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Stacey Norman is a vibey and quirky way to get your day moving. You'll love that you're the co-host of this show. The stylish, sussed and sassy Stacey quips, "Whatever you love is what we'll do!"

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    Inside SA's violent CIT heists: How to protect yourself in the crossfire

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2026 4:10


    A cash-in-transit (CIT) robbery on the N2 southbound in Durban on Wednesday morning has again placed the spotlight on the risks linked to these crimes, despite a recent decline in overall incidents. According to Cash-In-Transit Association of South Africa (CITASA) head Grant Clark, the industry continues to strengthen security interventions. This sentiment was echoed by Wahl Bartmann, CEO of Fidelity Services Group. Bartmann noted that the industry works closely with law enforcement and other authorities. If you missed it live, listen in...

    Parents Hotline: After kids, do you understand your parents better?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2026 12:14


    It's time for Parents Hotline, where we talk about the real stuff behind raising kids. Today, Stacey and J Sbu asked you: Now that you have your own kids, do you understand your parents better? We heard from quite a few people who talked about their own struggles growing up and how it's shaped them into the parents they are today. If you missed it live, listen in!

    What is the most amount of money you have ever saved?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2026 3:09


    Every Wednesday, the little ones of our province take over our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week, aunty Stacey and uncle J Sbu asked you: What is the most amount of money you have ever saved? Here's what your adorable little ones had to say...

    R22 million for statues: President Ramaphosa unveils two major monuments in Durban

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2026 3:20


    President Cyril Ramaphosa has officially unveiled two major monuments in Durban, honouring liberation struggle icons Oliver Tambo and Nelson Mandela. The nine-metre bronze statue of Tambo, the ANC's first president, now stands along the beachfront, while a second statue of Mandela was unveiled at Moses Mabhida Stadium. The two structures cost a combined R22 million, with eThekwini Mayor Cyril Xaba reflecting on the historical weight of the beachfront site, reminding attendees that it was there, just two weeks after his release from prison, that Mandela called for an end to violence, urging people to “throw pangas, spears and guns into the sea.” However, the unveiling has sparked political debate. The DA's eThekwini mayoral candidate, Hanif Hoosen, led a beachfront demonstration, arguing that the funds should have prioritised fixing failing sewer infrastructure, particularly amid ongoing concerns about sewage flowing into the ocean. The municipality maintains the statues were funded through the city's tourism budget and not from service-delivery allocations. Public sentiment also shares the same frustration that with thousands of social ills in the metro, why is R22 million being directed to such a project. Here's what you had to say about it...

    Menstrual products: OBGYN sits down with Stacey and J Sbu

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2026 8:01


    Stacey and J Sbu spoke about a burning issue, new research has found hormone-disrupting chemicals in sanitary pads sold here in South Africa. What does that mean for women's health, our hormones and our fertility? We speak to a fertility specialist and OBGYN, Dr Siyanda Zulu, to unpack the science, the risks and what women need to know. If you missed it live, listen in...

    Richards Bay woman shares life in UAE amid unrest

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2026 6:30


    Natasha Naidoo, originally from Richards Bay and now living in the United Arab Emirates, shared her firsthand experience of the current unrest during an interview with Stacey Norman and J Sbu. While many South Africans are following developments through social media and news reports, Natasha and her family are living through the situation daily. She explained that authorities have implemented safety measures, including real-time phone alerts to warn residents of potential threats, allowing them time to take precautions. For now, daily life continues with adjustments. Natasha and her husband are working from home, and their daughter is attending school online. Shops remain open and essential activities are still taking place. She reassured South Africans with loved ones in the affected areas not to panic, saying that conditions on the ground remain calm despite events unfolding in the air. Counselling services have also been made available to support residents during this time.

    Confessions: “I chose financial security over my own happiness”

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2026 9:52


    Every Thursday, Stacey and J Sbu detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. This week they heard from anonymnous who feels stuck in an unhappy relationship. Anonymous chooses not to leave to avoid having to pay all their bills on their own. We shared the confession with you and this is how it went...

    Do you think you should be paid to do chores?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2026 4:38


    Every Wednesday the little ones of our province melt our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week aunty Stacey and uncle J Sbu asked your little ones: Do you think you should be paid to do chores? If you missed it live, here's what your smart kiddos had to say...

    Great Drive Debate: The name and shame campaign

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2026 8:15


    The Department of Transport and Human Settlements in KwaZulu-Natal has introduced a “Name and Shame” campaign targeting certain offenders, particularly those convicted of serious traffic violations such as drunk driving. Under this approach, the names of convicted offenders are publicly released as part of efforts to deter dangerous behaviour on the roads. The department argues that this tougher stance is meant to promote accountability, increase road safety, and send a clear message that reckless driving will have consequences beyond fines or jail time. Stacey and J Sbu posed this question: Is naming and shaming a necessary wake-up call or is it public humiliation? Here's what you had to say...

    Name and shame campaign cuts road deaths by 18%

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2026 8:49


    KwaZulu-Natal has achieved an unprecedented 18% decrease in road fatalities during the festive season, marking the first such reduction in two decades. The Department of Transport and Human Settlements credits this success to its "name and shame" campaign, which publicly identifies convicted drunk drivers alongside their professions and locations. Spokesperson for the KwaZulu-Natal Department of Transport and Human Settlements, Ndabezinhle Sibiya explained the impact of the campaign to Stacey and J Sbu. Here's how it went...

    “I pretend to be broke so people stop asking me for money": A clever solution

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2026 8:11


    Every Thursday around this time, we detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. Here's what anonymous shared with us: “I pretend to be broke, not because I am, but because the people closest to me won't stop asking for money. It started with small favours. ‘Can you help just this once?' Then it became expectations. Family members are counting my salary before I even get paid. Friends making plans with my wallet in mind. I tried being honest. I said no. I explained boundaries and suddenly I was ‘selfish', ‘forgetting where I come from', ‘acting better than everyone else'. So now I lie. I complain about being broke. I downplay promotions. I hide wins, because it's easier than being guilt-tripped by the people who raised me and grew up with me. They say money shouldn't come between family and friends, but money already has. So tell me… am I wrong for protecting myself, or wrong for lying to the people who expect me to provide?"

    HPV Prevention: Stacey Norman shares her journey and an expert weighs in

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2026 8:05


    Last year the National Department of Health shared that Human Papillomavirus vaccinations will be conducted at public, special, private and independent schools by teams of healthcare workers. The Department has stressed that Cervical Cancer is highly preventable through the HPV vaccination. They further encouraged parents, caregivers and legal guardians to sign the consent form to ensure that their children do not miss out on life-saving vaccinations. But what IS HPV? Dr. Angelique Coetzee, South African general practitioner and former chair of the South African Medical Association, went into detail about this viral infection and why vaccination is important. Stacey also took a moment to share her own experience with HPV and cervical cancer. If you missed it live, listen in...

    Homework vs TV: A would you rather with the kids of KZN

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2026 1:42


    Every Wednesday, the little ones of our province take over our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week, Aunty Stacey and Uncle J Sbu asked your little ones: Would you rather not do homework and never be able to watch TV again or do homework and watch TV whenever you want?

    Who actually has the "license" to discipline your child?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2026 11:15


    Discipline is the ultimate balancing act, but lately, the scales are tipping. These days, we see very different worlds. Throw in the reality of parental fatigue, that bone-deep exhaustion where you just want to tap out without being judged and the lines get even blurrier. So, here's the real question we're asking you on the drive home: Who is actually allowed to discipline the child and is "stepping in" helping or hurting? Here's what you had to say...

    Financial abuse by loved ones - when is it too much?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2026 12:29


    This week, Stacey and J Sbu touched on a topic plaguing many South African households. From a R100 here, to a R500 for this and before you know it - you have no money in your bank. J Sbu shared a touching, personal story about his struggle with financial mistreatment from a loved one before we heard from Anonymous, who had a few hard-hitting words. Registered Counsellor Linda Turner helped us with advice on how to say no.

    Varsity Cup: Emeris players AB Mthembu and Jacques Marais share it all

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2026 7:02


    They've earned their spot. From unbeaten Shield champions to stepping onto the biggest stage in university rugby, the Varsity Cup. Now, flying the KZN flag with pride, hunger and something to prove, the Emeris boys are in the building. Stacey Norman and sports lead Nick Tatham spoke with AB Mthembu and Jacques Marais, and here's how it went...

    Kiddies Hotline: Choose your own wake-up and bed time

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2026 4:12


    Every Wednesday, the little ones of our province melt our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week, Aunty Stacey asked the kiddos: If you chose your own wake-up and bed time, what would it be? Here's what your little ones had to say...

    SONA: Should it have honest, bad news or polished promises?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2026 14:39


    This Thursday, the nation listens as the President delivers the State of the Nation Address. Basically, the SONA provides the President with an opportunity to reflect on the state of the nation across political, economic and social fronts - both domestically and within a shifting global context. It is also a moment of accountability, where the Head of State reports to citizens on government's performance and sets out the programme of action for the year ahead. We asked you, would you rather hear HONEST bad news or POLISHED promises? Here's what you had to say...

    The People's SONA with Stacey and J Sbu

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2026 4:22


    the State of the Nation Address is happening this week Thursday, and yes, the President will speak, the country will listen, and the group chats will be busy. Basically, the SONA provides the President with an opportunity to reflect on the state of the nation across political, economic and social fronts - both domestically and within a shifting global context. It is also a moment of accountability, where the Head of State reports to citizens on government's performance and sets out the programme of action for the year ahead. However, before all of that, we thought, let's actually hear from the people who live this thing every single day. No big words, no politics, no podiums. Just real South Africans, in their own voices, giving us their version of the State of the Nation.” This is the People's SONA.

    Winter Olympics 2026: Here's the latest with Nick Tatham

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2026 5:03


    Now, when you think of South Africa, you don't exactly think snow, skis, and minus-ten temperatures. We're more sunscreen than snow boots. But believe it or not, the Winter Olympics are underway, and yes, Team South Africa is in the mix. From ice rinks to alpine slopes, there are South Africans out there flying the flag, proving that you don't need to grow up in the snow to compete on it. And if you're wondering who, where, and how on earth we ended up there, we've got you covered. Our Sport Lead, Nick Tatham is standing by with a look at the Winter Olympics, a special focus on Team SA, and why this is actually a bigger deal than you might think.

    Foot and Mouth disease update with NewsWatch

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2026 3:22


    There's an important update on the Foot-and-Mouth Disease situation that's been affecting livestock across the country, and particularly here in KZN. The outbreak has been serious enough that the province is moving to declare it a provincial disaster, with hundreds of cases recorded and big impacts on farmers and local communities. It's a situation with real economic and social consequences, from rising meat prices to farm livelihoods, and our News Anchor, Dineo Mphahlela has the latest details and what this means today. Listen in here...

    Domestic workers' pay rises in 2026: Here's what South African households must know

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2026 5:00


    The Department of Employment and Labour has announced the latest updates to South Africa's National Minimum Wage, affecting domestic workers, farm workers, and other applicable employees. Following recommendations from the National Minimum Wage Council, the rate has been increased by 5%, moving from R28.79 to R30.23 per ordinary hour worked. For a standard 45-hour work week, the increase translates to a weekly wage of R1,264.85. When calculated over a month of 4.3 weeks (or 195 hours), the minimum becomes R5,894.40. For households employing domestic workers on a more typical 160-hour month, the minimum monthly wage rises to R4,834, up from R4,606 in 2025. Households must also note that South Africa's minimum wage laws require employers to pay for at least four hours of work each day, regardless of the actual hours worked. This sets the true daily minimum for domestic workers at approximately R121, an increase from R115 last year. Domestic workers have been fully covered by the National Minimum Wage since 2022. However, data suggests that many workers are still earning below the legal minimum. According to BusinessTech, median salaries reported by Stats SA show that domestic workers earn around R2,350 per month, equivalent to R14.69 per hour for a 160-hour month. This is less than half of the 2026 minimum wage.

    Confession: Break his heart or save his soul?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2026 7:36


    Every Thursday around this time, we detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. This week's confession was not THAT deep but Stacey and J Sbu still had opinions to share. Listen in!

    Bill Gates mentioned in the Epstein files? Stacey and J Sbu weigh in...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2026 4:25


    You've probably heard about the Epstein files hitting the headlines again, that's the huge release of documents tied to the late Jeffrey Epstein, the disgraced financier who died in jail back in 2019 while facing serious criminal charges. Epstein was connected to scores of rich and famous folks over the years, and with millions of pages recently made public by the U.S. Justice Department, everyone from politicians to business leaders is being mentioned in one way or another. Now one name that's popped up recently that you might not have expected is Bill Gates, yes, that Bill Gates, the Microsoft co-founder and global health philanthropist. Before you roll your eyes, he's not selling a new version of Windows or a ‘Philanthropy 2.0' update, but Gates has spoken up about seeing Epstein in the past and the headline he gave us is pretty honest. Do tell. In a recent interview, Bill Gates said he regrets ‘every minute' he ever spent with Jeffrey Epstein, calling those meetings a ‘foolish' mistake. Here's how it went...

    World Cancer Day: Clinical Exec answers the real questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2026 12:54


    Today is World Cancer Day, and this year's theme, “United by Unique,” reminds us that while every cancer journey is personal, prevention is a shared responsibility. In South Africa, the urgency is real. The National Cancer Registry recorded 87 853 new cancer cases in 2023, with experts warning the true number may be even higher. With cancer cases projected to nearly double by 2030, early detection and prevention are no longer optional, they're essential. Today, we were joined by Justine Lacy, Clinical Executive at Profmed, who believes too many people are diagnosed late, not because they don't care, but because they lack access to the right information. Today's conversation asks one key question: how do we move from awareness to action on cancer prevention? Listen in here...

    Kiddies Hotline: Something you'd like to learn how to do this year?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2026 3:22


    Every Wednesday the little ones of our province melt our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week Stacey and J Sbu asked the little ones of the province: What is something you'd like to learn how to do this year? This is what your kiddies had to say...

    Regret around parenting: Should you be able to admit it without being cancelled?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2026 16:38


    On today's Great Drive Debate, we're having a sensitive but important conversation. This discussion is about honesty, not judgement and about understanding parental fatigue, not questioning love for children. Should parents be allowed to say they regret becoming parents, without being cancelled? Stacey and J Sbu shared the airwaves with you. Here's how it all went down..

    Grammy's: Stacey and J Sbu are live... Allegedly

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2026 2:13


    The red carpet. The biggest stars in music. Absolute confusion. J Sbu anchors a very serious Grammys cross… while Stacey reports live from what starts as Hollywood glamour and slowly unravels into something else entirely. Big wins, bigger emotions, questionable interviews and a reality check no one saw coming. It's polished. It's chaotic. It's journalism-adjacent at best. Press play for a behind-the-scenes moment that proves not all live crosses go to plan.

    Aphelele Fassi joins Stacey, J Sbu and Nick Tatham in studio

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2026 13:29


    Sharks rugby fullback Aphelele Fassi joined Stacey and J Sbu in studio ahead of what promises to be a humdinger clash against the DHL Stormers this weekend! Sports lead Nick Tatham started things off with a quick Q & A with Fassi before the team surprised him with a call from a loved one. Here's how it all went down...

    Kiddies Hotline: What's the one thing girls your age should stop apologising for?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2026 2:08


    Every Wednesday, the little ones of our province take over our airwaves with their cuteness. It's a chance for the kids of KZN to share something with us. This week we asked the kids of KZN: What's the one thing girls your age should stop apologising for? Here's what your little ones had to say...

    Degrees: Are they worth it or wildly oversold?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2026 12:36


    Stacey and J Sbu unpacked one of South Africa's biggest post-school questions: is university still worth the cost, or are degrees being oversold? The debate touched on rising tuition fees, limited access, student debt and the pressure facing young people today. The YES side argued that degrees still open doors, offering valuable skills, stronger employment prospects and long-term career flexibility. The NO side pushed back, highlighting graduate unemployment, underemployment and deep inequality, backed by real-life experiences from KZN and beyond. Listener calls and voice notes shaped the conversation and brought the debate to life.

    Post-school system under pressure, urges shift beyond universities

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2026 3:45


    If you're sitting with a matric certificate right now and wondering whether there's space for you in the system, this one matters. Higher Education Minister Buti Manamela says South Africa's post-school education system is not in crisis, but it is under serious pressure. Around 650,000 learners passed matric, but post-school institutions can only absorb just over 80% of them. Speaking in Pretoria, Manamela has challenged what he calls a “university-only mindset”, saying universities were never meant to be the sole pathway after school. If you missed it live, tune in!

    Songs that are a decade old in 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2026 3:51


    There's a moment that sneaks up on all of us, when you hear a song and think, “This still feels new.” And then you realise, it's not. It's ten years old, a full decade. Somewhere between loading playlists and saying “just one more song”, time quietly sprinted past us. We've created a montage of the songs that turn 10 years in 2026, the kind you still sing like they came out last summer, but in reality, they've been around long enough to have their own anniversary candles. These are the tracks that make you question time itself, the ones that don't feel old enough to be nostalgic, yet somehow are.

    Kiddies Hotline: How much do you think all your school stuff costs?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2026 5:25


    Every Wednesday, Aunty Stacey and Uncle J Sbu let the kiddos of KZN take over. They pose a question and allow your little ones to share their thoughts. This week they asked your kiddos: "How much do you think it cost for all your school supplies?" Here's what the kiddos of KZN had to say...

    Confessions: Trouble with a mama's boy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2026 15:05


    Every Thursday around this time, we detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. This week's confession went like this: "I fear that my boyfriend of six years has no intention of marrying me, not because he doesn't love me, but because I refuse to replace his mother. I won't manage his life, cushion his consequences, or pretend that adulthood is optional. I love him deeply, but love alone cannot compete with the comfort of a home where his meals are prepared, his laundry is done, and his responsibilities are postponed indefinitely. I want partnership, commitment, and the discipline that comes with choosing someone every day. He, on the other hand, seems content remaining a son before becoming a husband. And the more I push for growth, the more I am made to feel unreasonable, demanding, or impatient. What troubles me most is the quiet realisation that I may not be waiting on a proposal, but on a man to outgrow the safety net he has no incentive to leave. And I am left asking myself a difficult question: am I asking too much, or simply asking the wrong person?” Here's what you had to say...

    Civil weddings don't erase customary marriages

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2026 4:48


    South Africa's highest court has just delivered a landmark ruling on how marriage law works when traditional customs meet modern civil law, and it could affect thousands of couples, especially here in KwaZulu-Natal, where customary marriages are common. The Constitutional Court has clarified that a civil marriage does not erase or override an existing customary marriage. Instead, the two forms of marriage combine into one continuous legal union, and that has big implications, particularly for property rights, asset division and how matrimonial property is governed when spouses decide to enter into a civil marriage after being married under customary law. To help us understand what this ruling actually means, especially for families and couples here in KZN, and how it might affect things like property, inheritance and asset protection, we turned to our Legal Expert on Family Law, Chulumanco Ncapai, from Shepstone and Wylie Attorneys for deeper insight.

    Why did you lie?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2026 11:35


    There is something that's been sitting with me for a while (add context on what it is), and I didn't realise how heavy it was until I tried to put words to it. We talk about honesty like it's a straight line, like you either tell the truth or you don't, but real life doesn't work like that. Sometimes the truth feels like it's going to cost you peace, relationships, or stability. And that's where the lie creeps in. Not because you're trying to deceive, but because you're trying to survive a moment you're not ready for. This is where I want to pause us for a second, because what you're saying is something a lot of people are quietly living with. You're not talking about lying to hurt someone; you're talking about lying to manage a situation. So let me ask you this: when you chose not to tell the truth, was it fear that drove it, or was it the belief that the truth would cause more damage than the lie? You shared why you lied, and this is how it went down...

    Deserving or out of touch? Increase approved for millionaire ministers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 18:54


    South Africa is once again in the spotlight after President Cyril Ramaphosa approved a 3.8 percent salary increase for ministers and members of Parliament, as well as 4.1 percent for provincial office‑bearers, a move that adds tens of thousands of rand a year to already hefty salaries. Ministers will now take home around R2.8 million annually, while many MPs cross well over R1 million per year, even before benefits and allowances are included. We asked you if this is deserved or out of touch and this is what you had to say...

    Jan vs March: Who are you at different times of the year?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 6:04


    Every January, millions of us show up like new people. We're gym-goers, early risers, budget masters, detox devotees, only for that energy to fade fast. Turns out there's real psychology behind this yearly personality shift. Researchers call the start of the year a “fresh start” moment: a temporal landmark that makes us feel like we can leave past habits behind and become a new version of ourselves. That sense of a clean slate gives January a motivational pump that most other days don't have. But here's the catch: most of that motivation isn't backed by habit or structure. Studies show that up to 80 percent of New Year's resolutions are dropped within the first month, largely because we set ambitious goals without the systems to support them. And another trend in psychology suggests it's not just about willpower, it's about readiness, planning and the way habits are formed over time. Jumping straight into big change on January 1st often means we're not truly prepared for the effort required. No wonder so many of us are a different person in January, enthusiastic, hopeful, even a little extreme, only to see that version fade by March. It's not just about losing steam; it's about how we approach change and why the calendar alone isn't enough to sustain it. We asked you: Who are you in January that disappears by March? Here's what you had to say...

    Foot-and-mouth disease fears: What KZN's outbreak means for farmers, food and the future

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 4:22


    There's growing concern across KwaZulu-Natal's agricultural sector as the province deals with a foot-and-mouth disease outbreak that's putting pressure on farmers, supply chains and biosecurity controls. While authorities have moved to contain the spread, questions remain around the scale of the outbreak, the effectiveness of current measures, and what this means for both commercial and emerging farmers on the ground. To unpack the latest developments, including government's response, containment efforts, and what farmers are actually experiencing, we turned to ECR Newswatch's Dineo Mphahlele.

    Confession: Co-parenting turns to resentment

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 16:44


    Every Thursday around this time, we detail some of the wildest confessions from the streets of Mzansi. We get YOU to weigh in on your unfiltered thoughts. I am at the edge of my seat for the confession this week. This week's confession went something like this: "I'm going to say something that sounds terrible, but I know I'm not the only one thinking it: sometimes co-parenting feels harder than the relationship ever did. Not because we don't love the child, but because we're constantly negotiating with someone we no longer chose. Every decision feels like a compromise, every win feels temporary, and sometimes peace only exists when one person stays quiet. The guilt is heavy, the communication is exhausting, and on some days it feels like you're parenting with one hand tied behind your back, smiling in front of your child while quietly resenting the system behind the scenes. In all honesty, this has made me RESENT, yes RESENT, the child. I just hope it is a phase that is going to fade.”

    Back-to-school shock: Why educating a child now costs more than ever

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 9:12


    As children return to classrooms across South Africa, parents are facing a tough financial reality. The back-to-school period has become one of the most demanding times for household budgets, often rivalling or even exceeding December holiday spending. Recent research confirms what many families already feel: education-related costs are increasing at a rate well above general inflation. Uniforms dominate the expense list School uniforms have become the biggest financial burden for parents preparing for the academic year. A basic uniform set, including items such as blazers, jerseys, shirts, and trousers or skirts, now costs upwards of R2,700. Once shoes, school bags, and additional accessories are added, the total climbs to around R5,000 per child. The pressure does not stop at buying the basics. Many parents deliberately purchase uniforms several sizes too big, hoping they will last for more than one year as children grow. This strategy highlights just how stretched household finances have become when it comes to these annual expenses. Stationery requirements add complexity Stationery lists have also grown more detailed and restrictive. Schools often insist on specific brands or types of supplies, leaving parents with little flexibility to shop around for cheaper alternatives. What once included only pencils and notebooks now extends to geometry sets, calculators, dictionaries, and other specialised items. These requirements can add roughly R1,000 to the total bill, pushing overall back-to-school costs to around R6,000 per child, before transport, lunch money, or after-school care are even considered. Multiple children multiply the burden For families with more than one school-going child, the financial strain increases dramatically. Each child needs their own full set of uniforms, stationery, and fees. In these households, total back-to-school costs can easily run into tens of thousands of rands, placing immense pressure on budgets, particularly after the festive season. School fees create additional pressure School fees remain another major source of stress. Some schools require significant upfront payments before learners can start classes. Parents have also reported unexpected increases at enrolment, with fees rising at the last minute, leaving families scrambling to find extra funds with little warning. Practical strategies for managing costs Despite these challenges, many parents have adopted creative ways to cope. One common approach is buying stationery throughout the year when items are on special, spreading the cost instead of absorbing it all in January. Others choose to deposit small amounts into uniform shop accounts during the year. This creates a dedicated fund that cannot be used elsewhere, helping parents feel more prepared and reducing the financial shock when the school year begins. The broader economic impact The rising cost of education reflects wider economic pressures facing South African households. When essential expenses such as school uniforms and supplies grow faster than inflation, families are forced to make difficult financial trade-offs. This has broader implications for access to education and long-term equality. Each back-to-school season now serves as a reminder of how costly education has become. As prices continue to climb, parents are required to be more resourceful than ever, balancing tight budgets while still ensuring their children are equipped for learning and success.

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