The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick shares listener reactions to choosing spouses based on sexual history while insisting virginity remains the ideal, yet compassion and forgiveness matter. Parenting stories, personal confessions, and questions about faith spark honest exchanges about repentance, purity, and the consequences of past decisions. Patrick responds to emails from listeners who disagreed with him on a topic that came up on yesterday’s program (00:35) Gail (email) - Only virgins need apply? (01:45) Followheart87 (email) - I'm shocked that you are pretty much consigning women with a sexual past to the dust bin. No one deserves to know our sins. NO ONE. (06:23) Jenna - As a mom of 7, I think it is beautiful that a man called in wanting a chaste woman. (17:38) Lisa (email) – This brings to mind Rahab. Rehab was chosen by God to be in the lineage of Christ. How amazing how he loves to redeem us. (22:02) Alexis (email) - This poor guy has a preference! He wants a certain type of woman who has lived a certain type of life. Good on him! Email - My husband had a pornography addiction prior to marriage for which he sought counseling at that time. I think we both assumed at the time we were married that he would be free from that addiction, but it has persisted for the last 15 years of our marriage. (24:01) Mark (email) - Why, during Mass, do we use a "Responsorial" Psalm rather than just reading the Psalm as they are in Scripture? (26:28) Jeff - About the Nicene Creed, why does it say that Jesus is 'born' of the Father? (36:18) Chandler (email) - How is Revelation 12 a good example that Mary was assumed into heaven if John recognized her whether she was assumed into heaven or not? Alan - Am I morally obligated to withhold my taxes from the demonic administration leading this country. (44:43)

Patrick answers questions about the soul after death, clarifies the Catholic teaching on the Assumption, and offers guidance for handling friendships with compassion and boundaries. He comments on breaking news from Iran, discusses thoughts about Prince and Tom Petty, and shares practical advice about taxes, indulgences, and trustworthy Bible apps for families. Mark (email) - If we can recognize each other when we are disembodied, does that mean we are actually instilled with some other supernatural "sense" upon death? (00:33) Manuel (email) - Regarding the emails (from the first hour), I understood that it’s not so much about the young man wanting to find the right young lady, it was more that you belittled women who have a sexual past, before marriage, through your comments. (04:19) Carmen (email) - Speaking of virginity being considered an abnormal and shunned way of living one's life… (06:15) Purple (email) - Since you believe that Jesus was assumed into heaven, can you please show me in the Bible where it says that "they all looked up and watched as Mary was taken up into heaven..." (07:48) Audio: Prince on the importance of playing the guitar (12:46) Dan - For people who don't want to pay taxes, just donate a bunch of money. If you donate $50,000, your taxes could be nearly paying zero. (14:05) The Assembly of Experts were all assembled in Qom to vote on the next ‘Supreme Leader’. And Israel just bombed them all. (18:39) Vivian - How can I forgive my friend who said very hurtful things to me. (20:30) Jose - You said that your dad was not a cussing person, and I know what he meant by that. (27:32) Elizabeth - Can we do something besides going to pilgrimage sites for the Jubilee Year of St. Francis? (30:00) Lauren (email) - I grew up Protestant and had an abortion when I was young and it absolutely weighs heavy on my heart especially as I’ve been going through my OCIA classes because I now realize I was putting myself before God, so it will be the very first thing I take to confession prior to my confirmation and first Eucharist. My question is, should I also tell my cradle Catholic spouse? (35:56) Jim - Is polygamy a sin? (38:55) Jen - Can you recommend a good Catholic Bible App for my teenage son? (40:51)

Patrick takes heartfelt calls on everything from Reiki and spiritual risks to concerns about finding authentically Catholic therapists for kids. He responds with straightforward advice on Mass etiquette, the practical and spiritual side effects of sin, and the challenges of Catholic-Orthodox unity, sprinkling in stories about the impact of bumper stickers and the joy of Taco Tuesday. Jen - My mother-in-law is trained in reiki and now hears angel voices and lives by what they tell her to do. (00:49) Eric - What is the proper thing to do at Mass after Communion while we wait for the priest to finish putting away the supplies? (06:39) Nicole - My son may have autism and ADHD. Do you know of any neurological psychologists who are Catholic and not LGBTQ? (09:51) Fred - My old missal says sinners who are forgiven still have to expiate these sins. What are these penalties that this is referring to? (12:33) Chris - How did the Church establish the liturgical years (A, B and C)? (22:47) Lyal - I am Greek Orthodox. We celebrate Easter on a different Calendar, and you celebrate on a Gregorian Calendar. Does this contradict the 3rd Ecumenical Council, and could we celebrate on the same date? (25:38) Thomas - I was posting a comment on Substack, and someone told me that I didn't have a right to say 'God bless you' because I don't have the authority. (35:52)

(2:51) Audio: Masih Aminejad on what's happening in Iran. (10:10) Greg - I get so many Catholic advertisements and Catholics asking for Money. Break 1 (15:50) Bill - When our popes make comments that are not just based on morals and teaching that confuse the Faithful it seems to reveal some of their character and might show some flaws. What do you think about this? (30:19) Michael - I think you can lust after your wife which can lead to pornography and other immoral things and I wanted to get your take on this. Break 2 (46:36) Charles - I don't think Iran has been the one breaking agreements. It seems to me that Trump has been breaking agreements.

On today's Hour 2 of The Patrick Madrid show, Margie asks about the way a Baptist minister baptized her granddaughter in the NICU, can you be baptized with Root Beer, also, does mint and/or cough drops break the Communion fast, and more questions about Baptism. (9:37) Margie - Baptism in the NICU: My granddaughter was baptized in the NICU by a Baptist minister. Was it legitimate? Break 1 (21:33) Where does Baptism of desire fit in with a mis-baptized person? (Can I be baptized with Root Beer?) (25:10) Theresa - I put a mint or cough drop in my mouth to avoid coughing at Mass. Did that break the fast? (27:37) Email – Anonymous – We have a daughter in her mid 20’s who moved out of state to be with he boyfriend. We have believed that they are living together. How can we talk to her? Break 2 (32:48) Hazel - I became Catholic after I got married. I used to be Presbyterian, was my presbyterian baptism valid? (38:53) Lisa: First communion and receiving under both species. I felt like something was missing just receiving Communion under the form of the bread. Is there any benefit to having both species for first communion?

On Hour 3 of today's Patrick Madrid show, Patrick addresses what the sin of presumption (and is not), Deacon Bob encourages a recent caller who is discerning the diaconate, what is Mary's role as Mediatrix, and is there a difference between reconciliation and forgiveness? Email – Paul: Can you explain more about the sin of presumption? Email – Deacon Bob – Being a Deacon has been a blessing for me over the course of the last 10 years. Email – What is Mary’s role as Mediatrix? Break 1 Michelle – What is the difference between reconciliation and forgiveness? Angel - is the evil eye problematic like the dreamcatcher? Break 2 Email – Anonymous: I am a Catholic woman who failed to wait for marriage in the past but have repented and have now committed to chastity. I carry deep regret. Can you please offer any guidance? David - How did Paul go the the 3rd Heaven? What does that mean?

Patrick address what the meaning of the Gospel is and how can we know? In addition, how should you treat the Eucharist at Mass and do you need to receive the Precious Blood? and does saying a Rosary, even though you are distracted, still count? (00:40) Email – Anthony - On Ash Wednesday the words really struck me. What is the definition of the Gospel and how can Protestants say Catholics are wrong? Break 1 (20:13) Sally - We don't drink the wine in the Eucharist so is it valid? (25:03) Corky - Matt 5 20-26. Why do they use the word penny? did they have pennies back then? (27:17) Jonathan - My oldest kid is 16 and doesn't want to talk with me but he doesn't want to do anything with me. What should I do? Break 2 (37:30) Christina - What should you do when the host is dropped? (43:57) John - I am trying to do a daily Rosary and find myself dosing off during it. What can I do to increase my concentration? Does a bad Rosary still count?

On today's Patrick Madrid Show, Hour 1: Patrick addresses Joan's email disagreeing about Baptism. Is Patrick wrong? Discover the answer to this and more listener questions on today's show. (00:33) Joan writes an email in disagreeing with Patrick’s comments on Baptism. Book mentioned: The Administration of the Sacraments – Fr. Nicholas Halligan (pg. 9) Break 1 (17:43) Joshua - Woe to him by whom scandals come. What happens to the victim who gets scandalized. What is the remedy for them? (22:27) Patty - My daughter said that if you are on birth control than you can't receive communion. is that true? (24:53) Email – Dee: Is it ok to have non-Christian or non-Catholic members of a Church choir? Break 2 (36:23) Maeve - How did Adam and Eve's children have baby's since you can't marry your siblings? (40:18) Val - When people go to Purgatory will they see each other or is everyone alone?

During Hour 3 Patrick, answers questions about the Lenten practice of abstinence from meat from John and Brandon. Can you still eat a burrito on Friday if you take the bacon out of it? Also, what about eating lobster and would this be breaking the spirit of Lent? (3:44) John - If I take out bacon from a burrito can I eat it on Friday? (12:05) Cecilia - I have tip for distraction during prayer. It can be an opportunity for grace Break 1 (19:04) Denise - I am wondering if my marriage could not be valid. (25:22) Joan - Is there only one devil? Are demons different? (29:12) Laurel - I just came back the Church through traditional Latin mass. Is that okay? Break 2 (36:11) Brandon - My father passed away a couple months ago, but they never did a service. Why is this and how can I change it? (39:51) Brandon – I gave up alcohol but messed up. Should that be a part of confession? Can I eat fancy fish on Friday even though it goes against spirit of lent? (46:05) Nancy - Is it sinful to waste food on Friday of lent if we throw out the meat part?

(00:46) Omar - Is it okay to have Magic in movies for kids? (6:48) Mariana - I am starting a book club, and we are going over 'A Map of Life' by Frank Sheed. Do you have any advice as we go through this book? (12:53) Jody - I am visiting a neighbor who has Parkinson’s disease. and it has become more difficult for me. What should I do? Break 1 (24:01) Greg - I don't think there are any souls in purgatory are not prayed for. I think the Fatima prayer prays for all souls in purgatory. Break 2 (34:14) Email – Omar – Do guardian angels know the future? (40:23) Megan - What is and is not considered alms giving in the Catholic Church? (45:16) Jennifer - My sister-in-law is into magic and has stones over her door. Should I talk about it with her? Is it harmful for us to be there?

(1:16) Noel - How do I bring a good friend of mine back to the Church? She believes that praying at home is enough. (9:34) Anthony - The Lutherans and the Catholics are needing to reconcile differences in the Church. I heard that when four more issues are resolved the Churches will be reunited. Is that correct? (17:45) Roman - How was God created if He didn't create Himself? (25:14) Emily - There is a homeless man that stands at a corner all the time. Is it wrong of me not to give him something every time I pull up? (32:22) Patrick reads an article about the time he met a beggar at a minimarket (38:53) John - Our daughter is married to a non-Catholic and she and her husband are now looking at non-Catholic Christian schools for their kids. What should we do?

(4:22) Karen - I think that John's grand kids would be greatly benefited from Catholic Schools. Catholic schools drew me to convert. (11:36) Patrick talks about the R.I.P. List he started. Break 1 (17:40) Christina - Per your request I have started praying for souls in Purgatory and it has borne great fruit. (21:48) Iris - I have a dispensation for marriage question. (31:21) Susan - My husband was not Catholic when we married and I am not sure if I got the dispensation. How do I find out? Break 2 (39:25) Julia - I don't want to get married by the civil law but the church said that I had to do that even if I marry in Church. Why is this the custom?

On today's Patrick Madrid show, Patrick answers a question from Danny about concupiscence and explains what the word, "concupiscence" means, can we go straight to God for our Confession instead of going to a Catholic priest, and why wasn't Jesus in the tomb for a full 3 days? (00:46) Danny - At what point do you discern when you are sinning because of your concupiscence and when it is because of the Devil? Break 1 (19:15) Patrick explains the meaning of the word, “concupiscence”. (21:53) Bill - My Catholic friend said he didn't need to go to confession but can confess straight to God. How do I respond to this? (33:03) Jonathan - Why wasn't Jesus in the tomb for a full three days even though He said He would be dead for three days? (45:53) Patrick - Do you have any resources for the topic of scrupulosity? Books Patrick recommended: "Scruples and Sainthood" and "A Thousand Frightening Fantasies"

In Hour 2, Patrick answers an email from Will whose wife changed her mind about having kids, is ok to receive Communion if you miss Mass on purpose, and is it still effective to pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet for someone who has already died. Patrick answers these important and consequential questions. (00:33) Email – Will – My wife has changed her mind about wanting to have kids. She wanted to have them when we got married but now doesn’t anymore. What can I do? (4:56) Diane - Is it ok to receive Communion if you miss Mass on purpose? (8:41) Yvonne - In the Hail Holy Queen prayer used to say 'Hail holy queen mother of mercy HAIL our life our sweetness and our hope' why did they take out the extra 'hail'? AND when we pray the divine Mercy Chaplet for someone who died already is it still effective? (24:12) Tracy - If I had a surgery to reduce the risk of breast Cancer but it would prevent me from having any more children can I do that in the eyes of the Church? Break 2 (32:25) Donna - When was it a mortal sin to miss Mass?

Patrick answers questions about a priest talking about the devil a lot, can you go to Confession to a priest over the telephone, why do some people reject the idea of visitations from the souls in Purgatory, saints and angels and can the words of the Mass during the offertory be changed? Patrick considers these questions and offers concrete answers. (3:31) Patricia - Our Priest plays rock n' roll music really loud and talks about the devil a lot. What can we do about this? (8:03) Bernadette - Can I go to confession on the Telephone with the priest? (11:50) Joe - Why do some people reject the idea of visitations from the poor souls, saints and Angels? (16:36) Luz - When we have the offertory the priest says 'May the lord accept the sacrifice at OUR hands'. Break 1 (20:44) Kevin - Creed: How will Christ judge the living and the dead when the dead have already been judged? (29:36) Leo - Why do we think Jesus is God if He never says He is God in the synoptic Gospels? Break 2 (39:01) Paul - I lied about my availability to work one day. Is that venial sin?

On today's Patrick Madrid show, Jodi wants to convince her friend about changing his practice of receiving the Eucharist without Confession, Greg disagrees with what Patrick said to a caller yesterday about Baptism, and Patrick provides Brad with some resource to help him discern a call to the diaconate. (00:42) Jodi - I have a friend who won't go to confession or mass but receives the host. Can you help me convince him to change this practice? (12:56) Patricia - My grandson, who is Catholic, is getting married in April, but his fiancé is not baptized. Is it okay for me to attend the wedding? Break 1 (18:37) Greg - I disagree with what you said yesterday about the priest who put his thumb on the baby forehead then it wasn't an actual baptism. I think that there are so many priests who mess up the proper way that it would cast doubt on the validity of many sacraments of the Church. (28:03) Brad - I am discerning becoming a deacon and I was wondering what I can read about this. Break 2 (37:18) Arthur - I am worried about my family not making it to heaven because I don't evangelize. I am the only Catholic in the family, and I don't talk about the faith with them. What should I do?

Patrick helps Jacob to seriously address the temptation to return to practicing witchcraft, is it a sim if a voluntarily break one of my Lenten penances, and Nancy wants to Patrick's thoughts about her starting a Bible study. (00:34) Jacob - I used to practice witchcraft before becoming Catholic. I still feel tempted to return to witchcraft and I wonder if you have any advice? Break 1 (24:07) Jim - I go to confession every 3 weeks or so, but my wife doesn't want to go to confession because she doesn't want to have a middleman in the priest. What can I do? Break 2 (39:47) Charles - If I break a voluntary, Lenten penance is it a sin? (47:02) Email – Nancy: What are your thoughts on joining a Bible Study group?

In hour 3 of today's Patrick Madrid Show, Elaine calls to comment on some callers and thank Patrick, Patrick helps guide Pedro through the feeling of being in a roller coaster, and Rose asks about the Church's position on Limbo. (0:29) Elaine - I have a cousin who hasn't been to confession in a long time, and I thank you for your wise words. (12:03) Pedro - Since November I have been going to Mass every Sunday. It is a roller coaster in my faith where sometimes I feel really holy and sometimes I feel not holy at all. What can I do to be more stable in my Faith? Break 1 (21:57) Maria has a question about attending a wedding. (33:12) Rose - Does the Church still believe in Limbo? Break 2 (40:14) Email - Liz: Where did the custom of abstaining from meat come from? (43:46) Joe - Vatican II and the god of the Muslims. How do I explain it to someone who has an Islamic background, and they want to become Catholic?

On today's Patrick Madrid show, Patrick discuses wrestling against the principalities and powers with Al, Paul has a question about Baptism, and Sam wants to know, can you date someone if your annulment is denied. Patrick offers thought provoking answers and commentary to help listeners better understand the Catholic faith and what the Church teaches. (00:38) Al - Principalities and powers: why does it say we wrestle against them in Ephesians as if they are bad, if they are Angels? (3:30) Paul - My friend had twins who were born prematurely and got baptized but the priest didn't use the word 'you' when baptizing but the baby's name. Is it still valid? Break 1 (20:20) Marilyn - We prayed the rosary before Mass yesterday. We prayed the Sorrowful Mysteries on Sunday because of Lent but I had never heard of that. Is that a thing we should be doing? (23:13) Email – Sam – If someone was married by the Church and was denied an annulment can they date someone? (28:54) Norma - I am getting married this summer and one of our guests is gay and he wants to bring his partner. What should we do? Break 2 (38:10) Tyler - It looked like the priest put water on his fingers and then on the child's head, that alright?

In hour 2, Patrick gets a call from Nicole commenting on a prior caller's situation with her gay friend attending the wedding, Myra wants to know about being baptized incorrectly, and George also discusses inviting a gay couple to the wedding. Patrick astutely directs the conversation and provides smart answers in response to these and other concerns. (00:41) Nicole - About the woman with friend who is gay: She has to look at it through the biblical lens. She should also not invite drunkards or adulterers or any other sinners to her wedding. (7:43) Myra - What happens if you are baptized incorrectly can you go to heaven? (13:08) George: Inviting a gay couple to a wedding: I did invite a gay couple to my wedding because I wanted all of my close friends to be at the Mass. So I would say it is okay to invite them. Break 1 (22:38) Email – William – The priest never arrived to our parish for mass. Did leaving to go to Mass elsewhere fulfill my Sunday obligation. (26:15) Sarah - Is it idolatry when we genuflect to a crucifix? Break 2 (44:09) Patrick begins his conversation with John

On Hour 3 of today's show, Patrick continues to help John sort through a difficult situation involving his wife finding out that he was unfaithful, is adding something for Lent just as good as giving something up? In addition, Patrick offers insightful answers to other callers. (00:32) John - I was beaten up by my wife because she found some things in my past, including inappropriate conversations with other women and emotional affairs, spending money badly and adultery. I just left our apartment, and we have a 2-month-old with a heart condition. (13:02) Dante - Is adding something for Lent just as good as giving something up? Break 1 (20:58) Lisette - Should I try to avoid pregnancy? Break 2 (34:25) John - When is addiction to pornography a venial or mortal sin? (44:46) Patrick - I am half Greek Orthodox and Half Protestant: Regarding Baptism in the Orthodox Church do you have to be completely submerged. How do you deal with baptisms that aren't valid, and what does the Church say happens to them?

On Hour 1 of today's Patrick Madrid Show, Patrick shares Catholic Legacy with listeners and also addresses the importance of Confession and deals with a specific situation where the priest refused to give absolution. (2:26) Email - John: What is a good resource for a Catholic Living Will? (6:01) Patrick addresses an email from Tessa and discusses the importance of going to Confession and confessing mortal sins as soon as you can. Break 1 (19:44) Ella - Confession: When I was young I committed mortal sin. The priest forgave me but I can't forgive myself. What can I do? (32:02) Patrick cites CCC1385 and CCC1457 on receiving Hoy Communion in the state of grace. Break 2 (37:13) Mary - Have you ever heard of music therapy? (40:03) Christine - I decided to come back to the Catholic Church on Ash Wednesday day. But the priest refused to absolve me because I am divorced and living with another man.

On today's hour 2 of the Patrick Madrid show, Andrew calls in to defend the priest who heard a previous caller's confession. Hear what Patrick has to say in response and also a caller Patrick, tells us about his confession experience after being away from the Church for 30 years. (0:33) Andrew - I want to defend the priest who told her to make an appointment. (8:25) Sam - Why do you say the same prayer over and over again in the Catholic Church? Break 1 (18:48) Jamie - I’m' asking God to bring to me sins that I've forgotten, and he's brought them to me. If I don't bring them to confession is that a sin? (25:17) Meleena - Epstein Files: I don't think you should be talking about them because there are other outlets that ARE talking about it. AND I was a non-Catholic for a long time and when the priests ask you to make an appointment for later, they aren't being rude or blowing you off. Break 2 (33:02) Roy - About confession: There has to be a standard and it's the #1 religion. You have to do confession and be right. We have 'recovering Catholics' in my non-denominational chruch, and I've told them to not diminish the Catholics, as millions of people love the Church and they've kept the Church strong. (38:20) Patrick - I went to confession for first time in 30 years and the priest asked me if I broke each commandment, one by one. I said yes to all. Then he asked if I helped someone get an abortion. I said no. Then he forgave me and gave me two "Hail Mary's" and said "welcome back."

On today's hour 3 of The Patrick Madrid Show, Patrick offers compelling answers to questions about confession and also about praying the Rosary. (14:17) Mary - I came back to Church five years ago, the priest gave me a general absolution. I confessed the sin to a priest at Retrouvaille, but he couldn't absolve me. He told me to go back to the parish priest. Did I still miss something? Break 1 (24:20) Anthony - What special things need to be done if someone confesses that they have helped a woman get an abortion? (32:05) Tina - Is it okay to pray 12 hail Mary’s a decade instead? I'm dedicating these 12 to deceased family members. (34:00) Jamie - My wife is having an affair and not willing to confess her sins. And she wants to end our marriage. What am I to do? Break 2 (42:25) Kathy - I have been Catholic for 3 years. I learned the most from Relevant Radio. When my daughter was 17, I forced her to have an abortion. Do I have to go to confession with that?

Patrick answers questions about God’s nature, reincarnation, traditional Catholic practices, and whether worry counts as sin, offering clear explanations and practical advice. Thaddeus (email) - Father Rocky said that Thomas Aquinas said that God can't change his mind, but aren't there examples in the Bible where he did in fact change his mind, especially in terms of not giving punishments which he had initially planned to execute? 00:52) Michael – A 5-year-old boy from India said he was reincarnated. Is that something that can happen? (11:41) Auggie (email) - If we say that God can’t change his mind, doesn't that mean that he is limited (which we know he isn't)? Wouldn't it be more correct to say that God can change his mind, he has the ability, he can do anything, but he doesn’t change his mind? (19:55) Leroy - Is it a sin to worry? (24:26) Maria - Can you just start wearing the brown Scapular or do I need permission from a priest? (27:38) Efrank - Is it possible on Ash Wednesday to substitute small meals for one large meal? Also, can you substitute fish for meat? (29:28) Doug - I once saw a video that talked about the 4th dimension that helps answer my daughters when they ask a question about God that I can't answer. (32:33) Patrick shares an email and comments on worrying (37:06)

Patrick opens with a moving letter about a daughter's struggle with scrupulosity and the positive, faith-filled impact that Relevant Radio had on her life. He fields questions ranging from fasting rules and confession logistics for the elderly, to the story of Abraham and Isaac, and addresses misconceptions about sacred images with sharp biblical insight. Trish (email) - I heard in Father Rocky's Lenten lesson this morning that "men take off their hats" when entering the church. (00:40) Greg - I am an 80-year-old man and don't drive. How do I fulfill my obligations for Easter? (05:00) Eddie - I am confused about the fasting rules. (08:36) Jason - Why doesn't Abraham argue with God about sacrificing his son? (17:45) Dede - Thank you for your courage on playing our past Presidents audio on immigration. (23:25) Jean - My coworker is nondenominational and said that images of the Crucifix are an abomination. (27:28) Pat - In the Our Father, why do we say, 'but deliver us from evil?' (36:35) Richard - About why Abraham didn’t protest: I believe in those days other gods required sacrifice, so Abraham thought maybe God was like them. (42:47)

Patrick answers questions about scrupulosity, church authority on fasting, and the controversy within the Book of Mormon. He addresses callers' concerns about justice regarding the Epstein files and explores struggles with illness and faith by sharing stories and recommending saints. The discussion jumps between practical advice, personal stories, and moments of spiritual insight as Patrick looks at Abraham’s trust and the uniqueness of Christ’s sacrifice. Darwin (email) - Can you expand on what scrupulosity is? (00:35) Mary Anne - What do you tell people who are Mormon or interesting in becoming Mormon? (05:59) Luis - Why do we not eat meat on Ash Wednesday or Good Friday? It doesn't say this in the Bible, according to my coworkers. (11:29) Carmen - Why hasn't Patrick talked about the Epstein files? Aren't we as Catholics supposed to talk about this? (18:41) Christopher - I am in OCIA right now. I have heard that Jesus is spotless. What makes Jesus's sacrifice more important than others? (26:11) Phyllis - My friend has OCD. She seems scrupulous about taking God's name in vain. How can I help her? (30:25) Alex – Today’s Gospel reading; what does Jesus mean by carrying your cross but then says to have faith in another passage? (36:12) Lili - God doesn't ask anything from us that he wouldn't give to us as well. It reminds me of the Crucifixion. (46:25)

Patrick launches Ash Wednesday with fast, unpredictable calls and personal recollections, responding to concerns about Catholic tradition, fasting, and the example clergy set. Questions pour in about suffering, spiritual ignorance, Church authority, and even a parish seafood dinner that feels oddly lavish, sparking honest reflection on simplicity and penitence. He weaves advice, encouragement, and stories with a burst of clarity, urging listeners to keep hope and embrace Lent’s challenges. Colleen - I saw a priest in a video use a nicotine pouch. This upsets me. Is this ok? (00:42) Marietta - Could you discuss if it is ok to show others our Ash Wednesday ashes to other people? (12:48) Patrick explains Ash Wednesday’s obligations, including what “Fasting” really means (20:41) Camille (email) - In today's second reading (2 Corinthians 5:20-6:2) it says, "For our sake he made him to be sin..." Who is the him that is being referred to here? Surely not Jesus? (23:53) Jay - What is a good example of admonishing the sinner? (25:54) Maribel - 2 Corinthians 6, there is a warning against pagan influences. Don't we need to separate from unbelievers? (33:08) Rich - At my Church, they are offering a lavish meal without meat. All you can eat chowder and clam cakes! Is this ok? (38:45) Jessica - Why did Jesus's best friend seem to suffer so much? (43:08)

Patrick answers heartfelt questions about Catholic faith, from the effects of double baptism to whether small children should receive Ash Wednesday ashes. He encourages honest conversation about marriage outside the Church, reconciliation, and practical matters like choosing godparents or receiving ashes from non-Catholic sources. Unexpected moments arise, including stories about The Waltons, and Patrick draws from scripture and tradition to offer guidance rooted in compassion and clarity. Nancy (email) – Is Ash Wednesday more attended than Christmas? (00:36) Shelby - I have a family member who was baptized for the 2nd time. What is the status of their soul? (04:07) Alexandria - How do I navigate marriage when my spouse is not Catholic? (11:09) Anne – What is reparation? Is there any way to regain lost graces? (23:01) Stephanie - I just received ashes at a drive thru at an Episcopal Church. Is that ok? (28:53) Norma - I want to thank you for your good advice. It really helped my husband and me. (31:38) Liz - A priest told me that it was wrong for kids to receive ashes. (37:35) Joe - How come the Gospels are not signed by the Gospel writers? There is no actual confirmation that they wrote it. (45:08)

Patrick welcomes questions from callers and answers with candor, tackling everything from fasting before Communion to the frustration of drive-through ashes. He fields concerns about family relationships, noisy children during Mass, and respectfully disposing of sacred objects, referencing Scripture and personal experiences. The episode blends sharp insight, heartfelt wisdom, and everyday Catholic realities in unpredictable ways. Suzanne (email) - I have understood that the fast before communion was to prepare ourselves and so to speak "hunger" for the Lord. How does that match 1 Corinthians 11:34, "If anyone is hungry, let him eat at home, so that when you assemble it does not lead to judgement"? (00:32) Eileen – Our parish has an “Ash Dash” (05:27) Danny - Should I donate anonymously, if I want to merit grace? I am thinking of today's reading where Jesus suggests we keep our pious practices unseen. (09:58) Frank - Does it in say in the Bible not to forget the love of your youth? (14:24) Theresa - How can I best explain to our adult children why it is best to baptize their kids as infants? (18:02) Nathan - When I am at Mass and I need to step out because of the baby crying, how much is too long for me to be gone? (26:26) Sandy - How can my adult daughter avoid dating needy guys? (30:12) Patricia - What does the Church teach regarding cremation? (38:32) Margaret - What should be done with the ashes after they are used at the Ash Wednesday service? (40:29) Dolores - Is there an official age range for which fasting is obligatory. (42:29) Deacon Peter (email) – You need to do more research on Fr. Father Gregory Boyle (43:52) Sarah (email) - My husband and I were wondering if there was a way to earmark our donation to relevant radio specifically for the Patrick Madrid Show. We love your show and want our donation to go specifically to you and your staff. (47:44)

Patrick answers questions about changes in Catholic teaching on capital punishment and explains praying to saints with sharp scriptural references. He fields calls about family disputes over cremation and addresses the influence of Jordan Peterson on young Catholics, weaving in biblical perspectives on marriage and tradition. Rapid-fire yet thoughtful, Patrick’s responses bring clarity and conviction to a swirl of faith, culture, and personal struggle. Michael (email) - We're not living in the 15th century anymore (00:51) Lou - How can you pray to the saints when they are already dead? (11:26) Justine - The remains of my father were cremated. My sibling wants to split the ashes and disperse the ashes into the ocean. How much effort should I put in to get my dad a proper burial? (23:15) Kevin (email) – Question about cremations and spreading ashes (37:00) Carmen (email) - How can I advise a young man to begin learning about Catholicism the right way or in hopes of correcting his mindset? (39:50) Michael - My mom and dad wanted their ashes to be put together. I did not do it and had them put in a Veteran's cemetery at no cost. (46:16) Originally Aired on 01/19/26

Patrick welcomes listeners into a whirlwind conversation about artificial intelligence, sparking reactions to Elon Musk’s bold predictions and candidly questioning the consequences for human purpose, work, and relationships. Unexpected calls reference pop culture, raise concerns about machines rewriting history, and wonder aloud what happens if robots take over everyday chores. As the dialogue accelerates, Patrick probes whether people will embrace robots or fiercely protect the messy beauty of real life. Audio: Elon at Davos, Within a year AI will be smarter than any human being - https://x.com/newstart_2024/status/2014424307900850512?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (00:19) Audio: Elon, “In the future, the robots will make so many robots, that they will actually saturate all human needs - https://x.com/cb_doge/status/2014400490424173041?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (05:19) Audio: Elon, "You don’t actually need school to learn anymore – https://x.com/ianmiles/status/2014322727205679426?s=20 (11:28) Reba - What is to stop AI taking over all of humanity? (13:54) Stacy - I think we need community with each other, and I think robots taking care of our elderly will only make loneliness worse (21:58) John - My wife has a severe gluten allergy and can’t receive low gluten host. She can receive the precious blood but our priest doesn’t want to resume giving it. What can I do? (25:17) John - My concern is that AI is only as good as the input. I think the vast majority of people working on AI will make it liberal based, and it will be socially to the left. I’m also concerned it will be godless. (28:58) Jackie - I think we need to interact with humans and not robots. (34:19) Miles - Who will pay for individuals being able to access AI and how will we deal with things like credit scores? (42:49) Lourdes - I caught a student cheating using AI and she got everything right. I gave her a failing grade for cheating. However, after that I let students do it because they had to read. I followed this person's career and she still did well in life. (44:11) Esmeralda - Did you ever see the series Apocalypse? I see that this is happening. (47:37) Courtney - I want a Robot. If we are going to have a robot in our house, she needs to agree with us. She will help us have more family time. (49:26) Originally Aired on 01/28/26

Patrick brings the smartphone struggle front and center, questioning why tech and social media seem to influence children more than their own families. Parents call in with raw confessions, regrets, and inventive solutions, from holding out on smartphones to battling the sneaky ways kids get around controls, while stories of bikes, banana seats, and even Maseratis bring humor and a touch of nostalgia to the mix. Rules, boundaries, and values collide with modern tech, leaving listeners weighing connection, safety, and family sanity in a world where a phone can change everything. Audio: Once kids get smart phones, family life turns into a fight over screen time . . . - https://x.com/drantbradley/status/2012876836502405511 (00:23) Audio: just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean your kids should do it too - https://x.com/modernxdad/status/2015262851414544684 (02:21) Todd - Smart phone: I challenge you to switch to a flip phone and have kids watch Gun Smoke (09:14) Liz - We are a family of smart phone holdouts, and we gave our kids flip phones and my kids don't care. (10:25) Melissa - A counselor told me that I should get my kid a phone so she could feel more part of other kids' social circles. That was the beginning of the end. (19:36) Jorge - From where I come from, we didn't have TVs. I think I can enjoy the benefit of learning without it. I compare the TVs of yesterday to the phone today. (23:29) Jessica - Smart phones: Somethings that helped me prolong the eventuality of kids getting a phone was a straight A report card. (29:09) Gloria - Smart phone: I set parameters for my kids. My children wanted them at a young age. I did a lot of research before getting them phones. We used a lot of the parental controls available. I think it is working out. (34:14) Marie - I have a teenager and a preteen. I totally agree with Patrick. My 10-year-old hacked my iPad and removed restrictions. (40:27) Andrew - I am a parent of 6 kids. I struggle with how smart phones can lead to the sin of envy. (44:31) John - My college age son argues that killing in video games is moral and I argue it is not. Can you help me? (49:02) Originally Aired on 01/29/26

Patrick explores the raw, conflicting emotions faced by mothers choosing between career and home in today’s culture, launching from a heartfelt message from a mom split between corporate demands and family longing. With callers like Ellie, Michelle, and Claudia revealing regrets, gratitude, and the messy consequences of their decisions, Patrick weaves in his own backdrop of frugal, joy-filled years and the constant question of what truly matters. Sarah Tafoya’s blend of career and presence at home stands alongside tales of sacrifice, guilt, and fleeting childhood moments, creating a rush of encouragement and reflection for anyone caught at this crossroads. Audio: Career mom admits that it’s not worth it and that you should find a way to just be home with your kids - https://x.com/breannamorello/status/2021972291685691817?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (01:15) Elly – How is Billy Jean King connected to the women who wanted to stay home with her children instead of going to work (15:19) Michelle - I started as a stay-at-home mom and went to work and then became a single mom. I wish I did some things differently. (21:24) Claudia - I went to college and chose career over kids, and I regret this now (29:42) Sarah shares her experience balancing being a mom and having a full-time job (35:54) Mary - I'm a stay-at-home mom because I made a decision to put my family first (46:23)

Patrick welcomes stories from callers—stories of single parents, faith rediscovered, the push and pull between ambition and motherhood, and shifting generational attitudes. Tradition finds its place across generations as callers discuss parish life, novenas, and the role of Mary, while Patrick listens, reflects, and offers encouragement. Moments of vulnerability and humor thread through the conversations, reminding listeners of the everyday beauty and challenge in family and faith. Linda - I was able to stay at home with the kids and work, so I had the best of both worlds. It's good to be able to stay home with the kids. (00:31) Robert - I never got married or had kids, and now I’m too old for all that. What do I do now? (06:32) Sydney – I’m pregnant with my first baby. I have friends that want to work and those who stay at home. (10:45) Nicole – I’m a stay-at-home mom and God has helped us to pay the bills. Becoming Catholics has changed our priorities. (17:31) Jan – I was raised by stay-at-home mom and jealous of the kids with working moms because I thought they had it made, but I was wrong. (23:34) Joe - Without our blessed mother, we cannot find our way home. (25:50) Rosy - My husband and I had six kids. I stayed home and homeschooled and made it work. (29:51) Anna - Can you have more than one intention for a 54-rosary novena? Can you pray for yourself? (35:00) Cathy - Is beef or chicken broth okay on Friday’s during Lent? (36:22) Thomas - Who sins are forgiven in infant baptism? Was john the Baptist baptizing infants? (40:01) Carmelina (12-years-old) - What happens when someone goes to heaven? (44:40)

Patrick explores Catholic traditions and beliefs, answers questions about sacraments and the priesthood, and brings up the impact of family and faith in everyday moments. He breaks down myths around devotions, then contrasts Christianity and Islam on love and joy. Conversations turn personal, rich, and even surprising. Louise – Is Fr. Greg Boyle a Jesuit Priest? Do you know anything about this author? (00:31) Richard - My wife and I decided that she would stay home with my kids. My mom was always at work and sacrificed so much. I wanted something more for my kids. (03:41) Aymun – Priests seem to be a barrier to the Sacraments. Why can’t people give the Sacraments to each other? (08:09) Audrey - What is the Flame of Love Movement? (21:35) Dale - Is there any joy in Islam? (29:06) Audio: Islam’s global goal to dominate - Islam is not here to coexist. We were sent to dominate the world, to extinguish and wipe out every other religion. We are superior to everyone else. - https://x.com/realmaalouf/status/1991556460652675215?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (33:57) Tom – Is wearing a scapular an insurance policy? (37:28) John – Islam doesn’t take prisoners and they force everyone to take on their religion. (40:13) George – Why do Catholics who don't believe in the true presence receive the Eucharist but protestants that do believe in the true presence cannot receive? (44:34)

Patrick answers questions that range from fraud in the workplace to karaoke ethics and even the fate of Adam and Eve. His exchange with young Greta becomes an unexpected lesson in faith, while emails spark commentary on Notre Dame’s decisions, pop culture at the Super Bowl, and what confession really means for purgatory. Sherry (email) – Am I contributing to the problem by working in a system ripe with fraud? (00:45) Cody - I have a moral dilemma. I do karaoke at a Veteran's Association at a bar. Could this create a scandal? (07:38) George - What are your thoughts about the pro-abortion professor at Notre Dame? (18:22) Mark (email) - Does confession eliminate any obligation for purgatory? Can you also explain temporal punishment associated with this? (30:32) Gretta (6-years-old) - Did Adam and Eve go to heaven or hell? (37:45) Leonard - I have had a great experience with Charity Mobile. I have the same phone and phone number and my bill was reduced by half. I want to encourage others to switch. (46:16)

Patrick takes listeners into the effects of modern loneliness and emotional manipulation, revealing how social media preys on suggestibility and deepens isolation. He offers practical wisdom to Grace, a concerned mother, wrestling with her daughter’s interfaith relationship, while also reflecting on personal stories and near-death accounts that blur the line between supernatural encounters and ordinary life. Conversation flows from raw parental anxiety to spiritual wake-up calls, never shying away from uncomfortable questions or the hidden costs of everyday choices. Audio: Fractionation – we are in a loneliness epidemic - https://www.youtube.com/shorts/WWL7n-D7JKI (01:19) Grace - What is the best way to receive my daughter's boyfriend. He is Christian and not Catholic. How can I talk to him about the faith? (10:26) John - Why do Bible leave out the verse about Jesus and fasting? Why do some Protestants never see Purgatory, yet Catholics do. Why is that? (22:12) Patrick shares some words from St. Teresa of Avila (26:30) Maureen - Thank you for promoting University of Mary. Also, I lost an heirloom ring. I had a dream that I found it, and then I found it in real life several hours later. What do you think? (44:23) Joshua - How do you answer non-Catholic Christians who say that 'we are Church'? (48:12)

Patrick responds to callers wrestling with confession, forgotten sins, and the struggle for peace, sharing practical wisdom rooted in Catholic tradition and personal experience. Patrice - I concerned about what you said about St. Theresa of Avila's experience. (01:28) Patricia - I went to a priest who read my soul. The priest said, 'and something else'. When I confessed it, I wasn't as contrite as I should have been. (06:09) Email – I’ve outgrown my old friends but I’m not sure if I should stop hanging out with them or not (15:06) Audio: Elon Musk warns: AI + robotics will hit us like a “supersonic tsunami” - https://x.com/newstart_2024/status/2021926874373357804?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (19:28) Steve - When and how can I make a general confession? (25:47) Didier - I think there is a disconnect around the situation that created the rise of AI. (35:31) Brian - My wife is sick and my mom died. What did I do wrong? Is it my fault that they died? (41:47) Aaron - My teenager has been dating. Where does the parent have authority to step in? How do I handle this? (45:32)

Patrick answers raw questions about faith, technology’s grip on daily life, and the tension between justice and adversity, offering direct biblical guidance alongside personal stories from listeners. Cyrus injects honest humor into discussions about doom scrolling and screen time, sparking conversations that shift from smartphone habits to Eucharistic challenges and family struggles. The episode brims with emotional testimony, scriptural wisdom, and sharp dialogue that moves from practical solutions to reflections on suffering and redemption. Mary (email) – Agrees teens shouldn’t have smartphones due to emotional immaturity and suggests the mother validate her son’s anger over the Epstein revelations while guiding him to temper it with faith, prayer, and trust in God’s ultimate justice. (01:39) Dan - What is the role of the Holy Spirit vs Mary and the Saints? (08:25) Geno - Are we excluding people if we don't allow them to take Communion? (21:41) Jorge - My friends said that Relevant Radio people calling in are paid actors. (33:32) Richard - It seems like we are fighting and will lose on earth but there will be justice in heaven. Is this true? We lose on earth but eventually get the victory. (38:19) Karen - My brother, who is married in the Catholic Church, has remarried a Russian Orthodox. She goes up to receive Communion, but he doesn't. (48:00)

Patrick answers heartfelt calls about parenting anxieties, church reverence, and baptism’s significance. His responses blend scriptural depth with practical advice, from stories of saints, smartphone concerns, and pop culture’s spiritual risks all intersect, creating a lively and unscripted dialogue. One moment urges trust in God with tears; another unpacks the unity of prayer or challenges in raising kids today, never shying from honesty or warmth. Sarah - My oldest is getting his first Communion soon. I have a lot of anxiety around this. Do you have any advice? (01:36) Nick - Why are sacred spaces so cramped? Also, in a 24-hour adoration chapel how can it be perpetual? (12:22) Mark (email) – Why should even adults have smart phones? (20:24) Cheryl - I am attending the Baptism this weekend of a greatgrandchild. Many people there don’t see the need for a baby to baptized. Can you help me? (24:19) Robert - Can you point out the good things Bad Bunny has done? I haven't heard anyone point this out. I want to talk about negative points of Kid Rock. (33:51) Audio: Billy Corgan explains the dark forces in today's music - https://x.com/JebraFaushay/status/2007069917074633069?s=20 (41:03) Dorothy - If I listen to the Chaplet later but can’t when it is live, is that the same as praying with everyone? (44:51) Reggie - Does Baptism wipe away being born out of wedlock? (49:58)

Patrick answers questions that range from fiery debates about Super Bowl performances and parish tabernacle moves to everyday dilemmas like store refunds and group prayer etiquette. He folds practical wisdom, snippets of daily life, and candid advice into listener conversations, bringing clarity on topics like sacramentals and Mass responses. Lisa - We moved the tabernacle recently from the chapel to the center. Could they put a chair in front of the Tabernacle in the sanctuary? (02:33) Leo - Why should we have our Rosaries blessed? (10:07) Susan – Question about the prayers a priest says during Mass (16:27) Ann – Is it stealing if I don’t have the change to give back to someone? (21:26) Laura - Is it appropriate to say prayers after Stations of the Cross as a group? (29:14) Steve - Our Pastor put in a small tabernacle that allows us to open the door so we can adore any time. (33:06) Audio: AI is linked to stores charging people different prices depending on what you can afford - https://x.com/charise_lee/status/2021785144504594744?s=46&t=m_l2itwnFvka2DG8_72nHQ (37:12) Diana - I served at a nursing home bringing cookies and juice to the residents. I questioned a room assignment of one of the patients and the director said his authority felt threatened. Should I be a Eucharistic minister there instead? (43:32) Mary - Is it appropriate to dedicate the Rosary to a person and dedicate each decade to a cause? (49:45)