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Today On The Eric Metaxas Show, Eric talks with Brant Hansen about his book Life Is Hard. God Is Good. Let's Dance. and the updated edition of Unoffendable. Brant argues that many Christians have been taught the wrong way to think about anger, outrage, forgiveness, anxiety, and “righteous anger.” Eric and Brant discuss injustice, William Wilberforce, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, forgiveness, praying for enemies, hypocrisy in the church, traffic, anxiety, trusting God, and why the way of Jesus is not weakness but freedom. Subscribe for clips from The Eric Metaxas Show to hear politics and culture from a Christian perspective.GET BRANT'S BOOKS:Living Unoffended: The Joy of Simple Peace in An Angry, Anxious Worldhttp://bit.ly/49Re1diUnoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Betterhttps://amzn.to/4eD2AbM⭐ ORDER NOW:Revolution: The Birth of the Greatest Nation in the History of the World
In this episode, Brant Hansen argues that holding onto offense is killing us - spiritually, physically, and relationally. He had to decide whether the offense he experienced as a young person should be held on to or if he should release it. It led him to a simple, uncomfortable conclusion: righteous human anger doesn't exist in scripture, and the anger we carry, however justified it feels, is not what faithful people are called to hold. We talk about forgiveness, hypocrisy in the church, and what Jesus actually intended when he told us to love our enemies.Brant is an author of several bestselling books, including Unoffendable, and a syndicated radio host on more than 200 stations. His podcast, “The Brant and Sherri Oddcast” has more than 20 million downloads. He's been featured many times on outlets like Focus on the Family, Family Life Today, and Good Morning America.Brant and wife Carolyn live in South Florida. His latest book, Living Unoffended releases June 9.Brant's Book:Living UnoffendedBrant's Recommendation:The Matter With ThingsConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@shiftingculturepodcast.comGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeSupport the podcast and the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link below Support the show
What do you do when you're hurt, criticized, or falsely accused? Jesus teaches us a better way. Instead of living offended, we're called to forgive, bless those who hurt us, and keep our eyes fixed on eternity. Join us as we discover how to find real joy and freedom even in the middle of persecution.
Send us Fan MailOffense is what our flesh does and when we let it take root, it becomes resentment, then bitterness, and finally unforgiveness. Learn how to be unoffendable in your marriage! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
In a culture that's quick to take offense and slow to let go, this message reveals how pride, insecurity, and unmet expectations can quietly steal our peace. Learn how choosing humility, forgiveness, and the way of Jesus frees us from living controlled by offense. // NEXT STEPS: http://rockcity.church PRAYER REQUESTS: https://rockcitychurch.tv/care GIVE: https://rockcitychurch.tv/give // Rock City Church has multiple locations throughout Columbus, Ohio. Whether you're spiritually restless, new at discovering who God is or you are a veteran of the faith, you are welcome here! // WEBSITE: https://rockcitychurch.tv FACEBOOK: https://facebook.com/rockcitychurch INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/rockcitychurch
On a new episode of Weekend Conversations on the Elevate Podcast, host Robert Glazer and producer Mick Sloan talk about the concept of being unoffendable. They discuss the social dynamics that have made people more likely to take offense, the harm of that mindset, and why leaders in particular must be unoffendable to be effective. Read the post discussed in this episode: No Offense (#530) Thank you to the sponsors of The Elevate Podcast Shopify: shopify.com/elevate Masterclass: masterclass.com/elevate Framer: framer.com/elevate Indeed: indeed.com/elevate Notion: notion.com/elevate Blinkist: blinkist.com/elevate QuickBooks: quickbooks.com/billpay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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On Palm Sunday we remember Jesus' triumphal entry into Jerusalem, and the beginning of Holy Week - a week that changed everything! Holy Week reminds us of how good our God is and all that Jesus has done for us. He lived a life that we can model ours after. In this Palm Sunday sermon, Pastor Brandon discusses how that revelation should impact us to live an unoffendable life. If you'd like to learn more about our church or how you can be involved, you can do so at www.thisishilltop.church
Jase, Al, and Zach wrestle with what it means to live unoffendable in a culture fueled by outrage, echoing Phil's reminder that a life rooted in Christ can't be canceled by the world. Al lightens things up with a quirky breakdown of the Robertson family archetypes. They unpack Jesus' words in Mark 12 about being “close to the kingdom,” challenging the difference between simply believing the right things about God and fully surrendering to him. In this episode: Mark 12, verses 28–34; Colossians 2, verse 14; 1 John 4, verses 7–8; Daniel 7, verses 13–14; Matthew 26, verses 62–64; Galatians 2, verse 20; Ephesians 5, verses 1–2; Genesis 22, verse 2 “Unashamed” Episode 1296 is sponsored by: https://myphdweightloss.com — Find out how Al lost 80+ pounds. Schedule your one-on-one consultation today by visiting the website or calling 864-644-1900 and mention "AL" https://helixsleep.com/unashamed — Get 20% off sitewide and make sure you enter our show name after checkout so they know we sent you! https://preborn.com/unashamed — Visit the PreBorn! website or dial #250 and use keyword BABY to donate today. http://unashamedforhillsdale.com/ — Sign up now for free, and join the Unashamed hosts every Friday for Unashamed Academy Powered by Hillsdale College Check out At Home with Phil Robertson, nearly 800 episodes of Phil's unfiltered wisdom, humor, and biblical truth, available for free for the first time! Get it on Apple, Spotify, Amazon, and anywhere you listen to podcasts! https://open.spotify.com/show/3LY8eJ4ZBZHmsImGoDNK2l Listen to Not Yet Now with Zach Dasher on Apple, Spotify, iHeart, or anywhere you get podcasts. Chapters 00:00 Al's Travel Nightmare 03:45 Illinois Crowd Erupts Over Al's Hot Take 07:08 The Famous Labrador Comparison 12:15 When Getting It Right Still Isn't Enough 18:40 Knowing Truth vs. Full Surrender 24:10 Why God's Kingdom Moves Outward 29:30 The Old Testament Points to Jesus 36:20 Daniel's Vision Reveals the Son of Man 42:00 Why Culture Gets Love So Wrong 48:00 Real Love Means Sacrifice — Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Living a life that is unoffendable can sound almost impossible especially in a world where offense feels normal and sometimes even justified. Many people, even within the faith, feel entitled to carry a little offense because of what they've experienced.In this episode, we go deeper into what offense really does to the heart and how it quietly controls our reactions, relationships, and spiritual growth. We'll talk about why holding onto offense can keep us stuck, and what it looks like to truly live free from it.This conversation invites you to examine the places where offense may still have influence in your life—and how healing, humility, and the perspective of Christ can lead us to a place where offense no longer controls us.
Isis Underwood equips students to navigate relational conflict by exposing the destructive nature of an offended heart and the spiritual roots of accusation. This teaching distinguishes between a genuine offense and an unproven accusation, detailing how the enemy utilizes both to divide campus communities and stunt spiritual growth.Key Takeaways• Identifying Offense: Four indicators of an offended heart, including dwelling on past hurts, avoiding specific individuals, exhibiting an overly critical spirit, and acting as a diagnostic "opinion master" of others.• The Trap of Accusation: Understanding the difference between a proven offense and a perceived accusation driven by personal insecurity or feelings, and how accusation closely partners with slander.• The Accuser of the Brethren: An examination of how the enemy operates as the accuser (Revelation 12:10), attacking believers by leveling accusations toward God, toward one another, and toward themselves.• Practical Steps for Freedom: Overcoming pride through humility, releasing the right to be the ultimate judge of others' motives, addressing personal insecurities, and actively choosing mercy over self-justification.
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Offense is inevitable—but living offended is optional.In this powerful message, Unoffendable: Keep the Devil on Defense, we unpack how the enemy uses offense as a primary tactic to bring division, destruction, and spiritual blindness—and how Jesus calls us to a higher way.Drawing from Luke 17:1–5, Jesus makes it clear: offenses will come, but forgiveness is not a suggestion—it's a weapon. When we refuse offense and choose forgiveness, we shut the door on the enemy and keep him on defense.If you've been wrestling with hurt, unmet expectations, or lingering offense, this message will challenge you, heal you, and equip you to walk in freedom—keeping your heart pure and your faith strong.
And They Laughed At HimMark 5:38-40 “When they came to the house of the leader of the synagogue, he saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. When he had entered, he said to them, “Why do you make a commotion and weep? The child is not dead but sleeping.” And they laughed at him. Then he put them all outside, and took the child's father and mother and those who were with him, and went in where the child was.”We are back to the story of a little girl who was restored to life. Last week I replayed a devotional that my friend Catherine did on this Bible story. Then on Friday, I felt the Holy Spirit wanted me to focus on two other parts of the story. However, I only got to focus on one part on Friday. Today, we will finish up with this story. I really felt strongly that these verses were important enough that we shouldn't gloss over them. I felt they were important enough to slow down and really examine what they are saying.In case you missed last Tuesday and Friday and you don't know this story, let me briefly fill you in. There was a synagogue leader whose daughter was dying. He asked Jesus to come and heal his daughter. Jesus was on his way when someone touched his garment and was healed. Jesus felt power leave his body and asked who touched Him. The lady confessed, and he told her that her faith had healed her. While he was talking to this lady, someone came and told the synagogue leader that his daughter had died, so there was no need to bother Jesus anymore. Jesus told the man, “Do not fear, only believe.” This is where today's verse picks up.Mark 5:38-40 says, “When they came to the house of the leader of the synagogue, he saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. When he had entered, he said to them, “Why do you make a commotion and weep? The child is not dead but sleeping.” And they laughed at him.” When Jesus gets to the house, he asks everyone why they are crying and making a commotion. He tells them that the little girl is not dead; she is just sleeping. Then it says, “And they laughed at him.” This is the first thing that I want to focus on.I get why they might have laughed. People were just beginning to know who Jesus was. They didn't know Him as we know Him. They didn't have the benefit of reading all the Gospels and hearing all the amazing things He did while He walked the earth. I am not sure if they had ever seen someone raised from the dead yet. They may have heard about Jesus's miracles, but many synagogue officials stayed away from Him because they weren't sure what to think of Him.What I want you to know is that people may laugh at you, too! If you intend to walk boldly with Jesus and you intend to step out and use the power of the Holy Spirit that is living inside of you, then people may laugh at you, too. If you offer to pray for someone's healing, they may laugh and tell you that there is nothing you can do because the doctors said there is no hope. You may try to tell someone that with the power of the Holy Spirit, they can forgive the murderer who killed their loved one, and they may laugh at you. You may tell someone that even though you don't know how, you have hope that God will provide them the money to pay their bills or the food to put on their table, and they may laugh at you. When this happens, I want you to remember that they laughed at Jesus, too.When you are laughed at for your beliefs or for being bold and stepping out in faith to pray for amazing things, try not to take offense. They don't know any better. They believe what this world is teaching. They are “drinking the kool-aid” so to speak of this world. They don't have to believe what you are saying is true. They don't have to believe to receive the healing. Remember in the Bible when those people lowered their friend down from the roof so that Jesus would heal him? Jesus said, their faith healed him. You can have enough faith for them. Do you know how I know it is true that the person being healed doesn't have to have faith? Because Jesus raised people from the dead, and if you are dead, you don't have faith, you don't have anything, you are dead.It is also not our job to try to convince people that what we believe is true. Jesus did not spend time talking with the people who laughed at Him. The next part of the verse is the second thing I want to focus on. It says, “Then he put them all outside, and took the child's father and mother and those who were with him, and went in where the child was.” Jesus put all the non-believers outside while he prayed for this little girl. It is important to know that you can do this. If you are praying for healing for someone and you are surrounded by non-believers, or worse, people who are openly mocking you, it is ok to ask if you can have a few minutes alone with the person you are praying over. It is important that we block out all the negative voices, and that can be really hard to do at times.I have a friend who was talking about how she had a loved one who died, and she was praying for the Lord to bring him back to life. She knew God could do it as He had done it before, and God is the same yesterday, today, and always. (Hebrews 13:8) If you have read about God doing something amazing in Scripture, then you know He can do that today, too. Isn't that amazing! So, my friend was praying for God to bring her loved one back, but she had another family member in the room who didn't believe that was possible. She said, looking back, she wished she had asked the other loved one to wait in the hall for a bit while she prayed.You may never be praying for someone to be raised from the dead, although I hope you do someday, but that doesn't mean you won't be laughed at. This world is a crazy place right now. People might laugh just because they think it is crazy that you would believe in a “mysterious guy who lives in the sky and grants wishes.” This is something some have said to me before. Whatever it is they are laughing at you for, just remember, they laughed at Jesus, too! Also, remember how Jesus responded. He did not defend himself. He did not yell or get upset. He did not try to explain and reason with them. He just asked them to leave while he prayed, and then He let the power of God convert their hearts.This is what we are being called to do as well. God doesn't need us to defend our position. He doesn't need us to convince anyone of His Power. God is the one who does the miracles, and he is the one who changes hearts. The best way we can point people to Jesus is by loving them. I would say it is that easy, but loving people who are laughing at us is not easy. So instead, I will say it is that simple. It is not complicated. Jesus told us that if we love God with all our hearts and we love our neighbors as we love ourselves, then we will fulfill all the commandments. Simple doesn't mean easy, but it does mean that if we know what to do, we can practice it and get better and better at it. We can do this. If we want to live boldly, then we need to develop thicker skin. We need to learn that people are not rejecting us; they are rejecting Jesus, and they have been doing that since He was born. Jesus is tough. He can take it. We just need to learn not take offense and instead just love all people, even those who want to persecute us. It may not be easy, but it is definitely worth it. We will have so much more freedom when we learn not to care what others think of us and to only focus on what God thinks of what we are doing.Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening today. Lord, help us to be bold and step out in faith. Help us to be brave enough to ask those who are laughing at us to give us a few minutes alone while we pray. Help us to be strong enough to not let those who are mocking us or laughing at us derail us from the mission you have given us to walk boldly with Jesus. We love you so much, Lord, and we only want to do your will. Help us to keep our eyes focused on you! We ask all of this in accordance with Your Will and in Jesus's Holy Name, Amen!Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember if you want to learn more about not taking offense to those who mock you, or to anyone really, check out mentoring! Being Unoffendable is the theme for this month and so far it has been really good. CLICK HERE for info on mentoring. You can also get one of the two books I have read that are both amazing. One is Unoffendable by Brent Hansen and the other one is called Bait of Satan by John Bevere. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow, Remember, Jesus loves you just as you are, and so do I! God is on your side and we are both rooting for you! Have a blessed day!Today's Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email CatholicCharismaticPrayerGroup@gmail.com. Today's Word from the Lord is, “My children, I dealt with much temptation in my earthly life. You read about it in the Gospels. Think about that when you are tempted. Daily, daily, daily, you are tempted. You are tricked into following something lesser than my wonderful word, than my wonderful love, than my forgiveness, my compassion. But I let these temptations come upon you to exercise you, so that you're turning back to me in faith, your turning back to me in asking for my help, strengthens you, strengthens your love, and your ability to follow me in your human life. They are actually graces, although I know you don't like them. But I ask you to bear with them and to turn quickly to me, for I am ever ready, ever ready to be at your side.” www.findingtruenorthcoaching.comCLICK HERE TO DONATECLICK HERE to sign up for Mentoring CLICK HERE to sign up for Daily "Word from the Lord" emailsCLICK HERE to sign up for my newsletter & receive a free audio training about inviting Jesus into your daily lifeCLICK HERE to buy my book Total Trust in God's Safe Embrace
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Why We So Often Feel Justified—and Why Anger Steals Our Peace1 Peter 2:23 “When he was abused, he did not return abuse; when he suffered, he did not threaten; but he entrusted himself to the one who judges justly.”Offense usually begins with something real, but staying offended slowly costs us our freedom.When we're offended, it's not because we're imagining things. Someone said something hurtful. Someone dismissed us. Someone didn't see us, respect us, or protect us the way they should have. Our bodies react before our faith does. That reaction—tightness, anger, defensiveness—feels justified because it is trying to protect us. The problem isn't that offense shows up. The problem is what happens when we let it stay.Offense convinces us that holding onto anger is necessary for self-respect, safety, or justice. It whispers, “If I let this go, I'm saying it didn't matter.” But over time, instead of protecting us, offense begins to imprison us. It narrows our thinking, drains our peace, and keeps us emotionally tied to the very thing that hurt us.Today, I invite us to gently notice this pattern without shame. Not to rush into forgiveness. Not to minimize pain. Just to ask an honest question: Is what I'm holding onto actually helping me live free?Jesus never promised that we wouldn't be hurt. But He did promise freedom—freedom from bitterness, from constant reactivity, and from carrying wounds longer than necessary. Jesus reminds us:“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) And He also promises:“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)Today isn't about fixing anything or forcing forgiveness. It's about awareness—learning to notice how offense quietly operates in our hearts and recognizing that something can feel justified even when it doesn't actually lead us toward peace or life. When we're hurt, our body reacts first. Before we can think theologically or spiritually, our nervous system scans for danger. A sharp tone, a dismissive comment, or a betrayal registers as a threat, and anger shows up quickly because it's one of the body's built-in protection responses. Anger creates energy. It gives us clarity. It helps us draw boundaries. In that sense, it *feels* helpful.This is why offense feels justified. Anger convinces us that we're doing something necessary—that we're standing up for ourselves, protecting our dignity, or guarding our hearts. It often feels morally right, especially when real harm has occurred. We tell ourselves, *“I'm not just upset—I'm right.”* And because something truly wrong may have happened, that belief can feel deeply convincing.But what the book *Unoffendable* by Brent Hansen gently reveals is that feeling justified is not the same as becoming free. Anger is excellent at getting our attention, but it's terrible at leading us toward peace. When we hold onto it, anger doesn't just respond to the moment—it begins to shape our inner world. It keeps our minds alert and our hearts guarded. We replay what happened, brace for future harm, and stay emotionally on edge. Over time, that vigilance becomes exhausting.This is how anger tightens its grip on our peace. What started as a moment of protection turns into a posture of defensiveness. Instead of resting, we stay watchful. Instead of trusting, we stay reactive. And slowly, without realizing it, offense begins to occupy more space in our thoughts, prayers, and relationships than we ever intended.Letting go feels risky because anger has convinced us it's keeping us safe. Releasing it can feel like saying the hurt didn't matter—or like leaving ourselves unprotected. But Jesus offers a different way. He never framed righteousness as reacting quickly or holding onto offense. He modeled righteousness as trust, surrender, and love rooted in truth rather than impulse. He promises that we don't need to carry the weight of offense to be whole. “When he was abused, he did not return abuse; when he suffered, he did not threaten; but he entrusted himself to the one who judges justly.” (1 Peter 2:23)I am not asking us to deny pain or rush forgiveness. I simply invite us to ask an honest question: **Is what feels right actually leading me toward life and peace—or is it quietly becoming a prison?**Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode today. Help us to look at our own lives and see where offense might be keeping us prisoners. Helps us to notice where anger might have been justified at first, and now holding onto that anger is just hurting us. Help us to see why it itsn't helpful to keep replaying the hurt that we felt over and over again in our minds. Help us to let go, Lord. Help us to forgive. We ask all of this in accordance with your will and in Jesus's holy name, Amen.Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. If you are interested in learning more about how to go through life being Unoffendable, I invite you to join the mentoring this month. I will be exploring the main concepts of the book Unoffendable by Brent Hansen. It is a really good book that explains how much more peace and freedom we will have in our lives when we learn how to be unoffendable. CLICK HERE to check out mentoring. It is just $25 a month if you join this week. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember, Jesus loves you just as you are, and so do I! God is on your side, and we are both rooting for you, always! Have a blessed day.Today's Word from the Lord was received in September 2025 by a member of my Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group. If you have any questions about the prayer group, these words, or how to join us for a meeting, please email CatholicCharismaticPrayerGroup@gmail.com. Today's Word from the Lord is, “Sometimes I have to remind you because I see you slipping, and I won't allow you to fall. I will steady you. I will return your balance to you. When the world is encroaching, when the world is pressing in on you, I'm right there. I'm right there.” www.findingtruenorthcoaching.comCLICK HERE TO DONATECLICK HERE to sign up for Mentoring CLICK HERE to sign up for Daily "Word from the Lord" emailsCLICK HERE to sign up for my newsletter & receive a free audio training about inviting Jesus into your daily lifeCLICK HERE to buy my book Total Trust in God's Safe Embrace
In a world where families, friendships, and culture feel one disagreement away from collapse, how do we build relationships that actually last? In this opening message of Unshakable, we look at what Jesus teaches about offense, forgiveness, and the condition of our hearts. “Becoming Unoffendable” isn't about compromising truth—it's about refusing to let bitterness shape [...]
Guest speaker Brant Hansen spoke from the book of Ephesians today, teaching us that while anger will happen, Christians are called not to sin in their anger, not to let it linger, and not to use it for revenge.
You're offended, I'm offended, we're all offended and trying to get the world to operate in a way in which we don't get offended. But the reality is, life and people just don't work that way. What does it mean to live 'unoffendable'? Author and Bible teacher Alexandra is today's guest on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr and she reveals how to build resilience, grace, and realistic boundaries, not just for ourselves, but to also show our kids how to walk in emotional health in a complicated world.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4byvVTy Takeaways:We are raising people who are watching how we handle these things.Our past does not define us, it only gets to shape us.Healing takes work and intention.A prayerful mom is a mom who can move mountains.We have to trust God to parent them.Letting go is an invitation to live in freedom.The work you are doing now will leave a legacy.Modeling forgiveness is crucial for emotional health.Navigating personal stories helps in parenting.Resilience is built through facing challenges.Sound Bites:"Healing takes work and intention.""I am not the Holy Spirit.""We have to trust God to parent them.""We are the ones holding ourselves hostage.""Letting go is an invitation to live in freedom.""The work you are doing now will leave a legacy."Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Emotional Health in Parenting02:53 The Genesis of Emotional Health Conversations06:02 Navigating Personal Stories and Identity08:58 Healing and Parenting from a Place of Humility12:01 The Role of Resilience in Parenting14:58 Boundaries and Letting Go18:09 Repairing Relationships and Modeling Forgiveness21:02 Navigating Consequences and Comfort in Parenting23:55 The Balance of Letting Go and Holding Boundaries26:47 Living Beyond Offense and Embracing Healing30:06 Conclusion and Encouragement for MothersKeywords: emotional health, parenting, resilience, forgiveness, boundaries, personal stories, healing, motherhood, identity, relationships
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This sermon dives into the honest tension between a loving God and the painful realities we face. Using Matthew 14, we reveal how Jesus meets us in grief, multiplies what we offer Him, and calls us to trust Him in storms we didn't choose. It's a message about becoming unoffendable and finding peace beyond understanding.
This sermon dives into the honest tension between a loving God and the painful realities we face. Using Matthew 14, we reveal how Jesus meets us in grief, multiplies what we offer Him, and calls us to trust Him in storms we didn't choose. It's a message about becoming unoffendable and finding peace beyond understanding.
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In this episode, I talk about being unoffendable.
Let's be UnoffendableWith Author Brant HansenDo you find yourself getting offended easily with adult children, parents and in your empty nest relationships?Less anger and more gratitude makes for a full and joy-filled life. Being offendable a choice. Yet it doesn't feel that way sometimes. Anger often hinders constructive action.Unoffendable gives us a concrete, practical way to live life with less stress in our easily offended, cancel-culture society. It's never too late to learn how to replace perpetual frustration and anger with refreshing humility and gratitude.Giving up our "right" to be offended can be one of the most freeing, healthy, simplifying, relaxing, refreshing, stress-relieving, encouraging things we can do. It's a radical, provocative idea: We're not entitled to get offended or stay angry. The idea of our own "righteous anger" and is a problem in our societies today.Listen in as Charlotte and Brant discuss that relinquishing the right to be offended can be liberating. Brant's book, Unoffendable, offers concrete suggestions to view frustrating moments and opportunities for personal growth.But…what if Christians were the most unoffendable people on the planet?In this conversation, you will find concrete, practical ways to live life with less stress, including:Adjusting your expectations to fit human natureReplacing perpetual anger with refreshing humility and gratitudeEmbracing forgiveness and beginning to love others in unexpected waysNewly revised with two brand-new chapters on forgiveness and what Hansen has learned sincewriting his original book, his updated edition of the bestselling book is a must-read for every Christian. With short chapters, this book is easy to slip into a daily routine or commute to spend time deepening in God's Word.In a humorous and conversational style, Unoffendable seeks to lift religious burdens from our backs and allow us to experience the joy of gratitude every single day of our lives—flourishing the way God intended.A mindset of forgiveness can be adopted, in the empty nest, and at any age. Let's be unoffendable and adopt a mindset that prioritizes forgiveness and understanding over anger.What the Bible says about being offended:Proverbs 12:16 - "Fools show their annoyance at once, but theprudent overlook an insult.Proverbs 19:11 - "A person's wisdom yields patience; it is to one'sglory to overlook an offense."Matthew 5:38-39 - "You have heard that it was said, 'Eye for eye,and tooth for tooth.' But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. Ifanyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also."Matthew 18:21-22 - "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times."Colossians 3:13 - "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."1 Peter 4:8 - "Above all, love each other deeply, because lovecovers over a multitude of sins."To purchase Unoffendable: Click hereTo reach Charlotte: https://charlotteguest.com
Today, on Karl and Crew, we discussed the dangers of idolization and how, as followers of Christ, we should be willing to sacrifice our riches for the Lord. We had Brant Hansen join us to talk about the importance of being unoffendable when sharing the gospel and releasing anger when offended. Brant is a bestselling author and syndicated radio host. He is also an advocate for healing kids through CURE International Children’s Hospitals, a pediatric surgical network. He also has a podcast called The Brant and Sherri Oddcast. He has also authored several books, including “The (Young) Men We Need: God’s Purpose for Every Guy and How You Can Live It Out.” Then we had Rob West join us to discuss the danger of idols in our lives and the importance of surrendering it all to God. Rob is the host of the nationally syndicated radio program Faith and Finance LIVE, which airs weekday afternoons at 3 pm on 90.1FM. He is also the host of the Faith and Finance podcast and the FaithFi App. He is also the CEO of Kingdom Advisors, a community of financial professionals specializing in delivering biblically wise financial advice. Rob’s latest book is a 21-day devotional called “Look at the Sparrows.” We then turned to the phone lines to ask our listeners to share a time when God moved them from being driven by money to godly contentment. You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to listen to a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps: Brant Hansen Interview [02:50] Rob West Interview [23:58] Call Segment [39:31] Karl and Crew airs live weekday mornings from 5-9 a.m. Central Time. Click this link for ways to listen in your area! https://www.moodyradio.org/ways-to-listen/Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today, on Karl and Crew, we discussed the dangers of idolization and how, as followers of Christ, we should be willing to sacrifice our riches for the Lord. We had Brant Hansen join us to talk about the importance of being unoffendable when sharing the gospel and releasing anger when offended. Brant is a bestselling author and syndicated radio host. He is also an advocate for healing kids through CURE International Children’s Hospitals, a pediatric surgical network. He also has a podcast called The Brant and Sherri Oddcast. He has also authored several books, including “The (Young) Men We Need: God’s Purpose for Every Guy and How You Can Live It Out.” Then we had Rob West join us to discuss the danger of idols in our lives and the importance of surrendering it all to God. Rob is the host of the nationally syndicated radio program Faith and Finance LIVE, which airs weekday afternoons at 3 pm on 90.1FM. He is also the host of the Faith and Finance podcast and the FaithFi App. He is also the CEO of Kingdom Advisors, a community of financial professionals specializing in delivering biblically wise financial advice. Rob’s latest book is a 21-day devotional called “Look at the Sparrows.” We then turned to the phone lines to ask our listeners to share a time when God moved them from being driven by money to godly contentment. You can listen to the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to listen to a particular segment from the show, look at the following time stamps: Brant Hansen Interview [02:50] Rob West Interview [23:58] Call Segment [39:31] Karl and Crew airs live weekday mornings from 5-9 a.m. Central Time. Click this link for ways to listen in your area! https://www.moodyradio.org/ways-to-listen/Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We'd love to hear from you! Send us a text!We are currently living in the most offendable generation of all time. Returning to ON PURPOSE is special guest Hannah Chan, to sit down with Elizabeth and talk about what it means to be UNOFFENDABLE. In this day and age, is it possible to scroll, watch and chat without being so easily angered?! We believe it is, which is why we hope you will listen to this short but important episode!Elizabeth Pehrson created The Exchange in 2015. The Exchange is a monthly event for ALL adult women. Women who work outside the home. And women who work in the home. Women who are single. And women who are married. Women who are moms. Women who are grand-moms. No matter what season of life you are in, The Exchange is here to inspire you to live life ON PURPOSE and WITH INTENTION.The Exchange is a non-profit that provides an environment for women to hear practical advice from topics Elizabeth has read and life lessons she has learned, and is currently learning. Equipping us to become better women tomorrow than we are today. And to ultimately use that to pour back into those around us. Tickets and info: theexchangeus.orgfollow us on instagram: theexchangeusfollow us on Facebook: the exchange cumming
Looking for daily inspiration? Get a quote from the top leaders in the industry in your inbox every morning. Every year, millions of attraction visitors lose hours in line instead of making memories. Since its inception, accesso's virtual queuing has saved more than 4.5 billion minutes of wait time, freeing guests to pack their day with more rides, eats, and excitement. The result? Happier guests who spend more and a better bottom line for you. Ready to turn waits into wins? Visit accesso.com/ROIClinic. The queues are virtual. The results are real. Evan Barnett is the President of Pyek Group. Starting in the industry at 16 cleaning restrooms at Water World USA, he was quickly thrust into leadership, moved from park services to water safety, and grew under strong mentors who sharpened his view of people-first operations. Today, Evan leads Pyek Group across four parks in three markets under two brands, focusing on culture, clarity of mission, and what he calls the “un-water park” mindset: hyper-clean facilities, great food, and genuine hospitality. In this interview, Evan talks about cold, hard leadership, being unoffendable, and doing the basics really well. Cold, hard leadership “It's tough. It's cold, hard leadership is really what it is. And it's listening and understanding and just realizing, hey, give the other guy the benefit of the doubt.” Evan frames leadership as equal parts standards and empathy. Early in his career, he learned that perception is reality: a supervisor saw “slowness” while Evan was meticulously scrubbing grout with a toothbrush. That moment shaped how he equips teams by giving clear direction, the right tools, and assuming positive intent before judging outcomes. At Pyek Group, he translates this into over-communicating vision across varied brands and communities, aligning departments around a single mission so daily frictions become sparks that sharpen rather than burn. He also guards leaders' attention from getting hijacked by edge cases. Rather than orbit the “loud 20%,” he pours recognition and coaching into the 80% who show up wanting to do great work, using high-fives, momentum building, and consistent standards. For Evan, culture is “caught, not taught,” spread through a thousand conversations and modeled behavior that make accountability feel fair and human. Being unoffendable “The one core value I really want to hone in on that we have is called unoffendable… be unoffendable, man.” Unoffendable is a Pyek Group core value, not an aspiration. Evan wants feedback to flow fast and candidly without venom and without weaponizing “brutal honesty.” In practice, that means seeking to understand before being understood, extending grace because everyone, including leaders, will need it back tomorrow. He links unoffendable behavior to hospitality itself: when a guest complains about cold food or long lines, defensive walls only distract from fixing the day. Empathy and grace let teams remediate quickly and leave people feeling cared for. Internally, the same posture fuels agility. Teams “fire themselves” metaphorically, stepping out to reset their mindset and reenter discussions ready to solve problems together. Evan emphasizes that core values must be binary and lived. You are kind, or you are not. You are unoffendable, or you are not. Keeping feedback direct but non-weaponized preserves trust, speeds pivots, and keeps focus on the guest experience over ego. Doing the basics really well “Just do the basics really well.” Borrowing a line he admires from Troy Aikman, Evan centers Pyek Group on mastery of fundamentals: smiling welcomes, clean spaces, good food, frictionless transactions, and consistent delivery day after day. He calls it “power in the mundane,” resetting every morning so the thousandth “Where are the lockers?” gets the same warm response as the first. That dependable baseline becomes a brand personality guests can feel, and it cannot be copied by simply duplicating slides or lazy rivers. Basics evolve, though. Orientation remains essential, but how teams learn must fit how they consume information today, using short, bite-sized training and tools they can use immediately on Day One. Evan is unafraid to reverse course when basics are misread. The lesson, letting fans tell you what matters and then amplifying it, keeps “basic” tightly aligned with real expectations. You can reach Evan at evan.barnett@pyekgroup.com, and learn more about Pyek Group at pyekgroup.com. This podcast wouldn't be possible without the incredible work of our faaaaaantastic team: Scheduling and correspondence by Kristen Karaliunas To connect with AttractionPros: AttractionPros.com AttractionPros@gmail.com AttractionPros on Facebook AttractionPros on LinkedIn AttractionPros on Instagram AttractionPros on Twitter (X)
The holidays should bring peace. Instead, they often bring tension, unresolved hurt, and that one person who knows how to get under your skin. Today, Juli sits down with author and radio host Brant Hansen to talk about what it means to be "unoffendable"—especially when you're passing the mashed potatoes to someone you struggle to forgive. Guest: Brant Hansen Follow-up Resources: Unoffendable by Brant Hansen How to Have Tough Conversations by Juli Slattery (blog) When Your Adult Child Makes Choices You Disagree With by Juli Slattery (blog) Follow Brant Hansen at @branthansen Follow Authentic Intimacy at @authenticintimacy
Send us a textBetween a new baby for one of us and second trimester food poisoning for the other.... here's a repost of our episode from this time last year. May this holiday season be drama free for you!Struggling with family drama or awkward holiday conversations? In this episode of Under the Sun Podcast, we share practical tips to 'Stop Holiday Arguments Before They Start: The Art of Being Unoffendable.' Discover how to stay calm, avoid offense, and cultivate peace during the busiest—and sometimes most stressful—time of the year. Perfect for anyone seeking joy and harmony in their holiday gatherings. Make this season your most peaceful yet!
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Kidmin Talk #215 - UNOFFENDABLE!In this heart-stretching episode of Kidmin Talk, Karl unpacks Kidmin Covenant #8: Be Unoffendable—a reminder that ministry is full of opportunities to take offense, but true spiritual maturity is shown when we refuse to.Drawing from Scripture and decades of ministry experience, Karl shares practical ways to guard your heart, respond with grace, and let God fight your battles instead of your emotions. You'll hear personal stories, leadership insights, and a biblical challenge to live with thicker skin and a softer heart.Whether it's a difficult parent, a discouraging pastor, a demanding volunteer, or a disappointing comment, Karl offers a God-honoring path toward peace, perspective, and perseverance.MENTIONED ON THE SHOWThe FIRST STEPS PARENTING TOOL KIT, download at biblicalparenting.orgAmazing resource! 100 short parent-training videos, over 3 hours of content, to equip and encourage your parents!The Kidmin Covenant Reflective JournalKarlBastian.club – Coaching and encouragement for ministry leadersKidology.org – Tools, training, and community for those who minister to kidsShare with Kidology.org/kidmintalk215Kidmin Talk is the Podcast of Pastor Karl Bastian, founder of Kidology.org and host of KidminTalk.com. He is a children's pastor, speaker and entertainer. His life mission is to Equip and Encourage those who minister to children.Got a question or comment? Karl replies to every message—email karl@kidmintalk.comListen to past editions of this podcast at KidminTalk.comSend Support via: KarlBastian.club/donatePLEASE SUBSCRIBE and HIT THAT ALERT BUTTON TOO!Follow Karl:Blog: Kidologist.comTwitter: @KidologistInstagram: @KarlBastian or @KidologyorgSupport the show
LEARN MORE at http://teach4theheart.com/360 Does the Bible give us guidance on how to navigate anger? Listen in to this clip from a provocative session from the 2024 Summit with Brant Hansen, a nationally syndicated radio personality and the bestselling author of the counterintuitive and entertaining book, Unoffendable. Brant shares a life-changing approach to handling conflict and gives us practical advice on how to be "unoffendable" in a world that seems to thrive on outrage. 00:00 Linda's Introduction and Summit Invitation 02:38 Our Relationship with Anger 14:49 Linda's Final Thoughts Resources/Links Mentioned: Rise Up Summit: https://riseupchristianeducators.com/#SignUp
Emotional health plays a significant role in how we connect and communicate with those around us. Eliza Huie shares how you can intentionally guide your kids towards emotional strength and resilience. She offers insight on what an emotionally healthy child looks like, along with advice for every parent seeking to raise grounded, emotionally secure children. Receive a copy of Unoffendable and an audio download of "Speaking Peace into Chaos in a Troubled Culture" for your donation of any amount! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.
In light of the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk, Jim Daly speaks with Brant Hansen and Gabe Lyons about what this means for our culture and the Christian response to violence and hate. The conversation points to Scripture for the answers in this cultural moment, emphasizing our responsibility to share God’s truth, love, and peace to the chaos of the world. Receive a copy of Unoffendable and an audio download of "Speaking Peace into Chaos in a Troubled Culture" for your donation of any amount! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.
In this conversation, Reagan Kramer and Attorney Melissa Coleman discuss the profound themes of mercy, forgiveness, and the spiritual battles we face in times of grief and tragedy. They reflect on the recent events that have shaken our world and emphasize the importance of trusting God, extending mercy to others, and staying on mission despite the challenges. Melissa shares her personal journey of faith and the process of becoming unoffendable through Christ, highlighting the significance of using Jesus' mercy to heal and forgive. The dialogue emphasizes the necessity of living free from shame and condemnation, and the practical steps one can take to navigate emotional trials and extend mercy to others. They also touch on the concept of spiritual deliverance and the legal grounds that the enemy may have in our lives, advocating for a life of authenticity and transparency in our relationship with God and others.The conversation encourages listeners to acknowledge injustices, fight for the freedom of others, and love their enemies, reminding us that we are all called to extend the same mercy that we have received from God. They discuss the importance of addressing past traumas and injustices, establishing strong emotional borders, and the transformative power of mercy in healing relationships. More from the Revelations Podcast hosted by Reagan Kramer: Website | Instagram | Apple Podcast | YoutubeMelissa Coleman: mcoleman@colemanlaw.us.comBecome Part of Our Mission! Support The Revelations Podcast:Your support fuels our mission to share transformative messages of hope and faith. Click here to learn how you can contribute and be part of this growing community!Resources This Episode is brought to you by Advanced Medicine AlternativesGet back to the active life you love through natural & regenerative musculoskeletal healing: https://www.georgekramermd.com/ 00:00The Mission of Mercy in a Divided World12:54Choosing Mercy Over Offense16:32The Process of Forgiveness20:15The Power of Jesus' Mercy26:04Breaking Free from Bondage31:38Living Without Condemnation35:10Establishing Strong Borders in Our Lives55:20Understanding Mercy and Trials57:18Practical Steps for a Speedy Trial01:01:10The Power of Naming Injustices01:07:01Extending Mercy and Breaking Chains01:10:12Living Authentically in the Light01:15:53Deliverance Through Mercy01:20:02Closing Prayer and EncouragementSample Prayers to Use In the Courts of HeavenReleasing mercy over theperpetrators in my lifeLoving Father and Righteous Judge, I summons ______ (name) to the heavenly courts. ________(name), I charge you with: 1)_______ (offense #1); 2)_______ (offense #2); and 3) _______ (offense #3). You are guilty of these charges and you deserve to be punished. HOWEVER, because Jesus chose to give mercy to me for a debt I could never repay, I choose to give Jesus' mercy to you for your offenses against me. Jesus, I ask that you not count _____'s (name) sins against him/her. I relinquish my claim on every injustice _____ (name) committed against me, and I transfer jurisdiction of these matters to Jesus. ____ (name), you owe me nothing. I hereby break the power of condemnation off of you, _____(name), and I declare you acquitted, forgiven and free. I also hereby break every tie I have had with the accuser against _____ (name). Enemy, you no longer have power over me and no legal right to torment me. I will not be lured back in by you or commit double jeopardy. I break off my relationship with you now against ____ (name) for good. Father God, I trust you to restore to me all that was stolen, and I now choose to partner with You for ____ (name), and I ask that you bless him/her with every heavenly blessing. (Get specific as you pray for them with a clean heart!).
In light of the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk, Jim Daly speaks with Brant Hansen and Gabe Lyons about what this means for our culture and the Christian response to violence and hate. The conversation points to Scripture for the answers in this cultural moment, emphasizing our responsibility to share God’s truth, love, and peace to the chaos of the world. Receive a copy of Unoffendable and an audio download of "Speaking Peace into Chaos in a Troubled Culture" for your donation of any amount! Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.
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