The Positive Perimenopause Podcast

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about a concept promoted by Dan Harris: Action Absorbs Anxiety.This is the idea that taking even the smallest of actions can help to reduce feelings of powerlessness and helplessness, by channelling that restless, stuck energy and shifting it onto something more productive.Polly and I also talk about another similar idea, which is that clarity comes from taking action - something that both of us have found to be true.We hope you'll find something of value in here.Love,Polly & Lucy x Join The SEPTEMBER Nervous System REWIRE Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

Today, I'm joined by Dr Natasha Wallace, a clinical psychologist, founder of Revive Psychological Services, and creator of The Thrive Method. Natasha is passionate about helping working mums break free from overwhelm, exhaustion, and guilt so they can feel calmer, more connected, and truly at home within themselves.In this episode, Natasha shares her own journey as a “former frazzled mum” and why so many women, especially in midlife, find themselves abandoning their own needs while trying to keep up with the demands of work, family, and life. We dive into the hidden cost of always striving to be “good” and how you can begin to rebuild your relationship with yourself from the inside out.If you've ever found yourself lying awake at night thinking, “I can't keep doing this,” this conversation is for you. It's full of compassion, clarity, and practical insights to help you feel whole again.In this episode, you'll learn:Why so many women fall into the trap of self-abandonment — and why it often starts in childhoodThe hidden cost of always striving to be “good” and how this leads to guilt, resentment, and exhaustionHow regulating your nervous system can help you break free from survival mode and restore calmPractical ways to start rebuilding your relationship with yourself and honouring your own needsWhy giving yourself what you actually need — rather than what's expected of you — is the key to feeling grounded, whole, and truly you againConnect with Dr Natasha Wallace:https://www.drnatashawallace.co.uk/https://www.instagram.com/Drtasha_psychologist Join The SEPTEMBER Nervous System REWIRE Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are chatting about the filters we use to live our lives.Is your filter clouding your judgement? Is it colouring everything grey, making things seem worse than they really are? And how long are you willing to sit in that negativity?The thing is, when you change the lens through which you see the world, you get to choose one that lifts you, lightens you, and lets you see possibility instead of limitation.We explore some of the common filters we've had and how to shift them.We hope you find something useful in here.Love Polly & Lucy xx Join The SEPTEMBER Nervous System REWIRE Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

In this episode, I'm joined by Anu Verma—certified trauma recovery coach, holistic therapist, and author of Victim to Victor. Anu's story is one of courage and resilience. She opens up about her own experience of childhood trauma, the years she spent in survival mode, and how she eventually found the tools to begin her journey of healing and empowerment.Through her work today as a trauma recovery coach, Anu helps others process unresolved trauma, rebuild self-worth, and move from victimhood into strength and possibility. In our conversation, she shares not only her personal story but also the practical approaches and mindset shifts that can support anyone on the path of trauma healing and recovery.Here's what you'll discover in this conversation:How Anu's early experiences of childhood trauma shaped her life—and the turning points that helped her begin the journey of healing.Why telling your story can be a powerful step in trauma recovery and reclaiming your voice.The practical tools and holistic practices Anu used to move from surviving to thriving.How rebuilding self-worth and resilience creates the foundation for lasting transformation.Inspiring insights on moving from victimhood to empowerment, and finding hope even after the hardest experiences.For more on Ana:Website:  https://victim2victor.net/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/Anu's Podcast:  https://victim2victor.buzzsprout.com/1619626/episodes Join The SEPTEMBER Nervous System REWIRE Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy & I are talking about people pleasing.We all do it - particularly women - but is it actually serving us? The need to belong and be liked often sees us doing or saying things that aren't in alignment with who we truly are.When we put the needs of others above our own, we often end up feeling resentful and depleted, which is no good for anyone!In this conversation, Lucy and I give examples of how we've both been people pleasers in the past, but how we're now much more discerning about what we say yes to and - importantly - what we say no to.We hope you'll find something useful in here.Love,Polly & Lucy xDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on Menomorphosis, I'm joined once again by the wonderful Karen Newby — nutritionist, author, and the go-to guide for using food to support your body through menopause.We're diving into her brand-new book, The Natural Menopause Method Cookbook — a refreshing, symptom-led approach that takes the guesswork out of eating well during this life stage. Think less “follow this diet” and more “nourish yourself in ways that meet you exactly where you are.”Karen shares her wisdom on food as medicine, how it can help manage menopause symptoms, and how we can make simple yet nourishing meals part of our everyday menopause care.What you'll learn:How to choose meals based on how you're feeling (e.g., irritable, fatigued, or brain fogged)The powerful connection between food and menopause symptoms like anxiety, poor sleep, and midsection weight gainWhy digestion matters just as much as the food you eat, and how to optimise itSimple, nourishing, and time-saving recipes that anyone can whip up – no culinary skills required!How cooking can become an act of self-love and nourishment, rather than just another task on your to-do listIf you're looking for ways to improve menopause symptoms with food and add more easy to cook and nourishing meals to your life, this episode is packed with practical tips and inspiration.

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about how it's not the big dramatic changes that transform your life… It's the small habits.How you spend your mornings  How you speak to yourself  What you feed your mind Who gets your energy—and your access.These small choices might seem insignificant, but they shape your days… and your days shape your life.In this conversation, we unpack why the small stuff is actually the big stuff.We hope you find something useful in here.Love Polly & Lucy xDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on MENOMORPHOSIS, I'm joined by the wonderful Pia Mailhot-Leichter — author of Welcome to the Creative Club: Make Life Your Biggest Art Project. Pia is a writer, speaker, creative guide, and an all-round permission-giver when it comes to designing a life that feels aligned, courageous, and meaningful.We talk about what it really means to live creatively—not just in art or writing, but in how you move through the world, how you connect with others, and how you honour the quiet whisper of your intuition.Pia's view of creativity is radically inclusive: it's not about being “good” at something—it's about paying attention, being brave, and allowing life to be playful and expressive again.If you've ever felt stuck in a role, a routine, or a version of yourself that no longer fits, this episode is your permission slip to begin again—and start crafting a life that feels deeply, colourfully yours.✨ In this episode, we explore:Why creativity is for everyone—not just artists or writersHow to stop performing and start expressing from your true selfThe power of curiosity, courage, and everyday rituals in unlocking creative flowHow to navigate fear, resistance, and the inner critic with compassionWhat it means to be the creator of your life (and how to begin)Whether you think of yourself as creative or not, this conversation will shift how you see your own story, your choices, and the way you show up in the world.For more on Pia and to get her book go to:  https://kollektiv.studio/Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about NSDR - Non Sleep Deep Rest.Similar to meditation or breathwork, NSDR can help take us out of our monkey minds and bring us back into our bodies. It helps take us out of our sympathetic nervous system, and into our parasympathetic nervous system - our ‘rest and digest' state.So many of us are in a state of stress and anxiety far more than we should be, and a short NSDR practice can make a huge difference.I have three different NSDR recordings available on my website which you can access by clicking on this link https://www.pollywarren.com/offers/TDoFGvUjWe hope this conversation was helpful!Love,Polly & Lucy xDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on Menomorphosis, I'm joined by hypnotherapist Rebecca Donoghue for a powerful, honest conversation about one of the most emotionally charged topics right now: weight loss jabs — and the stories our bodies carry through midlife.This isn't about shame, and it's definitely not about blame. It's about awareness. Because the truth is — we don't reach for food or quick fixes because we're weak.  We reach for them because a part of us is trying to feel safe, and most of us were never taught how to meet that need without self-abandoning in the process.In this episode, we explore:✨Why weight loss jabs might treat a symptom - but never rewire emotional eatingThe key question to ask if you keep repeating the same food and self-care patternsHow to untangle your identity from your appearance, without losing your ambitionThe deeper emotional and energetic drivers behind the urge to control your bodyWhat actually helps change stick — and why your ‘why' matters more than any toolWhether you've tried the jab, judged the jab, or feel stuck between extremes — this episode brings nuance, clarity, and compassion to a topic most people oversimplify.To download Rebecca's FREE guide 'It's not your fault' go to https://linktr.ee/iamrebeccadonoghueOr https://www.instagram.com/iamrebeccadonoghue/ Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On this week's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking all things holidays.I've just come back from a wonderful two-week break in Turkey — and yes, it was wonderful.But we're also diving into something a little deeper… What does it mean if the only time you feel truly relaxed, calm or happy is when you're away?Holidays are a beautiful reset, a chance to switch off, change the scenery, and reconnect, but the real magic? It lies in creating a life you don't constantly need a break from. Because ultimately, aren't we all just searching for more calm, joy, and lightness in our everyday lives?So the question becomes: how can we bring more of that holiday feeling home with us?We hope you find something helpful in here.Love Polly & Lucy xxDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

In this episode, I'm joined by the brilliant Dr. Susie Rockwell — GP, menopause specialist, and founder of The Women's Hormone Clinic. With nearly 40 years of NHS experience and a decade dedicated to hormone health, Dr. Rockwell brings clarity, compassion, and deep clinical wisdom to a topic that so many women still feel dismissed or confused about.I put a call out to my community to ask what they really wanted to know about menopause—and Dr Susie does a fantastic job answering your questions. From HRT to hormones, libido to brain fog, we cover the topics that matter most, without the fluff or fear-mongering.If you've been feeling confused or unsure about what's happening in your body, this conversation will leave you feeling more informed, more empowered, and a lot less alone.

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about self-worth — the importance of which cannot be overstated.As Jamie Kern Lima says in her book, Worthy, our self-worth is our ceiling; in other words we will only ever get as far in life as we believe we're worthy of getting.Unlike self-confidence, self-worth truly is an inside job, and not something we can get from anything outside of ourselves, i.e. a job promotion, a relationship, or a medal. The truth is that we are all inherently worthy, so it's just a question of unlearning all of the subconscious beliefs that have taught us we're not. Lucy & I talk about our own feelings of self-worth, as well as discussing some practical ways that we can increase our own sense of worthiness.We really hope you'll find something helpful in here.Love, Polly & Lucy xDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week, I'm sharing a special episode from the MENOMORPHOSIS archives—one that's very close to my heart. This was actually the first ever interview I recorded for the podcast, back in May 2022, and it's just as relevant and inspiring today.In this episode, I chat with the brilliant Lou Featherstone, also known as @luinland over on Instagram. Lou is bold, funny, and fiercely real. She shares her midlife journey—from giving up shopping and moving countries, to embracing her voice, her body, and her purpose.We talk about confidence, community, creativity, and why midlife can be a time of powerful change—if you let it.Whether you're hearing it for the first time or listening again, I hope it leaves you feeling uplifted and reminded that this chapter of life is full of potential.If you don't already, go give Lou a follow over on instagram https://www.instagram.com/luinluland/To watch Lou's TED talk go to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMBHlD7zEL8Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On this week's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are diving into the magic that happens outside your comfort zone.Because when you do something that feels a bit uncomfortable? You're not just edging closer to your dreams and desires—you're also giving your confidence a serious boost.We're sharing some of our own stories about times we've stepped out of our comfort zones and offering a few tips on how you can do the same, in a way that feels doable—not daunting.We hope there's something in here for you to take away.Love Polly & Lucy xxDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

Episode Description: If you've ever said, “I know what to do, I just can't seem to stick to it” — this one's for you.In this episode, I'm sharing the five gentle-but-powerful shifts that have helped me stay consistent without pushing harder, burning out or beating myself up. I'll show you how to build habits that feel safe in your body (not like another pressure), and how to design your routines around your real life — not some perfect version of it.We'll explore:

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are discussing a piece that came out recently in The Telegraph, in which Lucy talks about being happily single and childfree.The hate she received in the comments has been mind blowing and there are over 1,200 comments.We hope you'll enjoy our conversation about haters, mindset, and the fear we all have of other people's opinions and judgements.Love,Polly & Lucy x Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

Have you ever wished for just ten more hours in the day? I know I have! With all the roles we juggle, it's no wonder so many of us are running on empty. The mental load is real. And when your day-to-day doesn't bring you joy? That's burnout waiting to happen.In this episode, I'm joined by the brilliant Michelle Niemeyer, who shares her story of navigating burnout during a high-pressure legal career—while also managing divorce, perimenopause, and an autoimmune disease. Now, at 60, Michelle says she feels better than ever.She shares how she made the courageous leap to a more joyful, spacious life—and how you can too. We talk about her beautiful philosophy called The Art of Bending Time, which is all about reclaiming your energy, your focus, and yes—even your hours.In this episode, you'll hear about:Michelle's journey from burnout to feeling the best she's ever feltWhat it really takes to leave a high-achieving career and follow a deeper callingHer powerful method for reclaiming up to two hours a dayWhy joy isn't just a nice-to-have—it's a compassDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I dive into a juicy conversation all about her brand new book Shiny Happy Singles — or Thrive Solo if you're tuning in from the US.We chat about the inspiration behind the book, what it really means to thrive on your own, and why this message is so needed.We also pull back the curtain on the creative process: the messy magic of writing, showing up consistently (even when it's hard), and trusting that clarity comes after you begin — not before.  No waiting for the perfect moment or a lightning bolt of inspiration… just honest, step-by-step progress.If you've got a book inside you, a creative project on your heart, or a voice that's been whispering “start”… this one's for you.With love,Polly & Lucy xxDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

Midlife doesn't have to be a crisis — it can be a genuine metamorphosis.In this episode, I'm not talking about just surviving menopause.I'm talking about moving through it with more ease, clarity, and actual calm.You'll hear a segment from a training I recently ran, where I shared seven essential habits that helped me feel more like myself again — and can do the same for you.They're rooted in science, backed by real results, and designed to work with your body, not against it.This isn't about overhauling your life overnight.It's about understanding your body's new language — and responding with choices that actually support it.Here's what we cover:➡️ The one habit that helped me stop spiralling and reclaim a sense of control➡️ How just 10 minutes a day can improve your sleep and steady your nervous system➡️ What the science really says about food, muscle, and mood in perimenopause➡️ The conversation around HRT and breast cancer risk — without fear or fluff➡️ Why reconnection (with others and yourself) is non-negotiable at this time✨ Whether you're deep in the menopause transition or just beginning to notice changes, this episode is here to remind you:You're not alone. And you're not powerless.Small shifts. Big difference.You've got this.Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about perspective.The way we see and feel about life is largely about the lens we're looking through - because two people with exactly the same circumstances can have two wildly different experiences of life.So the question is: how do we take off the negative glasses, and replace them with a more rosy pair? It starts with awareness, and making tiny shifts consistently over time.Polly and I talk about how we've both changed our perspective in recent years, and we share some tips that can make a real difference to how you perceive the world.We hope you'll find something useful in here!Love,Polly & Lucy xDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

In this episode, I'm joined by the brilliant Laura Lambe—Menopause Practitioner, Nutritionist, and founder of Menopause Mastery and The Menopause Lab. Laura has supported hundreds of women through menopause using a results-driven, evidence-based approach—and she's here to share why every menopause symptom is treatable, whether you're using HRT or not.We dive into the real, often overlooked drivers behind symptoms like brain fog, sleep issues and joint pain—and how nutrition, movement and stress support can make a world of difference.In this conversation, we cover:Why so many women are actually undereating during menopause—and how that's making symptoms worseWhat different types of joint pain can tell you about your body's needsPractical ways to reduce inflammation and improve sleep without supplements or strict routinesHow to make exercise work for you, including mobility and pelvic floor supportWhy menopause can be a powerful invitation to reset your priorities and reclaim your energy✨ You'll also hear about The Menopause Lab—Laura's free resource hub packed with expert guidance, real-world tips, and zero paywalls.For more about Laura:https://menopausemastery.health/https://www.skool.com/the-menopause-lab-2151/aboutDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about three truths about other people (taken from @melrobbins) that can totally transform your peace of mind.We explore why trying to change someone never works, and why there's no point getting mad at them when they're not who you want them to be.We also discuss how much freedom there is in accepting people exactly as they are, not as you wish they'd be.Enjoy!Love Polly & Lucy xxDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

What if everything you've believed about aging is wrong? This mind-expanding conversation with brain health expert and former West End performer Dan Metcalf will have you rethinking what's actually possible for your energy, vitality, and future.Dan has survived and thrived through childhood asthma, career-ending injury, and even partial brain death. He now teaches a revolutionary approach to wellness that prioritises biology, belief, and brave self-leadership — no matter your age.Inside this episode, we explore:The moment Dan defied medical predictions (twice) — and how it reshaped his understanding of human potentialThe 7 real pillars of health — starting with oxygen and hydration (spoiler: most of us are doing these wrong)The #1 reason your brain might be exhausted — and it has nothing to do with how much you thinkWhy 75% of adults are chronically dehydrated, and how hydration could be the key to your clarityA mindset shift that turns “eating” into nourishingHow proper breathing can regulate your emotions and energy in minutesThe difference between movement and exercise — and why serotonin is your natural antidepressantThe power of embracing challenge to slow aging and sharpen your edgeDan's radical reminder: self-love isn't selfish — it's essential biologyThe belief flip that can change your life: “Somebody has to do it — why not you?”

On this week's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about glimmers.We explain what glimmers are (and how they're the opposite of triggers), why they matter, and how you can start spotting them in your everyday life.We hope you find something useful, and even a little bit inspiring, in here.Love Polly & Lucy xxDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

You're productive. You're high-functioning. You get stuff done.But when it's finally time to rest?You can't. Your brain is busy, your body's tense, and you end up scrolling your way into another restless night.In this episode, I'm diving into what's really going on when you can't switch off — even when you're beyond exhausted. We'll explore:Why rest feels uncomfortable (even when your body is screaming for it)What autonomic rigidity is, and why it's keeping you stuck in a go-go-go modeThe “Window of Tolerance” and how to know when you're in it (or totally out of it)How to start retraining your nervous system to return to calm — without forcing or fixingPlus: I'll share effective ways to start shifting your state today.Mentioned in the Episode:

On today's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about getting stuck in negativity and how the words we speak out into the world really matter.Everyone loves a good moan, but do you ever find yourself telling the same story over and over again? Whilst it may feel good to complain and rant in the moment, it's not actually doing us any favours if we keep repeating the same negative stories ad nauseam.We hope you'll find something useful or thought provoking in here!Love,Polly & Lucy xDownload The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

In this episode, I'm joined by the incredible Lisa McFarland — a relationship coach whose honesty, warmth, and deep wisdom will stay with you long after the conversation ends.Lisa shares her personal journey of navigating challenges in her marriage — a relationship that began when she and her husband were teenagers. As life got busier and their connection frayed, they chose to seek help rather than walk away. That decision not only transformed their relationship, but it also sparked Lisa's mission: to remove the shame around relationship struggles and help others build stronger, more conscious partnerships.Together, we explored so many powerful themes, including:Why the quality of your relationships impacts the quality of your lifeThe invisible mental load women carry — and how it's affecting our connectionHow understanding your love languages can shift everything (with partners and kids)The quiet build-up of resentment — and what to do about itHow to reignite intimacy when spontaneous desire isn't there anymoreWhat self-care really means How to know if a relationship is repairable — or notWhy self-awareness is one of the most underrated tools in any relationshipLisa's approach is practical, compassionate, and totally free of judgment — just the kind of perspective I wish we were all taught earlier.If you're in a relationship, questioning one, or simply curious about how to deepen your sense of connection and self-trust, I know this episode will speak to you.

This week on Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are diving into the topic of energy hygiene.Given that we're 99.9% energy, it's vital that we're protecting and preserving our own.We unpack what energy hygiene actually means, explore the subtle and not-so-subtle ways our energy can be drained, and share simple ways to keep your energy field clear and protected.We hope there's something in here that really lands for you.Love Polly & Lucy Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

What if the parts of you you've spent a lifetime hiding, the quietness, the sensitivity, the urge to shrink, were never weaknesses at all?In this episode, I share my personal story of how I've navigated shyness over 51 years. From childhood moments that wired me to retreat, to Instagram Lives that stretched every edge of my nervous system.This is the journey of reclaiming a new kind of power, one that doesn't require performance, volume, or perfection.For years, I believed my shyness was something to overcome. Something that made me less than. Something that held me back from speaking, leading, and being seen.But what if the quietness was never the problem?What if the real issue was how the world responded to it?

On today's Thursdays Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about 8 ways to raise your vibration.Our energy matters. And it is powerful in terms of creating our realities. So raising our vibration on a regular and consistent basis is hugely important.Lucy and I discuss simple and effective ways to shift out of those low vibes and into higher ones like joy and gratitude.We hope you'll find something useful in here!Love,Polly & Lucy x Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

Does your relationship with food feel more complicated than it probably should? Why does body image feel so fragile—especially in midlife?And why, oh why, do the "perfect" plans never seem to work?In this week's episode of Menomorphosis, I'm joined by Elizabeth Dall, certified women's nutrition and behaviour change coach, to untangle the messy relationship many of us have with food and our bodies—especially during midlife and menopause.Elizabeth shares her personal journey from personal trainer to behaviour change specialist, revealing why willpower and rigid plans so often fail, and how to finally move toward food freedom, body acceptance, and real self-nourishment.

This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about how to create a life you don't feel the need to escape from.Ever catch yourself counting down to the weekend or living for your next holiday?You're not alone - so many of us slip into that ‘just get through it' mode.But what if, instead, you could shift your perspective and find ways to enjoy every day, rather than wish so many of them away.We hope this conversation gives you something to think about… and maybe even something to try.Love, Polly & Lucy xxx Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

Have you ever felt like everything you're doing is just… off? Like you're showing up, ticking the boxes, but the joy, the ease, the you of it all has gone a bit quiet?In this episode, I'm sharing my own recent experience of feeling misaligned, of ignoring those little nudges, and how that disconnection can ripple through everything, from creativity to confidence.If you've been feeling a bit lost, stuck, or like your spark's dimmed without quite knowing why—this one's for you.In this episode, you'll hear:✨ How to recognise when you're out of alignment (and what that actually feels like day to day)✨ Why flow disappears when you're not being true to yourself, even if you're “doing all the right things”✨ Gentle ways to start finding your way back to yourself and rekindling your sparkIt's a conversation about tuning back in, getting honest with where you are, and finding your way forward with more lightness and flow. Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On today's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about AI.We chat about how we're both using AI (specifically the free version of ChatGPT), and how we're finding it useful in our businesses; we also share how we both use it like a virtual assistant, asking it to perform various tasks for us as we would if it was an actual assistant.Whether you love it or hate it, AI is happening and we're better off embracing it than getting left behind.We hope you'll find this conversation helpful in some way.Love,Polly & Lucy x Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

What if your menopausal symptoms aren't problems to be fixed, but messages from your body guiding you towards a healthier, more empowered version of yourself? In this episode of MENOMORPHOSIS, we're joined by Carrie Levine, a functional medicine practitioner and certified nurse midwife with over 20 years of experience in women's healthcare.Carrie has a unique approach to midlife health - she helps women look beyond the symptoms of perimenopause and menopause to understand the why behind them. Her holistic, empowering strategies focus on addressing the root causes of health issues, not just masking the symptoms. From stress management to practical lifestyle changes, Carrie's wisdom offers a refreshing perspective on how to embrace midlife with energy, vitality, and self-respect.What You'll Learn:How functional medicine uncovers the why behind your symptoms, not just the what.The interconnectedness of hormones and the profound role stress plays.How menopause impacts your entire body, beyond just a few symptoms.The power of choice in taking charge of your health for lasting transformation.Carrie's personal journey of loss and how it shapes her approach to healing.Essential practices for thriving during midlife.Why menopause can be seen as an invitation to transformation, not an end point.For more on Carrie:https://carrielevine.com/Carrie's Book Whole Women HealthInstagramLinkedInFacebook Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about pets.We share how our own pets bring us so much joy and explore why animals can be such healing additions to our lives.We chats about how pets can help regulate our nervous systems, bring us back to the present moment, and lift our mood on the days we need it most.We hope you enjoy this conversation.Love Polly & Lucy xx Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On this week's Thursday Thoughts, we're talking all about Lucy! Last week, we delved into my business and offerings, so this week we're doing the same with Lucy's.Lucy talks all about her podcast, Thrive Solo, her membership, also called Thrive Solo, and her new book, Shiny Happy Singles, which comes out on 19th June. (The US version, Thrive Solo, comes out on 24th June.)If you're in the UK, you can get a 25% discount when you pre-order the book direct from Bloomsbury and use the following code at checkout: SHS25. Here's the link: https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/shiny-happy-singles-9781399416436/Love,Polly & Lucy x Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week, I'm joined by the brilliant Theresa Lear Levine - author, podcast host, EFT Master Practitioner, certified hypnotherapist, and founder of Becoming More Me.Theresa's work is all about helping high-achieving women, especially those navigating ADHD, reconnect with their truest, most empowered selves, so they can live from a place of calm, clarity, and confidence.Her book Becoming More Me and her podcast of the same name are heartfelt, practical guides to healing past wounds, regulating the nervous system, and aligning with the abundance that's already here.In this conversation, Theresa opens up about her personal journey, unravelling trauma and high-functioning anxiety, receiving an ADHD diagnosis at 43, and finally stepping off the treadmill of hustle to embrace a more peaceful, grounded way of being.This episode is full of golden nuggets, aha moments, and gentle truths, and it's especially for you if you've ever felt disconnected, burnt out, or stuck in the exhausting loop of not-enoughness.You'll learn:✨ The subtle signs of self-disconnection in midlife, and how to start coming back home to yourself

On this week's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I dive into the work I (Polly) do and discuss the topic of breathing.Yes, we are all breathing all of the time but the question is how are you breathing?We explore why so many of us aren't breathing as efficiently as we could be, why that really matters, and how it could be affecting your energy, stress levels, and overall wellbeing.We also chat about the tell-tale signs to watch for - and how to figure out whether your breathing is actually helping or quietly harming you.If you'd like to download your own free Breath Check-Up or any of my other offers, go to https://www.pollywarren.comEnjoy!Love Polly & Lucy xx Download The Breath Check-Up - your FREE guide to understanding how well you're breathing right now. Download my energising 5 Minute Morning Practice to get your day started in the best way possible. To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

We all have that thing. The dream we keep shelving. The habit we mean to start. The goal that always seems just out of reach.In this episode, we're getting real about why it's so hard to take action - and how to finally move past the procrastination and overwhelm that keeps us stuck.I'm diving into the real power of consistency - not in the flashy, hustle-hard kind of way, but in the gentle, steady, sustainable way. The way that builds trust with yourself. The way that actually works.You'll hear personal stories, mindset shifts, and simple tools you can start using today to build momentum, even if your motivation is on the floor. Whether your goal is to get fit, start something creative, change careers, or just feel more like yourself again - this one's for you.If you've ever said, “I just don't have time,” or “I'll start on Monday,” this episode might just change everything.This episode is about showing up, keeping it small, and creating real change - one step, one breath, one tiny habit at a time.To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On today's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about knowing your ‘why'.When it comes to doing anything difficult in life, whether that be building a business or running a marathon, knowing your why can make the difference between doing the thing and not doing it.When we connect with the deeper reasons for doing something, and come back to those reasons, we're far more likely to stay on track and achieve our goals in life.We hope you'll find something useful in here!Love,Polly & LucyTo find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

In this powerful episode, I chat to the incredible Star Monroe, a Licensed Psychotherapist, Master Life Coach, and mentor for bold, brilliant women over 40. Star has lived many lives—battling addiction, toxic relationships, people-pleasing, and relentless achievement-seeking—only to rise stronger each time. She doesn't just teach transformation; she embodies it.Star gets raw about the deep conditioning that keeps us stuck, how to break free from self-sabotage, and why the greatest love affair you'll ever have is the one with yourself. If you've ever felt disconnected from who you really are or tired of proving your worth to the world, this episode is for you.What You'll Learn:✅ How childhood conditioning shapes our patterns of self-sabotage and self-doubt ✅ The power of reparenting your inner child to heal deep emotional wounds ✅ Why external validation keeps women stuck—and how to break free ✅ How to reconnect with your body and intuition to cultivate unshakable self-worth ✅ Simple, practical rituals to shift your mindset and step into your powerThis conversation is honest, inspiring, and packed with wisdom you can actually use. Tune in now—your transformation starts here!To connect with Star and to download her free gift go to:https://www.instagram.com/msstarmonroehttps://www.msstarmonroe.com/   To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about the importance of the people we surround ourselves with.As Jim Rohn famously said, “We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.” If you want to feel good, stay inspired, and move toward your goals, it's essential to be intentional about who you spend your time with.Seek out mentors, supportive friends, and growth-minded people who elevate and encourage you. At the same time, be mindful of those who drain your energy or leave you feeling negative about yourself and the world.We hope there's something useful in here for you.Love, Polly & Lucy xxxTo find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

This week, I'm joined by fitness expert Alicia Jones, a passionate advocate for midlife women's health and strength. Alicia's journey into fitness took on new meaning when she witnessed a striking contrast in her own family—her 72-year-old mother climbing 1,700 stairs with ease, while her grandmother at the same age required full-time care. This eye-opening moment reinforced a powerful truth: the way we move and care for us today determines our mobility, strength, and independence in the years to come.In this episode, we break down the myths, science, and simple strategies that can transform your approach to fitness and ageing after 50:Why cardio alone isn't enoughThe “bulking” myth debunkedWhy Balance training needs to be includedThe power of incidental exercise How to work with your changing hormones This conversation is packed with practical, science-backed strategies to help you stay strong, independent, and vibrant for decades to come. Whether you're a lifelong fitness lover or just starting your strength journey, Alicia's insights will inspire you to embrace movement in a whole new way!YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW3DusNaZS85xRRcMB_XF8wFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AliciaJonesHealthyLiving/?fref=tsX: https://twitter.com/fit_destination To find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

On today's Thursday's Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about making excuses.We all do it, don't we? Whether it be making excuses for why we CAN'T do something, or making excuses for why we CAN do something we know we shouldn't be doing.In this conversation, Polly and I talk about where we make excuses in our own lives - how we can both be professional procrastinators, and also how we're brilliant at reasoning why that chocolate eclair or second glass of wine is, actually, a brilliant idea.

Are you living with purpose, or just reacting to life as it happens, yet feel like there must be more to life than just this? In this episode, we dive into why getting super clear on what you want is the secret to creating a life that truly excites you. If you don't decide what you want, life will decide for you.We'll explore: 

This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I are talking about a topic that impacts every area of your life – the relationship you have with yourself.Since you spend every second of every day with ‘you', it makes sense to invest in making that relationship as strong and supportive as possible.We explore how the way you treat and view yourself directly influences your happiness and fulfillment—whether you're in a relationship or not—and share practical ways we've found helpful to strengthen that connection.We hope you find something that resonates with you.Love, Polly & Lucy xxTo find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/

"Your skin is your most precious asset," explains Dr. Fernanda da Silva-Tatley in this fascinating conversation.  With a unique background as both a PhD scientist in molecular microbiology and a Reiki master, Dr. Fernanda offers a rare blend of scientific insight and holistic wisdom to help you understand what your changing skin truly needs.In this episode, you'll discover:

On this week's Monday Motivation, Lucy and I are talking about how stress impacts fat loss.We discuss how chronic stress keeps your body in survival mode—leading to increased belly fat storage, a slower metabolism, and heightened cravings.We also explore why a regulated nervous system is key to shifting back into fat-burning mode and share practical ways to support this process.We hope you find something helpful in this episode.Love,Polly & Lucy xxTo find out more about my membership The Inner Space go to: https://www.pollywarren.com/theinnerspaceEmail me at: info@pollywarren.comhttps://www.pollywarren.com/https://www.instagram.com/pollywarrencoaching/