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Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.When does the Christmas spirit truly begin? Is it when Mariah Carey's vocals take over the airwaves, or when you find yourself donning a festive onesie in early November? Benji and Brad engage in a lively debate over the premature arrival of holiday festivities, especially from Brad's vantage point in retail. They navigate the amusing clash of Halloween and Christmas and share personal stories that highlight their unique family traditions and the quirks that make the holiday season special.Shawn Mendes' coming-out story serves as a springboard for examining the broader impact of celebrity announcements on societal perceptions. We challenge the media's role in amplifying these narratives and discuss whether these stories reinforce outdated norms. By questioning the spectacle of celebrity disclosures, we ponder the potential of normalizing diverse identities through everyday actions, encouraging our listeners to rethink how we embrace the LGBTQ+ community.In a lighter vein, we recount a hilariously relatable mishap involving a cloned bank card and a forgotten Feet Finder subscription. Amidst the laughter, we explore the trials of modern adulting and make a resolve to embrace the Christmas spirit, even when it feels elusive. With tips on boosting holiday cheer through music and classic films, we invite you to join us in finding joy in the early stages of this festive season.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.What does it truly mean to embrace fatherhood in a same-gender relationship amidst the societal norms and challenges? In our latest episode, we sit down with John Joe as he reveals his heartwarming and eye-opening journey of becoming a father through surrogacy. From the emotional highs and lows of preparing for twins to the unexpected hurdles with healthcare providers, John Joe shares his story with candor and humor. His experiences highlight the importance of advocating for equal participation in prenatal appointments and the vital role of respecting and protecting the surrogate throughout the journey.As the conversation unfolds, John Joe takes us through the whimsical but thoughtful process of choosing names for the twins, weaving cultural legacies with future aspirations. Shopping for the babies becomes an adventure filled with societal questions unique to non-traditional families. John Joe also provides valuable insights on fostering a secure and valued family environment for the children amidst potential inquiries about their family structure. With a focus on emotional and social resources, listeners will find practical advice for navigating the joys and challenges of surrogacy.The episode wraps up with a detailed look at the financial landscape of surrogacy in the UK. John Joe brings attention to the stark differences in costs compared to the US and the lack of NHS support for non-hetero couples. By sharing his personal experiences, John Joe offers a roadmap for others considering this path, complete with expert tips on planning for the future. Join us for an inspiring discussion that not only sheds light on the financial and legal aspects of surrogacy but also celebrates the evolving definition of family.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever tried to keep up with a drag queen during Pride weekend? Benji did, and let's just say he had to sneak in soda water breaks amidst the kaleidoscope of London's bustling LGBTQ+ scene. Join us as we laugh at Benji's misadventures, from frigid encounters with Britain's notorious weather to humorous swipes at our own dating profiles. Our latest escapades take a Broadway twist as we ponder the cultural phenomena like the West End's "Frozen," setting the stage for a chat as lively as a Clapham night out.On the journey from vibrant city life to the more serene family-friendly locales, we've got a tale that could give rom-com writers a run for their money. Imagine meeting your future spouse during a pandemic quiz night, only to find yourself in a Vegas wedding whirlwind post-birthday celebration. Add the amusing mix-up of dating two best friends simultaneously and sprinkle some heartfelt lessons on respectful communication, and you've got a love story that's as unpredictable as it is charming. Our special guest joins us to share their unique insights into the world of same-gendered family building, adding depth and warmth to our conversation.Navigating surrogacy and sperm donation is anything but straightforward, and we take you through the highs and lows of the process. With our guest sharing their personal journey, we explore the legal, emotional, and sometimes awkward paths of surrogacy in England, where commercial surrogacy remains a taboo. From selecting egg donors to the logistical hurdles across countries, each step brings its own set of challenges and joys. As the excitement builds towards the anticipation of twins, we celebrate the resilience and love that define the path to family-building for LGBTQ+ couples.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered if gifting sweets to flight attendants could score you a free drink? This week, Benji and I, Brad, share personal tales of in-flight adventures, including unexpected perks and quirky connections with flight crews. We explore the dry air struggles and seating preference debates, along with a memorable post-flight escapade at Clapham's vibrant Two Brewers—an evening that sparked a humorous discussion about the best time to hit London's nightlife.What happens when a love triangle is mistakenly announced over a plane's intercom? We've got you covered with a hilarious recap of an airborne faux pas, complete with a quick-thinking save that left the passengers amused. Plus, get ready for a real-life "Sliding Doors" moment as I recount a strangely familiar encounter with a new acquaintance who seemed to step right out of my past into my present.And if you've ever felt the chaos of introducing your partner to your family, you're not alone. Tackling themes of family acceptance and wedding invitations, we share listener Johnny's heartfelt story alongside our own experiences, blending humor with empathy. We wrap things up with some festive cheer, discussing Christmas chaos, winter birthdays, and even the concept of a "backup" marriage pact with a friend, ensuring you'll be entertained and perhaps a little more prepared for life's unexpected twists.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever found yourself unexpectedly clutching a penis pump after a night of Drag Bingo chaos? You're not alone. We kick off with tales of spooky thrills from London's Tully's Farm Shocktober Fest and Thorpe Park's Fright Nights, where scare mazes and roller coasters in the dark set the scene for our Halloween escapades. The adventure takes a cheeky twist with a night out in Soho's Little Coup, where an unexpected prize left us pondering its pros, cons, and the slapstick comedy of late-night filming mishaps.Shenanigans continue as we navigate London's social scene, from party mishaps to climbing the social ladder with unexpected celebrity connections. Relive the hilarity of a celebrity-style party invite from an old acquaintance, Matt, and the cringe-worthy aftermath of neglecting instruction manuals (yes, involving that penis pump again). There's also a dash of nostalgia for themed parties, highlighted by a memorable moment of channeling our inner Heathers, perms included, at the Mighty Hoopla's Butlins Weekenders.Wrap your ears around tales of romantic beach encounters and high-octane escapades on sandy shores. From secret moonlit rendezvous to the thrill of nearly getting caught in compromising locations, these stories promise a mix of humor, intrigue, and oversharing—perfect for those who relish a good laugh. We round off with a playful mystery revolving around a mysterious Luke and a promise to keep the fun coming next week. Join us for an episode that captures the spirited essence of life in London and beyond!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Can a petty argument really be the catalyst for an adventure in the heart of London? Join us as we navigate the aftermath of a heated debate between your favorite hosts, Benji and Brad. Amidst the tension, there's a silver lining as Brad scores a free coffee from Pret, while Benji patiently waits for a planned rendezvous. Our episode is sprinkled with playful jabs, Mr. Burns references, and a reminder that Halloween is just around the corner—our very own "gay Christmas."Feel that crisp autumn air and prepare for some spine-tingling fun as we reminisce about childhood Halloween shenanigans, from crafting seasonal posters to scoring the ultimate Disney sound book prize. Get ready for an event-packed October as we share our plans for Tully's Farm horror festival, where the thrills and chills of spooky mazes await. Our journey through memories and anticipation of what's to come is a testament to our love for all things horror, even if it took a while to embrace the Halloween spirit.Ever wondered what it's like to be the keeper of a chastity device key? We explore the hilarity of adult-themed communities, from surprise encounters in adventurous WhatsApp groups to the comedic chaos of "Locktober." Toss in some psychic reading skepticism and a notorious jam-related online video, and you've got a recipe for laughter and camaraderie. Don't miss out on our cheeky tales and musings, and join us in sharing your own stories for next week's antics.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever received a mysterious text that led to an unforgettable adventure? Benji did, and it started with "Golf Course." This week, we recount the hilarity and romance that unfolded from this cryptic message, revealing unexpected connections and a charmingly awkward encounter. As Benji transitions from anonymous dating to seeking friends with benefits, you'll be in stitches with the side-splitting details of an impromptu golf course escapade. The laughs keep coming as we dive into Benji's evolving love life and the unpredictable twists that come with it.But that's not all! Brace yourself for tales that are both outrageous and cringe-worthy as we share stories of everyday items being used in unconventional ways. From vegetables in intimate settings to a friend's unfortunate trip to A&E, we promise you won't believe some of these wild anecdotes. Finally, we delve into the emotional labyrinth of transitioning a friendship to friends with benefits, featuring a listener's heartfelt story and our candid advice. With humor, personal anecdotes, and plenty of surprises, this episode is a rollercoaster you won't want to miss!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.What happens when two fabulous hosts take on London with dazzling white teeth and a penchant for musicals? Get ready for an uproarious episode where we unpack the scandalous, the hilarious, and the downright chaotic adventures from our city escapades. From Brad's unexpected nap during his whitening session to a backstage rendezvous during Wicked, we cover it all. We also dive into the eternal question of why some gays are drawn to musicals while others can't stand them, and share our excitement and Benji's unfortunate absence from the Broadway Rave due to a nasty salmonella bout.But the fun doesn't stop there! You'll laugh along with us as Brad recounts his impromptu solo performance at a Broadway rave night, much to the amusement (and embarrassment) of everyone involved. We chat about our touristy endeavors in London, including Benji's comedic misadventure with a Dyson fan and our ongoing love for tour bus experiences despite being city veterans. Expect tales of glamorous chaos and the unique ways we enjoy our vibrant city.Lastly, we venture into the wild world of alternative online communities, revealing jaw-dropping adult toys and the intriguing dynamics within these groups. From traffic cone-shaped toys to the implications of Instagram's "close friends" feature, it's a journey you won't soon forget. We wrap things up with stories from a rowdy fancy dress party, featuring heartwarming friendships and unexpected discoveries. Don't miss out on a minute of the laughs, shade, and fabulous chaos that only the Big Gay Podcast can deliver!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered what chaos ensues when a few friends, a fabulous guest like Miss Chanel No. 5, and bottles of Whispering Angel wine are combined in a drinking game? Get ready for a laughter-packed rollercoaster as we recount Chanel's wild nights out, Benji's infamous mid-party McDonald's runs, and the uproarious guesses about who might cheat at bingo. This episode is brimming with camaraderie and playful banter between Benji, Brad, and Chanel, ensuring non-stop entertainment and high energy.We then dive into some of our most candid and risqué tales, including the embarrassing aftermath of waking up next to someone without knowing their name and the awkward reality of bringing someone home. From Benji's bold public escapades to Brad's humorous attempts at selling feet pics, no stone is left unturned. We also discuss the hilariously awkward family Airplay incident and debate the best ways to handle such mishaps with humor and grace. Tune in for outrageous stories, honest reflections, and a whole lot of laughter!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered what really happens on a wild night out with a drag queen? Join us as we spill the tea with the fabulous Miss Chanel No. 5, the reigning queen of Clapham's drag scene. From Brad's notorious wardrobe malfunctions to a disastrous perm attempt, Chanel gives us the lowdown on our most laugh-out-loud moments around London. With a glass of Whispering Angel wine in hand, we chat about the highs and lows of drag culture and the personal journeys within it, adding a dash of humor and insight into our crazy adventures.Imagine spending a holiday with your family in a secluded French villa, complete with poolside drama and moments of sheer joy. Relive our family holiday fiascos and celebrations, followed by a vibrant trip to Guernsey for Pride, where the atmosphere was nothing short of electric. We navigate the rollercoaster of family dynamics and the exuberance of Pride celebrations, sharing stories that are as heartfelt as they are hilarious.Get ready for a whirlwind tour of South London's nightlife, featuring mistaken identities, wild mix-ups, and Benji's infamous drunken escapade outside Subway. Whether it's a rugby-player mix-up during a show or a chaotic night at a gay networking event, our tales from Cardiff and Brighton are bound to leave you in stitches. To top it all off, we dive into a lively debate about Drag Race, fantasizing about a survival-themed mashup and dissecting the career impacts of the show. Stick around for our fun game segment, "Mr. and Mr. Benji and Brad Edition," for an extra dose of laughter and shade!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered how birthday celebrations evolve as you transition from your 20s to your 30s as a gay man? Join us as we share our hilarious and heartfelt journey through smelly shoes, nostalgic escapades, and the transformation from simple gatherings to extravagant trips. Benji takes us on a tour of his fabulous birthday adventure in "Gay Paris," while Brad reminisces about his uniquely themed 21st birthday cake. Along the way, we chat about maintaining personal freedom in relationships, especially when planning solo trips, all with our signature humor and candor.Next, prepare to be whisked away to the enchanting streets of Paris. We recount our unforgettable experiences from Disneyland Paris to the bustling city nightlife. Listen as we share amusing tales from the provocative shows at the shower club Raid to the extravagant performances at Moulin Rouge, including a jaw-dropping act involving a topless dancer and snakes. Our vivid storytelling and laughter-filled anecdotes will have you planning your own Parisian adventure in no time!We cap off the episode with some cultural critiques and a deep dive into relationship dynamics. From discussing the financial impact of the British royal family to the controversial nature of football culture, we leave no stone unturned. Then, we explore the complexities of sexual compatibility in relationships, illustrated through personal stories and listener advice. Finally, we wrap up with a call to action for our listeners to engage with us on social media and share their own queer diaries. Tune in for more laughter and insightful conversations next Wednesday!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.What happens when a bout of the sniffles meets an overdose of euphoria? Join us as we kick off this wild ride, where Benji's under-the-weather vibes clash hilariously with Brad's uncontainable energy. We reminisce about last night's escapades, introduce a suspiciously nostalgic drink, and somehow manage to preview our plans for a deeper, more introspective chat later on. Expect lots of laughs as we navigate this rollercoaster of moods and memories.Fast-forward to the minefield of modern dating. Post-lockdown, dating has its quirks and we have plenty to share from our personal lives. From the art of cutting through prolonged texting to the perils of engaging with perpetually "busy" people, we spill all the tea. Humor and genuine connection are key, but there's more: hear why some people are way more charming via text than IRL. And yes, we highlight the necessity of humor and rapport in making those connections truly meaningful.Lastly, we dive into the labyrinth of gay dating in your mid-30s. This isn't your typical dating advice session—expect real talk about the extra mental bandwidth dating requires, and the different pressures we face. With personal anecdotes and a humorous tale involving a "dog daddy" miscommunication, we paint a candid picture of our unique dating landscape. Plus, we tackle relationship dynamics, open relationships, and the Grindr effect, offering both insight and plenty of laughs.A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the Show.Get to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered how to effortlessly make queer friends in a bustling metropolis like London? Tune in to our latest episode where we unlock the secrets to forging meaningful connections within the vibrant LGBTQ+ community. From the thrill of joining a gay rugby team to the intellectual haven of Gaze the Word bookshop, we've got tips that cater to every interest. Picture yourself part of impromptu sports games at Clapham Common or enjoying a drag show featuring the fabulous Chanel Number 5. Whether you're a sports enthusiast or a literary buff, we share personal anecdotes that will inspire you to step out and make new friends.Navigating friendships isn't always smooth sailing, and sometimes, saying goodbye is necessary for your well-being. In this episode, we also tackle the often-overlooked subject of friend breakups—how to handle them gracefully and maintain a positive outlook. Our candid discussions about the emotional complexities involved offer practical advice and a dash of humor, especially when considering the unique dynamics of maintaining professional relationships in podcasting. Whether you're new to the city or looking to expand your social circle, this episode offers an invaluable guide to forming lasting connections within London's LGBTQ+ scene.A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the Show.Get to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 6: Episode 2. Benji and Brad discuss their summer holiday plans including what it is like going away as a queer person on a family holiday. Ever wondered what it's like to date a brat? Benji and Brad dive into the world of "Brat Summer," exploring how childish and self-centered behavior is changing the dating game. Plus, Benji shares a cautionary tale about a friend's overzealous use of Viagra and the stigma surrounding sexual performance. From laughs to lessons, this episode has it all, making it one you won't want to miss!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the Show.Get to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Send us a Text Message.Season 6: Episode 1. Benji and Brad are now officially back with a bang, sharing their latest escapades and teasing a lineup of fabulous guests for Season Six. Brace yourself for a whirlwind season that promises laughter, insight, and plenty of surprises.Curious about Ozempic and its buzz in the weight loss world? Benji and Brad break it all down for you, from the various forms of the drug to its effects on appetite and costs. The boys get real about societal pressures within the gay community and how this medication fits into the bigger picture of body standards. Whether you're considering Ozempic or just intrigued by the hype, Benji and Brad reveal all and share their experiences. Navigating the modern dating scene is no walk in the park, especially post-lockdown. Benji and Brad dive into the nitty-gritty of dating apps like Grindr, Tinder, and Hinge, offering a candid look at the unique challenges and mixed experiences within the gay community. From blunt rejections to unexpected connections, the boys discuss everything. Plus, don't miss the exciting updates about the different ways you can now interact with My Big Gay Podcast - your participation makes the show even better! Join us every Wednesday for all things big and gay on My Big Gay Podcast.A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the Show.Get to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Send us a Text Message.Season 6: Episode 0. Benji and Brad are back with a brand new season of My Big Gay Podcast! Join the boys in their new studio where they reveal what they've been up to so far this year. Benji and Brad share the highs and lows of adulting in the bustling city of London. From the glitter-filled fun of London Pride and Mighty Hoopla (the largest queer festival in the UK) to the daunting task of buying property. Expect candid confessions about managing finances, dealing with mortgages, and of course still finding time to have a party. To top it all off, (cheeky…), Benji and Brad dive into experiences had by the queer community including hooking up at festivals and figuring out the dating apps. Buckle up for a season opener teeming with laughter, genuine reflections, and a whole lot of fabulousness!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the Show.Get to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Join Benji and Brad for some festive fun as they chat about their lead up to Christmas, what they're getting each other as a present and how some of their Christmas parties have ended up! Happy holidays podcasters and here's to a fantastic 2024 for you all xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twenty-Five - Part Two. Fill up those glasses and join in with the second part of Benji and Brad's end of Season Five Party! They are joined by David Allwood (Mr Gay UK 2022) where they'll be getting all the answers to your questions. Plus, Benji and Brad play Shag, Marry, Ghost with David (feel free to play along and share your answers!) as well as finding out all about David's marriage story. Keep being your fabulous selves, spread kindness, live your best big gay lives and Benji and Brad will C U Next Season! xxA special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twenty-Five - Part One. IT'S PARTY TIME! Grab a drink and join Benji and Brad in their end of Season Five Finale Tea Party! Also joining them is special guest and Mr Gay Great Britain 2022, David Allwood! Benji and Brad find out what it's like to enter Mr Gay Great Britain, how to go about it and what is involved in the pageant. David shares his experience since winning the crown and talks all things Homoparody, his queer dance company based in London. Plus, Benji spills the tea on when he bumped into an ex on the tube this week!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twenty-Four. Benji and Brad are joined by the wonderful Olly Pike, who is the Chief Executive Unicorn of Pop'n'Olly. The boys discuss all things LGBTQ+ education in schools and how changes are being made to create an inclusive society. Benji and Brad also play a brand new game with Olly where they throwback to some of their favourite cartoons of the 90s! Plus, Benji opens up about his social anxiety and how he is overcoming this by joining gay social groups in London, where things haven't quite gone to plan just yet!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season Five: Episode Twenty-Three. From secret gay sex group chats to sharing your scandalous stories, Benji and Brad have all the goss this week! Plus, find out who has been having raunchy romps late at night in the local park…A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twenty-Two. Benji and Brad return from being part of Channel Island's Pride in Jersey and reveal all the shenanigans that went down over a long weekend staying with five of London's top drag queens! Ever had a hangover on a plane? Brad did, and shares his experience on how to avoid a messy situation…A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Rainbow Lottery The UK's first and only lottery supporting LGBTQ+ good causes.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twenty-One. Ever heard of fizzy poppers? Well, neither had Benji or Brad until this week! Plus, the boys share stories on exes dating exes and a new business venture is revealed involving Grindr, cash and gas…A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twenty. Brad discusses a new business idea with Benji that involves their feet, mud and baked beans… (don't ask!) Plus, Benji learns how you can get blue lips during sexual encounters… (again, don't ask!). Catch up with the boys on this week's episode of My Big Gay Podcast and all will be revealed…A special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Nineteen. Benji and Brad are back after their short summer break with brand new episodes for Season 5! Find out what the boys have been up to over the last couple of weeks including Brad's big gaycation to New York! Plus, as the Pride season comes to an end in the UK, the boys share the importance on being your true authentic self, especially with homophobia on the rise in the country. Keep spreading the love and be kind to each other xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of August!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Can you guess how many fingers Benji and Brad will take today? Well, you can also get involved as the boys put a cheeky twist on the classic 'Drop a Finger' game in their recent episode of My Big Gay Podcast! Ever wondered what it's like to date older men within the LGBTQ+ community? Or the complexities that come with 'straight' profiles popping up on Grindr? Well this week, Benji and Brad spill the tea on their personal sexual experiences, from filmed sex to intergenerational hook-ups.  Join the boys as they  connect with you, the sexy listeners, through social media and answering all those burning finger challenge questions you've sent their way. So pull up a chair, grab a drink, and join Benji and Brad in the My Big Gay Finger Challenge! A special shout out to our FWB for the month of July!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Seventeen. Benji and Brad give you another peek into the spirited world of London's queer community. From musical theatre drag bingo, open air-cinemas and the Impulse London body-positive pool party, the capital has got it going on this summer! Brad also shares his personal experience with having gynecomastia and cosmetic chest surgery, and Benji bares all on his recent experience on working in a toxic environment.A special shout out to our FWB for the month of July!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Sixteen. Join Benji and Brad this week as they go from having a chaotic spontaneous night out involving rum tasting and a stairway stumble straight into jumping on a train to co-host the first ever pride in Hinckley! The boys share a bed (again!) in a hotel, much to Benji's dismay, and hear how they got on with getting the My Big Gay Party started in Hinckley.A special shout out to our FWB for the month of July!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Fifteen. Brad gets invited to walk his first ever red carpet event, and of course it ends in absolute disaster! Benji reveals why airports are his new favourite hangout spots and the boys share your helpful tips on what to do if you are bottoming for the first time.A special shout out to our FWB for the month of July!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Fourteen. The gays were certainly on parade this weekend as Benji and Brad walked the Pride in London March together for the very first time! They share all what went down over London Pride weekend, including lots of sexual freedom and spreading the colours of the rainbow everywhere, all for the cause of celebrating that queer kid who is searching for a place to belong. Plus, Benji reveals all about a secret package that has arrived that might awaken a whole new experience for him…Thank you to all our subscribers! Your donation helps keep our podcast free and accessible to LGBTQ+ members all over the world!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of July!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Thirteen. It's been another weekend full of fun and ridiculousness as Benji and Brad go hard over the Clapham Street Party in London! From watching Mrs. Doubtfire the musical, the hottest new show in the West End, to belting out Vengaboys tunes on a mic in a straight club, it's all been another emotional time for the boys. But that's not all! As Benji and Brad gear up for Pride in London, they've got a tonne of news to share, plus they have a phenomenal competition with a prize worth a whopping one thousand pounds up for grabs, aimed at making your Pride experience even more spectacular. So come, join the boys this week where the laughs are plenty, the tears are real, and the love is all-encompassing. Let's paint London Rainbow!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of July!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Twelve. Two hungover gays, two cities… what a weekend for Benji and Brad! The boys chat about their day trip to Brighton where they ended up stranded all night! Plus, joining them this week is gay health coach Matt Boyles who talks about his experience and advice on fitness and wellbeing in the LGBTQ+ community.For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories, then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/A special shout-out to all our FWB this month! Your support for the show is so gratefully appreciated.All the big gay love xInstagramwww.instagram.com/b…Thank you to all our subscribers! Your donation helps keep our podcast free and accessible to LGBTQ+ members all over the world!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Eleven. Benji and Brad bare all as they share stories of their first kissing experiences. The boys also talk about what their weddings would be like and Brad reveals what happened to him at this year's Mighty Hoopla festival in London.For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories, then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastA special shout-out to all our FWB this month! Your support for the show is so gratefully appreciated.All the big gay love xInstagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.comThank you to all our subscribers! Your donation helps keep our podcast free and accessible to LGBTQ+ members all over the world!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Ten. Don't miss out on this week's fun-filled episode of My Big Gay Podcast with Benji and Brad. London living has never been so entertaining!The boys celebrate the legendary Tina Turner and her incredible impact on the LGBTQ+ community. Join the boys as they share a story featuring a wild brunch with her music and a hilarious Grindr experience! Plus, Benji and Brad are taking a look at the UK's first-ever gay dating reality TV show, I Kissed A Boy, discussing its diverse representation and exploring the concept of body count in relationships. So, grab your headphones and get ready to laugh along with us!For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories, then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastA special shout-out to all our FWB this month! Your support for the show is so gratefully appreciated.All the big gay love xInstagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.comThank you to all our subscribers! Your donation helps keep our podcast free and accessible to LGBTQ+ members all over the world!Channel Island Pride Channel Island Pride, supporting LGBTQ+ members within the Channel Islands!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Nine. Could it be true love at the barbers this week? Benji and Brad share stories about crushes with their barbers and the boys learn about prison kink nights in London. Plus, My Big Gay Podcast reveals some exciting news about Pride season this year! For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories, then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/A special shout-out to all our FWB this month! Your support for the show is so gratefully appreciated.All the big gay love xInstagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.comThank you to all our subscribers! Your donation helps keep our podcast free and accessible to LGBTQ+ members all over the world!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Eight. Diet cocaine and karaoke at 3:00am in one of London's most famous nightclubs? Sounds like a normal weekend for Benji and Brad! The boys share their recent weekend escapades including a questionable incident in a gym changing room. Plus, Benji and Brad learn about the Horse Fair sex parties in London. For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories, then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/A special shout-out to all our FWB this month! Your support for the show is so gratefully appreciated. All the big gay love xInstagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.comThank you to all our subscribers! Your donation helps keep our podcast free and accessible to LGBTQ+ members all over the world!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Seven. This week, Benji and Brad are joined by faithful Theo from Season One of BBC's The Traitors! The boys get all the behind-the-scenes goss from Theo on filming the hit TV show as well as discussing your first date icks. For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories, then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xA special shout out to our FWB for this month! Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.comA special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Six. Two gays, two hangovers, one party weekend… what could possibly go wrong?! Benji and Brad share their stories from a five day party weekend which involves mesh underwear, unwanted chaps and an embarrassing situation in a nightclub. Plus, the boys go deep (for your pleasure) and confess their experiences on being in love with their straight best mates. For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Five. Benji and Brad discuss their wedding proposal that happened online and the boys share their advice on moving to the city and making new friends. For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Four. Viagra, a cock ring, an angle grinder and four fireman? This sounds like a usual week on My Big Gay Podcast! This week, Benji and Brad share a gay skiing holiday disaster and Benji bares all on being a dom top. The boys reflect on the icon and legend Paul O'Grady. Rest in power.For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!A special shout out to our FWB for the month of April!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Three. Does eating pineapple really make your cum taste nicer? Well, Benji and Brad reveal their theories on this urban legend. Plus, Brad talks about his recent gaycation to Amsterdam and leads Benji through some training on how to become a successful prostitute in the Red Light District. For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of March!Along withRainbow Lottery The UK's first and only lottery supporting LGBTQ+ good causes.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode Two. Benji and Brad discover a new kink this week as they share a story involving frozen condoms! Plus the boys catch up with the director and co-writer of After the Act, a brand new musical in London about Section 28 and LGBTQ+ rights.For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.comTo get in touch with the boys or to share your stories then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcastDon't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xA special shout out to our FWB for the month of March!Along withRainbow Lottery The UK's first and only lottery supporting LGBTQ+ good causes.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 5: Episode One. Benji and Brad are back with a brand new season of My Big Gay Podcast! Follow the lives and lols of two gays in London as they share their stories on trying to find love and romance in the city amongst all the chaos that follows them. This week, Benji and Brad share their latest gym fails and Benji reveals a tale (as old as time) from a recent trip to Disneyland Paris. For more content and to become a subscriber check out www.mybiggaypodcast.com To get in touch with the boys or to share your stories then drop Benji and Brad a cheeky DM on socials @BigGayPodcast Don't forget to buy your Rainbow Lottery tickets and help raise money for some incredible LGBTQ+ causeshttps://www.rainbowlottery.co.uk/All the big gay love xSupport the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

It's time to take a break on whatever podcast you're listening to at the moment because Benji and Brad are BACK with a whole bunch of brand new episodes! So set those reminders, grab yourself a glass of your favourite tipple and put your feet up! We've missed you and can't wait to be back with you again next week. Wednesday 8th March at 6:00pm.Available to listen for free on all reputable streaming platforms. See ya then huns! xoxoSupport the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 4: Episode Twenty-One - Part Two. Grab a drink and celebrate with Benji and Brad as they continue their Season 4 Finale episode joined by special guest Instagram Influencer Dave Rich. Benji and Brad do a 30 second quickie and they get all the gossip as they ask your questions to Dave. Plus, find out who has had sex on the top table of a wedding! All this and more on the Season 4 Finale episode of My Big Gay Podcast.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 4: Episode Twenty-One - Part One. Benji and Brad are joined by Instagram fitness model Dave Rich this week as they discuss all things body image in the LGBTQ+ community. Dave reveals how he became an influencer and Brad shares a story about an underwear thief at the gym. Plus, Benji, Brad and Dave share their thoughts and experiences on Botox and cosmetic surgery. (Part 1)Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 4: Episode Twenty. Benji and Brad are back after finally recovering from their epic London Halloween weekend. Find out who has just come out of A and E and who wore their Halloween costume during a kinky hookup. The boys also learn something new about extreme sex and the human body.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 4: Episode Nineteen. Trick or treat? That's right, it's Halloween! Benji and Brad chat all things Halloween parties, their plans for celebrations this year as well as sharing a story of some flirting fails at Halloween last year. Plus, play along in their new game Disney on Crack to see how many fingers you'll be taking this Halloween! Not only that, this week you can win yourself a Big Gay Goodie Box by entering into a spooky competition. Get in touch with us across all socials @biggaypodcast and have a Happy Halloween!Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 4: Episode Eighteen. This week's episode features two very hungover gays, one party weekend! What could possibly go wrong? Benji and Brad catch you up on a weekend of events, experiences, shows and parties in London as well as the latest on their dating life. Find out who bumped into their ex out clubbing and who has some new dates lined up. Will things ever go right for the boys this week?Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com

Season 4: Episode Seventeen. Another week of madness as Benji and Brad tell about their bottomless experience at Hijingo which ends up in chaos and cruising. Plus the boys battle it out in their brand new game ‘Can You Say Who That Sing' where each answer results in a host taking two fingers… (of drink, you filthy animals!).Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com