emotional walls we build to protect ourselves from being hurt again-What it means to reparent from a place of compassion, not control-How boundaries, emotional safety, and self-responsibility transform intimacyThe way generational pain continues through family dynamics and parentingHow healing isn't about fixing the past, but creating a new way of beingYou'll learn practical holistic and spiritual tools to begin reparenting your inner child using Kundalini Yoga Therapy which includes nervous system healing, and the Christ-centered perspective of A Course in Miracles.We'll guide you through healing issues with intimacy, panic responses, facing deep emotional fear, and rebuilding connection with God, your body, and your relationships.This episode is about returning to the truth of who you are: whole, worthy of love, and safe to be seen.This episode is for you if:-You struggle to feel safe in emotional or physical intimacy-You shut down, overreact, or disconnect when triggered-You've inherited patterns of emotional neglect, silence, or instability-You want to reparent your inner child with love, not punishment-You're ready to break the cycle and create a new legacy for yourself, your children, and your relationships

Send us a textWhat happens when your inner child is calling the shots in your adult life? This raw, vulnerable conversation dives deep into inner child healing and how unresolved childhood trauma quietly shapes our relationships, decision-making, and self-perception.The hosts open up about confronting painful family truths, standing firm in their experiences without guilt, and what real healing actually looks like. “I was F-ing people up because I was fed up,” one host admits—proving just how much unhealed wounds can silently damage our closest connections until we finally face them.

In this episode, we sit down with our social media manager/helper/everything-assistant, Joey D'Angelo, who shares their relationship with our work on the podcast. Joey is not a parent, but is full of childlike wonder and endless compassion, and has been on a recovery journey which includes reparenting herself. What happens when we turn the principles of mutual respect, emotional regulation, and co-regulation inward? Joey shares the impact of their upbringing and how that led to their development of Borderline Personality Disorder (aka Emotional Dysregulation), and their journey through BPD recovery, re-building self-trust, reparenting, and applying conscious parenting methods to heal inner wounds. Together we explore reparenting through the lens of collaborative parenting—without parenting any children. On this episode, we discuss: ✨ What is reparenting is, and how to recover our inherent self-trust ✨ Learning new relational languages that are non-coercive, and how this neurological rewiring is challenging in the short term, but will create more peaceful relationships in the long term. ✨ How collaborative parenting principles—like connection over correction—apply to self-growth and personal healing ✨ Practical ways to nurture your inner child with empathy and patience ✨ The challenges and breakthroughs of unlearning harsh self-talk and internalized criticismWhether you're a parent or not, this conversation offers powerful insights into healing, self-trust, and cultivating an internal environment of love and understanding. Joey is a gender non-conforming, neurodivergent queer in their mid-30s. They are a white, AFAB non-parent, single person who has a value system rooted in understanding intersectionality and developing communities where equity precedes privilege. They worked in film and TV for 7 years, ran their own business between 2018 and 2021, and have worked in events, marketing, and social media for over a decade. Joey lives with Borderline Personality Disorder (also referred to as Emotional Dysregulation) in Toronto, Canada and is actively involved in justice for people who are insecurely housed, and their BPD diagnosis has completely shifted the way they care for themself, offering a North Star that's rooted in balance, comfort, and fun. Get in touch with them:Instagram, TikTok, YouTube: @hi.itsjoey Website: www.joeydangelo.squarespace.com

In this episode, I sit down with Nita Chakrabarty, a certified trauma-informed somatic and intimacy coach, spiritual teacher, and nervous system expert. We discuss her journey from corporate burnout to holistic health, the significance of inner child work, and how balance in our divine masculine and feminine energies can lead to profound healing and transformation. 00:14 Introducing Nita Chakrabarty 02:51 Embracing Humanity and Service 07:14 From Corporate Burnout to Spiritual Awakening 19:52 The Role of Intuition in Healing 24:21 Understanding Inner Child Work 30:29 Reparenting and Self-Care 30:54 Men's Inner Child Work 32:01 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 33:25 Personal Journey and Trauma 39:10 Divine Masculine and Feminine Archetypes 42:22 Connecting with Your Inner Wizard 45:22 Healing and Integration 49:42 Final Thoughts and Takeaways Connect with Nita Website: https://www.nitachakrabarty.com/ Instagram: @nitachakrabarty Threads: @nitachakrabarty Connect with Leilani Website: www.shamanleilani.com Instagram: @shamanleilani Tiktok: @shamanleilani Threads: @shamanleilani Medium: @shamanleilani

Send us a textOne of the most profound things I have worked on in my recovery journey is showing love to myself even after I make a mistake. So, when I had a recent experience where my unconditional love was tested after a slip-up with food, I had to share it with you. This week's episode 307 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about discovering unconditional love after a food slip!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm sharing a recent food slip I had during a dinner with friends, eating unplanned seconds, and how, through recovery, I discovered the transformative power of loving myself, regardless of my mistakes. Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:Sharing the backstory of what led to my food slip and how I immediately contacted my sponsor about it. The profound moment of self-love I had while doing my inner family work. Realizing that I still get to be loved, regardless of my mistakes or actions. The importance of honesty and vulnerability in my recovery and self-healing journey,Remember that you are worthy of love exactly as you are. Embrace your journey, be kind to yourself, and know that one slip does not define your recovery.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!After Participating in Private Coaching with Barb, You'll...*Be able to feel peaceful and calm when setting boundaries*Know how to communicate directly with people*Your feelings will become more "right-sized"*Do things because you really want to do them, not because you feel obligated*Live your life by your own values and feel proud of that*Learn to keep the focus on yourself and still be kind and helpful*Come closer to realizing your authentic identitySign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

Send us a textOne of the most profound things I have worked on in my recovery journey is showing love to myself even after I make a mistake. So, when I had a recent experience where my unconditional love was tested after a slip-up with food, I had to share it with you. This week's episode 307 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast is about discovering unconditional love after a food slip!In this episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm sharing a recent food slip I had during a dinner with friends, eating unplanned seconds, and how, through recovery, I discovered the transformative power of loving myself, regardless of my mistakes. Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:Sharing the backstory of what led to my food slip and how I immediately contacted my sponsor about it. The profound moment of self-love I had while doing my inner family work. Realizing that I still get to be loved, regardless of my mistakes or actions. The importance of honesty and vulnerability in my recovery and self-healing journey,Remember that you are worthy of love exactly as you are. Embrace your journey, be kind to yourself, and know that one slip does not define your recovery.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? Are you putting yourself last? Perhaps you're the consummate accommodator whose people-pleasing ways are wearing you out. If so, you're a perfect fit for my 12-week private coaching program!After Participating in Private Coaching with Barb, You'll...*Be able to feel peaceful and calm when setting boundaries*Know how to communicate directly with people*Your feelings will become more "right-sized"*Do things because you really want to do them, not because you feel obligated*Live your life by your own values and feel proud of that*Learn to keep the focus on yourself and still be kind and helpful*Come closer to realizing your authentic identitySign up for a free 30 minute Better Boundaries call with me at this link. https://calendly.com/barb-nangle/better-boundaries-callCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterFree boundaries resourcesFacebookInstagramWork with Barb! Buy Barb a teaGet a free chapter of my upcoming book: Roadside Recovery 

Send us a textHi my babies!In today's episode we talk all about:Pervy web developersPTSD and delayed processing Are we all God or NAH? (Religion vs belief systems)Reparentification of myself and my parents Giving your parents grace (Because none of us really know what the fuck we're doing)Learning how to experience your parents as parents and not as humans you have to save or sacrifice your well being for (based on assumptions you've made about their past and their current needs) Am I bi polar or am I just a human who deeply feels things + Pleasure Tips For Oral Sign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Shop from The Ethereal Pleasure Academy Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Shop The SIREN twist vibrator by VUSH: https://www.loveatiya.com/product-page/vush-siren-twist-vibrator Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to theloveatiyaexperience@gmail.com Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

The Perinatal Podcast | Reparenting & Nurturing Your Inner Child with Liz Higgins | Episode 103Liz is back! This week on The Perinatal Podcast, Liz Higgins, LMFT-S, returns to educate us all on Reparenting and nurturing your inner child. It's so much new information for me, and I'm elated to have learned myself and now to get to share with y'all!Liz is a licensed couples and individual therapist, writer, and the host of The Millennial Life Podcast. Her approach integrates deep emotional work with strategic insight, allowing her clients to unlock greater creativity, resilience, and connection in every aspect of their lives. Liz founded Millennial Life Counseling in 2017, a Dallas based practice helping millennial couples and individuals create epic marriages, relationships, and lives. Her work has been featured on platforms including Huffington Post, The New York Times, Elite Daily, Today.com, and more.Welcome back to The Perinatal Podcast!Find Liz!Website: https://www.millenniallifecounseling.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/millenniallifecounseling/The Podcast: https://www.millenniallifecounseling.com/podcastThank you to today's show sponsors!Essenther: https://us.essenther.com/AMPLIFYWELLNESSWITHMEG Promo Code: AMPLIFYWELLNESSWITHMEGMomanda: https://us.momanda.cc/?dt_id=39578 Promo Code - PERINATAL Needed: https://thisisneeded.com/?utm_channel=Needed%20-%20Creator&irpid=4545739&irmpname=meg%40megdukelcsw.com&iradid=1770238&irgwc=1&utm_source=creator&utm_medium=4665719&utm_campaign=1654615&icid=XgjX7YUz7xyKUt1VqHVEd3AXUksxaM2IKTb5V00 Promo Code - PERINATALPODCAST Muse: https://choosemuse.com/pages/muse-2-offers?utm_source=4739&utm_medium=Affiliate&cppid=4739&cpclid=6ead105f2fb2454a87218286b4b5636f&utm_campaign=Amplify%20Wellness%20Coaching&utm_content= Promo Code - AMPLIFY WELLNESSThanks so much for joining me for this episode of The Perinatal Podcast. I'd love for you to write a review of my show on your app, and don't forget to subscribe so you get a notification when new content is posted. Take a moment to leave a 5-star rating, too! You can access additional mental wellness content and ad-free episodes by purchasing a monthly subscription at ⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theperinatalpodcast/subscribe⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-perinatal-podcast/id1590957531⁠⁠.Follow me at @AmplifyWellnessWithMeg on Instagram and find Meg Duke LCSW on Facebook. You can also look for The Perinatal Podcast content by searching the hashtag, #ThePerinatalPodcast. Our show is executive produced by David Presley and produced by Meg Duke. Our theme song was written and performed by Antwone McDuffie.

In this 2 part episode, Jess and Sav welcome Liz Peterson, who shares her harrowing journey of trauma and healing after experiencing sexual abuse as a child. The conversation delves into the complexities of navigating life after trauma, the impact of grooming and manipulation, and the importance of community support. Liz emphasizes the need for awareness and vigilance in protecting children, while also discussing her experiences as a mother and the challenges of breaking generational cycles of trauma. This candid discussion aims to empower listeners and shed light on the often-taboo topics surrounding abuse and recovery. This conversation delves into the complex themes of trauma, authority, and personal growth, focusing on the experiences of individuals who faced abuse in a school setting. The discussion highlights the grooming behaviors of authority figures, the impact of sexual abuse on identity, and the coping mechanisms employed by survivors. It also addresses the complicity of the community and the dynamics that allowed such abuse to occur, emphasizing the need for awareness and change.Chapters00:00 Trigger Warnings and Heavy Topics05:10 Introduction and Setting the Stage05:15 Navigating Motherhood and Parenting Challenges05:24 Life Transitions and Personal Growth06:50 The Complexities of Emotional Regulation07:43 Reparenting and Healing from Trauma12:52 Unpacking the Past: Experiences of Abuse19:11 The Grooming Process: Recognizing Red Flags21:51 Unpacking Past Experiences of Inappropriate Behavior24:47 The Impact of Teacher-Student Dynamics01:00:44 Reflections on Power Dynamics in Education

In this moving episode of Mental Matters , host Asekho sits down with a guest whose life has been shaped by decades of navigating toxic family dynamics, emotional abuse, and the silent scars of unresolved trauma. Together, they unravel the complexities of growing up in an unsafe environment, where love was weaponized and trust felt impossible. The conversation dives into the raw realities of living in fight-or-flight mode, the toll of people-pleasing, and the lifelong journey of reparenting oneself to rebuild self-trust. You'll hear how the guest's struggles with grief, identity, and isolation led to a powerful awakening—transforming pain into purpose through advocacy, boundary-setting, and radical self-care. This episode doesn't shy away from the hard truths: the cost of silence, the power of “no contact,” and the slow, nonlinear path to healing. Whether you're grappling with your own trauma or seeking tools to support others, this conversation offers hope, validation, and actionable insights for reclaiming your worth.Sponsors and important linksSubscribe to my newsletter: asekhos-newsletter.beehiiv.com/subscribe if you are interested in newsletter beehiiv is the place to go: www.beehiiv.com?via=Asekho-TotoWant to be a guest on Mental Matters Hosted By Asekho Toto? Send Asekho Toto a message on PodMatch, here: www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1604880114184x746605277921114400You can buy my book on Amazon: www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B08BRLN7QV/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&sr=More on the guest: https://jenniferpilates.com/

This is the last episode in the series about reparenting with The Marion Method. In this episode, I welcome Nic Wilson, who is a Marion Method Mentor and Aware Parenting instructor. Nic shares about how she first came to The Marion Method 7 years ago, in a 1:1 willingness mentoring session with me. She talks about the power of reparenting with The Marion Method, including how our relationships with our Inner Loving Presences can often result in our outer relationships changing. Nic also shares about how her life has changed through the will and willingness work, and how she uses Psychospiritual Entrepreneurship, such as in posting on social media. Nic offers 1:1 mentoring, as well as her Surviving School with Aware Parenting and The Marion Method Course, amongst other courses. You can find her on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/peacefulparenting/ and on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/PeacefulParenting.com.au Her website is at: https://peacefulparenting.com.au/ If you want to learn more about The Marion Method, you can do so on my Psychospiritual Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-psychospiritual-podcast/id1344385341 You can find out more about my work at www.marionrose.net and my books at: https://marionrose.net/books/ You can also find me here: https://www.instagram.com/theawareparentingpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/_marion_rose_/ https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/ www.facebook.com/MarionRosePhD

If you've ever felt like something was missing in your emotional development, struggled with self-worth, or found yourself repeating unhealthy patterns in relationships, you might need reparenting. In this episode, we're diving deep into what reparenting is, my top six signs that you need to work on this, and my two-step guide to making it happen. Today, you'll walk away with a ton of actionable strategies to start reparenting yourself, because it's never too late to give yourself the care and validation you deserve.____________________________ Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/reclaiming-yourself-a-step-by-step-guide-to-self-healing-and-reparenting-yourself Grab The Feelings List: https://abbymedcalf.com/feelingslist Grab my Grounding Exercises: https://abbymedcalf.com/groundingGrab the Reparenting Yourself Bundle on Patreon! https://abbymedcalf.com/patreon-reparenting Learn how to create and hold healthy, loving boundaries. Buy my newest book on Amazon, Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Ease and Joy https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book____________________________ Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to  https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you'll find past episodes. For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you've got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop Say hello on social:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abbymedcalfInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthrivingLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthrivingYouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, we're breaking down one of the biggest myths in personal development: the idea that positive thinking alone is the key to happiness and success. While the world tells us to "just think positive," my guest today, Anat Peri, is here to tell us why that approach doesn't actually work—and what we should do instead. Anat, an inner child expert and founder of Training Camp for the Soul, has spent over 20 years helping people heal deep emotional wounds and break free from toxic patterns. In this conversation, she shares why true healing comes from feeling, not just thinking, and how suppressing emotions can lead to anxiety, disconnection, and self-sabotage. We also explore how childhood experiences shape our emotional responses, the role of the nervous system in processing emotions, and the 90-second rule for moving through feelings instead of avoiding them. If you've ever wondered why affirmations, gratitude lists, or "just staying positive" haven't created real change for you, this episode is a must-listen.

Ep. 135 Do you feel like there's often a rebellious, childlike part of you calling the shots despite your best efforts to take action aligned with your goals? Does she procrastinate to the point of self-sabotage, or go for the box of cookies when you know a solid meal is what you need? Does this rebellion come out when you're working to an extreme, being especially hard on yourself or tying your worth solely to your productivity? This is where “reparenting” ourselves comes in: the part of adulthood where we realize it's our job to be our own parent, but we have no idea where to start when a parent was also unkind to themselves or not in touch with their own worth and needs. Over the last four years, I've slowly learned how to answer the question, "what do I need right now?" — sometimes it's good old discipline, other times it's connection or rest. I found that I got to recreate my own “inner mother” who was capable of being honest and curious enough to make the call from a place of trust and self knowing,  but it wasn't easy to get there. I'm walking you through every step I had to go through to move from self-criticism to self-parenting. HERE'S THE JUICE: Could letting go of perfectionism and competition help us rediscover joy and authentic self-expression? How to shift away from productivity-based self-worth to intrinsic self-worth & why treating yourself with kindness can be used as a tool to  build self-trust over time  Practical steps for developing your inner mother voice through accessible day-to-day actions such as unstructured play to explore creativity How to self-regulate and break the cycles of self-avoidance we might have formed in our childhood  Ways to recognize when your inner child is running the show and possibly hindering your day to day without us even realizing it    TIMESTAMPS: Watch the full episode on What's The Juice YouTube Channel  To support our ad-free show, shop Olivia's line of herbalist-formulated supplements for digestion, anxiety, thyroid support, and more by visiting www.organicolivia.com.   Connect with What's The Juice: Follow What's The Juice  Leave us a voicemail  Email us: Whatsthejuice@organicolivia.com Connect with Olivia: Follow Organic Olivia  Olivia's personal IG Organic Olivia on TikTok Read Olivia's blog posts

In this episode I chat with Ralph De La Rosa, a meditation teacher, therapist, and author of Outshining Trauma. Ralph shares his personal journey of healing from PTSD, depression, and addiction, and how IFS helped him access Self Energy beyond traditional meditation. Key Takeaways: Self Energy and Buddhist concepts like Buddha-nature share striking similarities. Meditation can be a powerful tool for parts work, offering a structured way to access Self. What happens when Self meets our most burdened parts? Self Energy as a reparenting force Instead of rejecting painful emotions or defensive parts, he encourages holding them with warmth, like placing them in the sunlight of Self. Trauma constricts and healing expands Start with Self rather than diving directly into the pain. Parts are just like people Radical self-compassion as meeting every part of ourselves—including the ones that hold fear, addiction, or pain—with love, rather than trying to suppress or fix them. Reparenting happens naturally when we turn toward our parts with compassion. Favorite Quote: "One thing I've learned from direct experience of Self is that it can expand to be bigger than any level of heartache, any sense of brokenness, any sense of wounding, no matter how deep, no matter how wide, no matter how big. Self-energy can expand to fill the entire room you're sitting in. If you practice with it, if you practice with it and your parts, we could begin to trust that." – Ralph De La Rosa About Ralph De La Rosa: Ralph De La Rosa is a psychotherapist, meditation teacher, and author of Outshining Trauma: A New Vision of Radical Self-Compassion. His work integrates IFS, neuroscience, and Buddhist wisdom to help people navigate healing and transformation. Check out his upcoming online course: www.ralphdelarosa.com/breaking-cycles-course   Episode Sponsor: Sentur  Propel your healing journey forward with an IFS-inspired trauma-informed digital mental health companion designed for real transformation. Download the Sentur app here   Check out The One inside Self-Led merch at The One Inside store Watch video clips from select episodes on  The One Inside on YouTube Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger. Jeff Schrum co-produces The One Inside Podcast. He is a writer, counselor, and IFS Level 1 practitioner.   Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start.  Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created music for the podcast. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program.   If you are interested in sponsoring an episode or two of The One Inside Podcast please contact Tammy at tammysollenberger@comcast.net

Today, we're diving deep into something that touches so many of us—why we seek external validation and approval from others, and how healing our younger parts can set us free. If you've ever found yourself people-pleasing, perfecting, over-performing, or seeking approval from others, this episode is for you.We'll explore:
 ✔️ Why younger parts of us drive our overfunctioning tendencies
 ✔️ How unmet childhood needs shape our patterns of guilt and perfectionism
 ✔️ The difference between external validation and true inner security
 ✔️ My own journey of reconnecting with an 8-year-old part of me (and how it changed everything)
 ✔️ Simple, practical ways you can start reparenting your younger self today Whether you're longing for more joy, play, and vitality—or you're ready to step off the hamster wheel of approval-seeking—this episode will give you tools to start reconnecting with the young parts of you that have been waiting for your attention. Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here. Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: Episode 138: Breaking Free from Overfunctioning—Discover the Hidden Costs of Always Being 'The Responsible One' ‍Episode 140: If You Struggle with Guilt and Second-Guessing Yourself, This Will Set You Free – How to Stop Blaming Yourself for Things That Aren't Your Fault Episode 39: Boundaries for Your Soul—How to Navigate Your Overwhelming Thoughts & Feelings Thanks to our sponsors: Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today. Go to puritywoods.com/BESTOFYOU or enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order. Go to Quince.com/bestofyou for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Sign up for AromaTru's Insider Club today and you'll receive a FREE Waterless Oil Diffuser and a FREE lemon eucalyptus oil - that's over $200 in savings. Head to aromatruorganics.com/bestofyou to take advantage of this exclusive offer. Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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