Unshakable Self-Confidence

Are you tired of running around in circles, doing gratitude lists, positive affirmations, etc., and wondering why you never actually feel free from your past, a past filled with Fear, doubt, abuse, violence, and disappointments? So, what are you supposed to do; how do you set yourself free and remain free once and for all? Listen in as I freely share the wisdom I have gained.  Self-Image Root Produces Your Reality: https://drive.google.com/file/d/18C57c5aOnCBat9z3rUs9i2Pt7bl8oJXm/view?usp=drive_link Unshakable Self-Confidence Book: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SPYxhIwOx0qvSzjZcKlyI-Y0FLs2Sfe7/view?usp=drive_link Rising Phoenix Magazine: https://drive.google.com/file/d/14ZguLHYTxqVmVIeYp3-fohclGsfuVwXU/view?usp=drive_link Like the music? The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

This is it, everybody; I've come to the end of this journey of setting myself free from the cycle of inherited limiting thoughts that have caused the pain, suffering, abuse, violence, and failure in my life; I've overcome Fear itself. But before I go, some final words of wisdom to help you set yourself free. Remember, everything I have learned to be true, the keys to freedom, can be found within the Shift Your Perspective Apple playlist or "course." It is free for you to use, but whether you choose to use it and set yourself free is entirely up to you (how bad do you want freedom from your past?!) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Do you want to know how to stop being rejected? Stop your need for acceptance; stop doubting yourself, and embrace freedom. Freedom, by definition, is a state of being at liberty rather than in confinement or under control; exemption from external control, interference, regulation, etc; self-determination. So, how do you set yourself free and remain free once and for all? Listen in as I freely share the wisdom I have gained. Like the music? The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Let's face it: change isn't easy (if it were, everybody would be doing it). Yet, something profound and unexplainable within us compels us to do just that. But in our progression of growth and change, we might be tempted to revert to our ‘old nature' due to others' misunderstanding of our actions, assuming we think ourselves superior instead of realizing we seek self-mastery over ourselves and our lives, that we're proactive in our thoughts because we believe in the Divine Law that all of our dreams are constantly coming true; all we are doing is being exactly who we are. So, how do you set yourself free and remain free once and for all? Listen in as I freely share the wisdom I have gained. Like the music? The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Do you want to know why you haven't obtained freedom yet? It's solely because you haven't confidently walked away from conformity; you haven't ceased allowing others to define who you are. It's your choice to say, “This is who I am and what I wish to experience in life,” not ‘The World's;' You say who you are, and then ‘The World' must comply. But this compliance isn't achieved by force but by ceasing to be ‘conformed to The World' and ‘being renewed in your mind,' by identifying with and conforming to something higher – The truth of who you actually are and the Divine Law, AKA: YOUR choice between ‘blessings or curses' and the reason you have a right to choose. Every morning is a new day, a fresh start, unshaped potential. If today makes tomorrow, will you continue to comply to the ‘standard' mindset of Fear, of being stuck in the ghosts of the past, or the  ‘I must deserve and earn' the new future? Remember, what YOU focus on expands. Freedom is in the present moment, of seizing and owning the power The Most High has given you right now to leave everything that was behind us and confidently walk into the future, yes, with your mind focused on what you want, but living in the here and now and being selective with what you believe to be true because you know that what you think WILL come true, that whether we believe it is possible or impossible for you, is granted you. Taking back control over your mind (your life) is a daunting task, only because you're accustomed to complying with the predominant worldly mindset of Fear; when you walk away from your old stories and see that nobody else is, you panic, like Lot's Wife, and turn back and blend into the crowd, instead of accepting the gift of self-sovereignty, of realizing that only you can create your new story out of the ‘unshaped wilderness,' and having faith that if you do, it will come to pass in due time. So, how do you set yourself free and remain free once and for all? Listen in as I freely share the wisdom I have gained. Like the music? The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL  

Why do you believe “The World,” AKA: people, need to be healed before allowing yourself to live your life? Why do you feel guilty for having chosen Heaven Consciousness when The World around you is living in Hell Consciousness? To live in Heaven Consciousness,  AKA: Love, AKA: the fruition of your dreams, you must not only release your worries and fears of what others think of you, but you must also release your need for the world to be “fixed” before you allow yourself to be “okay” with moving on; you must allow people to be right where they are, in their choices; you must ask yourself, “Why do I feel I need to ‘save' the world?” Why are you afraid to give up your ‘victim consciousness?' Like the music? The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

We are told by ‘The World,' “You can be ANYTHING you want to be if you only believe,” while simultaneously telling us, “as long as it fits within OUR prescribed set of options, assumptions, and labels of what you SHOULD be.” In other words, “Conform, or we will cast you out.” Conformity, by definition, is “the act of compliance, submission, acquiescence, or obedience to a specified standard or authority.” We live in a world where people have continuously engaged in the never-ending battle against oppression. The irony is that most people slip into one of the various ‘oppressed' societal communities (ranging from family traditions and gender issues, and even the cult of ‘healing the inner child'), communities that themselves require your ‘obedience to a specified standard,' mainly victim consciousness, to belong. Again, “Prostrate, or we will cast you out.” What is at the root of all this? Fear. Not Fear of you, but the Fear of you leaving them behind, of seeing you live in the freedom of being your authentic self, free of conformity and Fear itself, of you illuminating their imprisonment in the cage of Fear, despite their denials of its reality – it only takes one to shatter their illusion, and this is why they reject you, scape-goat you, or even come at you with violence; anything to remove the threat of the truth of their imprisonment to Fear. So how do you “be not conformed to this world?” By trusting your inner voice, that higher voice of The Divine. By taking a bold step into The Light of Love and trusting that you will be shielded, protected, and led into the full fruition of your dream of Heaven on Earth. And how do you do that? Listen in as I share the wisdom of my discovery and remembrance of The Truth. The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

How long have you sought happiness, courage, confidence, and direction outside yourself; how long have you sought outside of yourself the power to overcome Fear so that you may change your life? How many ‘self-improvement' books, courses, and ‘self-love' practices have you engaged in to find It? Have you found it yet? Of course not, so why continue to look for it there; why keep rounding around in circles when you already know it will change nothing? And even more deeply, why are you paying people for something they cannot give you? Why are you following their instructions of manipulating yourself into thinking that you must be good and worthy enough and ‘earn it' before possessing this power? There is a reason you haven't (and you NEVER will) found this power anywhere outside of yourself. You'll never locate It there because It doesn't exist out there, and, more importantly, you already possess It – you already have the power to transform your world. Realize that It has been inside of you all this time, that you've had it BEFORE you came into this world, that all you need to do is change the way you think; you only need to shift your perspective. The Divine Source has already equipped you with the power you need to live out your ‘Hero's Journey,' to break free from the old story stemming from the cyclical patterns of your childhood abuse and enter into the new story; the ability to ‘fear no evil, to be not afraid, neither be dismayed, for God will shield and buckle you, cover you and protect you and no evil shall come near you or your dwelling while being guided through the valley of the shadow of death.” The only question you should ask yourself is, “Why am I not using this power; why am I not believing in It and trusting It? What is this power? Listen in as I share the wisdom of my discovery and remembrance. Like the music? Check out the “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus, available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Ask yourself, “Why do I allow Fear to control my mind?” Is it because you feel helpless to Fear? That Fear is a force outside of yourself that you cannot control? The truth is, you are not a subservient to Fear; Fear is your slave. The only way to stop allowing Fear to dominate your life is to realize that Fear has no power to control you. You see, Fear is only one half of the energy force, the destructive side, known as “God,” and you will NEVER eliminate it, as it is eternal - All you can do is cease scooping it up from the ‘Divine Buffet' and putting it onto your plate (your mind). But even that perspective isn't enough. Until you remember the ultimate truth of who you are, you will see yourself as helpless and weak against ‘an outside force;' you will continue to struggle and fight against Fear, which only strengthens its hold on you. Truthfully, this ‘struggle and fight' within your mind is the struggle to accept your true nature. Once you make peace with that, it's game over! When you genuinely understand and live from the perspective that God and you are one (because only God exists), you realize that Fear has no power over you because it is you; it cannot control you, force you, or make you choose it – it is simply an option, and it can only offer itself as a way of experiencing life, though that life will be one of watching your dreams continuously be destroyed right before your eyes; it is the choice of curses, hell, darkness, and the destroyer of dreams, and why would you consciously choose that?  The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Are you living in the present moment? If not, you are “dead;” you're wasting your life! I am not saying your life isn't meaningful or that you shouldn't have dreams to work towards. I am asking you, are you wasting your life trying to “be” something that you are not, something according to other people's perceptions of what it takes to be valuable and acceptable in life? Are you  ‘conforming to the world,' following the crowd, hiding yourself in order not to be rejected? Or are you valuing yourself, being yourself, because YOU understand that YOUR life is meaningful? Ask yourself,  “Am I, in this present moment, living in the truth of who I am, or am I hindering my life because I'm clinging to a false version of myself, the one that stems from other people's fear, the one I pretend to be to in order not to be rejected, Am I in the world but not of it, or am I conforming to it?” If you find yourself stuck in victim consciousness, you must exchange it to be free. You must cast off the ‘old nature and put on the new. ' You must step into the furnace and be reborn from the ashes—you are The Phoenix, after all! Letting go of victim consciousness is, symbolically, releasing Barabbas and crucifying Christ; it is surrendering your struggle and simply being ‘The Light' and allowing IT to ‘raise you from the dead' and to flow through you and provide for you, allowing IT to live your life and be you. Letting go isn't giving up; it is powerful and brave, something most people fear. Remember that, trust, allow the ‘trumpets of The Last Judgement' to blow on YOUR life and rejoice! The “Who Am I?” soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Once you have freed yourself from old thought patterns and realized, "You become what you think about," you must shift your perspective toward creating a new future. Otherwise, you will continue to perpetuate the present moment, which is neither, spiritually speaking, hell nor heaven; it's a state of limbo – where there is no vision, the people perish. But once you reach this point, the present moment isn't discarded but is transformed. Even though you are free from the past and have fixed the vision of your future in your mind, your body still lives in the present moment; it is the vehicle that carries you from your current situation to the fulfillment of your vision. You must begin to live as though your prayers are already answered and look away from all that distracts you. This way of living is not easy initially, for it is not the way of the World, which requires a detailed map of all the necessary steps to take between point A and point B; it needs assurance that all will work out before moving into the unknown wilderness. The "Who Am I?" soundtrack/SYP Course Syllabus is available on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Being in the present moment is highly misunderstood. Why? The present moment is shaped by what was. When you focus only on the present moment, you only view what is, what is wrong, and what you lack. Things that keep you stuck running around in circles and never getting anywhere. And yet, you must be in the present moment to be free from the past; it is an essential element in freeing yourself from past trauma and cycles of the past. "Wait, I'm confused. Didn't you say, 'Focusing on the present moment keeps me stuck?" Yes, it's a paradox. Let me explain. When you properly focus on the present moment, you notice and then redirect your mind away from the internal loop patterns of your thoughts, which began in your childhood; it's the way to break free from the unconscious slavery to a mindset that you've inherited that is shaping your continuously unfolding present moment; it helps you to recognize that you are experiencing moments of déjà vu because you are creating your life from events in your past that no longer exists, outside of your mind – you are shaping your World with the ghosts of the past. SYP "The WHO AM I" Soundtrack on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL    

'The World' is not a reflection of you. Seriously, are YOU responsible for hatred, greed, war, poverty? What about joy, happiness, prosperity, and beauty? Yes, you may be 'experiencing' these things, but you are not responsible for what you see in 'The World,' whether good or bad. Thinking so is arrogant and self-righteous; at the core, it's victim consciousness! You see, 'The World' is nothing but a reality that grants us the ability to experience all that Source is—a Divine buffet that offers us the choice to select from the Eternal experiences of heaven or hell, blessings or curses, the light or the dark, depending on what WE put on 'the plate' of OUR minds. So, what are your current experiences 'reflecting' back to you? Your current state of mind; your beliefs about what you are worthy of receiving from life, AKA: Your Inherited Negative Self-Image Root. When it comes to 'the world,' don't worry about what others are putting on their plate; we all have the free will given to us by The Source to choose for ourselves. Instead, your focus should turn inward, determining for yourself what you are worthy of experiencing, which ensures others are not allowed to 'make up a plate' for you, especially with their use of guilt and shame, which is a tactic to control you or keep you stuck in their choices, all stemming from fear.  Shifting your perspective isn't a light undertaking; it isn't at all rainbows, butterflies, and namaste that the self-serving and hypocritical fake prophets and self-help gurus that build communities fostering an identity around dependency, helplessness, and the idea that others have any power over you and your life, while simultaneously peddling you out of your money and leaving you even more confused than before (don't even get me started). By the way, rainbows and butterflies come AFTER experiencing 'the flood' and the chrysalis. Change only occurs after you unapologetically and consciously choose from the buffet of life, AKA: Renewing your mind and permanently changing your belief in what you are worthy of. No guru can do that for you. No, walking away from the conformity of what everybody else is choosing isn't easy. However, it is required if you want the ability to experience the 'dream life' stuck in your mind due to the fear of being rejected. Which, if you are honest, they have already done, and you're simply stuck in the trauma of what has already occurred. SYP Music Playlist on Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/shift-your-perspective/pl.u-b3b8RKgC3XobJL

Why do you feel guilty for what other people have done to you? Is it because you feel responsible? Or that perhaps you owe them something? Whatever the reason, you will never be free mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc., until you learn this very important lesson.  Do you wish to know how to be free of their choices? Listen in as I share lessons learned. Apple Music Links: Miss Me Blind by Culture Club https://music.apple.com/us/album/miss-me-blind/724214023?i=724214062 Lay It On The Line by Triumph https://music.apple.com/us/album/lay-it-on-the-line/1287325301?i=1287325846 

Moving beyond the trauma of years of violence and abuse can seem like a neverending journey, but it does finally come to an end; there is a genuine release from your suffering caused by others, so NEVER give up; keep walking toward it and get your freedom!  Listen in as I share my experience of knowing it's truly possible for anyone if they choose. 

To be free from the past and able to move into your 'new story,' you must say "YES!" to life, which means you must accept what "Life" really is. Because if you resist it, it will persist.  Listen to learn wisdom gained from my out-of-a-life of violence and abuse. 

Running around in circles trying to figure out the past and why they did the things they did to you? You will be on that merry-go-round your entire life if you don't stop and see the truth of who you are. Listen in for wisdom gained from having been there myself.

You are instructed to "calleth those things that been not as though there where," so, how are you to experience 'true love' or your "Sunshine Family" when all you've known is pain, betrayal, abuse, and violence? Listen in for wisdom learned in moving beyond the 'old story' of victim consciousness. 

Imagine a life where you are free from the doubts and traumas of your past. A life where you have left "The Past" behind, crossed the Red Sea, and learned to be grateful, and now you have arrived at the gates of The Promised Land, AKA: your New Story—a life of "It's Possible for Me!" Even at this point, few will make it. Want to be one of them? Listen to the wisdom gained so that you can avoid the pitfalls and struggles many face. It's time to take control of your life and step into the future you deserve.

There is only one way you will make it beyond the life you are currently experiencing...that is the path of Gratitude. But what is gratitude really?  Listen up because you're gonna need it.

Why do people bully? There are different reasons why people bully, including: wanting to dominate others and improve their social status. But in reality, they have low self-esteem and want to feel better about themselves and to mask how they feel about themselves, people who bully focus their attention on someone else and try to tear them down to their level, which is rooted in the fear of them being rejected. So how do you stop the bully from bullying you? It isn't by fighting back. What do I mean? Listen in and learn for yourself what to do.

There is only one way to stop your karmic patterns, whatever they are. PERIOD. Listen in and learn and apply it to your own life, as needed.

Bonus episode to help prepare you for complete and lasting change: freedom from your past, freedom from your past childhood trauma, and a past version of yourself (based entirely on the projected image of you from others). Watch the reference video mentioned in this episode on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C379LUUoI5r/

Saying that you are committed to changing your life for the better is one thing, but doing the only thing that will truly change your life for good is something that few will ever do. Why? Listen to today's episode and what it is and how you can do it for yourself.

Are you ready to break free from your painful cycle of fear and self-doubt caused by past traumas that have held you captive for far too long, reclaim your power, and begin to live the life you have been dreaming of for so long? Subscribe to Shift Your Perspective, the podcast that helps you confidently confront those past cycles of abuse and the overwhelming grip of fear, anxiety, guilt, and shame, guiding you toward a life lived with unapologetic and unshakable self-confidence, inner peace and joy, to turn your dream into a reality. Shift Your Perspective isn't just another self-help podcast filled with ego-fluffing and fleeting 'feel-good' highs; it's about cultivating a mindset that creates lasting resilience, strength, and unshakable self-belief; it's a show for those who dare to leave their past behind and defy the status quo of inherited limiting beliefs; it's a show for those who desire true personal freedom not dependant on others doing right by us. This podcast is your lifeboat in the ocean of self-help content, flooded with fake gurus; it will help you navigate the treacherous waters of self-discovery and emerge on the shores of genuine and permanent transformation – no more flaying about and drowning in the sea of self-discovery, but guidance toward finally achieving personal transformation in your mindset and self-worth that will lead you into a new life that few ever reach. Expect episodes filled with candid conversation and unconventional perspectives that challenge typical thinking around creating self-love and self-confidence. These episodes will dare you to think for yourself – it's time to stop seeking validation outside of yourself, to stop settling for a life dictated by the projected fear of others and their opinions about you – it's time to break through the barriers of inherited negative self-images and self-doubt and confidently live your life on your terms, following the guidance of your inner voice and intuition. Are you ready to take back your life, leave behind ghosts of karmic ancestral patterns of self-doubt, and step into the brilliant truth of who you are? Subscribe to Shift Your Perspective now and embark on a journey to reshape how you view yourself and the world around you. Your transformation begins here.

This part of my life, this journey of freedom from my past is over - it's time for me to create something new. NEVER forget that you are a Child of God and that valuable and worthy of a life beyond your fears, pain, and self-doubt. But you can never live your life beyond them if you don't walk away from them and begin anew. Listen in for my final thoughts and encouragement in hopes you will know the truth for yourself. 

You are not responsible for the inflected Childhood Trauma that is causing your perspective of “It's Impossible for me!” (Those ‘sins' are others to pay for, for THEY made THOSE choices!)  However, you are responsible for maintaining that perspective, AKA: Your actual prayer request, that you are repeating in the center of God's Temple, AKA: The center of yourself. (I Corinthians 3:16) nothing will change until YOU change the prayer yourself. Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Original Digital Seamless Prints and Apparel are available at Billy's Print Shop on Etsy Follow and engage with me on Instagram.

In this experience, this life on planet Earth – AKA: “Fantasy Island, where all of your fantasies come true” – AKA: As you believe in your heart, so be it unto you (Proverbs 23:7) is yours to command (Deuteronomy 30), the only question you EVER need to ask yourself is, What the F*%k am I believe in!” Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Original Digital Seamless Prints and Apparel are available at Billy's Print Shop on Etsy Follow and engage with me on Instagram.

People are free to choose the direction of how their lives will play out; some will fail, some will succeed. It is because some people are better or more blessed than others? No! It is because very few people have the courage to not listen to “the negative report” and simply run into and “seize the Promised Land.” And that boils down to whether they believe “it's possible for me” or “it's impossible for me.” And the same applies to you.  So, what are YOU going to do? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Original Digital Seamless Prints and Apparel are available at Billy's Print Shop on Etsy Follow and engage with me on Instagram.

The Dream is continually unfolding. The only thing you need to be concerned with is which side of the Dream are you choosing. The version where the dreams crumble before your eyes, or the one where your Dream comes to fruition? I also have discovered a deep meaning of the Inherited Negative Self-Image Root. (Hint: It hasn't anything to do with any patterns of abuse or trauma.) Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

What are you doing with your time? Spending it? (which, in reality, is wasting it.) Or are you investing it? I understand the initial engagement is uneasy, but I also know the flow takes over once engaged. So, how do you get yourself to “engage” with the Divine creative flow? Make yourself so bored you crave the relief of creativity. What do I mean, make yourself bored? Start observing your current behaviors of procrastination. Now, I have a different point of view on what procreation is. Hint: it isn't something you do to avoid engaging in an activity. Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

If today makes your tomorrow, hadn't you switched your focus from ‘past and future' to ‘now,' should you not stop and observe what you are thinking and doing, the choices you are making right now? So how do you do that? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/  Link to Deep Hidden Meaning Show:  https://music.apple.com/us/station/jimmy-jam-and-terry-lewis/ra.1626355735  

Who influences your thoughts about what is possible for you and your life? Do you use the opinions of others to put a limit on your dreams? What is done is done; the present moment is old news; it is old thoughts made manifest; make peace with it. And then let us focus on creating a new tomorrow but choosing carefully our thoughts and actions today. Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Remembering that we can achieve greatness if we take ownership of our actions and live in the present moment is crucial.  We must stop shifting the blame to external factors when things go wrong and instead focus on our unique talents. It takes courage and passion to pursue our dreams and take risks, but the rewards are immeasurable. We must actively participate in life to discover our talents and find true joy in aligned purpose. Our talents shine in all their magnificent details in those moments, and we can live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let us embrace risk, curiosity, passion, and love to unlock our full potential and achieve greatness. Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

How do you transmute negative experiences, so you don't stay stuck in trauma? How do you live your life free from having to please people in order to “earn” their love? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Click here to view my “official portrait” on Instagram. Click here to download from Google Drive my Spring/Summer 2008 Collection I mentioned in the episode. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

The past is the past, and the new is here now, waiting for you to create it. So, what are you creating? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Saying good-bye, but one last piece of wisdom before I leave it all behind… Listen to Episode 109: Prof. Bruce Lipton talks about how our environment shapes our lives and futures. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

You say you stand for Love and Light, but in actuality do you? Ready to find out what is really in your heart? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Love is letting go of all fear. The fear of failure, rejection, and even the fear of releasing one's false God – the martyr, the victim self-image that the world has told us we are. Love is to know who you are and not to be afraid of it. Love is to turn your back on the world and all of its lies. To throw off all of the mantles we have acquired on our journies and to be what we are – despite the objections, complaints, and attempts to tear us down from others. The foolish, ignorant, and fearful will tell you this is wrong. These individuals will say to you are made of stone, that you are cold and bitter. But be aware and observe them closely, for you will see that they are full of fear, afraid to release their death grip on the rock of fear, that they are scared to be themselves. Remember, your life belongs to you; it is a gift from God, and “true love” would understand and encourage this truth, for they would want the same thing for themselves. So, as hard as it might be, as afraid as you may be, take a deep breath, let go of your fears and your past, and release into the warm, fluid stream of love; release into the only actual reality and watch the miracle of transformation begin. Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

You have waited long enough for others to do right by you, to take accountability for what they have done to you, so you can live your life, and be who you know you're supposed to be. You also cannot set yourself free by trying to undo what has already happened. You can only break the cycle of trauma and pain, of karma, by going through, by going forward, by completely the circle of the story of your life, of who you are. Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

You have every right to be a victim (what they did to you was wrong and it will always be wrong), but what if I told you that pursuing your “justice” will only keep you trapped in the cycle of abuse? What I am saying? I am saying that if you want your life to change, to stop the karmic cycle, you must give it up; you must exchange it for something different, for something new. So how do you do that? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

You don't “cut” cords to the toxic people and things in your life, you cut the cords to your old self-image of being a victim. If fact, you cut them at all – you burn them! If you don't, those “cords” will seek to “re-attach” themselves to people and things that feed that victim consciousness; it must, it's in its nature; that consciousness is fighting for its survival. So how do you “burn” those cords and free yourself from those cycles once and for all? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Everything changes; all creation comes and goes. However, it seems as though nothing has changed; no matter where you go or whom you are with, you seem to be continuously abandoned, rejected, abused, and constantly failing to realize your dreams. This lack of change is due to your constant gazing at what is (AKA: the negative cycles in your life), all stemming from what was (AKA: your childhood trauma, AKA: your Inherited negative self-image root). Remember, what you focus on expands, so you must focus on something new to change your reality, to break those cycles you are experiencing. But how do you do that when surrounded by “the facts of life?” Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of a genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

When we want to change our lives and break free from trauma, abusive relationships, and karmic cycles, we often desire it in the face of our current circumstances (which is nearly always NOT what we want.) So what do we have to do to remain in faith (or even have it to begin with) that The Divine will bring to pass the promise of freedom from those experiences? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and onto the path of being genuinely free of those cycles. Follow and engage with me on: https://twitter.com/The_BillyJ https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Have you ever noticed how people try to keep you at their level, within their comfort zones, limitations, and beliefs, and how readily we agree with them? Why is that, do you think? Limiting yourself does not serve the world; there is nothing noble in dimming your inner light so others won't feel insecure around you – God created you to shine in this world. So what are you afraid of; why deny your natural self? Is it out of fear of rejection? Guilt or shame? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse. Follow and engage with me on: https://twitter.com/The_BillyJ https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

If you believe in things like the Law of Attraction or ‘we become what we think about,' have you ever stopped to wonder why you keep experiencing abusive relationships? I am here to tell you that unless you get to the root cause of it all, nothing will ever change in your life; no amount of reading, list writing, or other practices will create the change you seek. You only need to ask yourself, “What do I believe that I deserve to have and experience in this lifetime?” Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse. Follow and engage with me on: https://twitter.com/The_BillyJ

If you want to stay out of negative energy, you must stop resisting it and allow it to be. Once you stop fighting it, you must engage in a desired activity that holds your attention. When you focus on the desired task, it is not open to other distractions; concentrated thoughts narrow the bandwidth, blocking the negative energy naturally with no effect on your part. Listen in to learn more. Follow and engage with me on: https://twitter.com/The_BillyJ https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Why do you feel shitty about the things that other people have done to you? Why do you feel guilty for making the decision to protect yourself? Why do you feel bad for getting back up and moving forward? Those feelings come from the ‘5 stones'  of your negative self-image thrown at you as a child. How do you stop feeling that way; how do you throw back those stones and set yourself free? Listen in as I share my discoveries of self-transformation and freedom from the cycles of abuse. Get the Face It, Replace It, Embrace It, flow chart on Twitter.

If you are trying to heal that inner child, AKA: you are trying to get your loved ones to stop rejecting you and take accountability for what they did to you, things aren't going to change. So what are you supposed to do? "Pull a Penelope!" What do I mean by that? Listen in and hear what I have discovered on my journey of carving a path beyond fear and abuse and into the wilderness of self-sovereignty so that you can do it too! Follow me on Twitter for your "homework" and feedback on each week's episode. https://twitter.com/The_BillyJ

All you've ever been doing is looking for a respectful, loving partner and friend to walk this life with. As a result, you've learned some hard lessons. The question is, “What will you do with that education?” It's time to accept the dream you've been dreaming of. Let go of the past and begin anew. Don't fear the unknown; the path can only evolve if you walk it in blind faith.  The only guarantee is that you WILL arrive if you follow the path before you.  Take a deep breath and enjoy the ride! Follow me on Twitter for your “homework” and feedback on each week's episode.

You haven't given up yet, so why are you so worried about what other people think about you? Why are you beating yourself up for the things that other people have done to you?! In order to be unstuck from your karmic patterns, you have to be Enlightened. But what does that really mean? Listen in as I share lessons learned, but also a quick way to start breaking your karmic cycles and free yourself to start living the life you were born to live! Download Show Outline Note From Google Drive