Podcasts about Enmeshment

Breaking Free from Toxic Family Patterns During DivorceIn this compelling episode, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright are joined by Jerry Wise, a family systems coach with over 45 years of experience helping people heal from dysfunctional and emotionally immature family dynamics. They explore how divorce often isn't the hardest part of ending a marriage—it's breaking free from the dysfunctional patterns that shaped you before you even got married.Seth and Pete dive deep with Jerry into the concept of emotional enmeshment and how it affects divorce proceedings and co-parenting relationships. They discuss practical strategies for recognizing when you're emotionally fused with your ex-spouse and techniques for breaking free from these patterns. The conversation takes fascinating turns as they explore how unresolved family-of-origin issues can impact current relationships and how to prevent passing these patterns to the next generation.Questions we answer in this episode:How do I know if I'm emotionally enmeshed with my ex?What can I do when I feel triggered by my ex's behavior?How do I protect my children from inheriting dysfunctional relationship patterns?Key Takeaways:Focus on yourself and your healing instead of blaming your exLearn to respond rather than react to triggering situationsWork on breaking unhealthy patterns before they affect your childrenThis episode offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating divorce or struggling with challenging family dynamics. Jerry's expertise, combined with Seth and Pete's practical legal and personal experience, provides listeners with actionable strategies for breaking free from toxic patterns and building healthier relationships moving forward.Links & NotesFind Jerry on his website, Instagram, or YouTubeCheck out Jerry's Road to Self programSchedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (00:26) - Jerry Wise and How to Divorce without Passing Down Toxic Patterns (02:37) - Lots of Things Affect Kids (04:21) - Enmeshment (07:49) - Getting Unmeshed (09:13) - Focus on Yourself (10:27) - Emotional and Legal Divorce (11:07) - Things You Can Do (16:23) - Breaking the Triggering Patterns (19:18) - Not All Feelings Are Equal (21:20) - Role Model for Kids (24:37) - Kids' Resilience (26:08) - Realizing You're Ready for Change (30:49) - Leaving Because... (32:09) - It's a Lot (33:14) - You Won't Always Feel This Way (35:27) - Marker 17 (39:18) - Wrap Up

Today, we're diving deep into a powerful topic that isn't talked about enough but can absolutely block your healing after betrayal... It's called enmeshment — and if it's not dealt with, it can leave you feeling stuck, exhausted, and disconnected from your true identity in Christ. But don't worry — today, I'm going to show you how to recognize it, break free, and move toward true restoration — both personally and in your marriage. Let's dive in." : 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma is launching Monday, May 5, 2025!:  Get on the waitlist for early bird pricing :: ✨ Learn how to start rebuilding your marriage after betrayal inside Marriage Redesigned. Visit lisalimehouse.com/marriage-redesigned :: NEXT STEPS: Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org  Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information Schedule your FREE CONSULT  Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal Email:   info@lisalimehouse.com Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

What is enmeshment? How and why does mother enmeshment set men up to struggle with porn? In this episode, you'll learn ten sexual symptoms of enmeshment and how to outgrow it.Resources mentioned in this episode (including paid links):Silently Seduced: When Parents Make Their Children Partners, by Ken Adams (book)When He's Married To Mom: How to Help Mother-Enmeshed Men Open Their Hearts to True Love and Commitment, by Ken Adams (book)Healing With My Parents (the podcast episode where I interviewed my parents, Yvonne and Sandy Boa, about healing as a family)Want to outgrow enmeshment on your way to outgrowing porn?Join the waitlist for HMA at joinHMA.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

The capacity for emotion sets us apart from all things living. It gives us the capability for healthy, deep and intimate relationships. What does it look like when our relationships are too enmeshed emotionally? In this episode of Breaking Bread, Brian Sutter and Kathy Knochel teach us about enmeshment and the dangers of being too emotionally dependent on others.    Show notes  While we are to receive and give support to others, we are not to take ultimate responsibility for other's wellbeing. Unhealthy emotional dependency can happen when two or more individuals lose their independence and identity to the relationship. Individuals assume unhealthy responsibility for the feelings of others. Often it is marked with overwhelm and exhaustion on the part of one and deeply felt need on the part of the other. When this occurs in the family system, it often goes by the term enmeshment. However, emotional dependency can occur between unrelated friends also.     Finding health for individuals in emotionally dependent relationships will require some action.   First there needs to be a recognition of emotional dependency.  Second, boundaries will need to be put in place to promote safety between the individuals.   Third, individuals will feel a mixture of guilt and loss. Working through these emotional realities is necessary.   Finally, reengaging in the relationship at the healthiest level possible. 

Hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill discuss the difficult balance of helping and serving others without creating codependency or enmeshment. 

In this episode of the Relational Recovery podcast, hosts Wes Thompson and Austin Hill discuss the flipside of healthy relationships, including codependency and enmeshment.

When you lost your father's love, you also lost your mother.  In today's mind-blowing episode, I break down the unique dynamic of having an absent father and a depressed mother at the same time. I discuss how this "double wound" impacts your body, mind, and spirit, and how to break free from these painful patterns.______________________________________***BIG ANNOUNCEMENT***  Situationship To Soulmate Program is closing its doors forever! April 25 is the last day we are enrolling new members, before retiring our beloved program permanently!Book A Free 1-1 Consultation Call:  This is your last chance to book a free call and learn about joining the Soulmate program here.______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Download my FREE guide to healing the 4 Core Wounds here.Book A Free 1-1 Consultation Call:  Learn to see if healing your inner child is right for you by booking a free call here.WAS THIS HELPFUL?I'd be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show.

How can you tell if your top employees are experiencing burn out? Is your entire identity wrapped up in your work? In this episode of Don't HR Alone, our host Rhamy Alejeal interviews clinical psychologist Dr. Janna Koretz, founder of Azimuth Psychological, to explore the hidden dangers of career enmeshment—when your job becomes your sole identity.You'll learn:• Why career enmeshment often leads to burnout, mental health crises, and even professional collapse.• How to recognize the signs in yourself and your employees.• Actionable strategies to build a healthier, more resilient workforce.Book a Free HR Strategy Consultation with Rhamy Alejeal (U.S. businesses, 10+ employees)Explore Dr. Janna Koretz's website at https://azimuthpsych.com/ for expert insights and free resources, including a burnout calculator and values navigator.

Delanie Fischer is joined by Licensed Psychotherapist and International & Board Certified Trauma Therapist, Támara Hill, to discuss betrayal trauma —including deceptive affection, symptoms of this kind of trauma, the initial (and ongoing) impact it can have, and a multidimensional approach to healing.Plus:+ Your "Life as a Platter" Analogy & Growth Mindset+ Learned Helplessness, Enmeshment, and PTSD+ A Journaling Ritual You Might Want to Try Next!More episodes related to this topic:Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullahWhen My Husband Came Out: Infidelity, Divorce, and Friendship with Jessica Frew: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/229e6642/when-my-husband-came-out-infidelity-divorce-and-friendship-with-jessica-frewHow To Build Self-Trust with Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3109f4db/how-to-build-self-trust-with-delanie-fischer-and-kelsey-cookHow to Fix a Broken Heart by Guy Winch: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/9c478f77/how-to-fix-a-broken-heart-by-guy-winchSupport the podcast and vote on topics: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this conversation, Jackie Pack and Erin Snow delve into the complexities of betrayal trauma, the impact of enmeshment on male clients, and the importance of authenticity in recovery. They explore the complexities of recovery from addiction, the impact of childhood trauma, and the importance of building supportive relationships. They discuss mother enmeshment, attachment, and the role of core beliefs in shaping one's identity, emphasizing the journey of self-discovery and the integration of sexuality and spirituality in healing. 

Hi Parents! This week, I'm thrilled to bring you a conversation with Beth Hillman, a double-certified parent coach who specializes in helping parents of struggling teens find clarity, confidence, and peace. Beth's personal journey through her son's wilderness therapy experience inspired her to support parents navigating similar challenges. Her wisdom and compassion shine through as she shares invaluable insights on rebuilding trust, setting healthy boundaries, and letting go of what's outside your control. More about Beth Hillman: Beth is the founder of Parenting Post Wilderness and a certified life and parent coach. After her 15-year-old son entered wilderness therapy, Beth experienced firsthand the fear, uncertainty, and emotional toll that comes with parenting a struggling teen. Determined to help other parents feel less alone, she became a coach dedicated to guiding families through difficult transitions - whether their teens are in treatment, transitioning home, or navigating life's everyday struggles. In this episode, we explore topics like enmeshment in parent-teen relationships, how to shift from control to connection, and practical steps for rebuilding trust after conflict. Beth shares real-life strategies to help you feel more grounded in your parenting journey, even in the toughest moments. I know you'll walk away from this episode with fresh perspectives and tools to create a healthier, more connected relationship with your teen! Big hugs, Monica Crnogorac Next Steps Book a Free Discovery Call Visit My Website for More Information on My 8-Week Program Connect With Me on Instagram

Happy Valentine's Day! This year you all picked "My Big Fat Greek Wedding". Enjoy as we dive into the concept of enmeshment: what that means, the factors that can create enmeshment, and the impact of enmeshment on an individual's development. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/popcorn-psychology--3252280/support.

When Renée asked Torie what she does for work, Torie responded, "Ugh. You're going to hate this. I'm a lawyer." This was only one of many times that Torie made Renée laugh out loud. Hilarious and whip-smart, Torie grew up in an "enmeshed" family that survived both her mother's brain tumors and her father's catastrophic car accident. She navigated severe anxiety as a child, postpartum depression as a new mom, and, most recently, an existential crisis. She comes to the show hoping Renée can help her map out a path to the life satisfaction that has so far eluded her. Along the way, they talk about parenting challenges, mental health care, family boundaries, and a lot of other things that help Renée identify the different forces that conspire to keep Torie frustrated. And, for the record, this is the podcast's 100th episode! Torie's openness and quick wit make for an episode well-deserving of the honor.Support the show

In this episode, Meg and Maggi explore the complexities of trusting ourselves in close relationships. They discuss the challenges of enmeshment, the importance of self-trust, and the need for discernment in decision-making. The conversation highlights the significance of alone time, self-validation, and the impact of external influences on our self-perception. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the journey of self-discovery and the necessity of nurturing our relationship with ourselves. Takeaways: Trusting ourselves in relationships can be challenging. Enmeshment can lead to losing our sense of individuality. It's important to recognize that we are not responsible for others' feelings. Self-trust is crucial for navigating relationships. Discernment helps us make better decisions for ourselves. Alone time is essential for processing our thoughts and feelings. Excitement can be contagious, but we must discern our own feelings. Self-validation is key to personal growth and satisfaction. Relationships can be beautiful, even when they are hard. We must learn to trust ourselves to handle life's challenges. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Vulnerability in Relationships 03:19 The Challenge of Trusting Ourselves 06:18 Enmeshment and Individuality in Relationships 09:15 Navigating Conflict and Self-Responsibility 12:14 The Importance of Self-Reflection 15:18 The Role of Discernment in Relationships 29:51 Decision-Making and Emotional Influence 32:31 The Importance of Self-Trust in Relationships 41:11 Understanding Anxiety and OCD 47:52 Meeting Personal Needs in Relationships 52:13 Finding Validation Within Yourself 59:09 Tools for Self-Trust and Love Notes Love,Meg & Maggi [self-trust, relationships, vulnerability, enmeshment, conflict resolution, discernment, anxiety, OCD, self-validation, personal growth] Follow us: ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠Youtube ⁠ Music curtesy of LiQWYD

Are you scared to slow down? Do you feel guilty when you take a break? Do you know how to rest? In this overstimulating time of incessant calamities, our collective energy is palpable, and rest is needed more than ever. In this episode, Sarah breaks down three reasons why it is so hard to rest in our dominant culture. She shares methods for finding your own restful rituals and resisting the demands of urgency and self-extraction. Sarah also shares more from her mini-sabbatical last year, what happened, and what she found out.In this episode, you'll learn:Why it is so hard to restWhat happens when we restHow to retrain your nervous systemHow to avoid shame and guilt when restingHow the foundation the U.S. is built on impacts restDifferent methods of restIf you feel overwhelmed, overworked or overstimulated, if you are desperate for rest but simply don't know where to start, this episode is for you.For more on the originator, Tricia Hersey, of the Rest as Resistance Movement, go here, and read her book here.Listen to Moonbeaming episode 160 with Aidan Wachter hereMOON STUDIO WORKSHOP LINKSRitual for Remembering: A Return to Self.Future Self Workshop.Our Hermit Year. Mystic Vision Workshop.Join the Moon Studio Patreon.Buy the 2025 Many Moons Lunar Planner.Subscribe to our newsletter.Find Sarah on Instagram.

"I'm the mediator...I'm the oldest everything," Layla told Renée. While she is the oldest child in her immediate family and the oldest cousin in her extended family, Layla is the youngest guest we have ever had on the show. You'd never guess that from listening to her, though; she is wise beyond her years and lovely in every way. She is also carrying a timeless burden, one that most of us unpack much later in life. Layla brings all the podcast favorites to this episode - fragile ego responses, enmeshment, codependency, complex trauma - and she asks some familiar questions, including, "Why am I attracted to this jerk?" and "How to do I set boundaries with my mom without hurting her?" Renée answers these questions and more, and Layla makes us all look bad with her stunning maturity.Support the show

Are you feeling the weight of emotional entanglement with your mother? In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the concept of "Mother Hunger" and the complexities of enmeshment. Unpacking the insidious nature of this emotional bond, Brianne explains how it can masquerade as nurturing while actually hindering personal growth and independence. With raw honesty, she shares personal anecdotes and insights that resonate with many who find themselves still tethered to their mothers long into adulthood.Join Brianne as she explores the detrimental effects of enmeshment on relationships and personal identity, especially for daughters and sons. Discover the signs of unhealthy attachment and learn how to break free from these patterns. Brianne offers practical strategies for healing the mother wound, including body work, inner child exercises, and the importance of establishing boundaries. This episode serves as a crucial reminder that while the journey to emotional independence can be challenging, it is essential for living a fulfilled and authentic life.Don't miss this enlightening discussion that encourages you to reclaim your autonomy and foster healthier relationships. Tune in to uncover the truth about Mother Hunger and take the first steps toward emotional liberation.If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you caught in relationships where boundaries feel non-existent, and your sense of self is tied to someone else's emotions, decisions, or happiness? Welcome to an eye-opening episode where we dive deep into the world of enmeshment—what it is, why it happens, and how to break free. In this powerful episode, we'll explore: The science behind enmeshment and how it affects your mental and emotional health. Clear examples of enmeshment in families, romantic relationships, and friendships. Actionable steps to recognize unhealthy dynamics, set boundaries, and reclaim your identity. With relatable insights, real-world examples, and a no-nonsense approach, this episode is packed with value for anyone ready to take control of their relationships and rediscover themselves.

In this episode, we explore the deep impact of covert narcissism and enmeshment on our sense of self-worth, boundaries, and relationships. If you've ever felt unworthy, insecure, or lost in roles that don't feel like your own, this conversation is for you. We dive into how these toxic dynamics can blur boundaries and disconnect us from our authentic selves, and how to begin reclaiming your worth. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, heal from emotional manipulation, and trust yourself again. Topics covered: Covert narcissism and enmeshment explained How these dynamics affect your self-worth and boundaries Practical steps to reclaim your true self Healing from trauma and finding self-empowerment Resources mentioned: Who Am I After Trauma Journaling Prompts Bring it To Group: Join Tuesday Group Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

Enmeshment can happen in a relationship when boundaries become blurred.How can you avoid becoming unhealthily enmeshed in a relationship?And how can you correct things when it's already happened?Join me, Dr Julie Osborn, as I share with you the CBT tools that can help you avoid and correct enmeshment in your relationships. Click to listen now!https://mycognitivebehavioraltherapy.com/enmeshment-cbt Visit us on Instagram at MyCBTPodcast Or on Facebook at Dr Julie Osborn Subscribe to the podcast at Apple Podcasts Email us at mycbtpodcast@gmail.com Find some fun CBT tools at https://www.mycbt.store/ Thanks for listening to My CBT Podcast!

As Norman Bates likes to say, a boy's best friend is his mother....Right?This episode takes a look at the book The Hitchcock Hotel (2024) and horror classic Psycho (1960) in this maternal enmeshment extravaganza!Mental Health is Horrifying is hosted by Candis Green, Registered Psychotherapist and owner of Many Moons Therapy...............................................................Show Notes:Want to work together? I offer 1:1 psychotherapy (Ontario), along with tarot, horror, and dreamwork services, both individually and through my group program, the Final Girls Club. This month's Final Girls Club feature workshop is Nightmare-morphosis. It's taking place  on November 28, and it's a live online psychotherapeutic workshop, where final girls are invited to bring a nightmare of their choosing to work with. Using our creative capacities and active imaginations, we will safely re-enter and co-create with our dreamscapes to metamorphize the nightmare, reducing its emotional charge while introducing a more empowered, supportive narrative.Register for Nightmare-morphosis and save 15% if you register before midnight on November 15 with code DREAMON. Send me some Ghoul Mail!I love hearing from you spooky ghouls! Want a chance to have your story read on a future episode of Mental Health is Horrifying? If you'd like to share what horror movies mean to you, how they have helped you with your mental health, or about a particular horror movie that you have thoughts and feelings about, send me some Ghoul Mail.Podcast artwork by Chloe Hurst at Contempomint.The Hitchcock Hotel by Stephanie Wrobel Hann-Morrison, D. (2012). Maternal Enmeshment: The Chosen Child. Sage Open, 2(4). Attachment in Psychotherapy by David J. WallinStephanie Wrobel Discusses Her Inspiration for ‘The Hitchcock Hotel' By Andy BurnsDick Cavett interview with Alfred Hitchcock 

Any close relationship can bring us pain or grief when those we love make choices that are opposite of what we desired. This is especially true for parents with adult children. Thankfully, we can learn to trust our Perfect Father to teach us how to transition into a new season of parenthood.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi create a safe space to explore the relational dynamics with your adult children. You'll be encouraged to trust Jesus to surround your kids with wounded healers, pray for relational restoration, and practice patience as part of your own apprenticeship to Jesus. Resources for this Episode:Meet with a Soul Shepherding Spiritual DirectorHealthy Feelings, Thriving Faith: Growing Emotionally and Spiritually Through the EnneagramDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks

Could the bonds in your closest relationships be holding you back instead of lifting you up? Join me as I unravel the intricate web of enmeshment that can blur boundaries and obscure individuality in the relationships we cherish most. This episode sheds light on how these dynamics differ from healthy relationships, where respect and mutual enjoyment reign, fostering individuality rather than dependency.Discover the nuances between enmeshment and codependency as we untangle the emotional struggles that can lead to isolation and loss of self-identity. By examining both romantic and familial ties, hear how enmeshment can creep into your life, and the challenges that arise when trying to establish boundaries. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and engage with our community as we navigate the road to empowerment and independence.Send us a text❤️ Are you codependent? Take a Codependency Quiz, https://thecodependentdoctor.com/quiz/✨Please contact me for any questions, comments or ideas for future episodes at codependentdoctor@gmail.com

Hi, Do you have a question for us? Ask away!This episode will resonate with anyone struggling with an overdeveloped sense of responsibility to others and those who feel “stuck” in cycles of overgiving. In this solo episode, Gemma dives deep into the self-sacrifice schema, exploring how it manifests, its origins in family dynamics, and the toll it takes on those who constantly prioritize others over themselves. This schema, often seen in people who struggle with setting boundaries, can lead to burnout, resentment, and a diminished sense of self-worth.Gemma delves into the drama triangle—the roles of victim, rescuer, and persecutor—and explains how these dynamics often shape and reinforce the self-sacrifice schema. Additionally, she examines the enmeshment schema, which often appears alongside self-sacrifice, further complicating one's ability to differentiate personal needs from the needs of others.Topics covered include:Defining the Self-Sacrifice Schema: How it drives people to prioritize others' needs over their own, even to their detriment.Origins of the Schema: Common family dynamics that foster self-sacrifice, such as growing up with an over-entitled or narcissistic parent, or being cast into the rescuer role in the drama triangle.The Schema's Impact on Relationships: Why those with a strong self-sacrifice schema often attract self-absorbed partners and struggle to set boundaries.Enmeshment and Self-Sacrifice: How enmeshment can fuel self-sacrifice by creating a sense of responsibility for others' emotions and well-being.Schemas and Coping Styles: Different coping modes, including surrendering to, avoiding, or overcompensating for the schema.The Role of Guilt and Empathic Distress: How these emotions fuel self-sacrifice behaviors and make it difficult to prioritize self-care.Practical Exercises: Techniques like chair work to identify core beliefs tied to self-sacrifice and to build a healthier relationship with oneself.Support the showCan you help support our continued production. If you're a regular listener who loves our show, please consider supporting us with a small contribution each month. We are a home-grown podcast made with love, without help from a fancy production company or sponsors. Become a regular supporter of the show and get a big thank-you shout out on an upcoming episode. Help us keep going! xxCONNECT WITH USGood Mood Hubgoodmood.com.auInstagramFacebookemail: justineandgemma@goodmood.com.auEmail us for information about private therapy or coaching with Dr Gemma or Dr Justine. The Red Flag Projecttheredflagproject.comInstagramFacebookemail: hello@theredflagproject.comhttps://linktr.ee/theredflagprojectFor women seeking to heal their schemas, break free from negative relationship patterns and avoid red-flag relationships. See our website for coaching with Gemma or Justine.

What if your childhood experiences shaped your relationships more than you ever realized? In today's episode, I'm joined by Thais Gibson, an expert in attachment theory, who reveals how our subconscious rules for love shape every connection we form. Thais breaks down how these attachment styles influence not just romantic relationships but also our friendships, family dynamics, and most importantly, our relationship with ourselves. Thais and I dive deep into the roots of attachment theory, exploring how core wounds from our past can keep us stuck in unhealthy patterns—and more importantly, how we can heal and reprogram these wounds. With her insights and actionable strategies, Thais explains how anyone can shift from an insecure attachment style to a secure, thriving connection. We also discuss the transformative power of understanding your own needs, setting healthy boundaries, and learning how to cultivate emotional regulation for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. This episode will leave you inspired to change the way you approach love and connection.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:27 What is Attachment Theory? 07:38 Identifying your core wounds 13:16 Reprogramming emotional triggers 17:27 How past emotional scars shape present reactions 20:55 Why do you keep dating the same type? 23:37 Heal yourself first 26:52 Learn what your needs are in a relationship 28:52 Communicate your needs vulnerability and transparently 31:34 Have healthy boundaries 32:23 Why do you find secure people boring? 35:23 The six stages of relationships 37:13 Are you hooked on the drama or the person? 40:40 The difference between sacrifice and compromise 43:45 Being in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant person 46:13 Enmeshment 52:04 Can you be a mix of attachment styles? 54:41 When anxious meets avoidant 57:17 What are your non-negotiables? 59:51 What are your standards or needs? 1:01:19 How do you actually feel when you're around someone? 1:04:16 Three questions to ask your partner 1:09:24 Thais' other books 1:10:48 Know more about Thais   Follow Thais: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On the heels of Andre's punchy episode, Tolu changes the tempo this week. If André was pop punk, Tolu is smooth jazz. His voice is gentle and comforting, and his spirit matches. Tolu doesn't have a childhood trauma story to tell, but he does have a problem he needs help with, and it just happens to involve one of Renée's favorite topics: meddling moms. Despite a childhood he calls "fun" and the easy awareness that his mom loves him, Tolu, now 29, finds himself dreading contact with her. What's going on? Enmeshment is the name of the game, and Renée gets in there and sorts the boundary problems and solutions, while Tolu tries to get Renée and Ashley to talk about themselves - and succeeds a few times. Ultimately, Renée and Tolu not only conduct a master class on boundaries, they also discuss how to navigate unbalanced romantic and platonic relationships and the relationship between codependency and social anxiety. Renée gives Tolu concrete strategies for managing all of it, Tolu gives us all reasons to root for him.Support the show

Feeling trapped by your family's expectations? Struggling to set boundaries and reclaim your independence? In this episode of The Mindshift Mami Show, we dive deep into enmeshed family dynamics and how they can hold you back from living the life you truly want. Growing up in an enmeshed family can feel suffocating. You might find yourself constantly seeking approval, feeling guilty for wanting to live your own life, or even sacrificing your happiness to meet family demands. But it doesn't have to be this way. In this episode, we'll explore: What enmeshment is and how it affects your personal growth Common signs of enmeshed relationships and how to recognize them Mindset shifts to help you prioritize yourself without guilt Practical strategies to set healthy boundaries with your family How to break free from toxic family patterns and reclaim your identity Whether you're just starting to realize the impact of enmeshment or you're ready to take steps toward a more independent life, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable tips to help you on your journey. ✨ Don't forget to subscribe for more empowering content and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode! If you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up and share it with someone who needs to hear this message. #Enmeshment #FamilyBoundaries #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift

Lindsey walks through her experience with enmeshment and how she is processing behavioral patterns with her therapist and her loved ones.Through the support of a therapist, dedicated research, and breathwork, Lindsey has found liberation in setting boundaries with those closest to her and is reprogramming her brain to not seek outside validation at the expense of her own growth and happiness.Lindsey hopes this episode will inspire you to reflect on where enmeshment shows up in your life and seek the support necessary to step into your highest self.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

Have you ever wondered whether you're too close with your family of origin? Does it feel like your life kinda revolves around them? Or are you guilted and shamed by them for wanting to pursue your own thing? Then this episode is for you because it's all about family enmeshment: what it is, five signs to identify whether you grew up in this type of family system, the impact it has on us as adults, and how to begin thinking about setting healthy boundaries with your family. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/640

In this episode, we sat down with Adam Lane Smith to discuss attachment theory. Adam shares how to identify your attachment style, how to foster a secure attachment with your own children, and how to apply those learnings to all of your relationships. TakeawaysAttachment theory focuses on the formation of healthy, loving, and collaborative relationships.There are three main attachment styles: secure, avoidant, and anxious.Attachment issues can be formed in childhood due to various factors, such as lack of bonding with parents or traumatic experiences.Birth experiences may impact attachment formation, but it is possible to improve attachment styles through explicit love and nurturing.Bonding hormones, such as oxytocin, GABA, vasopressin, and serotonin, play a crucial role in attachment and can be influenced by positive experiences.Collaboration and asking questions are essential tools for parents to create secure attachment with their children.Divorce can have a significant impact on attachment styles, and it is crucial to provide context and foster oxytocin bonding with adopted children.Couples with different attachment styles can improve their relationship by being explicit about their needs, fostering collaboration, and building a marriage agreement.The breakdown of the family structure over the past century has led to challenges in attachment and relationship dynamics.Providing a safe and nurturing environment is key to developing secure attachment in both parent-child and couple relationships. Solving problems together in a relationship opens up oxytocin receptors and fosters intimacy and connection.Avoidant attachment style is characterized by a wall up, lack of trust, and an emphasis on survival. Anxious attachment style is characterized by a fear of abandonment and a focus on pleasing others.Enmeshment is a form of insecure attachment where boundaries are poor and caretaking becomes the responsibility of the child.Secure attachment involves open and explicit communication, clear boundaries, and a focus on generosity and adjusting for reality.Attachment styles can vary in different relationships and situations, but fostering secure attachment at home is crucial for healthy relationships outside the home.Nature and genetics may play a role in attachment, but it is the parent's job to nurture and guide their child towards secure attachment.Building a self-correcting family system where open communication and resolution of issues is encouraged is more important than striving for perfection as a parent.Find Adam Lane Smith HERE. Find Adam Lane Smith on Instagram HERE. Find Adam Lane Smith on YouTube HERE. Find Homegrown on Instagram HERE. Find Liz Haselmayer on Instagram HERE. Find Joey Haselmayer on Instagram HERE.Shop real food meal plans and children's curriculum HERE.Get  exclusive podcast episodes HERE.Find us on YouTube HERE.Shop natural home goods on Haselmayer Goods HERE.

Do you ever feel like you're not truly seen for who you are? In this episode, Kevin and Alan talk about what it means to belong and why it's important to feel valued, not just for what you do, but for who you really are. Join us as we explore how deep conversations and self-awareness can help you find your place and connect more deeply with others.Links mentioned:Subscribe & follow  NLU: https://www.buzzsprout.com/742955/share30 Minute Call with Alan (8 Fundamentals of Finance) -https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-call-with-alan?month=2024-08______________________NLU is not just a podcast; it's a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey.For more information, please check out our website at the link below.

In this episode Kreed explores the topic of enmeshment and how it can lead to estrangement in families. Enmeshment is characterized by a lack of boundaries and difficulty separating oneself from family members. It often involves prioritizing loyalty and emotional attachment above everything else. Enmeshed families may exhibit controlling behavior, guilt tripping, and a lack of individuality. The episode discusses the problems that can result from enmeshment, such as parentification and difficulty forming healthy relationships. It also provides suggestions for overcoming enmeshment, including setting boundaries and communicating needs. http://www.TheEstrangedHeart.com Email Kreed at: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com Coaching with Kreed - https://TheEstrangedHeart-scheduler.as.me/COACHING ZOOM Support Groups for: estranged moms, recently reconciled moms or estranged adult children Please email to register: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com Facebook Support Group for estranged moms: facilitated by Kreed: https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup If you wish to become a financial supporter of the podcast and Kreed's work with estranged parents & adult children:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere  (one time donation) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theestrangedheart/support

Welcome to the "Week in Review," where we delve into the true stories behind this week's headlines. Your host, Tony Brueski, joins hands with a rotating roster of guests, sharing their insights and analysis on a collection of intriguing, perplexing, and often chilling stories that made the news.       This is not your average news recap. With the sharp investigative lens of Tony and his guests, the show uncovers layers beneath the headlines, offering a comprehensive perspective that traditional news can often miss. From high-profile criminal trials to in-depth examinations of ongoing investigations, this podcast takes listeners on a fascinating journey through the world of true crime and current events.       Each episode navigates through multiple stories, illuminating their details with factual reporting, expert commentary, and engaging conversation. Tony and his guests discuss each case's nuances, complexities, and human elements, delivering a multi-dimensional understanding to their audience.  Whether you are a dedicated follower of true crime, or an everyday listener interested in the stories shaping our world, the "Week in Review" brings you the perfect balance of intrigue, information, and intelligent conversation. Expect thoughtful analysis, informed opinions, and thought-provoking discussions beyond the 24-hour news cycle. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on The Downfall of Diddy, The Trial of Karen Read, The Murder Of Maddie Soto, Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

Welcome to the "Week in Review," where we delve into the true stories behind this week's headlines. Your host, Tony Brueski, joins hands with a rotating roster of guests, sharing their insights and analysis on a collection of intriguing, perplexing, and often chilling stories that made the news.       This is not your average news recap. With the sharp investigative lens of Tony and his guests, the show uncovers layers beneath the headlines, offering a comprehensive perspective that traditional news can often miss. From high-profile criminal trials to in-depth examinations of ongoing investigations, this podcast takes listeners on a fascinating journey through the world of true crime and current events.       Each episode navigates through multiple stories, illuminating their details with factual reporting, expert commentary, and engaging conversation. Tony and his guests discuss each case's nuances, complexities, and human elements, delivering a multi-dimensional understanding to their audience.  Whether you are a dedicated follower of true crime, or an everyday listener interested in the stories shaping our world, the "Week in Review" brings you the perfect balance of intrigue, information, and intelligent conversation. Expect thoughtful analysis, informed opinions, and thought-provoking discussions beyond the 24-hour news cycle. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on The Downfall of Diddy, The Trial of Karen Read, The Murder Of Maddie Soto, Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

In this episode of "Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski," former felony prosecutor and attorney Eric Faddis joins the discussion on the upcoming trial of Donna Adelson. Donna is accused of being involved in the murder-for-hire plot that led to the death of Dan Markel. The conversation delves into the complexities and unanswered questions surrounding Donna's involvement and her awareness of the crime. Faddis suggests that the defense may argue Donna's actions were merely protective and not criminal. The discussion highlights the ambiguities in Donna's knowledge and actions, particularly in a phone call where she vaguely acknowledges the involvement of multiple people in the situation. The episode also touches on the roles of other family members, such as Donna's husband Harvey, who has not been charged, and her daughter Wendy, who remains unindicted despite her family's deep involvement. Tony and Eric debate the plausibility of Harvey's ignorance and Wendy's awareness of her family's capabilities. The conversation paints a picture of a family enmeshed in a sinister plot, with Donna potentially at the center of the orchestration. **Main Points:** - Discussion on Donna Adelson's upcoming trial and her potential involvement in Dan Markel's murder. - Defense might argue Donna's actions were protective and not criminal. - Uncertainties regarding Donna's knowledge and specific actions in the crime. - Analysis of a phone call where Donna indirectly acknowledges involvement. - Examination of other family members' roles, particularly Harvey Adelson and Wendy Adelson. - Debate on the plausibility of Harvey's ignorance and Wendy's awareness of the plot. #DanMarkel #DonnaAdelson #HiddenKillers #MurderForHire #EricFaddis #WendyAdelson #TrueCrime Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on The Downfall of Diddy, The Karen Read Trial, Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

In this episode of "Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski," former felony prosecutor and attorney Eric Faddis joins the discussion on the upcoming trial of Donna Adelson. Donna is accused of being involved in the murder-for-hire plot that led to the death of Dan Markel. The conversation delves into the complexities and unanswered questions surrounding Donna's involvement and her awareness of the crime. Faddis suggests that the defense may argue Donna's actions were merely protective and not criminal. The discussion highlights the ambiguities in Donna's knowledge and actions, particularly in a phone call where she vaguely acknowledges the involvement of multiple people in the situation. The episode also touches on the roles of other family members, such as Donna's husband Harvey, who has not been charged, and her daughter Wendy, who remains unindicted despite her family's deep involvement. Tony and Eric debate the plausibility of Harvey's ignorance and Wendy's awareness of her family's capabilities. The conversation paints a picture of a family enmeshed in a sinister plot, with Donna potentially at the center of the orchestration. **Main Points:** - Discussion on Donna Adelson's upcoming trial and her potential involvement in Dan Markel's murder. - Defense might argue Donna's actions were protective and not criminal. - Uncertainties regarding Donna's knowledge and specific actions in the crime. - Analysis of a phone call where Donna indirectly acknowledges involvement. - Examination of other family members' roles, particularly Harvey Adelson and Wendy Adelson. - Debate on the plausibility of Harvey's ignorance and Wendy's awareness of the plot. #DanMarkel #DonnaAdelson #HiddenKillers #MurderForHire #EricFaddis #WendyAdelson #TrueCrime Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on The Downfall of Diddy, The Karen Read Trial, Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

In today's episode, we dive into a topic that hits close to home for many of us – overparenting. Are you the kind of parent who tends to hover, or maybe even bulldoze obstacles out of your child's way? Join us as we discuss the various forms overparenting can take, its root causes, and most importantly, how it impacts the mental and emotional well-being of our kids. We share personal anecdotes, clinical insights, and practical advice to help you strike the right balance between being supportive and overbearing.We also explore the broader implications of overparenting on societal norms and individual development, touching on how this trend affects not just kids but entire family dynamics. If you've ever found yourself questioning your parenting style or the cultural pressures driving you to be overly involved, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and discover how to foster independence and resilience in your children without stepping over the line. Episode Highlights:[1:04] - Discussing the prevalence of overparenting and its impact on mental health.[2:19] - Different forms of overparenting and their origins in fear and protectiveness.[3:34] - The impact of special needs on parenting styles and the unique challenges it presents.[5:02] - Modern societal fears and their contribution to overparenting.[6:36] - Real-life examples of extreme overparenting and its consequences.[9:11] - The concept of "lawn mower parenting" and why it's detrimental.[11:02] - Enmeshment and the importance of allowing children to develop their own identities.[12:58] - Personal stories of the struggles and benefits of letting children face challenges.[16:55] - The importance of failure in learning and development.[18:06] - Balancing support with independence, especially for young adults.[19:27] - Strategies for parents to avoid overparenting and promote resilience.[21:45] - Addressing social pressures and the fear of judgment from others.[23:52] - Encouragement for parents to give their children space and the benefits it brings.[24:58] - The importance of frustration tolerance and resilience in children.[26:42] - Final thoughts on being supportive without overparenting. Resources:Dr. Becky Kennedy's Book: Good Inside and Podcast: Good InsideDr. Shefali Tsabary's Book: The Conscious ParentDr. Daniel Amen's Book: Raising Mentally Strong KidsFor more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at info@insightsfromthecouch.org we would love to hear from you!If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue 

Enmeshment refers to relationships that have become so intertwined that boundaries are nonexistent or identical. While this concept most often occurs between a primary caregiver and their child, it can also happen in romantic relationships. Although enmeshment can initially lessen worries around abandonment and rejection, ongoing enmeshment can lead to resentment and low relationship satisfaction. Reference: The Attachment Project You may ask how does enmeshment relate to trauma bonding? Trauma bonding occurs when a deep emotional bond is formed with someone who has been harmful toward you, and is often marked by repeated cycles of abuse coupled with positive reinforcement. The codependent nature of enmeshment makes removing oneself from a trauma bond extremely difficult and can lead to continuous patterns of abuse, neglect and abandonment.

"I built a successful business and I quantum leapt into 30k months, and I've been there pretty steadily and consistently since 2021. The frustrating part is I can feel that there was something that was blocking my growth".Today I sit down with Amy Belair to discuss how addressing deep-rooted traumas, specifically the mother wound, can significantly impact business success.Amy has been in the show a couple of times, but for those of you who don't know what she does, she's a Cosmic Oracle, a Keeper of The Christ Consciousness Frequency and a Translator of Multidimensional Light Codes. She facilitates the expansion and ascension of Human consciousness through her library of courses, workshops and mentorship programs.Follow her on IG: cosmic.oracle Listen to her podcast: Third Eye AwakeningCheck out her Finding Your Soul Purpose free masterclassTake The Psychic Clairs Quiz Amy shares her journey of overcoming an invisible income plateau by pinpointing and healing unconscious patterns of self-abandonment inherited from her mother. Through profound introspection and my support, Amy was able to dissolve these barriers, leading to substantial business growth and personal clarity. How has your relationship with your mother impacted your business decisions and growth?TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS(00:00) Building a Successful Business (01:35) In Today's Episode...Amy Belair (03:44) The Power of Trauma Work (05:42) The Metamorphosis Shifting the Mother Wound (09:45) Getting to Know Amy (12:25) Amy's Journey, Discoveries and How We Got to Work Together(17:16) Understanding What is the Mother Wound(18:25) Amy's Purpose and Her Mother Wound(23:51) Unconscious Patterns and Enmeshment (34:19) Emotional Shifts and Realizations. Healing Through Business Challenges (40:48) The Importance of External Support (44:29) It's Not Only About BUSINESS STRATEGIES(54:15) Energetic Clarity and Business Success (55:52) Final Reflections and Gratitude **WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**Leave a review, send us a screenshot and get a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world.Clear Trauma from Your Business (and Life) Cheat Sheet Learn about the familial traumas and which one of them is blocking your business.  The Metamorphosis starts in August. Heal the 4 childhood traumas that we all have and create a MASSIVE shift in your life.CONTACT ALYSEJoin my FB groupIG @alyse_breathesVisit alysebreathes.cominfo@alysebreathes.com

This solo episode is about cycle breakers, individuals who recognize and actively work to disrupt and transform dysfunctional patterns in their families or communities. Cycle breakers go through a process of self-healing and take ownership of their healing journey. They consciously choose to address and heal themselves first before speaking out against the dysfunctional patterns. Our host, Paden, explores different examples of dysfunctional patterns, such as generational trauma and abuse, poverty mindset, and financial mismanagement. The role of a cycle breaker is challenging and often leads to being seen as the black sheep of the family. However, it is a sacred mission to divert the family lineage from dysfunction to a higher path. The episode explores the concept of being a cycle breaker in a family and the challenges and importance of breaking unhealthy patterns and generational trauma. It discusses examples of dysfunctional family dynamics, such as codependency and enmeshment, and the need for healthy boundaries. The role of a cycle breaker is to recognize and actively choose not to repeat unhealthy patterns, while also showing compassion towards family members who may perpetuate these patterns. The episode emphasizes the sacred and empowering nature of being a cycle breaker and the support of ancestors in this journey. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Cycle Breakers 02:03 The Sacred Work of Breaking Cycles in the Family 07:53 The Challenges of Being a Cycle Breaker 10:47 Examples of Dysfunctional Patterns and How Cycle Breakers Address Them 19:07 Setting Boundaries and Cutting Off Ties 25:08 Financial Literacy and Making Conscious Choices 28:24 Enmeshment and Lack of Boundaries 40:07 The Sacred Role of a Cycle Breaker 50:28 The Support of Ancestors

In this podcast episode, Nate and Marla Christensen discuss the concepts of codependence and enmeshment in relationships, particularly in the context of addiction recovery. They emphasize the importance of being enmeshed with Christ rather than with other people, highlighting the need for individuals to focus on their relationship with the Savior for healing and support. The discussion delves into the idea that the Addiction Recovery Program (ARP) is not just for addicts but can benefit anyone seeking to strengthen their connection with Jesus and find peace amidst chaos. Marla shares her personal journey of realizing the need to lean on Jesus rather than being overly dependent on her partner's actions or behaviors. The couple reflects on the transformative power of surrendering to the Savior and finding solace in the midst of life's challenges. They also touch on the importance of maintaining individuality and self-care within relationships, even when faced with difficulties like addiction. Overall, the episode underscores the significance of seeking spiritual guidance and support in navigating personal struggles and relationships. Links There is already a discussion started about this podcast. Share your thoughts. Transcript coming soon Get 14-day access to the Core Leader Library Highlights How Nate and Marla's Journeys Led to Becoming Therapists 00:03:31 - Nate's Background and Struggles with Mental Health 00:10:13 - Marla's Background and Transition to College The Importance of the Addiction Recovery Program (ARP) 00:24:21 - The Benefits of the ARP Program for Both Addicts and Partners 00:25:02 - The Role of Spiritual Leaders in Supporting ARP Participation Understanding Codependence and Enmeshment 00:33:35 - Exploring the Concept of Codependence and Enmeshment 00:37:31 - Applying the Principles of Surrender and Enmeshment with Christ Navigating Relationships and Dependency 00:40:13 - Marla's Reflection on Codependency in Past Relationships 00:41:45 - Marla's Shift in Perspective Towards Nate's Struggles The Leading Saints Podcast is one of the top independent Latter-day Saints podcasts as part of nonprofit Leading Saints' mission to help Latter-day Saints be better prepared to lead. Learn more and listen to any of the past episodes for free at LeadingSaints.org. Past guests include Emily Belle Freeman, David Butler, Hank Smith, John Bytheway, Reyna and Elena Aburto, Liz Wiseman, Stephen M. R. Covey, Julie Beck, Brad Wilcox, Jody Moore, Tony Overbay, John H. Groberg, Elaine Dalton, Tad R. Callister, Lynn G. Robbins, J. Devn Cornish, Bonnie Oscarson, Dennis B. Neuenschwander, Anthony Sweat, John Hilton III, Barbara Morgan Gardner, Blair Hodges, Whitney Johnson, Ryan Gottfredson, Greg McKeown, Ganel-Lyn Condie, Michael Goodman, Wendy Ulrich, Richard Ostler, Kirby Heyborne, and many more in over 700 episodes. Discover podcasts, articles, virtual conferences, and live events related to callings such as the bishopric, Relief Society, elders quorum, Primary, youth leadership, stake leadership, ward mission, ward council, young adults, ministering, and teaching.

Welcome to the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy with Drs. James Hawkins, Ph.D., LPC, and Ryan Rana, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC, ICEEFT Therapists, Supervisors, and Trainers. Thank you for listening. We hope this experience helps you push the leading edge in your work to help people connect with themselves and each other. In this installment of our series "What Scares Therapists," James and Ryan discuss the relationship between enmeshment and differentiation from an attachment perspective.  You can financially contribute to this podcast on Venmo (@leftpodcast). Type LEFT or Leading Edge in EFT in the comments or notes section. All financial contributions are greatly appreciated and will help us keep producing content to help you push your leading edge. We desire to use this podcast to help equip therapists with tools and encouragement to help them with relational distress. We are also part of a team that has created an online training program, Success in Vulnerability (SV). Success In Vulnerability is your premier online education experience that leads with innovative instruction to advance your therapeutic effectiveness through Success in Vulnerability's exclusive Modules and full-length Clinical Examples. You can follow us on our Facebook page @pushtheleadingedge You can follow Ryan on Facebook @ryanranaprofessionaltraining and his website You can follow James on Facebook and Instagram @dochawklpc. You can also check out his website, dochawklpc.com Check out our online training program, Success in Vulnerability (SV) You can follow George @ https://www.georgefaller.com/.

In this riveting episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the unsettling and often misunderstood topic of emotional incest. She breaks down the concept, distinguishing it from physical incest and enmeshment, and explains how it manifests in parent-child relationships. Brianne passionately discusses how emotional incest occurs when a child's energy is inappropriately directed to fulfill the emotional needs of a parent, rather than the other way around.Brianne shares her personal experiences and professional insights, highlighting the long-term consequences of emotional incest, including developmental, emotional, and relational issues. She provides clear signs that indicate emotional incest, such as a parent relying on a child for support, invading the child's privacy, and treating the child like a partner.This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with the effects of emotional incest or seeking to understand this complex issue. Brianne offers practical advice on how to set boundaries and reclaim one's sense of self. Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of generational trauma and foster healthier relationships.#SecretLifePodcast #EmotionalIncest #TraumaRecovery #Boundaries #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #HealthyRelationships #SelfHealing

This week on Calling Home, Whitney speaks with therapist and author Nedra Tawwab on the concept of enmeshment in family relationships. They talk about what enmeshment is and what makes it different from a close family relationship. Nedra emphasizes the importance of setting healthy boundaries and respecting the autonomy of others, especially as children grow and become independent. She suggests that enmeshment can be addressed by gradually reducing contact to a comfortable level, asserting one's own needs and desires, and not expecting others to agree with or validate personal decisions.  Follow Nedra Tawwab on Instagram at @nedratawwab. For more information on Nedra's books visit nedratawwab.com.  Have a question for Whitney? Call Home at 866-225-5466.  Click here to get “Toxic Positivity” on paperback.  Join Whitney's Family Cycle Breakers Club for further support and discussion on family dynamics at CallingHome.co. Follow the Calling Home community on Instagram or TikTok.  Follow Whitney Goodman on Instagram or TikTok.  The Calling Home podcast is not engaged in providing therapy services, mental health advice or other medical advice or services, is not a substitute for advice from a qualified healthcare provider, and does not create any therapist-patient or other treatment relationship between you and Calling Home or Whitney Goodman. For more information on this, please see Calling Home's Terms of Service. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon talks with Dr. Kenneth Adams about the signs of enmeshment, emotional incest, and red flag dysfunctional family dynamics. Plus they discuss, codependency, surrogate companions, boundaries, and warning signs that your partners apple may not fall far from the tree. *** CONTENT WARNING - Non Sexual and Sexual Incest is briefly discussed in this episode. *** Dr. Kenneth Adams' website is https://www.overcomingenmeshment.com If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.).  To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices