Podcast appearances and mentions of luke adler

Did you know that premature ejaculation is the most common form of sexual dysfunction on the planet? In a similar vein, experts estimate that erectile dysfunction impacts a staggering 30-50 million men in the U.S. alone. And some studies suggest that 1 in 10 men experiences delayed ejaculation.The truth is, sexual dysfunction affects millions and millions of men, but the experience is often one of being alone. Helpless. Feeling stuck or out of control. Common thoughts:"Why can't I get hard when I want the sex? I feel like my body's betraying me.""I'm so frustrated about cumming so fast -- I want sex to last.""What's the point of even going on a date if I know it's eventually gonna end up in the bedroom?""I'm terrified that I won't satisfy her sexually, and then she'll either humiliate me, leave me, or both.""What's wrong with me?"---Here, Luke reveals the one primary and often overlooked yet vitally important commonality that exists between all sexual dysfunction. As he puts it, “Western medicine has reduced it to it being all about blood flow...” and it's about way more than that.As a doctor of Chinese medicine, Luke brings a unique and potent perspective on the topic. The plain truth is that overcoming sexual dysfunction like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation is simply not about what you think it's about.---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast and take action? Jason and I can help you break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good. To see if you're a fit for our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes:“I have to whisper about it in doctor's offices.""Shoutout to the men for whom Viagra or Cialis just don't work."“Men are conditioned, programmed, indoctrinated into carrying their pain alone."“I went to naturopaths and MDs and nothing touched it.”“I get that you can run 100 miles. Let's talk about your relationships.”“I could not RECEIVE help … like it could not get into my body.”“Your cock is your compass.”“This isn't about sex; this is about power.”“It's literally a miracle.”---Mentioned on this episode:Luke Adler: https://lukeadlerhealing.com/To book a call with me to discuss Sexual Mastery, just email me at dearmenpodcast at gmail dot com

When things are bad, are you good at asking for support?More than once, we've had clients disappear for a bit, and upon reappearing say things like, "Sorry, I just had one of the worst weeks of my life last week."And we wonder: Why, during some of your darker times, are you not reaching out for love?Here we break down the reasons why this pattern exists. Why is it so hard for men in particular to ask for help? What helps shift a man from this kind of pattern into a healthier one of interdependence?And how does all of this show up in a marriage, love relationship, or even in dating? Because make no mistake -- it does.If you want to be successful with women, be the best husband you can be, or just feel more settled, grounded, and confident when it comes to dating or relating, check this out.Support the podcast and join The Heart of Shadow at melaniecurtin.com/heartofshadowWork with usReady to go deeper than the podcast and take action? Jason and I can help you break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good. To see if you're a fit for our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“You don't know the love that you're missing.”“I don't want to share this because it could be ammo for attack.”“Men don't want to be a burden, and ‘put their feelings on someone else.'”“I've been there — men hold it all inside.”“I gotta go back to that stoic man who doesn't need other people.”“We don't trust society. We don't trust culture.”“So much of the wounding men carry come from peer relationships when they were young.”“When one man brings forth the truth or vulnerability, it inspires the other men.”“Every time a man disrupts this kind of culture, you're lighting the way for another man.”“When we collapse and don't reach out, there's something in the background: This belief that there's not enough. Not enough money, not enough money, not enough women.”“Is my wife gonna still love me tomorrow?”“What is masculinity? That's the debate we're having right now as a culture.”“It just leaps out of our hearts.”“It's moving from ‘I am alone' to ‘I belong.'”“By joining the group, you actually become more yourself.”“The shared value is: We want to grow.”“As I was running myself ragged, I was running my wife ragged.”“I'm just going to be here with you in it.”

"Porn was the #1 relationship I had in terms of intimacy."So says Jason on his experience of sex, love, and closeness in his 20s. (Fortunately, after engaging in personal growth, including men's work, he's now married to a radiant goddess!)If you've ever struggled with your relationship to porn -- and if that has also impacted your relationship to sex and sexuality, you're far from alone. Countless clients of ours start out with a challenging dynamic with porn, and here's the truth: Porn use isn't really about porn. Weed use isn't really about weed, either.When it comes to using weed, porn & masturbation, and other substances like alcohol, as Luke puts it, "It's almost always covering up deeper material that men do not know how to handle."The good news? There are lots of ways to handle that material, safe spaces within which to process it, and a TON of energy, vitality, and joy on the other side. Remember: Personal growth works, so work it.---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“When I watch porn, I have the freedom to experience pleasure and the freedom to not experience rejection.”“Gimme the weed again because I don't want to feel the Shame Guy!”“We all do things to avoid feeling the thing that we don't want to feel.”“Emotion starts as sensation in the body.”“Most of what ails you can be significantly soothed by connection.”

Most of us, on our growth journeys, become aware that we need to heal from some kind of trauma. We also often discover that we need more than talk therapy.Altered states have been used since time immemorial to help us on our healing paths, and can be particularly helpful in trauma healing. And while plant medicine (ayahuasca, psilocybin (magic mushrooms), MDMA, psychedelics like wachuma/peyote) can be a strong ally, it also has certain drawbacks and limitations.Fortunately there's another way to get into altered states that requires no substances: Breathwork.Here we outline the differences between plant medicine and breathwork. We also discuss how breathwork can help folks heal from attachment wounding (anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, or disorganized attachment, which is a mix of both).And we talk about the bodymind's inherent knowledge of how to heal. Breathwork can help us unlock our own deeper wisdom.---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:"The next stage of evolution is self-inquiry.""Consciousness expands in such a way that says, ‘I need help.'""I have this deep desire to expand.""Beneath that knot of unworthiness is ultimate consciousness.""The core intention is to open the heart, and to heal."---Mentioned on this episode:Book: Conscious Breathing: How Shamanic Breathwork Can Transform Your Life by Joy MannéBreathwork Breakthrough (advanced course led by me and Luke, starting mid-March. Email dearmenpodcast@gmail.com for more info)

Have you ever felt unworthy, less than, or "deeply ugly and stupid," as my guest this week put it?The fact is, we need all the support we can get. We need it from our fellow humans, and we need it from something greater.The word "God" can be very triggering -- for those who experienced religious trauma growing up (which, let's face it, is literally billions of people), it can be a dirty word.Yet the concept of Life -- aka Divine Intelligence, the Field, Spirit, etc. -- can be extraordinarily transformative when it comes to our everyday lives, and how we experience love itself.What is your relationship to Life, nature, the interconnected web? Do you feel held by something greater? How does this relate to your experience with sex, dating, and relationships? And what's really behind our patterns and how to we grow beyond them?---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:"I thought I was deeply ugly, and stupid.""In the opening, something is allowed to arise through.""Something more important than my pain took centerstage.""You don't have to ‘do' the miracle; you just have to be open to the miracle.""Let nature move in between the relationship.""Make way for the mystery."---Mentioned on this episode:Book: Outrageous Openness by Tosha SilverDear Men 305: GuyTalk: Overcoming Religious Trauma

Jason is a men's embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life's purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men's group for the growth and support opportunities they provide. Jason applies an integral framework to all his work, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with the likes of John Wineland, Dr. Robert Glover, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, and is a Stages International Certified Debriefer. His online program, Pillars of Presence, is a 16-week boot camp for men ready to transform their romantic relationships from the inside out that he co-leads with Melanie Curtin. He also leads twice a year Shadow work-based men's groups with Luke Adler in the Heart of Shadow program. Outside of men's work, Jason is also a filmmaker and is blessed to be married to his amazing wife, Violet, who coaches women on love and femininity, and father to his amazing daughter Ruby.   Find him here: https://evolutionary.men/about-jason-lange/ https://www.facebook.com/evolutionarymenswork https://www.instagram.com/evolutionarymen/ https://www.youtube.com/@evolutionarymen https://www.tiktok.com/@evolutionarymen

What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings that you fear others would judge if they knew about? Is it your yearning for love, your desire to be held or seen or known in some fundamental way?Many of the biggest breakthroughs we've witnessed in clients have come when they've headed directly into shame, been witnessed with compassion, and come out the other side.It is almost inevitable that releasing shame builds power, which is often electrifyingly transformative. Shame around sex, relationship, love, need, weakness, neediness, and desire is normal. It's human. But it doesn't have to be paralyzing; in fact, it can be catalyzing.Here, Jason and Luke share personal stories of shame, and we outline the process of transforming shame into power.---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“If we don't feel strong or powerful or directive in our lives, we will feel the tinge of shame.”“I was terrified to be asked to do something that I didn't know how to do.”“What wants to be said to your ex-wife? What's incomplete there?”“Whatever you're not feeling is where all your vitality is stuck.”“I got to feel a boyish curiosity come back!”---Mentioned on this episode:DM 305 GuyTalk: Overcoming religious trauma

In this powerful episode of the Forged in the Fires Podcast with Fireman Rob, we are joined by Jason Lange, a dedicated men's embodiment coach, group facilitator, and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. Jason's mission is to help men awaken to deeper clarity in their life's purpose and relationships, advocating that every man should be part of a men's group for the unparalleled growth and support it provides. With a comprehensive approach, Jason integrates a wide range of disciplines into his work, drawing from his training with renowned mentors such as John Wineland, Dr. Robert Glover, and Ken Wilber. His 16-week online program, Pillars of Presence, co-led with Melanie Curtin, is a transformative bootcamp designed to revolutionize men's romantic relationships from the inside out. Additionally, Jason, alongside Luke Adler, leads the Heart of Shadow program, a bi-annual men's group focused on deep shadow work. Beyond his commitment to men's work, Jason is also a filmmaker, devoted husband to Violet, a coach for women on love and femininity, and a proud father to his daughter, Ruby. Join us as we delve into Jason's journey and the impactful work he's doing to support men in living their most authentic lives.

Not only is acupuncture strange, with its twelve invisible watersheds of flow and influence. But we have the qi jing ba mai. The strange flows… usually translated as the extraordinary vessels.Some say these are the blueprint that give structure to the embryo as they help to orient and guide development. Others say that these vessels are deeply tied into our psycho-emotive functioning.Traditionally they were talked about as reservoirs . They helped to regulate the excess or lack in the 12 main channels.As for me, I can't say that I understand them all that well. And that is why I like to talk to folks who have spent time investigating the extraordinary nature of these vessels.Which is why I'm delighted to share this conversation with Yvonne Farrel and Luke AdlerThey've spent some time looking into and clinically working with the 8 extras as we commonly call them.Are they strange, or are they fundamental? Listen in and find out for yourself.

In my work with men, I often find that stuck or stagnant energy is blocking success in a man's life. He's not getting what he wants in sex, connection, intimacy, or all of the above -- and he doesn't know what to do about it.Whether it's a single man struggling with sexual shame, a married man trying to figure out why it's so hard for him to lead his wife, or a man who's dating and noticing that he gets really triggered when he feels criticized by a woman (even if he knows intellectually that she's not trying to criticize him), the root cause is often the same:Unprocessed "stuff."Carrying around trauma is like walking through life weighed down by a backpack full of rocks. You don't always realize it's there until you're freed from it.And the truth is, women are magnetically drawn to men who are relaxed and grounded in their bodies. That kind of relaxed and open state doesn't just happen, and it's not something you're either born with or not. There are things you can do to get there.When it comes to processing trauma, shame, or just general stuckness, talking has limited efficacy. That's part of why you may not have gotten the results you were looking for through talk therapy or couples counseling. It's usually when we work the body (oh hi, somatic therapy) that we truly experience breakthroughs. Or as my guest, Luke Adler, puts it:"The beauty of breathwork is that you add tremendous fuel and bypass the mind."Memorable quotes from this episode:"We men have been acculturated to be thickened up.""It made clear where things were really working in my life and where they weren't.""Whatever system is stagnant — it's going to move.""People's pace needs to be honored."---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast and take action? Jason and I will help you break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good. To see if you're a fit for our flagship program, Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)

Shadow work is popular in the personal growth community, and for good reason — it can be deeply transformational. Many people report deeper and more lasting shifts with shadow work than with years of talk therapy.But what's talked about less often is how sexy shadow work can make you. As a woman who has sex with men, I can attest to this — a man who does real shadow work is hot. Period.Here, Jason and I join forces with Luke Adler, doctor of Chinese medicine, healer, and men's coach, to talk all things shadow work, sex, relationships, masculine identity, and the freedom that comes from doing deep work with trustable people.Dear Men listeners get 10% off registration using the coupon codes in the link below.Memorable quotes from this episode:"Actual table flip!“Mentioned on this episode:melaniecurtin.com/shadow

It's retreat time and Marie is in Greece helping her retreat participants unlock the transformative power of self love! ​Please enjoy this encore episode in her absence. In this episode from June 2016, Marie interviews Dr. Luke Adler, Doctor of Acupuncture and Chinese Medicine, intuitive and compassionate healer, teacher and author who empowers clients with the tools to heal themselves. Awaken to what's not working in your life and allow love to facilitate healing with Marie and Dr. Adler!

Today we are joined by Luke Adler, a bodyworker and spiritual healer with deep insight into men's challenges and their movement towards maturity. On this show we discuss key points in his childhood and adolescence that shaped his adult understanding of manhood and a spiritual life. We dip into topics such as reconciling assertiveness with gentleness, clean shame and what it looks like, and some of the dynamics underlying straight relationships between men and women.Find Luke online:The Luke Adler Healing Podcasthttps://open.spotify.com/show/6k6WH1tFeL7hWzJY6aKr8y?si=c5adc1a257014e8bInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukeadlerhealing/Website: https://lukeadlerhealing.com/Follow Gentle Man on social media:https://www.instagram.com/gentlemanpodcast/https://www.tiktok.com/@gentlemanpodcastPatreon coming soon!#boys #men #masculinity #feminism

Dr Luke Adler, DACM stops by the podcast once again to chat about a topic that most of us try to avoid talking about, Shame. We discuss how shame can be the doorway to deep intimacy and loving connection. We chat about healthy shame for children and how we can bring about more ease for our children by simply working with our own shame. Please check out LukeAdlerHealing.com to learn more about this incredibly generous and gifted man and how you can find out how your shame can transform your life for the better. Shame- The doorway to Intimacy and trust- A deeply transformative audio program that puts you in touch with the reality of how shame and unworthiness affect your life. Shift toxic shame to healthy shame and use breath work to release what you no longer need. Audio meditation

In my first episode I interview one of my good friends, Luke Adler on the importance of having compassion as a man. We discuss how to find compassion and how to use it in your relationships to improve communication and how to deepen your relationships. You can find out more about Luke at https://lukeadlerhealing.com/

Host: Sheryl Glick R.M.T. Special Guest: Dr. Luke Adler In today’s episode of Healing From Within, your host Sheryl Glick author of Living Spirit: Answers for Healing and Infinite Love which shares stories of spiritual awakenings, spiritual communication and ways to use intuition for achieving your highest potential. Today Sheryl welcomes Dr. Luke Adler author […]

How do suppressed emotions affect our body? What does self-love really mean? Luke Adler was on his own journey of self-healing before helping others to seek out health, happiness, and fulfillment. He believes that disease stems from not really understanding who you are and how you navigate the world. He explains that what we are really looking for is to connect with one another in a vulnerable and authentic way. Join us for an in-depth discussion of holistic healing as we blend Eastern medicine and Western traditions with Luke Adler.About the Guest:Luke Adler, L.Ac. D.O.M., is Board Certified Acupuncturist and Chinese Herbalist, and a Diplomat of the National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine, which is the highest level of national certification for Chinese Medicine. He served a medical externship at the UCLA Arthur Ashe Medical Clinic, and practiced Chinese medicine and acupuncture in an integrative clinic in rural India, where he worked with allopathic doctors and Ayurvedic and homeopathic physicians. The founder of Luke Adler Healer Studies, he is trained in the practice of Microcurrent Positional Technique, which focuses on orthopedic pain and structural imbalances.

Bowe Bergdahl: who is he and why should we care? Charged with desertion from the Army and misbehaving before the enemy in Afghanistan, his future hangs in the balance today. Is he a traitor, mentally ill - or both? Today's guest, Luke Adler, is an award-winning former Marine and, after being honorably discharged, joined the U.S. Marshals Service, where he was involved in the apprehension of several of the Top 15 Most Wanted fugitives. He is the author of Chasing Bandits, true stories of bandits on the run who thought they could avoid capture. Dr. Carole believes the army slipped up in ignoring Bergdahl's history of psychiatric problems and allowing him to join its ranks. Should he now be court-martialed or has he been punished enough by his years in captivity and torture?

Luke Adler and I talk about his new book, Born to Heal. It's such a powerful book, resource and tool to use to create healing in your life. Luke shares about meditation, acts of self-love and how he's a hardcore mystic. It's a good one so open your heart to healing. Learn. Create. Thrive. www.InspiredConversations.net

Born to Heal, Luke Adler. Kundalini awakening as a teenager seeded Luke with a deep thirst to connect with the divine. How does a gifted healer get his message to the world? With a little kick from Dad. Listen.

Interview with Luke Adler and his new book, Born to Heal. Luke is a superbly qualified practitioner of Eastern medicine and Western traditions. In this book he lays out specific techniques, case studies, meditations and exercises for self-discovery and self-directed wellness.

President Obama promises to use controversial means to clamp down on guns. Erich Pratt of Gun Owners of America defends the 2nd Amendment on Craig Roberts' Life Line. Luke Adler has been a U.S. marshal and a member of a SWAT team. He joined Eric Metaxas to share why he's concerned with Obama's actions. Constitutional expert John Malcolm joined Georgene Rice to talk about the issue as well. Brad Dacus, president of the Pacific Justice Institute, is working to defend pro-life clinics in California where a new law has been passed to help abortion. Don Kroah interviewed Brad Mattes, president of Life Issues Institute, to discuss the life issue. Wheaton College made headlines recently when a professor claimed that Muslims and Christians worship the same god. Albert Mohler explains on his Briefing program. Dr. John Townsend talks about his new book "The Entitlement Cure: Finding Success in a Culture of Entitlement" with Georgene Rice. Dr. Russell Moore, president of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission for the Southern Baptists joined Frank Sontag in L.A. to discuss the national lottery Powerball.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Reaction To Obama's Announcement On His Gun Law Executive Order From U.S. Marshal (retired)/Weapons Instructor

Luke Adler 12/7/2015

Bowe Bergdahl: who is he and why should we care? Charged with desertion from the Army and misbehaving before the enemy in Afghanistan, his future hangs in the balance today. Is he a traitor, mentally ill - or both? Today's guest, Luke Adler, is an award-winning former Marine and, after being honorably discharged, joined the U.S. Marshals Service, where he was involved in the apprehension of several of the Top 15 Most Wanted fugitives. He is the author of Chasing Bandits, true stories of bandits on the run who thought they could avoid capture. Dr. Carole believes the army slipped up in ignoring Bergdahl's history of psychiatric problems and allowing him to join its ranks. Should he now be court-martialed or has he been punished enough by his years in captivity and torture?