Podcasts about familylife blended

On this FamilyLife Today episode, hosted by Dave and Ann Wilson, we feature a segment from the FamilyLife Blended podcast with Ron Deal and guest Dr. Adrian Hickmon, founder of Capstone Treatment Center in Arkansas. The discussion focuses on parenting children with addictive behaviors, such as drugs, alcohol, or pornography. Dr. Hickmon explains the underlying causes of these behaviors, including trauma, isolation, and disconnection, likening them to a "magma pool" beneath a volcano. He advises parents to find facts, triage the situation, and avoid detaching emotionally, instead emphasizing attachment and healthy boundaries. Ron shares a personal story about his son's near-fatal alcohol incident, illustrating the balance of moving toward a child with love while setting boundaries. The episode underscores the gospel's rupture-repair-masterpiece model as a framework for family restoration. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

On this FamilyLife Today episode, hosted by Dave and Ann Wilson, we feature a segment from the FamilyLife Blended podcast with Ron Deal and guest Dr. Adrian Hickmon, founder of Capstone Treatment Center in Arkansas. The discussion focuses on parenting children with addictive behaviors, such as drugs, alcohol, or pornography. Dr. Hickmon explains the underlying causes of these behaviors, including trauma, isolation, and disconnection, likening them to a "magma pool" beneath a volcano. He advises parents to find facts, triage the situation, and avoid detaching emotionally, instead emphasizing attachment and healthy boundaries. Ron shares a personal story about his son's near-fatal alcohol incident, illustrating the balance of moving toward a child with love while setting boundaries. The episode underscores the gospel's rupture-repair-masterpiece model as a framework for family restoration. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

In this bonus episode, Jim Jackson and Ron Deal discuss the unique challenges and opportunities of blended families through the lens of the Connected Families Framework. Ron, a bestselling author and host of the Family Life Blended podcast, shares his 30+ years of expertise in step-family dynamics. The conversation explores how step-parents can build emotional […]

In this episode of Family Life Blended, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace explore the myths surrounding stepfamilies and the myths that often cause harm to blended family dynamics. The conversation is framed around common misconceptions, historical folklore, and personal experiences with step-parenting. They begin by discussing how negative stereotypes have been perpetuated, particularly the myth that all stepmothers are wicked and all stepfathers are abusive. This stereotype has roots in fairy tales, notably the Brothers Grimm stories, where stepmothers were often depicted as evil characters. The hosts note that while there is a small grain of truth to some of these stories (as abusive step-parents exist), they don't represent the reality for most stepparents, who are often loving, hardworking, and deeply committed to their stepchildren. They stress that stepping into a parental role in a blended family requires time and patience, and stepparents should avoid rushing or forcing relationships to develop.Another myth discussed is the idea that stepparents are instantly accepted and integrated into the family. While some young children may quickly bond with a stepparent, the process of blending families typically takes time and doesn't happen overnight. The hosts explain that trying to assume an immediate parental role, especially in cases where stepchildren have strong loyalties to their biological parents, can be detrimental. They caution against the idea of erasing or replacing the biological parent in the child's life.Ron and Gala also dive into the myth that calling stepchildren "my children" will create a mutual, instant bond. While it's important to express care and make the child feel included, they emphasize the need for communication and co-creation between stepparent and child about their relationship. They also tackle the belief that stepparents should love their stepchildren the same as their biological children. The reality is that the connection may not be as strong initially, but that doesn't mean it can't grow over time. The key is to be equitable in how stepparents treat both biological and stepchildren, with fairness being the priority.Through these discussions, the episode provides valuable insights and practical advice for families navigating the complexities of blended family life. The hosts encourage listeners to embrace the process of building relationships gradually, be patient, and avoid the harmful myths that can cause unrealistic expectations. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

In this episode of Family Life Blended, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace explore the myths surrounding stepfamilies and the myths that often cause harm to blended family dynamics. The conversation is framed around common misconceptions, historical folklore, and personal experiences with step-parenting. They begin by discussing how negative stereotypes have been perpetuated, particularly the myth that all stepmothers are wicked and all stepfathers are abusive. This stereotype has roots in fairy tales, notably the Brothers Grimm stories, where stepmothers were often depicted as evil characters. The hosts note that while there is a small grain of truth to some of these stories (as abusive step-parents exist), they don't represent the reality for most stepparents, who are often loving, hardworking, and deeply committed to their stepchildren. They stress that stepping into a parental role in a blended family requires time and patience, and stepparents should avoid rushing or forcing relationships to develop.Another myth discussed is the idea that stepparents are instantly accepted and integrated into the family. While some young children may quickly bond with a stepparent, the process of blending families typically takes time and doesn't happen overnight. The hosts explain that trying to assume an immediate parental role, especially in cases where stepchildren have strong loyalties to their biological parents, can be detrimental. They caution against the idea of erasing or replacing the biological parent in the child's life.Ron and Gala also dive into the myth that calling stepchildren "my children" will create a mutual, instant bond. While it's important to express care and make the child feel included, they emphasize the need for communication and co-creation between stepparent and child about their relationship. They also tackle the belief that stepparents should love their stepchildren the same as their biological children. The reality is that the connection may not be as strong initially, but that doesn't mean it can't grow over time. The key is to be equitable in how stepparents treat both biological and stepchildren, with fairness being the priority.Through these discussions, the episode provides valuable insights and practical advice for families navigating the complexities of blended family life. The hosts encourage listeners to embrace the process of building relationships gradually, be patient, and avoid the harmful myths that can cause unrealistic expectations. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

Blended families and stepfamilies face unique challenges on their journey of faith. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob Rienow welcomes Ron Deal, founder of FamilyLife Blended, to share insights, resources, and encouragement for stepfamilies seeking to grow in unity and Christ-centered love. Topics include essential steps for thriving as a blended family, how to approach remarriage conversations with children, and creating emotional safety in the home. This heartfelt conversation will equip you with wisdom and practical tools for navigating the complexities of stepfamily life. Featured Resource: Preparing to Blend: A comprehensive premarital book for couples forming blended families. Perfect for individual use or group counseling. Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09GD14T22 Dating and the Single Parent: Guidance for navigating dating and blending families. Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09S1DKZ36 Family Life: To explore these tools and learn more, visit https://www.familylife.com/blended 

How do you identify narcissism? How do you deal with a narcissist in marriage or co-parenting? Ron Deal talks with counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner about her personal journey with narcissism and now the professional help she offers to those in a relationship when someone seeks to control, manipulate, shift blame, gaslight, create fear, or act out in other narcissistic ways. Counselor Slade-Waggoner offers an understanding of how narcissism develops, what it looks like in a relationship, and biblical strategies to manage the behavior, particularly in a blended family setting. Waggoner says you don't have to stay stuck in an unhealthy cycle—there is help! Show Notes and Resources Check out Laurel's website and available books. Laurel's Podcast Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Ron's comprehensive list of Recognized Smart Stepfamily Therapy Providers Check out everything FamilyLife Blended has to offer. Send in a tax deductible gift to the FamilyLife Blended Team.

Dave and Ann Wilson welcome Scott Kedersha, author and marriage pastor, and Ron Deal to the show. They explore how Scott's early experiences of grief and family disruption shaped his approach to marriage and parenting. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry: SummitOnStepfamilies.com Connect with Scott Kedersha and hear more of his thoughts at scottkedersha.com. And you can find his book, Ready or Knot?, at scottkedersha.com/ready-or-knot. Enjoyed this episode? Listen to more with Scott here! Ron Deal leads FamilyLife Blended and hosts the FamilyLife Blended Podcast. Find more resources for Blended Families: https://shop.familylife.com/product/the-smart-stepfamily/. Listen to the full episode: https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/132-growing-up-blended-navigating-loss/ Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

You may have heard of John Gottman's 'Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse': criticism, contempt, withdrawal, and stonewalling. Guess what the precursor to all these is? In this special episode, Dave and Ann Wilson share Ron and Nan Deal's wisdom that connects the dots between biblical trust and modern research. Show Notes and Resources Ron Deal leads FamilyLife Blended and hosts the FamilyLife Blended Podcast. Find more resources for Blended Families Join us aboard the Love Like You Mean It Marriage Cruise from February 8-15 for an exclusive journey dedicated to strengthening your marriage. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Does your family have a designated Sabbath? How do you spend that day? Author Kathi Lipp shares with Ron Deal her suggestions for reimagining Christian Sabbath that is a meaningful day with the Lord and one another as you prioritize rest and share a meal together. On Sabbath, we want to focus on who God is and His provision for us as we rest and connect with one another. Lipp suggests that food provides the platform to linger in relationships, and feeding your family shows you care for them. She shares recipes from her new book, Sabbath Soup, and offers ideas on preparing for Sabbath and creating a special day each week. Show Notes and Resources  Watch Women and Blended Families! Join us for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Learn more about Kathi and get her new book: Sabbath Soup Thank you for supporting FamilyLife Blended with a donation!

Should your partner be your first priority in a blended family? What if your biological kids are still reeling from transition? Hear what Ron Deal and Gayla Grace, of FamilyLife Blended have to say on this important question! Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, "Unoffendable"—join us today! Learn More About The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources for blended families and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Should your partner be your first priority in a blended family? What if your biological kids are still reeling from transition? Hear what Ron Deal Gayla Grace, of FamilyLife Blended have to say on this important question! To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

What's it like for a child when their parent remarries? Explore the unique losses and needs of children in blended families in this important conversation with Ron Deal and Rod and Rachel Faulkner Brown. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Rachel and catch more of their ideas at rachelfaulknerbrown.com and find her on Insta at @rachelfaulknerbrown. Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast. And think deeper about ministering to blended families at the Blended Summit -- coming up in October. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Remarriage after loss is never easy. Rachel Faulkner Brown, widowed twice, shares her journey of loss, grief and eventual remarriage to her husband, Rod. Listen in to their conversation with Ron Deal about the complexities of blending families after loss. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Rachel and catch more of their ideas at rachelfaulknerbrown.com and find her on Insta at @rachelfaulknerbrown. Listen to the full episode here Discover more resources and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast. And think deeper about ministering to blended families at the Blended Summit -- coming up in October. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

In this episode, Lesa Koski interviews Ron Deal, a world-renowned expert on blending families. The discussion covers Ron's background and the journey that led him to his current role, including his professional experiences and personal challenges. Ron shares practical advice for single parents considering dating, the role of a stepparent, and handling complex family dynamics. He emphasizes the importance of managing fears to build successful blended families and touches on crucial topics such as co-parenting and involving children in the dating process. The episode also highlights Ron's various resources, including books, podcasts, and online courses, aimed at supporting blended families.00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement01:37 Ron's Journey to Becoming a Blended Family Expert04:57 Personal Challenges and Triumphs07:15 Dating and the Single Parent10:26 Red Flags and Yellow Lights in Relationships15:29 The Role of a Stepparent20:54 Navigating Grief in Blended Families22:40 The Importance of Intentionality in Blended Families24:01 Single Parenting vs. Blended Families26:17 Co-Parenting and Conflict Resolution28:13 Managing Fear in New Relationships31:30 Involving Kids in the Dating Process34:57 Guidelines for Introducing a New Partner37:11 Resources for Blended Families Resources by Ron Deal ----------------------------------- Ron L. Deal, LMFT, LPC President, As For Me and My House MinistriesDirector, FamilyLife Blended®, a ministry of FamilyLife®10201 W. Markham, Ste 105, Little Rock, AR 72205www.RonDeal.org | SmartStepfamilies.com www.FamilyLife.com/blended Listen or Subscribe to my FamilyLife Blended podcast hereSample media interviews and presentations Facebook: @SmartStepfamiliesFacebook: @FamilyLifeBlendedTwitter: @RonLDealInstagram: @FamilyLifeBlended

How does childhood trauma echo in our adult lives? When an adult's parents got divorced, it can still impact them decades later— from their relationship with stepparents, to blended family dynamics, and ongoing healing. Jim Ramos, founder of the men's ministry "Men in the Arena," describes his challenging upbringing. Listen in for hope in navigating the complexities of family life and pursuing personal growth, community support, and a steadfast faith. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Jim Ramos and catch more of his ideas at meninthearena.org. Find him on social media on Insta, X, and Facebook. Listen to the full episode on FamilyLife Blended: EP. 51: Growing Up in a Blender: Play the Long Game. His book, 5 Traits of a Healthy Family, is out now! We'll send it at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us toward stronger families around the world. Discover more resources and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

God understands broken people. He sent His son to die for us. Even when we feel beyond help, He meets us where we are, He loves us, and He redeems us. He sent the Holy Spirit to be our counselor and our guide. In our messiness, God wants to use our stories and our brokenness to minister to others. Show Notes and Resources Get The Smart Stepfamily as your free gift when you donate to FamilyLife Blended. Get the Blended and Blessed All-Acess Digital Pass Learn more about resources for blended families. More info for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry in October. Email us your podcast show suggestions!

Here is part 2 of 2 in the "blended wealth" series! I hope you enjoy it! Episode Overview In this episode we shed light on the unique financial planning and estate planning considerations for blended families, emphasizing the importance of tailored advice and open family communication to navigate these complexities successfully. Today's guests are Tim and Alexis Woodward, co-founders of Blend Wealth, a firm specializing in financial planning for blended families and business owners. If you haven't already done so, make sure you listen to episode 41: Blending and Building Wealth in a Blended Family before listening to this episode. Connect with Tim and Alexis: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblendcouple/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/theblendcouple Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blendwealth/ Blend Wealth: https://blendwealth.com/ Key Points 3:56 - Retirement Distribution and Wealth Preservation: Complexities of retirement distribution, wealth preservation, and estate planning for blended families. Managing different account types for tax diversification and creating a retirement income strategy that supports both parents and children in blended families. 8:14 - Estate Planning and Beneficiary Designations: The critical role of updating estate plans and beneficiary designations to reflect current family dynamics and intentions. 15:10 - Family Meetings for Estate Planning:  The value of holding family meetings to discuss and clarify estate plans to prevent misunderstandings and ensure fairness. 21:40 - Long-Term Care Planning: The necessity of planning for long-term care, particularly in blended families, and the options available, including insurance. 27:48 - Life Insurance as a Tool for Estate Planning: How life insurance, especially permanent policies, can be strategically used in estate planning for blended families. 31:36 - Investing in Relationships and the Future: The importance of investing time and resources in family relationships and future generations. Resources: Blend Wealth https://blendwealth.com/ Blended Kingdom Families https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/ Ron Deal's Smart Stepfamily https://smartstepfamilies.com/ FamilyLife Blended https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/

Help for your finances! Money matters can be a hot topic for blended families, creating strife and inequity if not handled well. Listen in as Ron Deal speaks with Gayla Grace and financial expert Greg Pettys about how couples can make wise decisions on financial issues that benefit all members of their blended family. Gain insight from listener questions such as: Should my spouse and I carry separate bank accounts? How do we spend our money equitably with “his and her” kids? Why do blended families need to do estate planning? What budgeting tools do you recommend? How do we share our resources? And more great topics applicable to every blended family. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about resources for blended families. You can watch the podcast on YouTube. You can still join the Blended and Blessed Livestream! Look for a small group in your area. Get your copy of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning Make a donation to FamilyLife Blended.

40% of marriages today create a blended family, which involve children from previous relationships or marriages. I'm very excited for these next two episodes with Tim and Alexis Woodward from the Blend Wealth team! Financial issues are a hot topic within families. And when you add additional parties, it can create added complexity. We are breaking down this topic of blended family financial planning considerations into two parts: Episode 41: Blending and Building Wealth in a Blended Family Episode 42: Wealth Protection and Transfer in a Blended Family Tim and Alexis Woodward are co-founders of Blend Wealth, a firm specializing in financial planning for blended families and business owners. We hope you enjoy this episode! If you do, make sure to share this with a "blended family" you care about!! Thank you! Connect with Tim and Alexis: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblendcouple/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/theblendcouple Blend Wealth: https://blendwealth.com/ Key Points 6:51 - Financial Planning Complexities in Blended Families: Blended families face unique challenges in both family dynamics and financial planning, often dealing with children from previous marriages. 9:36 - Starting the Financial Planning Journey: Importance of transparency and communication about finances between partners. Different approaches to managing finances: joint, separate, or a combination. 14:55 - Prenuptial Agreements: Discussed as a tool for addressing financial anxieties and ensuring security for both partners. 18:29 - Setting Financial Goals: Shared goals might include retirement planning, travel, and charitable giving. Individual goals often relate to obligations towards biological children from previous relationships. 26:33 - Blended Family Dynamics: Emphasizes the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship and intentional parenting in blended families. 33:46 - Retirement Specifics: Social security strategies for blended families. Tax-efficient withdrawal strategies from retirement accounts. Resources: Blend Wealth https://blendwealth.com/ XO Marriage https://xomarriage.com/ Blended Kingdom Families https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/ Ron Deal's Smart Stepfamily https://smartstepfamilies.com/ FamilyLife Blended https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/ Blended Family Breakthrough Podcast “Blended Family Breakthrough” Podcast with Mike and Kim Anderson I hope you enjoyed today's episode! Stay tuned for Part 2!

Our past affects our present. And when we experience complicated blended family dynamics as a child, we're forever changed. Listen to Scott Kedersha share with Ron Deal how his blended family upbringing has impacted his parenting and marriage as an adult. Show Notes and Resources Join us for Blended and Blessed to learn how to build unity in your family! Get a copy of Dating and The Single Parent Order your copy of Preparing To Blend Please call and leave us a voicemail review! 407-826-2606 Check out Ron's upcoming events Consider giving to FamilyLife Blended to support this podcast.

Approximately one-third of all weddings in America today form stepfamilies and many couples are either currently part of a stepfamily or grew up in a stepfamily. And even if you didn't, chances are extremely high that you know some stepfamilies. In this episode, we interview Blended Family speaker, author, and podcaster, Ron Deal. We hope this episode helps your marriage and family and that you'll share it with a friend! Questions to Discuss:Have you ever given any consideration to the unique challenges and opportunities of stepfamilies?What did you learn that was new to you about blended/step families?How does pride affect you and your marriage?Take a few moments to pray for your family and for any stepfamilies you know. Resources:Book - The Smart Stepfamily, by Ron DealWebsite - Family Life Blended – Strengthening StepfamiliesWebsite – SmartStepfamilies.comPodcast – FamilyLife Blended

Getting remarried in later life after the death of a spouse or divorce? How do you know if you're ready? Should you consider the feelings of your adult children? Ron Deal talks with Jim and Shirley Mozena about the risks, as well as rewards, of a later-life remarriage and what to consider as you date. Show Notes and Resources Access The Smart Stepfamily for free! More about Jim and Shirley and their book, Second Chance At Love Get your copy of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning More FamilyLife Blended resources Every gift to FamilyLife Blended for the month of December is matched! Email: blendedquestions@familylife.com or call: 407-826-2606

The holidays can be especially tough for blended families. What do you do with lost or broken Christmas traditions? Joining Dr. Randy is Ron Deal, Director of Family Life Blended, and together they will help you find the peace and joy of Christmas. Need help?  Here’s an Intentional Living BLOG for inspiration!  What is Intentional […]

When relationships with our adult kids and stepkids become strained or estranged, our hearts hurt. How did we get here? How do we fix it? Ron Deal talks with Dr. Charlotte Melcher Smith about common themes that contribute to strained relationships and what parents can do to help. Show Notes and Resources Dr. Charlotte Melcher Smith's book, Life's Third Tri Blended resources and events Send a matching gift to say "thank you" to FamilyLife Blended. Send us a suggestion for a future podcast. Register now for Blended and Blessed Live Event and Livestream.

Helping your kids with their emotions is a critical life skill, yet we often don't equip kids with these valuable skills. Ron Deal speaks with Michelle Nietert, LPC, about common feelings kids in blended families experience and how parents can help. Show Notes and Resources Michelle Nietert, M.A., LPC-S Learn about our blended events and resources. Ron's personal speaking schedule. Find a counselor. Give a tax-deductible donation to FamilyLife Blended ministry. Register now for Blended and Blessed Live Event and Livestream.

High-conflict co-parenting is a common struggle in blended families. Ron Deal speaks with Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles on how to improve co-parenting conflict as you prioritize what you're fighting for, change your response, and consider your kids first. Show Notes and Resources List of counselors Register for Preparing to Blend Co-parenting Dilemmas podcast Get the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry All-Access Digital Pass. Ron's personal speaking schedule. Send a gift to FamilyLife Blended. Email a comment about this show or call to share your thoughts. blendedquestions@familylife.com or 407-826-2606

Blended families come in all shapes and sizes. Each family is unique with its own complexities. Chris and Yodit Brooks share their stories growing up in a blended family as well as wisdom they've gained from raising both their adopted and biological children. Family stories matter. Show Notes and Resources The Smart Stepfamily on Right Now Media Get a copy of The Smart Stepfamily Summit on Stepfamily Ministry: Registration and Information Listen to Equipped with Chris Brooks. Ron's personal speaking schedule. Support the FamilyLife Blended podcast Call in a review 407-826-2606

Being a stepfather can feel like bathing cats with your hair on fire—but your thoughtful navigation of the dynamics in your home can make a difference that lasts for decades. Author Gil Stuart offers tips on stepfathering thoughtfully, and shaping the kind of family you all long for. We are the one with the influence. Are we going to use it for good or for evil? I mean, when you think about what the Scripture says: “The power of the tongue is for life or for death.” So, what are we saying? Is it going to bring life, or is it going to bring death to the stepfamily environment? What a place for a hero to step up!  - Gil Stuart Show Notes and Resources The Summit on StepFamily Ministry; Find out how you and your church can minister to blended families at summitonstepfamilies.com Listen to the full episode here: Unsung Heroes Discover more resources on our shop and listen to more on the FamilyLife Blended podcast Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Join Dave and Ann Wilson as they discuss the impact of parents on teenage girls' fashion choices in a conversation with Ron Deal and clips from an episode featuring Dr. Meg Meeker. They delve into the influence of mothers and fathers, the challenges faced by stepdads, and the importance of helping kids develop a healthy sexual identity in today's toxic culture. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Meg Meeker and catch more of her thoughts at MeekerParenting.com Find her on social media on Insta, Twitter, and Facebook @megmeekermd. Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about culture and parenting in her FamilyLife Blended episode, Raising Kids in a Toxic Culture, or any of her FamilyLife Today episodes. Join us for The 2023Summit on Stepfamily Ministry summitonstepfamilies.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Ever feel like digital devices are breathing down your family's neck? Dr. Meg Meeker discusses the challenges parents encounter with tech--like setting and maintaining wise boundaries, and following through with healthy choices for your kids. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Meg Meeker and catch more of her thoughts at MeekerParenting.com Find her on social media on Insta, Twitter, and Facebook @megmeekermd. Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about culture and parenting in her FamilyLife Blended episode, Raising Kids in a Toxic Culture, or any of her FamilyLife Today episodes. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

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Do you struggle with 2nd wife syndrome? Are you confused with your role and often feel you can't measure up to the expectations? Ron Deal speaks with Bill and Jen Rogers on the valuable role stepmoms play and offers encouragement and pro tips for those stuck in the trenches. Show Notes and Resources Free download: Top 10 Pro tips Jen's Bold and Blended podcast Read: The Smart Stepmom Attend The Summit on Stepfamily Ministry virtually! Find a small group or add your group to the Blended ministry map. Set sail with on the Love Like You Mean It cruise! Thank you for making a gift to FamilyLife Blended.

Litigation creates stress and anxiety for stepfamilies, but there are ways to experience peace and bring kindness to others in the midst of it. Listen to Ron Deal with Scott & Vanessa Martindale on how to resist negative emotions and find resolution in custody cases that best meets the needs of your child. Show Notes and Resources Find more FamilyLife Blended resources. Get your copy of Scott and Vanessa's book, Blended & Redeemed Learn more about Scott and Vanessa Join the Virtual Summit on Stepfamily ministry this year! Thank you for supporting FamilyLife Blended. We would love to hear from you. Email blendedquestions@familylife.com | Call 407-826-2606

When complicated circumstances show up in blended families, relationship-building slows down. Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Darrell Bock about how the death of his mom when he was a teenager, a dad who traveled weekly with work, and a new stepmom with three kids created tension and uneasiness for everyone. Show Notes and Resources Blended & Blessed information and registration Get your copy of Lauren Reitsema's book, In Their Shoes. Get your copy of Building Love Together in Blended Families Buy a copy of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning Send a tax deductible gift for FamilyLife Blended. Please email blendedquestions@familylife.com or call with a question for a future podcast at 407-826-2606.

Stepfamilies are fundamentally different than biological families, which can create tension and ambiguity for everyone involved. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Patricia Papernow about key principles for healthy relationship building in blended families which navigating complex dynamics and competing priorities between the marriage and the children. Show Notes and Resources Step-Insiders and Step-Outsiders Validating Children in Stepfamilies Dr. Papernow's website Join sites around the globe for this year's Blended & Blessed! Send a tax deductible gift for FamilyLife Blended. Please email blendedquestions@familylife.com or call with a question for a future podcast at 407-826-2606.

How can you establish your marital relationship as the foundation for the home when children preceded your union? It starts by understanding that a strong marriage contributes more significantly to the stability of the home than any other factor—including the children. In this episode, Ron Deal & Gayla Grace offer practical tips on how to put your spouse in the front seat of your heart while still prioritizing your children. Show Notes and Resources Your review of the podcast might be played on a future show! Call 407-826-2606 FamilyLife Blended resources Make a tax deductible donation. Join us for this year's Blended & Blessed. Watch from home!

On today’s episode of the stronger marriage connection, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz sitdown with author and expert on blended families, Ron L. Deal, to bring you the leading research, tips and tools about how to create successful step family relationships. If you are navigating remarriage and/or blending a family unit, join the conversation and learn what may help you on your journey! About Ron Deal:Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is the director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and consulting editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popularconference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended. Insights:Ron: Humble people who can make changes over time will deepen trust and intimacy in their relationship.Dave: The process of family blending takes patience and time and understanding and love and kindness. Like an extra double dose of all of that.Liz: All couples have struggles, but remarriages and stepfamilies have some unique struggles and challenges. Invites:   ●    If you are a dating parent, engage your kids in "what if" conversations. You could ask, “what if dad started dating again?” or “this guy has kids of his own, how would you feel if mom were to date him?”. This will help you make better decisions about when and where to introduce your kids to the person you’re dating.   ●    Practice chasing the pain, as Ron Deal mentioned. Next time you are triggered by something your partner does, ask yourself “what is this telling me?” or “what is going on inside me and is there a better way for me to handle this feeling than I have in the past?”. Don't let the past invade your present.   ●    Visit smartstepfamilies.com to discover more resources about step families and remarriage. Then share the website and what you learned with people you know who are in stepfamily relationships and would benefit from Ron Deal’s work. Ron Deal Links:- https://familylifeblended.com/blended - https://smartstepfamilies.com- https://rondeal.org- https://www.facebook.com/familylifeblended- https://www.instagram.com/familylifeblended/- https://www.youtube.com/@FamilyLifeBlended- https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/ Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the podcast Archie talks with Ron Deal. He is a therapist, speaker, and author of The Smart Stepfamily, Building Love in Blended Families, Dating and the Single Parent, and many more. He is the President of Smart Stepfamilies and the Director of FamilyLife Blended. He also hosts the FamilyLifeBlended podcast and started As for Me and My House Ministries.“When hard things come it doesn't have to be the end of us…. We can find our way through and find our way back to each other.” -Ron Deal  From this episode: Two Ways Parents in a Blended Family can Improve Connection ·      Learn your stepchild's love language & put it on a scale. Instead of a bear hug for the child whose love language is physical touch, choose a fist-bump. Honor and respect their level of comfort with you. ·      Respect the story of the child you're trying to connect with. Be patient, persistent, continue to be present. More info on this topic can be found in:Building Love Together in Blended Familes by Ron Deal & Gary ChapmanThe Smart Stepfamily by Ron Deal Blended & Blessed Live Stream EventSaturday, April 29, 20216 hour live seminar for $20Find more information & register at BlendedAndBlessed.com.Email Blended@familylife.com with questions about this event.  Resources and Links:Ron's books are available on Amazon, at the Family Life website, at Barnes & Noble, or most other booksellers. You can find more information about Ron, his ministry, and additional resources at SmartStepFamilies.com. Ron's Podcast: Family Life BlendedAvailable at the Family Life website or on your favorite podcast app. That Farm Life Podcast is a resource of Agri Health Network. For more information and to find more resources, check out AgriHealth.net. Questions or comments? Email us at info@agrihealth.net.

Every parent undertands the power a smartphone carries with kids. What rules, principles, or contracts should you put in place to manage their use? David Eaton, author of Smartphone Sanity, talks with Ron Deal about 8 major concerns to consider that will keep smartphones from invading your home and hijacking your child. Show Notes and Resources Learn about Axis. Get your copy of David's book, Smartphone Sanity. Get your copy of David's book, Engaging Your Teens World. Thank you for supporting FamilyLife Blended with a donation. Find blended events and groups in your area. Blended Family Events and Resources We'd love to hear about your journey! Write to us at blended@familylife.com or call 407-826-2606 to share a positive moment for your family!

Curious about other top players on the FamilyLife podcast network? Grab top-notch samples on how you're talking to your kids….and reading your wife's mind. Show Notes and Resources Learn More about Shelby Abbott on FamilyLife Blended "Growing Up in a Blender" View All the Podcasts FamilyLife Offers Listen to the Full Episode of Season 2 of Married With Benefits with Host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn Listen to FamilyLife Blended clip with Terry Moss & his family on how they worked through the adjustments in their adult stepfamily Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Ready for FamilyLife Podcast Network's best of the best? Catch slices of our best episodes in this mashup hosted by Brian Goins, Ron Deal, & Shelby Abbott. Show Notes and Resources Learn More about Shelby Abbott on FamilyLife Blended "Growing Up in a Blender" View All the Podcasts FamilyLife Offers Listen to the Full Episode of Season 2 of Married With Benefits with Host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn Listen to FamilyLife Blended clip with Terry Moss & his family on how they worked through the adjustments in their adult stepfamily Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

How did Ron Deal get started in blended family ministry? When was FamilyLife Blended birthed and what role does Nicole Burns play? What about Gayla Grace's start in stepfamily ministry? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace tell their stories and how they intersect with FamilyLife. Show Notes and Resources Listen to episode 21- Stepfamilies and The Holidays Thank you for sending a year end donation! More information and registration on the Preparing to Blend virtual premarital course for couples Register for the Empowered to Love resort event on Feb 13-17, 2023. Get your copy of Step Parenting with Grace by Gayla Help others find FamilyLife Blended. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Please email blendedquestions@familylife.com or call in a question for a future podcast at 407-826-2606.

Ron & Nan Deal have led FamilyLife Blended for over a decade, but their story's far from flawless. Like all of us, they carried baggage into marriage. Show Notes and Resources Regeneration Recovery: Get Help Now with the Same 12 Step Program Nan Used Find out more resources from Ron Deal here Sign Up for FamilyLife's Empowered to Love beach Resort Getaway in Sandestin, FL, Feb 13-17, 2023 Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Need tips on parenting with a former spouse? On FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson host Dr. Mary Jeppsen--who literally wrote the book on constructive, cooperative coparenting. She'll help you navigate. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full episode of FamilyLife Blended with Mary Jeppsen PhD. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resou rces on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Financial planning is one area that causes a great deal of anxiety for blended families. Managing your blended family's finances, wills, beneficiaries, and legal issues can be confusing and even aggravating. We all need basic tools and understanding to manage our finances, get out of debt, and start building the future we long for. Ron Deal brings a practical and non-judgmental perspective to blended families' finances. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist and director of FamilyLife Blended™. Ron Deal expertly and practically identifies common money traps that can cause serious financial, relational, and spiritual setbacks in blended families. He gives the information to prevent these problems and achieve financial peace as a blended family.   What You Will Learn: What Ron Deal means by “blended families.” How to plan the use of money between couples Traditional money advice for blended families. How blended families should approach the topic of paying for college.  How to approach blended families' financial conversations A glimpse of what to expect from Ron's book on smart stepfamily finance guide. Ron's advice on initiating a financial conversation with a partner   Resources Mentioned: Ron Deal's Book:  The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family Connect with Ron Deal: Website: https://rondeal.org/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ronldeal?lang=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronldeal/ Family Blended Life Podcast Website: https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/ Summit on Stepfamily Ministry Website: https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/ Blended and Blessed Website: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/ His and Her Money Show Debt Freedom Blueprint His And Her Money

Would you consider joining our mission to serve blended families as a volunteer or affiliate staff with FamilyLife Blended? Listen to Ron Deal and four couples share about why and how they minister to stepcouples and the blessings they receive in return. Show Notes and Resources Find a Stepfamily Event or Small Group. Learn more about FamilyLife. Support this podcast with a donation. Learn more about Summit on Stepfamily Ministry and how to buy the all access pass. Get your Certificate in Blended ministry through this online course. Do you have a question about this episode? Email blendedquestions@familylife.com or call 407-826-2606.

At the end of the day, someone has to lead with love. Author Cheryl Shumake takes on the challenge of loving before you're loved as a stepmom.Show Notes and ResourcesCheryl Shumake's website: Step Mom SanityCheryl Shumake on FamilyLife Blended.Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com.Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app!Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify.Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Stuck between your hopes as a stepmom and your reality? Author Cheryl Shumake gets it. If you're wanting to be wanted, she knows it's a battle you can win.Show Notes and ResourcesCheryl Shumake's website: Step Mom SanityCheryl Shumake on FamilyLife Blended.Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com.Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app!Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify.Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network