The Patrick Madrid Show

Brian from Lakewood, CA calls in, sounding very torn. His 80-year-old mom has been going through it: on dialysis, suffering, cirrhosis of the liver... just totally worn out. She’s telling him she’s done, but Brian’s heart is aching and he’s scared. Would letting her stop dialysis be a sin? Patrick Madrid assures him: "No... it’s not a sin." Here’s why: Dialysis is extraordinary care, not ordinary care. That means it's morally permissible to stop it if it's burdensome, especially when it’s only prolonging suffering. At 80 years old, in declining health, your mom has a right to say, "I’m ready to go home to God." Patrick gently reminds Brian: This could be a time to trust God and let go even if it's hard. Brian’s love for his mom is beautiful and totally understandable. Wanting to hold on isn’t wrong. But as Patrick said, clinging too tightly can get in the way of letting God do His will. So, if you're in a similar boat? Here’s the takeaway: -It’s okay to say “enough” when treatment becomes more pain than peace. -It’s not giving up. It’s letting go into God’s mercy. And hey... hug your mom today, if you can. Or call her. Or say a Hail Mary for her soul. Moms are priceless.

If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling after watching a news video, this episode of The Patrick Madrid Show is your spiritual guidance. Be Watchful, Not Paranoid Patrick and Producer Cyrus explore what it means to discern the signs of the times without falling off the deep end into anxiety or conspiracy theories. Yes, we live in crazy times. Yes, there are real threats. Yes, AI can deepfake the Pope now. But that doesn't mean we need to panic. Don’t Believe Everything You See on the Internet Patrick talks about how we're bombarded with fakes and frauds, especially on social media. Be discerning. Check your sources. Here’s how: -Go to Vatican News for real updates from the Church -Stick with trusted Catholic sources like Relevant Radio -Don’t share shocking news until you’ve verified it How to Not Freak Out When the World Is Burning (Spiritually Speaking) Cyrus reminds us: “Go to confession. Get right with God.” That’s the spiritual equivalent of taking out insurance and installing a fire alarm. If you’re in a state of grace, you’ve got nothing to fear. This world isn’t our home. Like St. Teresa of Ávila said: “All things are passing. God never changes.” If you’re still worried? Just remember Padre Pio’s quote: “Pray, hope, and don’t worry.” Don’t believe every headline or deepfake -Stay smart: check sources, especially on Church news -Be ready: Go to Confession, receive the Eucharist, stay rooted in Christ -Remember who wins in the end (Jesus) Pray hard, scroll wisely, and keep your soul squeaky clean. We’ve got work to do, but we’re not doing it alone. Stay faithful, not fearful.

Special Guest Host Cale explains the Feast of Corpus Christi and how John 21 hints at the papacy through unexpected biblical details like the 153 fish. He weaves personal stories and pop culture—Billy Idol cassettes, White Sox nostalgia—into theology, fielding questions about Catholic beliefs and responding to real-life scenarios like neighbors upset by prayer. Is the Papacy biblical? (05:00) Have you ever had someone get mad at you for saying you would pray for them? (36:43) Leonard - I had a co-worker who was atheist. He sneezed and I said God bless you. He started yelling at me. (43:10) Roy - People that are atheist are self-centered selfish people. They think there is no creator. (46:05)

Special Guest Host Cale hosts a lively episode full of unpredictable moments, wrestling with the ethics of prayer when someone flatly refuses it and exploring what makes a saint’s body truly incorrupt. Relics, eucharistic miracles, and real callers’ stories about faith, spiritual boundaries, and even witchcraft collide with his trademark wit and a candid peek behind Catholic traditions—plus a debate about shifting holy days that sparks unexpected laughs. Robert - A witch asked if she could pray for us to her sun god, and we said no. (03:05) Valerie - Regarding the man who wrote into The New York Times: It is not that he does not want her to prayer for him it’s that she is relentlessly reminding him that she is. She should continue but in silence. (06:58) Robert - I am a retired dialysis nurse. I ask my patients if they would like a Catholic prayer. When you build a relationship, they are usually willing and grateful. (12:24) Mike - Do you think that Catholics are misusing the word incorrupt? (18:02) Vonny - Instead of saying 'I'll pray for you', I think it’ better to say, 'I'll remember you in my prayers.’ (30:00) Jim - She was performing an act of charity. When someone gives you a gift, it would be wrong to turn it down. (30:58) Carol - What is the churches teaching on purchasing relics? I have heard that you can't sell them, but you can buy them. (33:09) Corpus Christi – The Body and Blood of Christ (38:21)

Special Guest Host Cale explores the origins and significance of Corpus Christi, weaving together the story of St. Juliana of Liège, eucharistic miracles, and what science has found hidden within the church’s treasured traditions. Conversations effortlessly blend faith, basketball drama featuring Caitlin Clark, and honest debates on grappling with doubt—sometimes even asking if “faking it till you make it” brings someone closer to belief. Expect moments of reflection, sparks of laughter, and a reminder of how both the sacred and the ordinary can collide in unexpected ways. Corpus Christi – The Body and Blood of Christ (17:42) Caitlin Clark is being assaulted on the court. (18:38) Is it okay to Fake it till you make it in the faith? (26:22) Dale - AB blood type is a universal recipient. That is what makes Christ blood type so interesting. (45:25)

Patrick tackles difficult questions about chastity, personal addiction, confusion around Church teaching, and distractions at Mass, offering practical support and clear Catholic guidance rooted in Scripture. He addresses skepticism about Vatican II and liturgical changes, draws from personal stories, and fields raw listener emails that reveal the messiness—and hope—of the faith journey. Unflinching and pastoral, Patrick keeps every conversation grounded in grace and honesty. Mike (email) - My addiction with masturbation (01:31) Monica - I attended Mass last night. There was a group that took their shoes off to go to communion. Is that common practice? (18:46) Joe – I think the fruits of Vatican II have been bad for our faith (22:53) Chris Rea: The Road to Hell (40:35) Natalie - As a woman, masturbation is a problem that I have had to deal with throughout my childhood and adulthood. God helped me with it and you are right about it being a sin. (41:51) Steven - I work for a Catholic non-profit called Road to Purity (49:36)

Patrick takes calls that range from a son anxious about his elderly mother's decision to stop dialysis, to a deep conversation about the effects of Vatican II changes on belief in the Eucharist, to honest stories of healing from addiction and sin through confession. He fields tough questions about reverence at Mass, the nuance of marital obligations, and parish life frustrations—never shying away from humor or raw honesty. Listeners bring their hardships, doubts, and small triumphs, and Patrick gives them straight, practical responses colored by relatable moments and hard-won wisdom. Brian - Is stopping dialysis a sin? (00:55) Val - I always take a prayer book with me to Mass and normally follow that very closely during Mass. I don't look around much and it helps. (04:05) John Paul - What do you think about the effects of the Vatican II reform had on people's mindset of the Eucharist? (05:51) Nancy - My mom did go off dialysis and wanted to share my experience. (15:01) Timothy - There is a charity in my diocese helping immigration (18:26) Susan - I also found healing form sexual sins. I was exposed to porn at a young age. Confession really is what started my healing. (20:33) Maria - Priest doesn't like me receiving communion on the tongue and doing the St. Michael's prayer at the end of Mass. What should I do? (26:04) Rhonda - Some friends were complaining about the Mass being really long. How do I address this so she can realize that having longer Masses aren't bad? (31:52) Terry - I used to receive communion by hand but now I do it by tongue because of a video someone sent me about the holiness of the Eucharist. (36:45) Autumn - Is it ever okay for the wife to deny her husband the marital embrace? (39:12)

Patrick fields candid questions on marriage and Catholic teaching, tackles the challenge of a cross-dressing parishioner at Mass, and dispels myths about annulments and legitimacy, all with a balance of clarity and humor. He answers queries on the meaning behind kneeling and standing during Mass, shares insights from canon law, and jokes with listeners about the quirks of live radio. Humble moments, tradition, and tough conversations—the unexpected keeps coming. Patrick continues his conversation with Autumn from the end of the last hour. Her question: Is it ever okay for the wife to deny her husband the marital embrace? (00:55) Curtis - I belong to a small parish counsel and there is a man who dresses as a woman. We weren't sure what to do about it. How do we address people who are coming to Church in inappropriate clothes? (06:16) Mick (email) – You were rude to Timothy and owe him an apology (18:55) Rocco - Theology of the Body is a great source for purity. The real presence is a great thing for us to remember when receiving communion. Why did we stop kneeling all the time when Jesus is on the alter? (21:47) Diana - Why are children not considered illegitimate by the Church? (29:41) Donna - If someone is not Catholic, is it a sin if they are not following a Catholic rule like masturbation? What about Holy Days for non-Catholics? (41:41) Shirley - My husband and I will be married 50 years on Saturday (49:31)

Patrick opens with a fiery exchange between Senator Ted Cruz and Tucker Carlson, sparking raw reflections on war, truth, and Catholic conscience in a chaotic world. He calls listeners to prayer, discernment, and staying right with God—then fields honest questions on self-defense, marital ethics, and how to deal with friends choosing lifestyles at odds with Church teaching. Jarring world events meet no-nonsense faith and practical answers, plus some surprising advice on social media and confession, all in an hour moving from tense headlines to deep matters of the soul. Audio: Ted Cruz has a heated exchange with Tucker Carlson over the military strikes against Iran (02:42) *Patrick comments on watching the signs of the time but also not living in fear (05:55) Todd - Cruz did initially say we are supporting Israel. It sounds like he let something out of the bag but he still meant we are in support. (12:51) Morgan (email) - On your show the subject of self-defense has come up and you’ve explained that the church’s position is that a person being attacked with a knife cannot defend themselves with a gun, or something to that extent (14:24) Email - What constitutes a marriage act and the permissions surrounding that. (20:26) Nicole - How do I as a Catholic love all people, yet uphold the truth when it comes to the LGBTQ community? (30:54) Dede - Could you expand on what you mean by what is not acceptable when it comes to the marital act? (42:18)

Patrick fields raw questions on marital intimacy after vasectomy, the impact of medical procedures on Catholic marriages, and real concerns about forgiveness, restitution, and Church teaching. He answers doubts about faith translations, uncovers the real story behind the brown scapular, and clears the confusion when Catholic voices seem at odds, letting honesty and doctrine take the lead. Without sidestepping the pain of marital trials, he cuts to the heart of what fidelity and sacrificial love cost and offers practical, grounded wisdom for Catholics wrestling in the thick of it. Michael (email) - I had a vasectomy about 14 years ago. Does this mean we cannot have intercourse? (00:36) Steve - I had a vasectomy. Can I still complete the marriage act since I can't have kids? (07:11) Josh – Why do we say 'For us men and for our salvation.' In Latin and German, however, it translates to “for us people”. Why don’t we include all in the English translation? (11:05) Tris - Can you give a little more clarification about the verbal promise of the scapular? (17:57) Mary - What if a man is unable to be with his wife intimately? Can he use medication to remove impedance? (27:21) April - Is the threat of hell a form of black mail? I doubt it exists. (40:55) Cindy - The woman who was struggling with intimacy with her husband. I have been through something similar with my husband and wanted to share my thoughts. (46:34)

Patrick opens with the Supreme Court’s decision on gender-related treatments for minors and steers the discussion toward gender identity, cultural trends, and Christ’s words. He fields listener questions on forgiveness after a painful divorce, the morality of certain medical procedures like hysterectomies and vasectomies, and the pursuit of virtue within marriage VICTORY: U.S. Supreme Court 6-3 UPHOLDS Tennessee's ban on transgender treatments for children. This INCLUDES puberty blockers and hormones. (00:45) Robby (email) - I can’t believe you haven’t had Freddy’s before. Email - My husband does acts that are a sin during our relations. He knows I do not like it and I always tell him not again, but then I submit honestly just to get it over with. Is that a sin? (05:42) Email - My husband has a prostate problem, and he can't sometimes get an erection. In confession, a priest told me that I could help him achieve an erection, in order to consummate the marital act. Is this correct? Margie - I have an adult brother in law with down syndrome. He is going to stay with his girlfriend in a vacation home. Should I intervene? (13:41) Doug - How do you live a virtuous life in marriage? (20:39) Donna - When working for a doctor who is performing surgeries that prevent conception, am I doing anything sinful working under him? (30:21) Jonathan - If I am a cashier at a store and someone comes up to buy something that helps prevent conception, should I not help them? (43:06) Email – Should I get a vasectomy reversal even though I’m older? (48:41)

Patrick welcomes listeners on a Taco Tuesday and shares an email about ghosts, blending his own eerie family experiences with Catholic teaching and biblical stories to consider what these encounters could mean. After responding to a caller about the tension between eucharistic processions and caring for the poor, he addresses questions on vaccines linked to fetal cells, clarifies Church guidance during COVID, and offers compassionate advice for parents facing challenging family situations. Quick-witted, honest, and rooted in faith, Patrick jumps from supernatural chills to ethical dilemmas, always inviting listeners to think and reflect in unexpected ways. Debra (email) - Do spirits and other supernatural beings "walk" the earth around us? (01:01) Patrick and Cyrus share ghost stories (07:32) Jude - There was a Eucharistic procession that came through my town and by our homeless shelter. It seemed the Catholic community in the procession were more focused on the procession rather than the homeless. Is it wrong to have an imbalance of charity to the poor and reverence to the Eucharist? (20:43) Jane (email) – I’m confused about the churches stance on abortion but promotes vaccines (26:09) Robert (email) - My oldest daughter text me this morning, going on and on about the ICE situation and Trump this and Trump that. Please, is there a book, article, or Bible verses you could suggest for me to pass on to her? (30:19) Ana (email) - As I meditate on The Holy Spirit descending in Pentecost, I can’t help thinking, how was this event different for The Virgin Mary? She had Jesus in her womb, The Holy Spirit over shadow her to give life to Jesus in her. Why did Mary need more of The Holy Spirit? (36:09) Becky (email) - My unwed daughter is pregnant and living with the baby's father. I have been invited to a baby shower for her. I am concerned about giving the appearance to my daughter and other shower attendees that I approve of my daughter’s sinful choices. (49:34)

Questions from listeners propel Patrick into stories of faith, biblical mysteries, real-time current events, and personal journeys—including the struggles of Catholic converts and the meaning behind apostolic succession and miracles. The episode buzzes with everything from book tips to reflections on faith in everyday life, threaded through Patrick’s straightforward advice and conversation. Audio: Richard Nixon talks about his dad (00:20) Josie (email) - The email you just read about the woman wondering if she should attend a baby shower for her unwed, pregnant daughter, and especially about your answer, surprised me. You told her to go, be an example of pro-life, etc, etc. etc. Why doesn't this same logic apply to attending the weddings of Catholics, usually lapsed, who are not getting married in the church? (02:31) Kris (email) - How it was possible for Moses and Elijah to appear at the Transfiguration if it is understood that it was the death and resurrection of Jesus that freed all the righteous souls? (07:54) Steve - In the 4th chapter of Malachi, who was Elijah and what did he do? (10:59) Audio: Netanyahu addresses the brave people of Iran (19:32) Bill - How did they know it was Elijah and Moses? They had lived hundreds of years before the disciples. (22:21) Gary - Is there a parallel when Moses and Elijah in the Old Testament met God on the mountain and when Jesus meets Moses and Elijah on the mountain in the New Testament? (30:05) Bill - I understand that Jesus authorizes his apostles to forgive sins, but I have a hard time understanding how that ability is passed on to others. (32:01) Mark – 11-years-ago Patrick gave a presentation about Mormonism where he gave false information about the state of women in heaven. (41:34)

Patrick explores faith, doctrine, and personal stories through spirited exchanges with callers wrestling with questions about LDS Church teachings, prophetic authority, and Catholic belief on salvation and the afterlife. Unexpected turns arise—a discussion on reenacting the Mass outside its sacred setting, a listener’s worry about heaven, Tibetan singing bowls, and contrasting biblical interpretations of figures like Elijah spark fresh perspectives. Every conversation brings both warmth and challenge, inviting listeners into reflection, honesty, and sometimes, a good laugh. Patrick continues his conversation with Mark from the end of the last hour. The conversation started with Mark saying Patrick gave inaccurate information in an old YouTube video. (00:34) Josephine – I heard you say that we go to heaven with our husbands. I very much disagree. (18:31) Luke - My friend has an obsession with the mass to the point where he recites the whole mass himself and wants me to sit through it. Is this appropriate? (21:10) Jaime - I am a Deacon in formation. Can Patrick recommend a St. Thomas Aquinas book to help understand Christology? (27:25) Jonni (email) – Is it okay to gift someone Tibetan Singing Bells? (38:43) Michael - Is it true that the bible teaches that the dead are only asleep? (40:55)

Patrick breaks down global news—like the Israel-Iran conflict—while questioning news narratives and reminding listeners to think critically. Amid dark headlines, Patrick takes time to encourage a caller caring for her father with dementia and shares Pope Leo XIV’s message from Chicago about hope, friendship, and letting God’s love work in lives battered by chaos. Peter (email) - Do you think President Trump should do the right thing and pardon the man accused of killing those anti-Life lawmakers in Minnesota? (00:39) Audio: Shortly before Minnesota Rep. Melissa Hortman was shot and killed, she broke down in tears in front of cameras after siding with Republicans (12:45) Audio: Gov. Tim Walz’s words about democrat politicians who were assassinated (14:09) Audio: Is this Tim Walz calling for violence? (16:01) Jodi - Should I keep taking my dad to adoration or try confession again? (21:14) Audio: Journalist reveals the truth about how western media distorts events in Gaza (33:08) Audio: Pope Leo XIV Speaks To U.S. Audience For First Time (39:19)

Patrick shares Naomi Epps Best's account of being dismissed from her internship at a Jesuit university for challenging explicit and ideological content, prompting him to stress the minefields faced by Catholic students today and urge cautious discernment in educational choices. He fields calls about proper Eucharistic practices and answers criticism about political discourse, rejecting violence from any quarter and refusing to shy away from tough conversations, all while keeping humor in the mix. AUDIO: Naomi Epps Best, a family therapy student, was reportedly fired from her internship at Santa Clara University (08:39) Aaron - I am a lay person at the parish that sees other lay people touch and open the tabernacle... what should I do or say the pastor? (11:59) Patrick share’s Naomi Epps Best WSJ article “Santa Clara University’s Crazy Idea of Human Sexuality” (25:35) Michele (email) – I’m again disappointed in the misleading, clumsy way you talk about politics (37:28) Ray - There is a priest at our parish that has a habit of not elevating the host during the consecration. It is never visible to the congregation. Is that appropriate or does it need to be addressed? (42:47)

Patrick opens the hour fielding Nora’s heartfelt question about leaving her Baptist community for Catholicism, offering stories of real conversion, practical resources, and gritty encouragement for holding firm through confrontation. He moves from Supreme Court news that affects religious groups, to listener calls on medical ethics, ghosts, and even the challenges of attending Protestant Bible studies as a Catholic, all while anchoring each story with candor and sharp advice. Listeners hear a mix of personal struggle, theological questions, and Patrick’s own reflections—sometimes patient, sometimes blunt, but always real. Nora - I am going to be joining the Catholic Church soon. My husband and I lead the worship music team at our Baptist church. I am trying to navigate how we communicate with our Baptist community that we are leaving in the kindest way possible without causing distain or anger in their community. (00:34) The Supreme Court just ruled in favor of nuns fighting New York’s abortion mandate. The ruling orders New York courts to reconsider whether the state can force religious organizations to pay for abortions. (18:38) Patrick reads and responds to emails about Naomi Epps Best’s experience (20:57) Anthony – Love listening to your show (24:05) Michael - I appreciate what you do Maria – A lot of parishioners are scared to go to church in California because of ICE protests. Is that a reason to not attend? (27:24) Ethel - My 10-year-old grandson asked if I believed in ghosts. What answer should I give him? Carlos - Comment about the raising of Eucharist: If you think about it, the priests used to turn towards the alter so they had to raise it high for the parish to see. Now they face the congregation so he doesn't have to do that anymore. Is that right? (34:23) Email – Is it sinful for someone with cancer to refuse chemotherapy? (39:44) Ray - Can priests say they will retain (as in not forgive) someone’s sins until they turn themselves in, if their sin was a horrible crime? (43:02) Danny - Is it ok for me as a Catholic to join a protestant bible group to better my relationship with my father-in-law? (48:41)

Patrick fields heartfelt questions from listeners grappling with the raw realities of faith, dementia, and family, offering concrete guidance for a daughter taking her father to confession as memory slips away. He addresses the anxiety of forgotten penances and clarifies Church teachings on confession, the universality of the Ten Commandments, and the ethics of end-of-life care—all with tangible resources, biblical perspective, and a sense of calm authority. Listeners witness Patrick’s steady, compassionate presence as he dispenses practical answers and gentle humor to those carrying burdens both spiritual and deeply personal. Jodi - I am bringing my father to confession who hasn't gone in 20 years. Could you do a run through of how to prepare him? (00:42) Kathy - Last week I went to confession and received penance to read 15 minutes of the gospel each day for 7 days. I missed a day. Should I not receive? (18:04) Michael (email) - My parish is moving its First Friday Adoration time to where I will no longer be able to attend due to my work. (24:16) Margaret (email) - Are 10 Commandments for everybody? (26:51) Becky - My non-denominational family received communion. What should I do. (29:56) R.J. - I was asked to sign an end-of-life document for my mom and dad. What are Patrick’s thoughts on what I should do? (41:43)

Patrick zeroes in on the overnight Israeli strikes against Iran, unpacking Operation Rising Lion, urgent words from Netanyahu, and sharp reactions from U.S. leaders. He weaves together headlines with the ethical core, weighing everything against Catholic just war teaching—bluntly questioning whether preemptive military action holds up under scrutiny. Big questions, raw facts, and moral analysis—all in the crosshairs as the world watches. Audio: Buchanan's prediction 13 years ago on CNN about 2025 was eerily prophetic (00:50) Audio: Florida sheriff has a message for would-be leftist rioters. NOT IN FLORIDA. Brevard County FL Sheriff (05:45) Audio: Benjamin Netanyahu’s speech to Israelis regarding attack on Iran (08:19) Audio: In February Marco Rubio, Secretary of State, said this about Iran: “It is the single greatest source of instability in the region.” (26:26) Audio: Ted Cruz warns Iran that if they attack any American Bases or service men Trump will retaliate (28:20) Audio: Goldie Ghamari – Iranian woman explains why no Iranians will be protesting these strikes - 9 million Iranians live outside of Iran, mostly in western countries. As tensions rise between the US & Israel vs the terrorist Islamic Republic occupying Iran, ask yourself this: How many anti-west demonstrations have you seen by Iranians? The answer: ZERO. Ask yourself why. (29:30)

Patrick tackles breaking news about Israel’s major strike on Iran, weaving Catholic moral teaching on just war, historical background, and current threats from Iran together with listener questions on faith and ethics. He pushes beyond headlines—why does just war theory still matter, how do prayer and Christian peacemaking play a role when the world feels on fire, and where does modern conscience fit amid relentless violence? After years of preparation, Israel launches major offensive against Iran and its nuclear program (00:21) Chris – In the US, if there is a threat, you can tell the police. You can’t do that on a global scale. Right now is the time for Israel to act. (12:41) Miss Ellie (email) – Is signing the words of consecration valid? 17:50) Dan - God sent Israel enemies into their city to destroy it because he was mad at what they did. Same as when He killed their first born. Are these true things? Can this relate to today? (21:42) Michael – Just war: it is sad that many will be harmed, but if this happened in the US on October 7th, we wouldn’t have negotiated with words (26:38) Diana - The war would be stopped by a regime change. (31:23) Matt - There are 3 passages about receiving the holy spirit in Acts: 2, 8, and 10. I need help on how I should bring all those passages together and how to apply that to my life. (34:14) Gary - We are visiting our daughter, and she wants us to visit a pride liberal Catholic Church. Should I go? (43:15)

London-bound plane carrying 242 people crashes after take-off in India (0:24) Brian Wilson, Beach Boys Co-Founder, Dies at 82 (2:55) Barbara - Is it prudent to go to the NEC in Palm Springs in light of the riots there? (8:57) Archbishop Gomez Calls For Day Of Prayer And Will Celebrate Mass Today For Peace And Unity (14:43) Jeanie - I love what you're doing but it is very political. You played a lot clips of Democratic Presidents but no Republicans. Patrick sees life as black and white. (19:48) Joe - Can you speak to the 7th day Adventist claim that the Catholic Church changed the day of rest. (27:22) Tom - We can't look at this with fear! We must live in the glory of Christ and the potential of martyrdom. (36:43) Terry - My friend doesn't see herself as a Protestant and just as a Christian. How do I explain it to her that she is outside of the Church and therefore a protestant? (40:10)

Bree (email) – Question about gossiping and detraction (0:47) Linda - If we do not take the blood at Mass, how should we show reverence as we pass? (10:00) Michael - My mom returned home to the Church last weekend and I wanted to thank you for your help in this. Also can you pray for me? (19:22) Joel (email) - Thank you for representing the position of the Catholic Church. (31:14) Sal - What does the Church teach about purgatory? What does the Church teach on cremation? (35:58) Rita – Are we supposed to stand when the priest entered the room? (46:45)

Patrick reads and responds to a Reddit post claiming he attacks the bible. Here’s the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/Catholicism/comments/1l9mj0z/attacking_the_bible_is_a_horrific_strategy_for/?share_id=TIjfPDlH0R_L4Wg9zXWlZ&utm_content=1&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_source=share&utm_term=10 (0:27) Paula – I went to see Beach Boys and ran up on stage to hug Brian Wilson! (8:07) Gabby - I have three special needs kids. What should I include for them in a healthcare directive? (10:05) Sal - Thank you and Relevant Radio. (13:34) Luis - Are we supposed to bury Rosary when it breaks? (21:36) Phillip - Where does the Catholic Church allow for cremation and when did this happen? (25:25) Chris - Patrick was just talking about purgatory and where it lies in scripture. he thinks it's only concerning venial but not in regard to mortal sin. How are we supposed to discern Paul's verse saying you will be saved through fire? (36:02) Billy - Has Patrick read “Jesus and the Jewish Roots of the Eucharist” by Brant Pitre? If so, does he agree what his position? (38:16) Becky - I was at a Catholic funeral. During the mass my nondenominational family took communion. Should I say something? (49:31)

The Pentagon confessed to decades of deliberately spreading UFO conspiracy theories to cover up secret military programs (03:46) CS Lewis' ‘The Screwtape Letters’ heading to big screen in adaptation from Max McLean (12:31) Josh – Is burning incense,ok? Can I work on music on Sundays? (22:35) Jose – What are the rules of Sunday obligation? Is it a sin to masturbate? (25:52) Isabella (10-years-old) - If there is no sorrow in heaven, why is Mary the Queen of Sorrows? (38:24) Jessica - Patrick helped me avoid getting my tubes tied and now I’m having a baby boy! (44:46)

Man shocked to discover he was conceived through IVF Audio: The horror stories IVF creates. Imagine carrying a child for 9 months and giving birth only to discover that he isn't biologically related to you. Then after bonding with him and committing to raise him as your own son, being forced to give up custody. These are the horror stories IVF creates (04:32) Mary Anne - What are their differences between last rights and anointing of the sick? (11:45) Kevin - Is there anything demonic going on in the White House and if so, is it connected to current events (15:56) Audio: Shining and Soylent Green commercials (19:09) Anna Maria – Is there a catholic teaching on coed vacations for young adults. (26:00) David (email) - Terry Moran was just fired from ABC news for saying something about the Trump administration. How do you feel about this? Would conservatives be okay if this were a Fox "news" guy about a Democrat administration? (40:27) Deedee – Is it ok that the Eucharistic prayers were skipped during mass? (42:36)

Mark – Do I need an annulment even though I don’t want to get married again (00:31) Vissia - How do I go about sex education with my teen in a Catholic way. (12:47) Audio: Rep. Maxine Waters (D): "No violence in LA. Don't believe what you saw." (18:40) Audio: California Sheriff Blasts Newsom: “You Fueled LA Riots” - He slammed Gov. Gavin Newsom for “encouraging” violent anti-ICE riots in Los Angeles, where protesters torched cars and clashed with feds over mass deportation raids. (22:40) Chris - This is not the standard for the national guard. (30:25) John – I think Democrats brought this current situation on themselves. (41:56)

Patrick explores the chaos erupting in Southern California, questioning how media reporting contrasts with raw street reality and why recent protests differ so sharply from earlier reactions to immigration enforcement. He threads urgent stories of violence, law, and faith together, raising tough questions about justice, order, and compassion amid shifting agendas and public unrest. From streets set aflame to the personal choices of everyday people, Patrick keeps the lens sharply focused on what’s unfolding right now. Audio: Obama – If you a criminal, you will be deported (05:07) Audio: Corporate media: These murderous riots are actually mostly peaceful (07:27) Audio: A Los Angeles rioter wearing a Palestinian Keffiyeh refers to the United States as the “enemy,” while advocating for the city to burn down (11:58) Audio: CNN talks to Mayor Bass who says 'Nothing was happening here’. She blames immigration raids for violence (13:50) Heidi - Are the organizers modifying Eucharistic pilgrimage plans in Los Angeles? (29:33) Audio: Democrats explicitly calling for using political violence (40:07) Chris – It’s become clear that someone wants socialists to take over (49:37)

Patrick addresses the chaos in Southern California, bluntly addressing property destruction, angry protests, and confrontations with police while callers challenge him to confront political violence on all sides. Tom (email) – You seem to have the same bias you are denouncing from the mainstream media (00:52) Patrick continues his conversation with Chris from the end of the last hour about Marxist agitators (05:10) Kevin - ICE is arresting immigrants. People are scared. Why it's happening? (09:42) Audio: Rebecca Pringle, President of the National Education Association, says We will stand up with RIGHTIOUS INDIGNATION (21:05) Mark - Why is the Church not saying we have to follow law more loudly? (25:29) Patrick shares some of the laws that are on the books regarding immigration (27:47) Steve - Patrick you are right. I witnessed these rioters setting up. Many are hoodlums and the looting is close to my neighborhood. They are breaking into stores and stealing. I have no idea what this has to do with protesting. (31:43) Teri – Concerning scared illegal immigrants, there’s lots of misinformation. People are concerned that they will be deported for no reason. (38:08) Pope to canonize Acutis, Frassati, host meeting on children’s rights (44:35) Audio: Bill Clinton on Illegal Immigration at 1995 State of the Union (46:55) Maria - I came as an illegal immigrant. I have paid my taxes. We are a community. The people against President Trump are correct. (48:58)

Patrick addresses the chaos in Southern California, bluntly addressing property destruction, angry protests, and confrontations with police while callers challenge him to confront political violence on all sides. Tom (email) – You seem to have the same bias you are denouncing from the mainstream media (00:52) Patrick continues his conversation with Chris from the end of the last hour about Marxist agitators (05:10) Kevin - ICE is arresting immigrants. People are scared. Why it's happening? (09:42) Audio: Rebecca Pringle, President of the National Education Association, says We will stand up with RIGHTIOUS INDIGNATION (21:05) Mark - Why is the Church not saying we have to follow law more loudly? (25:29) Patrick shares some of the laws that are on the books regarding immigration (27:47) Steve - Patrick you are right. I witnessed these rioters setting up. Many are hoodlums and the looting is close to my neighborhood. They are breaking into stores and stealing. I have no idea what this has to do with protesting. (31:43) Teri – Concerning scared illegal immigrants, there’s lots of misinformation. People are concerned that they will be deported for no reason. (38:08) Pope to canonize Acutis, Frassati, host meeting on children’s rights (44:35) Audio: Bill Clinton on Illegal Immigration at 1995 State of the Union (46:55) Maria - I came as an illegal immigrant. I have paid my taxes. We are a community. The people against President Trump are correct. (48:58)

Special Guest Host Cale Clarke explores the layers of Pentecost, tracing its roots back to the Old Testament Feast of Weeks while connecting its significance to the Holy Spirit and the Church’s beginnings. He weaves scriptural context with real-life encounters, shares stories both lighthearted and profound, and isn’t afraid to answer tough questions about faith, tradition, and the debate surrounding speaking in tongues. Pop culture references, unexpected humor, and listener calls tumble in, and suddenly the familiar feast feels both mysterious and close to home. Pentecost Explained: The Holy Spirit, Tongues of Fire, and Lessons from Babel (03:50) Great Tongues of Fire: Pentecost’s Origins, The Holy Spirit’s Role, and Speaking in Tongues (25:37) How Pentecost Reverses Babel: Church Beginnings, Spiritual Gifts, and Spreading the Faith (37:55) Grant – I’m trying to defend the faith to my grandma. We have been talking about tongues. (47:30)

Special Guest Host Cale Clarke explores the sudden clash between Elon Musk and Donald Trump through the lens of FBI negotiator Chris Voss’s “Never Split the Difference,” shifting focus from political standoffs to the personality dynamics fueling such breakdowns. He weaves in real-world applications, from business deals to family dinners, examining why understanding assertives, analysts, and accommodators determines outcomes in conversations big and small. Even a teenager calling in for job interview advice gets the negotiation gold. Cale talks about the recent falling out between President Trump and Elon Musk (01:35) Three Negotiator Types: https://info.blackswanltd.com/hubfs/Content/3%20Types%20of%20Negotiators.pdf (17:07) Dylan (15-years-old) - I am doing a mock interview soon for a summer internship. Is there a chance this book would help me with that? (44:08)

Special Guest Host Cale Clarke explores how personality affects negotiation and communication, spotlighting Chris Voss’s strategies for managing assertive, analytical, and accommodating individuals. Listeners hear real stories of difficult neighbors and tense family meetings, plus practical tips—like breathing techniques—for staying calm in tough conversations. Insights into building stronger relationships, handling conflict, and understanding what makes people tick come together in a lively, unpredictable mix of advice and real-life reflection. Lourdes - I have a horrible and mean neighbor and I wonder if I can put him into one of these personality types to better understand him. or is he just a bully? (21:38) Anne - Thank you for the show. This topic is God's timing. (28:31) Cale reads and responds to an email asking how to not get anxious (36:57) Mark - My Protestant friend looks down on the corpus on the Crucifix and I didn’t know how to respond to her. (44:11)

A potential convert from California wrote in with a super honest, thoughtful question that maybe you’ve wondered too: "Why does it matter for our salvation if Mary was immaculately conceived, ever virgin, or assumed into heaven?" Here's how Patrick lovingly and logically answered this question: "If God Revealed It, It Matters" The short and holy answer: Because God chose to reveal it. That’s the whole game. If the Lord wanted to make something known, whether directly through Scripture or through Apostolic Tradition, then it’s part of the deposit of faith. He compared it to the fact that we don’t know the color of Jesus’ eyes, because that detail doesn’t impact salvation. But Marian dogmas have been preserved and proclaimed because they do. Not Just Bible... Tradition Too Patrick emphasized that while you can see hints and threads of these Marian teachings in Scripture, the explicit clarity often comes from Apostolic Tradition... which Catholics are commanded to follow. He backed it up with solid Bible credentials: 2 Thessalonians 2:15 ➤ Hold fast to traditions, whether oral or written. Matthew 28 ➤ Teach everything Jesus commanded; not just the parts we like. Luke 10:16 ➤ “He who hears you, hears me…” Rejecting what the Church teaches about Mary is not just rejecting a doctrine; it’s brushing aside Christ's own voice through His Church. Not a Choose-Your-Own Gospel The Church isn’t a salad bar. Jesus didn’t say “teach most of what I commanded”; He said “all.” The Church, in faithfulness to Him, passes that on, including truths about His Blessed Mother. This episode was a gentle but firm invitation into the beauty of trusting what God has revealed. Mary's story is not a footnote to salvation history; it's a key thread in the tapestry of grace. Keep listening. Keep asking. And let Our Lady Walk with you on the journey.

Patrick discusses insights about faith, focusing on miraculous events in Acts chapter 8 and addressing questions on Catholic practices like choosing sponsors at Confirmation. He shares a compelling story of angels assisting St. Isidore and highlights the importance of standing firm in one's faith at work. Plus, Patrick emphasizes how Relevant Radio serves as a unifying resource for Catholics. Isidore (email) - What does Luke mean when he says the spirit of the Lord snatched Philip away. Did Philip just disappear into thin air? (0:54) Zach (email) – Confirmation and sponsor question (9:24) Sheila (email) – Why did Adam and Eve sin? (13:26) Audio: Sen. Marco Rubio responds to a question about revoking Visas. (25:00) Mary - I have been asked to leave the Adoration Chapel because the space is needed for a meeting. (28:20) LtCol Dan (email) - If I have my niece be the Godmother, and my brother be a witness, it’s not ideal but I believe I’m still following the Church's guidelines on Godparents. If he comes back to the Catholic Church, does he then become the Godfather retroactively? As a witness, does he make the same verbal commitment that a Godparent makes? (37:08) Bob (email) - If Angels are pure spirit with no bodies, how are they doing hard manual labor on farms and plowing fields? (43:23) Jackie (email) - Coworkers mock my faith and I’m not sure how to handle it (45:00) Encore from 3/13/25

Patrick talks about the importance of baptism in the Catholic faith, addresses misconceptions surrounding church teachings, and explores the essence of trusting in divine providence when faced with life's toughest challenges. Anna - Why is the Catholic Church so strict about having godparents and baptism? (3:24) Email - Can a Catholic marriage couple engage in erotic words, looks, gestures, and bodily contact without planning to have marital intercourse? (20:34) Wendy - How did Jesus survive for 40 Days without food and water? (24:46) Joseph – If a priest is unaware that he was not validly baptized, would his priestly functions be invalid? (29:27) Nicole – Our deacon approved that my husband could have a vasectomy. (34:43) Encore from 3/13/25

Callers share powerful personal transformations and how faith provides hope in difficult situations. From stories of overcoming crisis pregnancies and medical challenges to relationships marred by betrayal, callers share deeply moving experiences. Patrick emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan, seeking forgiveness, and finding healing through faith. Sue - I had cancer and got pregnant (00:58) Andy - I got married to a sex addict and feel betrayed by her and priests who tell her not to tell me about numerous indiscretions. (04:55) Cody - If a person had a vasectomy before marriage, can he get validly married or not, especially if the vasectomy is non-reversible? (09:24) Lucy – Why do older kids have to go through RCIA to be baptized? (13:53) Martha - Abstinence in marriage: before I was Catholic, I had hysterectomy. Should I confess this? (19:44) Mike - I had vasectomy after having 5 children. Do I need to confess every time I’m intimate with my wife? (26:38) Eduardo - I am having a vasectomy reversal. I hope it will come out ok. (33:40) Juanita - What is the book you recommended on the sacraments? Patrick recommends, “The Sacraments and Their Celebration”. What makes something valid? (35:13) Philomena – If a man and his wife are beyond the age of having children, is a vasectomy reversal required? (45:41) Rob - I got a vasectomy reversal. We had two kids which are such a blessing. (47:18) Encore from 3/13/25

Patrick tackles questions about whether online Mass truly counts for Sunday obligation, shares practical wisdom on the gifts and fruits of the Holy Spirit, and addresses the thorny realities of parenting with honesty and humor. Listeners phone in with raw, moving stories, sometimes joyful, sometimes heavy, about finding their way back to the Catholic faith, sparking moments of genuine reflection and connection. One moment, he’s offering blunt advice on Communion and sin; the next, celebrating big families, all while opening space for questions many are too shy to ask. Melissa (email) – Does watching Mass online count the same as going to Mass in person? (00:41) Karen (email) - A girl called into the show yesterday saying you threw Drew under the bus. I then realized, no matter what you say, so many people can hear a different message. It seems very challenging. I’m not sure how you do it? (06:44) Rocco - I have comments about my Anglican Ordinariate parish. I think it’s beautiful but there are some differences. (07:46) Travis - I went from an open-minded religion to Catholic. (13:04) Gabriel - How do I obtain the gifts and fruits of the holy spirit when I struggle with anger? (19:52) Joseph - I want to share the importance of the Eucharist and Mary as it has manifested in my life. (32:26) Ronald (email) – I accidently took the Eucharist home. Will I be excommunicated? (37:26) Dylan - I've been going to a parish right over the state boarder. Should I be going to my home parish instead? (46:49)

Patrick answers questions about honoring parents after messy divorces, explains why bishops and cardinals wear certain colors, and clears up confusion between the titles of priest and pastor—all while fielding calls on everything from tattoos to Communion postures. He speaks directly, weaving together hard truths about faith, modern culture, and Church teaching, then quickly pivots to offer solid advice on end-of-life care and staying grounded during secular challenges. Marie (email) - What does our faith teach about the obligations, if any, of a child of divorce to have any relationship with their parent, especially after a high conflict divorce which has gotten very “sticky”? (00:42) Justin - What is the meaning behind the garb and coloring of priestly robes? (05:14) Stan - I heard you say if you are not ready for Communion don’t go up and cross your arms, just sit down. I thought you should remain standing. (14:20) Carlos – I’m travelling on vacation. The Archdiocese I’m visiting has a different Holy Day of Obligation from my home diocese. Whose rule do I adhere to? (21:10) Jake - As person of faith, I see Catholics and Christians hated upon. How do we deal with the persecution we see in our culture? (22:51) Joe - Can you share the difference between critical thinking and being critical? Chris - The solution to our debt could be to have more kids because it increases the national revenue base and taxes. (33:38) Greg – I’m filling out my will have a question about DNR (38:11) Maureen - I have noticed that face painting and tattoos have increased in the last 30 years. Is there a relationship between kids having their face painted and getting tattoos later in life? (42:19) Mike - If you weren't a cradle Catholic, would you have found the Catholic Church? (48:38)

Patrick opens the phone lines for unfiltered calls about tattoos, regret, faith, and the emotional knots people tie—and try to untangle—over the years. He listens as callers lay bare stories of choosing partners outside their faith, family scandal, and choices that echo across decades, offering practical advice and rooting the discussion in real-life struggles. Anthony - I have lived with tattoos for 20 years. I regret every single tattoo I have. (00:45) Cecilia - I am engaged to a non-Catholic. He is challenging the Eucharist and says it is just a symbol. (11:09) Chiara - You gave me similar advice as you did Cecilia, and I have a completely different outlook now. My life is way better thanks to you. (22:26) Stephanie - I was also engaged to non-Catholic who later converted. His family was supportive. I feel her marriage is at greater risk than mine was. (27:41) Cyrus shares a couple of emails in regards to Cecilia’s call Kristy - I just wanted to encourage Cecilia. Those signs are there for a reason. I broke my engagement off with young man and it hurt but I couldn’t leave my faith even for someone I cared about. Elisha - When I was dating someone non-Catholic I could feel God wanted something else for me. I broke up with that man and met my current husband 3 weeks later. (38:08) Elsa - I too had a similar experience. I’m glad that I did what I did. I wouldn’t be a religious education director today. (41:19) Matt – You mentioned that American Indians knew about the early stories from Genesis. Can you comment on this more? (44:19) Barry - My wife and I got married outside of the Church. Can I receive the Eucharist if we are not having sexual relations? (48:39)

The Caller’s Question: Tyler from Santa Barbara phoned into The Patrick Madrid Show with a simple but important question: “Why didn’t Vice President JD Vance kiss Pope Leo’s ring?” Patrick’s Take: Not a Sin, Just a Skip Patrick handled it with his usual blend of insight, clarity, and wisdom. Here’s the gist: There are diplomatic protocols at play when you're dealing with heads of state. JD Vance, while not a head of state himself, is pretty high up there, so formalities might have been planned in advance. Kissing the pope’s ring isn’t required. It’s a beautiful tradition, yes, but not a divine commandment. It came about in the Middle Ages. So, Vance skipping it is not a sin. Not disrespectful. Just… not traditional. Giving Grace Patrick gently reminded us: JD Vance is a new convert to Catholicism. He didn’t grow up in Catholic culture, so ring-kissing might be unfamiliar or even feel a bit odd to him. He’s from a very humble, rural background, and some of his choices may still reflect that down-to-earth, “no-frills” sensibility. The American Factor Patrick also pointed out a larger cultural angle: The U.S. has a strong anti-aristocracy streak, going way back. That “no kings, no crowns” mindset could subtly influence even how Catholic leaders act, especially on the world stage. There's still anti-Catholic sentiment in parts of the U.S., and Vance may have wanted to avoid fueling any fire or being seen as overly deferential to a “foreign prince.”

Patrick fields questions about Marian teachings, breaks down what the Church means by the sixth commandment, and addresses concerns from listeners wondering how doctrine shapes daily Catholic life. Confession, purity, smartphones, the avalanche of national debt—he juggles it all, sometimes pausing to encourage, other times dropping startling perspectives or a wry observation. Why does it matter to our salvation if Mary was immaculately conceived, ever-virgin, or assumed into heaven? (03:13) Megan - What is included under the commandment of 'do not commit adultery'? (09:57) AUDIO: Jerome Powell, the Chair of the Federal Reserve. The US national debt is now rising by $1 Trillion every 180 days - A million seconds ago was May 23rd A billion seconds ago was 1993 A trillion seconds ago was 30,000 B.C. (22:15) Audio: George Carlin on the fake climate crisis (26:18) Kyle (email) - Please consider being our first Dumb Phone Convert. (28:15) Laura (email) - When we say the glory be prayer, are we supposed to make a physical Sign of the Cross? (32:39) Tim (email) – I use an app called "Brick" that essentially makes my phone as "smart" or "dumb" as I need it to be. (38:16) Steve - We have reached a place in society where having a dumb phone is unrealistic (40:08) Seena - We have free speech, but we allow some people to be anti-Semitic but not racist. Where is the line? (44:57)

Patrick starts with news from Iowa about a federally funded health care center halting hormone therapy for transgender patients, questioning what genuine compassion looks like and highlighting the debates over “gender-affirming care.” Listeners chime in about whether Catholic media focuses too much on particular hot-button issues, giving Patrick a chance to explain his approach—grounded in Catholic teaching rather than political turmoil. Iowa health care center ends gender-affirming care for adult transgender patients (00:29) Hegseth orders Navy to rename ship honoring gay rights activist Harvey Milk (02:57) Johnathan - Do you think the rapid advancement of tech is connected to the mark of the beast? (08:50) Vince (email) - I saw the COVID shots as a possible mark of the beast. They made an untested injection that did not actually prevent the disease an employment requirement or precondition to physically enter many places and were moving toward tracking mechanisms for who did and did not accept the shots. (20:59) Stephen - If the country could get the money for the debt, who would it go to? Who are we paying? (22:12) Stephen - Why does Patrick spend more time on the Gays and Abortion and gloss over topics like Palestine? (28:57) Kathy - I Think you are a political show. I’m scared for Relevant Radio. (36:08) Nicole - I want to defend Relevant Radio. By living our faith, we have to be political to defend our faith. (46:34)