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Patrick welcomes questions that reach from Catholic faith and science, like connecting Adam and Eve to evolution, to family struggles over a loved one joining a zealous group, and the emotional weight of defending Church teachings with clarity and love. Listeners voice worries about things such as white wine in the chalice, hydration for a fading parent, and even dogs in the pews, while Patrick responds with practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, and resources to keep faith at the center. Unexpected, sometimes touching, always honest. Mike - My daughter is learning about evolution. She is trying to square how evolution and Adam and Eve came about? (00:31) Joe - My wife is starting to leave the Church. She has joined another denomination. How do I defend the faith and prove their flaws. (11:51) Colleen - Sunday Mass, I took the precious blood. I saw in the chalice before I consumed it, and it was white wine. Is that the incorrect matter to use? (27:44) Amy - I help teach OCIA. I was a convert myself. There is a little antagonism when you get closer and closer to coming to Church. (33:30) Jackie – My 96-year-old mom had a stroke. She vomits when she takes water. She doesn't want extraordinary means to stay alive. Is withholding IV from her a sin? (42:30) Rose - What is your stance on regular pets in Church during Mass? (48:37) Originally Aired on 07-24-2026

Ed is no longer just considering. After four-plus years of conversations on this show, he is now a candidate in the mid-year OCIA cohort at our parish and will enter the Church on the Feast of Christ the King. Sitting at the secret compound (earth-movers optional), he talks about what it actually feels like to walk into Sunday Mass as a newbie: the missed genuflection, the missed missal, the Laurel-and-Hardy choreography in the back pew, and the sudden realization that Catholic liturgy demands active participation instead of following words on a screen. He describes the unexpected emotion at the Sign of Peace and the elevation of the Host among people who are clearly serious, then gets to the harder part: obedience as a feature rather than a bug, reordering weekends around Mass when his wife is not interested, walking away from the old music network, and staring down an examination of conscience and confession. This is the update longtime listeners have been waiting for—the difference between studying Catholicism and beginning to live it. SUPPORT THIS SHOW Considering Catholicism is 100% listener-supported. If this podcast has helped you on your journey, please become a patron today! For as little as $5/month you get: • Every regular episode ad-free and organized into topical playlists • Exclusive bonus content (extra Q&As, Deep-Dive courses, live streams, and more) • My deepest gratitude and a growing community of like-minded listeners ➡️ Join now: https://patreon.com/consideringcatholicism (or tap the Patreon link in your podcast app) One-time gift: Donate with PayPal! CONNECT WITH US • Website & contact form: https://consideringcatholicism.com • Email: consideringcatholicism@gmail.com • Leave a comment on Patreon (I read every one!) RATE & REVIEW If you enjoy the show, please leave a rating (and even better, a review) on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — it really helps new listeners find us. SHARE THE SHOW Know someone who's curious about Catholicism? Send them a link or share an episode on social media. Thank you! Christus vincit, Christus regnat, Christus imperat.

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the special readings used this Sunday for the 125th Anniversary of St. Augustine parish in Pleasanton

A Story Continued Katlyn first joined the show in February to share how she lost her husband, Riley, in a car accident at just 28 years old, leaving her to raise their 8-month-old daughter, Chloe, alone. Today's episode picks up from there — her remarriage, the birth of her son, and how it all led her into the Catholic Church. Falling in Love Again Katlyn talks candidly about the courage it took to date again after loss, meeting her husband Luke, and initially telling him it "wasn't going to work out" the moment she learned he was Catholic — before God had other plans. The Journey Into the Catholic Church From conversations with Luke's uncle, Father Mike Peters — a retired priest of the Diocese of Des Moines connected to Our Lady's Immaculate Heart Parish in Ankeny — to enrolling in OCIA, Katlyn shares how questions about Church authority, sacred tradition, and ultimately the Eucharist led her out of her Protestant upbringing and into full communion with the Church. Easter Vigil and New Life Katlyn was received into the Church at the Easter Vigil — just two days before giving birth to her son, Carson. She also shares the moving experience of having both Chloe and Carson baptized together by Father Mike. Under the Fig Tree Katlyn explains the story behind her book's title, drawn from the Gospel account of Nathanael meeting Jesus, and what it means to know that God sees us "under the fig tree" — even in our lowest moments. Her book, Under the Fig Tree: God's Faithfulness in Every Season, is available now on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Follow Katlyn on Facebook for updates on upcoming book signings in the Des Moines metro. A Free Gift for Your Family Iowa Catholic Radio has partnered with My Catholic Will to offer listeners a free, legally binding will in as little as fifteen minutes — a meaningful way to protect your loved ones and put your faith into your legacy planning. #CatholicWomenNow #IowaCatholicRadio #CatholicConversion #UnderTheFigTree #OCIA #CatholicFaith #Eucharist #Remarriage #GriefAndHope #CatholicPodcast Listen Live · Program Schedule · Our StationsLINKSYou can follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Youtube, Tiktok! More on our website.If you would like to support Iowa Catholic Radio you can donate Here! More from Iowa Catholic Radio:Sunday Dive with Katie PatrizioMan Up! with Joe StopulosCatholic Women Now with Chris Magruder and Julie NelsonThe Uncommon Good with Bo Bonner and Dr. Bud MarrBe Not Afraid with Fr. Fabian Moncada and Fr. Bruce RiebeBe Not Afraid en Español con el P. Fabián MoncadaMaking it Personal with Bishop William JoensenFaith and Family Finance with Gregory WaddleThe Great Men of the Bible with Joe Stopulos Liturgy & DevotionsThe Daily Gospel Reflection with Fr. Nick SmithThe Daily Mass from St. Francis of AssisiThe Daily Mass from St. Pius XThe Daily Mass from St. TheresaSunday Mass from the Basilica of Saint JohnWant to support your favorite show? Click Here Iowa Catholic Radio - Connecting People to Christ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The hardest part of becoming Catholic is often not the doctrine. It is the moment a friendship, a marriage, or a family table starts to feel the strain. In this episode, Greg talks about recent conversations with listeners and people in OCIA whose families experience their interest in the Church as a rupture—and about his own long friendships with Protestant and evangelical colleagues, some of them thirty or forty years old, that have never quite recovered from his conversion. The usual peace offering is kind, and it is tempting: you found a deeper spirituality, the beauty, the smells and bells, a style that works for you. Greg names why that olive branch can still feel like a rewrite of the real reason, and why Chesterton's old sentence still seems the only adequate one: because it is true. This is not a guide to winning the argument at dinner. It is about telling the truth without hurling anathemas, and loving people without agreeing to a smaller story about why you left. For an earlier conversation on the same strain, see episode 238, “When Friends and Family Don't Understand.” SUPPORT THIS SHOW Considering Catholicism is 100% listener-supported. If this podcast has helped you on your journey, please become a patron today! For as little as $5/month you get: • Every regular episode ad-free and organized into topical playlists • Exclusive bonus content (extra Q&As, Deep-Dive courses, live streams, and more) • My deepest gratitude and a growing community of like-minded listeners ➡️ Join now: https://patreon.com/consideringcatholicism (or tap the Patreon link in your podcast app) One-time gift: Donate with PayPal! CONNECT WITH US • Website & contact form: https://consideringcatholicism.com • Email: consideringcatholicism@gmail.com • Leave a comment on Patreon (I read every one!) RATE & REVIEW If you enjoy the show, please leave a rating (and even better, a review) on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — it really helps new listeners find us. SHARE THE SHOW Know someone who's curious about Catholicism? Send them a link or share an episode on social media. Thank you! Christus vincit, Christus regnat, Christus imperat.

“Is Gen Z embracing Theology of the Body?” This question opens a discussion on whether younger generations are accepting this teaching for the right reasons. The conversation also touches on the Church’s stance on tattoos, the implications of cohabitation while engaged, and responses to differing views on sexuality from other faith perspectives. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:55 – Are Gen Z accepting Theology of the Body for the wrong reasons? 05:30 – What is the theology of the body all about? 17:10 – What is the Church teaching on tattoos? 22:22 – I'm in OCIA, engaged and am cohabiting but abstaining. Can you explain to me what the Church thinks about this? 37:49 – I visited a protestant church and the pastor said that sex is for pleasure but is only to be expressed within marriage. What’s the Catholic response to this? 46:10 – I left the Catholic faith and now have daughters in high school. I have to be realistic, and have to put them on birth control because we don't want them to get pregnant in high school.

“Are Gen Z understanding Theology of the Body?” This question opens a discussion on whether younger generations are embracing this teaching for the right reasons. The conversation also touches on the Church’s stance on tattoos, the implications of cohabitation while engaged, and responses to differing views on sexuality from other faith perspectives. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:55 – Are Gen Z accepting Theology of the Body for the wrong reasons? 05:30 – What is the theology of the body all about? 17:10 – What is the Church teaching on tattoos? 22:22 – I'm in OCIA, engaged and am cohabiting but abstaining. Can you explain to me what the Church thinks about this? 37:49 – I visited a protestant church and the pastor said that sex is for pleasure but is only to be expressed within marriage. What’s the Catholic response to this? 46:10 – I left the Catholic faith and now have daughters in high school. I have to be realistic, and have to put them on birth control because we don't want them to get pregnant in high school.

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Father Koys takes us on another “brain wrinkling” walk.  Today Father Koys takes tidbits of his various Wednesday episodes and creates a “smorgasbord” of sorts as he discusses various topics.  He comments on the crazy weather we've had and its impact to various trees around St. James Parish, then turns to speaking about the nuclear bomb, Iran and the need to keep them from having it.  Father Koys discusses that Iran is a theocracy and addresses what it is, how it impacts the current war as he addresses the various understandings of the Messiah across different religions. This brings him to share a reflection from CS Lewis that references several ills of the world that can bring about death referencing that the nuclear bomb is just another ill added to the mix and that rather than live in fear of the nuclear bomb and dying, we should live prayerfully, joyfully, sharing in the good of the world and doing good.  During the second half of the show, he reflects and unpacks the poem “The Ambulance Down in the Valley”, explaining that it is essentially a lesson on morality.  Father reads the poem and then breaks it down as he draws attention to what we should walk away with.  He ends sharing a story of a family coming in for OCIA, Order of Christian Initiation of Adults, where one shares their confusion over the hierarchy in catholic religion, questioning why we need it, which leads him to discuss the Catholic Hierarchy and its role in teaching and demonstrating that getting directly to God is not an easy way, opening the door to yet another topic for another Brain Wrinkling Wednesday.   St. Stanislaus Kostka Parish

“Why Does It Take So Long to Become Catholic?” This question opens a discussion on the intricacies of the Catholic initiation process. Other topics include the concerns of a Jewish individual raised atheist who loves Jesus but hesitates to join the Church, and how Catholics can defend their faith without being apologists. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:29 – Why is the process to become Catholic so long? 14:13 – I'm Jewish but I was raised atheist. I love Jesus but I'm afraid to go to the Church. 29:14 – I struggle with defending the faith. How should a Catholic defend the faith without needing to be an apologist? 42:01 – Regarding Papal Infallibility in Vatican 1. What historical documents affirm this doctrine? 47:45 – I'm joining OCIA because of the Church fathers and apostolic succession. Do Episcopalian have apostolic succession? 49:58 – I'm reading the Early Church Father and I'm not Catholic because I'm trying to figure what my next step is.

On today’s show, Fr. John Paul Erickson joins to discuss understanding the Eucharist Break 1 Robert: A question about receiving Communion in the state of Mortal sin. Break 2 James - How do you raise level of Eucharistic devotion and devotion outside of Mass to increase the graces received during Communion? Lynn - I'm Protestant starting OCIA in late August. Previously, I have been receiving the Eucharist in Catholic Church but stopped because I knew it was bad. Was I sinning?

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time

In this episode, Pete shares his story with Fr. Liptak of seeking the truth, finding it in the Catholic Church, going through the OCIA process at St. Basil, being welcomed into the Church, and living His Catholic faith after the Easter Vigil.    Come, follow us: Parish Website  |  Facebook  |  Instagram  |  YouTube  |  Spotify Music

Released on the feast of **Saint John Vianney**, this episode gives Father Boniface Hicks the floor to reflect on the patron saint of parish priests—at a personally meaningful moment, as Father Boniface begins serving in a parish in the Diocese of Pittsburgh. Saint John Vianney was not known as a brilliant academic. He struggled through seminary, lived through the turbulence after the French Revolution, and was assigned to a small parish in Ars. Yet by giving himself completely to the people entrusted to him—especially through confession, preaching, prayer, sacrifice, and pastoral care—he became one of the Church's great models of parish priesthood.Joe Rockey and Father Boniface then move from Saint John Vianney's life into a practical question facing many parishes today: how do we keep the Church from becoming only “maintenance” when it must also be missionary? Father explains that parish life is where the rubber meets the road: baptisms, marriages, funerals, confession, Mass, religious formation, and daily pastoral care. But when those ordinary acts become routine, they can lose intentionality. Saint John Vianney reminds priests—and parishioners—that the ordinary work of the Church becomes holy when it is done with sacrifice, attention, and love.The conversation closes with a concrete challenge for parish life: finances matter, but they are a trailing indicator. The deeper question is whether a parish is alive in mission. A parish can try to survive by asking more from the same people, or it can ask how to bring more families home. The stronger path is not merely “raise more money,” but rebuild the missionary life of the parish—supporting priests, forming people, inviting families, and creating a community where sacrifice makes sense because the Gospel is alive.**Key Ideas*** Saint John Vianney shows that holiness, sacrifice, and pastoral love matter more than brilliance or status.* Parish priests carry the “ordinary” sacramental life of the Church—and that ordinary work must not become dull or careless.* The parish is where the Church's mission becomes concrete: confession, Mass, formation, families, marriages, funerals, and daily care.* Many parishes face a tension between **maintenance** and **mission**; both matter, but mission has to drive the system.* Parish finances are often a trailing indicator of deeper vitality: the real question is whether more people are being brought home.**Links & References**None explicitly referenced with a clear official/source link in this episode.**CTA:** If this helped, please leave a review or share this episode with a friend.Questions or thoughts? Email [FatherAndJoe@gmail.com](mailto:FatherAndJoe@gmail.com).### TagsFather and Joe, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, Saint John Vianney, feast of Saint John Vianney, patron of parish priests, parish priest, parish life, Diocese of Pittsburgh, Benedictine, Ars, Cure of Ars, French Revolution, Reign of Terror, religious persecution, confession, sacrament of reconciliation, mercy of God, parish mission, maintenance to mission, missionary church, evangelization, parish renewal, parish finance, parish vitality, Catholic parish, pastoral care, baptisms, marriages, funerals, religious education, RCIA, OCIA, seminary formation, spiritual direction, Saint Vincent Seminary, parish families, bringing families home, Church growth, Catholic leadership, support your priest, relationship with God, relationship with others, relationship with self

When it comes to marriage, most conversations focus solely on the couple, but what about the intricate web of family relationships that come with it?Kevin Pesak, director of OCIA and marriage preparation at St. Mary's Catholic Center, shares invaluable insights on how couples can leave and cleave well—treading the delicate line between honoring family traditions and building a new normal together.His perspective reveals that the secret to a successful marriage isn't just about two people, but about navigating and integrating two entirely new family systems with grace and humility. Kevin unpacks practical strategies for both couples and parents. You'll discover why honesty, humility, and early conversations about expectations are critical for avoiding tension and misunderstandings—especially around holidays, traditions, and in-law relationships. Kevin shares specific advice for parents on how to support their children's marital journey, from offering wisdom without criticism, to encouraging couples to seek outside mentorship. He also discusses when and how to have those tough conversations about readiness for marriage and the importance of church-approved steps like the right of betrothal.https://www.aggiecatholic.org/marriage

Patrick answers questions about the meaning of Jesus’s sacrifice, engaging Catholic and Reformed perspectives, and draws from St. Thomas Aquinas to consider alternatives and God’s sovereignty. He moves to the Rosary’s origins, connecting its biblical roots to powerful personal prayer, and then shifts to everyday struggles: guiding a son through spiritual tension in a split family, balancing empathy with the challenge of truth. The episode swerves from cultural debates about Aztec dancers in church to quick detours into baby name trends and one listener’s vivid story of discovering Catholicism through Scripture. Michael (email) - Could we say that Jesus's sacrifice was the means that the Trinity decided was most fitting to dispense grace & salvation? If some other means were chosen by God, would that means have required the Incarnation be involved in order to bridge the gap between finite man's infinite sin against God? (00:36) Al - What is the origin of the Rosary and the importance of praying it? (05:48) Andrea (email) - I’m laughing this morning as Patrick is intentionally expressing your confusion with all the inner workings of Lord of the Rings Armondo (email) - Please comment on the Aztec dancers at the Los Angeles Archdiocese’s Cathedral. (20:48) Ryan - My 15-year-old son did not get communion two weeks in a row, and he is trying to give up on the faith and does not want to go to confession. (30:04) Debbie – I’m in OCIA, and had a couple of epiphanies this past week from the reading on Sunday Romans 8:38-39, and that Mary is the mother of the Church (40:34) Bertha - Have you heard the Spanish song about abortion where the baby is asking the mother not to abort it? (49:32)

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time

On today's Inner Life, Fr. Marcel Taillon joins to help us in reconciling with God. Janet - I currently go to the parish near my house. I have a hard time going to confession there. I find myself going somewhere else because I'm embarrassed and they might judge me since I know the priest. Break 1 Theresa - Going to confession when you have mortal sins. Confessing the same things over and over. My experience, it gives you the grace to not do that anymore. Going to confession gives me that grace. Don't wait until it's mortal sin. Saskia - I'm new, not a Catholic, but going to start OCIA soon. I went to confession once and told the priest I didn't know what to do. I almost committed a mortal sin. Would I have to confess that? What about sins that are hard to confess like abortion? How do I get over this fear? LJ - Do parish priests recognize your voice or even a medal hanging on your neck?

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Patrick welcomes questions that reach from Catholic faith and science, like connecting Adam and Eve to evolution, to family struggles over a loved one joining a zealous group, and the emotional weight of defending Church teachings with clarity and love. Listeners voice worries about things such as white wine in the chalice, hydration for a fading parent, and even dogs in the pews, while Patrick responds with practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, and resources to keep faith at the center. Unexpected, sometimes touching, always honest. Mike - My daughter is learning about evolution. She is trying to square how evolution and Adam and Eve came about? (00:31) Joe - My wife is starting to leave the Church. She has joined another denomination. How do I defend the faith and prove their flaws. (11:51) Colleen - Sunday Mass, I took the precious blood. I saw in the chalice before I consumed it, and it was white wine. Is that the incorrect matter to use? (27:44) Amy - I help teach OCIA. I was a convert myself. There is a little antagonism when you get closer and closer to coming to Church. (33:30) Jackie – My 96-year-old mom had a stroke. She vomits when she takes water. She doesn't want extraordinary means to stay alive. Is withholding IV from her a sin? (42:30) Rose - What is your stance on regular pets in Church during Mass? (48:37)

OCIA  Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 16th Sunday in Ordinary Time

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Patrick brings a playful spirit with references to MAD Magazine, then shifts abruptly to heartfelt, sometimes tense questions about family, faith, and Catholic identity, throwing humor and deep pastoral advice side by side. Here, conflicts between Catholic tradition and new spiritual practices push relatives apart while the struggle for unity, forgiveness, and real answers persists; practical steps mingle with open-ended spiritual journeys, all against a backdrop of Church controversies and historic challenges. Patrick continues his conversation with Joe from the end of the last hour. Joe is asking how to approach family members engaged in new age practices and how to evangelize them? Jed (email) - Do you think that there is any merit to my theory relative to the TLM communities that are in communion with the Vatican being a major component of the "fog"? (11:13) Emily (email) - My husband's 98-year-old grandmother has been in a nursing home for 10 years after a stroke; she is originally from Mexico, speaks only Spanish, and her name plus the use of her baptism date as her birth date suggest she may have been baptized Catholic, yet none of her children are Catholic. How can I respectfully find out if she would like to see a priest and receive the Anointing of the Sick without making assumptions or causing conflict? (16:16) Debbie - I started OCIA this past Easter after a yearlong journey. I was unsatisfied with the Protestant faith. (20:46) Eric - I have a friend who doesn't believe in Catholicism. He was surprised to hear what we believed in. Which Catechism should I give him? (30:13) Sarah - My elderly father is suffering from dementia. He hasn't been to church after his cognitive decline. Is he sinning? Should I get him to go? (38:01) Patricia (email) – How was the Catholic faith coming to the America’s good for the indigenous people who already lived here? (45:37)

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“How do I respond to anti-Catholic claims?” This question opens a discussion on the necessity of physical church participation, addressing concerns raised by non-Catholic family members. Additional topics include the next steps for a young believer not ready for OCIA, and the qualifications for being in a state of grace, providing a well-rounded exploration of faith and doctrine. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:35 – My mom is not Catholic and said the Church is merely spiritual so being a part of a physical church is not needed. How do I respond to this? 15:32 – I'm 17 and have come to believe in the Catholic faith. I'm not in a position to join OCIA right now. What is my next step? 29:00 – Who qualifies us as being in the state of Grace? Who decides that? 40:50 – Why did God choose Jacob over Esau? 49:00 – Is the Mass a perpetual sacrifice? I see 2 teachings on this in the Church that contradict. When did the wrong teaching creep into the Church?

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Patrick opens up the hour exploring forgiveness and the longing for redemption, responding to listeners wrestling with decades away from the sacraments and the heaviest sins. The conversation shifts between the specifics of confession, concrete church teachings on annulments and in vitro fertilization, and the subtleties distinguishing Catholic priestly societies, all while fielding heartfelt questions about facing moral conflict in ordinary life—like how to attend an IVF baby shower as a Catholic. The current of hope, reassurance, and practical spiritual advice surges beneath every honest exchange. Patrick continues his conversation with James who, just before the break asked, “Is there any hope for me?” Cheryl - When I returned to the Church, there was an amazing priest who helped me. Michael (email) - You mentioned to James that Mary is the highest human creature. What about Jesus's human nature? Is His human nature a creation? Is it more accurate to call Mary the highest human “person”? Chris (email) - My first wife and I were married by a Unitarian minister. We divorced after 8 years of marriage. Neither of us were practicing Catholics. I had no affiliation with the Catholic Church but was baptized in a Baptist church. I have since started OCIA classes to become Catholic. The woman I’m dating is Catholic and is getting an annulment. Would I have to get an annulment as well? Ellen (email) - Why does it bother you when people ask to remain anonymous? Judith (email) - Prior to a young man going through a bone marrow transplant that would leave him sterile, he stored some of his sperm for use with his future wife. After he recovered and married, he used his sperm with his wife’s eggs to create a beautiful embryo that became a wonderful faithful young man. This embryo was placed in the body of his biological mother. Was this a sin?Carolyn - Can a diocesan priests celebrate mass facing the people versus religious order priests facing ad orientem? What’s the difference between SSPX and FSSP orders? Liana – A couple of close friends got pregnant using IVF. How should our relationship go forward? John - If after communion is distributed there are several hosts leftover, can they be used at another Mass? (Originally Aired on 06/09/2026)

“Why does it matter if Mary is sinless?” This question opens a discussion on the significance of Marian doctrines in Catholic faith. The conversation also touches on early church beliefs regarding Mary’s perpetual virginity, responses to biblical passages that challenge her sinlessness, and how to cultivate a personal relationship with Mary and the saints. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 03:05 – Why does it matter for a catholic to believe Mary is sinless 13:05 – Did the early church believe in the perpetual virginity of Mary or is that a doctrine that developed over time. 17:07 – My Protestant friend cites Luke 2:48 (where Mary asks Jesus how he could do that to them at the finding in the Temple) to show she is not sinless. 23:40 – How can I have a more personal relationship with Mary, or other saints? Is that even possible in the same way it is with Jesus? 32:55 – My evangelical friends object to papal statements that say people who deny certain Marian doctrines are outside the faith. They say this is adding additional criteria for salvation. How do I respond? 42:50 – In John 20 Christ tells Mary Magdalen not to touch him because he hasn't risen to his Father yet. But later he tells Thomas to touch him. Why the different answers? 46:30 – I'm about to start OCIA. I want to lean more into a relationship with Mary. But I grew up in an Evangelical background, and it feels strange. I keep on thinking about how I need to make sure I've giving more reverence to Jesus. 52:38 – How is it that Jesus and Mary could experience the effects of original sin when they didn't have original sin?

“Can you explain the Assumption?” This question opens a discussion on the Marian dogmas, addressing common struggles with understanding them. The episode also touches on discerning the differences between Orthodox and Catholic beliefs regarding Peter’s role, as well as the Catholic teaching on the death penalty and its evolution under Pope Francis. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 05:25 – I have been looking into the Catholic Faith for a while. I have struggled with the Marian dogmas, especially the Assumption. 17:34 – How do you discern whether or not the Orthodox or Catholics are correct, specifically whether or not Peter is first among equals or infallible? 29:55 – Why is it that Catholics say you can't spread ashes, but when it comes to saints you divide up their body parts? 35:37 – Can you explain the Catholic teaching on the death penalty? Did it change with Pope Francis? 41:35 – I am sympathetic to Catholic traditions and have tried to go through OCIA. But my husband has decided that our family is not going to be Catholic. I want to be a respectful spouse. 50:58 – I'm trying to love my wife back into the faith. She was raised Catholic but stopped practicing. She goes to a Protestant church where the sermons are peppered with anti-Catholic remarks. I think this creates a major barrier for a lot of people to become Catholic.

Patrick answers layered questions about Catholic tradition, everyday practices, and personal belief, moving from the biblical roots of the priesthood to thorny family matters around baptism, with listeners wrestling aloud over Mariology, church authority, and conversion doubts. He encourages persistent prayer, leans into Church history for answers, and points callers toward resources and guidance, even as the stories swirl with emotion, challenge, and the search for truth. A sense of immediacy infuses every exchange as Patrick stands with listeners at the intersection of doctrine and lived faith. Sandy – None of our grandchildren or children are practicing their faith. What is my role in helping the grandkids? (03:46) Debbie – I was born Jewish and started OCIA a while back. I’m not baptized because of questions I still have. Did Christ fulfill all the old prophecies? If not, were there any alterations from the prophecies? (09:11) Christine - My sister has a problem praying to Mary. She is wondering how can Mary hear and respond to all the people praying to her? (21:51) Matt - What is required by the Church for fasting? Should we do it every Friday outside of Lent, and also abstain from meat? (31:53) John Paul – Where in the bible does it say we should fast on Fridays? (40:08)

(8:24) Fr. Alan Hoffa joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss freedom in the spiritual life. Break 1 (20:05) Tom - In Russian, the word for freedom connotates no restraint whatsoever. I believe that the Soviet Union had people living out this view. St. Peter and Paul were free because of how they lived their lives in Christ (28:04) Email – Bonnie – In the spiritual canticle St. John calls wandering thoughts nymphs. Is it a sin to have these thoughts? Break 2 (39:38) Justin - Freedom of sin led to me to prison but now I'm following the Lord. I tell students in OCIA that we need to follow rules placed by the Church and our Lord allowing us to travel the road of life safely and freedom is gained through that. (44:53) Email – Robin – what are the differences between religious freedom and spiritual freedom. Father Hoffa also addresses how does serving others help us become more free.

OCIA  Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time

OCIA  Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 12th Sunday in Ordinary Time

“How should Catholics respond to aliens?” This intriguing question opens a discussion on faith and the unknown, while also touching on the significance of the Eucharist as both a meal and a sacrifice. Other topics include the historical basis for apostolic succession and the distinction between hyperdulia and a worship of Mary, showcasing a diverse range of theological inquiries. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:40 – If you found yourself face-to-face with what appeared to be an intelligent being from another planet, how should you respond as a Catholic? 13:38 – Why is the Eucharist not only a meal but also a sacrifice? 20:30 – I'm LDS but am starting to question the Great Apostacy. There doesn't seem to be a strong historical basis for it. What is the historical evidence for the Catholic claim of apostolic succession? 33:35 – My friend is an evangelical Protestant but he won't consider Catholicism unless we give him answers about eschatology. He is a dispensationalist. 41:55 – I don't understand this distinction between hyperdulia and worship of Mary. 46:32 – I saw this video “New Evidence for Early Popes” that talked about how in the early church history would be dated according to who was pope at the time. Is this a good argument for the papacy? 52:05 – I grew up in the Southern Baptist church believing that baptism is just a symbol. I'm starting OCIA soon. It sounds like the Catholic Church is going to accept my baptism as valid. This doesn't make sense to me because I believed it was just a symbol.

How can parishes better accompany people entering the Catholic Church? In this listener Q&A episode, Dave wraps up the OCIA series by answering questions about sponsors, mentorship, community, Natural Family Planning, and how to meet the diverse needs of those coming into the Church. Dave argues that one of the biggest missing pieces in many OCIA programs isn't more content, it's deeper relationships. We want to hear from you! Email us at eksb@ascensionpress.com with your questions/comments Don't forget to text “EKSB” to 33-777 to get the shownotes right to your inbox! You can also find the full shownotes at www.ascensionpress.com/EveryKneeShallBow

OCIA Director Matt Gray, reflects on the readings for the 11th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Dave explores mystagogy, the often overlooked final stage of OCIA that begins after the Easter Vigil and calls new Catholics to go deeper into the mysteries they've just entered. Rather than being a finish line, he explains it as the start of lifelong formation. He also reflects on grief and how suffering can deepen belief in the resurrection, highlights the need for stronger parish community and post-Easter formation, and asks for prayers for Gomer's dad and family as his father's health declines. We want to hear from you! Email us at eksb@ascensionpress.com with your questions/comments Don't forget to text “EKSB” to 33-777 to get the shownotes right to your inbox! You can also find the full shownotes at www.ascensionpress.com/EveryKneeShallBow

Patrick opens up the hour exploring forgiveness and the longing for redemption, responding to listeners wrestling with decades away from the sacraments and the heaviest sins. The conversation shifts between the specifics of confession, concrete church teachings on annulments and in vitro fertilization, and the subtleties distinguishing Catholic priestly societies, all while fielding heartfelt questions about facing moral conflict in ordinary life—like how to attend an IVF baby shower as a Catholic. The current of hope, reassurance, and practical spiritual advice surges beneath every honest exchange. Patrick continues his conversation with James who, just before the break asked, “Is there any hope for me?” (01:04) Cheryl - When I returned to the Church, there was an amazing priest who helped me. (07:33) Michael (email) - You mentioned to James that Mary is the highest human creature. What about Jesus's human nature? Is His human nature a creation? Is it more accurate to call Mary the highest human “person”? (12:10) Chris (email) - My first wife and I were married by a Unitarian minister. We divorced after 8 years of marriage. Neither of us were practicing Catholics. I had no affiliation with the Catholic Church but was baptized in a Baptist church. I have since started OCIA classes to become Catholic. The woman I’m dating is Catholic and is getting an annulment. Would I have to get an annulment as well? (13:25) Ellen (email) - Why does it bother you when people ask to remain anonymous? (14:51) Judith (email) - Prior to a young man going through a bone marrow transplant that would leave him sterile, he stored some of his sperm for use with his future wife. After he recovered and married, he used his sperm with his wife’s eggs to create a beautiful embryo that became a wonderful faithful young man. This embryo was placed in the body of his biological mother. Was this a sin? (19:17) Carolyn - Can a diocesan priests celebrate mass facing the people versus religious order priests facing ad orientem? What’s the difference between SSPX and FSSP orders? (28:03) Liana – A couple of close friends got pregnant using IVF. How should our relationship go forward? (40:33) John - If after communion is distributed there are several hosts leftover, can they be used at another Mass? (46:22)

“How can we achieve perfection?” This question leads to a discussion on the steps we can take to avoid Purgatory, alongside insights on responding to Protestant challenges about Catholic doctrine. Other topics include the relationship between science and belief in God, the purpose of praying the Rosary, and the complexities of Church teachings on birth control. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:50 – What can we do to reach a level of perfection where we won't have to go to Purgatory? 13:45 – How do we respond to Protestants when they challenge our Catholic doctrine? 22:10 – Is there a good book that addresses the scientific basis for God? My intelligent 22 year old grandson says science prohibits him from believing in God. 30:19 – I'll be starting OCIA soon. Why pray the Rosary when we can go directly to God? And when would I pray the Rosary? It seems like if I just pray the Rosary I'd be giving up the fruitful prayer routine I already have. I wouldn't want to give that up. 41:45 – The verbiage of CCC 2370 regarding birth control, “rendering procreation impossible” puzzles me. I'm not sure how it would apply because both artificial contraception and NFP have similar success rates. 48:29 – What are some of the sins that a regular priest can't absolve? And what should a priest do if someone confesses something illegal?

Father Casey Jones is a priest of the Diocese of Venice, Florida. He currently serves as the pastor of St. Elizabeth Seton Parish and school in Naples, Florida. In Today's Show: How can a fallen-away Catholic re-enter the Church? Can someone who is homebound or disabled enroll in OCIA? How can a Catholic physician balance their religious beliefs with their duty to respect patients' decisions? Does the Catholic church obligate us to vote in elections? ​Why don't we go back to traditional hymns and chant for modern Masses? Can an annulment be done incorrectly? Are our prayers less effective if prayed under duress?  Do we have to register at the parish that is closest to us?  If the Gospel is to be preached universally, how should Catholics understand the existence of different gospel presentations universally? Can a Catholic work at a farm that grows marijuana in a legal state? Visit the show page at thestationofthecross.com/askapriest to listen live, check out the weekly lineup, listen to podcasts of past episodes, watch live video, find show resources, sign up for our mailing list of upcoming shows, and submit your question for Father!

Patrick answers pressing questions about confession validity, talking faith with Muslims, sainthood, and whether the Holy Spirit showed up in Genesis or only after Christ. Discussions ranged from papal authority, climate change, Catholic political involvement, and Marian dogmas, sparking moments of frank disagreement and practical advice. Peggy - I went to Confession after not going for years. The priest misunderstood me. Do I need to go back and do it again? (00:49) Maria – How can I share the faith with a Muslim family? (05:30) Judy - If someone is canonized as a saint, can they be de-canonized? (10:32) Jenna - Did we get the Holy Spirit during the creation of Adam and Eve? (14:42) Mark - I saw the Pope's new encyclical. What does the Pope, and the Church, think about climate change? (23:40) Martin - Would a parish accept an online OCIA course? (39:17) Veronica - I think this Pope is more political than anything else. It is very insulting to Catholics. (45:11)

Patrick answers uncomfortable questions that demand clarity and real answers about family dilemmas surrounding IVF and awkward moments at Mass. He speaks straight, whether addressing baptism without parental consent, why Catholics shouldn’t receive communion in Methodist services, or confronting end-of-life trials with medical decisions. Every call sparks his candor and keeps the conversation both grounded and utterly unpredictable. Email - What is the best response to a relative who is excited to tell you that her daughter and husband are going through IVF and they have three embryos? (01:15) April - Why isn't there any historical evidence for Jesus outside of the Bible and Christian literature? (10:01) Judy (email) - There are several times during mass when people hold their hands facing up and then go even higher with their hands. I wonder where that came from and what you think. (15:28) Jim - IVF does affect medical workers too. Our sonogram technician was shaken because she said people decide which babies live and which ones die. (20:53) Rebecca - I grew up Catholic and my grandmother was Methodist, but they celebrated Communion. Was it ok for me to take Communion with them? (23:15) Anna - Does a grandparent have the authority to get grandchild baptized without parent's approval? (29:01) Patty (email) – Are you not aware that OCIA programs are flourishing? (33:21) Talina - Who created God? (35:05) Angie - My brother-in-law is declining and we are doing extraordinary means to keep him alive. Is it ok for us to stop medication. (44:08) (Originally Aired on 03-18-2026)

Patrick welcomes listeners into a swirl of faith questions, from whether God creates souls bound for hell to what really sets the Ethiopian Bible apart. His conversations jump from parish problems in New York to hard-won lessons in marriage, landing on raw moments of confession and the ache to bring loved ones home to Catholic truth. With honest calls and scriptural insights, Patrick threads thought-provoking theology into the candid struggles and hopes of everyday believers. Chris (email) - Would God make a soul to damn them to Hell then, he knows all past, present and future? (00:28) Keith - How do Catholics view the Ethiopian Bible? (06:08) George - My neighbor is Anglican. What would she have to go through to become Catholic? She is about 80 years old. (16:19) Anthony - Can I move to a different parish? (20:39) Norman - I feel like I really feel short of the Ephesians scripture about loving your wife. I need prayer. What do I do? (26:23) Nancy (email) – Where’s that best of movie list? Yolanda - I see many people go through OCIA and see so much joy after the sacrament of Confession. (38:08) Jennifer - Can I get your advice on how to get my mother-in-law to come back to the Catholic Church? (41:45) Nathan - I know one of the thieves on the cross went to heaven, but what happened to the other thief? (48:06) Joe - When they ring the first set of bells, is that the consecration? (49:01)

Why did the Pharisees and Sadducees fiercely disagree about the resurrection, and why is the resurrection so central to Catholic belief? In this episode of Catholic Answers Live, Catholic Answers apologists explain the theological importance of bodily resurrection before tackling questions about the Protestant and Jewish biblical canons, including why Maccabees is missing despite its connection to Hanukkah. The discussion also explores common misunderstandings about Catholic teaching on salvation, including accusations of “works-based salvation,” how justification can grow even while Christians still commit venial sins, and the connection between the Bread of Life discourse and Christ's Passion. The episode concludes with pastoral advice for someone in OCIA facing family conflict about becoming Catholic and attending Mass. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 04:22 – Why was there a dispute between the Pharisees and Sadducees on resurrection, and why is it so central to Catholic teaching?  11:14 – Is the protestant bible based off of the Jewish translation of the bible? Why doesn’t the Jewish bible have  Maccabees, since those books contain the origin of Hanukkah?  20:10 – How would we respond to someone who pushes back when we say don't believe in a works-based salvation? They say that we would claim someone loses their salvation if they miss Mass.  30:20 – How do we reconcile a justification that progresses and still commit venial sin?  37:01 – How close in time was the bread of life discourse to the Passion of Christ?  51:30 – I'm in OCIA and my husband doesn’t agree with my decision. If I were to become Catholic and I can’t make it to mass because of issues at home, will I be in mortal sin? 

Explore the powerful but often overlooked OCIA stage of Purification and Enlightenment with Gomer and Dave. They unpack the Church's ancient roots, from exorcism prayers and spiritual warfare to the Rite of Election and Lenten scrutinies, and show how this period reveals what needs healing, strengthens what is good, and prepares the elect for the Easter Vigil. Whether you're in OCIA ministry or simply curious about the Church's process of formation, discover a fresh vision of Lent, conversion, and discipleship. We want to hear from you! Email us at eksb@ascensionpress.com with your questions/comments Don't forget to text “EKSB” to 33-777 to get the shownotes right to your inbox! You can also find the full shownotes at www.ascensionpress.com/EveryKneeShallBow

Patrick opens the hour with prayer, launching day three of the pledge drive and inviting everyone to come together for a common $3 million goal. He fields raw, honest listener questions about Mass language, Eucharistic practices, temptation, and raising teens in the faith, blending stories, Catholic teaching, and even a listener’s homegrown song. Unscripted moments, laughter, and global gratitude tumble through the conversation as Patrick balances spiritual answers with urgent real-time fundraising. Christine (email) - Does the church clean the cloth that is used to wipe the rim of the chalice in a special way if there is wine on it? (01:37) Paul (email) - Can the ordinary Mass be in English and Latin? Why can't the Mass be celebrated this way? ((04:11) Saul (email) – Why does God allow people to controlled by their lust? (05:19) Yollie - Is praying in tongues from the Holy Spirit? I thought people were doing this but aren’t you supposed to understand what they are saying? (14:32) Email - My fiancée (19F) and I (22M) were married in a civil ceremony performed by a ‘minister’ ordained under Universal Life Church that obviously lacked canonical form in a complicated affair that was the result of a lot of very difficult circumstances. This not-very-legitimate marriage was legally annulled after 65 days, as we both were not prepared for the reality of legal marriage. She is and was Catholic, I am in OCIA. It is my understanding that when a marriage is performed without proper form, the Catholic Church says no marriage occurred, and so we both should be free to move forward with matrimony in the Church. Do we need to mention our previously annulled marriage to move forward, or is it considered non-existent and therefore irrelevant to the discussion? (28:16) Kelly (email) - I have a freshman daughter at a Catholic high school, and I recently learned that her sports team had a sleepover where alcohol and edibles (marijuana) were present and consumed. Should I let the coach know? Jim (email) - Letter from management – Keep Going! (41:33) Madeline (email) - Today's reading from Acts 17 says, "The God who made the world and all that is in it, the Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in sanctuaries made by human hands." This sounds to me like Jesus isn't present in the Tabernacle! What am I missing here? (42:45) Barbara - My elderly mother brought the Eucharist home from Church. What should I do? (47:14)

Patrick addresses thought-provoking calls on topics from Church teaching about extraterrestrials and natural family planning to the role of nudity in art, weaving in candid reflections, gratitude for heartfelt testimonials, and timely encouragement to participate in the community’s mission. Catherine - How should Christians view the extraterrestrial phenomena? (01:25) Michael (email) - Why are so many people intrigued with the Devil and evil spirits? (15:58) Chad - Jim Burnham’s books helped us teach OCIA. (20:47) Are we in the End Times? (27:16) Britney - What is the Church's teaching on long term usage of NFP? (30:14) No, Natural Family Planning Is Not Contraception: https://patrickmadrid.substack.com/p/why-natural-family-planning-is-not Laurie - Is it a sin against modesty to draw nudes? I have an education in art. (40:37)

“Is leaving the Church a mortal sin?” This question opens a discussion on the implications of faith and scandal, particularly regarding a friend’s conversion to Protestantism. Other topics include the distinction between Jesus being Catholic or Christian, the reasons for embracing Catholicism, and concerns about praying to Mary. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 05:36 – My friend left the Catholic church and became protestant because of scandal. Is he in Jeopardy of mortal sin? 16:35 – Was Jesus Catholic or Christian. What's the difference? 24:45 – Explain in one minute why someone should be Catholic. 29:17 – I have PTSD, Anxiety, depression, how can I go to OCIA? 37:13 – I don't think it's right to pray Mary 47:21 – What in Vatican 2 is infallible? Does a certain word need to be included for a statement to be infallible?

“Can we have absolute assurance of salvation?” This question opens a discussion on the nature of faith and security in salvation. Other topics include responding to Southern Baptist views on the parable of Lazarus, the concerns of a Protestant considering OCIA, and strategies for evangelizing Muslims. Join the Catholic Answers Live Club Newsletter Invite our apologists to speak at your parish! Visit Catholicanswersspeakers.com Questions Covered: 02:50 – Can We Have Absolute Assurance of Salvation? 12:38 – How do you respond to a Southern Baptist that denies the story of the Lazarus and rich man establishes the immediate judgement? 20:13 – I'm protestant and considering OCIA but I hesitate on the rules that change in Catholics. How do we know rules won’t change in the future like attending Sunday mass, women veiling, etc.? 32:37 – Is it correct to say the Sadducees and Pharisees had a similar relationship as Catholics and Protestants. Is this true? 43:16 – How do we effectively evangelize Muslims especially when they come across as arrogant and even resort to using foul language? 50:30 – How do I better explain apologetics to a crowd that is not religious at work?