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Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, hosted by Dr. Jake Porter. In this engaging installment titled "Navigating Betrayal: Answering the Hard Questions with Conversations Podcast," we delve deep into the complex landscape of betrayal within relationships. Joining Dr. Jake in this enlightening discussion are esteemed colleagues: Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein. These experts are not only colleagues but also close friends who co-host the Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships Podcast. Their chemistry is palpable, and their wisdom profound. In this episode, we confront the challenging questions frequently posed by those grappling with the revelation of betrayal in their relationships. You'll witness a civil and enlightening exchange of perspectives, showcasing the power of dialogue and empathy in navigating the intricate web of betrayal. Links in this episode: Check out Conversations!: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ZpYca91XJ0DIkTt2CCjSZ https://podcasts.apple.com/is/podcast/conversations-on-sex-addiction-and-relationships/id1576738924 Dan Drake: https://www.banyantherapy.com Wendy Conquest: https://wendyconquest.com Jeanne Vattuone: https://jeannevattuone.com Time Stein: https://timsteinmft.com Jake Porter: https://go.drjakeporter.com/?r_done=1
Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, hosted by Dr. Jake Porter. In this engaging installment titled "Navigating Betrayal: Answering the Hard Questions with Conversations Podcast," we delve deep into the complex landscape of betrayal within relationships. Joining Dr. Jake in this enlightening discussion are esteemed colleagues: Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein. These experts are not only colleagues but also close friends who co-host the Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships Podcast. Their chemistry is palpable, and their wisdom profound. In this episode, we confront the challenging questions frequently posed by those grappling with the revelation of betrayal in their relationships. You'll witness a civil and enlightening exchange of perspectives, showcasing the power of dialogue and empathy in navigating the intricate web of betrayal. Links in this episode: Check out Conversations!: https://open.spotify.com/show/2ZpYca91XJ0DIkTt2CCjSZ https://podcasts.apple.com/is/podcast/conversations-on-sex-addiction-and-relationships/id1576738924 Dan Drake: https://www.banyantherapy.com Wendy Conquest: https://wendyconquest.com Jeanne Vattuone: https://jeannevattuone.com Time Stein: https://timsteinmft.com Jake Porter: https://go.drjakeporter.com/?r_done=1
In this conversation, Janice Caudill joins Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein to discuss therapeutic disclosure in recovery from sex addiction.
Carol Jurgensen Sheets (Carol the Coach) joins Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, Wendy Conquest, and Tim Stein to talk empathy in relationships. Brene Brown on Empathy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw
Tim Stein, Jeanne Vattuone, and Wendy Conquest discuss love addiction. Pia Mellody Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous – Fellowship-Wide Services (F.W.S.) (slaafws.org)
Wendy Conquest, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein discuss the continuum of selfishness and self-care.
Ken Adams joins Tim Stein, Jeanne Vattuone, Dan Drake, and Wendy Conquest to discuss enmeshment.
In love with the idea of being in love? Find yourself chasing the ultimate "sex high" only for it to fall short of Hollywood type expectations and porn level satisfaction? Do you find yourself in dream relationships at first, only to have it coming crashing down with disappointment, shame and a sense of failure? Join the club... and maybe seek help! There are plenty of men and women with these same misguided ideals and relationship/sexual patterns. You're not alone and Brianne Davis is here to share her story so it might help you. Brianne Davis is a well known actress, model, director, producer and activist. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:How do you know you are a sex addict?Dating multiple people to fulfill different needsThe constant need for validationA hard path to recoveryHow you deal with stigma and shameLiving in sobriety with strict boundariesFeeling "the rush" in a relationshipWhat brings Brianne joyBeing your own soulmateThe porn pandemicIf you or someone you know is a survivor of sexual violence and needs help, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673GUEST LINKS:Brianne Davis IGSecret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love AddictALLISON'S LINKS:Visit Allison's websiteFollow Allison on InstagramCheck out Allison's blogListen to The Podcasters' Journey PodcastAllison's Favorites - And some great deals for you!Weekend Podcaster - Launch Your Podcast in 3 days!
There was so much more we felt we wanted to cover on the topic of sexual abuse that we are back with clinicians Alana Gordon and Kimberly Day. Kim and Alana explain that we may have received unhealthy ideas or messages growing up about sexuality from our families of origin, church culture, or friends. We discuss what is healthy sexuality vs unhealthy sexuality What are unhealthy messages regarding sexuality How to find a safe person to converse about sexuality in your relationship. What impact can this have on our recovery? Show Notes: You can find the episode Kim references on Healthy Sexuality (Mini Series #9) with Jeanne Vattuone here: https://anchor.fm/healingwithworth/episodes/Healing-with-WORTH-Healthy-Sexuality-with-Jeanne-Vattuone-Mini-Series-on-Abuse-7-emak0u "Finding a way to explore this other paradigm of what does healthy sexuality look like where there is no pressure, there isn't coercion. It is completely consensual where there is mutual respect and partnership. Where you can be present in the moment and playful. Where you can be vulnerable and safe."
This week we discuss how betrayal in a relationship affects physical intimacy as well as what physical intimacy can look like in a healthy relationship. Physical intimacy is a very complicated issue when addiction and pornography is present in a marriage. It's a very individual matter how you decide to share or not share physical touch and intimacy with your spouse. Safety is a very high priority and that's really determined by each woman in each circumstance. What applies to us may not feel it applies to our listeners, but we are hoping that we can have a great discussion on some principles to help guide our listeners through this really sensitive topic and hopefully that will help you to get clear on some of the boundaries that you may need to implement in your own life. We really encourage you to listen to your gut, listen to things that really resonate with you and feel good in moving forward in this area. Notes: Quote: Dr. Terry Olson, "Chastity and fidelity are more than just sexual abstinence before marriage and physical fidelity after marriage. This is because human sexuality is not simply a physical matter. As the world invites us to believe chastity and fidelity begin in the spirit, not the body and involve the giving of our hearts are broken. Hearts are softened hearts to our mates. Unequivocally." M. Russell Ballard's talk: The Lord Needs You Now!: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2015/09/the-lord-needs-you-now?lang=eng Episode on Healthy Sexuality with Jeanne Vattuone: https://anchor.fm/healingwithworth/episodes/Healing-with-WORTH-Healthy-Sexuality-with-Jeanne-Vattuone-Mini-Series-on-Abuse-7-emak0u
We are back with clinicians Alana Gordon and Kimberly Day to discuss another aspect of abuse; Sexual Abuse. Kim express that there is a difference between sexual impact caused by a spouse's addiction and unhealthy sexual behaviors versus sexual abuse. We discuss how these two aspects can manifest in a relationship. What is Sexual Abuse in a relationship? What are the signs of sexual abuse and unhealthy sexuality in a relationship? What impact can this have on our sexual relationship? Show Notes: You can find the episode Kim references on Healthy Sexuality (Mini Series #9) with Jeanne Vattuone here: https://anchor.fm/healingwithworth/episodes/Healing-with-WORTH-Healthy-Sexuality-with-Jeanne-Vattuone-Mini-Series-on-Abuse-7-emak0u "Unhealthy sexuality is coercive or nonconsensual. And whenever you have that coercion or any degree of non-consent, that is unhealthy. Non-consent absolutely is exploitive, it's abusive."
We had the pleasure of having licensed clinician Jeanne Vattuone coming and speaking to us on the topic of healthy sexuality. Jeanne breaks us out of our comfort zone as she addresses sensitive topics: What does healthy sexuality look like in a relationship? What is mutual consent in a sexual relationship? Jeanne has been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1998. She is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, trained with Dr. Patrick Carnes, and is a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Candidate. Jeanne works with sex addicts and their partners providing individual, group, and couples therapy. She is also trained in EMDR. Jeanne is a CSAT and a CCPS Supervisor. To find out more and to work with Jeanne https://willowtreesantarosa.com/sex-addiction-therapist-contact-us/clinicians
When an addict chooses not to change, his wife may be left without the complete truth. Jeanne Vattuone is back to talk about healing without a disclosure.
Carol the Coach interviews Jeanne Vattuone about the video course that she and colleague Tim Stein created to explain sexual addiction and partner betrayal. The course is an introduction to sex addiction and partner trauma and discusses the behavioral and neurological perspectives of both. It helps you to know what resources are available. This 15 segment course is a game changer for helping people understand sex addiction and relational trauma.
There is a growing awareness, research and appropriate treatment modalities about the traumatic impact of learning of a loved one's addiction, However, there is a distinct absence of research seeking more information about the sexual impact of the addiction on the partner's sexual experience. Carol the Coach is interviewing Jeanne Vattuone who will be helping us understand sexual trauma and how this effects partners and how they can heal from it.
There is a growing awareness, research and appropriate treatment modalities about the traumatic impact of learning of a loved one's addiction, However, there is a distinct absence of research seeking more information about the sexual impact of the addiction on the partner's sexual experience. Carol the Coach is interviewing Jeanne Vattuone who will be helping us understand sexual trauma and how this effects partners and how they can heal from it.
Things have changed and what we know at APSATS is that once an addict is in good recovery, we need to start working on the early fundamentals of couples work to help the partner feel safe. Listen as Jeanne Vattuone talks about the principles of working with the coupleship after discovery, recovery, and disclosure
Things have changed and what we know at APSATS is that once an addict is in good recovery, we need to start working on the early fundamentals of couples work to help the partner feel safe. Listen as Jeanne Vattuone talks about the principles of working with the coupleship after discovery, recovery, and disclosure
Couples Therapy can look different for couples in "Early Recovery" than the traditional model dictates. Jeanne Vattuone is a skilled therapist who has developed a model for couples in early recovery who are still reeling from the discovery of sexual addiction. Listen as she shares with Carol why this approach will foster communication and trust.