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Finding Empowerment through Sex Work as a Korean Adoptee with Kayla Tange "I can be in my body, and in that moment, I feel safe." -- Kayla Tange EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the privilege of speaking with Kayla Tange, a Korean adoptee raised by Japanese-American parents. She has navigated a unique and complex journey through life as an exotic dancer, performance artist, and sex worker. Kayla shared her adoption story, detailing her early life in an orphanage in Seoul before being adopted at six months old. We explored how her experiences with ADHD and autism influenced her career choices and her desire for connection. Kayla candidly discussed her entry into the world of sex work, revealing how it provided her with a sense of empowerment and control over her body—something she felt was taken from her during her adoption. Throughout our conversation, we touched on the themes of identity, belonging, and the emotional complexities that come with being an adoptee. Kayla's reflections on her work and the connections she forms with clients highlighted the often misunderstood aspects of sex work, challenging stereotypes and emphasizing the agency she feels in her choices. Kayla also read a powerful piece from her contribution to the anthology Whorephobia, which delves into her experiences and emotions surrounding her adoption and her work. Her insights offered a profound understanding of the intersections between adoption, identity, and the search for belonging. This episode is a deep dive into the complexities of adoption and the ways in which individuals navigate their identities and experiences. I encourage listeners to reflect on Kayla's story and the broader implications it has for understanding adoption and the diverse paths that adoptees may take. ===============
On today's episode we have surrogate partner Katherine Yeagel (all pronouns) join us for a conversation about expanding our cultural imagination around sex work. Together we talk about exploring sex work for pleasure and the connection to solo-polyamory, submitting to the kinkiness of our interconnection, and how our relationships shape our reality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community and support the long term sustainability of the show, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/170-liberating-our-pleasure-and-labor-from-whorephobia-with-katherine-yeagel Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/modernanarchypodcast Katherine's Community: Katherine is a surrogate partner, somatic sex educator, and queer sex & relationship coach living in Western Massachusetts on Nonotuck, Pocomtuc, and Nipmuc land. Website: https://katherineyeagel.com/ Insta: https://www.instagram.com/katherineyeagel/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDbmqJ2CXDSnsLjZKxJbMDg Resources: Episode 98: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/267015d0/98-the-transformation-of-kink-and-surrogate-partner-therapy-safety-honesty-and-play-with-brandon-hunter-haydon Episode 85: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/35cf1c3c/85-embracing-your-sluthood-and-geeking-out-about-relationship-anarchy-with-brian-gibney Episode 75: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/2e01b047/75-erotic-creativity-surrogate-partner-therapy-slowing-down-sex-and-relationship-anarchy-with-carlene-ostedgaard Sugar Babies Research: https://tcsppsrf.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/gbaumanngrf.pdf
The ladies continue the conversation with Kaytlin Bailey, a globally recognized leader in the sex worker rights movement. She is the creator of the non-profit 501c3 Old Pros - a media organization set up to create the conditions to change the status of sex workers in society.This episode includes personal stories to illustrate various points, for example:Where did the term sex work come from and why is it used?What are sex worker rights?Why should the rights of sex workers matter to you?Who is sex worker? Why is that term used as an umbrella term?What are some political changes that currently make in-person consensual sex work more dangerous?Learn about the gap between what legislators say they want to do and how laws actually affect people.How does current legislation effect legal sex workers, the BDSM / kink community, and LGBTQ people?What can you do to help support the ladies you know, adore and cherish?Kaytlin is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession podcast. This podcast is designed to use storytelling to shift beliefs and break down taboos about consensual sex work. The Oldest Profession podcast is now in season 5 and reclaims the history of individual sex workers by showing who we are as entrepreneurs, rebels, visionaries and community builders.This episode takes you inside some of the things we, as sex workers, talk about, work for and want for our community - not just for adult content creators, providers and kinksters but also for clients.Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/Sign up for the newsletter!! https://kaytlinbailey.com/Decriminilize Sex Work: https://decriminalizesex.work/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Who's leveling up in the game of life? Raise a toast and light some virtual candles because GETSOME turns one today! Listen to the three knowledge bombs dropped over the past year that expanded our minds like cosmic jelly beans.
Brian speaks with Dr. Meredith Ralston. Dr. Ralston is a Professor, Department of Women's Studies/Political Studies at Mount Saint Vincent University in Halifax and the author of “Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution”. She was commissioned to present a report to the Mass Casualty Commission report about a mass murder in Nova Scotia. Mass Casualty Commission report details the Nova Scotia shooter's abuse of sex workers.
It's just me Mila ! Join me in a discussion about shame and internalized whorephobia ! Sources : https://wellcomecollection.org/articles/XrVSwxAAACQAbRUu https://www.loladavina.com & My own experiences.
I'm taking a little break, but I'll be back on October 5th with a brand new season full of hot n spicys. In the meantime, check out a few of my favorite episodes (these links are for Apple Podcasts, but these episodes are available wherever you stream):What Does it Mean to Decriminalize Sex Work?Whorephobia in Belly Dance & Pole DanceDate Smarter, Not HarderStay connected with A Stripper's Guide through the newsletter, Instagram, and astrippersguide.comLove the show? Leave a rating and review! It means so much
On this episode of Below the Radar, host Am Johal is joined by Lizzie Borden, an independent filmmaker who's been directing & creating since the 1970s. Lizzie describes her unique creative journey, as a filmmaker who never went to film school and instead came into filmmaking after studying visual arts. She discusses her inspirations, which vary from gallery art, to second-wave feminism, to women in Marxism. She also dives into her colourful filmography: Regrouping, her 1976 experimental documentary, Born in Flames, her 1983 documentary-style fiction film, and Working Girls, her 1986 drama film looking at the lives of sex workers. Touching on both past and present, Lizzie speaks on her creative process, with intentional editing and aesthetics and the search for intersectionality in her work--even before "intersectionality" was a commonly-used term. She talks about independent filmmaking, and how trying out alternatives only solidified it as her practice of choice. She also looks at the conversations still being held today around her work, especially Born in Flames, with its socialist setting and political message still sparking conversation. Resources: Born in Flames Website: https://www.borninflamesmovie.com/ Lizzie Borden's Twitter: https://twitter.com/lizziebordenla?lang=en Whorephobia, Lizzie's upcoming book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/711521/whorephobia-by-lizzie-borden/9781644212271 Coverage on the restoration of Regrouping: https://www2.bfi.org.uk/news-opinion/sight-sound-magazine/comment/festivals/regrouping-lizzie-borden-edinburgh-2016-revival Bio: Award-winning feminist filmmaker Lizzie Borden is best known for the 1983 film Born in Flames. Borden's career as a feminist filmmaker began when she majored in art at Wellesley College in Massachusetts before moving to New York. Her early films take on hot topics in the feminist movement with visual representations of struggles for equality in race, class, gender, and sexuality. Her later films focus on women's sexuality, and her attempts to move into more mainstream film in the 1990's were challenged by studio politics. She continues to work in film today as a script doctor while developing her own projects. Citation: Chicago Style Johal, Am. “Born in Flames — with Lizzie Borden.” Below the Radar, SFU's Vancity Office of Community Engagement. Podcast audio, September 6, 2022. https://www.sfu.ca/vancity-office-community-engagement/below-the-radar-podcast/episodes/184-lizzie-borden.html.
It's a group session for ep 79 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry! Tess and Jenn are joined by Pro Domme Liv, Jenn's mum Pet, spoken word poet and proud trans woman Joni and pole dancer Lacey (and 4-6 pets!) to chat about whorephobia, patriachy, women's place and the way the Whorearchy is embedded in all of our lives. Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour! Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32 Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
Meredith Ralston is Professor in the Departments of Women's Studies and Political Studies at Mount Saint Vincent University in Halifax, Nova Scotia. Her most recent book, Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution is a remarkably self-reflexive and rigorous study of contemporary sexual politics in a supposedly permissive era. We talk about the limits of white feminism and carceral thinking when it comes to the prevalent approaches to thinking about and reckoning with the reality of sex work. Meredith speaks to her profound sense that a “pleasure gap” still exists, where the disparate and binaristic socializations of men and women position people very differently in terms of access to pleasure. I ask her about the place of biology in sex, and whether culture and context, and power, are always complexly at play in determining even our sense of the biology of sex. Ralston's research work has largely focused on sex work and sex tourism globally, she's also looked at unhoused women and sex work in Canada. She is also an award-winning filmmaker, and her film, Hope in Heaven received a very positive reception when it was broadcast on CBC. She also wrote and directed two documentaries with the National Film Board of Canada on women in politics. Here, though, we talk about her shifting relationship to the documentary work that she's produced. This is where the critical self-reflection comes in, as Ralston is extremely aware of her own tendency to adopt certain conservative relationships to sex and sex work. It's a complex topic that warrants an engaged conversation that doesn't conveniently skip over the impasses. I would definitely recommend her new book. It thinks through the ripple effects of the #MeToo movement, which is differently relevant in the face of the misogynistic vilification of Amber Heard we're seeing right now; it talks about the discourse of rape culture, and, most intensely, it advocates for sexual equality and justice, and an end to the sexual double standard that continues to contribute to the vulnerability and widespread dehumanization of trans women, women of colour and women in general who are open about sexual desire. We end by talking about a broader end to the policing of sex, which cannot arrive soon enough.
In today's episode of the I'm Just Being Honest Podcast, I sit down with Xrin to have a conversation on BDSM, the kink community, and the social stigmas surrounding sex workers. Connect with Alex: INSTAGRAM TWITTER TIKTOK Connect with Xrin: https://www.xxrin.com/ https://twitter.com/DominatrixRin https://www.instagram.com/feralferocious/ Show notes- https://www.alexandraayers.com/podcast-1/BDSM
Mary Magdalene is one of the most famous, mysterious, and perhaps controversial women in the Bible. She's been called a friend to Jesus, his wife, one of his most devout followers, and a prostitute. Who is Mary Magdalene and how did her story become aligned with sex workers around the world? Find out this week, as Kaytlin Bailey rewrites the age-old stigma of Mary Magdalene on The Oldest Profession Podcast. For more resources on this episode, visit our website: https://oldprosonline.org/stigma-of-mary-magdalene Stock Media provided by sounddogs / Pond5
It's unclear if Ella “Cattle Kate” Watson was a SWer, but what we do know is she was a renowned pioneer of the Wild West. She was a ranch owner, entrepreneur, and woman who sought to challenge gender norms to live life her own way. Why then is her name notorious throughout American history? Join your host Kaytlin Bailey as she reclaims the often misremembered story of the infamous Ella “Cattle Kate” Watson. For more resources on this episode, visit our website: https://oldprosonline.org/cattle-kate
Both sex workers and fat people must contend with a mainstream culture that feels entitled to our bodies in a way that is violent, objectifying, and dehumanizing. I wanted to explore this connection because it's an important overlap that allows us to very clearly examine root causes. In the second half of this 2-part episode, me and my guest, Erica Sosa, look at just some of the real world effects of discrimination against both sex workers and fat folks. Check out my accompanying blog post, “Decolonize Sexy”, for more!Follow A Stripper's Guide on InstagramFollow Erica Sosa on InstagramA NOTE: Thank you to Erica, who, as my friend and client, has educated me directly and helped me find resources on anti-fat bias, including the Maintenance Phase Podcast and the work of fat activist Aubrey Gordon in general. Thank you also to my client Lauren Higgins, who has helped educate me as well. Thank you to my fat and formerly fat loved ones for your continued patience and grace as I learn how and where to raise my voice on behalf of fatness. LISTENERS: Your feedback is always welcome! If you ever feel the need to check my skinny, white, very privileged ass, when it comes to body justice or any other topic, you are more than invited. I will receive your feedback with grace and I promise to take accountability for any harm I caused. You can contact me about that, or with sex worker in film recommendations, on Instagram, or email me at contact.leilah@gmail.com
Both sex workers and fat people must contend with a mainstream culture that feels entitled to our bodies in a way that is violent, objectifying, and dehumanizing. I wanted to explore this connection because it's an important overlap that allows us to very clearly examine root causes. In this 2-part episode, me and my guest, Erica Sosa, look at how media representations of both sex workers and fat folks reflects and perpetuates social stigma. Check out my accompanying blog post, “Decolonize Sexy”, for more!Follow A Stripper's Guide on InstagramFollow Erica Sosa on InstagramA NOTE: Thank you to Erica, who, as my friend and client, has educated me directly and helped me find resources on anti-fat bias, including the Maintenance Phase Podcast and the work of fat activist Aubrey Gordon in general. Thank you also to my client Lauren Higgins, who has helped educate me as well. Thank you to my fat and formerly fat loved ones for your continued patience and grace as I learn how and where to raise my voice on behalf of fatness. LISTENERS: Your feedback is always welcome! If you ever feel the need to check my skinny, white, very privileged ass, when it comes to body justice or any other topic, you are more than invited. I will receive your feedback with grace and I promise to take accountability for any harm I caused. You can contact me about that, or with sex worker in film recommendations, on Instagram, or email me at contact.leilah@gmail.com
This week we're joined by Dr. Meredith Ralston to talk about women's sexual empowerment and the unfinished sexual revolution. Meredith is a professor from Mount Saint Vincent University in Halifax. We get into: Sexual double-standards How women police themselves to protect their image Sex education and its focus on abstinence The unfinished sexual revolution The rise of women's pleasure and orgasm equality This episode times perfectly for International Women's Day next week! Connect: @MeredithRalston on Twitter http://www.meredithralston.com/ Get her book: Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution Notes: International Women's Day episode: 74. The Power of Our Voices - Empowering Female Podcasters The Goop Lab Episode: The Pleasure is Ours
This week we're joined by Dr. Meredith Ralston to talk about women's sexual empowerment and the unfinished sexual revolution. Meredith is a professor from Mount Saint Vincent University in Halifax. We get into: Sexual double-standards How women police themselves to protect their image Sex education and its focus on abstinence The unfinished sexual revolution The rise of women's pleasure and orgasm equality This episode times perfectly for International Women's Day next week! Connect: @MeredithRalston on Twitter http://www.meredithralston.com/ Get her book: Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution Notes: International Women's Day episode: 74. The Power of Our Voices - Empowering Female Podcasters The Goop Lab Episode: The Pleasure is Ours
In this episode lyndee unpacks sexual shame and addresses a common problem that runs rampant even in sex work communities: whorephobia. She talks about societal shame around sexuality and sex work, and the internalized shame we carry within us and how we can bring consciousness to and dismantle it.
Wanna hear about the time I made an ass of myself by joining a network marketing pyramid scheme and trying to sell fitness products to all my friends?! Tune in now!White supremacy so often takes on the chilling disguise of "wellness" and "spirituality". My guest this week, Tatum Fjerstad, and I (both white cis women) have each had experiences in abusive, white-dominated "wellness" communities. In this episode, we break down some of the ways we both were harmed by, and caused harm, in these environments, and ponder the lessons we learned about survivorship, equity, and liberation. The open letter that Tatum wrote to Elena Brower can be found here.This episode pairs well with last week's episode, Whorephobia in Belly Dance & Pole Dance, which explores white supremacy in BIPOC dance forms. TIME JUSTICE IS HAPPENING THIS THURSDAY! Time Justice, my two-part time management workshop for creatives & scatterbrains, starts Thursday, December 2!A STRIPPER'S GUIDE BLACK FRIDAY DEAL IS ONLY HERE FOR ONE MORE DAY! Sign up for my 2022 Goal Coaching intensive and get my Time Justice workshop for free!Goal Coaching: a small, exclusive group coaching program for visionaries ready to take real-world action on your dreams. Starts January 2022.
"Sex work has long been criticized and stigmatized in our society. While many members of society view sex work as immoral and degrading to women, I argue that sex work is essentially just work, and that it is not necessarily harmful to women. Under circumstances in which sex work is accepted and regulated in society, in which the sex worker is protected and granted the same rights as any other laborer, sex work has the possibility to be beneficial to women. Sex work can be very profitable for women, and many women may enjoy work that allows them to creatively express their sexuality. Sex work can allow human beings a way to safely explore their sexual desires in ways they cannot through the current social norm of heterosexual, monogamous relationships. The sex work industry and its workers need not be chastised by a society that clings to puritan ideals of what is “moral”. I argue prostitution should be legal. Every human being has the right to make informed decisions about his or her own body, and laws that govern sex work are laws that govern an individual's right to make decisions about her own body. Sex work is illegal because it is largely viewed as immoral and degrading, but morality is objective and society's opinion on what is “right” and “wrong” is constantly shifting. Morality provides no sound basis for law, as people governed by laws can not possibly all share the same moral beliefs. My argument is that prostitution should be made legal, sex workers offered the same rights and respect as workers in any other field, and that by doing this sex work can become something that benefits women and humanity in general. In Carole Pateman's essay, “What is Wrong With Prostitution?”, she argues that prostitution is an embodiment of patriarchy (2006). She relates to historical societies in which men had ownership over their wives, and says that while men no longer have complete ownership of women in our society, prostitution provides a way for men to exercise ownership over women's bodies temporarily. I disagree with this conclusion on prostitution. Men do not own a prostitute when they are paying her for sex any more than a business man owns his factory workers. If prostitutes are given the right to choose their clients and to stop sex at any point in which they feel unsafe or uncomfortable, prostitution is not a question of temporary ownership. Another point Pateman makes in her essay distinguishes prostitution from other forms of work based on the product being paid for. Pateman argues that in other forms of labor work, the employer is paying for the product of the labor, and not the labor itself. In prostitution, the physical labor itself is the commodity (Pateman, 2006). This argument does not hold up. Workers in any entertainment field, such as stage actors, dancers, or comedians, are paid for their actual labor, not any product which is produced by their labor. In this way, one can view the prostitute as an entertainer; the root of each type of work is essentially the same: to provide a pleasurable experience for a customer. Finally, Pateman argues that because sexuality is so intertwined with ones personality and identity, to sell sex is to sell oneself (2006). Again, this argument is unconvincing. It is true that prostitutes are paid for exerting one aspect of their personality (their sexuality). However, prostitution is not unique in this sense. Many workers earn a living by exerting a strong aspect of their personality. Managers are paid for their leadership abilities, teachers for their patience, and waiters for their extroversion. Why, then, is it wrong for a prostitute to profit from her sexuality?" --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/support
"The sex industry has existed in various forms from the dawn of recorded human history. Sex workers have always been a part of societies, economies, and civilizations. Despite countless attempts at banning, regulating, shaming, and controlling the sex industry, it continues, relatively unfazed. So why does society treat sex workers as criminals, when they have been such an integral part of civilization for so long? Aren't sex workers themselves often the ones who are the victims of crimes? Paradoxically, it is not the existence of the sex industry itself which causes this victimization to occur, but rather the way that we view sex workers as a culture. Further, the way that we view sex workers is a reflection of the way that we view all women. When a person experiences violence or abuse in any other line of work, she has both social and legal recourse to seek support and justice. Sex workers, be they full-service, strippers, porn stars, webcam models, or otherwise involved in the industry, do not have this same recourse. While this creates a dangerous situation for sex workers, it also creates a dangerous situation for all women. Our respect for women as a culture is often related to how we perceive their sexuality, and this is demonstrated by rampant violence against women of both a physical and epistemic nature. The way society treats a woman employed in the sex industry speaks volumes about the way it treats women in general. Sex workers are the canaries in a very deep and dark coal mine. In his 1997 book, The Racial Contract, Charles Mills introduced the concept of “epistemologies of ignorance.” These epistemologies are systems of obtaining knowledge which benefit people in privileged positions of power and allow them to maintain their power (Mills). The systematic silencing of sex workers who try to share their experience is a prime example of how these kinds of violent epistemologies are born. Gaps in public knowledge about the perspectives of marginalized groups are not always accidental, but often intentional, with the goal of justifying the inhumane treatment of these marginalized groups (Tuana). “Territorial imperatives structure and limit the kinds of utterances that can be voiced within them with a reasonable expectation of uptake and “choral support”: an expectation of being heard, understood, taken seriously,” writes Lorriane Code in Rhetorical Space, Essays on Gendered Locations. Sex workers do not and have never had this expectation of being heard, understood, and taken seriously." --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/support
"I'm a belly dancer, not a stripper!" Think again, bb. Over the past half century, both belly dance and pole dance have become wildly popular industries. Now, the popularity of dances like twerk and dancehall are on the rise. The power in these industries concentrates in the hands of white women, rather than the cultural knowledge-holders of the dances in question. In this very special episode, I am joined by Tanesha, my colleague in erotic movement, to discuss racism and anti-sex worker stigma in belly dance, pole dance, and other forms of erotic dance.Upcoming Stripper's Guide events:Time Justice: a time management workshop for creatives & scatterbrains (Dec 2 & 16)Goal Coaching: a small, exclusive group coaching program for visionaries ready to take real-world action on your dreams. Starts January 2022.Black Friday deal alert! Sign up for my exclusive 2022 Goal Coaching program and receive my Time Justice Workshop for free!Sign up for A Stripper's Guide newsletterFollow A Stripper's Guide on InstagramPenelope's Locker: my pro-hoe merch shopListen to my musicResources:Against White Feminism (book by Rafia Zakaria)Decriminalize Sex Work (Sex worker rights organization)Ettachfini, Leila. “The Women Fighting Sexist, Racist Stereotypes Around ‘Belly Dancing.'” Vice News. 11 July 2017.“Whorephobia Affects All Women” (article by sex worker & activist Thierry Schaffauser)“Relationship Boundaries, Abude, and Internalized Whorephobia” by Tiffany Tempest “Whorephobia Is a Real Word. Here's What It Means and Why You Should Care.” by Kayla Kibbe Whorephobia definition“Sex Work, Stigma, and Whorephobia” by Matt Chase-Valentine“Whorephobia Harms All Women" Whorephobic-- Urban Dictionary “Is Belly Dance for Cis Het Women?” by Jeana Jorgensen “The Philosophy of the Belly Dancer” by L.L. Wynn
"Dr. Kate Lister invited five contributors to share their diverse, profound and often heartbreaking personal experiences of sex work, with each reflecting upon how the stigma of sex work can have a significant impact on sex workers' mental health, on their place in society and on their physical safety. The result is a series of unique perspectives that question the political and societal reluctance to legitimize sex work and how it might better protect those who are the most vulnerable." Dr. Adrienne Macartney says: "I came out as gay before coming out as trans. It felt easier, more socially comprehensible, despite being a misnomer. Trans was too much, too indigestible, too terrifying. However, I soon realized I needed to fully come out as trans, to give honest air to a painful need to stop living a burdensome mask of masculinity – one that was tearing me apart ever more destructively. At the time I was a mountain guide, and climbing increasingly big peaks alone, simply willing death to excuse me from addressing who I was. The common perception that people who gender transition do so because of a sexual kink is a damaging and usually inaccurate narrative. I get no ‘thrill' from wearing female attire. My personal sexual tastes are positively mundane compared to many. To this day I cannot describe with precision the boundary between man and woman, yet socially and practically most of us recognize the difference in our day-to-day interactions. I felt I was in the wrong camp and would simply perish if I stayed there." --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/support
Brian interviews Meredith Ralston about her provocative, just published book, “Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution”. Meredith is a professor of women's studies and political studies at Mount Saint Vincent University in Halifax and a documentary filmmaker whose films include Hope in Heaven, Selling Sex, and Why Women Run. Her research work has been in the areas of sex tourism in the Philippines, women and politics, homeless women and sex work in Canada. Her recent op-ed in the Globe and Mail was called The Desexualization of OnlyFans is not only sex workers' problem. We tackle some fascinating questions such as: What kind of research did you do? What do you mean by Slut-Shaming? What's Whorephobia? Why is society is punishing bad girls? What are the myths of rape culture? What is the pleasure gap? Why the stigma of sex workers harms all? Should sex work be decriminalized? Why is the sexual revolution is unfinished? What is the good girl/bad girl binary? What is the sexual double standard? How is sex education failing girls?
The Liberal Candidate being told to step aside because of online images has revived the conversation about sexuality and double standards. Meredith Ralston is a professor of women's studies at Mount Saint Vincent University. She researches women in politics and has written a book called Slut-Shaming, Whorephobia, and the Unfinished Sexual Revolution.
Would you like your sex ed scandalous, political, pleasure-based, healing, or something else? Better yet, why not get an educator who can do it all? For this particular episode, Dr. G chats with the wildly popular Raquel Savage, founder of Savage Media and a renowned expert in sexology and sexual healing for all, including and especially those in sex work. Their conversation runs the gamut, covering race and gender, sex work, adolescent sexuality, and how whorephobia intricately connects to the shame we struggle to release as a society. Another phenomenal conversation! Episode Transcripts are delayed, but will be forthcoming as soon as possible. Guest Bio: Raquel Savage was born into a life of bold resistance that she attributes to her grandparents. Growing up watching her grandfather, a Methodist minister, transgress by fighting issues pertaining to race and gay rights, Raquel grew to have a deep appreciation for social justice and an understanding of the importance of standing behind the righteous thing. Her grandmother, a rebellious preacher's wife, was an ASSECT-certified sexuality educator who was opinionated and fearless. In many ways, one can say Raquel Savage is carrying on the legacy of her grandmother in her own work; taking it to bolder, more progressive places, but still holding on to that same feminist spirit of sexual agency, education, and body autonomy. For Raquel, liberation is a family tradition. As Raquel got older, she furthered her work in sexual liberation work via education. During her undergrad she created organizations like The Q Group where she created a space for queer students and later earned a board certification in Human Sexuality. Currently, Raquel holds a master's in Counseling (Marriage and Family Therapy.) Ms. Savage is also committed to making her work accessible, substantial and personal. Raquel does Sex & Trauma Coaching and Savage Sex Ed. Raquel facilitates Sex & Trauma Coaching sessions where she is able to personalize her labor and wisdom in an intimate setting. Savage Sex Ed includes interactive workshops which can be held privately or publicly and range from topics like fetishes, ethical non-monogamy, and orgasm. Savage Sex Ed consultations allow people to pick Raquel's brain about a topic of their choice. In all ways, Raquel Savage is committed to educating. Raquel Savage is one of the most progressive and promising brands in media and she shows no signs of slowing down. Her relentless rise is partly because of her education and experience, but also because of her pure passion to erase the shame around sex and sexuality. Raquel Savage isn't just a woman with a brand and passion, she has a mission. And that mission is to turn shamed folks into unapologetic, fearless savages too.
The gals meet up over 3 time zones to present: The High Vibe Hustler. Ginger is a dancer from Australia, a Reiki practitioner, NLP and hypnosis certified, and our latest guest. The girls ask Ginger about Dancing, Sex work, Whorephobia, Reiki, NLP, energy, and a whole lot more. Hannah mentions her Australia Is Fake conspiracy twitter account she's had for three years. The dirtbags give a little birth chart reading, as well. Follow: Ginger Zephyr Website Instagram Podcast More Resources Featuring Songs curated by Ginger Zephyr: Money Bag - Cardi B Fly - Maddie & Tae
"Whorephobia" Is a Real Word?"Whorephobia" Is a Real Word, And It's Time to Take It Seriously https://bit.ly/3tMw2Cv Support KOP by subscribing to his YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/user/jbrasco951?sub_confirmation=1Contact KOP for professional podcast production, imaging, and web design services at http://www.kingofpodcasts.comFollow KOP on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok or Facebook @kingofpodcastsSend a question, comment or topic to KOP to kingofpodcasts@yahoo.com and I will talk about it on a segment of When I'm Not Podcasting--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/king-of-podcasts/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/king-of-podcasts/support
"Whorephobia" Is a Real Word? "Whorephobia" Is a Real Word, And It's Time to Take It Seriously https://bit.ly/3tMw2Cv Support KOP by subscribing to his YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/user/jbrasco951?sub_confirmation=1 Contact KOP for professional podcast production, imaging, and web design services at http://www.kingofpodcasts.com Follow KOP on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok or Facebook @kingofpodcasts Send a question, comment or topic to KOP to kingofpodcasts@yahoo.com and I will talk about it on a segment of When I'm Not Podcasting --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/king-of-podcasts/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/king-of-podcasts/support
What is whorephobia and what does it look? I will discuss some very serious issues with whorephobia and identify a few things that make someone whorephobic. But rest assure, I will also discuss what you can do to be more self-aware and initiate change within our local communities. Reference: •http://sjwiki.org/wiki/Whorephobia and Examples of whorephobia, site: •https://everydaywhorephobia.wordpress.com/ everyday whorephobia- Fighting the stigma and abuse sex workers. Follow me on, INSTAGRAM @ilovelucywollongong, TWITTER @lucypriceaus, FACEBOOK @inbedwithlucy
In this episode, Tiffany shares with us the stigmas attached to sex work and we begin by breaking them down by category, starting with whorephobia. SUPPORT THE PODCAST: https://www.patreon.com/alexandraayers CONNECT WITH ALEX: https://www.instagram.com/authoralexandraayers/ https://twitter.com/authoralexayers https://tiktok.com/@alexandraayers Business inquiries: alexandra@alexandraayers.com SHOW NOTES: https://www.alexandraayers.com/podcast-1/whorephobia
BONUS EPISODE! Sarah speaks with Christina Tesoro, LMSW, a writer, sex educator, and therapist, who specializes in sex worker affirming care. Christina's new book, Death to Whorephobia: A Guide to Sex Worker Affirming Care comes out tomorrow, December 17th, the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Christina and Sarah discuss the shortcomings of social work curricula, what whorephobia is, and how it functions in society. Christina speaks to some harmful myths surrounding sex work and the stigma that impacts the lives and care of sex workers again and again. They discuss the ingrained whorephobia in all of us. Information for Christina's e-book + more can be found here: https://janistherapy.com @janis_therapy
Elizabeth and Becca interview Copyslut about their music, sex work, and the zine Don't Hate My Heels: A Confrontation with Whorephobia in which the Whores Win.
Matt, Christian and Anastasia focus on Victim Blaming, Slut Shaming and Whorephobia- we also headed down to SlutWalk Melbourne this weekend and caught up with the folks there. The post Slut Shaming, Victim Blaming & Whorephobia appeared first on The Vixen Hour.