Podcasts about redeeming heartache

In this podcast, we continue our focus on why our story matters. Our guest, Cathy Loerzel, holds an MACP in Psychology from the Seattle School and helped found the Allender Center with Dan Allender in 2010. She is the co-author of the book “Redeeming Heartache” with Dan. She has developed a therapeutic approach called story work which moves people through their past stories of heartache to heal and discover healthier ways of being in the world. Cathy will be with us at our upcoming REST Retreat at Stone Mountain in Georgia. http://www.worshipcircle.com

What is story work? Where did it come from? What does it look like? In part 1 of this 4-part series, Drew shares his story: "The Day I Got Braces."If you love this series, you'd love Husband Material Groups.Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/groupDrew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.comWendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.comMarcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.comChris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.comResources for Story Work:The Allender Center and Allender Theory (organization, podcast, courses)Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way To Healing, by Jay Stringer (book)Redeeming Heartache, with Cathy Loerzel (video)The Place We Find Ourselves, by Adam Young (podcast)The ReStory Course, by Restory Counseling (video course)Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

It was an absolute pleasure to be joined by psychologist Dr. Dan Allender and therapist Cathy Loerzel for an incredible conversation about the journey of healing Trauma. Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel are the authors of the book Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling. They are also the founders of The Allender Center. I really excited to sit down with them after reading the book and participating in story work. This episode is available to watch on Spotify or you listen on any of your favorite podcast platform. You can also watch the episode on video on youtube.YOUTUBE :www.youtube.com/@Thehealingtraumapodcast⁠ Paid Subscribers {FRIENDS OF THE PODCAST} Can enjoy the extended version of this episode which includes a conversation with Dr. Dan Allender where he shares some of his own story of childhood heachache and trauma and how he got into this healing work of over forty years. Subscribe here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/monique34/subscribe Your support goes directly towards keeping the healing conversation going. Get access to extended and or bonus episodes. Coffee support: buy me a coffeehttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/TheHealingtraumapodcast  Dr. Dan Allender has pioneered a unique therapy centered around his innovative theory and training in transforming betrayal, ambivalence, and powerlessness into faith, hope, and love. He is a professor of counseling psychology at The Seattle School and founder of The Allender Center, speaking on trauma, sexual abuse recovery, love and forgiveness, and intimacy. He's a popular podcaster on The  Allender Center Podcast and the author of  multiple books, Health the Wondered Heart,The Wounded Heart, The Healing Path, To Be Told and God Loves Sex. Connect with Dr. Allender on Facebook or Instagram The Allender Center  Cathy Loerzel received her MA in Counseling Psychology in 2007 is the Co-Founder of The Allender Center at The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology and co-author of Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Your True Calling. She has spent the last 15 years developing the theory and methodology of a popular new coaching and therapeutic approach called Story Work that moves people through their past stories of heartache to heal and discover healthier ways of being in the world.  You can find her here. https://www.cathyloerzel.com

When was the last time you took time to reflect on your story? As you reflect on the year you've had, why not take some time to think more about your past and do some healing work? Cathy Loerzel, co-founder of The Allender Center and co-author of “Redeeming Heartache” joins Juli to talk about why sharing and hearing our stories helps us heal from past trauma and is crucial for cultivating emotional and spiritual maturity.     Guest: Cathy Loerzel Website: cathyloerzel.com Cathy's Instagram: @cathy.loerzel   Book: Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling by Cathy Loerzel and Dr. Dan Allender Java with Juli: #479 More Than Just Behavior: Why Your Struggles With Sexual Sin Run Deeper Than You Think   Donate

In this episode, Carrie welcomes guest author and therapist Cathy Loerzel to discuss the importance of embracing grief and negative emotions in order to heal and move forward. The conversation draws from three archetype characters of past wounding and how it shows up in our lives and relationships with others. The episode emphasizes the necessity of dealing with past wounds which leads to healthier lives and the ability to handle present challenges. It offers hope in understanding and addressing the core wounds of orphanhood, stranger, and widowhood, and encourages individuals to press into their pain and grief towards their own healing journeys. Ep.138; July 25, 2023Key Moments:[1:26] Healing past wounds for a better present[6:20] Three different “characters” of our pain[8:53] Our kids reveal to us places we need more healing [16:18] Learning to recognize and embrace lament's powerResources:Cathy Loerzel's WebsiteCathy's InstagramRedeeming HeartacheWild Edge of SorrowIf you enjoyed the show:Subscribe to our newsletter on the Take Heart WebsiteGet our free resource on finding Gratitude, Peace, and HopeReview and like us on Apple Podcasts Share us with others from wherever you listen to podcastsFollow us on Instagram @takeheartspecialmomsFind Amy at www.amyjbrown.com/  or on Instagram @amyjbrown_writerFind Carrie at www.carriemholt.com or on Instagram @carriemholtFind Sara at www.saraclime.com or on Instagram @saraclimeSupport the show

Cathy LoerzelUnderstanding Your Story Workshop with Cathy Loerzel and Adam YoungRedeeming Heartache BookThe Allender CenterThe Seattle School of Psychology and TheologyAbby Wong-Heffter, a co-founder of The Allender Center, therapist and teacher

Brenda J and Karen Wonder interview Cathy Loerzel, co-author of Redeeming Heartache. She is also a licensed counselor and speaker and is Co-Founder of The Allender Center at the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. Cathy discusses many deep topics including disassociation, isolation and fragmentation. They dive deep into a new therapeutic approach called Story Work that moves people past stories of heartache to heal and discover healthier ways of being in the world. https://theallendercenter.org https://hangingontohope.org

Brenda J and Karen Wonder interview Cathy Loerzel, co-author of Redeeming Heartache. She is also a licensed counselor and speaker and is Co-Founder of The Allender Center at the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. Cathy discusses many deep topics including disassociation, isolation and fragmentation. They dive deep into a new therapeutic approach called Story Work that moves people past stories of heartache to heal and discover healthier ways of being in the world. https://theallendercenter.org https://hangingontohope.org

Sneak peek into episodes 86 and 87 Redeeming Heartache With Cathy Loerzel.

Heartache has a pattern, and so does healing. Author and therapist Cathy Loerzel explains the 3 types of heartache, and a powerful path to healing for each one. Learn how your past has uniquely prepared you to experience more joy. Cathy Loerzel founded the Allender Center with Dr. Dan Allender in 2010.Together with Dan, she is the co-author of Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals True Calling (this is a paid link).Connect with Cathy at cathyloerzel.com.

Dr. Dan Allender joins Juli to share about Redeeming Heartache—a helpful tool (think Enneagram or DISC test) to help you move from trauma and old wounds to healing and connection with God and others. You're invited to look closely at your own story and see how God can redeem (or is redeeming) every part of your journey. Guests: Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel Show notes: Join us at Reclaim! The Allender Center Redeeming Heartache by Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel* Follow "Java with Juli" and listen on your iPhone or Android. *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fees from qualifying purchases.

Yes, we are blessed to be a blessing. But what if we are broken to be a blessing as well? What if our calling is an invitation to heal those parts of us that are waiting to be poured out in blessing? Listen in.  Links and Resources from this episode:  Redeeming Heartache by Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel Isaiah 58:11, 12 (The Message) Find me at Kaley Ehret on Facebook and Instagram. Listen on: Apple Podcasts Podbean Spotify

*DISCLAIMER: This episode discusses adult themes and is not intended for young ears.   Redeeming Heartache with Dr. Dan Allender   "How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered!" Psalm 139:17 (NLT)   Questions and Topics We Discuss: How do you help others bridge "the story of the gospel and the stories of trauma and abuse that mark so many?" Will you model this by going first? If we are walking alongside a loved one who has experienced Trauma, what is your recommendation for ways we can best love, and honor, and support them?   Dr. Dan Allender has pioneered a unique therapy centered around his innovative theory and training in transforming betrayal, ambivalence, and powerlessness into faith, hope, and love. He is a professor of counseling psychology at The Seattle School and founder of The Allender Center, speaking on trauma, sexual abuse recovery, love and forgiveness, and intimacy. He's a popular podcaster onThe  Allender Center Podcast and the author of Health the Wondered Heart,The Wounded Heart, The Healing Path, To Be Told and God Loves Sex.   Connect with Dr. Allender on Facebook or Instagram   The Allender Center   At The Savvy Sauce, we will only recommend resources we believe in! We also want you to be aware: We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.    Redeeming Heartache God Loves Sex The Wounded Heart   Thank You to Our Sponsor: Midwest Food Bank   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Bonus episode! Cathy Loerzel and I dive into why it's crucial to take your wounds seriously, and how your wounds lead to the “orphan experience,” “stranger experience,” and/or “widow experience.” We also talk about what redemption looks like for each of these three types of wounding. Jesus takes our experiences of trauma and redeems them. That is, God creates glory, meaning and calling out of the very things that were designed to hurt us. If you want to better understand what redemption can look like for you, Cathy and I will be co-leading a live Redeeming Heartache event on May 21, 2022, in Fort Collins, CO. You can sign up here.

We live in a broken world filled with broken people. Because of this, everyone experiences some level of trauma. Unfortunately, past trauma experiences can greatly impact our lives, perceptions, and interactions in the present. Many of us have become adept at numbing our pain. In order to heal, however, we need to have the courage to unpack and process our trauma stories with truth but also with a great deal of self-kindness. In this episode, Dr. Allender and Cathy Loerzel, coauthors of Redeeming Heartache, released by Zondervan, share some archetype mentalities that often stem from trauma, why it's so important we learn to order our trauma stories, and how we can grow in greater freedom. Find Dr. Allender at:https://theallendercenter.org/about/team/dan-allender/https://www.amazon.com/Dan-B.-Allender/e/B001HCW4JUFind Cathy Loerzel at:https://theallendercenter.org/about/team/cathy-loerzel/https://www.instagram.com/cathy.loerzel/Learn more about their book, Redeeming Heartache - https://www.zondervan.com/p/redeeming-heartache/Find Jennifer Slattery at:JenniferSlatteryLivesoutLoudhttps://www.facebook.com/JenSlatteFind Wholly Loved Ministries at:https://www.WhollyLoved.comGroup Discussion Questions:1. What resonated with you most in today's episode?2. What type of thoughts or emotions arose when you heard Dr. Allender's definition of trauma?3. Consider Cathy Loerzel's discussion on the three common ways people deal with trauma (to fragment, numb, and isolate). When has this been true for you?4. What do you think it means, in terms of unpacking past wounding, to show oneself kindness?5. Why might it be important for us to acknowledge the brokenness of our world (that our world is not as God intended)? 6. How can acknowledging the world's brokenness help us process past hurts?7. What thoughts or emotions arose when Dr. Allender spoke of false Edens? 8. What are some false Edens people might create?9. What are some false Edens you have created?10. What is one action step God might want you to take based on what you heard in today's episode?

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Oof. This week has been a doozy around the Mills family home. We lost our beloved Bear, a big mini Aussie, who saw us through so much life and heartache (you have probably even heard him on the podcast barking a time or two, saving us from mailmen). Bear had surgery after an obstruction from eating underwear (yep, anyone else have a dog who does this?) and could not recover. It was excruciating to witness Bear's suffering post op and eventually his death. Mornings have been hard and teary as my sidekick is gone. Our little Bruce (1 year) is left behind and has struggled to eat and find his own way without his big bother to lead.Everyone of us would say we have survived some sort of heartache, but how many of us are bold enough to name it trauma? I get it. The word “trauma” has become trivialized in some ways. We know more about it today, there's more education than ever before on the topic of trauma and often when this happens we become desensitized to it. The truth is, there are all sorts of traumas, little “t” traumas (microagressions, moments of fear and panic, stitches in the knee) and big “T” traumas (fires, death, divorce, natural disasters, physcial, sexual, emotional, spiritual abuse). Funny thing is, sometimes our body doesn't always know the difference if we've not acknowledged our heartache. This week, Cathy Loerzel of the Allender Center, guides us through the topic of her new book with Dr. Dan Allender, Redeeming Heartache, how past suffering reveals your true calling.This book explores the archetypes of Orphan, Stranger and Widow and their transformed roles of Priest, Prophet, and King/Queen. Brett and I have gone through this book with our small group and it's been a beautiful journey of sharing stories, insight, and witnessing one another's pain but also potential. For me, the journey of grieving my own myriad of unique traumas has provided a more integrated connection to my work at Jesus Said Love and Lovely - it's also exposed my failures and shortcomings. Cathy encourages us to look at our stories of heartache with faith, hope and love wrapped up in the kindness of God. Want to get a FREE copy of the book? Share this post on instagram, tag @jesussaidlove as well as another friend, and you'll be entered to win! Winners will be announced by Friday ¾ via instagram. All the LOVE!Emily and Brett

He's helped so many of us deal with the pain of our past, and learn to share our stories. He's helped leaders grow, marriages heal and weary people learn to rest. And he's helped us see how the gospel is woven into our stories.  Dr. Dan Allender is one of those important, special voices in the world. His work as a therapist and teacher has transformed the lives of so many, and his books have been foundational in the healing and recovery journey of those touched by trauma.  Dan is the co-founder of The Seattle School of Theology/Psychology and The Allender Center.  If you've carried wounds from your past around with you and wondered what God could be up to, join me for a precious conversation with this gentle, wise, compassionate counselor. 04:23 Navigating global COVID trauma 11:37 What IS trauma? 15:38 The importance of validating our wounds24:51 Finding God in our trauma27:17 Finding our calling in God38:05 Kindness or niceness?43:55 How do we participate in redemption?

Many of us live in these “false Edens,” a space of being blissfully unaware that there is pain, heartache, and trauma which we must confront. When we consciously choose to engage our own stories and deconstruct these “false Edens” in which we're living, we can move more freely into our calling to find true redemption on the other side.Who better than to discuss this with us than this week's podcast guest, Cary Umhau? Author, speaker, activist, and advocate for those facing homelessness and hunger, Cary knows what it is to step out of the constructs of her life into living what she calls a “spacious life.”  Listen as Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel, co-authors of “Redeeming Heartache,” speak with Cary Umhau, author of “Burning Down the Fireproof Hotel” and find parallels between their work and their stories.

Does past heartache seem to dictate your present life? This week, Steve and the gang sit down with authors Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel to discuss a new path toward healing. The post Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel | Redeeming Heartache | Steve Brown, Etc. (Re-air) appeared first on Key Life.

“Part of what it means to be human is to suffer, but there's a way to move through it that brings joy and goodness to both you and the world around you.” Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel. We all endure trauma—either Big T or Little T. We all seek healing. Yet all too often, the defense mechanisms we constructed to survive trauma, now keep us constrained. Join us to consider: Who we are meant to become in the midst of our heartaches. That we've all been orphaned, estranged, and widowed due to trauma and loss. How we can bring goodness and joy to others as we move through pain. According to Dan, “Every one of us suffers, yet our suffering is never meant to be only ours—we're meant to not only join our own transformation, but also in the privilege of being able to join in others' transformations.” If you're hurting, you'll feel a balm of empathy in Dan and Cathy's words. Please join us for a tender, loving, healing conversation. Allender Center Website: https://theallendercenter.org/ Instagram: @allendercenter Dr. Karin Website: http://loveandlifemedia.com/ Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBook Instagram: @dr.karin Single is the New Black - Audiobook Audible: smarturl.it/SITNB-Audible iTunes: smarturl.it/SITNB-iTunes --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/love-and-life-media/support

Heartache is a part of life and so is trauma but it doesn't have to consume us. There is hope and a way to come out on the other side to live a life of joy! Our guests are psychologist Dr. Dan Allender and counselor and teacher Cathy Loerzel of The Allender Center at the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology https://theallendercenter.org/, who join us to talk about their incredible new book Redeeming Heartache. They offer tools to put the pain of the past behind us by facing what troubles us.

If you want to learn what redeeming heartache looks like, this book provides profound lessons. Learn more in this episode of Heart in a Drawer, the podcast for adult children of divorce. Listen on Apple Podcasts Amazon Music and Audible Spotify Google Podcasts Watch on YouTube Redeeming Heartache   Get your copy from Amazon or CBD. 1:00 Learn how ... Read more The post Redeeming Heartache appeared first on Sarah Geringer.

Learn more about Cathy Loerzel: Bio: https://theallendercenter.org/about/team/cathy-loerzel/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cathy.loerzel/Allender Center Story Workshop: https://theallendercenter.org/offerings/workshops/the-story-workshop/Redeeming Heartache book by Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel: https://www.amazon.com/Redeeming-Heartache-Suffering-Reveals-Calling/dp/0310362016Jane Boutwell is an artist & creative coach based in Atlanta, Georgia. She also founded & operates the Growing Creative Fellowship, a monthly membership that nurtures and empowers you to pursue your creative calling through inspiration and life-giving habits + mindset.For information on the Growing Creative Fellowship, please visit: https://www.janeboutwellstudio.com/the-fellowship Check out our free Sketchbooking Guide at: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5f7b3597322e6ae12d5c774e Join our email list! To sign up for the Jane Boutwell Studio Newsletter, go to: https://www.janeboutwellstudio.com/contact You can see more of Jane's work at: www.janeboutwellstudio.com Follow @janeboutwellstudio for behind-the-scenes looks into the inner workings of the Jane Boutwell Studio, Growing Creative Fellowship, & the Growing Creative Podcast.

“You have to go back before moving forward. Do you know how much trauma you have been through in your life?” Tune in to today's episode “Redeeming Heartache” with Dan Allender. Dr. Dan Allender is an author, a counselor and a pioneer of a unique and innovative approach to trauma and abuse therapy. For over 30 years, the Allender Theory has brought healing and transformation to hundreds of thousands of lives by bridging the story of the gospel and the stories of trauma and abuse that mark so many. In this episode we discuss: Trauma and the effect on the brain Trauma looks differently that we may think Trauma resides and dwells in the body How to re-engage the trauma to begin the restorative process of wholeness LINKS: www.theallendercenter.org Redeeming Heartache: https://www.amazon.com/Redeeming-Heartache-Suffering-Reveals-Calling/dp/0310362016/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=34EIC92JEBICQ&dchild=1&keywords=redeeming+heartache+dan+allender&qid=1635440249&sprefix=redeeming+he%2Caps%2C119&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzUFlJQlI1MEFYSlcxJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNDE2MDU0M1FEQjdXRjQzVkRFNSZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNTY2Mjk5MkM1TzUyMk1MSTI5OCZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU= Streams of Wholeness: www.streamsofwholeness.com Josh Hawk: www.joshhawk.com Road to Wholeness TV Show: www.awkngtv.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This is another episode we would pay you to listen to if we could.  Do you approach your friendships, your work, or the pain in your life more as the orphan, the stranger, or the widow?  Don't know what that means? We didn't either until we read “Redeeming Heartache” and then talked with the brilliant psychologist, Dr. Dan Allender, and to our new wise friend, author and therapist Cathy Loerzel. Dan and Cathy helped us understand each of these approaches to the world, and invited us to live redeemed as a priest, prophet, or king and queen.   Together we explore: What if I don't think I've ever had trauma? Do I still need to do heart work? Why do I need to look back at my past? My present is hard enough. Why do I act this way in challenging situations? Join us? | Highlights | “To be able to rest and receive delight and have gratitude, you need to be able to be open to what other people can offer you.... So if you're never in that place of being able to receive that with an open, trusting heart, then you're always…coiled up and ready for the place that you're gonna be harmed next. So it keeps you from being able to receive surprise and delight and play because you're always, always, always looking around the corner.” -Cathy Loerzel “The reality is we all bear some of the effects of the Fall, and that's what we're calling trauma.” -Dan Allender “You can't heal the present without going back to the past.” --Cathy Loerzel | Do the Next Thing | Want more of these two? Go read their book, Redeeming Heartache! https://www.amazon.com/Redeeming-Heartache-Suffering-Reveals-Calling/dp/0310362016 Check out the Allender Center, which both Dan and Cathy are a part of founding and leading! https://theallendercenter.org Dan is a veteran on the podcast! Here's our first episode with him. https://lauriekrieg.com/podcast/sexuality-and-shame-with-dan-allender/ Looking for a fresh way to read Scripture? The CSB translation is a sponsor of the HIMH podcast! Learn more about our new favorite Bible at csbible.com.  Want something deeper than just the podcast? Join our Facebook group and discuss with us! https://www.facebook.com/groups/434827357279517 Watch this conversation! (COMING SOON)

This week, Karrie and Shara share some of their typical signs and behaviors that rise to the surface when they are feeling overwhelmed and how, during these times, we can meet ourselves with kindness by practicing the three things that Jesus did; pause, presence and pivot. Things referenced in this episode: Redeeming Heartache by Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel: https://www.amazon.com/Redeeming-Heartache-Suffering-Reveals-Calling/dp/0310362016 Buy tickets to the Own the Light Tour: ownthelighttour.com Attend Karrie's Freedom Academy: karriegarcia.com/freedomacademy

Does past heartache seem to dictate your present life? This week, Steve and the gang sit down with authors Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel to discuss a new path toward healing. The post Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel | Redeeming Heartache | Steve Brown, Etc. appeared first on Key Life.

This week, Karrie talks with renowned Psychologist, Dr. Dan Allender, and trauma expert, Cathy Loerzel, MA about their new co-authored book, Redeeming Heartache. This book will help you recognize what trauma has formed your strengths, heal from trauma you have forgotten, and identify how your stories of suffering have set the trajectory of your calling. Throughout the book, Dan and Cathy walk you through the six types of harm and how they play out in your life and affect you and your relationships. This is an incredible book that takes you past heartache and allows you to see the goodness that can come from it! --- Buy the book today! https://www.amazon.com/Redeeming-Heartache-Suffering-Reveals-Calling/dp/0310362016 Dan Allender Socials: https://www.facebook.com/danbeckyallender https://www.instagram.com/danballender/ Cathy Loerzel Socials: https://www.facebook.com/cathy.loerzel https://www.instagram.com/cathy.loerzel/ Attend an Allender Story Workshop: https://theallendercenter.org/offerings/workshops/the-story-workshop/

In this episode, Caleb talks with Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel about their book, Redeeming Heartache.Links MentionedThe Allender CenterRedeeming Heartache by Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel

Many of us have been told, "Don't dwell in the past." But the truth about trauma is that if we don't acknowledge, name, and honor our past pain, it will negatively impact our emotional, mental, and even physical health.  On today's episode of the Living Centered Podcast, Lindsey and Mickenzie sat down with Dr. Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel, MA, co-founders of the Allender Center in Seattle, to discuss their new book Redeeming Heartache and the power of engaging and examining the painful parts of our stories to find healing and redemption 

Cathy Loerzel and Dan Allender join me today to talk about their newly published book Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling. Cathy and Dan reflect on what redemption actually means in the context of our stories, why they believe redemption is possible, and how our experiences of being an orphan, a stranger, and a widow can shape our sense of personal calling. If you want to engage your story in more depth, consider signing up for The Story Workshop which will be held virtually from October 14-17. You can sign up by going to theallendercenter.org and if you use promo code HOPE21, the $50 application fee will be waived.

What goes into the creation of a book? In this special episode, we take a deep dive into the making of Dr. Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel's new release, Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals True Calling. Special guest host Dr. J. Derek McNeil, President & Provost of The Seattle School, Dan, and Cathy discuss how the idea for the book came to be, the process and challenges of writing a book together, particularly in the midst of COVID, and the prophetic nature of the content. As they close the conversation, Derek poses a poignant question to Dan and Cathy—and to us all: What does it mean to celebrate our own stories?

We will learn: How to become more self aware of the past trauma or pain that is influencing your present How to identify the lies we tell ourselves so we can heal How to move through and release big emotions Have you ever found yourself asking, “Why did this happen to me?” When we listen to guests of this show, authors of bestselling books, or public speakers, one thing is clear: they have figured out that “why”. It seems so clear when they tell their stories. They usually seem to come full circle with the purpose or moral wrapped in a bow ready to be gifted to the world. Here's what I've learned though: it's very rare to find the meaning behind your own experiences if you don't actively look for it. You have to do the work.  So how do we navigate the emotions that we have over everything that's happened to us, to find real meaning? How do we begin to release our pain to build strength? That's what we're talking about today. Our guests today are Dr. Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel.  Dr. Dan is a professor of counseling psychology at The Seattle School and founder of The Allender Center. Cathy Loerzel, MA, is a speaker, instructor, as well as cofounder and executive vice president of The Allender Center. Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/198 Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes from your highest self.  Get Mind Love Premium for exclusive ad-free episodes and monthly meditations.  Support Mind Love Sponsors See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.