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The number of adult virgins is growing and is actually at a record high. Many of these folks would like to be having sex, but cannot find a partner. In other words, they are involuntarily celibate, or “incels” for short. So what do we know about these individuals? A deeper look at the psychology of incels reveals a group that is struggling with complex mental health issues. In today's episode, we're revising my conversation with William Costello, which originally aired back in episode 133. This conversation will probably surprise you because it turns out that incels aren't exactly who we think they are. Incels aren't new either—they've actually always been around, but changes in the modern dating market seem to be creating a lot of more of them. Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include: Why incels have always been around, and how modern incels are different. Why the incel population is growing. Why popular dating advice given to incels isn’t helpful. What the mental health of incels looks like. Whether incels are inherently prone to violence and misogyny. You can check out William’s body of research on ResearchGate. You can also read his latest paper on incels here. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
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William Costello is a psychology researcher and Ph.D. student specialising in evolutionary psychology. With the recent release of “Adolescence” on Netflix, it has stirred up quite a bit of controversy. But what are the real dangers of incel-related violence, and how can we begin to confront them? Expect to learn what Netflix's “Adolescence” got wrong in their adaptation, if incels are a bigger danger to themselves or others, why there is not more incel violence, what The Low Mate Value Theory of Misogyny is, what the reaction to “Adolescence” has been from various factions of the internet, if fear, shame, and shock actually can change behaviour, and much more… Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get the best bloodwork analysis in America at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Get a 20% discount on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get $350 off the Pod 4 Ultra at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
William Costello is an honorary research associate at Swansea University, specializing in incel psychology. His research focuses on the psychological aspects of involuntary celibacy, including self-perceived mate value, misconceptions about female mate preferences, and mental health challenges. Follow William on X - https://x.com/CostelloWilliam SPONSOR. Pure Gold. Protect your wealth with The Pure Gold Company. Get your free investor guide at https://pure-gold.co/trigger SPONSOR. Get timeless looks with modern comfort from Mack Weldon. Go to MackWeldon.com and get 25% off your first order of $125 or more with promo code TRIGGER. Join our exclusive TRIGGERnometry community on Substack! https://triggernometry.substack.com/ OR Support TRIGGERnometry Here: Bitcoin: bc1qm6vvhduc6s3rvy8u76sllmrfpynfv94qw8p8d5 Shop Merch here - https://www.triggerpod.co.uk/shop/ Advertise on TRIGGERnometry: marketing@triggerpod.co.uk Find TRIGGERnometry on Social Media: https://twitter.com/triggerpod https://www.facebook.com/triggerpod/ https://www.instagram.com/triggerpod/ About TRIGGERnometry: Stand-up comedians Konstantin Kisin (@konstantinkisin) and Francis Foster (@francisjfoster) make sense of politics, economics, free speech, AI, drug policy and WW3 with the help of presidential advisors, renowned economists, award-winning journalists, controversial writers, leading scientists and notorious comedians. 00:00 Introduction 04:55 Does Adolescence Depict Real Life? 09:11 The Race Discussion 15:36 Toxic Masculinity 19:25 Incel Behaviours 27:26 Consequences Of Children Having Unfettered Internet Access 30:46 Why Andrew Tate Appeals To Young Men 32:30 Adolescence Speaks To Parents Fears 42:25 The Importance Of Sport 47:31 The Lack Of Discipline And Respect In Schools 55:35 Will The Film Cause A Moral Panic? 01:04:01 What's The Thing We're Not Talking About That We Should Be? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The involuntary celibate community (aka ‘incels') are often thought to be rightwing, white supremacist, and prone to violence. But how much of that is true? Ash Sarkar is joined by William Costello – a researcher whose work focuses on the psychology of incels – to discuss what we get wrong about incels, what incels get […]
William Costello is a brilliant mind, PhD student of Evolutionary Psychology at University of Texas and a fascinating conversationalist. In this episode we learn about modern mating, incels (involuntary celibate's), the red blue and black pills and so much more. Follow along with William's work on X HERE. Contact William's colleague Dr. Andrew G. Thomas HERE. Check out Claire's Coaching + Programs HERE.
Dive into a very interesting conversation with our latest podcast episode featuring researcher William Costello to discuss his extensive research into the community known as Incels which stands for ‘involuntary celibate'. The term describes online community of individuals, predominantly males, who feel they are unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite wanting one. However, it's crucial to note that not everyone who experiences involuntary celibacy identifies with or is part of this community. In this enlightening episode, Costello provides invaluable insights into the world of Incels, which involves a complex interplay of various factors, including social, psychological, and cultural elements that contribute to the formation and perpetuation of their beliefs and behaviours. Join us as we navigate the nuances of this pressing issue, exploring the psychological and sociocultural dimensions that shape the Incel community. Discover the thought-provoking perspectives that illuminate this intricate topic, shedding light on the broader implications for society and the ways in which understanding can foster empathy and dialogue. Links: William's ResearchGate - https://www.researchgate.net/profile/William-Costello-3 Twitter/X - @CostelloWilliam Appearance on Modern Wisdom Podcast - https://youtu.be/da_5uuOCFz8?feature=shared Appearance Impact Theory Podcast - https://youtu.be/Gxmq9rWggqw?feature=shared Check out our website and follow us on social media for more content: Website - motuslearning.com Instagram - @motuslearning Facebook - @MotusLearning1 Twitter - @MotusL --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motus-learning/message
William Costello is an expert on incels, a rising star in the field of evolutionary psychology, and the latest protégé of Dr. David Buss. In this conversation, we discuss incel violence, demographics, mythology, perception vs. reality, and solutions to inceldom, among other things. There's still time to participate in Costello's cross-sex mind-reading study, here: https://utexas.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_38KyEyGDOs4stN4 You can keep up with Costello on Twitter, @CostelloWilliam: https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
Welcome back! In part two of our eye-opening episode with behavioral expert, writer, researcher, and PhD student at the Evolutionary Psych Lab, William Costello, we're diving deeper into the fascinating world of modern male behavior. In today's episode we're unraveling the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on dating behaviors, highlighting the contrast between men's renewed risk-taking stance and women's escalated risk aversion. Then, prepare to delve into the mind of the incel community. Gain insights into their societal outlook, their struggles, and the evident lack of constructive coping mechanisms. Finally, we'll explore how incels are empowered by AI to actively and healthily participate in dating and mating market. Discover how tech can foster better cross-sex understanding and transform social engagements. This isn't your typical podcast episode - it's a journey into understanding societal shifts that are shaping our world, and by tuning in, you're gaining valuable insights to navigate your own life better. So, are you ready to continue this journey with us? Hit that play button and let's dive in! And if you haven't already, be sure to subscribe for more empowering content and knowledge to help you level up your life! William Costello Quotes: “I can understand why an individual incel might elect to hunker down into victimhood identity and online worlds rather than engaging with the mating market they don't have much faith in.” “Incels are using their male typical psychology to try to not empathize with their female counterparts.” Follow William Costello: Website: https://william05227.wixsite.com/website Twitter: https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam Get ready to unlock your true potential and enjoy an unparalleled listening experience with our Impact Theory subscription service at https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at http://www.betterhelp.com/impacttheory and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today at butcherbox.com/IMPACT and use code IMPACT to get flank steak for free in every box for 3 months plus $20 off your first order. Check out Vessi styles at https://www.vessi.com/impact. Use codeIMPACT for 15% off your order. Go to hostinger.com/impact and use code IMPACT to get 10% OFF your new website! Get 20% OFF with our code IMPACT at calderalab.com/IMPACT. Unlock your youthful glow and be ready for summer with Caldera Lab! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are you ready to unravel the mysteries of modern male behavior? Buckle up for part one of a riveting two-part episode where we delve into the significant behavioral shifts in young men, marked by an increase in recklessness and a trend towards evading long-term commitments. Joining me today is William Costello, an expert on behavioral patterns, writer, researcher, and PhD student at the Evolutionary Psych Lab who will shed light on the rising recklessness, commitment-phobia among young men, and the emerging 'mating crisis'. We'll unpack the 'mating crisis', linking the drop in male commitment to relationships with the surge of women outpacing men in education. But that's not all! We'll also explore how dating apps and the internet have transformed the modern dating scene, giving rise to new socio-cultural phenomena like the 'incel' community. By tuning into this episode, you're signing up for more than just a podcast - you're stepping into a world of knowledge that will empower you to understand societal shifts and navigate your own life better. So, what are you waiting for? Hit that play button and embark on this journey with us. And don't forget to subscribe for more empowering content and knowledge that'll help you level up your life, and leave a review! William Costello Quotes: “For women I think that's very important, is that this boss b*tch energy, paper chasing throughout your twenties is running up against a ticking clock that people are reluctant to talk about because it's seen as quite sexist to highlight.” “You can complain about the world and wish it were different but you're not going to slow women down now.” “Both sexes could do better to understand and engage in better cross-sex mind-reading.” “Sex is a far more riskier endeavor for women” “Where you have massive biological differences between the sexes, we should expect some psychological differences underpinning them.” Follow William Costello: Website: https://william05227.wixsite.com/website Twitter: https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam Get ready to unlock your true potential and enjoy an unparalleled listening experience with our Impact Theory subscription service at https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Sponsors: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at http://www.betterhelp.com/impacttheory and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today at butcherbox.com/IMPACT and use code IMPACT to get flank steak for free in every box for 3 months plus $20 off your first order. Check out Vessi styles at https://www.vessi.com/impact. Use codeIMPACT for 15% off your order. Go to hostinger.com/impact and use code IMPACT to get 10% OFF your new website! Get 20% OFF with our code IMPACT at calderalab.com/IMPACT. Unlock your youthful glow and be ready for summer with Caldera Lab! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our magazine: https://www.aporiamagazine.com/ William Costello is a Ph.D. student of Evolutionary Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, where he is part of Dr. David Buss' lab. In 2021 William graduated with distinction with an MSc in Psychology, Culture and Evolution from Brunel University London. William's Master's dissertation was some of the world's first empirical research investigating the psychology of incels (involuntary celibates).
This week welcomes William Costello to the podcast. We discuss the world of modern dating, wants and expectations, the growing educational disparities between men and women, dating apps, the skill of flirting, traditional masculinity vs modern masculinity, modern independent women and new needs, the importance of communication, the difference of communication between men and women, and ability of men to think like women and the ability of women to think like men. All this and more on MOI! Thanks, William
In this episode, Xavier Bonilla has a discussion with William Costello about incels. They define sexuality more broadly and define incels and some of the features of incels. They discuss the importance of sexual selection and how incels are part of online culture and also outside of online culture. They talk about the “manosphere,” modern masculinity, and the different messages that men receive from society. They discuss the cultural perceptions of incels, violence, clinical treatment for incels, and many more topics.William Costello is a current PhD student in evolutionary psychology in David Buss' lab at the University of Texas, Austin. He has his MSc in psychology: evolution and culture from Brunel University, London. His research focuses on incels, individual differences and evolutionary psychology. You can find his work here. Twitter: @costellowilliam This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit convergingdialogues.substack.com
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In episode 158 of The Just Checking In Podcast our Founder Freddie Cocker reflected on how far we've come as a platform as we celebrated our fifth anniversary in September 2022. Freddie talks about the early days of Vent and setting up the website, how the idea for the JCIP began, the plethora of mental health issues we've covered on it in the 3.5 years its been going and how the podcast led to the creation of Just Checking In Live too. Freddie also describes the personal impact that doing Vent has had on his life in making him take ownership of his mental health recovery, changing his perspective on specific issues and what he hopes to achieve with it in the future. As always, #itsokaytovent You can listen to all of the JCIPs Freddie mentioned in this episode below: JCIP #3 - Dan Agnew: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-3-dan-agnew JCIP #4 - Lloyd Taylor: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-4-lloyd-taylor JCIP #10 - Freddie Cocker - Part 1: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-10-freddie-cocker-part-1 JCIP #10 - Freddie Cocker - Part 2: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-10-freddie-cocker-part-2 JCIP #12 - Matt Harrold: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-12-matt-harrold JCIP #46 - Alex Bartlett: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-46-alex-bartlett JCIP #49 - William Costello: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-49-william-costello JCIP #50 - James Lamb: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-50-james-lamb JCIP #63 - My Mate Matt: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-63-my-mate-matt JCIP #73- Ella Brooks - Part 1: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-73-ella-brooks-part-1 JCIP #73 - Ella Brooks - Part 2: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-73-ella-brooks-part-2 JCIP #87 - Robin Hadley: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-87-dr-robin-hadley JCIP #92 - Patricia Faulks: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-92-patricia-faulks JCIP #116 - Lesley Roberts: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-116-lesley-roberts JCIP #132 - TullipR: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-132-tullipr JCIP #141 - Micah Fanimo: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/jcip-141-micah-fanimo Behind The Decks - Louis La Roche: https://soundcloud.com/venthelpuk/behind-the-decks-louis-la-roche Support Us: Patreon: www.patreon.com/venthelpuk GoFundMe: www.gofundme.com/f/help-vent-supp…ir-mental-health Merchandise: www.redbubble.com/people/VentUK/shop Music: @patawawa - Strange: www.youtube.com/watch?v=d70wfeJSEvk
They are described as isolated, violent misogynists. So what draws men to the community of “incels” – or involuntary celibates? Do they hate women or are their reasons for rejecting sex more complex? Justin Quirk delves into the dark corners of the internet with William Costello, expert on the psychology of incels at the University of Austin at Texas, to find out how worried we should be about them. “You have a supply and demand problem – a skewed sex ratio.” “The sensationalising of incel violence is a worrying trend.” “The term ‘incel' first appeared on a lesbian forum in the late 1990s.” Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/bunkercast Written and presented by Justin Quirk. Lead Producer: Jacob Jarvis. Producers: Jacob Archbold, Jelena Sofronijevic and Alex Rees. Assistant producer: Kasia Tomasiewicz. Audio production by Jade Bailey. Music: Kenny Dickinson. Group editor: Andrew Harrison. THE BUNKER is a Podmasters Production. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Josh and William Costello discuss the findings of his research into incels and it's implication in understanding the sub-culture. They also discuss the evolutionary psychological understanding of mate preference and how this applies to modern dating.
Some people want to have sexual and romantic relationships but are unable to do so. They are involuntarily celibate. For some, this perceived inability to form and maintain sexual and romantic relationships becomes a defining feature of the self---a social identity known as "incel." In the popular media, incels tend to be characterized as misogynists and male supremecists who are prone to violence. However, the truth about incels is more complex, and it turns out that the incels aren't exactly who we think they are. So let's take a look inside the minds of incels. I am joined by William Costello, a PhD student at the University of Texas at Austin, where he is a member of Dr. David Buss's Evolutionary Psychology lab. He holds a Masters in Psychology, Culture, and Evolution from Brunel University London and his dissertation investigated the psychology of incels. Some of the topics we discuss include: Why incels have always been around, and how modern incels are different. Why changes in the mating market are creating more incels. What do people who identify as incel look like? Do they match up with the stereotypes (i.e., young, White, conservative)? Why popular dating advice given to incels isn't helpful. What the mental health of incels looks like. Are incels inherently prone to violence? To learn more about William, follow him on Twitter @CostelloWilliam Thanks to the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes (modernsextherapyinstitutes.com) and the Kinsey Institute (kinseyinstitute.org) for sponsoring this episode! Visit modernsextherapyinstitutes.com to explore programs and certifications in sex therapy and education. The Kinsey Institute's (kinseyinstitute.org) 75th anniversary is underway and you are invited to join in the celebration! Follow @kinseyinstitute on social media to learn more about upcoming events. Also, please consider a gift or donation to the Institute to support sex research and education. Click here to donate. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Get the manhood course here: https://roommatesshop.com This week on the podcast we are joined by William Costello to discuss the lives of incels, modern mating challenges, understanding of female nature and much more. Be sure to hit the subscribe button and get the manhood course via the link below. Sign up for Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/theroommates Follow Hafeez on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hafeezhtx/
William Costello is an evolutionary psychologist, writer and Ph.D. student at the University of Texas. Men being hopeless with women is not a new phenomenon. But them self-identifying and creating a subculture around being "genetic dead ends" definitely is. William conducted some of the world's first research into the underlying psychological profile of incels to find out just what's going on. Expect to learn why 45% of working age women will be single and childless by 2030, why many incels would rather bond over failure than over trying to improve, why women dating down is causing huge problems, whether Leonardo DiCaprio should date people his own age, whether incels are alt-right, why the claim that incels are all white men is superbly wrong and much more... Sponsors: Get £150 discount on Eight Sleep products at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and Free Shipping from Athletic Greens at https://athleticgreens.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Get the Whoop 4.0 for free and get your first month for free at http://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Extra Stuff: Follow William on Twitter - https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
In this episode, I spoke with William Costello. William recently wrote the first academic paper discussing the psychology of Incels. He is currently a PhD student at the University of Texas at Austin where he's a member of Dr. David Buss's Evolutionary Psychology lab. Together we discussed hypergamy, the characteristics of the average incel, the psychology of incels, causes for the increase in female infidelity, the black pill worldview, and much more. Thanks for tuning in. If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Well it was a heavy news week in the incelosphere, and the news is always bad, so we begin this episode with a deconstruction and a rant. As an antidote, today's episode features an interview with friend of the pod and brilliant researcher, William Costello (@costellowilliam), whose Masters thesis about incels produced some encouraging and enlightening results. "Girls and Boys" (1994) by Blur, courtesy of Parlophone Records. ————————————————————- Check out William's new survey at: https://twitter.com/costellowilliam/status/1498598214286688258?s=21—————————————————————— Please check out my all new Patreon for ad-free, uncensored episodes and weekly blogs! https://www.patreon.com/NaamaKates ——————————————————————— INCEL is created and produced by Naama Kates for Crawlspace Media. Music by Cyrus Melchor. —————————————————————— If you or someone you know is struggling emotionally, or having a hard time, please call someone, or contact one of the excellent resources provided below. —————————————————————— Suicide Prevention Lifeline w: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ t: 1.800.273.8255 —————————————————————— Samaritans Website: https://www.samaritans.org and telephone (UK): 116.123 —————————————————————— Please contact Naama at INCEL with any comments, inquiries, or just random thoughts: e: theincelproject@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/incel/support
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William Costello is working on a Masters degree in Evolutionary Psychology, leading into a Doctorate. His thesis, which lays the groundwork for his dissertation, concerns Incel culture, its relationship to victimhood and mental health, with insights into how society can better understand these young men. Get yourself more William Costello: https://linktr.ee/CostelloWilliam Support this channel by sharing your favorite episodes: https://www.paypal.me/benjaminboyce --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/calmversations/message
MASSACHUSETTS, 1933: When Captain William Costello was found unresponsive on his bathroom floor, the responding doctor assumed he suffered a heart attack. No sooner was the last flower laid at his tomb did the rumors begin to swirl. It seemed no one believed the Fire Captain died of anything natural. All eyes were on his wife, Mrs. Jessie Costello, who seemed to love the attention. This is the story of William Costello and his wife, Jessie Costello. Episode sources are listed at darkdowneast.com.
In this episode of Mind On The Game, returning guest William Costello comes back onto the podcast to talk about his love affair with Gaelic Football. The Irish sport is a combination of rugby, football, handball and a bit of hockey as well and is a complete outlier in its uniqueness. The only sport that comes close to being as unique is Aussie Rules Football. In this shorter MOTG episode we discuss Will's special relationship with the sport, how its given him joy and distraction, a nostalgic link to his home when playing it in the UK, its rich history and how it can provide a coping mechanism for many people struggling with addiction, especially alcohol. As always, #itsokaytovent Follow William on social media below: Twitter: https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam You can also read Will's Areo article that we discussed here: https://areomagazine.com/2020/09/23/how-sport-can-reduce-racism-an-irish-case-study/ Patreon: www.patreon.com/venthelpuk Music: @patawawa - Strange: www.youtube.com/watch?v=d70wfeJSEvk
In the forty-ninth episode of the Just Checking In Podcast we spoke to William Costello. Will is an Irish writer studying Evolutionary Psychology at Brunel University London. William has debated publicly at Universities around the UK about feminism, masculinity and gender/identity politics. Masculinity, the dating economy, incel culture and of course, a mental health chat are all on the menu. As always, #itsokaytovent Follow Will on social media below: Twitter: https://twitter.com/CostelloWilliam You can read the article about incels Will discussed here: https://medium.com/@williamcostello/step-your-dick-up-why-incels-deserve-better-advice-307879d7c97b?source=---------4------------------ You can read other articles Will has written on his Medium page here: https://medium.com/@williamcostello You can also watch the Goldsmiths University debate we referenced on the pod Will participated in here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UQy-EJ0iNQ Music: @patawawa - Strange: www.youtube.com/watch?v=d70wfeJSEvk