LEAGUE OF ADVENTUROUS SINGLES WITH KIRA SABIN

Welcome back, Thrive fam! I'm back with a laugh-out-loud, no-BS episode about why midlife women are just too damn old for over-giving, over-thinking, and pretending everything's “fine.” If you're ready to ditch people-pleasing and finally build self-worth, this episode is your must-listen. In This Episode: Where the heck have I been? (Spoiler: Thrive Midlife Group wins, real-life curveballs, and yes, Danny's hip replacement) How Gen X women were conditioned to over-give (and why it's time to stop) The real science behind self-worth, resilience, and building a midlife that actually feels good RomCom Rescue updates and the secret sauce behind relationship growth What to expect from the new Thrive Midlife Program & coaching options for women over 40 Why you're not broken—you're just way too old for this sht* Take Action: Ready for a little midlife magic? 

TWO SPOTS LEFT for THRIVE Midlife Program!   My brand new positive psychology program with optional retreats for women over 40 to learn the knowledge, skills, and mindsets to Stop Overthinking, Realize Your Worth, & Have the BEST YEAR OF YOUR LIFE! ✨ Ditch the stuff that's making you feel stuck. ✨ Discover what lights you up (and keeps you glowing). ✨ Build tools to deal with life's chaos without burning out. No more rinse-and-repeat. Let's get you back to feeling alive, vibrant, and (dare I say it?) excited about life again. Grab your spot & check out all the information here   Hidden Brain Episode I reference

Not all advice is created equal. Some of it is gold, but a lot of it? Straight-up garbage. This episode is about shaking off the bad advice that keeps us stuck and stepping into 2025 ready to own it. If you're tired of the same old stuck, it's time to shake things up. Your next chapter isn't going to write itself—so let's make it the best one yet. Ready to Make 2025 the best year of Your Life?  Check out Thrive!  

After a good convo on my Rom-Com Rescue podcast where we talked about 2006 Classic rom-com, The Holiday, it made me think about crushes and unrequited love. My own experience and what I have learned (good and not-so-good) about crushes over the years. I share some personal stories and try to answer the question, if crushes and unrequited love feels so bad, why do we keep having them? Don't forget there is a new Essentials Version of Thrive out that is on sale through 11/24/24.  New prices start at $499 a month.  Check it out at ThriveMidlifeProgram.com

Well, it's been a week. This week on the podcast I talk about... How the election results have had me reeling. The stages I went through the last week. What is the most important thigns we can do right now.   There is a new Essentials Version of Thrive out today that is on sale through the weekend.  New prices start at $499 a month.  Check it out at ThriveMidlifeProgram.com  

I think one of the roughest parts of being in midlife is realizing that most of the things you were taught about being a girl/woman growing were complete and total BS. I feel like I have been spending YEARS gut-checking my beliefs and realizing a bunch of the ideas I was sold were based in old school misogyny and were keeping me in a fear/scarcity place. Today I go through 10 Beliefs I was raised with that were complete BS! Maybe you learned them too. If you are ready to examine your beliefs and let go of them, join me in THRIVE!   My intimate, 9-month group coaching intensive for midlife women to reset your life, let go of what's not working, realize your self-worth, and build the life that you actually want for this next chapter.

To watch all the videos, and join me on the Joy Journey, visit me on the Joy Journey Substack  Welcome to my Joy Journey. A 30 day journey to find more mini moments on joy in my life and encourage others to do the same. After a break for the flu, I'm on day 10 of my Joy Journey and I talk about something that I have noticed coming up...the curse of overthinking. Today I breakdown: a great quote on overthinking that inspired this episode what overthinking is and why we do it the three types of overthinking and how to spot them in yourself. spotting overthinking in a baking show where to go from here. Article I reference today. And just a reminder,  this is the work I do in THRIVE, my 9 month happiness program for women in midlife, and it's why I have had thousands of clients who have learned how to stop overthinking, build more self-worth, create unshakeable relationships, and walk through this world lighter and happier. Spots available at ThrivewithKira.com  

To watch all the videos, and join me on the Joy Journey, visit me on the Joy Journey Substack  Welcome to my Joy Journey. A 30 day journey to find more mini moments on joy in my life and encourage others to do the same. I'm on day 8 of my Joy Journey. I check in on how it's going and some of the surprises so far. But more importantly, today I breakdown the difference between the fixed vs growth mindset and why it matters.  I share: what a mindset is how you got your mindset the difference between the growth and fixed mindset how the fixed mindset stole joy from my life small ways you can start change your mindset And just a reminder,  this is the work I do in THRIVE, my 9 month happiness program for women in midlife, and it's why I have had thousands of clients who have learned how to stop overthinking, build more self-worth, create unshakeable relationships, and walk through this world lighter and happier. Spots available at ThrivewithKira.com  

Join me on the Joy Journey at my Joy Journey Substack. Watch the video version here. Here is the truth. Things have gotten really rough for me. Between midlife/aging perimenopause, and just THE

I'm talking about one of my favorite topics today that personally kicked off my self-help journey.  Love vs Fear. Today is a bit fancy because I break the episode down to 3 parts. The basics behind the concept and the quote that changed my life. A personal story of how I have made decisions out of fear but thought it was love. Four places to spot fear in your life showing up. And a boatload more of sweary genius. Grab sessions for 50% off through 8/7/24.  $99 for 30 minutes and $199 for 60 minutes.  Grab one (or a few) here. Reference Articles Four types of Fear article

You know all those things you were taught were going to make you happy?   Perfect job, relationship, house, body, etc...that once you had them, you were THEN going to be happy? Turns out, all BS. Today on the pod I go to my Happiness Basics and talk about the super interesting theory called the happiness set point.  I talk about: What it is and why it matters Why all the things you are doing ARE NOT going to raise your happiness set point What actually does. Where to get started. Have you checked out THRIVE?  A brand new positive psychology program w/retreats for women over 40 to learn the knowledge, skills, and mindsets to thrive in midlife. Unlearn the beliefs that don't work anymore, get more joy on a daily basis, regulate your emotions, build deep self-worth, and learn how to feed & move the body you have NOW.  Check out all the information here Article referenced

BIG NEWS! The THRIVE in midlife program has moved to January!  Check out all the new details here. Second big news...I have a guest! Author, Happiness Expert and Good Friend, Rob Mack joined me on and we are talking about why our society is so unhappy now.  It goes deep, but it is GOOD!  

Ready to jump on a no-pressure call with me to check out Thrive? My new happiness program for women in midlife. Grab a call here. PERIMENOPAUSE!!! I mean, what is this fresh hell that is perimenopause?  I didn't even know it was a thing until I was smack dab feeling the bullshit symptoms of it. AND IT CAN LAST UP TO 12 YEARS! So, I decided to kick off a whole mini series in our midlife conversations episodes to talk about the mindfuck that is perimenopause & to see if some of the weird shit that you are experiencing is actually tied to hormone changes and perimenopause.   Today I talk about: *My own story with perimenopause...this far. *Facts and stats about perimenopause that may surprise you. *My addition of thorough hormone testing & reading that is completely included in the THRIVE program so we can start getting answers and support. Ready to check out THRIVE?  Go here. Resource Articles for this episode Article 1 Article 2 Article 3 Article 4

Have you checked out Thrive yet? Apply now.   This is a part 2.  Listen to part 1 first to get the most of this episode.   Everybody has stress. It's part of the human experience.  But sometimes, that stress seems to NEVER go away and we become chronically stressed or go into "survival mode".  Which can bring on a bunch of bullshit that can affect our lives, jobs, relationships, friendships, and even health.     Worst part? It makes midlife just that much harder...and midlife is already rough.   BUT! You can get out of it!   Today on the episode I talk about: Questions to ask yourself to confirm if you are in survival mode. What to start doing to get OUT of survival mode. A bunch of sweary geniusy things.  

"Trauma makes assholes out of all of us." - Dr. Stephanie Attwater   Everybody has stress. It's part of the human experience.  But sometimes, that stress seems to NEVER go away and we become chronically stressed or go into "survival mode".  Which can bring on a bunch of bullshit that can affect our lives, jobs, relationships, friendships, and even health.     Worst part? It makes midlife just that much harder...and midlife is already rough.   BUT! You can get out of it!   Today on the episode I talk about: What is survival mode & where it comes from. The 9 signs you might be living in survival mode and what to look for The effects on your life from survival mode. I'll be back with part 2 in a couple of days.   From this episode:   Comic by Nick Seluk of The Awkward Yeti     Resource articles:   Article 1   Article 2   Article 3

Cause you and I both know it is rough. I know not everyone learns best from reading. I don't.  So I did a short podcast to tell you all about my brand new program called Thrive that I launched on Friday. A brand new positive psychology program w/retreats for women over 40 to learn the knowledge, skills, and mindsets to thrive in midlife. Unlearn the beliefs that don't work anymore, get more joy on a daily basis, regulate your emotions, build deep self-worth, and learn how to feed & move the body you have NOW. Because midlife is fucking rough. If you prefer a video version or are ready to check out the program, head to ThrivewithKira.com

I'm back with part 2 with Can we actually change? New Thrive Program Maybe we are at midlife and not too proud of the person we have become, can we actually change it?  Can you teach an old dog new tricks?   Yup. If you know how to change and as it turns out...we never learned it!   In this 2 part episode about changing in midlife (when we are a bit grumpier and stuck in our ways) I'm going to breakdown why we DON'T change.    Today I talk about: The mindsets we need for change The different learning gaps that can get in the way. What are the real pieces we need in place for change. How I can help you get there Listen up.  It's a good convo.    

Maybe we are at midlife and not too proud of the person we have become, can we actually change it?  Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Yup. If you know how to change and as it turns out...we never learned it! In this 2 part episode about changing in midlife (when we are a bit grumpier and stuck in our ways) I'm going to breakdown why we DON'T change.  I talk about: My own personal story of how I grew up naive and how I created deep change in my adulthood that I am proud of. The six reasons we don't change and heads up, it has nothing to do with willpower or you being a bad person. Listen up.  It's a good convo.  

I think the toughest thing about midlife is that at one point we are forced to look at where we are at, what we have created, and think...is this it? Is this life? Is this all there fucking is? Part 2 of my midlife conversation digs into when we wake up and realize we aren't happy: What we can focus on that isn't helpful in our lives How our "strong work ethic" can become a word or success addiction Really smart facts that you probably didn't know about thriving in life. Listen up! Articles referenced: Being Special vs Happy If everything is about Work then what is Life?  

I'm doing a new series over the next few days because I want to talk the absolute mindfuck that is midlife.  Today I talk about: The generational trauma that most of us over 40 are now dealing with with personal examples and stories How it is showing up and effecting our lives, happiness, and relationships now and why it matters And a lot of other stuff.

We all know about red flags, but what about green flags?  What we should be looking for while dating.  That's what I'm sharing today! SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

But it's not NOT about the carriage scene.

Check out my  "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99! GO here. Today I talking about the social media conversation around "would you rather be stranded in a forest with a man or a bear?" and what that means for dating. Date Rape Stats Resources End the Backlog site. Tiktoker I reference.  SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

Dating for potential can mean looking for someone who could potentially be a good match, but not yet is. The goal of dating is to identify potential, explore it, and confirm it.  It can lead to people choosing for incompatible relationships, ignoring red flags, and giving too much time to someone who isn't right for them. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing it!  This week, I'm talking about dating for potential.  Which is not only a sabotage but can really hurt you and your relationships. Join the Date Like You Mean It Workshop! SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

New podcast is up and it is so juicy with good info that this a two parter! If you missed part one go listen first. Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure you are not unconsciously sabotaging yourself and keeping you away from love. I even made you this PDF to download so you don't forget them! Download it here. Today I breakdown 6-10 and they are GOOD!   

New episode is up and it is so juicy with good info there is going to be a part 2 next week! Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure you are not unconsciously sabotaging yourself and keeping you away from love. Today I breakdown 1-5 and they are GOOD! Resources from the episode: Very Well Mind Article on Self-Sabotage Mind Body Green Article SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

This week I am sharing the intro episode of my brand new podcast Rom-com Rescue!  A smart & fun podcast from Couples Therapist, Dr. Isabelle Morley & myself  where we teach life lessons from your favorite rom-coms. We are kicking off the podcast with an intro episode to let you know who we are, our own personal love stories, & why we are doing this podcast. Check out the show, transcriptions, shownotes, resources, & more episodes at romcomrescue.com

Check out my NEW "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99! GO here. We are at the tenth (and final) episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown: Basic helpful mindsets when you are meeting new people My 3 tier approach to getting back out & meeting people easily & safely. My favorite ways for people to meet other singles right now. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

Check out my NEW "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99! GO here. We are at the tenth (and final) episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown: Why where is not the best question to ask & what is Real statistics on how singles are meeting currently  Things that may be holding you back that you might not be thinking about. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

Short answer: Probably  We are at the ninth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown: The former BS that I believed that kept me single and  The problem with crushes in dating My wake-up call moment that switched my thinking Signs of Immaturity in Dating & Relationships SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

We are at the eighth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown:  Can Men and Women Be Friends?  Breaking Gender Stereotypes in Relationships Immature Views on Dating and Relationships Unrealistic Relationship Expectations Challenging Traditional Views on Love The Battle to Educate on Love  SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

You guys...this one's a doozie. This week, I went down the rabbit hole and I watched/listened to ALL 50 Videos from Reesa M Teesa on TikTok called Who TF Did I Marry?  And woah...this one is a wild ride. I will be spoiling it all over the place, but today I talk about: *What this series is about and what happened *What we can learn from this story *How we can watch out for people who are manipulators and aren't really ready for a relationship *Three things we can do that to prevent something like this happening to us. Want to dig in deeper? Check out my new How to Spot People Who Are Not Ready for A Relationship Workshop A 2 hour DIY video workshop for $39. Get all of the info here. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod    

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the seventh episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I'm breaking down: What I see going on with dating and what we can do about it. Articles I referenced: Coming Soon

We are at the sixth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I'm breaking down: One of the most tedious & exhausting part of dating Why I created the Eight Questions Why they are so important  When & how to use them What to be looking for when asking these questions SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod

We are at the fifth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I'm breaking down: What I believed about love at first sight Myths about Love at First Sight My thoughts about twin flames & the Twin Flames UniverseDocumentary Truths about Love at First Sight Understanding the science behind attraction What's the most important takeaway Articles I referenced: coming momentarily... SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the fourth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I'm breaking down: What is chivalry & where did the idea come from? What is chivalry that we believe in nowadays & is it working for us? The different origins of many of modern chivalry beliefs What we make chivalry mean that can be unhelpful What Reinvented Chivalry looks like 12 Modern Chivalry Acts for all of us to think about Article I referenced: Tik Tok Video  Coverture Chivalry History This is Gendered Chivalry Definition Fashion History Roofied Stats SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdating

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the thirdepisode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective. Today I'm breaking down: *Pickiness vs Settling (and how I feel about that word.

You know I have thoughts... Join the Anxious Attachment Style Workshop Here. Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the first episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life!  

Sign-up for FREE Letting Go of 2023 & Setting Intentions for 2024 LIVE Workshop on 1/7 HERE! Join the Anxious Attachment Style Workshop Here. Wanna be my co-host in my upcoming new podcast? Apply here! Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the first episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective. Today I'm breaking down: *My own personal experiences of long distance relationships & why they did or didn't work for me.  *Reasons why we might be choosing long distance relationships that may not be as healthy as we think. *Things to watch out for, if you are having a long distance relationship to stay safe. And smart. *If you are in one or want to have one. How to set it up once again, for the best chance of success. Important TikTok referenced in the podcast. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life!

Listen up as I share my own story of fear, sabotage, family, death, & love.  Ready to get over your shit for love? ReinventingDating.com

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com You guys, I spent yesterday afternoon on Hinge & it was WILD! Listen to my talk about my time. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, come on a retreat, do an intensive, change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin  Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the final episode of Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating.  And we are finishing up with...is online dating actually safe? Today I'm breaking down: *How online dating is different now & why it makes it MORE unsafe than the past. *Ways that online dating ISN'T protecting us *What we need to watch out for *How to date safely, online & off. Articles referenced: Time Article Propublica Article 1 Propublica Article 2 Propublica Article 3 SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, come on a retreat, do an intensive, change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin  Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Get ready, today is a doozy! Today I'm going to breakdown everything you need to know about romance scams.  A romance scam is "when a con artist fakes romantic interest in someone, crafting a too-good-to-be-true persona to weasel their way into the victim's heart and steal their money, they're conducting a romance scam. And pretty much everyone is fair game for this long con."   Today I'm breaking down: *AI's new role in scamming  *Common Romance Scams to look out for *Signs you are being scammed *What to do IF you get scammed *Strategies & mindsets to prevent scamming   Articles referenced: Reader's Digest  AI Scam info SUSCRIBE & SHARE EVERYWHERE!

It's a bit hard to introduce a topic as wild and heavy as sociopathic behaviors and emotional manipulation… but here we are. Let's dive into it! Listen in to this episode of the RD Podcast as Kira talks about the new Netflix documentary, The Tinder Swindler, and five lessons we can take away from it.  Kira also breaks down the concepts of cognitive biases and emotional reasoning, shedding light on how these biases can show up in your life and impact your relationships. Plus, she highlights the interconnection between self-worth, emotional reasoning, and toxic relationships. From sociopathic behaviors to justifying getting on a plane with a stranger by embodying the phrase “you only live once” … we're covering almost all the red flags in the book! So buckle up! “Every day, throughout the day, we are talking to people, we are invested in people, we are surrounded by people, so let's have the best friendships and relationships possible to make that all feel good and worthwhile and not exhausting.” - Kira Did you love this? Subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! https://apple.co/3eFMCxS  Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Article Referenced: Psychology Today Like this? Take a workshop, come on a retreat, do an intensive, change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin  Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod    

BLACK FRIDAY SALE IS HAPPENING THROUGH MONDAY! CLICK HERE We are in the second episode of talking about the realities of online dating. Today I breakdown how & why rejection feels so much worse on dating apps.  I talk about: *What types of rejections happen in dating *What we CONFUSE with rejection *Why rejection hurts so much *Why I think rejection is WORSE on dating apps & why it matters *What skill to build to help you move past rejection in dating so you can get real love! Video Referenced: Little Girl & stool Books Referenced: Grit Article Referenced: Grit in Dating Like this? Take a workshop, come on a retreat, do an intensive, change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin  Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod Questions? Email the show at hey@reinventingdating.com

Today I breakdown the paradox of choice in online dating & apps. I talk about: *What milk options in a grocery store has to do with online dating. *Meet the Paradox of Choice, how it has changed modern dating, & why it matters. *how online dating has changed the way we date from earlier generations in more ways than you think. *the difference between maximizers vs satisfiers in dating & which you want to be for best success Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com Books Referenced: The Paradox of Choice Article Referenced: Stanford Daily Like this? Take a workshop, come on a retreat, do an intensive, change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: @kirasabin  Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: @reinventingdatingpod Questions? Email the show at hey@reinventingdating.com

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