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Every man is different, but deep down, we all want the same three core things. In this episode, I'm breaking down what those three things are and why they matter no matter your background, interests, or current situation. These are general truths about men, things we all want on some level, at some point in our lives. Let's get into it. Show Notes:  [01:17]#1 The physical capability of doing things that most other men cannot do.  [07:34]#2 We want to have things that other men cannot have.   [16:34]#3 Men want access to women. [25:43]Recap Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm talking to the entrepreneurs who want to grow beyond just “getting by.” If you want your business to be an entity that runs without you like Walmart, Apple, or Amazon you've got to get certain things locked in first. I'm sharing the three key elements every business needs in place before you even think about scaling. These are the foundations that keep a business running strong, no matter the industry or current size. Let's break it down so you can build something that lasts. Show Notes:   [02:23]#1 Communication.  [09:53]#2 Organization. [19:11]#3 Process. [26:40]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2995: How To "Scale-Up" Your Life 2088: Do Things That Don't Scale 1101: Codification Of Your Knowledge Next Steps:

I keep hearing people say “America is a country of immigrants.” I don't agree with that. We are a country of citizens. People come here because they want to become Americans, not just to visit. The whole “country of immigrants” thing is an emotional argument that leaves out the real point: the goal is citizenship. I made this episode to set the record straight. Show Notes:  [01:41]#1 We are a country of citizens.  [09:21]#2  People want to become Americans. They want to actually be a part of what we have going on here.  [14:37]#3 They are trying to make this argument about us being a country of immigrants as an emotionally swaying argument when it's a nonsense frame.  [18:30]Recap Next Steps:

This is part two of my message to the old heads specifically the men 35 and up. Stop trying to fit in with the younger generation. You ain't supposed to dress like them, talk like them, or follow their trends. Your job is to set the standard, not chase theirs. Be the example they want to live up to, not the peer they want to hang with. Age with pride and give the next generation something worth aiming at. Show Notes:  [00:49]#4 Stop trying to relate to your younger generations [10:09]#5 Be a standard bearer for the next generation.  [14:52]#6 Age gracefully. [20:22]Recap Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm talking directly to the old heads of men 35 and up, especially those of y'all who interact with younger dudes. I explain what “old head” means and where the term came from, at least from my experience growing up. If you're 40+, you definitely qualify. This is part one of a two-part message, so if that's you, tune in today and tomorrow. I got something real specific y'all need to hear. Show Notes:  [02:21]#1 Past stories are unwanted. [05:22]#2 Nobody wants to hear about your past, what you used to do, who you used to be, what you used to have going on. [15:48]#3 Keep doing things that matter.  [22:02]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3102: Give Advice ONLY If... Next Steps:

I'm talking about why you can't be dangerous if you're playing it safe. I got the idea from watching a clip from Breaking Bad where Walter White says, “I am the one who knocks.” In the show, Walter starts as a boring chemistry teacher but becomes one of the most dangerous men out there because he stops playing small. If you want to have real power and impact, you can't tiptoe through life; you have to be willing to step into the danger. Show Notes:  [04:30]#1 Danger is bold energy.  [15:31]#2 Danger means controlled, directed aggression. [19:59]#3 The dangerous person is the most powerful person in the room.   [27:44]#4 Danger creates freedom.  [35:45]Recap Power Presence Protocol

In this episode, I break down how clarity is not just a nice-to-have, it's a must-have if you want to make real money. When your thoughts, actions, and intentions are all aligned, you move faster and with more purpose. I've seen it with high school athletes and six-figure entrepreneurs alike. If you're unclear, you're stuck. Clarity answers the big questions before they even become problems, and that's what puts you in position to actually earn. Let's talk about how getting clear can start putting dollars in your pocket. Show Notes:  [02:21]#1 Confusion is costly. [09:19]#2 Clarity accelerates decision making.  [17:23]#3 Clarity is a confidence builder.  [21:43]Recap Power Presence Protocol

If you've ever found yourself giving away your expertise for free this episode is for you. I'm breaking down why you need to stop "helping" people without charging, especially if you're in a service-based or intellectual property business. A lot of us do it out of kindness or because we know the person could really benefit, but that's not a good enough reason to keep doing it. Whether it's a friend, family member, or someone who just “can't pay right now,” I'll tell you why that habit has to end today. So let's get into it. Show Notes:  [01:59]#1 People do not appreciate what they have not invested in.  [17:13]#2 You are devaluing your help and devaluing yourself when you give people help for free.  [28:07]#3 Professional level help demands professional level investments. [39:28]Recap Power Presence Protocol

This is part three of my series on High Income Skills vs High Income Systems. Today, I break down points 7 through 9. Skills take discipline, you've got to show up and keep doing the work. But systems? They take vision. A good system can make you money even when you're not working. Skills get clients; systems keep them. Skills give you an edge, but systems turn that edge into an asset that pays you whether you're active or not. So let's get into it. Show Notes:  [00:58]#7 Skills require discipline. Systems require vision.   [14:10]#8 Skills attract clients. Systems keep them around.  [21:49]#9 Skills create an edge and systems create assets.  [24:33]Recap Power Presence Protocol

This is part two of my three-part series on High Income Skills vs. High Income Systems.In this episode, I break down how skills are like the engine but systems are the whole vehicle. Skills will get you paid, but systems are what build real wealth and freedom. Most entrepreneurs stay stuck doing all the work because they never build systems and that's why they never level up. Show Notes:  [01:01]#4 Skills are the engine. Systems are the vehicle. [08:17]#5 Skills get you started and systems generate wealth. [20:19]#6 Skills feed you and systems free you.  [27:56]Recap Power Presence Protocol

In this episode, I break down the difference between high income skills and high income systems. A lot of people build their business off of personal skill—something they can do and sell—but that's just one level. This is part one of a three-part series where I'll explain how skills and systems each play a role in your success, whether you're a solopreneur, a seasoned entrepreneur, or somewhere in between. You'll start to see where you currently operate and how you can grow from one space to the next. So let's get into it. Show Notes:  [03:23]#1 A skill pays one execution at a time or every time that the skill is delivered. [14:06]#2 Skills create value, systems create scale.  [22:36]#3 Skills are for performance.  [30:25]Recap Power Presence Protocol

You've heard the phrase “operate like a CEO,” but what does that actually mean? In this episode, I break down the real mindset and actions behind CEO-level leadership. Whether you run a business or you're the only person in it, you are the CEO. And even if you work a job, you can still move like a CEO. Today I show you exactly how to make that shift, no fluff, just straight strategy. Let's talk about it. Show Notes:  [01:33]#1 Your presence sets the tone for the entire organization on a daily basis.  [06:58]#2 Operate from and maintain a vision of the future.  [15:18]#3 Your approach is a system, it's not a mood or a feeling. [18:15]Recap Power Presence Protocol

I talked about parenting out of fear in the very first episode of this podcast. Because my own fear is what led me down such a long hard path with my son, I wanted to make sure you were aware of the issues it causes. Now that I've been able to work for a couple of years on refining this message, I'm back to share again why we must not let our anxious thoughts derail our parenting.This issue comes up over and over in the Speaking of Teens Facebook group and in Parent Camp. Fear for our Teenager's future, about how they're messing up, and screwing up their life, etc. - it's something so many of us have dealt with at one time or another. And that fear causes us to feel like if we don't do something major or do something right this minute, we're going to lose our child, let them down, allow them to mess up everything and ruin their life.And guess what happens when you start thinking that way? You question, assume, lecture, snoop, track, yell, punish, and overreact. That behavior, in turn, builds an impenetrable wall between you and your teen and increases their negative behavior.In this episode, I'll help you figure out if you are parenting out of fear, explain how it impacts the relationship with your teen and their behavior. Most importantly, I'll explain how to turn things around if your fear has already caused a backlash with your teen.Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!I drop new episodes every Tuesday and Friday so please tap Follow on the main episode page, so they'll be ready for you in your app. You can reach out to me with ideas for the show or guest suggestions here. Thanks so much for listening!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen

A lot of smart people listen to this show and that includes you. But here's the thing I've noticed: smart people are often the slowest to take action. Today, I break down why intelligence doesn't always lead to execution and why overthinking, perfectionism, or too much analysis can actually keep you stuck. If you've ever wondered why you know so much but still don't move, this episode is for you. So let's get into it and solve that problem. Show Notes:  [02:30]#1 When you're smart, that means you know a lot of stuff. And knowledge sometimes disempowers you just as much as it empowers you.  [08:35]#2 The key to wisdom exists on a higher plane and knowledge is understanding and knowing which knowledge to use and which knowledge to ignore at certain times, in certain contexts and why you are doing so. [18:07]#3 You must be choosy with your intelligence and knowledge.  [23:54]Recap Power Presence Protocol

Today I'm breaking down why context is everything when it comes to communication. I've talked a lot about the importance of being able to communicate whether you're talking one-on-one, speaking to a group, or writing something down. But the key part most people miss is context. You can say the right thing, but if the timing, tone, or situation is off, it won't land. I explain exactly what context means, why it's just as important as the message itself, and how mastering it changes how people receive what you say. Show Notes:  [02:53]#1 The exact same material presented in a different context lands very differently with the exact same person or the exact same audience.  [10:43]#2 If your message is not landing and you are 100% sure that your message is good and useful, then the problem is not the material.  [15:48]#3 Context equals packaging.  [19:04]Recap Power Presence Protocol

In this episode, I talk about how all real success is earned in private before it ever gets seen or celebrated in public. A lot of the work that leads to big results happens behind the scenes, with no applause and no spotlight. I'm reminding you that no matter how much tech we get or how fast the world moves, the process of success never changes. You still gotta respect the grind. The shine only comes after the sweat. Show Notes:  [01:37]#1 If it's not yet working for you, that means it is currently working on you.  [07:48]#2 Despite all of our technological advances, there is still no shortcut to doing the fucking work.  [16:22]#3 You don't get to skip the seasons. [20:17]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2806: The Law Of Entropy 2769: Hard Work STILL Matters 2096: The 3 Seasons Of Your Work (And How To Manage Them) Power Presence Protocol

In this episode, I'm talking about the most common copes of mediocre people. I got the idea from a viral post showing a flashy Black rapper and a plain-dressed white entertainer sitting front row at a game. The post—and the reaction to it—revealed how folks justify mediocrity and avoid facing hard truths. Hopefully, none of these apply to you… but if they do, it's time to ask why. Let's break it down. Show Notes:  [01:44]#1 “Wealthy people don't display their wealth” cope. [09:06]#2 Physical- appearance cope. [17:50]#3 All people who have money are either dishonest, scamming, or you're doing some sort of grift.  [22:02]Recap Power Presence Protocol

In this episode, I'm talking about what it really means to master “the job”. Being a true professional isn't about what outsiders see or think they understand. It's about the stuff that happens behind the scenes, the deeper details that only people in the game really know. If you don't get a handle on those things, you won't last long in your profession. Today, I'm breaking down exactly what that mastery looks like.  Show Notes:  [01:24]#1 What's the job?  [11:27]#2 If you're going to be a professional, you better find out what the job is in any industry before you get into it.  [19:15]#3 Pick an industry in which you are okay with the job and you are willing to do that job on a consistent basis throughout the length of what you expect to be your career. [22:25]Recap Next Steps: 1663: Your Favorite Flavor Of "Shit Sandwich" Power Presence Protocol

Today I'm breaking down why a lot of podcasts out there are just plain trash. I've been a guest on over 500 shows, I check out what people are doing, and I've seen a lot of garbage. These shows aren't bad by accident; they're missing key stuff. If you're listening to a trashy show, or you're thinking about starting one, I'll help you understand what's wrong and how to fix it. And no, my show ain't trash. I've been doing this every day since 2016, and I got the track record to prove it. Show Notes:  [04:06]]#1 There is no thought or structure behind it.  [08:55]#2 There are no takeaways of substance or any post show use for visitors.  [16:18]#3 There's no real work behind what they are doing.  [20:48]Recap Next Steps: Power Presence Protocol

Today I'm talking about the easiest and hardest situations to win in. Life is a performance-based game, and as professionals, we're expected to show up and get the job done. But not every situation gives us the same odds of success. In this episode, I break it down into three main types of situations: some set you up to win easily, while others make it a lot harder. Once you understand how to spot them, you can adjust your approach and boost your chances of winning. Show Notes:  [01:20]#1 The impossible one is when you have no game, you can't win. [09:37]#2 Easiest way to win is when you're really good, but nobody knows who you are because there are no expectations.    [22:37]#3 The hardest way is when you're really good and everyone not only knows you, but they expect you to win.  [28:02]Recap Next Steps: Power Presence Protocol

When someone hurts your child, physically or emotionally, no matter if they're 10 or 25, you want it to stop immediately. And bullying is one of those things you may not even be aware of.  You won't see it and you won't likely even know about it unless your teen or tween tells you.In this episode, I'll tell you what to watch out for, how to talk to your teen about their bullying problem and give you step by step instructions for dealing with the issue.Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!I drop new episodes every Tuesday and Friday so please tap Follow on the main episode page, so they'll be ready for you in your app. You can reach out to me with ideas for the show or guest suggestions here. Thanks so much for listening!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen

Today's topic is how to avoid ever getting hit with a sexual assault allegation. I'm placing a futures bet right now that it'll never happen to me and in this episode, I break down how you can make sure it never happens to you either. Most of the time, it's men with status whether that's in a company, an industry, or the whole world who end up with these accusations. If you're a man with power, money, or attention, even on a small scale, this episode is for you. I'm giving you the real game on how to protect yourself before anything even has a chance to happen.  Show Notes:  [03:00]#1 Show me the Carfax.  [08:42]#2 Land the plane safely.  [17:44]#3 Careful mixing sex with power. [27:00]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3338: Things The Disciplined Man Does 3324: The Male Lack of Discipline Epidemic Next Steps:

Today's question is simple but real: would you follow you? If you're trying to be a leader, this is something you've got to ask yourself. Based on how you show up, the energy you bring, and how you carry yourself are you someone you would trust to lead? In this episode, I give you some key questions to help you figure that out. Because if the answer isn't a clear “hell yes,” then you've got some work to do. Show Notes:  [01:40]#1 Do you trust that having you as a leader would lead to success?  [07:45]#2 Can other people rest assured that because you are the leader, you will solve all the problems and fill all the gaps. [15:44]#3 Are you willing to assume leadership in a situation that does not have clear solutions or easy answers yet it has a ton of problems? [22:48]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 1217: My Virtual Mentors, Vol 5: Michael Jordan Next Steps:

Sometimes, you look around and nobody has any energy; nobody feels like showing up, practicing, or performing. I saw this a lot back when I played sports, and as the leader, I had to be the one to bring the energy anyway. In this episode, I talk about how to get yourself ready, mentally and physically, to show up strong even when nobody else does. Because no matter what team you're on, the group moves as the leader moves and that leader is you. Show Notes:  [02:18]#1 Power in leadership is ownership, responsibility, and accountability.  [17:16]#2 The essence of competition is you have to beat who's in front of you.  [21:41]#3 You are the support system for everybody else. [28:58]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3310: "Blame" Is Not In Your Repertoire Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about how to make strong first impressions. You've heard the saying—“you never get a second chance to make a first impression”—and it's true. Most people will lock in that first image of you, and no matter what happens after, that's how they'll keep seeing you. Even if the first thing they saw was fake, they'll still treat it like it's real. So in this episode, I'm breaking down how to take control of that moment and make sure the first impression you give is the one you actually want people to remember. Show Notes:  [02:25]#1 How you walk in is also how you walk through and is also how you will walk out.  [08:46]#2 Ask yourself better questions. [15:32]#3 Always be ON.  [22:13]Recap Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about one of the worst habits people have—saying “I'm thinking about it.” Most of the time, we're not actually thinking. We're just stalling and making excuses for not taking action. The truth is, you don't have time to waste like that. Every day you're getting older, and you don't get those days back. In this episode, I'm giving you the fix so you can stop hiding behind that phrase and start doing what you said you would. Show Notes:  [02:22]#1 Put a limit on your thinking time. [07:21]#2 Say No and Move On [15:34]#3 Adding time to situations is akin to committing suicide because you only have a certain amount of life remaining.  [19:27]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 196: Hell Yeah!!! Or No Next Steps:

Today's episode is about who's really in charge - you or your feelings. Your mind is the one that makes the deals, not your body. Your flesh doesn't get a vote. I'm breaking down how discipline, determination, willpower, and clear decision-making drive everything. If you want to start following through, it starts with giving your mind direct, absolute orders and cutting out the maybes. Show Notes:  [02:52]#1 Your mind makes the decision, your body doesn't get a vote. [02:46]#2 Your mind and body are not equal partners.  [17:45]#3 Talk to anybody who works in training or coaching.  [24:21]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2449: "Group Decision" Is An Oxymoron 2349: You Need ABSOLUTES – Not Maybes Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about why “educated” people—yes, they can be annoying. I got this idea from X (formerly Twitter), where folks love acting like they're smarter than everybody just because they went to certain schools. I break down this false frame people use to act morally superior, especially around politics and topics like Trump. This ain't really about Trump though it's about how fake intelligence gets weaponized online. You'll want to hear how I unpack all this. Show Notes:  [03:01]#1 I qualify as an educated person. I am educated.  [14:01]#2 Build a resume of achievement, not a resume of consumption.  [23:26]#3 Wake up and look around.  [25:38]Recap Next Steps:

Your teen's autonomy, the level to which they are allowed to make their own decisions, their ability to handle mistakes and the natural consequences from those mistakes - all of this has a huge impact on their later independence, and ability to cope as an emerging adult.Today I'm going to talk to you about how, despite your best intentions to protect your child from all the bad stuff, keep them out of trouble, make sure they're successful, that they make good choices, that they don't fall flat on their face, you could be doing just the opposite and making them more dependent on you and less able to handle life as young adult.Show Notes for other resources and sourcesTranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!I drop new episodes every Tuesday and Friday so please tap Follow on the main episode page, so they'll be ready for you in your app.You can reach out to me with ideas for the show or guest suggestions here. Thanks so much for listening!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen

Ever wonder why some fundraisers get people opening their wallets and others fall flat? Discover the secrets pro auctioneers use to turn ordinary events into donation powerhouses on this episode of Hey Nonprofits. Join host Trevor Nelson as he sits down with top auctioneer Brett Higgins to get real-world fundraising strategies you can use today. Learn expert advice on engaging donors, setting the right fundraising goals, getting your board involved, and using auction psychology to boost giving. Find out how to plan events people love, handle tough times, and use every channel to raise more for your cause. Perfect for nonprofit leaders, volunteers, or anyone ready to grow their impact.

Today I'm talking about why violence is actually a great thing. Yeah, I said it violence is useful, necessary, and in many cases, the right response. You hear people, especially those with a lot of feminine energy saying stuff like “violence is never okay,” and that's just nonsense. In this episode, I break it down logically and rationally so you can understand exactly why that mindset is wrong. By the end of this, you'll see why violence has its place and why you should stop feeling bad about acknowledging that truth. Show Notes:   [01:36]#1 Violence is the bottom line of all human communication. [14:43]#2 Violence keeps everybody in line.  [22:50]#3 No one has a problem with violence when it's used for your protection or if you see a justified reason for using it.  [25:49]Recap Next Steps:

Today I'm asking you what would your clone do? Remember those old “WWJD” bracelets that said, “What would Jesus do?” Well today, I'm flipping it: what would your clone do if it was here to handle all the stuff you're not doing? Imagine a version of you that doesn't get tired, doesn't make excuses, and just gets things done exactly how and when you tell it to. That's what this episode is about what your life would look like if you actually did everything you know you're supposed to be doing. I'm painting that picture for you today. Show Notes:  [02:32]#1 Imagine that you clone yourself and you could boss that clone around on what to do.  [09:54]#2 What excuses or weaknesses would you not tolerate from your clone that you are tolerating from yourself?  [13:16]#3 What mental head trash would you not accept as an explanation for something unstarted, unfinished, or done unsatisfactorily?  [19:45]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3260: Speed Of Outcome 2778: The 3 Levels of Speed / Fast 2744: Speed-Increasing Habits [Part 2 of 2] 2743: Speed-Increasing Habits [Part 1 of 2] 2683: There Are Only TWO Speeds 2542: How To Slow Down To Speed Up 2481: How To Execute With Speed Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about why white America doesn't hype up athletes and entertainers like Black America does. Yesterday, I talked about how Black men are often pushed toward just a few career paths, like sports or entertainment. Today, I'm flipping it and showing you how white America moves differently and why. Even though these athletes and entertainers are famous everywhere, they don't get held up the same way. I'm breaking it down so we can all understand the real reason behind that. Show Notes:  [01:35]#1 Standards.  [08:18]#2 The more widespread valuing of substances. [14:48]#3 Ownership is more highly valued than merely getting paid.  [22:17]Recap Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about the three types of black men that society accepts the most. A lot of us, especially in the Black community, grow up being pushed toward just a few career paths. We see them as our best or only options. I've lived it, and many of you have too. In this episode, I break down what those roles are, why they're so limited, and why outside forces keep pushing them on us but more importantly, why we keep going along with it. Let's talk about it.   Show Notes:  [01:32]#1 The athlete.  [13:03]#2 The entertainer.  [23:47]#3 The clown.  [30:11]Recap Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about how service businesses mess things up. I had a real situation with a guy who had a chance to do a job for me but he dropped the ball over and over again. I was ready to pay him, but he kept being slow, unclear, and unprofessional. If you run a service business, this is a warning. I'm breaking down exactly what he did wrong so you don't make the same mistakes and lose money like he did. Show Notes:  [07:31]#1 An artist is just your technical skill and if the business is not in order, you don't get as many opportunities to do the technical thing.  [11:16]#2 Being an entrepreneur is much more about marketing, management, operations, communications and systems.  [20:16]#3 Get with someone who understands the marketing, the systems, the processes, the strategies, the entrepreneurship.  [23:19]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3277: The 3 Tools Of Professional Service Entrepreneurship 1855: How To Give Amazing Customer Service 2013: The SAME Things, The SAME Way, EVERY Time Next Steps:

Today's topic is “That's Why We Play the Games.” This one's all about mindset. Just because things aren't looking great right now doesn't mean it's over. You might feel far from your goals, but that doesn't mean you'll never reach them. I got this phrase from an old ESPN analyst reminding us that no matter how things look on paper, you still gotta play it out. Show Notes:  [02:28]#1 You need to keep playing the games even when you're losing or in a winning situation. [08:41]#2 Any situation in which you are not given a chance, you are barely considered and, or you are not even looked at as a serious contender to succeed is a great opportunity for you.  [12:58]#3 You are not a champion in life, any aspect of life, until you're in a situation that looks like a sure defeat.  [19:22]Recap Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about whether a woman should be intimidating on purpose. Not just how people feel around her, but when a woman intentionally tries to come off that way. There's a big difference between someone being intimidating and someone trying to intimidate. I break down what the word really means and ask why would a woman want to cause fear or timidity in others, especially in men? This episode is about intention, not perception. Show Notes:  [03:01]#1 You should not be intimidating as a woman? The short answer to this question is, Hell no! [06:38]#2 While not intimidating, what a woman should aim to be is respected. [12:25]#3 Being feminine is not about being loud. [15:36]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3311: How To Be A "High Value Man" [Part 1 of 2] 3312: How To Be A "High Value Man" [Part 2 of 2] Next Steps:

Most of us sail on through life without ever stopping to examine our own thoughts, emotions and behavior...without doing some deep introspection to discover why we think and feel the way we do about things.But if you want to change, you want to bring more calm into your life, you have to truly know yourself. You need to know the why behind your behavior (which lies in your thoughts and emotions!)We're talking about emotional awareness and emotional regulation today - how you can acquire a bit for yourself!Show Notes for other resources and sourcesTranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!I drop new episodes every Tuesday and Friday so please tap Follow on the main episode page, so they'll be ready for you in your app.You can reach out to me with ideas for the show or guest suggestions here. Thanks so much for listening!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen

In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between a sexy woman and a sexual woman because no, they are not the same thing. A lot of women today are jumping into the marketplace thinking that showing more skin equals value, and I'm here to explain why that's not always the move. I also touch on how sex is being pushed in everyone's face these days, even when we're not looking for it. And fellas, I'm speaking from our perspective on what we actually see and think when it comes to how women present themselves. Show Notes:  [01:47]#1 Sexy is about presentation and what's on the surface.  [07:45]#2 Sexy energy is seeking approval as a form of validation.  [12:13]#3 Sexy is public and open to be seen by pretty much anyone.  [14:48]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3203: Why Instagram "Ass Models" Exist Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm talking to the ladies about how to move gracefully as a woman. This ain't a metaphor we're talking real, physical movement and presence, just like we did for the men in the masculine movement episode. A man's movement sends a message, and so does a woman's. So today, we're getting into how women can embody that same kind of grace and power in their own way. Let's talk about how you carry yourself and what it says without you even speaking. Show Notes:  [01:16]#1 Grace as Energy First, Movement Second [07:47]#2 Body Language Communication [12:25]#3 Small habits that separate women from girls.  [17:59]Recap Next Steps:

Today's topic is for the ladies, femininity is a skill. Just like I've held men accountable in past episodes, now I'm giving y'all the female version from a man's perspective. If you're a woman who wants to be led by a strong man, I'm telling you what that man is actually looking for. This ain't about bashing women, it's about giving real games. And fellas, don't skip this—because you need to know what to look for, too. Show Notes:  [03:29]#1 Femininity is not a natural trait or a talent.  [09:25]#2 Femininity is powerfully powerful.  [14:32]#3 Femininity is something that is claimed, that is not something that is performed. [18:04]Recap Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm breaking down the truth about dominance. It connects to what we talked about yesterday having power and influence over others and why not everybody actually wants that. I talk about how dominance works in sports versus how it works in business, and why trying to crush your opponent in business could backfire. Sometimes you need the people you're competing with to still function after the game is over. Let's get into how to be smart, not just hard. Show Notes:  [02:13]#1 Dominance is about control, not necessarily aggression. [10:24]#2 Dominance must be claimed or taken because it is never given. [15:53]#3 Dominance requires sustained performance.  [22:19]Recap Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm talking about why most people can't be trusted with power, not just power over others, but even power over their own lives. We all say we want control and influence, but the truth is, a lot of folks aren't ready for it. Being powerful requires responsibility, discipline, and the ability to manage yourself, and most people just don't have that. Today I'm breaking down why that is, and what it really takes to earn and handle power the right way. Show Notes:  [01:52]#1 Power is a magnifier.  [09:29]#2 One trade off of power is that for the price of having this influence, you are also responsible for the outcomes of those events even.  [20:03]#3 Power is not free.  [23:25]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2174: There Are No Perfect Scenarios – Only Trade-Offs Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm breaking down the hidden flex of being predictable. Back in my hoop days, I spent way more time practicing than playing, and while my drills were full of fancy moves, my game play was simple and repeatable and that's what worked. Some people said I was “predictable,” like that was a bad thing, but they were missing the point. Predictability, when it's backed by skill and consistency, is a strength, not a weakness. Today, I'm telling you why doing the same thing well—over and over—can actually make you unstoppable. Show Notes:  [02:22]#1 Predictability and consistency have a calming effect on both the users and the recipients. [08:23]#2 The more predictability you have in your life, the easier it is to think long term and plan for  the bigger picture. [15:07]#3 Predictability frees up your most powerful weapon.  [29:55]Recap Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm giving y'all a literal guide to masculine movement—yes, how you physically move and carry your body as a man. This ain't metaphorical; I'm talking real body language and presence. Ladies, don't skip this one—listen so you know what to look for in a man or share it with one who needs it. Fellas, this is about the nonverbal signals you're sending every day, whether you realize it or not. Let's break down how to carry yourself like a man without saying a word. Show Notes:   [01:35]#1 Posture equals presence.  [07:37]#2 Control equals power.  [14:54]#3 Stillness equals dominance. [22:39]Recap Next Steps:

Today I'm flipping the script and telling you why social media will never be real life. Yeah, yesterday I broke down how it has become real life for a lot of people but today I'm giving you the other side. I like to argue both angles so you can think for yourself and see where you stand. If you live on your phone more than you talk to real people, this one's especially for you. Let's get into it. Show Notes:  [01:45]#1 Real life in the flesh, human engagement still matters and you still need the skills that come with it. [06:45]#2 Social media provides a robust platform for people to live out their unlived fantasies through a smartphone and that's pretty much what social media allows people to do.  [16:00]#3 Artificial intelligence and automation are only getting better, which means there are fewer people developing real intelligence, real skills, and real know-how. So the opportunity is in having those skills.  [20:01]Recap Episode Mentioned: 1025: The Opportunity Is In The Opposites 3137: The Future-Proof Skills You Need [Part 1 of 4] Next Steps:

In this episode, I'm breaking down how social media has literally become real life for a lot of people. I've touched on this in past episodes, like 1690 and 490, but today I'm going deeper on how and why this shift happened. Even if it ain't true for you, you still need to understand it because it'll help you make sense of how people think, talk, and act these days. Let's get into it. Show Notes:  [01:42]#1 Smartphones have replaced real life human engagement at a mass level. [05:51]#2 More people are evaluating, judging and making conclusions about others based on what they see or that they can find on social media without considering any other factors.  [11:09]#3 The concept of catfishing [16:24]Recap Episode Mentioned: 490: Social Media Is The New TV Show: Don't Be Fooled By The Actors 1690: A Dirty Secret That Social Media Platforms Don't Want You To Know Next Steps:

Today I'm breaking down how feminism ends and yes, I got a plan for it. I've talked about this before, whether it was toxic femininity, feminized men, or how men need to stop being soft. But today, I'm laying out the actual steps to shut feminism down completely. I explain where it came from, why it's a bad idea, and how we reverse engineer it to end it. If you really want to understand the root of it and how to fix it, this episode is the blueprint. Show Notes:  [03:09]#1 Men must be willing to tell women to shut the fuck up with no equivocation. [13:17]#2 Men must carry himself and perform in a way that motivates women to aim for his approval.  [23:48]#3 Bring general masculinity back to society. No more weaponizing feelings.  [27:18]Recap Episode Mentioned: 2457: Identifying Toxic Femininity 2200: The Feminization Of Sports, Part 1 of 6 2039: The Worst Traits Of Feminized Men 3224: Men: Stop Being Pussies [Part 1 of 5] Next Steps:

Today I'm talking about how men are being artificially controlled by sex. This ain't about the natural biological drive—we all got that—but about how the modern world, with social media and all these ass models, is using sex to control men in ways our grandparents never dealt with. I break down how this weakens our discipline and how that's playing a big role in the collapse of Western society. If the men are off, the whole culture goes down. I've touched on this in other episodes, but today we're going deeper. Show Notes:  [02:38]#1 Life in general used to be relatively hard, especially for a man.  [11:18]#2 Sex is the top selling product of all time, and it is part of the convenient and exploitative package of easily available distraction. [21:29]#3 Women have jumped into the game head first and men have followed.  [28:29]Recap Episode Mentioned: 3203: Why Instagram "Ass Models" Exist 3282: Why The "Red Pill" Movement Is GREAT For Society [Part 1 of 2] Next Steps:

This is part two of our mini-series on how identity shapes your behavior. Today I covered four more key traits: being a Systems Thinker, building identity on ownership, using performance as proof, and operating with a legacy mindset. If those sound like how you see yourself or who you're trying to become, then you're in the right place. And if you want help getting there, go to WorkOnYourGameUniversity.com. Show Notes:  [00:45]#4 Systems Thinker in a world of scramblers. [06:56]#5 Identity built on ownership.  [12:27]#6 Legacy driven operators.  [15:38]#7 Identity shapes your behavior.  [18:21]Recap Next Steps: