The Weekly Hot Spot

How much do you know about sex? There won't be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?Are sex dreams only for horny young men?Who stars in the sex dreams for women versus men?What do most people wear to bed?Is there a link between job satisfaction and sex?The sex facts research is really the springboard for your hosts to talk, laugh and tell stories. You'll also hear something we think will change the way you think of the word happiness.Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn't JUST for sissies. It's for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We're calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can't fit this in a title: Transwoman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over the: who, what, why, where and when details. You can also read the specifics here on The Daily Cock.  If that site is not available where you live, I'll post the requirements after our links and contact information.There are a couple of epic ‘safaris' including Ms Olivia's funeral story and the hot flirting when Ms Erika casually said, “I stand behind you, Olivia.” You'll be able to tell that we are both very exciting for the Sissy Pageant and YOUR participation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantirxempire.comHow to participate in the Sissy Pageant:Join our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireJoin Discord - it's also freeQualify to enter by doing a 30 minute call.Have fun with your Mistress or all the other ladies in Enchantrix Empire who are sharing your joy and excitement. Your submission is: 3 photos and the answers to 4 questions.Submission due date July 12thDate of Sissy Pageant:  Saturday, July 17th at 7pm eastern time.Location: the Discord Server for the Sissy Pageant

Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.Today's episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it's all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions.We send you a sissy questionnaire that helps us to:Find out your current sissy experiencesHelp identify your future desires and slut ambitionsEncourage you to showcase your special sissy skillsWhat are some of the sissy skills that might go on your resume?Submission - how submissive are you?Anal experience - do you need anal training from Mistress?Dildo or cock sucking experience - can you deep throat?Do you have sex toys? What do you have and what do you want to explore?Cuckold fantasies or experiences - are you or do you want to be a sissy cuckold husbandOther - what other skills do you have?You will get emails back and forth with your Sissy Mistress counselors. We send you a total of six emails from us. What's in the emails? Pretty much anything we want to talk about. We'll answer your questions, ask you questions, and generally get to know you even better!After the questions and the emails exchange YOU will receive your Sissy Slut resume! You can use the slut resume anywhere you like. We want you to post it on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. You can use it on social media, send it to friends and lovers, or cherish it in private.This sissy slut resume is perfect for any sissy, you don't have to be slutty. You might be a sissy maid or a sissy secretary. Well now, you need a resume, don't you? Of course you do!Take a peek at the package on our Phone Sex Assignments store.Act quickly to level up your sissy game and get your resume now! You just might want to use this as part of our Sissy Pageant. We'll have another episode just on the Sissy Pageant and you can read about it on The Daily Cock.Act now … the price is $89.00 but the SALE PRICE is $69.00 until the end of July.69, get it?Phone Sex Assignments StoreGoddess Demi's blog:  Sensual Cock TeaseMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site: EnchantrixEmpire

Today's episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”  That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive. Today's episode includes:General definitions with BDSMPower exchange: The Domme is in charge and the submissive obeys her.Corporal punishment by a Dominant WomanImpact play as part of BDSM cultureVarious kinds of pain used as a way to correct misbehavior by a submissive.Different styles of domination for a submissive male versus someone who is feminized and submissive either as a sissy or a sub.A Femdom Mistress uses discipline to change, enhance, correct, or motivate behaviors that she wants from the sub. There are various ways to discipline a wayward subby:Physical: put in a stress position, bondage, impact play, etc.Mental: verbal humiliation, degrading tasks, embarrassing activities.Tasks and assignments used to enhance the control of the Domme.A Mistress could also take a fun activity away from the sub - for example, making a sissy slut stare at but not suck a dildo, or not allowing the sub to contact Mistress for a set amount of time.Remember, as we talk about anything with BDSM, kink, feminization, or sissy training …These definitions are guideposts, as long as the people involved are on the same page and communicating, we can create pretty much anything!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyEmail:olivia@enchantrixempire.comerika@enchantrixempire.comDiscord:LDWOliviaLDWErika

Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”That's the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.Today's episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.Topics include:Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive?How does feminization change someone's outlook on labels?You'll hear how a variety of ladies and sissies got a name that better represents who they are now. Dive into the origin stories of femme names and so much more.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! In this episode we answer questions like:What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?        Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching?FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that's different from the usual?Do you ever fantasize/think about members of the Enchantrix Empire, Mistresses or subs? Do you ever masturbate thinking about famous people? What media, if any - do you prefer? Porn? Audio Porn? Books or erotica? Still images or thoughts and the throbbing buzz of a toy?   What's your favorite way to enjoy yourself when you have unlimited time? Setting? How about when you need to rub out a quickie? Do you ever like to be watched or listened to while masturbating - could be face-to-face or long distance?When do you get the urge the most to masturbate?Does Ms. Olivia ever masturbate while watching baseball?How frequently do you masturbate? Did you ever limit or test yourself? Female edging? Number of consecutive orgasms?Or maybe it works completely differently? Squirting experience? Ever got caught?What or who do you think of most frequently/regularly, like a famous person, significant other, sexual activity / something different every time?Favorite place to masturbate? You'll hear personal stories, lots of laughter and surprises galore!Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireHow to get a private session with your sexy Femdom podcast hosts.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven't, then let's make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:What is a sissygasm?How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you're having one?Topics include:Subspace aka femme-spaceRole of submission in your feminine journeyMistress guidance or control to enhance your sissy trainingTrying to have a sissygasm on your own versus with guidance from your MistressWhy experts say to have patience when learning how to sissygasmMedical issues that might change your ability to have a sissygasmRole of chastity in sissy playImportance of getting into the right sissy mindsetHow the ritual of dressing in sexy lingerie sets the moodSpecific tips to move from stroking to feminine masturbation styles:Hand positionsBody positionsLube suggestionsSex toys like butt plugs, prostate massangers, dildos and vibratorsFinding the best angle to stimulate your prostateHappy Masturbation May — what a fun month!Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Are you ready for Masturbation May? It's the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don't need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo. Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits: Are there studies?How much do people masturbate?What is normal?Why is there something called a gender gap in masturbation?Can you guess what percentage of people masturbate at work?Do you masturbate at work?Since your hosts are Femdoms, we'll talk about some of our plans for Masturbation May and we hope you'll try them on your own or even play with us!Practical ways to spice up your masturbation include:Ideas for new hand positions or lubeHow to involve your whole bodySpecific sex toys we love Tell us what you think of these tips for having a playful and exciting Masturbation May.Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man's biological directive. She's right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof). But, we've had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun!Let's talk cock control:What does this term mean?What is the difference between cock control and guided masturbation?Is edging and JOI (jerk off instructions) considered cock control?Are remote controlled sex toys part of cock control?Where does gooning fall in these various types of masturbation sessions?What about the role of chastity or even a ruined orgasm for controlling that cock (and man)?What are some examples of cock control in a session?What makes someone a fun playmate for a Mistress? Why would a man want to turn his orgasm over to a woman?What is it about orgasm control that makes it so much fun for women?Hear personal stories about kinky playmates including how one man went from “if I'm paying, I'm spraying” to hands off orgasm control by Mistress Erika.Does someone have to be submissive to enjoy edging on command? We want to hear your stories and experiences so get in touch!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

BDSM: Are you a switch?   Are you a switch?In BDSM, what exactly ‘is' a switch? What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom. A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode. Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does' switch. Meet Miss Eden. She's a switch and we have a great time on this episode.The ladies use quotes from podcast listeners and playmates to spark the conversations about:Does someone choose to be submissive or is that behavior from innate traits?How does someone find out they like to switch?If someone is submissive, what happens if they try to be dominant?Is it possible for someone to act dominant if they don't feel that way?How does Miss Eden move between roles of Mistress and submissive?Can someone be 100% submissive or 100% Dominant?Why is there debate in some of the BDSM world about the validity of being a switch?Can someone be submissive when presenting feminine and then Dominant when in male mode?Does being feminized increase feelings of submission?Are all sissies submissive?We love our smart, kinky listeners and really appreciate your comments and questions. Listener inspired episodes are awesome!  Keep the ideas and inspiration coming.Find the ladies of LDW on Discord by doing a search with the letters LDW in the search bar. Our names should pop up: LDWEden, LDWErika, and LDWOliviaMiss Eden:eden@enchantrixEmpire.comTwitter X:  @SultryInEdenMistress Olivia:olivia@enchantrixempire.comTwitter X:  @MistressOlivia1    BlueSky:  MsOliviaPersonal Blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika:Erika@enchantrixempire.comTwitter X and Blue Sky:  @ErikaEnchantrix  Personal blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site:  Enchantrix Empire    

In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that's what makes it so fun.(( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))Today's points include:What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it's not what you might think.What happens when a sissy is nervous about being transformed.Why does a Domme love to increase nervousness during some coerced feminization scenes?How does each woman create the sissy salon transformation fantasy.Is feminization always a submissive act?Why are most of us attracted to things that are taboo or looked upon as naughty?Switching gender roles and expectations as a way to take a break from “masculine” life and the responsibilities of non-femme life.Does sissy transformation ever get to the point of no return? What happens?Will feminization automatically mean coerced bi scenes?How does a Mistress manage the mindset of a sissy?This episode is full of ideas for roleplays about sissification and coerced feminization. Find out behind the scenes info about how these fantasies are created and performed.The episode ends with one of the most important reasons why it's important TO YOU to have a Mistress skilled in feminization and sissy training.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyOur adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

Today's episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he's not submissive. That's a great question! It's true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. But, do you have to be submissive to call us?  The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman.Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we're talking about.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don't want to be the sub for the conversation after the play.This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn't need to be all serious all the time - it's fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyVox Erotic

Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?In previous episodes, we've talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc.  Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge.Some of the topics include:Submission as a way to let go of life's responsibilitiesHow working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment.Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proudGreater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend).Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life.Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform.  This is especially true for feminization and sissy training.This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging.Goddess Demi's blog:  Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can't share with any of THOSE people?  Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?These questions inspired today's episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman.  Topics include:** What is an Alpha man?** How common is it for an Alpha man to want to be feminized? ** What percentage of sissies that call for Femdom phone sex have an Alpha type career or job?** Does the person who is often in control always want to be in charge?** Are the Femdom hosts always in Domme or Mistress mode?** What do we mean by someone who is sexually submissive?** What does a Femdom look for in a sissy or submissive?** What about the use of erotic humiliation when it is sweet teasing or all the way to degrading emasculation?Both ladies emphasize that not everyone into feminization is submissive. This is especially true for those who are crossdressers or who identify as transwomen. We also talk about some of the relationships we have with our subs and girly gurls.How does having a close relationship with an online Mistress help with emotions like shame and loneliness?Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold. In this episode you'll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you'll find out what happened!Topics include:Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn't have a small penis, isn't turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life.How a phone sex Femdom finds out the difference between fantasy conversation and a request for real life advice.Some differences between cuckolding, swinging and an open relationship.Exhibitionist / voyeur fans in the sex sceneSome of the things a woman worries about before becoming a hot wife or cuckoldressCommunication tips for alternate lifestyles like cuckolding, BDSM, kink or actually any successful relationship, even the vanilla ones.How to bring up your cuckold desires. What to do when you don't hear an immediate, clear answer to your cuckolding request.Some of the practical advice centers around talking about STD testing, personal safety with new partners, etc.Finally, what happened with this couple? Find out in this episode.Mistress Olivia's personal blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's personal blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Even if you've called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.Today's podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works.What happens when you call LDW Group?What are some of the different types of long distance BDSM relationships?How does kink play work when Mistress and pet aren't in the same physical play space?Are you shy?Are you nervous?This podcast episode will help you understand a bit about what to expect, how to ask for what you want, and then how to physically get ready for your session.As usual, the conversation goes on safari with stories, anecdotes and more. Enjoy this peek behind the curtain of the business of distance domination and femdom phone sex.OH and you don't have to be a submissive to call! As you can tell from this podcast, we love to have intelligent conversations with smart, sexy people (ie YOU!)Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

The ladies try something a little different. Today's feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it's kind of an odd title and we're doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session.This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood.Topics include:** Shower versus bath** Sex in the shower** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Erika** Bubbles or bath bombs, or bath oilsSuggestions for relaxing into the sensuality of the experience:** How to create the perfect environment** How to reinforce the benefits of this sensory experience** Why we say, wear a bikini or panties in the bathThe ladies do brief guided meditation with feminization affirmations.There is also a trance type sissy programming audio.We urge you to take the time to use the rituals and sensuality of taking a bath to honor and reinforce your feminine feelings.  We want you to take your feminization to the next level with these ideas, tips, and suggestions.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today's episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal' or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?' We've got you!In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot. We highlight several common areas of concern: Anal play / prostate playCock suckingWearing pantiesBeing a submissive manWhat is normal? Who gets to decide what types of erotic pleasure are outside the norm?Who can you talk with about your concerns?How to find someone who can guide you through these desires.You'll also hear that you aren't alone in your worry about being weird or whatever. The ladies share personal stories about our own experiences. Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.The episode includes:A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular' orgasm?What is a sissygasm and what does that feel like?If someone is a chastity pet, then the Mistress might keep that submissive caged and do prostate milking. These Femdoms talk about prostate health and using prostate milking for someone who is in long term chastity say as part of sissy training and feminization.Why would someone be nervous about or reluctant to try prostate play? The ladies talk about some common concerns. The two most common worries about anal sex are: will it hurt and will it be ‘messy.' You'll hear recommendations for favorite sex toys for anal play, including remote controlled sex toys.Personal stories, jokes and laughter are always part of the podcast – so we're glad to have you here with us!Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyNOTE:  if you navigate to our blogs but land on TalkToMe123 you are not lost.  If you want to know more how to access our blogs, just get in touch.Here's how:Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.com 

Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can't explore their desires in a “real” life setting.Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn't otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling. Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of connection. Mistress Erika brings up how the long distance relationship actually reduces inhibitions and allows someone to really talk about erotic desires without fear of judgment or fear of rejection from your real life partner, wife or girlfriend.Some roleplays are physically impossible. The ladies talk about several examples including:Giantess, shrinking, and tiny man fantasiesThe magically transformed category that includes coerced feminization: male to female transformation scenes as a sissy, bimbo / slut, or submissive woman.MILF fantasies where the caller is transported back to being a young man with an older womanBi sexual exploration or submission to a Dominant manFantasy cocksucking without any fears of safety, health or other issues.All the various versions of cuckold fantasiesPublic humiliation (that's a no no for consent and safety reasons)Exhibitionist and/or voyeur fantasiesCum eating that is hot only before someone has cum to eatSome of the behind the scenes conversation will give you insight into how we each bring our creativity to our erotic roleplay scenes.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it's your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.In this episode, you'll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others. What do you do when your reality doesn't live up to the fantasy?That's a common question for many kinky people and it's especially true for those exploring feminization.Don't worry!  We've got you covered (pun intended).Like always, along with the sexy stories, you'll get practical tips, advice and instructions to reinforce your sissy training. Remember, confidence is the sexiest attribute you can have — well that and some really cute panties. Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you're simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.What is petticoat discipline?Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like:Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brainBDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchangeFeminization as part of a FLR - Female Led RelationshipsHow a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goalsThe hosts give specific scene examples that call for:Locking clothing and shoesCBT: ball slapping, etc.ChastityHave you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy? We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you! Do you need a firm hand? Let us know.Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can't get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across' a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company. This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do:PrivacyThe caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share.That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasiesPlaying with a professional means an affair gone wrong won't blow up your lifeSpur of the moment sessionsKeeping the various aspects of your life separateMistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress

This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn't it? LOL The Femdom hosts talk about transwomen who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you'll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now.The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization. What are some of the possible roleplay options for a sissy:The sexy girlfriend with a special something extraThe submissive sissy The slutty bimbo - which often involves humiliation and emasculationAnything that includes a sissy maid - what kind of clean up will happen? The cuckold husband turned into a sissySPH - small penis humiliation and/or chastityThe role of BBC in sissy pornCum eating and CEI to train a sissy to love to eat cumWhat kind of script or scene would you want to be in? Hmmmmm?Let us know!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

We're posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year's ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We're so helpful.Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.  Mistress Erika has a New Year's goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika's ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an ignore fetish.Speaking of requests, Ms Olivia wants to do a sex train in 2025 using a universal remote control app. This goal should go nicely with another goal: A submissive sissy who wants to be a porn star!As always, this is a conversation between Femdoms about BDSM, kink, life and love.So …. Join in!What things do YOU want to explore in the New Year?Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness.Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year. Apparently, the numbers put us in the top 10% of podcasts - not just sex podcasts or BDSM kink podcasts – but all podcasts. That boggles our minds when we think about it.What category is number one? Sissy training and feminization shows rule the top podcast episodes. The number one download is from January of this year: Should All Sissies Learn to Masturbate Like A Woman? Today your Femdom hosts talk about sissygasms, sex while feminized, and more.The second largest category is cock control. Now, we know that cock control can mean everything from JOI, guided masturbation, tease and delay, tease and denial all the way to total orgasm control with chastity. There are so many options and we're really glad to see this category is extremely popular.Other popular podcast episodes feature conversations about: cock sucking, cuckolding, strapon play or pegging and more. The ladies have a great time doing the podcast and this one is full of laughter, sidetracks called going on safari, and general shenanigans.Thank you for joining us for this kinky journey! We're so glad you're here with us!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy 

We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many requests that we've created something special just for you!This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts. Don't feel alone! Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level.This feminization training calendar is a budget friendly way to bridge the gap between feeling all alone and being under strict, personalized guidance from a Femdom Mistress.52 weeks of feminization Fun assignmentsSexy training Feminine affirmationsPractical adviceAnd so much more.Are you ready to begin?Here's the link to the Year of Feminization by Mistress Erika and Mistress Olivia.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that's true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive. Today's episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?First, the ladies talk about tease toys. Who are they, what does this phrase mean?The ladies share insights into what they both appreciate about someone who is a tease toy. You'll hear what turns them on about YOU!The ladies, of course, find the control thrilling.You'll hear conversation about power exchange and energy.Both really adore the sounds a man makes when being teased - moaning, gasping, and pleading.Do you love to be teased?Are you a fan of edging and orgasm delay?Ms Erika mentions chastity and teasing.Is there a difference between being a tease toy or a submissive man?Do you have to be submissive or into BDSM to be a tease pet?What are some of the teasing techniques?How does a Mistress push your boundaries, come up with creative ideas and guide you to some of the most explosive orgasms ever?How does distance domination work when doing tease and denial?What does a Mistress look for in a tease toy?What will happen if you come to each woman for teasing?The answers might surprise you!Mistress Erika's personal blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress Olivia's personal blog:  Experienced Mistress

In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because we're talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman.Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise folks who have a fantasy about being a live-in sub or slave to a Domme.What does it mean when the Chastity Queen says, “Chastity is freedom.” This can include:The chastity cage focuses the attention of a submissiveBeing locked promotes devotion to MistressThe cage is a constant reminder that they have a higher purposeThe chaste sub is freed from mindless masturbation“There is nothing more feminizing than to not have a cock available.”  That's a great comment about using chastity for sissy training and feminization.Chastity cages that mimic a vaginaBeing caged increases feminine feelings The role of humiliation in BDSM and chastity playUsing small chastity cages to shrink the clitty of a sissyCrossdresser purging and cycles of interest in feminizationYou'll hear personal stories, suggestions and ideas as well as tips for interactions with a Mistress. Even if you have no interest in chastity, this episode will give you a peek inside the interior worlds of three Femdoms.Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today's guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power.Topics include:The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenonHow men treat wives versus DommesThe dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks likeHow serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wifeCommunication, kink, and intimacyTeaching men how to serve womenWhy treating women well actually benefits the manThe value of having a BDSM kink communityHow people learn kinky skillsWhy experience and knowledge is so important with BDSM (and life!)This is a wide ranging conversation that gives you a peek into the minds of these Dommes. Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

A listener asks about political changes in the US and asks how to stay safe.The specific question involves feminization and crossdressing but it applies to all of us in these various communities:LGBTQ+Kinksters and crossdressersPro Dommes and sex workersAdult entertainment creatorsAnd all of those who are participants in or consumers of adult entertainment.(basically all of us)The Femdom hosts talk about:Current laws blocking pornhubOnline safety - in general and specifically for kinkstersPrivacy online - in general and for those looking for pornSafety tips when being en femme in publicWe hope these tips are useful. If you have other suggestions, please get in touch and pass them on.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMsOlivia on BlueSkyMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErikaEnchantrix on BlueSkyEnchantrix Empire - free adult social networking site run by LDW / Enchantrix

Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean? There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right' way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc. Topics in this podcast episode include:The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships.A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive.The role of chastity, orgasm denial and/or suffering for your Mistress.Does a service submissive automatically mean sexual service?What are some non-sexual things that a service sub provides?Since your podcast hosts do Distance Domination, the role of a service sub is a little different but the fundamentals are the same as an in person play partner. What can someone do for their Goddess? The ladies have some specific suggestions:Visit our blogs and stay on the blog for at least 3 minutes, click on several pages, staying on each page for several minutes.Write comments on our blogsFollow us on social media; comment on and share our posts.What does the sub get out of serving a Mistress?Hear what other submissives say about being a service sub.Have you ever wanted to be a real service sub? What does that phrase mean to you?Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today's episode explores this.Topics include:How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy?Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman?To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people. For example, some of the outdated and terms are:She maleTrannyTransvestiteT girlTranssexualThis conversation covers:Gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual desiresWhat to call genitalia? What is cis gender?BDSM, erotic humiliation and submission.The role of a Femdom or Dominant woman who says, you will suck her cock for me.You'll hear quotes from men who want to suck the cock of a transwoman, a transwoman who experienced her first sexual experience with another transwoman, and so much more.Do YOU have a fantasy of being with a transwoman?What is your fantasy?Have you done this in person? What happened?We want to hear everything!Mistress Oliviai's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi.Listen in as three Pro Domme's talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women?Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi:“Submission isn't merely about obeying orders or bending to another's will. It's a profound journey into the depths of one's own desires. Learning to trust, to yield, and to find freedom in the embrace of another's dominance.”Topics include:BDSM and trust between the Dominant and the submissive.The difference between a fantasy roleplay BDSM scene and wanting to be a lifestyle submissive.The importance of BDSM communication.How to do BDSM negotiation of needs, desires, and limits.What are the five words that you should never say to a Femdom?The answer might really surprise you.The ladies dispel the myth that submissives are weak or damaged. Submissives must have power in order for there to be power exchange.Is submission a gift to the Domme?What do these women think of those who submit?Lots of insight into the submissive journey from the perspective of three Femdoms (who are always, of course, right about everything LOL).Mistress Demi's blog: Sensual Cock TeaseMs Demi's blog post that inspired this episode: What Does It Mean To Be Submissive?Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress

Today's episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don't like feminization with their partner. We don't know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like:What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies?What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners?Here are some of the questions female partners of crossdressers might have:My boyfriend wears lingerie, what does that mean?Does wearing women's clothes mean he is gay or bi?If I encourage him to explore his femme side, will he leave me?What does this desire to be a submissive sissy mean for us as a couple?How does a woman attracted to men feel about a partner who wants to dress as a woman?Other topics include:The difference between Drag Queens, crossdressers and sissies.Why do both of your Femdom hosts like crossdressers, sissies and men in panties?How to have conversations about erotic desires, boundaries and intimacy.Have you tried to talk with your female partner about feminization?What happened? If you haven't had that kind of talk but you want to then this episode will hopefully help you have that conversation.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet.Topics include:What is chastity?What is Locktober?Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm? Can you participate in Locktober if you can't or don't want to go a whole month without an orgasm?Does Loctober always require a chastity cage?Are there ways to experience orgasm denial without a cage?What is chastity by will?What is Mistress Olivia's workaround when someone can't wear a chastity cage?How to use Locktober to break bad habits like chronic masturbation or to install good habits like achieving fitness or other personal goals.What is panty chastity?How to use chastity as part of sissy training or feminization.How to someone in a very small chastity cage to emphasize the emasculation of a sissy.This episode is all about submission, cock control, and the various ways a Femdon can use chastity for some wicked fun. If you're curious about Locktober, chastity or sissy training using denial, this episode is for you!Previous episodes about chastity:Chastity Interview with Mature MetalHow do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature MetalMistress Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog Intelligent Phone FantasyEnchantrix Empire: our free adult social networking site

We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom.That's a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don't want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress.This is inspired by someone who wants to know how to request a Pro Domme to be creative without acting like he is trying to be “in charge” of the session.  Topics include: What is topping from the bottom?Some relationship dynamics and other issues to consider when deciding what is bad BDSM behavior from a submissive.Insight into the role of vulnerability and trust in BDSM power exchange relationships.How to communicate with a Dominatrix or Femdom MistressDifferences in communication with a Pro Domme versus an unpaid kink player that you meet in BDSM circles.Differences between fantasy submission and power exchange.Your Femdom hosts give examples of how to communicate your desires in appropriate ways.Remember communication, trust and honesty about what you need are the most important aspects of any BDSM relationship. This podcast will give you some of the tools to feel confident that you are not topping from the bottom.Mistress Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy

We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane's first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika. Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money.Why does a smart, capable woman become a Femdom?What attracts someone to BDSM and kink power exchange situations?For the submissive, why would someone want to be on the receiving end of BDSM play?How can a submissive service his Femdom outside of the kink?What is submissive service?Can BDSM be a kind of therapy for some people?What does it mean to call Femdom scenes, performance art?This is a conversation about extremes of emotions interspersed with personal experiences of three very smart women.  Enjoy! And, get the book! Here's the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon.Jane Boon's websiteMistress Olivia's website Experienced MistressMistress Erika's website Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today's episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she's here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes.We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you're submissive, here's your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you're not submissive, do yourself a favor and read them. You're welcome.Edge Play is a novel about Amy, an investment banker turned Dominatrix. The novel is set amongst the greed and arrogance of Wall Street elites and the 2008 financial crash. One of the main themes is a young woman coming into her own power after being mentored by her best friend who is an Art Gallery owner and Pro Domme.  In the new novel, Bold Strokes, the settings of the art world, high finance and even higher intensity BDSM scenes lets the reader get to know Erika, the gallery owner / Pro Domme. How did she become who she is and what happened to her during the same timeframe as the first book told from Amy's perspective.Some of the themes are:How does a woman become a Femdom?What is the mindset of someone who is a Dominatrix?Who are some of the men that love to be tormented by the power, beauty and cruelty of a Dominant woman?Negotiation and consent in BDSM relationshipsSex work, sex workers and the inherent imbalance of power between powerful men and young women.This is a wonderful novel and the kink makes it even more fun. Bold Strokes is an exciting read with unforgettable characters. Here's the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon.Jane Boon's websiteMistress Olivia's website Experienced MistressMistress Erika's website Intelligent Phone Fantasy

This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things. Why? Well, anyone who is into things that aren't considered ‘mainstream' can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates.The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self-acceptance as kinky dominant women and how this podcast started as a way to dispel myths about BDSM, kink, and feminization.This includes conversations about how crossdressing can give someone access to feelings or behavior that aren't accepted when in guy mode.This episode covers emotional or psychological questions like:Why does someone who loves women want to crossdress or act like a woman?Does throwing out everything related to your feminization or kink ever work?Will a decision to stop being a sissy ever last long term?Why does the urge to crossdress come back even stronger after purging?Is there a way to process the guilt or come to terms with the wrong kind of shame associated with something that is a huge part of your psyche?For those into sissy play and feminization, the binge and purge cycle can run into thousands of dollars and causes endless frustration. How to avoid the urge to purge?Practical tips include:Understanding why you want to dress in women's lingerie or women's clothes.How to identify when societal teaching is needlessly holding you back.Learning when and why you want to dress in order to identify where you are in your cycle.How to find a community that will accept and support you.How to put away rather than throw away - ie get a storage locker!If you've ever felt alone in your desires, this episode is for you. You're not alone, you're not crazy and we get it!Ms Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMs Erika's blog Intelligent Phone FantasyFree adult social networking site Enchantrix Empire

This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question:  “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?”Great suggestion Sissy Brenda!  Here you go!The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There are also ethical issues with consent and BDSM or kink play in public.  All that said, these Femdoms are skilled at feminization and in person lingerie shopping can be fabulous for sissy training, etc.Suggestion for shopping in person include:MindsetWhat to wearHow to present yourselfAnd moreSissy Brenda also asks about thongs which inspires a conversation about panty styles including thongs. The ladies recommend some specific brands.Hanky Panky thongsCalvin Klein invisiblesSkims: up to 4X !AerieFinally, even though this episode is about lingerie shopping in person, there are specific suggestion about how to order online and make sure that your purchases are private and discrete.We sent an email letting Sissy Brenda know that this episode posts today and she wrote back:"Hello Mistress:I found success with the Hanky Panky thongs you suggested. Surprisingly comfortable and so many colors and prints! I also tried and liked the Victoria's Secret seamless thongs. Also very comfortable and great with leggings. Never pictured myself a thong gurl but you may have converted me! I look forward to the podcast!All the best,Sissy Brenda"Happy shopping ladies!Ms Olivia's blog:  Experienced Mistress Ms Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy   

We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends.Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces. For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's.Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conversation. There will be a topic or activity like naughty Mad Libs and other games.People can listen on Twitter X but the Mistresses are the only ones who will be speakers. Everyone else can join in by going to the Community Kink chatroom and typing while you listen.When Ms Erika heard Ms Demi's idea - Ms Erika set up Spaces for The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. We'll be live every Thursday at 1pm eastern time -- talking about this kink BDSM podcast, episode ideas, answering questions and, well, basically having a great time shooting the shiznit with each other and all of you. You'll hear some of those random thoughts in this episode!Join us on Twitter X:Ms Demi:  @DommeDemi    Ms Olivia:  @MistressOlivia1       Ms Erika:   @ErikaEnchantrix   Demi's space for Femdom Friday Sept 6, 2024Community kink chat roomLook for The Weekly Hot Spot space every Thursday at 1 pm eastern. Cum have lunch with us.Mistress Demi's blog: Sensual Cock Tease    Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced Mistress  Mistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy   

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone.  Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon.Things to consider:What is your self bondage safety plan?Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on onlineHigh protocol versus freely speaking during a sceneIdeas and questions from listeners:Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessionsUsing a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keysPredicament play safetyEdge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiationKeeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need themSpecial considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman:How to avoid leaving marksWhat causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries.Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive.What can someone use for self bondage? Examples include:Sweatband, headband or scrunchieShoe laces¼ inch diameter rope Paracord Zone mummification with plastic wrapOf course, you'll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms. Miss Cassie's website:  Miss Cassie Loves RopeMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today's guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more.You'll hear:** Miss Cassie's personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom** Leather tradition in BDSM** Lineage in BDSM leather family traditionMistress Olivia takes us on safari with a question about polyamory, cheating and sexual or emotional partners. BDSM education continues with:** training involved in BDSM ** psychology of kink** what a practiced Dominant will ask a prospective play partner** BDSM negotiations, safe words and edge play** safety and kink** sub drop and aftercare** Differences between Eastern Shibari and Western bondage techniques** Cultural history of Shibari in Japan as a prison capture system** How to avoid or deal with circulatory issues in rope bondage** Dealing with expectations and the difference between fantasy and realityThis is a lively conversation with three strong, powerful women. Enjoy and check out all the websites:Miss Cassie's website:  Miss Cassie Loves RopeMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyLeather Archives and Museum

The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family. This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community.Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to her, her wife and her ladies in Ireland. We see you and we're sending lipstick kisses to you!Many people tell us about the challenges of striking a balance between their femme self and their other life responsibilities. Is it possible to be authentic and accepted? . In this episode you'll hear your Femdom hosts discuss:** Coming out about crossdressing desires** How to talk with your partner about wanting to wear feminine lingerie** How to talk calmly about concerns, limits and boundaries** Things to consider with family and other life circumstances.** How to find places and people who will cherish your authentic self** Sexual experiences when en femme. Do you want to be with a man?Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have lots of comments and other tips for crossdressers, sissies and transwomen.This episode centers on people who identify as engaging in some sort of feminization but much of the content also applies to anyone who is kinky and struggling to find people who understand and support you.Mistress Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it's your first time or you haven't been to a play party in years. Today's episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge. You'll hear conversation about:** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone?** What can I expect when I arrive at Naughty Knowledge?** How do I behave? What is proper BDSM and kink etiquette?** What is consent in kink and how do you handle this at a fetish event?** Pick up play: what is it, how do you get it and what not to do.** How to do BDSM negotiations and why communication is so important in kink play.** Are there really BDSM classes?** What do people wear or not wear?** What are some of the themed parties?** The difference between a BDSM play space and a 24 hour sex room.** What Studio 58 does to help people find pick up play partners.** How to volunteer and why this is a great way to make friends in the BDSM scene.Are you curious about the kink lifestyle and want to know more?Studio 58 Events and Naughty Knowledge in August are great opportunities to have a safe space to explore BDSM, meet other kinky people and have a lot of sexy fun!Naughty Knowledge August 15 - 18, 2024Studio 58FetlifeYou'll need to join Fetlife to look up the home page. Just do a search for Studio 58 on FetlifeMistress Olivia's blog, Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog, Intelligent Phone FantasyWhen:  August 15 - 18, 2024Where: Private Hotel Takeover & Event in Gettysburg PA.Who: Produced by Studio 58. Designed for newcomers, swinks, swingers, experienced kinksters and even brand-new folks who may be kinky in the bedroom but want to know more about safe and consensual BDSM. What:  3 day event with BDSM and kink education, skill sharing, demonstrations, pick up play opportunities, full BDSM dungeon play space and so much more.Registration and more information on the Studio 58 website in the Naughty Knowledge section.

Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon.Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event. Basically it's something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum and you are trying desperately to NOT cum until you are the last cock standing. Why? First, because it's a fun challenge and second, there are THREE free phone sex prizes if you can withstand our sexy voices telling you to cum. First prize is 60 minutes free with the Mistress of your choice.  If that's not incentive I don't know what is.Here's a write up of what you need to do to be part of this epic edging Stroke-a-thon event:The ladies talk about what you need to do to enter the Stroke-a-thon and then bring in some sexy Mistress friends to give you some special insights:** Why are these Femdoms so excited by this event?** Why do we WANT you to cum?** Get special tricks for edging longer.** Learn how to increase your stroking stamina.** Get a preview of some of our favorite masturbation techniques.In this episode you'll hear from:The Scarlet Mistress  Mistress Harper  Ms Nadia Mistress BeckyGoddess SkylarMistress DemiGoddess FionaRemember there is a lot of conversation about the Stroke-a-thon in our free adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Are you ready?  Remember if you need private lessons for edging, gooning, roleplay and all sort of fun, kinky adventures, just get in touch!Mistress Olivia    Mistress Erika   

Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play.You'll get answers to various common questions about electroplay:What is a Violet Wand? How is a Violet Wand different from a TENS Unit?What is the science behind kinksters using electroplay toys? Who uses Violet Wands and why?What does it mean when it's called a sensation toy?For BDSM players who are or have a pain slut, will electro play be suitably painful?Does electro play leave marks on the skin? Brittany explains and then talks about aftercare.Safety is a huge part of experienced BDSM kinksters, there is a discussion about dos and don'ts with electroplay, TENS units, medical devices, etc.This episode is packed with useful information, BDSM education, kinky stories and much more.The Dungeon Store:  https://thedungeonstore.com/Mistress Olivia's blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Today's guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, female owned. There is so much to talk about!Brittany's mom founded The Dungeon Store nearly two decades ago. The vast amount of BDSM gear and kink toys can be overwhelming. The Dungeon Store has a curated collection of BDSM toys and one of the most robust collections of electro play options for sale anywhere. The quality and creativity earned The Dungeon Store 3 AVN award nominations in the best pleasure products category.Today's episode is a lively conversation that goes to a wide variety of topics. For example, a question about wax play and the flameless wax play kit leads to a story from Mistress Olivia about a house fire and what survived the flames.The deer tan flogger that is for sale in The Dungeon Store allows Brittany to talk about different kinds of floggers and how they are made.The Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters inspires a dialog about the psychology of power exchange, the difference between a Top and a Domme and much more.Mistress Erika shares her interest in the occult. Brittany gives details about why there is a wide variety of occult books in The Dungeon Store.This episode runs the gamut of funny stories, cautionary stories, BDSM education, spirituality and opening your mind to new ideas.The Dungeon Store:  https://thedungeonstore.com/Mistress Olivia:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

The Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are transwomen. In this episode, you'll hear all about the challenges of feminization along with creative solutions from your Femdom hosts and the gurls involved in the Sissy PageantTopics include:Self image concerns going from male presenting to en femmeTips for a more feminine appearing bodyHow to speak in a more feminine mannerThe challenge of high heels and liquid eyelinerMakeup while needing to wear glassesFashion and clothingDating, meeting people and sexHow to have a sissygasmChastity as part of feminization or sissy trainingThis episode has advice from other ladies as well as from the Femdom hosts.If you have to keep your sissy or crossdresser activities on the down low, there are ideas for staying feminine when you're not able to dress en femme.What feminization or sissy challenges (or advice) do you have? You might inspire another episode!Mistress Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Enchantrix Empire: https://enchantrixempire.com/

Today's episode is inspired by the amazing answers to the Sissy Pageant questions. If you are not interested in feminization, this podcast might still resonate with you because this is about staying true to yourself and balancing that with the ‘rest' of life and personal responsibilitiesHere's the background. Enchantrix Empire, our free adult social networking site, was the recent location for our Sissy Pageant. Participants sent in 3 photos and then answered 4 questions about their feminization journey. Mistress Daphne is today's guest because she is the first one to publicly say what the Mistress judges were thinking. Here's what Ms Daphne said: “Is anyone as stunned as I am at these answers?! I find myself weeping with their stories and confessions! I am just so honored to listen to them. I want to give every one of them a giant hug for an hour! Just wow.”This ends up being a conversation about vulnerability, desire and connection touching on:** Fear of rejection when thinking about telling a partner about fantasies, desires and needs.** Hiding feminization desires from a partner who won't understand or accept them.** How to have a conversation about erotic desires at the start of a relationship (in a perfect world).** Balancing the desire to be a sissy with the responsibility to others in your life.** Ideas for how to feel femme without being en femme (dressed in women's clothes).This is a really tender episode, almost a love letter to our girly gurls and all of us who are kinky.Mistress Daphne:  https://enchantrixdaphne.com/Mistress Olivia:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Enchantrix Empire free adult social networking site:  https://enchantrixempire.com/