Shot of Culture : Queer Tales over Kava and Tequila Sips

Is it emotional cheating or just "a vibe"? In this spicy episode, Lala and Peelo G. unpack the rising TikTok trend of lesbian micro-cheating—from secret DMs to thirst traps in your saved folder. Peelo G. shares her experience navigating straight women “experimenting,” and we break down that Ty Young clip on Basketball Wives that had sapphic TikTok in a chokehold.If your girl's “friend” only calls at night, this one's for you.

Lala and Peelo G. bring the heat with a no-holds-barred breakdown of lesbian sports pop culture—from Ashlyn Harris & Sophia Bush's messy timeline to Sam Kerr & Kristie Mewis's new baby and international entanglements. They analyze Azzi Fudd & Paige Bueckers' undeniable chemistry and potentially a 'soft launch.' Also, the two dive into the Angel Reese vs. Caitlin Clark foul debate including concern for the upcoming WNBA All-Star Game in Indiana. Lastly, Lala & Peelo G. mention the Sophie Cunningham contentious controversy with Phoenix Mercury CEO. Yikes. It's not just a game—it's lesbian lore in motion.

Lala's in full Taurus mode for her birthday month and nothing says celebration like Cowboy Carter live at Sofi Stadium! She and Peelo G. spill all the tea—from seeing Rumi and Blue Ivy on stage to the emotional power of Beyoncé's "American Requiem," Lala's favorite track. They break down Bey's bold Star-Spangled Banner moment as a deep reclaiming of American identity for queer and trans folks. Plus, top-tier tips for thriving at your next stadium show.When Beyoncé sings the anthem, it sounds like liberation for the girls, gays, and theys.Follow us on TikTok and Instagram - Handle @ShotofCulturePodcastEmail us: shotofculturepodcast@gmail.com

Was it a branding misstep or a WLW gift from the basketball goddesses? Lala and Peelo G. were in the building for the Golden State Valkyries' first ever preseason game. They brought the energy for their May 6 preseason game—but also brought a very familiar symbol that sent the lesbian community into over analysis mode. Peelo G. and Lala break it all down with humor, insight, and a healthy dose of queer curiosity while unpacking the fan experience, the future of Bay Area WNBA, and the “lesbian-coded” symbol that might need a little rethinking.When WNBA meets WLW energy…we see you, Valks, and we can help your marketing team with a lesbian eye for the straight gal!Follow us on TikTok and Instagram at ShotofCulturepodcastEmail: shotofculturepodcast@gmail.com

Lala and Peelo G. kick off the 2025 concert season with laughs, love, and loud opinions. Peelo G. brings their “Couch-ella” commentary on 2025's biggest festival acts while reliving that one time, Lala unexpectedly saw Lady Gaga at the Dinah Shore in 2009. Together, they preview a summer stacked with SZA, Kendrick Lamar, Beyoncé, and Pride bangers coast to coast.You don't need a wristband to feel the vibe.Follow Shot of Culture Podcast on TikTok, Instagram or YouTube at ShotofculturepodcastEmail Lala & Peelo G. - shotofculturepodcast@gmail.com

Lala and Peelo G cover it all — the thrilling 2025 WNBA draft (hi, Paige!), the Valkyries' first moves, and the Aces' luxe stadium at Mandalay Bay. But things get deeper when they unpack how lesbian fandom and queer identity play into women's basketball, and why Dijonai Carrington's “not gay like that” comment stirred up valid conversations in the culture.Follow us on Instagram and Tik Tok: @shotofculturepodcastEmail: shotofculturepodcast@gmail.com

Lala and Peelo G. kick off 2025 with a real conversation about setting intentions, protecting energy, and thriving as queer individuals in communities that don't always understand them. How do you set boundaries without guilt? What's the secret to keeping resolutions? Tune in as they drop gems to start the year strong!Note: This episode was recorded prior to #47 taking office but our positive mindset remains the same. Check out tips for staying sane to start 2025. New year, new energy! How are you protecting your peace in 2025? Let's talk about it.

Being straight-passing can feel like both a privilege and a curse. In this episode, Lala and Peelo G. break down how straight-passing lesbians and queer femmes signal their queerness in subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways. Explore the creative ways queer femmes and lesbians signal their identity to the world. From tattoos to TikTok trends, they share personal stories and unpack how signaling helps build connection in queer spaces through fashion, hairstyles, and accessories unpacking why these signals are essential for visibility and building community.Queer style isn't just fashion—it's a love letter to community.

Closure can feel impossible, but it's the key to emotional freedom. Romantic, platonic, or professional—every relationship leaves its mark. In this emotional yet funny episode, Lala and Peelo G. discuss the role of closure in healing. Peelo shares the raw truth about how their cancer journey impacted their ability to provide closure, while Lala recounts the pain of unresolved loss after someone close to her passed away from breast cancer. This episode is a testament to the strength of self-love and finding peace in the face of life's hardest lessons when someone else leaves you hanging.Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of cancer diagnosis, treatment, and loss."Sometimes, we give ourselves the closure we never got."

Join Peelo G. and Lala for an unfiltered deep dive into navigating toxic lesbian relationships. From personal heartbreak to practical wisdom, this episode explores the questions everyone should ask themselves when love turns sour.What's the cost of holding onto a love that's hurting you?

Peelo G. and Lala dive into the 2024 election results and explore what another Trump presidency means for the LGBTQ+ community. From personal reflections to collective strategies, this episode focuses on building resilience and community strength for the road ahead.Healing doesn't mean giving up—it means gearing up for what's next.

Navigating romance in your 40s comes with its own unique set of challenges, and Peelo G. isn't holding back. In this episode, they discuss how dating apps, past experiences, and personal growth have shaped their approach to love. With Lala in the co-host seat, expect laughter, insight, and even a few spicy secrets.

Is it flirting or an emotional entanglement? When does it become a "situation"? Peelo G. and Lala launch Season 3 with an eye-opening discussion on "situationships." In this tell-all episode, both confront the grey areas between admiration and inappropriateness revealing the details of a situationship that blurred professional and personal boundaries. Get insights on navigating the tricky waters of situationships and what measures to take to prevent professional boundaries from being crossed, even when the stakes are high.

Join us for a fun conversation with Ashley Hankins, recipe developer, photographer and content creator behind Eat Figs, Not Pigs. We learn about her personal journey, love for cooking, and transition to healthy vegan eating. Ashley shares her motivation for writing her first cookbook, Make it Vegan: From Quick & Easy to Deep Fried & Delicious. We also learn about her Filipino Heritage, coming out story and acceptance in the community.

Join Lala and PeeLo G. as they uncover the rhythm and heartbeat of San Francisco's nightlife scene with Valerie Ganda. From iconic beginnings to underground parties, Valerie's journey as a DJ, business owner and event producer sheds light on the transformative power of music and community in LGBTQ+ spaces. Valerie highlights her personal coming out story to navigating the vibrant SF nightlife and event production landscape. She shares challenges and triumphs that shape her identity -- plus a few stories into her personal dating life!

Join hosts Lala and Peelo G as they sit down with the one and only Yoly Rojas for a special episode of Shot of Culture Podcast. As an immigrant and first-generation American, Yoly's story is both inspiring and empowering, and in this intimate conversation, she shares her journey of pursuing her dreams.From her latest business ventures to her thoughts on love and relationships, Yoly doesn't hold back as she opens up about the highs and lows of her life. With warmth and humor, she shares the inspiration behind the newly produced Lovers and Friends party in Oakland, discussing the importance of creating inclusive spaces where people from all walks of life can come together to celebrate love and friendship.But the conversation doesn't stop there – Yoly also delves into the topic of love, sharing her experiences and insights on finding happiness in a new relationship. With honesty and candor, she offers advice and reflections for listeners who may be navigating their own journey to love and fulfillment.And of course, Yoly doesn't shy away from addressing the "masc" shortage – a topic that has been the subject of much discussion within the LGBTQ+ community. With thoughtfulness and nuance, she shares her perspectives on masculinity and its evolving role in society, challenging stereotypes and offering a fresh take on an important issue.Whether you're a fan of Yoly's work or just discovering her for the first time, this podcast episode is a must-listen. Join Yoly, Lala, and Peelo G for a conversation that is sure to inspire, entertain, and enlighten.

April 6, 2024 is the kickoff of the WNFC - Women's Professional Tackle Football's 5th season! Join the fun with WNFC's most decorated Head Coach Odessa "OJ" Jenkins. OJ is the CEO of Bonfire Women, a tech accelerator focused on investing in women to accelerate business. Hear about OJ's thoughts regarding DEI efforts across industries as well as pertinent story lines in the WNFC in 2024. Invest in women!

In this episode Lala and Peelo G. share their thoughts on the season so far including some upcoming guests! They discuss their upcoming trip to NYC as well as on location recordings. Let them know who to interview or where to go to next!

Montana Hooks, Founder of Queer in Oakland joins Peelo G. and Lala as they explore the queer community scene in Oakland and the greater Bay Area. Learn how Montana built a community that supports Queer & Trans Folx in the Bay, her astrological and tarot insights plus her favorite Queer, Black, owned spots.

Lala & Peelo G. are on location at Mother Bar located in the historic Mission District of San Francisco. Journey with Malia Spanyol, the owner of Mother Bar as she recounts her passion for creating the space, the historic significance of femme centered dyke bars and what it means to "protect our space."

In this episode Musician, Keeana Kee joins Peelo G. and Lala. She talks about growing up in Latvia, moving to London and eventually the United States all while navigating her identity as a lesbian woman. Kee shares stories about her sister and mother's initial lack of acceptance and the impactful stories that shaped their change of mind. She also mentions her music, its inspiration and her deviation into a new realm in 2024!

In Episode 2 of Season 2, Peelo G. and Lala invite Founder, Director and Indian Contemporary Dancer, Amit Patel to the show. Learn about how he fused his intersections as a First Generation, Gay, South Asian man through art and dance all while wearing stilettos.

Lala & Peelo G. set the stage for Season 2 including what to expect, their manifestations and goals for 2024! There's been some changes particularly regarding relationships. There's also a sneak peek at the over 10 guests they have in-store for Season 2. Lastly, what exactly is a 2.0 era?! You don't want to miss the fun!

What is a vanilla baby?! Is it a “mid-life crisis” or just the 2.0 version of ourselves? What does 2024 have in store for Shot of Culture? Find out the answers to these questions and more in our end of 2023 update.

In this final episode of Season 1 - Peelo G. and Pratibha take on the "red carpet" at the Dinah 2023. There was "a brush of the lips" and Gay Q&A hilarity. Find out what this year's Dinah felt like the entire week from Wednesday to Sunday; surprising stories as well as what's next for Peelo G. and Pratibha next season in 2024.

Join us for an intimate conversation with Marissa Alma Nick as she shares her journey from a successful career as a Choreographer & Director to now author of her recently released novel REBEL IN VENUS. A semi-autobiographical story highlighting queer experiences, complex situations arising from the intersectionality of queer identities, mental health, and trauma.Of course we also have Marissa join in on our fun and playful segment of Gay Q&A ! She reveals: Top, Bottom, or Switch. We also get to hear which L Word character she most relates to. Can you guess who that is??Her book is available now at local book stores or at Amazon: https://a.co/d/7YaQA8Y.#LGBTQIA+ #LGBTQIAPodcast #LGBTQIAcommunity #FirstGeneration #minoritypodcast #over40 #conversations #comingout #relationships #selfacceptance #personalstories #representation #openconversations #safespace #empoweringstories #popculture #gaymedia #artist #writer #rebelinvenus

Pratibha and Peelo G. dive into common questions they get as queer people including: "Top, Bottom, Switch" culture, crossing boundaries with friends or co-workers, and interracial dating - Do we? Don't we? IDK...

In this episode we interview Mariah Hanson, CEO/Founder of Club Skirts and the Dinah weekend exploring two decades of history, community building and queer joy that is the Dinah weekend. Plan for Dinah 2023 and find out what's in Mariah's "Dinah suitcase" as we play our favorite segment, "Gay Q&A". What does Mariah think of "uhauling" and what's her advice for newbies coming to the Dinah for the first time ever?! Find out in this episode!

Pratibha and Peelo G. reflect on the month of August and several queer inspired concerts including the Gloria Tour - Sam Smith, Jessie Reyez and the Queen Bey herself - Beyoncé. Hear their thoughts on the Renaissance World Tour and what it felt like to be anointed into the Beehive, the evolution of Sam Smith and an intro to Jessie Reyez.

The age old question, how do queer people have seggs?! Take a trip with us as we explore the ways in which we learned about queer sex as first generation people. What cultural landmarks in SF left impressions on us and what about toys??? How do you define queer sex?

Pratibha and her plus one step out for a night on the town, but are met with road rage before embarking on lesbian camping 2.0. Peelo has a new lady friend (that they're awfully shy about). Will we learn more? The two also reminisce about younger years including lesbian camping 1.0 that lives in "infamy"?!

Imagine a world full of sun, swim and scantily clad queer women everywhere - that's Dinah Shore Weekend! in this episode Peelo G. and Pratibha recant their last Dinah adventure (when they were both single and ready to mingle). Is a 2023 reunion possible? We'll see!

In this episode we celebrate Gabby Windey's recent coming out story! What happens after love is declared? Uhaul? Come hang with us to hear more!

In this episode, we dive into our thoughts on dating straight women. Does Prati dip her toe in the straight lady pond? Does she finally escort women into the promised land? How many toaster ovens has Peelo G collected?

Peelo G. celebrates their 45th birthday in Las Vegas attending the WNBA All-Star Game while spending a night (or two) out and about. Pratibha keeps things low-key in San Diego, celebrating Pride weekend with her family and allies. The two discuss big milestones in life including the fact that they've officially published this podcast!

In Episode 7, Peelo G. and Pratibha recap tales from Sunday of SF Pride as well as the low's related to the SCOTUS decisions later in the week. This more serious episode looks at the not so fun aspects of queer life, the struggle for equal rights and perseverance to continue on despite the regression of queer rights.

In this episode Peelo G. and Pratibha discuss being too old at the Club while celebrating SF Pride (boobs may have been out…), the importance of Pride during this political climate and how Peelo G. had no success being hit on (or did they)? hmmm.....Take a listen because it definitely sounds like Peelo G. had some success.

In this episode, Peelo G. and Pratibha tackle common scenarios in the queer community through the following questions: - What do you do when you don't like the person that your best friend is dating?- What about when your friend is holding back around their new partner? - How do you feel about freeloading new partners? - How do you introduce your new partner to your family for the first time?- How did your parents react to you getting married? - Should you stay friends with an ex?- What about an ex that cheated on you?- What do you do when you notice a friend of your partner is into them?

Peelo G. and Pratibha dive into Netflix's - "Ultimatum Queer Love" review. In Episode 2, we shared some of our thoughts about this show however in this episode, we dive deeper. Let's Go!

Peelo G. and Pratibha share more about their love life and what has (or hasn't) worked for them as 40 something queer people.

We dive into queer shows like the L Word, Queer Eye and other shows talking about media representation as well as how it relates to our “coming out” stories.

Join us as we embark upon our podcasting journey. In this first episode we'll tell you why we're starting our own podcast as well as what to expect from us in the future!