Stacey Norman

Following the deaths of several women in and around Kempton Park, police have urged women to take extra precautions. But today's Great Drive Debate asked: Who should carry the burden of safety? Should women continue to change their behaviour to stay safe, or should more focus be placed on raising boys and men who reject violence and respect women? Stacey and J Sbu put both sides of the argument to KZN. Which side are you on A or B?

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Nasty C and Tellaman join Stacey and J Sbu to talk about their new collaborative project, T's & C's, and the friendship behind the music. Nasty C shares what being independent taught him about the industry, while Tellaman opens up about keeping his love for music alive. The pair also reveal why, after years of making music together, 2026 finally felt like the right time to create a full project together.

This week's confession has us asking a big relationship question: How much does money matter when you're deciding whether to get married? One man says his girlfriend turned down his proposal because she couldn't see a future without a better lifestyle even though he had secretly won six figures in the lottery. Stacey and J Sbu put it to KZN: Is financial stability essential before marriage, and what are you waiting for a better salary, a house, savings or being debt-free? But you NEED to hear the call that came in, because Stacey and J Sbu have actually lived this in their own relationships and what that call turned into is something you'll want to hear. Listen right to the end.

There's always ONE person in the household who clearly didn't get the memo about the cost-of-living crisis! While everyone else is budgeting, cutting back and watching every cent, they're still ordering takeaways, buying things they don't need, taking ridiculously long showers or casually adding things to the shopping trolley. J Sbu asked KZN: Who in your household is living like the cost-of-living crisis doesn't exist — and what do they keep wasting money on? From the family member who can't stop online shopping to the one who leaves every light on, KZN is exposing the biggest money wasters in their homes. Press play and find out who KZN says needs to start taking the budget seriously!

The cost of living is getting REAL. Fuel is up, groceries are up, and somehow our salaries didn't get the memo! J Sbu asked KZN: What have you been forced to cut from your budget just to survive? Maybe it's takeaways, your favourite coffee, streaming services, eating out, new clothes, driving less… or, like J Sbu, you're starting to question whether milk is still a necessity! We're talking about the things we used to buy without thinking twice that have now become a serious budget discussion. What have YOU had to sacrifice because everything costs more? Press play and hear how KZN is making their money stretch.

School admissions can be a complicated issue, especially when the school you want for your child isn't in the area where you live. Stacey and J Sbu asked whether children who live outside a school's designated area should be allowed admission, or whether schools should prioritise learners who live within the local community. Should a child's opportunities be determined by their postcode, or should local families get first preference for schools in their area? Listen to the debate and decide for yourself.

Every Wednesday, the hotline opens and this week, it was all about relationships. Stacey and J Sbu asked: What's the small thing you got into trouble with your partner for? Because sometimes it's not the big stuff… it's leaving the cupboard open, forgetting to reply to a “Did you get home?” text, liking the wrong Instagram post, eating the last piece of food or simply saying, “I'm fine” when you're clearly NOT fine.

Teachers and WhatsApp convenient communication or a boundary that shouldn't be crossed? This week's Great Drive Debate asked: Should teachers be allowed to WhatsApp learners privately, or should all communication happen in monitored groups or official school platforms? Some say private messages make it easier to communicate quickly, especially when it comes to homework, emergencies or one-on-one support. Others believe there need to be clear boundaries to protect both learners and teachers. So where do you stand? Private WhatsApps, monitored groups, or official school platforms only? We put it to KZN.

This week on Confessions, Taylor finds himself facing a difficult decision after finally landing a job. His parents have told him they want 30% of his salary or he'll be kicked out of the house. On top of that, they won't help with transport costs and, according to Taylor, they treat him badly. So what should he do? Stay at home and pay up, or use his salary to rent a place with friends and start fresh? Stacey and J Sbu opened the lines and asked listeners to weigh in on this complicated family and financial dilemma.

Durban recently hosted the 46th SADC Summit, welcoming heads of state and international attention to the city. While events of this scale can boost Durban's profile, attract investment and showcase the city on a global stage, they can also bring road closures, traffic congestion and disruptions for residents and businesses. Stacey and J Sbu asked whether the long term benefits of hosting major international summits outweigh the short term inconvenience experienced by locals. Listen to the debate and decide for yourself.

We've all done it... confidently sung along to a song for years, only to find out the lyrics were completely wrong. After a TikTok trend exposed some hilarious local versions of international hits, Stacey and J Sbu put a few classics to the test. From Akon apparently wanting to "kick it like Thabo" to Taylor Swift singing about a "Woolworths pie", these misheard lyrics will have you questioning everything you thought you knew. Warning: once you hear these versions, you can't unhear them.

Stacey, J Sbu and Sports Lead Nick Tatham chatted to Jason Smith and SJ Erwee. Jason Smith, who plays for the Hollywoodbets Dolphins and has represented the Proteas, spoke about last year's Fin Cup loss and whether the cricketers stood a better chance this time round. SJ Erwee, the Test level left-handed batter and KZN local, discussed carrying more responsibility as the youngest legend, the tactics for dealing with Nick Hatton and what it meant to share the field with players he'd looked up to growing up. Missed it? Listen in...

Every Wednesday the hotlines open for you to join the conversation - wifeys, husbands, singles or kiddies, everyone gets their turn to shine. This week it was the parents' turn. Stacey and J Sbu asked: what's the one parenting rule you swore you'd never break, and how fast did you break it? Whether it was bribery, extra screen time, giving in on the cellphone or caving on sugary treats, we've all bent the rules at some point. If you missed it live, listen in...

She's only 21 but she's already carrying her province and her country on her back. Andiswa Mbanjwa is studying towards a Bachelor of Education at UKZN, but outside the lecture halls she's a serious sportswoman, making waves in netball and a sport a lot of us know very little about, Kho Kho. We found out more about the woman behind the achievements…

Stacey and J Sbu tackled this week's Great Drive Debate: toxic family culture and whether you stay out of respect or leave to protect your peace. Stacey shared argument one focused on staying; family is everything and walking away often just passes dysfunction on to the next generation. J Sbu shared argument two for leaving, saying peace isn't negotiable and respect has to go both ways. Listeners weighed in with their own experiences of setting boundaries with family. Missed it? Listen in here!

Where are all the big boys? Stacey and J Sbu unpack Minenhle's confession about dating preferences, as listeners weigh in on body types, attraction and where to find Durban's big boys.

Is single life really better, or is being in a relationship worth it? Stacey and J Sbu put the question to KZN as listeners share the best and worst parts of being single, dating and being in a relationship. From freedom and sleeping alone to shared finances, companionship and growing together, the debate gets very honest.

At just 16, Shreeya Subbiah is already making her mark in South African cricket. She joins J Sbu and Nick Tatham to share her journey from the Chatsworth Cricket Hub to the SA Under 19 women's team, the challenge of balancing school and cricket, and the advice she has for young girls chasing their dreams.

Stacey and J Sbu opened the lines to chat about taxi, bus and lift club rules in KZN and what all the unwritten codes are. J Sbu took Stacey on a journey to learn all about public transport in our beautiful province, and listeners joined in. From learning about not sitting in the front seat (unless you're a maths whizz) to making sure you know when to knock for your stop. Missed it? Listen in!

What makes someone a really good friend? We asked the kids of KZN, and their honest, heartfelt and surprisingly wise answers reminded us that kindness, loyalty and simply being there for one another never go out of style.

Stacey and J Sbu put their accent skills to the test with the viral TikTok Accent Challenge. From Irish to Australian and Scottish, the team delivers plenty of laughs as they try to guess and master some of the world's most recognisable accents.

Is littering simply a bad habit, or does it show a lack of respect for others and the environment? Stacey and J Sbu unpack South Africa's growing litter problem and hear what listeners have to say in this thought-provoking edition of The Great Drive Debate.

A couple in Kenya has captured hearts after finally tying the knot following 64 years together. Stacey and J Sbu unpack this remarkable love story and the timeless reminder that there's no deadline for love, commitment, or saying "I do."

Confused about AARTO? You're not alone. Stacey and J Sbu speak to Road Traffic Infringement Agency spokesperson Monde Mkalipi, who breaks down exactly how the AARTO rollout works, what happens when you receive a traffic infringement notice, how long you have to respond, when the 50% discount applies, and what could happen if you ignore your fine. If you're a South African driver, this conversation explains the new system in simple terms and what it means for motorists across the country.

Sometimes the smallest acts of kindness leave the biggest impact. Stacey and J Sbu asked listeners to reflect on the people who've made a difference in their lives, from a security guard who offered hope during a difficult season to a cashier who quietly covered the last few rand at the till. These heartfelt stories are a reminder that gratitude costs nothing, but can mean everything. Who would you thank if you had the chance?

When a company recalls a product, does it make you trust the brand more for owning up to the mistake, or less because the product should never have made it to market? Stacey and J Sbu unpack this week's Great Drive Debate and hear what listeners had to say.

Is it healthy to speak to your parents every day, or can being too attached to them damage a relationship? This week's Confession comes from an anonymous listener whose fiancé calls his parents multiple times a day and leans on them for almost every decision. She worries he's still emotionally dependent on them and wonders whether he'll ever put their relationship first.

On Wifey's Hotline, wives across KZN reveal the hilarious little things their husbands do that drive them crazy, from fishing every weekend to leaving socks everywhere. Stacey and J Sbu hear the confessions, put a few husbands on the spot, and discover that sometimes the smallest habits cause the biggest laughs.

Social media has made it easier than ever to stay connected, but is it also making us feel more alone? In this edition of the Great Drive Debate, Stacey and J Sbu unpack the growing loneliness epidemic, particularly among Gen Z, and ask whether social media is bringing us closer together or replacing meaningful human connection.

What would your car reveal if it could speak? Stacey and J Sbu explore funny driving habits, road rage, traffic, roadworks, bad drivers and the hilarious truths your car has witnessed.

Every husband has that story. Stacey and J Sbu asked husbands to confess the moment they realised their wife was right. From failed DIY projects and running late to hilarious marriage moments, these honest (and funny) relationship confessions prove that sometimes the best words a husband can say are, "You were right."

Stacey featured this week's Confessions, where Anonymous from Molweni explained how a saucy voice note meant for her partner ended up going to her boss instead. Listeners Caylee and another Anonymous caller phoned in with their advice on what she should do next. Missed it? Listen in.

Her hit Aweh, remixed with Cassper Nyovest, went double platinum, and she gave Wena Fela a stripped-back Colors performance. Stacey caught up with Lord Kez before her show at the Music At The Lake this Sunday. If you missed it live, listen in!

In this heartwarming and informative conversation, Stacey and J Sbu chat to two first-time Comrades Marathon runners with very different, yet equally inspiring stories. Durban's Brandon van Loggerenberg, 20, shares why he chose one of the world's most iconic ultra marathons to test his physical and mental limits. They also speak to Zaahida, a 42-year-old entrepreneur, mentor, wife and mother, who is finally living out a childhood dream despite overcoming significant health challenges and barriers to representation in endurance sport. If you missed it live, listen in to hear how determination, resilience and a belief in yourself can turn seemingly impossible goals into reality.

Stacey and J Sbu tackled Men's Mental Health Month, unpacking why men account for nearly 80% of recorded suicides in South Africa - a situation the Department of Women, Youth and Persons with Disabilities has declared a national crisis. Men called in, sent voicenotes and messaged in to share what finally made them open up. Registered counsellor James Sturdee joined the conversation with practical advice for men and their family members. Missed it? The podcast is available on ecr.co.za, just click on shows and then Stacey and J Sbu. 

A listener from Queensburgh shared that he went snooping on his partner's phone and found flirtatious messages. He asked whether to confront her and risk exposing himself or stay quiet. Stacey and J Sbu opened it up to listeners and the calls and voice notes came flooding in. While some asked him why he went looking, others told him to take some pointers from the flirtatious messages If you missed it live, listen in...

Stacey and J Sbu opened the Wifey's Hotline asking the ladies to share the things they do at home that would completely fall apart if they stopped. From invisible household tasks to the little things partners never notice, the wives had plenty to say. We even spoke to Debbie and her husband Brett live! If you missed it live, listen in!

Stacey and J Sbu opened up the tipping debate on Great Drive, should you tip because you want to or just to dodge the guilt?   Listeners weighed in on whether it's about ubuntu and supporting low-wage workers; or whether employers should simply be paying a fair wage. Missed it live? Listen in!

Stacey and J Sbu discussed a deeply concerning pattern of school violence in KwaZulu-Natal, after two separate incidents unfolded on the same Friday - a Grade 10 learner stabbed by two junior pupils outside school gates and a mass brawl in Northdale. With over 2 300 cases of violence, drug abuse, and gang activity recorded in KZN schools since January 2024, educational psychologist Sandile Radebe weighed in and listeners shared their views. Missed it live? Listen in!

Stacey and J Sbu asked KwaZulu-Natal parents about the classic lines passed down through generations. From "Do you want something to cry about?" to the legendary "I wish you knew your school work like you that know song". Listeners shared the phrases they grew up dreading and some they've already caught themselves using. Missed it? The podcast is available on ecr.co.za, just click on Stacey and J Sbu.

Ahead of UB40's Durban performance, icon and legend Ali Campbell joined Stacey and J Sbu for a conversation about his career and so much more. Stacey had an intense fan girl moment while J Sbu got into the nitty gritty of Ali's career and what he hopes to be remembered for. If you missed it live, listen in!