Diary of an Overcomer Podcast

Send us a textCarol and Jen talk with Yvonne Garcia in the episode of Diary of an Overcomer. Yvonne was at Shepherd's Gate in 2013. From 23 years old to 49 years old Yvonne lived addicted to drugs, many of those years living on the streets and enduring horrific traumas.She has just celebrated 12 YEARS being clean and sober and her story is inspiring! To find out more about Shepherd's Gate go to www.shepherdsgate.org.

Send us a textOn this episode of Diary of an Overcomer Carol and Jen welcome guest Kai Evans who is a graduate of Shepherd's Gate as well as a past employee.Kai shares about her childhood filled with sexual abuse and assault, poverty and homelessness and how she survived to go onto college and into the corporate world where she was introduced to drugs.She shares openly about her addiction and how she came to Shepherd's Gate and how God moved in mighty ways in her life.You won't want to miss this one!www.shepherdsgate.org 

Send us a textCarol and Jen welcome Angela to the podcast in this episode. Angela was a graduate of Shepherd's Gate 20 years ago and has done some amazing things with her life since. Listen in you are sure to be encouraged! www.shepherdsgate.org

Send us a textIn this episode Carol and Jen talk about the last 40 years of Shepherd's Gate, what it started out as, and what the ministry has become. They also discuss the changing trends in addiction and homelessness. The conversation is interesting and informative, take a listen!If you are suffering from addiction, homelessness, domestic violence or a victim of sex trafficking go to www.ShepherdsGate.org to find out more about Shepherd's Gate and our program and resources.

Send us a textCarol and Jen are excited to welcome Angela Vidal, the future Director of Shepherd's Gate Brentwood! Angela's story is inspiring and her personality is contagious as she shares about how she came to work at Shepherd's Gate and how she feels about being the youngest Director in Shepherd's Gate's 40 year history. 

Send us a textThis is a break from our regularly scheduled programming, as our host Jen Harp, shares her heart about people experiencing homelessness and gives her very simple ways to help one person at a time. If you have any questions or comments please email Jen at jen@biggirlonamission.com. To find out more about Shepherd's Gate go to www.shepherdsgate.org.

Send us a textIn this episode, Carol and Jen welcome past Shepherd's Gate employee Jasmine Swearigen. Jasmine shares about her walk through addiction and her inspiring overcomer's story.To find out more about Shepherd's Gate go to our website at www.shepherdsgate.org.

Send us a textIn this episode Jen and Carol welcome Sara Stoebe as their guest on the podcast. Sara has an amazing story of overcoming domestic violence and addiction, she came to Shepherd's Gate when the ministry was in the original home and Alice Ann, the founder, was still working there!Sara's transparency about her struggle with alcohol is so inspiring and how God has brought her out of that addiction to celebrate 25 years of sobriety!! Sara has the added history of working at Shepherd's Gate and she also shares about her work with Celebrate Recovery. Take a moment to listen and be encouraged!To find out more information about Shepherd's Gate go to www.shepherdsgate.org.

Send us a Text Message.This episode Carol and Jen welcome one of our Alumni from over 12 years ago, Kerri Mueller! Kerri gradated from our Brentwood campus and over the past 12 years has stayed clean and sober and has helped other people struggling with addictions. She currently spends time counseling young women struggling with the decision to keep their babies. For more information about Shepherd's Gate visit our website at www.shepherdsgate.org for more information about the organization Kerri is with visit www.lovelife.org

This is the 3rd testimony story in our our Shepherd's Gate 40th Anniversary celebration on the podcast!In this episode, Carol and Jen sit down with Shannon, a graduate of Shepherd's Gate. Shannon shares about why she came to Shepherd's Gate and what she found there, she shares about her 14 years of sobriety and what she has been up to since graduating. So much good advice for anyone who is dealing with addiction or anyone who loves someone trapped in addiction. To find out more about Shepherd's Gate go to www.shepherdsgate.org. 

In this episode we welcome another past graduate from Shepherd's Gate, Sunee! Sunee first came to Shepherd's Gate in 2001 and in the last 23 years she has allowed God to create an amazing life for her and her girls, take a listen and be inspired!To find out more about Shepherd's Gate go to www.shepherdsgate.org

In this episode we are so excited for you to meet Charla Skinner! Charla graduated from Shepherd's Gate 19 years ago and the Lord has used her to do mighty works in His name! Her story starts as one of abuse and addiction until she finds Jesus at Shepherd's Gate and then the restoration that has happened in her life will surely encourage and inspire you! Take a listen and let u know what you think!To find out more about Shepherd's Gate go to www.shepherdsgate.org.

In this episode of Diary of an Overcomer, Carol and Jen welcome long-time Shepherd's Gate staff member, Terri Dominguez. Terri started out in the ministry volunteering and over the past 18 years has worked in a variety of roles which has helped her tremendously to do the position she now holds as the HR Manager.The three women discuss nonprofit work and have a few pieces of advice for those looking into starting a nonprofit or working in one. Take a listen and let us know what you think!To find out what positions Shepherd's Gate is currently hiring for go HERE

When Autumn married her husband she had no idea the kind of abuse she would receive at his hands. Lots of fear and shame as she would flee from him only to return days or weeks later, until she came to Shepherd's Gate! Autumn shares her story of overcoming and what she is doing now after 7 years!National Domestic Violence Hotline  24/7. Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)https://www.thehotline.orgShepherd's Gate- www.shepherdsgate.org Editor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

This year, 2024, Shepherd's Gate turns 40!! Yep, that's right it has been 40 years since the doors of our first shelter opened and began serving women and children in the Bay Area of California. And in today's episode we are going to be sharing the story of the original Overcomer and the founder of Shepherd's Gate Alice Ann Cantelow, so grab a coffee, sit back and get ready to be inspired by this amazing woman's story.

In today's episode of Diary of an Overcomer, Carol and Jen welcome Annette Bermudez to the podcast. Annette works at Patelco Credit Union and volunteers at Shepherd's Gate to teach the women how to get their credit and finances in order. This is a VITAL step in becoming an overcomer, many of the women who come to us have debt and have never been taught about credit and budgeting.Annette shares some of the stories of the women who have gone through her program and cleaned up their credit score and learned about being on a budget. She also shares a few pieces of advice about financial stability. 

On this episode of Diary of an Overcomer, Carol and Jen discuss another tool to help you overcome hard circumstances- TRUSTING IN GOD. They cover-Trust definedWhat NOT trusting God looks like What TRUSTING God looks like And then go on to give 5 practical ways to trust God. Take a listen and let us know what you think. King and Country "God Only Knows"Wide awake while the world is sound asleep andToo afraid of what might show up while you're dreamingNobody, nobody, nobody sees youNobody, nobody would believe youEvery day you try to pick up all the piecesAll the memories, they somehow never leave youNobody, nobody, nobody sees youNobody, nobody would believe youGod only knows what you've been throughGod only knows what they say about youGod only knows how it's killing youBut there's a kind of love that God only knowsGod only knows what you've been throughGod only knows what they say about youBut God only knows the real youThere's a kind of love that God only knowsThere's a kind of love thatThere's a kind of loveYou keep a cover over every single secretSo afraid if someone saw them they would leaveBut somebody, somebody, somebody sees youSomebody, somebody will never leave youGod only knows what you've been throughGod only knows what they say about youGod only knows how it's killing youBut there's a kind of love that God only knowsGod only knows what you've been throughGod only knows what they say about youBut God only knows the real youThere's a kind of love that God only knowsThere's a kind of love thatThere's a kind of loveThere's a kind of love thatThere's a kind of loveFor the lonely, for the ashamedThe misunderstood, and the ones to blameWhat if we could start over?We could start overWe could start overOh, for the lonely, for the ashamedThe misunderstood, and the ones to blameWhat if we could start over?We could start overWe could start over'Cause there's a kind of love that God only knowsGod only knows what you've been throughGod only knows what they say about youBut God only knows the real youThere's a kind of love that God only knowsGod only knows what you've been throughGod only knows what they say about youBut God only knows the real youThere's a kind of love that God only knowsThere's a kind of love thatThere's a kind of loveThere's a kind of love thatThere's a kind of loveGod only knows where to find youGod only knows how to break throughGod only knows the real youThere's a kind of love that God only knowshttps://youtu.be/Q5cPQg3oq-o?si=YJqgP5jkKc_EVmUp

In this episode Carol and Jen discuss prayer. In an Overcomer's life there are certain tools that they have used in overcoming whatever obstacles were in their way. In the next three episodes we will be discussing those foundational tools. The first one we are discussing is prayer and the absolute necessity for it in the life of the believer.

In this episode Carol shares another great story about an overcomer. Jay was a mom trying to make ends meet while battling addiction. Every time Jay took a step forward it felt like two steps back until she ended up living in the back of her truck with her children. It took the perseverance of a woman who knew what it was like to be on the streets to help Jay find the resources she needed.  This is a story we hear all too often, but this one has a happy ending! 

In this episode, Carol and Jen are joined by Shepherd's Gate program staff, Alicia and Brittany, to discuss an innovative new recovery program called SMART Recovery.  (https://www.smartrecovery.org ) This program is not just for addictions, but is also helpful to get through unhealthy habits.Join us and let us know what you think.If you need prayer or have questions about Shepherd's Gate, you can email Carol at cpatterson@shepherdsgate.org. 

Betty's life started off rocky, with her dad disappearing out of her life at a young age because of his conviction as a sex offender. Carol shares her story of tragedy and triumph in this episode.Betty's story is one we have heard often, of a rough childhood that led to poor decisions that had dire consequences that led to addictions and homelessness. But Betty's story has a happy ending because of Jesus. 

WARNING: This podcast contains a story of domestic abuse and may not be appropriate for all audiences. This podcast episode is a new type of episode called STORY TIME where we are simply sharing a story of an Overcomer. Today's Overcomer is Shay, a woman who endured 28 years of marriage to an extremely abusive man. Her story is full of hope and inspiration.

In this episode Carol and Jen discuss a new drug combination that is causing the user to experience a "zombie-like" state, rotting flesh and a painful come down, making it even harder to get off the drug.  Editor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

In this episode, Carol and Jen talk forgiveness and review the book by Lysa Terkeurst, "Forgiving What You Cannot Forget." From the book-"Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain, playing offenses over and over in your mind? You know you can't go on like this, but you don't know what to do next. Lysa TerKeurst has wrestled through this journey. But in surprising ways, she's discovered how to let go of bound-up resentment and overcome the resistance to forgiving people who aren't willing to make things right.With deep empathy, therapeutic insight, and rich Bible teaching coming out of more than 1,000 hours of theological study, Lysa will help you:Learn how to move on when the other person refuses to change and never says they're sorry.Walk through a step-by-step process to free yourself from the hurt of your past and feel less offended today.Discover what the Bible really says about forgiveness and the peace that comes from living it out right now.Identify what's stealing trust and vulnerability from your relationships so you can believe there is still good ahead.Disempower the triggers hijacking your emotions by embracing the two necessary parts of forgiveness."So join us for this very important discussion on why we need to forgive and some practical ways to forgive those who have hurt you. For prayer email Carol at cpatterson@shepherdsgate.orgProverbs 31 Ministryhttps://proverbs31.org/Lysa's podcast on forgiveness-https://lysaterkeurst.com/2018/07/09/six-practical-steps-to-forgive/Proverbs 31 Daily Devotional https://proverbs31.org/read/devotionsTo Contact Carol Patterson email cpatterson@shepherdsgate.orgTo Contact Jen Harp email jen@biggirlonamission.comThe views, information, or opinions expressed during Diary of an Overcomer series are solely those of the individuals, speakers, commentators, experts and or hosts involved and do not necessarily reflect nor represent those of the production, associates or broadcaster or any of its employees. Production is not responsible and does not verify for accuracy any of the information contained in the series available for viewing. The primary purpose of this series is to educate and inform. This series does not constitute medical or other professional advice or services. This series is available for private, non-commercial use only. The production, broadcaster or its channel cannot be held accountable for all or any views expressed during this program. If you would like to use any portion of a podcast, please contact cpatterson@shepherdsgate.org. Otherwise, all information is copyrighted.

Join Carol and Jen on this episode of Diary of an Overcomer as they welcome their guest April Poulter. April shares in this episode her story of addiction and her walk-through to recovery and understanding the 12 steps and what it means to submit your life to Jesus.April wrote a book and you can find it on Amazon-  Peace by Piece For more information on Shepherd's Gate- www.shepherdsgate.orgCarol Patterson's Email- cpatterson@shepherdsgate.org Jen Harp's Email- jen@biggirlonamission.com

January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month.On this episode of Diary of an Overcomer we are so pleased to have with us  Nicole Phillips of Lavished Ministries in Florida. Nicole's heart for women in the commercial sex industry as well as those victimized by sex trafficking is amazing! Since the age of 17 years old she knew this was her calling and at 21 started Lavished Ministries with a few women from her church.We discuss all the great things Lavished is doing and some of the myths and truths swirling through social media about human trafficking. We'd love you to join us and then let us know what you think!https://www.lavishedministries.com 1 (888) 373-7888National Human Trafficking HotlineSMS: 233733 (Text "HELP" or "INFO")Hours: 24 hours, 7 days a weekLanguages: English, Spanish and 200 more languagesWebsite: http://humantraffickinghotline.orgEpisode Last Year about  Keeping Your Kids Safe From Human Traffickinghttps://www.buzzsprout.com/1196825/9933688-keep-your-children-safe-from-human-trafficking.mp3?download=true

In this Christmas episode, Carol and Jen invited Mark Wollan to discuss how often we can miss the impact of Christmas when we stray from the Biblical text. It's surprising how much of our thinking (even for Christians) is informed by Christmas carols and “traditions” about the Christmas story, that aren't biblical.Take a listen and see if you agree the Biblical account of Jesus' birth is so much more powerful than the Hallmark version.

Every 16.2 seconds someone takes their own life in the U.S.That is staggering.On this episode we talk with Marsha McInnis of NAMI Tri-Valley, an organization that helps people and families dealing with mental health issues. We talk about the rise in suicides and the various reasons, as well as discuss what we can do to help those with suicidal ideations. You won't want to miss this episode.Marsha McInnis,NAMI Tri-Valleymarsha@nami-trivalley.org(925) 980-5331Mailing Address:NAMI Tri-Valley164 N. L St.Suite 104Livermore, CA 94550Editor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

Our very exciting guest on this episode is Erin Scott.Erin Scott is FVLC's Executive Director. She has extensive experience as a domestic violence and sexual assault advocate, a family law attorney, and a nonprofit manager. She currently serves on the Board of Directors of UnCommon Law and previously served on the Board of Director of the California Partnership to End Domestic Violence and the Family Violence Appellate Project  Prior to joining FVLC, she was the Directing Attorney of Legal Advocates for Children & Youth, a program of the Law Foundation of Silicon Valley, and the Director of Foundation Support at the ACLU Foundation of Northern California. She has a J.D. from New York University School of Law and a B.A. from Swarthmore College.If you would like to find out more about the Family Violence Law Center visit their website at  https://fvlc.orgIf you are being abused, please find a safe place to call The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.

Our guest for this episode is Jeff Gilman the Executive Director of Redwood Gospel Mission in Santa Rosa, California. Our topic is ministering to those experiencing homelessness and Jeff's innovative  programs and services have proven to be a success in building bridges between the faith community and those living on the streets.His experience, over almost 40 years in ministry, brings wisdom and creativity to the  "3 hots and a cot" mentality that has for so long dominated the service community to this particular population. Join us and listen to Jeff talk about what he thinks will help heal this homeless crisis, and SPOILER, it has nothing to do with just food and shelter.To find out more about The Redwood Gospel Mission visit www.srmission.orgEditor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

Stephanie was a teen mom at 16 and a widow at 35, now she is the mother of a goat rodeo, grandma to two and the Delta Area Director of YoungLife. In this episode we talk with Steph about the difficulties she faced as a teen mom, she shares with us the hardships of being married to a spouse who became addicted to pain medication and the heartbreak of becoming a widow. Through all of the ups and downs she found one thing to be true and she shares that one thing with us, as well as sharing about Young Life and the work they do with students. Come on and meet Steph, you're gonna love her!Young LifeINVITING YOUNG PEOPLE TO EXPERIENCE LIFE ASGOD DESIGNED IT TO BE LIVED.To find out more go to https://delta.younglife.orgEditor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

John Krause is a businessman, owning a successful coffee roasting business with coffeehouses in three locations throughout the Bay Area of California. Talking to him today, you wouldn't know he came through major heartaches as a child and began a devastating addiction in his early teens which led him in and out of jail for over 12 years, his last time was spent within the walls of the notorious San Quentin prison.In this episode, we get to chat with John about his childhood, through addiction and incarceration, and to where you can find him today, growing a successful company. His story of overcoming is nothing short of amazing.To find out where you can get some of John's coffee, visit www.bighousebeans.com.  Editor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

We have our first DOCTOR on Diary of an Overcomer!!Dr. Brooke Keels holds a master's degree in Counseling Psychology and a Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Therapy with over 15 years of direct counseling, academic, and administrative experience. Dr. Keels specializes in program design and counselor training/supervision and currently serves as the Clinical Director at Lighthouse Recovery TX, providing oversight for the standard of care across the PHP, IOP, SOP, and therapeutic programs. She is highly educated, has loads of experience working with people suffering from addictions, loves Jesus and she is feisty and funny!! This episode is one we know you will enjoy and learn a lot from. aIn this episode, we talk about mental health and addiction,  discuss some brain chemistry and even get into a discussion about Jesus and therapy, you don't want to miss it.SHOW NOTESHere's the podcast we mention in this episode-https://mercymultiplied.com/mercytalk/jesus-and-counselinghow-can-i-have-bothEditor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

From domestic violence to designer, Deja shares her story of overcoming with a refreshing frankness. In this episode, you will hear from our special guest Deja Slaughter about her journey from domestic violence, addiction and homelessness to Shepherd's Gate, a women and children's program located in the Bay Area of California.She will talk about her healing, and the importance of therapy and Jesus to rebuild your life. Deja graduated from Shepherd's Gate's program and now owns her own business designing and creating wigs. Join us for this inspiring discussion and find out all the positive things Deja is doing now to help other survivors of domestic violence and addiction.

In this episode we got to hang out with a woman who is a legend at Shepherd's Gate, Diane Johansen, volunteer extraordinaire and AA sponsor/leader.Diane shares with us her story of hitting her rock bottom and overcoming addiction and how God and the steps of AA helped her get back on her feet and stay sober for over 23 years!!  We talk with her about the importance of finding and keeping a sponsor throughout your journey in  sobriety.We hope this episode is encouraging and  educational about addiction recovery and the  essentials to getting sober and staying sober.In this episode Diane offers to help anyone with their sobriety so we  are including her email if anyone needs to reach out-  djohansen33@gmail.com.As always  we appreciate your feedback or questions.Thank you  for listening!Editor's note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month and since Shepherd's Gate has helped victims of human trafficking we wanted to talk about what human trafficking is, some of the misconceptions about it and how to keep your kids safe on the internet from it. Yep, human trafficking happens here in the US and one of the targets is vulnerable kids on social media. Our guest today is Andrew Dawson and we are so excited to welcome him to the podcast!Andrew works with F.R.E.E. International leading street outreach and operations in Las Vegas NV. F.RE.E. International is a collaborative network of organizations working to end trafficking in the U.S. Andrew is also a presenter with Say Something School Assemblies. SSA is a non-profit organization that educates and inspires thousands of students each year to identify trafficking and sexual exploitation in their schools. Andrew and the amazing SSA team has seen hundreds of students get help. Andrew is also the CEO/Founder of Operation For Freedom. A non-profit focused on investigation, intervention, and advocacy for those who are the most vulnerable and at-risk of being trafficked. ​His work has carried him around the U.S. and Mexico working on rescue operations, missing kid searches, investigations, speaking in schools, and training those who want to find their place in the fight against this horrendous crime.   ResourcesBark- keep your kids safe online https://www.bark.usHuman Trafficking Hotline-Call 1-888-373-7888 ( TTY: 711)|*Text 233733 https://humantraffickinghotline.orgEditors note: the views and opinions expressed on Diary of an Overcomer are those of the podcast participants and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Shepherd's Gate.  We are also mindful that some of the personal stories featuring the word addict and other terms that some may not identify with. We respect and understand those who choose to use certain terms to express themselves. However, we strive to use language that is health oriented, accurately reflects science, promotes evidence-based treatment and demonstrates respect and compassion. 

Welcome to the 2nd episode in a 2-part series today we are talking about Overcoming despair by intentionally spreading joy. The first episode we discussed how to experience the peace and joy of Jesus internally, this episode we will be talking about taking that peace and joy and intentionally spreading joy to others, basically taking the commandments Jesus talked about- loving God and loving others and living that out no matter what you are going through right now.Our purpose in these 2 episodes is to help those who are struggling with their circumstances, to OVERCOME. We have chosen 2 ways we have personally overcome grief and hardship, the first is by experiencing the peace and joy of Jesus internally and then intentionally choosing joy, despite what we are going through or how we feel, and spreading it to others. 

This podcast episode is the first of a 2-part series and is very different from our usual topics. We chose these topics to address the melancholy and grief many experience this time of year during the Holidays.Our purpose is to help those who are struggling with their circumstances, to OVERCOME. We have chosen 2 ways we have personally overcome grief and hardship, the first is by experiencing the peace and joy of Jesus internally and then intentionally choosing joy, despite what we are going through or how we feel, and spreading it to others.  Join us and let us know how you overcome your storms.

If you or someone you love is struggling with an addiction, know where to go to get help is crucial. In this episode we discuss how to know when you or someone else needs help, where to go to find a solid recovery program, how to access that program and we even talk about insurance and relapse.So give us 30 minutes and find out what it takes to begin the recovery process.NOTESSubstance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration- https://www.samhsa.gov/Has a comprehensive national database of recovery programsNational Institute on Drug Abuse- https://www.drugabuse.gov/Faith based programs-"Belief, Behavior, and Belonging: How Faith is Indispensable in Preventing and Recovering from Substance Abuse", by Brian J. Grim and Melissa E. Grim, J Relig Health. 2019; 58(5): 1713–1750. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6759672/- "We find that 73% of addiction treatment programs in the USA include a spirituality-based element, as embodied in the 12-step programs and fellowships initially popularized by Alcoholics Anonymous, the vast majority of which emphasize reliance on God or a Higher Power to stay sober."- "While negative experiences with religion (e.g., clergy sex abuse and other horrendous examples) have been a contributory factor to substance abuse among some victims, given that more than 84% of scientific studies show that faith is a positive factor in addiction prevention or recovery and a risk in less than 2% of the studies reviewed, we conclude that the value of faith-oriented approaches to substance abuse prevention and recovery is indisputable."If you need prayer, have questions or need to find out more about Shepherd's Gate email Carol Patterson at cpatterson@shepherdsgate.org .

Yep. You can order illegal drugs over social media, oh you're not interested in ordering illegal drugs over social media, well your teen may be. In this week's episode we share the story of Sammy, TV personality Dr. Laura's son. Sammy was a good kid, good family who dies of an overdose. His story contains lessons that will hopefully prevent other needless deaths. So come with us as we take a deep dive into the drug Fentanyl and this new, easy way of delivering drugs through social media.

They will not be counted in the over half a million homeless in the US.They live under the radar.Living in vehicles, couch surfing with friends or family, this segment of the homeless population is surprising in many ways.Join Carol and Jen as they talk about this group and how the homeless are counted and why it is important to get accurate counts and answer some common questions about the hidden homeless and just who they are may surprise you. Jen also shares about her efforts to bring attention to this growing population by living in her sister's van once a week for 3 years in a row to raise funding for Shepherd's Gate and how it was nothing like urban camping.

The New York Times reported that there is a growing demographic of people experiencing homelessness, and it may surprise you who it is. People 55+, the second wave of the Baby Boomer generation, is now a fast growing segment of the homeless population in America, and their numbers on the streets are expected to triple...and that was before Covid 19 hit!Jen and Carol discuss the story of Beth, a woman in her 70's who ended up homeless after her husband died. They will share about the lack of resources right now in the US for those in their retirement age and how we can all help make a difference to help those in their golden years not end up on the streets.Some resources if you want to volunteer to help-Meals on Wheelshttps://www.mealsonwheelsamerica.org

This is part one of a three-part series on homelessness. In this episode you will be introduced to Shannon, a regular girl raised in a middle class family in mid America. A trauma happens at 15 that sends her spiraling for over 12 years. Her heartbreaking story will shock you, but remember she is an Overcomer.Homelessness in the U.S. is a huge problem, you already know that, but did you know , over the next four years, fallout from the pandemic is expected to cause chronic homelessness to climb 49% nationwide, according to a new study by the Economic Roundtable, an urban research group.Take a listen as we discuss the most common questions about homelessness and the people who experience it as well as some of the proposed solutions to the issue. 

Jen Harp has worked in the area of non-profit marketing and public relations for over 20 years. She has enjoyed the opportunities to share her unique perspective as a guest columnist for a local newspaper and various magazines and webzines. She started her own marketing and consulting company, big girl on a mission, in 2014 where her mission has been to help non-profits tell their stories through the power of online marketing, websites and social media. Jen has been married for 25+ years to her high school sweetheart and is “mom” to Scout. 

Carol Patterson has worked in the nonprofit world for over 20 years and is currently serving as the CEO for Shepherd's Gate. She considers it a privilege to share with people all over the Bay Area how God is working through Shepherd's Gate to restore women and children whose lives have been shattered by abuse and addiction. Carol was a senior executive at Cityteam corporate headquarters in San Jose for over 17 years, focused on homelessness and addiction. Her expertise in nonprofit ministry, finance, and operations positioned her to be a visionary leader.However, it is Carol's tremendous passion for homeless and abused women and children in the Bay Area that is her most important asset. She is deeply committed to Christ and helping more women break the cycles of homelessness, abuse, and addiction. 

In this episode we discuss domestic violence and tell you the story of Natalia, this episode's Overcomer. Natalia's childhood was one of violence. She witnessed her father beat her mother on a regular basis growing up, and that shaped Natalia. Join us to hear her story and listen as our hosts discuss some of the questions and resources around this issue.If you are being abused, you can reach out 24/7 to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.SAFE (7233) or visit their website at www.thehotline.org, both are completely anonymous.