Sincerely, Future You

This is episode 275, and it marks the end of an era for Sincerely, Future You.After 274 episodes spanning five years through births, launches, travel, and countless life transformations, this conversation feels complete. I've explored every question that burned in my mind when I started, experimented with concepts that have literally changed bank accounts, and watched women take maternity leaves, leave full-time jobs, and release thoughts that were giving them ulcers—all because of ideas we've shared in this space. So, this episode is a love letter to my past self. It's an affirmation of all that she knew but didn't know why she knew. I hope this episode helps you see yourself more clearly, and don't worry, this won't be the last time you hear from me. I've got a fun, new conversation brewing, and it's hitting the airwaves in August. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/275

Have you ever achieved a big goal only to feel... empty? Maybe you hit that revenue target, scaled your business, or finally mastered your schedule. But something still feels missing.In this episode, I dive into a deceptively simple yet transformative question that successful business owners need to answer: "What is your time for?" This week, I share my personal, extensive list of what time means to me - from making things more fun and having deep conversations to receiving uncomfortable amounts of money and being present for my children's development. This isn't about slowing down; it's about being intentional with the only time we have on earth.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/274

The emotional highs and lows of entrepreneurship can feel like whiplash, pulling us between euphoric wins and crushing setbacks. As business owners, we often look to past results to validate our progress and worth, creating an unhealthy cycle of emotional dependence on outcomes.Leading indicators predict future success while lagging indicators measure past performance. Understanding the difference between these metrics - and where to focus our attention - can transform how we show up in our businesses. When we celebrate the actions and mindset that create results, rather than just the results themselves, we build sustainable confidence that withstands market fluctuations.Join me this week as I break down why over-focusing on lagging indicators puts us on an emotional rollercoaster, reinforces logical (rather than revolutionary) growth strategies, and creates limiting narratives about what's possible.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/273

You know I'm here for big money goals—but what happens when you actually hit them? In this episode, I'm talking to my client and friend Raquel Carranza, a Masterful CEO who built a wildly profitable life on her terms. We're pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to shift from chasing income to creating a life and business that feels aligned, exciting, and rich in every sense of the word. We talk about redefining wealth, ditching hustle culture, and creating space for what matters most—like sabbaticals, yacht-lunch goals, and raising generous, present kids.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/272

I'm breaking format today because I've been sick for a week, and I'm channeling all my energy to what matters most – my students. Instead of creating a brand new episode, I'm sharing an impromptu speech I recently gave to my mastermind students. Join me this week as I show you what it means to prioritize what matters when life throws challenges your way. This mini hype session is designed to shake you up, remind you of your power, and inspire you to make the bold move that will open your next chapter.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/271

Are you playing it too safe in your business? Are you going for it in a consistent way, or are you taking huge leaps forward? The most successful entrepreneurs don't just show up consistently. They make bold, audacious moves that set them apart from everyone else who's also being consistent. While putting in the daily work matters, it's those unexpected, risky decisions that truly change the game.In this episode, I'm diving into the power of bold moves and why they're the secret ingredient to quantum leaping your business. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/270

Is your romantic relationship helping or hindering your business growth? This week, I'm diving deep into the ROI of romance – what a supportive relationship actually does and doesn't do for your business growth. Whether you're currently single, partnered with someone who doesn't "get" your business, or have found your perfect match, this conversation will reshape how you think about the intersection of love and entrepreneurship. The lessons I've learned between husbands have been some of the most valuable for my business success, and I'm sharing them all with you today.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/269

Have you ever felt like you've had access to a cheat code? That moment when you just get something about business, relationships, money, or life that feels like an unfair advantage? Join me this week as I share three of my personal cheat codes that have transformed my business journey. From embracing failure collection as a path to invincibility, to using identity-shifting language to skip levels, to unlocking hidden content through cross-pollination of ideas – these are the strategies that have helped me level up.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/268

What does it truly mean to lead like a woman in a traditionally male-dominated industry? Today, I'm joined by Barb Anderson, CEO of Cattnach Insurance Agency and a remarkable leader who has transformed her approach to business leadership. In this conversation, Barb shares her journey of transformation, and her story demonstrates that you can lead powerfully as a woman without sacrificing your wellbeing or adopting traditionally masculine leadership styles.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/267

Are you chasing a big money milestone right now?What if everything you thought about reaching a million dollars in revenue was wrong?In this week's episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what reaching seven figures actually taught me about business, success, and what really matters.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/266

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the accountability standard that makes a true leader worth revering. If your future self has grown in leadership, she must also grow in accountability. I'll share why accountability sets you free rather than constrains you, how it creates psychological safety for your team and clients, and why it's the foundation for sustainable business growth. Get ready for a fierce message and a swift kick in the pants—because true leadership demands nothing less than 100% accountability.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/265

Are you tired of feeling like interruptions and procrastination are stealing your time? What if I told you that fighting against these "time wasters" is actually what's costing you the most time?In this episode, I close out my mini-series on how to stop wasting time by addressing interruptions and procrastination, and how you can set yourself up to never be affected by these again.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/264

Have you ever wondered what it really takes to run a successful brick-and-mortar business in a world where most people start their businesses online? In this episode, I sit down with Michele Meglio, CEO and owner of The Huntington Loft, a thriving event space in the heart of Huntington, Long Island. Michele shares her journey from corporate sales professional to brick-and-mortar business owner, including the challenges of balancing her full-time job, motherhood, and entrepreneurship.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/263

What if I told you that doubling your revenue doesn't have to mean doubling your working hours?In fact, what if you could make more while working less?This week's episode features my Masterful CEO $chool client Nicole Imbasciani, who went from working 60-hour weeks as a nurse to achieving both time freedom AND financial success as the owner of Rockstar Recovery & Wellness.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/262

Ever catch yourself thinking about all the time you've "wasted" on things that didn't work out?When something doesn't go as planned, it's easy to feel like you've lost precious time. But what if I told you that those "failures" are actually saving you time in the long run?In this week's episode of Sincerely Future You, I'm breaking down why failure isn't just inevitable - it's essential for your growth as a CEO.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/261

Are you tired of feeling like you're constantly wasting time in your business? Here's the truth: what you think is wasting your time probably isn't what's actually holding you back.In this week's episode, I break down the first of four categories of wasted time that I've identified after nearly a decade of coaching ambitious women.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/260

Are you playing the money game to win… or are you just trying not to lose? In this week's episode, I'm challenging you to rethink your approach to earning, spending, saving, investing, having, and giving money. I also share the key mindset shifts and practical strategies to help you break through your financial thermostat and attract abundance.If you're ready to stop playing small and start playing the money game at the next level, this episode is a must-listen. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/259

Do you find yourself constantly trying to get the most bang for your buck, ensuring you maximize every experience and investment? While the intention is good, this approach might actually be holding you back.In this episode, I dive into the difference between mature maximization and micromanaged maximization. Learn how being hyper-present and committed to amazing results no matter what can transform your life and business, and discover the freedom and opportunity that comes with letting go of the need to control every detail.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/258

Have you ever been part of a community or team that just clicked? Where the energy was electric and the results were through the roof?What if I told you that kind of magical chemistry isn't just luck - it can be created intentionally, brick by brick.In this week's episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I crafted otherworldly chemistry in my mastermind. From being the energetic match to going deep in marketing and delivery to putting your group's best on display, you'll learn the key decisions that add up to unmatched connection and results.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/257

Imagine gaining the most powerful lessons you could learn in life and business from your own father.As I celebrate my dad's 60th birthday, I pay forward the wisdom he has instilled in me over the years - the same values that have led me to build an incredible business and kick-ass life. From "can't" being a curse word to happiness being a choice, these nine lessons will blow your mind. These aren't just feel-good platitudes - they're actionable mindsets that can transform how you approach your business and life.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/256

Are you tired of being the world's best-kept secret? You know your product or service is elite, but do you find yourself getting lost in the noise of your industry? It's time to carve out your lane and position yourself as THE authority. In this week's episode, I share the exact steps I took to reinvent my positioning and activate the multi-six and seven-figure earners I wanted to work with. Tune in to learn how you can apply these same principles in your business, no matter what stage you're at. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/255

Do you ever wonder what really goes on behind the scenes of a successful business? In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain and sharing every detail of my 2024 annual report. I'm talking revenue numbers, expenses, marketing strategies, and the big moves I made to grow my business while still prioritizing my family and personal life. You'll hear what worked, what didn't, and how I refined my messaging to become known for balance as an ambitious woman. I believe transparency serves the greater good, so I'm not holding anything back. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/254

Have you ever felt torn between your family and your career ambitions?In this episode, I'm joined by a woman who is an inspiration to me in so many ways. I sit down with the one-and-only Kiya Tomlin, founder of Kiya Tomlin Fashion, to discuss her journey as an entrepreneur, wife, and mother of three.Kiya Tomlin opens up about growing her fashion brand while being a dedicated mom and NFL coach's wife. She shares valuable insights on overcoming self-doubt, embracing challenges, and staying true to your vision.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/253

Have you ever wished you could have a conversation with your future self? What wisdom would she share about the choices you're making today and the goals you're striving towards? For the past 10 years, I've kicked off each new year by writing a letter to my future self - and it has been transformational. In this special episode, I invite you to do the same to reverse-engineer your success in 2025.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/252

Imagine having a front-row seat to conversations with people who are where you want to be. This week, I give you insider access to a coaching call with my highest-level mastermind clients, where you'll hear their real-time breakthroughs and "a-ha" moments as they step into the next level of their leadership. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/251

What if you could get a glimpse into your future self's playbook? In this milestone episode of the podcast, I share the top shoutouts and wisdom I would give my past self based on the past 5 years of building a big life and business. From the power of paid mentorship to going all-in on your goals, discover the mindsets and choices that have been absolute game-changers and that can help make 2025 your best year yet. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/250

Want to make this December your most magical AND productive month yet? It's time to reinvent how you approach the holidays as a CEO. You get to decide what your time looks like, whether that means taking a full week off to sip hot cocoa or strategically working a few hours here and there between festive fun. The key is being intentional about your schedule and stretching your capacity for what's possible, and in this episode, I share my top tips on savvy holiday time management. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/249

Are you exhausted from making too many decisions each day? The real culprit may surprise you - it's not decision fatigue, but indecision fatigue. In this eye-opening episode, I reveal the true source of your exhaustion, and show you how to make decisions faster and with conviction so you can step into your power as a decisive, unstoppable force.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/248

Do you ever feel like you're drowning in the pursuit of a big life? Like you're constantly juggling multiple passions and priorities, but never quite achieving the balance you crave? In this episode, I sit down with Jaclyn Weiss, a multi-passionate entrepreneur, to uncover the secrets to pursuing a big life while juggling multiple businesses and a family. Get ready to be inspired to take messy action towards your own level 10 life! Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/247

Are you ready to take your gratitude practice to savage levels? This week, we're diving deep into gratitude—not the Pinterest-perfect kind, but the kind that thanks your past and future selves, even when things feel messy. I'm introducing you to savage gratitude—a radical way to embrace and be thankful for the challenges no one asks for. The kind of gratitude that, when mastered, doesn't just shift your mindset—it can transform your body and your bank account. Yes, it's that powerful. If you're ready to finish 2024 with clarity, confidence, and maybe even a little badassery, this is the episode you don't want to miss. Let's make 2025 your strongest year yet.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/246

Do you feel like there's never enough time in the day? Are you constantly juggling priorities, feeling guilty about not doing enough, or putting off big projects because you don't know where to start?Future you is a master of her schedule, so tune in this week to discover how to rewire your time. You'll leave with a clear understanding of the thought errors and limiting beliefs that are holding you back from becoming a true time witch.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/245

Are you feeling uncertain, anxious, or even outraged about the outcome of the election? Is it impacting your ability to lead?There are some key differences between how an average CEO would react to their candidate losing the election and how a Masterful CEO responds. Tune in this week to discover seven differences between the two and why it's crucial to focus on what you can control. You'll also learn the importance of processing emotions in a healthy way, connecting with people who have different perspectives, and selling with love and compassion.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/244

What if I told you that the key to unlocking your full potential as a CEO lies not in what you do, but in how you think?From your marketing copy and your selling techniques to your boundaries, energy, and posture, there are sneaky ways that sloppy thought management keeps your business small and your stress levels high, and I expose them in today's episode. You'll learn strategies you can implement right now to identify and overcome the limiting beliefs and other low quality thoughts that are holding your business back. Let's go!Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/243

Do you constantly overthink everything you say and do in social situations? Are you struggling to feel connected to your friends and community, especially as you navigate the challenges of growing your business? It's easy to get caught up in the mental load of managing our marketing, finances, and team, but when we neglect our own social fitness, it can take a toll on our ability to show up fully in our business.To explore this with me, I'm joined by connection coach Jewel Hohman. We discuss how social perfectionism and overthinking can hold us back in both our personal and professional lives, and Jewel shares her own journey of overcoming social anxiety and building meaningful friendships. Tune in this week as Jewel offers insights on how to create habits, routines, and traditions with your people to ensure your connection buckets stay full, even when life gets busy.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/242

Lehdis Zomerfeld took a leap of faith and started her first business, New York Maid Easy, a residential and commercial cleaning company. But she didn't stop there. Inspired by her mother's legacy, Lehdis launched a second business, Noravie, an athletic apparel company for women who put themselves first. She did all of this while still working her corporate job, which she made the decision to leave, and she hasn't looked back since.In this episode, Lehdis shares her journey from corporate employee to multi-passionate CEO. She opens up about the challenges of launching a business while pregnant, the importance of surrounding yourself with inspiring people, and how prioritizing your own well-being is essential for success in all areas of life. Get ready to be inspired to fall in love with yourself first and create a life and business that truly lights you up.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/241

Want to get booked as a speaker but don't know where to start? I've got you. Whether you're an experienced entrepreneur or just starting out, speaking gigs can be a game-changer for your brand, your revenue, and your personal growth. In this episode, I demystify the process of getting started and show you how you can book your first speaking gig as soon as this week.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/240

Do you hate being wrong? Does your brain go into defense mode when someone disagrees with you? If so, you're not alone. But what if being wrong could actually be the key to unlocking massive growth in your business and personal life?Get ready for an episode that will rock your world and change the way you think about being right and wrong. Having productive disagreements can lead to transformative insights and breakthroughs in your business, you just need to help your brain see that it's safe to be wrong sometimes. By neutralizing the threat response triggered by being wrong, we can grow exponentially faster and become empowered, effective CEOs.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/239

Being a successful business owner means you need to master two distinct things: your emotions and your numbers. But have you ever considered combining these two and using unconditional love as a business strategy? It may sound unconventional, but stick with me.This week, I explore what it means to abide by the philosophy of unconditional love in your business. I share tangible actions you can take to start implementing this powerful strategy today, discuss the transformative effects it can have on your bottom line and overall fulfillment as a CEO, and you'll learn how to spot where you're judging in your business instead of blessing, releasing, and moving forward.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/238

Have you ever felt like you were doing all the right things in your life and business, but still felt exhausted, overwhelmed, and unfulfilled? This is a common experience for those of my clients in more traditional industries. But how do you break free from the constant grind and truly enjoy the life you've worked hard to create?Dr. April Guminsky joins me this week to share her transformative journey from burned out doctor to purposeful medical practice owner. You'll discover the key mindset shifts and practical tools that have empowered April to open up the faucet of her potential, start writing a book, and redesign her medical practice to align with her deepest values. Whether you're in a traditional industry or forging your own path, April's insights will inspire you to embrace possibility, live your purpose, and love your life.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/237

Have you ever felt like scaling your business meant sacrificing your mental health and well-being? If you have a tendency to neglect yourself in the process of growth, you're going to learn a ton from what my guest this week has to share.Hayley Hilfer is the co-owner of Sublime Exposure Films, a wedding videography company that documents your epic love story and turns it into a cinematic masterpiece. Her story will inspire you to approach entrepreneurship with intention, resilience, and a commitment to your own well-being. We discuss the challenges of working with a romantic partner, shifting from saver to intentional spender and investor, and prioritizing self-care during busy seasons. Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/236

Jenn Fasano is a community leader and founder of Babes in Business Long Island. Her community has become a second home for me and my business, and she's here to share her journey of creating a thriving networking community for women entrepreneurs, offering insights into authentic relationship-building and business growth.Tune in this week as Jenn and I explore the power of authenticity in business, the balance between giving and receiving, and the importance of creating spaces where women can show up as our full selves. We dive into strategies for building lasting relationships, making impactful decisions, and navigating the entrepreneurial journey with integrity.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/235

Have you ever felt like you were meant for more but didn't know how to get there? Maybe you've seen others create incredible success, but you're not sure it's ever going to happen for you. Well, you'd be amazed at what's possible when you surround yourself with the right people. My guest this week is Tina Patel, founder of Spaced by T. She joins me to share her journey from self-doubt and indecision to courage, joy, and exponential business growth. Tina opens up about how investing in a coaching program and being part of a community of high-achieving female entrepreneurs has elevated her mindset, decision-making, and skyrocketed the growth of her business.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/234

As CEOs, we often fall into the trap of thinking that happiness is the ultimate goal. But the truth is that the pursuit of our goals, the challenges, the failures, and the triumphs are what make us feel truly alive. This episode is a little bit different, as I explore some valuable lessons from Inside Out 2 that will help you embrace the full spectrum of emotions on your journey to success.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/233

The 2025 group of The Masterful CEO $chool is now open for enrollment! The next live event will be in Costa Rica in January 2025, and you can enroll by clicking here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/masterful-ceo-school

If you're ready to break free from the grind and create a business and life you love, this episode is a must-listen. I sat down with my client Kate McKeever, a CPA and fractional CEO for fellow hot-girl business owners, to uncover the mindset shifts and strategic moves that allowed her to go from side hustling to massively surpassing her corporate salary in less than a year.Kate's journey in Masterful CEO $chool is a testament to the power of betting on yourself and taking calculated risks. She shares how she knew it was time to make the leap, the networking strategies that helped her land her first clients, and the daily practices that keep her in the belief of her inevitable success. Get full show notes and more information here:

Have you ever felt like your business was running you instead of the other way around? Today's guest, Ina Visich, knows that feeling all too well. As the owner of multiple businesses, Ina has experienced the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, from the thrill of starting a new venture to the burnout of working around the clock. But through it all, she's learned that the key to success is doing the hard things and collecting failures along the way.In this episode, Ina shares her incredible journey from growing up in poverty in the Soviet Union to building a thriving wellness empire in the United States. She talks about the importance of integrity, honesty, and open communication in business, and how she's learned to let go of the things that no longer serve her.Get full show notes and more information here: www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/231

Prioritizing business reserves is a financial practice that separates the companies that I bet on long term from those companies that just focus on hustling to make more and more each year. If you want staying power without overworking yourself, it's time to focus on building your business reserves and taking aligned risks that light you up.Tune in this week to discover how business reserves are the real freedom creator in the business world. I share why masterful CEOs don't just go out there to hustle and earn, and you'll learn how the practice of prioritizing business reserves will help you in creating a truly sustainable business that lasts for the long haul.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/230

If you've ever felt frustrated that your carefully laid out plans never seem to work out the way you envisioned, listen up. The solution isn't to stop planning altogether... you just need a perspective shift, and in this episode, I'm giving it to you. I share three powerful examples of how to unlock next-level business growth without rigid plans. Get ready for a shift that will have you feeling inspired to dream big and take messy action!Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/229

Join me this week as I spill the beans on three poisonous thoughts that are holding you back from the money, time, and peace you want. You'll learn how a mismanagement of your brain is the culprit to the slow growth you're experiencing, how to identify where there might be some sneaky thoughts showing up for you, and my tips for getting more intentional with the memos you're giving your brain.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/228

How do you find your ideal people and grow your online presence in a constantly changing digital world? Are you overwhelmed by the gurus out there telling you what to do? And what do you do if social media has started to feel like a scammy place that you no longer feel aligned to?Vicki Pollack is a dear friend and online marketer who defines herself as a sarcastic New Yorker who helps digital entrepreneurs get started and be better. She joins me to share how she's grown a very large audience quickly and what it takes to find success in the online world. She's offering her thoughts on the balance between strategy and experimentation, the importance of learning how to come back to yourself, and a simple formula for targeting your ideal audience, no matter what kind of online business you own.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/227

Join me this week as I highlight three ways you might be overcomplicating your business, and why we fall into these traps as entrepreneurs. You'll hear why women especially need reminders that business can be simple, and how growing your business simply is what will define your growth and allow you to have both a big business and a big life.Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sincerelyfutureyou.com/226