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In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the most emotionally charged challenges parents face...teen friendship drama...and sharing exactly what to do (and what not to do) when your teenager comes home in tears over a falling out with their friend group.You'll also learn why social rejection genuinely feels life-threatening to the adolescent brain, how boys and girls navigate friend conflicts differently, the ins and outs of "popularity" and more.Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50!Check out the podcast on YouTube!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
In this episode, I'll completely flip your understanding of teen discipline — because if grounding, taking the phone, punishing, and lecturing haven't worked, it's not because you haven't tried hard enough, it's because those approaches are working against your teen's developing brain. Today I'm breaking down exactly why traditional punishment backfires every single time, what teen brain development actually means for your parenting approach, and what discipline is truly supposed to accomplish. I'll walk you through why your teenager's impulsive, emotional, and sometimes baffling behavior isn't defiance — it's a skill deficit rooted in an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex — and I'll show you what actually works instead. Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50!Check out the podcast on YouTube!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
In this episode of RUNWITHALLI LIVE, I sit down with Fiona O'Keeffe, Olympic Marathon Trials champion, Stanford standout, and one of the most exciting rising stars in U.S. distance running.Fiona made headlines by winning the 2024 U.S. Olympic Marathon Trials in her first-ever marathon, running 2:25:10 and securing her place on Team USA. But what makes her story even more powerful isn't just the result. It's the mindset behind it!We dive into what it really means to take a leap into the unknown, trust your training, and show up with confidence. Even when you're not sure what's possible yet.In This Episode, We Cover:What was going through Fiona's mind during her breakthrough Olympic Trials winHow adopting a “nothing to lose” mindset can unlock performanceTransitioning from collegiate running at Stanford to the professional stageWhat a realistic training week looks like (vs. a “perfect” one)Advice for running your first marathonHow to know when you're ready to level up in distance or performanceLessons learned from setbacks and navigating the highs and lows of elite racingRace day mindset and how to stay strong when things get tough mid-raceKey Takeaways:You don't need certainty to take a leap—you just need the courage to tryConfidence is built through action, not perfectionProgress comes from consistency, patience, and trusting the processWhether you're chasing a PR, lining up for your first marathon, or working through self-doubt, this episode will leave you feeling empowered to take that next bold step!Fiona is preparing for the Boston Marathon this Monday, and I couldn't be more excited to see what she and the other women (and athletes) toeing the line will do. She's incredible to speak with (super friendly) and I truly appreciate her taking the time out of her hectic build (as many of you can relate, it's exhausting to add anything extra during peak marathon training), so thank you, Fiona!I am honored to bring you this conversation on the pod today!If you're chasing a PR, navigating a busy life, or simply trying to become a stronger, more confident runner, this conversation is for YOU!Subscribe to RUNWITHALLI® LIVE so you never miss an episode!Share this episode with a training partner who needs to hear it!Connect with Fiona O'Keeffe: InstagramAnd take ONE thing from this episode and apply it to your next run.Thank you for being here. I appreciate you! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Support the show
In this episode, I'm sharing some of the most powerful, science-backed strategies you can use to help motivate your teen to change their relationship with substances — without the yelling, punishing, lecturing, or ultimatums that likely haven't been working. Drawing from the highly regarded book Beyond Addiction, I walk you through two of the most effective tools available to parents of teens struggling with drug or alcohol use: motivational interviewing and the CRAFT method (Community Reinforcement and Family Training), which research has shown to be more effective than traditional intervention approaches and Al-Anon. Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50!Check out the podcast on YouTube!Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
In today's episode, RUNWITHALLI LIVE host Alli sits down with professional distance runner Katie Izzo, a 3x Team USA Cross Country athlete (2023, 2024, 2026) and recent 2nd place finisher at the U.S. Cross Country Championships to talk about what it really takes to rise through the ranks and compete at the highest level.From her standout NCAA career at the University of Arkansas where she finished 3rd at NCAA Cross Country Championships, helped secure a national team title, and ran one of the fastest indoor 5Ks in collegiate history to now building her professional career in Flagstaff, Katie shares what it means to pursue your full potential with intention, grit, and consistency.But this episode isn't just for elite runners. It's for YOU. The everyday runner balancing life, work, and training, looking to get better, stay consistent, and show up with purpose.In this episode, we cover:How Katie first got into running, and when she knew it could be something specialThe moment things “clicked” in her career (and what that actually looked like behind the scenes)Mindset shifts that help her stay consistent at the highest levelOne underrated training element that can make or break your PRWhat road runners can learn from cross country when it comes to strength + durabilityWhy hills, trails, and uneven terrain might be your secret weaponWhat it felt like to earn her spot on Team USA (again!) and key lessons from that raceHow her definition of success has evolved over timeAdvice for runners feeling nervous before a big raceWhy she said YES to coming on the RUNWITHALLI® LIVE podcastOne BIG takeaway is how success isn't about perfect training. It's about stacking consistent days (& recovery ones, too) while building strength in ways most runners don't! Katie's journey proves that durability, mindset, and trusting YOUR process are what separate the good from the great! Katie is one of the first people who welcomed me to San Diego after I reached out to her to go for a run (yes, I KNOW! That was bold!). She kindly said yes without hesitation, shared her favorite running spots around the city that I was unfamiliar with, and made me feel more at ease in a place that felt very unknown to me.I am forever grateful. I also might've convinced her to join my post-run candy addiction, sharing gummies and Parakeet Cafe smoothies before parting ways. It was such a fun way to share miles with an incredible athlete who is not only a bada$$ runner, but also a genuinely kind human.I'm so lucky to bring you this conversation on the pod today! If you're chasing a PR, navigating a busy life, or simply trying to become a stronger, more confident runner, this conversation is for YOU!Subscribe to RUNWITHALLI® LIVE so you never miss an episode!Share this episode with a training partner who needs to hear it!Connect with Katie Izzo:InstagramAnd take ONE thing from this episode and apply it to your next run.Thank you for being here. I appreciate you! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Support the show
On today's episode of RUNWITHALLI LIVE, I'm joined by the incredible Lisa Goodin, an Olympic Trials Marathon Qualifier at 39, mom of three, wife, and all-around powerhouse and kind human!This conversation is about so much more than running. It's about what's possible when you commit to something bigger than yourself, stay in the process, and give yourself permission to chase goals, no matter where you are in life. Lisa's story will stick with you. Because let's be real. So many of us hold ourselves back. “I started too late.” “I'm too busy.” “I'm not talented enough.” Lisa breaks ALL of those narratives. She pursued (and achieved) an Olympic Trials Qualifying standard while balancing motherhood, marriage, and life outside the sport. And she didn't just survive the process. She thrived in it!Questions we cover include:How Lisa knew the OTQ goal was worth chasing, and what gave her the courage to go all inHer journey back to running and what it looks like to train at a high level as a mom of threeThe real game changers in her training (and the underrated ones outside of it)Finding joy in the process. Even during peak weeks when motivation is LOWThe role of cross-training and how it supports longevity and performanceNavigating injury, setbacks, and staying mentally groundedWhat competing at an elite level teaches you about life, discipline, and identityWhether you're an endurance athlete, an aspiring runner, or simply someone striving for growth in any area of life, I hope this conversation leaves you feeling energized, capable, and ready to take that next step forward. I'm grateful to Lisa for bringing her energy, wisdom, and light to this community! Tune in, take it in, and as always, keep showing up, keep chasing, and keep stacking those bricks!Connect with Lisa Goodin:InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, head to Apple Podcasts and tap the +Follow button to stay in the loop. Your support helps me bring more conversations like this to life.Thank you for being here! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Support the show
Today I'll explain exactly what to do when you discover your teen is drinking, vaping, or using drugs. You'll learn how to have a calm, connected conversation with your teen, how to understand why your teen is using substances, how to approach them with empathy instead of confrontation, and practical strategies to keep them safe while maintaining trust. I also review the critical mistakes we parents make in this situation, and how to set boundaries without pushing them away. This step-by-step guide will help you navigate this scary situation with science-backed strategies that protect both your teen's wellbeing and your connection with them.Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
By now, you've probably seen it: someone you follow making a joke about "maxxing" or getting "mogged" on your timeline. These terms come from a terminally online subculture spun off of the so-called "manosphere" known as "looksmaxxing." It's hyper-focused on the shallowest dimension of masculinity: physical appearance.Clavicular, the subculture's breakout star, has been popping up everywhere lately, including in The New York Times. But most of this discourse has overlooked the toxic roots of "looksmaxxing" and the misogynist ideology at its core.This week, researcher Annie Kelly joins Jared and Mike to help fill that gap. Strap in for an unexpectedly philosophical, "ethereal-tier" episode of Posting Through It, as we relentlessly mog your other favorite podcasters and unpack the complexities of romantic love.Links for Annie Kelly:-Listen to the first episode of “Truly Tradly Deeply”-Check out QAA's 10-part series: “MANCLAN”-Bluesky: @annieknk.bsky.social / X: @AnnieKNKOther links:-Read Mike's latest story for Mother Jones: “Who the Fuck Are These Men?” How extremists reconquered Idaho—and how some locals are fighting back.-Join us in Washington, DC, for the release of Mike's first book, "Strange People on the Hill": Politics & Prose, April 11 @ 5pm (Free)-Support the show and get access to weekly premium episodes on Patreon: https://patreon.com/PostingThroughItTransition Music: “Indiana” by Lune the Band
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This week on RUNWITHALLI LIVE, I'm joined by David Machin, Lead Community Organizer for Health Poverty Action, the charity I'm fundraising for as I prepare to run the 2026 London Marathon.I'll be honest: there were things I learned in this conversation that I didn't even know before diving into the topics David breaks down in this episode. It was eye-opening. I believe it will be for you, too.We discuss the reality of health poverty and why it's not a quick fix. This conversation goes beyond temporary solutions or ultra-processed “quick” foods. It's about long-term infrastructure funding, access to healthier food options, and healthcare systems that sustainably serve communities.David also explains why unrestricted funding is so critical. When funds aren't tightly restricted, organizations have the flexibility to respond where needs are greatest. Something that's especially urgent right now as government aid is being cut in ways we haven't seen before, creating widening funding gaps across global health systems.In this episode, we explore:The difference between health and health equity, and why that distinction mattersHow systemic barriers, the climate crisis, and political decisions directly impact access to careWhy NGOs are under increasing pressure, and how resilience means continuing the work even when it feels like getting punched in the faceWhy advocacy and holding decision-makers accountable for healthcare and funding cuts are JUST as important as fundraisingThe hard truth is this: things may get worse before they get better. Health poverty is systemic and deeply rooted, leading to preventable illness, disease, and loss of life in communities with inaccessible health resources.And yet what left me hopeful is that Health Poverty Action is doing the work anyway. They're raising funds, building awareness, supporting community-led solutions, and continuing to show up despite immense challenges. Every single dollar goes a long way, but there is still meaningful work ahead!This episode is a reminder that endurance athletes, and humans in general, can use their voices, platforms, and miles to help bridge gaps, elevate conversations, and push for change.A Small Ask With Big ImpactIf you're able to donate, please know this: unrestricted funds give organizations the flexibility to act where the need is greatest. With government aid being cut and funding gaps growing, even small contributions matter more than ever. If donating isn't possible right now, sharing this episode helps amplify awareness. And that matters, too. Donate here: https://2026tcslondonmarathon.enthuse.com/pf/allison-felsenthalWhether you're an endurance athlete, new to running, or just curious, I hope this episode inspires you, deepens your understanding of why we run, and shows how our footsteps can create real impact by supporting charities and communities that need it most.Connect with Health Poverty Action:WebsiteLinkedInInstagramEmailIf you enjoyed this episode, head to Apple Podcasts and tap the +Follow button to stay in the loop. Your support helps me bring more conversations like this to life.Thank you for being here! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Support the show
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In today's episode I break down the neuroscience behind why teens are so vulnerable to substance use—and explain what you can actually do about it.If you're worried about your teen using alcohol, vaping, or marijuana, this episode is for you.I explain how the adolescent brain's reward system, weak prefrontal cortex, and neuroplasticity create the perfect storm for risky behavior.But here's the good news: the majority of teens do NOT use substances, and I'm sharing 4 science-backed strategies to help your teen stay in that majority.You can watch this episode on YouTube as well!Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
On today's episode of RUNWITHALLI LIVE, I'm joined by a very special guest, Bill Armstrong, Founder & CEO of Neversecond™.Founded in 2020, Neversecond™ has quickly become my go-to fueling brand and has firmly established itself within the endurance and high-performance running community. Neversecond™ is the official fuel sponsor for RunWithAlli Coaching, and I truly believe this product can change the way endurance athletes approach fueling for marathons and beyond. Especially for those pursuing competitive performance for the long haul.Before discovering Neversecond™, I was genuinely frustrated with fueling. After years of high-volume training and racing, I had tried countless products that caused GI distress, felt inconsistent, or simply didn't meet the demands of endurance sport. That all changed when a friend in San Diego introduced me to Neversecond™. From the very first trial, the approach clicked. Precision, simplicity, and science-backed execution. I immediately knew this was the kind of fueling system serious endurance athletes need, and the kind I wanted our athletes using.In this episode, Bill and I dive into the evolution of the Neversecond™ brand and the philosophy behind it. We talk about how Neversecond™ supports endurance and high-performance athletes, what truly sets the brand apart from other fueling companies, how runners can practically apply these products in both training and racing, how to build community around fueling, and so much more.Questions we cover include:How did Neversecond™ come to life, and what gap in the endurance fueling space were you trying to solve?What backgrounds did each of you bring to building the brand, science, sport, business, or all of the above?Neversecond™ is known for precision fueling. What does that mean in practical terms for endurance athletes?Can you explain the science behind products like the C30 gel in a way runners can immediately apply?How early in a training cycle should athletes start practicing race fueling?For someone training for their first marathon, what's a simple Neversecond™ fueling framework to follow?What lessons from elite sport translate best to everyday endurance runners?If athletes could follow just one fueling principle, what should it be?How do you decide which stores carry your product?Why did you say YES to being on the RUNWITHALLI LIVE Podcast?Whether you're an endurance athlete, an aspiring runner, or simply curious about the space, I hope this episode leaves you feeling inspired, better educated on fueling for running, and more aware of the endurance fueling landscape, and how Neversecond™ can support your athletic and endurance goals!Connect with Neversecond™:WebsiteLinkedInInstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, head to Apple Podcasts and tap the +Follow button to stay in the loop. Your support helps me bring more conversations like this to life.Thank you for being here! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Support the show
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Today I'm going to share why your teenager seems so lazy and unmotivated, and what you can actually do about it that won't backfire. I'll explain what's happening in that unmotivated brain of theirs and why punishment, rewards, and nagging to get them to do their homework or study are only making things worse. Plus, I'll walk you through Dr. Adam Price's (author of "He's Not Lazy") proven 8-step framework for helping unmotivated teens develop internal drive. Listen to learn how to motivate your teenager without destroying your parent-teen relationship.You can watch this episode on YouTube as well!Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
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On today's episode of RUNWITHALLI LIVE, I'm joined by special guest and dear friend, Kimberly Penharlow.Kimberly is a Global Executive Coach, leadership facilitator, and endurance athlete, and together we explore the powerful parallels between leadership and athletic performance. We dive into the importance of cultivating a growth mindset, helping people think differently through movement, and learning to see challenges through shifting perspectives.Kimberly shares how running has helped her build confidence, courage, and resilience, both in her professional work and in life, and how the lessons learned on the road translate directly into bringing out the unique leader within each of us.This episode is an elevated conversation about movement, mindset, leadership, healing, and growth.Kimberly opens up about navigating profound personal loss and how marathon training helped her rediscover purpose, resilience, and self-trust. We dive into how running mirrors leadership development, requiring patience, consistency, mindset shifts, recovery, and strong boundaries.You'll also hear insights on:Using running as therapy and personal reinventionGrowth mindset through movementLeadership lessons from marathon trainingThe role of boundaries in performance and burnout preventionWhy community matters. On the run and in lifeWhether you're an athlete, a leader, or someone moving through change, this episode will inspire you to lead and live with courage! I hope you enjoyed this conversation as much as I did, and are diving into 2026 feeling inspired, empowered, and able to lead, build, and grow! Thank you for listening!Connect with Kimberly:Email: krpenharlow@gmail.comWebsite: KimberlyPenharlow.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlypenharlow/Instagram: @PenharlowconsultingIf you enjoyed this episode, head to Apple Podcasts and tap the +Follow button to stay in the loop. Your support helps me bring more conversations like this to life.Thank you for being here! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Support the show
In this episode, I explain how you may be unwittingly overparenting (aka, helicopter parenting) your teen—and why doing too much for or controlling your teenager actually sets them up for failure as a young adult. I'll explain what helicopter parenting really looks like and the psychological damage it causes to our teens, young adults, or college-age kids. You'll also learn practical strategies to stop overparenting, reduce parent-teen conflict, and raise confident teenagers who can handle life's challenges. You can watch this episode on YouTube as well!Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
It seems reasonable and logical that drug testing your teenager at home could keep them safe or at least keep them accountable.However, the opposite is actually true.Today I discuss the damage we cause when we drug test our teens at home and why drug testing is simply not practical and isn't the solution you may think it is.I'll also explain what you should do instead if you want to decrease the likelihood of your teen participating in risky behaviors.This episode (here on YouTube) will be helpful for you whether substances are an issue with your teen or not. The general principals I talk about can be applied to any similar situation.Listen to episode 178 (having a conversation with your teen about their substance use)Listen to episode 183 and 184 on the CRAFT MethodShow Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
Today is the eighth and final episode in my Fundamentals of Parenting Teens podcast series.If your teen shuts down around you, keeps things from you, has big emotional reactions to everything you say, or is acting out in risky ways, you probably have a connection problem. In today's episode, I explain exactly what connection means, why it's critical for parenting emotional teens, and how to build it (even when your teenager wants nothing to do with you).Listen and learn science backed strategies to build your connection, strengthen your relationship and gain more influence in your teen's life. You can also watch this series on YouTube.Emotion Coaching episode on YouTube or listen to episode 239 Free parenting guide "Emotion Coaching"Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
Today is the seventh episode in my Fundamentals of Parenting Teens podcast series.If you're dealing with a teenager who seems to push back against everything you say, punishment or consequences aren't the answer and will probably make things worse. In this episode, I'll explain why traditional discipline backfires with teenagers and what actually works instead. You'll learn why punishment creates rebellion in teens and what to do instead. You can end the constant power struggles by learning how to support your teen's autonomy while staying connected and improving their behavior.You can also watch this series on YouTube.Check out episodes 14 and 91 for more about backing up and allowing natural consequences.Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
Today is the sixth episode in my Fundamentals of Parenting Teens podcast series.Do you feel helpless in the face of your teen's emotional meltdowns?Today, I'll teach you a scientifically proven technique for helping your teen actually calm down. It's called emotion coaching and it will transform how you handle your teenager's big feelings and emotional outbursts.We're going to discuss the 10 steps I believe are crucial for you to get this right and see major change in your teen.You can also watch this series on YouTube.Download the free parenting guide: "Emotional Awareness Strategies"Show Notes and TranscriptFind our FREE Parenting Guides Here"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for your podcast! ...I'm so happy I discovered it!" Speaking of Teens Listener^If you feel the same way, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps people know the show is worth their time to listen. Tap here, to go to Apple podcasts, and scroll down until you see the STARS to tap on the last star, then tap on “Write a Review” and let me know what you love about the show. If you're listening in Spotify, you can also rate the show by going to the main episode page and tap the 3 dots to the right of the follow button, tap rate show and tap the 5th star!Thank you in advance for helping me help more parents!The 5-Day Reboot: From Conflict to Cooperation - receive bite-sized lessons in your in-box for 5 days that will make a huge difference between you and your teen...for under $50! Check out the podcast on YouTube! Email Ann at acoleman@speakingofteens.com Check out PARENT CAMP - a cohort-based, 10-week experience that includes a virtual course, in-depth exercises and tools, and weekly live meetings with Ann, where you will learn how to strengthen your relationship and decrease the conflict with your teens and tweens (while improving their behavior.)Connect with us on Facebook or Instagram Read Speaking of Teens weekly articles on Substack Join our Facebook Group for Free Support for Parents and others who care for Teens (and get easy access to all the parenting guides above!)See My Recommended Books For Both You And Your Teen
Text Me!In episode 247 of the Sober Vibes Podcast, Courtney Andersen sits down with Heather Lowe—sober coach, podcast host, and founder of Ditch The Drink—for a powerful, real-world conversation about recovery, grief, and the truth about support.Heather shares how leaving a half-full glass of wine behind became the catalyst for transformation, and why free support options aren't always enough to create real, lasting change. Together, they explore the deeper layers of mommy wine culture, grey area drinking, and the emotional and physical factors that keep so many women stuck in the cycle.Through honesty and humor, Heather opens up about how burnout, perfectionism, and alcohol and hormones impact women's recovery—and how accountability, community, and paid sobriety coaching can help women build stability and self-trust faster.What You Will Learn In This Episode: Growing up with Midwest drinking norms and early conditioning When therapy minimizes drinking, and recovery gets delayed The “sober experiments” that led to Heather's final Day One Building Ditch The Drink and ethical alcohol recovery coaching The impact of mommy wine culture and societal perfectionism Overfunctioning, burnout, and how boundaries support healing The difference between free vs paid support and why accountability accelerates successMotivation to stay sober and how to cope without alcohol long-termSuppose you've ever questioned whether free resources are enough or you're seeking real structure and guidance on how to stop relying on alcohol. In that case, this conversation will give you the truth, hope, and clarity you need to move forward.
Being “nice” is not the goal and if you're just trying to be nice, you're lying. You're putting on a fake version of yourself to make people like you. I've said it many times: being important matters way more than being nice. This is a results game, not a nice person contest. Get important first then you can choose to be nice if you want. Show Notes: [01:40]#1 Being “nice” is a costume. [09:36]#2 Nice people rather be comfortable than to get to what's real. [18:26]#3 Nice people cannot be trusted as leaders in any type of relationship. [23:01]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 1565: Be Important Now -- And Be Nice Later 3297: Be Important - Not "Nice" 3188: "Dre says 'YOU' Too Much!" Next Steps:
You don't have depression. Just like I said yesterday about ADHD, a lot of people use this label as an excuse for not doing what they need to do. The drug and therapy industries push this so you'll keep needing them. That's how they make money. Today, I'm breaking down why most of what you've heard about depression is not true and why you have more control than you think. Show Notes: [03:20]#1 You are much more disconnected than you are depressed. [09:14]#2 Your brain's turning inward, you're thinking everything's bad. [17:51]#3 Emotional pain is not a permanent identity. [21:08]Recap Next Steps:
I don't believe you have ADHD. A lot of us got that label as kids because a teacher or counselor said we couldn't focus like the other students. The truth is, this whole ADHD thing was created by the system and drug companies to give schools and parents an excuse. They just wanted us to sit still, be quiet, and follow boring lessons from people who never actually did what they teach. In this episode, I'm breaking down why you don't have ADHD and why it's time to stop using it as an excuse. Show Notes: [03:02]#1 You have no structure and thus no discipline. [07:49]#2 Most of us are wired for consistent stimulation rather than we are wired for completion, discipline or focus. [15:15]#3 ADHD is an offloading of accountability and responsibility. [19:21]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 1193: Focus: The Force Multiplier Next Steps:
Most people never build a real presence that feeling you give off that makes people notice and respect you without you even trying. I'm not talking about just being in a place, I mean having a vibe and confidence that people can feel anywhere, even if you're just at the grocery store. Presence is self-assurance and the way you carry yourself. In this episode, I talk about why most people never develop it and what's stopping them. Show Notes: [02:56]#1 Most people chase attention more than they anchor energy. [11:43]#2 Movement and noise addiction [23:44]#3 Most people don't know who they are. [29:12]Recap Next Steps:
In this episode, I'm talking about the power of showing up first. You've heard me say it before — early is on time, on time is late, and late is forgotten. Being first isn't just about arriving early, it's about being the one who moves, starts, or leads while everyone else is waiting. Whether it's getting up before the world, starting a conversation, or taking action when others hesitate — going first sets you apart. Today, I'll break down why it matters and how to make it part of who you are. Show Notes: [01:53]#1 When you show up first, you are sending a message to others and you're sending a message to yourself. [10:33]#2 Waiting makes you reactive, whereas showing up gives you power. [15:06]#3 Showing up first is an identity. [19:17]Recap Next Steps:
Mental toughness isn't just a skill you practice—it's who you are. Skills are important, but they're about what you do. Mental toughness is about your identity, your way of being. It's your willingness to keep showing up, doing the work, and putting yourself out there, even when success hasn't shown up yet. Today I'm breaking down why mental toughness is in your DNA, not just in your to-do list. Show Notes: [01:20]#1 Skills are what you do. [09:17]#2 Being mentally tough is not something that you practice. [14:55]#3 Do not outsource your toughness to motivation. [19:10]Recap Next Steps:
This is part four, the final part of my series on killing passive aggression. Today I'm breaking down three more bad habits you need to kill. First, stop being the messenger for someone else's words—let them speak for themselves. Second, don't get others to fight your battles, and don't fight theirs. Third, if you think something might bother someone, talk to them first—or just own what you did and deal with it. At Work On Your Game University, we turn discipline into dominance so you can win in mindset, structure, strategy, and execution. Show Notes: [00:35]#10 Telling you what someone else said about you instead of owning it. [05:06]#11 Never get someone else to confront on your behalf. [13:10]#12 I didn't know it would bother you. [18:43]Recap Next Steps:
This is part three of my four-part series on killing passive aggression. Today I'm talking about three specific tactics: withholding enthusiasm, praising someone's competition, and pouting or sulking. These are sneaky ways people avoid saying what's really on their mind. Women often use these methods naturally, but when men start doing them, it's a bigger problem—because as a man, you should be direct and speak up instead of waiting to be prompted. The best way to deal with this behavior? Call it out straight up. Show Notes: [00:32]#7 Withholding of enthusiasm. [05:54]#8 Praising someone's competition. [13:43]#9 Instead of sharing that there is an issue, pouting and sulking. [35:45]Recap Next Steps:
This is part two of my four-part series on killing your passive aggression. Today I'm talking about three behaviors you need to stop. First, vague language stops hiding behind unclear words and just says where you stand. Second, convenient memory loss deals with issues early instead of pretending you forgot until it blows up. Third, saying yes with your mouth but no with your actions if you're out of a commitment, say so instead of ghosting on it. Show Notes: [00:44]#4 Stop using vague language. [06:29]#5 Convenient memory loss. [10:08]#6 Saying yes in your words, but saying no in your actions. [18:10]Recap Next Steps:
In this episode, I'm starting a four-part series on killing passive aggressiveness for good, especially in men. Passive aggression is when someone avoids saying things directly, like showing up late on purpose, staying quiet when they should speak, or making a point by doing nothing. I expect that from women sometimes, but when men do it, it makes us weak, soft, and more feminine. I want men to be direct and clear, even if the truth is uncomfortable. If a few guys can change this habit, we can start changing the whole culture. Show Notes: [06:21]#1 Stop procrastinating on a NO. [13:10]#2 Stop saying you're okay when you're not all right. [21:12]#3 Feigning a lack of understanding to avoid responsibility. [23:29]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3224: Men: Stop Being Pussies [Part 1 of 5] 2457: Identifying Toxic Femininity 2200: The Feminization Of Sports, Part 1 of 6 2039: The Worst Traits Of Feminized Men 3346: How Feminism ENDS Next Steps:
In this episode, I'm talking about why you need to stop explaining yourself so much. When you step into your presence and dominance, you don't have to justify every action or decision you make. Explaining less not only saves you time and energy, but it also makes you look more powerful. The less you talk about why you did something, the more people respect it. Let's break down exactly why this works. Show Notes: [01:11]#1 Explaining yourself to other people is a sign unconsciously of submission and subordination. [06:58]#2 As a general rule, the more explaining you need to do to a person, the less chance they will get it, no matter what you say. [16:11]#3 Get better at message clarity. [20:15]Recap Next Steps:
You've probably heard people say you should never burn bridges. They tell you to leave on good terms, be polite, and keep the door open no matter what. But I'm here to flip that. There are times in life when burning the bridge is exactly what you need to do. In this episode, I'll explain why sometimes you need to make it impossible to go back, and why that can be the best move for your future. Show Notes: [01:50]#1 You never want to go back, you know you never will, and you want to make sure you never do. [08:32]#2 When you want to give yourself no option but to move forward and not allow yourself to slow down or step backwards. [19:34]#3 When you realize the comfort and ease have been detrimental to you because of the temptation of and your easy access to them. [22:12]Recap Next Steps:
In this episode, I'm breaking down what true power really is and why most people are scared of it, even though they say they want it. I'll explain what true power looks like, feels like, and the trade-offs that come with it. If you've been listening to me, you know there's no perfect scenario, only trade-offs. Once you understand what power really means and the responsibility it brings, you'll see why most people actually don't want it. Let's get into it. Show Notes: [01:40]#1 True power comes with an equal amount of responsibility and accountability for all things. [11:22]#2 When you have true power, you can't point the finger at anybody. [19:31]#3 When you have true power, you can actually do all the stuff that you have been thinking about and wishing you could do and talking about doing. [24:32]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2174: There Are No Perfect Scenarios – Only Trade-Offs 1824: The "Race Hustler": Who, What, Why, And What To Do About Them Next Steps:
Discipline is easy when things are going well, the real test is when it's inconvenient. In this episode, I'm talking about why true discipline shows up when the situation is tough, when it's not set up for you to win, and when showing up is the hardest thing to do. Motivation feels good, but discipline is about doing the work no matter how you feel. This is the secret sauce to professionalism, and today I'm breaking down how to know if your discipline is real. Show Notes: [01:38]#1 It is not disciplined if it's always easy and is always convenient. [06:14]#2 The reason people respect discipline is because we all inherently understand that it requires acting in the face of inconvenience. [13:45]#3 The reason why most people have no discipline is because they will not act in the face of inconvenience. [18:36]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 1025: The Opportunity Is In The Opposites Next Steps:
In this episode, I'm talking about why you need to know people in low places, not just high places. We all know the saying about knowing people in high places with status, resources, and connections. But sometimes, the people who can really help you aren't at the top. They're the ones in positions that may not seem important, but they can get things done in ways high-level folks can't. I'll break down why these relationships matter just as much—maybe even more—in certain situations. Show Notes: [01:28]#1 Not everything in life is shiny and sometimes you need some dirty work done. [08:32]#2 There is no downside to more people knowing you and having a positive opinion of you, regardless of who those people are. [17:41]#3 There are more average people than there are higher achievers. [22:40]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3287: You MUST Know People In These Spaces 3359: The 3 Socially Accepted Black Men 3360: Why White America Does Not Prop Up Athletes & Entertainers Next Steps:
In this episode, I'm talking about “ring culture”, the idea that you're only as good as your ultimate results. I use basketball as the frame, but this applies to everything in life. In sports, people judge players based on championships, even though some legends never won one, while others with rings were just role players. The same happens in real life. Some people get credit because they were in the right place at the right time, not necessarily because they were the best. I'm breaking down why this mindset matters and how it affects the way we judge success. Show Notes: [04:24]#1 Life is a results based business. [11:52]#2 Your circumstances only matter if you end up turning those circumstances into success. [17:43]#3 Being that you're ultimately judged by your outcomes. [21:12]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3311: How To Be A "High Value Man" [Part 1 of 2] 3312: How To Be A "High Value Man" [Part 2 of 2] 3332: How To Be A "High Value" Woman [Part 1 of 2] 3333: How To Be A "High Value" Woman [Part 1 of 2] Next Steps: