Stacey Norman

In collaboration with Confessions ZA- Every Thursday around this time, we detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. This week's confession from a mechanic had us questioning morality levels. From siphoning fuel to selling it, anonymous's employer had him doing the most. Here's what you had to say about the ordeal.

Two-time Grammy Award winner Gregory Porter brings his unmistakable voice and soul-stirring sound to Durban for the very first time. Known for global hits like “Liquid Spirit”, “Hey Laura”, and “Revival”, Porter's smooth baritone and heartfelt lyrics have made him one of the most iconic voices in jazz and soul. Don't miss this unforgettable night of world-class music at the ICC Arena in Durban. Listen to the full conversation here...

After seeing social media turn purple, Stacey and J Sbu got in contact with Women for Change. Cameron Kasambala, spokesperson for Women for Change, shared details about the G20 Women's National Shutdown planned for 21 November and the plight to get gender-based violence declared a national disaster. Here's how it went.

We came across an article which, upon fact-checking, we found not to be entirely accurate; however, it was still interesting. It read, “According to science, grabbing drinks with the boys can reduce sadness by 45%”. So, it turns out, it's not really about the drinks, it's about the connection. Sharing laughs, telling stories and simply being present with one another activate the brain's reward system. Stacey decided to put J Sbu and sports lead Nick Tatham to the test about this fake study. If you missed it live, listen in!

A couple of days ago, we heard the big news that Top Billing, a luxury lifestyle TV show, is returning to our screens. You'll remember that it was cancelled in 2019, after having been on our TV screens for 25 years. Now, you know that Top Billing is synonymous to nostalgia, and it got me thinking. Remember the days when airport final boarding calls were personalised? Or when a Friday night meant browsing the aisles of Mr Video, picking out a VHS or DVD for movie night? We dove into the warm fuzzies of the past and asked you what's the one thing that no longer exists but you wish it did? Here's what you had to say!

Right now, across South Africa, social media is turning purple. Profile pictures, timelines, stories, all drenched in a colour that's become a symbol of pain, power, and protest. But this isn't just a trend. It's a cry for help. It's a demand for change, because in this country, a woman is murdered every 2.5 hours. Because 117 rape cases are reported every single day and thousands more go unspoken. Because women and children are being violated in their homes, in their communities, and in their silence. The G20 Women's Shutdown, led by Women for Change, coincides with the G20 Leaders' Summit, which will be held in Johannesburg on 22 and 23 November. They are urging participants to avoid spending money for the entire day. The aim is to demonstrate the scale of the economic and social impact that women and LGBTQI+ individuals hold in their daily lives and what happens when their voices and labour are withdrawn. Additionally, as part of the shutdown, participants are being called to take part in a symbolic moment of silence at 12pm: lying down for 15 minutes to honour the 15 women who are murdered every day in this country. It's a powerful gesture meant to reflect both the scale of the tragedy and the urgency for change. Supporters of the shutdown are calling on the government to immediately declare GBV and femicide a national disaster. This, they argue, would trigger nationwide mobilisation of resources and political focus. On Friday, 21 November, women across South Africa plan to bring the country to a standstill.

J Sbu's trip to the mall today had him thinking hard about a certain box of biscuits that usually only come around toward the end of the year - Choice Assorted. After sharing his favourite biscuit, Stacey Norman, Sports Lead Nick Tatham and Shaina-Rae (in for traffic reporter Andi James), joined the conversation with their own opinions. Here's who won the great biscuit debate!

At just 15-years-old, Shreeya Mahadeo stands as one of South Africa's most promising young chess talents. A pupil at Durban Girls' College, her journey began at the age of seven when her father, Sebastian, first introduced her to the game. Since then, her passion and determination have propelled her to the international stage, where she will soon represent South Africa at the Commonwealth Chess Championships in Malaysia. Shreeya's path has not been without obstacles. She recalls moments of discouragement, particularly when international tournaments felt out of reach due to financial challenges. “I felt demotivated when it came to international trips because we couldn't actually afford it,” she shares. However, the launch of her BackaBuddy campaign has reignited her hope. “Now that we've started the BackaBuddy campaign, I have the opportunity to learn, gain experience, and represent my country, something I'm really happy to do.” Listen to the full conversation!

The travelling season is upon us and some people go on holiday to do absolutely nothing. Others pack three backpacks and lose their sleep chasing sunsets. This afternoon on the Great Drive Debate Stacey and J Sbu asked you: Which kind of holiday actually makes you better, the rest or the rush? Here's what you had to say...

Black Friday is just a couple of weeks away, and shoppers across South Africa are already gearing up for one of the biggest retail events of the year. It's that time when deals flood our timelines. When the discounts start flashing, do you stick to your budget and shop smart, or do you give in to the thrill and buy impulsively? Here's what you had to say...

South African cricket fans felt a familiar sting of heartbreak on Sunday as the Proteas Women gave their all in a fierce World Cup final clash against India in Mumbai, ultimately falling short by 52 runs. Though the dream slipped away, the Proteas Women walked off the field with pride - not as defeated players, but as warriors who proved, once again, that South African cricket has the heart, talent, and tenacity to stand among the best in the world. Nick Tatham takes us through the ins and outs of the game!

Every Thursday around this time, we detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. Anonymous said: "I used to think marriage was the dream, flowers, surprise dates, happily ever after. What a joke. Now my life is an endless cycle of cooking, cleaning, and picking up his disgusting stained underwear off the floor. Ladies, if you think being a housewife is glamorous, wake up. There's nothing dreamy about losing yourself in someone else's mess. And to top it off, we can't even have kids, so what's left? Nothing. Absolutely nothing to look forward to.” Here's what you had to say...

Stacey and J Sbu asked you what you enjoy popping in your bag when you leave your hotel after a stay. Thalia from Chatsworth spoke about her love for collecting sugar while Marchelle chanelled her inner Ross from Friends - "take the salt, not the shaker." We heard a story about towels and another about hotel gowns. If you missed it live, listen in!

Across social media and workplace forums, opinions are split. Some older professionals argue that Gen Z, born roughly between 1995 and 2012, lacks resilience, discipline, and respect for hierarchy. Others praise their boldness, digital fluency, and strong emphasis on mental health and purpose-driven work. In South Africa, where Gen Z is expected to make up 40% of the workforce by 2030, this generational tension is impossible to ignore. Those who believe employers should adapt say Gen Z brings fresh ideas, values, and flexibility that modern workplaces need. Studies show that 86% of Gen Zs consider purpose key to job satisfaction, while 77% value work-life balance above all else.

Heading into today's sports breakdown, we're turning our eyes to the ladies in green and gold, the South Africa Women's Cricket Team, the Proteas Women, who have been making serious waves at the 2025 ICC Women's Cricket World Cup. They've battled through the group stage, secured a knockout berth, and shown the grit of champions, but it hasn't been easy. From that nail-biting victory over Bangladesh to a fierce face-off with Australia, they've been tested every step of the way. Our Sports Lead Nick Tatham broke down how the Proteas got into this position, what's next on their journey and why this moment matters not just for women's cricket, but for sport in South Africa as a whole.

Mrs Mbali Mthembu Mensah, Clinical Psychologist, Founder, and CEO of Turning Point Mental Health, joined us in the studio today to unpack what positive mental health really means. She touched on the five important pillars that we need to consider while also stressing the importance of self-care. If you missed it live, listen in.

When Stacey and J Sbu opened the lines for their weekly “Confessions” segment, they could hardly have anticipated the storm that would follow. An anonymous confession landed in their inbox, revealing a tale of workplace sabotage that left both hosts, and their listeners, reeling. The confession, read aloud by Stacey, detailed how the anonymous sender manipulated a colleague's calendar, causing them to miss a crucial meeting. The result? The colleague was left flustered, received a warning, and ultimately went on stress leave, while the confessor secured a long-coveted promotion. Yet, the victory was hollow, as guilt and regret soon set in.

Listeners opened up with stories of heartbreak, lessons learned and the unexpected ways loss shapes us. Stacey and J Sbu explored it all, reminding us that what we lose often tells us as much about ourselves as what we hold dear. We heard from Lena who misplaced her wedding ring. She unfortunately lost her husband in January 2025. Malacai from Pietermaritzburg lost an item from his cousin and still hasn't told her! Chris spoke about the diamond that fell out of his mom's diamond ring. He was around ten years old back then, his determination allowed him to spend 3 hours to search for the diamond which he found! Michelle's mother's gift of a gold cluster set was misplaced while Mario left his laptop on top of his car and drove off completely forgetting where it was!

Final exams for the Matric class of 2025 are currently underway and they need as much support as possible. That is why aunty Stacey and uncle J Sbu called on the little ones of the province to be that pillar of support during this highly stressful period. Here's what the kiddos of KZN had to share for the Class of 2025.

Let's be real, 10 years ago, buying property felt like a no-brainer. You bought, you waited, the value went up. However, fast-forward to now, and you've got crime, bad drainage, rising rates, and some suburbs that are literally sinking under bad service delivery. If you're the type who wants flexibility, less stress and doesn't want to fight the municipality over every water leak, then renting is peace of mind. No bond, no rates, just pay your rent and go live your life. Stacey and J Sbu asked you, the people of KZN, what you think about buying property in KZN. Here's what you had to say...

Work stress doesn't stand a chance against the wild and wonderful after-work rituals shared by Stacey, J Sbu, and you! From beachside dolphin-spotting and traffic jam singalongs to boxing out frustrations and savoring late-night cappuccinos, this episode is a whirlwind of creative mood-boosters. Whether it's gaming, binge-watching comfort series or simply soaking in nature's magic, everyone's got a unique way to shake off the day. Dive into a world where laughter, quirky routines, and a dash of extra make every evening feel like a celebration of life beyond the grind. If you missed it live, listen in!

Cricket fever is in full swing as Stacey Norman and J Sbu bring their signature banter and infectious energy to the mic, celebrating the Proteas Women's electrifying journey to the ICC World Cup semifinals. Stacey's sharp wit and eagle-eyed restaurant play-by-play meet J Sbu's hype and hilarious commentary, as they relive the team's epic bounce-back from a rocky opener to a string of dominant wins. Enter sports oracle Nick Tatham, who delivers the inside scoop with cool confidence, breaking down the group standings, the looming clash with Pakistan, and the weather chaos threatening to rain on everyone's parade. Nick's expert analysis keeps the stakes high, while Stacey and J Sbu keep the vibes light, rooting for the “girlies” to make herstory and knock it out of the park. If you missed it live, listen in!

Once a week, Stacey and J Sbu allow the kiddos of KZN to share their unfiltered ideas on air. This week, the duo asked the kids: "What's something grown-ups always say that doesn't make sense to you?" Jordan spoke about his parents asking him to pull up his socks when he's not even wearing socks! Here;s what your little ones had to say...

From skin to size to shape, there's always that one thing we've wished we could change or hide. So what happens when you finally decide to stop apologising for your body and start embracing it? Stacey and J Sbu asked you, the people of KZN, to weigh in on your turning point, that moment when you began living freely in your own skin. Research shows that true self-acceptance often grows through support, not pressure. What helped you get there? Was it a kind word, a life event or finally seeing your worth? Here's what you had to say.

South Africa has dropped 50 places on the Global Safety Index, now ranking below Kyrgyzstan and Ecuador. With over 5,700 murders and more than a million homes broken into between January and March 2025, Stacey and J Sbu wanted to know: who's really to blame? In this week's Great Drive Debate, they asked you, the people of KZN, whether South Africa's shocking crime rate stems from bad policing or from a deeper societal breakdown. Are our law enforcement agencies failing us, or have communities themselves lost their moral compass? Here's what you had to say.

Welcome to the AI genre swap revolution! Your favourite tracks are getting bizarre yet brilliant makeovers. AI tools are now allowing users to upload songs to instantly transform them into different genres. It's almost like a musical cosplay. Stacey and J Sbu dug into the nitty-gritty of what it actually means and played a few AI remixes (along with the originals). If you missed it live, listen in! Image courtesy of ECR / ChatGPT and Canva

Ever feel like you're paying for hundreds of channels but only watch a handful? You're not alone! In this episode, Stacey and J Sbu hand over the remote to you and ask: If you could build your own dream entertainment package, what are your must-haves? From sports and true crime to old-school cartoons and Nollywood hits, our listeners share their top picks, and things get hilariously heated!

Join Stacy, J Sbu, and Nick Tatham as they break down the Bafana Bafana vs. Zimbabwe match, share fan reactions, and discuss what's next for South Africa's World Cup hopes. Quick insights, lively banter, and all the key moments.

With the onset of the school holidays, J Sbu has been going through a tough time with his little one. It's not anything dramatic, the kid is just bored! While J Sbu struggles with the daily "Dad, I'm bored. Dad, I'm hungry", he decided to ask you, the people of KZN, what your solutions are. One caller suggested ensuring your child plays the ENTIRE day and has a warm bath to ensure they have a good night's rest. Here's what you had to say...

Durban student Keyuren Maharaj, 23, has created CityMenderSA – South Africa's first free, comprehensive service delivery reporting app. Frustrated by recurring infrastructure issues and a lack of accountability, Keyuren designed a platform where citizens can log, track, and publicly view issues like potholes, leaks, and outages. Each report generates a reference number and is mapped for public transparency, ensuring municipalities can no longer ignore complaints. Currently studying Mechanical Engineering at UKZN, Keyuren combined his technical and leadership skills to build a tool that promotes accountability, encourages civic participation, and has the potential to transform service delivery across KwaZulu-Natal and beyond.

South Africa's Constitutional Court has rewritten the rules of parenthood at work. In a landmark ruling, the court declared sections of the Basic Conditions of Employment Act and UIF Act unconstitutional, opening the door for equal parental leave regardless of gender, adoption, or surrogacy. This changes not only the world of work, but also the very fabric of family life in South Africa. To unpack what this means for parents, employers, and the future, we're joined by Legal Expert Hope Mboweni of Shepstone and Wylie.

It's time for a whirlwind ride through the world of South African sport with Nick Tatham's latest update! Kicking things off, Nick and the team celebrate the Springboks' nail-biting 29-27 victory over Argentina at Twickenham, clinching the rugby championship with a points difference that left New Zealand in the dust. The excitement is palpable - think World Cup vibes, confetti and a chorus of “well dones” echoing across the nation. However, the drama doesn't stop there! Nick dives into the tangled web of Bafana Bafana's World Cup qualifying campaign, where a three-point deduction and a forfeited match have left fans clutching their calculators and biting their nails. With the team now neck-and-neck with Benin, every goal counts, and Friday's clash against Zimbabwe at Moses Mabhida Stadium is set to be a do-or-die affair. Nick's playful banter and cheeky optimism shine through, urging Zimbabwe to “let us win this one, please!” and rallying the nation behind Bafana Bafana.

Daniel shared a heartfelt confession about finding a letter from his girlfriend, revealing her past suicidal thoughts. Unsure whether to confront her or seek help, Daniel's dilemma sparked a sensitive discussion on mental health. Listeners called in with their own experiences, emphasising the importance of open communication, professional support, and community. The conversation highlighted the challenges faced by those supporting loved ones in crisis and the need for patience, understanding, and accessible mental health care.

In today's changing world, parents face the dilemma of whether to direct their children toward traditional careers or emerging fields shaped by technology and automation. Professions once seen as stable, like law or medicine, are evolving or shrinking, while careers in coding, robotics, and engineering are increasingly valued. Parents must balance financial security with supporting their children's passions. Some advocate letting children follow their interests, while others stress building practical skills as a safety net. Here's what you had to say about this topic!

Every Wednesday, the little ones of our province melt our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week, Aunty Stacey and Uncle J Sbu asked the kids of KZN: If you could make up a new holiday, what would it be called, and how would we celebrate? Here's what your little ones had to say!

Stacey Norman and J Sbu hosted a discussion with listeners about the impact of over-commercialising residential areas. The conversation was prompted by recent changes in places like Umhlanga, where new business developments, including a proposed casino, have sparked debate among residents. Listeners described the transformation of quiet, seaside towns into busy commercial centres, raising concerns about increased traffic, noise, and pressure on local infrastructure. Stacey shared her own experiences of water, sewage, and traffic issues, noting that the area's infrastructure now struggles to cope with the growing number of businesses and visitors.

On Friday, as anticipation built across KwaZulu-Natal, our Sports Lead Nick Tatham gave us an inside look at the Springboks' mindset. The team's focus was evident even before kick-off, and by Saturday evening, their determination had been emphatically proven on the field. Now, with such a powerful display behind them, the big questions emerge. What does this dominant win signal for the Springboks going forward, and how much of a statement have they made to the rest of the rugby world? Nick, in studio as always, unpacks the atmosphere, the achievement and the road ahead.

Today on Confessions with Stacey and J Sbu, listeners were taken on an emotional journey through the story of a graduate who has been unemployed for five years. The reason, however, is not what the parents believe. While they attribute the ongoing job search to a difficult market, the real cause is a secret that has weighed heavily on their child's conscience. The confession, read aloud by J Sbu, reveals that during varsity, the confessor was arrested for drinking and driving. A night in jail was followed by a late uncle's intervention, who paid the fine and promised to keep the incident from the confessor's parents. Since then, every job application has been hindered by a criminal record, leaving the graduate at home, unable to explain the true reason for their struggle. Stacey and J Sbu open the floor to listeners. Some callers suggest that the confessor should investigate whether the record can be expunged, while others, particularly parents, express the pain of being kept in the dark. The emotional toll of maintaining such a secret is discussed, with many agreeing that the burden of the lie can be worse than the original mistake. Legal perspectives are shared, noting that expungement is not automatic and can take up to ten years, requiring legal assistance and transparency.

ECR NewsWatch's Nushera Soodyal sits down with Stacey and J Sbu to unpack one of the most talked-about testimonies before the commission of inquiry: National Police Commissioner Fannie Masemola's claims about the disbandment of the Political Killings Task Team. Masemola testified that Police Minister Senzo Mchunu's decision to dissolve the specialised unit in December last year was unlawful, arguing that the minister overstepped his mandate. According to Masemola, operational decisions like creating or dissolving units fall under his authority as commissioner, while the minister's role is limited to shaping broad policing policy. Adding weight to his argument, SAPS legal head General Petronella van Rooyen told the commission that Mchunu acted outside his powers. Masemola revealed that he even turned to President Cyril Ramaphosa for intervention, only to be told that the president would speak to Mchunu, a move that ultimately did not change the outcome. Earlier testimony by General Nhlanhla Mkhwanazi also suggested that the disbandment could have been influenced by powerful figures seeking to derail investigations into a high-profile murder syndicate. Listen in as Nushera breaks down the explosive details, legal complexities and the bigger questions about accountability in South Africa's policing system.

Join Stacey and J Sbu as they break down the latest developments in the high-stakes Madlanga Commission of Inquiry. With expert insights from the East Coast Radio Newswatch team, this episode unpacks explosive claims of corruption, political interference, and criminal syndicates infiltrating South Africa's justice system. Discover what's at stake, who the key players are, and why this commission matters to every South African. Tune in for a compelling, accessible look at a story gripping the nation.

Ever wished your washing would dry, steam, and fold itself? Or that a tap could pour you a glass of wine after a long day? Join Stacey and J Sbu as they celebrate new beginnings, homeownership, and the wildest household gadgets you can imagine! From dishwashers to dream machines, our East Coast listeners share the appliances that would change their lives. Tune in for laughs, relatable rants, and a little bit of magic, only on East Coast Radio!

Stacey and J Sbu received an interesting confession today. The confession came from a woman in her late twenties who revealed the pressure she faces at every family gathering, constantly being asked when she plans to have children. Overwhelmed by the repeated questioning, she admitted to lying to her family, telling them she cannot have children, when in reality, she simply does not want children at this time. She described feeling both guilty and relieved—guilty for the lie, but relieved that the questions had finally stopped. Stacey and J Sbu opened the discussion to their audience, inviting listeners to weigh in. The responses were heartfelt and varied. Patty from Queensborough expressed deep empathy, noting that even after having a child, the questions often continue, shifting to when the next child will come. Patty emphasised that such personal matters should not be up for public discussion, highlighting the pain that could be caused if someone truly could not have children. J Sbu admitted feeling uncomfortable about the need to lie, especially about something as sensitive as infertility, but acknowledged the intense pressure that can drive someone to such lengths. He pointed out that many people struggle with fertility, and lying about it can be a difficult choice, but sometimes it feels like the only way to find relief. Another listener, Samantha from Richards Bay, shared her own approach to intrusive questions, saying she responds with humour or deflection, such as asking, “When are you going to die?” to highlight the inappropriateness of such personal enquiries. She and Stacey discussed how these questions often come from people who may not have much else to talk about, and how similar comments are made about weight or other personal matters. Other callers reflected on cultural expectations and the pressure to have children, especially from older family members who want to see grandchildren. Some suggested setting clear boundaries with family, while others emphasised that decisions about having children are deeply personal and should not be subject to outside pressure. Stacey summed up the sentiment by stating that everyone's life journey is unique, and personal choices about parenting are not anyone else's business. The conversation highlighted the importance of respecting boundaries and supporting individuals in making decisions that are right for them.