Annoyed Not Offended

In this episode of "Annoyed Not Offended," we sit down with Leslie Hughes, the inspiring creator and founder of Frizzy by Nature. Leslie shares her journey of finding self-acceptance and purpose after losing her mother, Michelle Flowers. Through her own experiences, Leslie discovered the transformative power of embracing her natural state, both externally and internally. This led her to establish Frizzy by Nature, a platform dedicated to encouraging confidence and providing valuable resources for women on their self-love journey. We delve into the incredible impact Frizzy by Nature has had on the community, including their flagship event, Frizz Fest, which has become a beacon of celebration and support in the lives of countless individuals. This episode will inspire you to embrace your frizz and find freedom in loving yourself, just as Leslie has done through her remarkable organization. Don't miss Frizz Fest's 2023 in Tower Grove Park on Saturday, September 16. This is a free event. However, donations are greatly appreciated as this event is hosted by Frizzy By Nature, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. Visit https://frizzybynature.com/ for more details.  If you haven't already, follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended   

In this captivating episode, we welcome the multi-talented Rinny Perkins, a dynamic queer Black artist whose creativity knows no bounds. Join us as we explore her latest book, "Not Everyone Is Going to Like You: Thoughts From a Former People Pleaser," a captivating graphic collection of mini-essays that takes us on a profound journey through various aspects of life. From mental health and work to sex, dating, and the complexities of family and friendships, Rinny fearlessly shares her personal experiences with humor and authenticity. With a diverse background in acting, writing, and visual art, she offers a unique perspective on self-validation in a world that perpetually seeks external approval. Tune in to this empowering conversation, filled with relatable anecdotes, and prepare to be inspired. Don't miss out on Rinny's relatable and hilarious content by following her on Instagram @rinnyriot . Support by purchasing a copy of ‘Not Everyone is Going to Like You' at https://www.rinnyriot.com/ or tuning into 'Grand Crew' on NBC to see her character Jordan If you haven't already, follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended 

Hey friends! This week Syd welcomes two special guests, MaRah and Taz who host the true crime podcast, Sistas Who Kill that focuses on Black women who commit crimes. They share their unique perspective on why they chose to explore Black female killers/victims and how they navigate the complexities of discussing race and gender in their show. Throughout the episode, we delve into some of the most intriguing cases they have covered and discuss the ways in which society often stereotypes and misunderstands Black women who commit crimes. Both ladies provide insight into how they strive to shed light on the individual stories and circumstances of each case, rather than perpetuating harmful myths and biases. We also touch on the importance of giving a platform to underrepresented voices and communities, and how this can challenge our preconceived notions and broaden our understanding of the world around us. Keep up with the latest cases MaRah and Taz are covering on their show by giving them a follow on Instagram @SistasWhoKillPod If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended

Well, well, well, look who it is! You guys life has been very busy as of lately. Between additional opportunities, work, vacation and just life, the schedule has been packed. But Syd is back in the studio for a quick solo catch up. The episode is inspired by Kari Faux's single, Me First, which is an affirmation about not neglecting your needs. Even Kari herself said in an interview, “it's really a self-love bop for the twerkers.” Syd chats about the difficulties of putting yourself first. Whether it's setting boundaries, stepping outside of yourself or learning when to say no, these are practices most people aren't taught and have to learn how to put into practice. Yet, taking care of yourself is the easiest path to happiness and fulfillment because when your needs are met you can easily meet others.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

We're back with a new episode and this week's guest appearance is long overdue. Syd is happy to be joined by Lonette, creator & host of the online platform, AuthenticityTV. On the platform, she showcases authentic conversations on topics within the black community, such as online dating, entrepreneurship, polyamory and much more. During this episode, the ladies discuss the ups and downs of being a content creator. Today, you're not only being pushed to produce content 24/7 but competing with thousands of other creators for the decreasing attention span of consumers. While you can opt to say the most outrageous thing for a viral moment to stand out in the creator economy, you'll need to be creative, authentic and consistent.  Support a Black creative this Black History Month and tune into AuthenticityTV, available on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. You can also give Lonette a follow for the latest at @_lonette.   If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com   Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.   

Hey friends! We're back with a new episode and new guests. Syd is joined by friends of the show and ex-coworkers whom she loves, Jenn and Rodney. Despite no longer working together the three have tons in common including being Black employees within corporate America. Despite all efforts by corporations to drive more diversity, equity and inclusion internally, research has proven time and time again Black employees face more stress compared to other groups. Workplace cultures and policies don't always create equitable work environments for Black professionals. Throughout the episode the trio discuss creating a work life balance, the politics of emails and so much more. The episode ends with a quick snippet about the latest fraudsters in the news. Want to stay abreast of what my guests are up to? Give my two favorite Black professionals a follow on Instagram at JennifervFowler and Rodsquad90. If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

We have officially arrived in 2023! 2022 was a lot but that door has closed so this episode is all about 2023!. Syd brings in the year with a solo situation, ready to kick it off with everything she's looking forward to this year. Yes, starting off on a good note contrary to the title of the show, as she dives into music, personal antedotes, spirirtuality and more. Btw, what are you all looking forward to or have planned? DM us or let us know in the comments on Instagram.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

Hey friends! We're calling all music lovers for this week's episode. This week Syd is joined by Alexandria, creator of Black Girls Love Vinyl. A collective dedicated toward everything music and vinyl. Alexandria created the page to pay homage to her love of music and the budding community online of collectors. Throughout the conversation the ladies discuss how their portfolio of music has expanded, the art of vinyls and why it's so aesthetically pleasing as well. Considering music is so deeply embedded in Black culture, it's amazing to see how much music has been influential along with its audience.  Music is for everyone but if you're a fan or collector of vinyls give a follow @Black Girls Love Vinyl or follow Alexandria at Shy.Daze. If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com 

Hey friends! We're back with a new episode and a new guest. This week Syd is joined by Rashida, co-host of The Grieving Mamas Club Podcast, a podcast community for those on the wild ride of navigating a grief journey. We've all heard of the 5 stages of grief, but no one talks about the redirection within everyone's own personal experience. Grief isn't something you inherently move past but instead learn to live with. The ladies discuss their own experiences with death, lessons from loss and the range of strong emotions. Rashida reminds us that there can be joy after death and how to normalize sadness .   The holidays can be a sensitive time for resurfacing grief and understanding loss. Give my guest Rashida's show a listen at The Grieving Mamas Club Podcast and a follow at The Grieving Mamas Club Podcast to live and laugh through the cycles of grief.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com 

Hey friends! We're back with a new episode and a few guests! Sydney is joined this week by close and dear friends, Jasmine and Breiona for a conversation about friendship. Considering the ladies have all known each other since high school and have had loads of vulnerable moments together, nothing is off limits. Throughout the conversation the ladies discuss traits they look for in friends, growing apart and how their platonic relationships have evolved with their own growth. As the saying goes, good friends are hard to come by.  Give my newest guest, Breiona J a follow on Instagram and book her for all your lash and beauty services Eyedealistic by Breiona J.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

It's been awhile but welcome back! Syd is back with a solo episode and ready to catch up. Life has recently felt like a bad Tyler Perry play but Syd is doing her best to hang in there. Starting off with a bit of venting and accountability, this week's episode is all about distinguishing your intuition from unhealed trauma. Syd had recently come across a TikTok published by Tarot by Bronx, where they described the difference between honoring your intuition while being mindful of past unhealed trauma. Easier said than done considering trauma can coexist with your intuition. Yet, intuition is often more subtle and typically leds you to the route of peace, joy and clarity even in the fact of a difficult decisions.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Hey friends! Looks like the show wasn't completely abandoned and we have a new guest. This week's hilarious episode features friend of the show and fellow Virgo, Laila. She and Sydney spend time breaking down what has had them completely fed up over the last few weeks and why 9 a.m. work meetings should be illegal. The ladies also discuss dating shows considering every few months a new one appears on the latest streaming platform. What is it about dating shows that gets people so addicted? Between The Bachelor, Love is Blind, Temptation Island and even Flavor of Love, each show puts an interesting spin on relationships, sex and intimacy. Throughout the conversation the ladies further contemplate if people who participate in the shows are iconic and delusionally optimistic.   If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new content! Apologies for the two week hiatus but Syd is back in the studio with a new amazing guest this week. She's joined by Tonja Stidhum, writer, producer and director, who's credits you might've seen in The Root, GQ and Blavity. As a lover of all things pop culture the ladies take a deep dive into the world of all things Beyonce. They can't help but be fans of her seventh studio album, Renaissance. The album itself is a fusion of dance, pop and R&B and pays homage to Black and queer icons while exploring pleasure, self love, and expression. Throughout the conversation the ladies share more of their experiences as BeyHive members, favorites singles and how Beyonce continues to shape her legacy. Interested in being entertained by Tonja, tune into her web series, WingChick or visit her website, www.tonjareneestidhum.com. You can also give her a follow at @tonjastidhum If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new content! Syd is back in the studio with a new guest this week. She's happy to be joined by Kierston, creator and owner of Peaxe Pipes. Originating as a creative endeavor, Peaxe Pipes was an opportunity for personal experimentation to upcycle antique glassware. He quickly noticed a need for more pieces like it and how those that smoke know that as casual of an experience it can be, it is also a ritual or ceremony of sorts. Throughout the conversation Syd and Kierston discuss cannabis equity, why special acts call for special tools and making a craft your own.  Interested in owning your own beautiful piece of upcycled antiques for your smoking or aesthetic pleasure, go to peaxepipes.com or @PeaxePipes. Also, give our guest a follow at KierstonClark.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

We're back and better with a guest. Joined by her close friend, Syd is happy to have Christina step in for a conversation on asserting boundaries and the accountability of prioritizing yourself! Again, as 20-somethings it's a lot we have to learn about straightforwardness. Both ladies agree that boundaries may be a bit looser in early-adulthood but as you grow more into yourself, you realize what you will and will not deal with. This can touch various facets of your life including intimate relationships, friendships, work, family and more.  Feel free to follow my favorite Gemini, Christina on IG at @stinaa___ and her blog @black.berrytea with a website as well! If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

It's been awhilebut hey friends! Syd is back with a solo situation, ready to catch up. As of lately it seems like the world is on fire but there is hope that brighter days are on the horizon. Syd jumps in her psychology bag and breaks down how excessively thinking distracts many people from living in the present. Often people are either stuck in the past or anxiously awaiting the future. This is due to being able to rewrite either option. The past can be controted to seem better than it actually was while the future contains an enormous amount of possibilities. Yet, there are plenty of concious ways we can root ourselves to be more present in our own lives.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new content! Happy to say there are two guests featured on this week's episode. Syd is joined by Elgin and Travis of the Call of Duty: Black Dads podcast. Both Elgin and Travis are fathers of two children navigating the world of parenthood as Black men. Throughout the episode they all discuss the best parts of fatherhood, how their own relationships with their fathers influenced them and why it;s okay if your children have to learn the hard way. And while Syd is currently childless she agrees with the guys that respect is a must in any child-parent relationship.  Support Black fathers reclaiming the narrative on Elgin (@yoboiel)  and Travis's (@ol_eddie_kane') show Call of Duty Black Dads and follow them on IG: @c.o.d.blackdads If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new content! Back with an exciting episode and new guest! Syd is joined by Kennedy Moore, reproductive freedom organizer at Pro-Choice Missouri and activist. A little over two weeks ago in a historic and far-reaching decision The U.S. Supreme Court reversed Roe v Wade, which allowed the constitutional right to abortion. A decision that stood for over five decades, has ultimately vanished. Many are now asking what this means for American women's right to privacy, access to abortions and other reproductive rights that are in jeopardy. Consider this is an attack on public health, we dive deeper into how everyone can continue fighting for abortion access and steps needed to rebuild.  Join the fight to rebuild abortion access within Missouri by visting Pro-Choice Missouri Donations: https://prochoicemissouri.org/donate-rebuild-abortion/Pledging to Rebuild Abortion Access in Missouri: https://secure.everyaction.com/Xn3lykrjEUa1QvozgrEDQQ2 Supporting Students for Sex Ed: https://secure.everyaction.com/HNYnmbWd7EGtIKhOuJBznQ2. Also give our guest Kennedy a follow at @temitheewomanist If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

New week, new content! Sydney steps in this week for a solo interview with the guest. She's happy to be joined by Morgan, creator of Healthy Hoe merchandise and blogger at The Organic Savage. Back in 2018, Morgan made a lifestyle change and jumped into becoming a vegan. For 3 years she learned a lot about healthy eating habits, cooking and more, yet over a period of time began to have a different mind frame . Both ladies dive into discussing dieting trends and their own relationships with food including their own perspectives about the rise of veganism. Throughout the conversation both ladies agree that they're more comfortable with a lifestyle that allows flexible and healthy eating and doesn't have to feel restricted. The healthy hoe lifestyle is about doing what's best for your health based on your own thoughts and desires.  Although our guest is undergoing a bit of rebranding follow Morgan on Instagram at Miss_Morganandrea and her blog theorganicsavage___ If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new content! This week's episode features Kendall and Sydney with a guest (finally!) The duo is happy to be joined by Tatiyahna, an old friend and licensed master social worker studying to be a licensed therapist to chat all about therapy and mental health. The ladies discuss what led Tati becoming a licensed therapist, which started with her own journey to dedicate energy to wellness. We all agree that while the stigma around therapy is lifting there are still a lot of misconceptions and barriers preventing people from seeking the counseling they need. Yet, therapy can help you learn about what you're feeling, why you might be feeling it, and how to cope. Therapy also offers a safe place to talk through life challenges with an unbiased listening ear.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

What's crackin! This week's episode is a solo situation with just Kendall and Sydney discussing a very controversial topic or shall we say divisive word. Fair warning, throughout this episode we're talking about and using the N-word. From its unspeakable origins to how it's now used as a term of endearment in culture, film and more, there are a lot of complicated feelings surrounding the word considering it is still a racial slur. The ladies speak more about their own relation to the word, who should and shouldn't be allowed to use it (hint hint not non-Blacks) and more. Lastly, the ladies discuss a failed murder attempt by the NYPD. If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Yooo! After a two week hiatus, Kenny and Syd are back for another episode, along with a new guest. Joining us is Chelsea Nicole, author of Provision and Submission: Insight into a Black Cultural Conundrum, which takes a look at the infamous conceptualized belief regarding heterosexual monogamous couples: “Men are expected to provide, and women are expected to submit.” Interesting huh? All of the ladies agree the statement is both outdated and misogynist but the animosity surrounding the notion continues to further taint the Black dating pool. Throughout the discussion Chelsea share's her inspiration for the book, misconceptions of the dynamic and why we should let go of trying to “out-toxic” potential romantic interests.  Support Black authors by purchasing Chelsea's book, Provision and Submission: Insight into a Black Cultural Conundrum, on Amazon. You can also give her a follow on IG @withlovecnj If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Hey friendzzz! It's been awhile but Sydney and Kendall are in the studio this week. While this may be the shortest episode they've recorded, it is still packed with hilarity. The ladies catch up while discussing ex's trying to rekindle a flame, forcing someone to be your boo and more. Kendall is tired of dating apps and is ready to be swept off her feet by a true romantic like herself. Ironically, even dating apps that prove to be a bit more exclusive show options that are quite lackluster. Lastly, the ladies touch on the leaked Roe vs Wade opinion and the extreme lengths that are being pushed to take control of women's bodies. With abortion access on the line support Planned Parenthood Action Fund.    If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com    Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

Hey friendzzz! We are back with just Sydney and Kendall in the studio this week. Recently, Sydney reconnected with a past friend after no contact for 5 years. While it took time for both parties to put their differences aside, this new chapter seems promising. Rekindling old friendships or past relationships can be a doozy to say the least. Often we ask ourselves will history just repeat itself or do we truly have the opportunity to learn from each other as new people? Both ladies agree there is nothing wrong with reconnecting but don't have expectations that the relationship will start back up at the depth it existed years ago. Ironically, Kendall receives an interesting text during this episode.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Hello, gracious listeners! Apologies for the delay in this episode, which was late due to technical difficulties. Joined by writer and owner of The Noir Bookshop, Ymani stops by to talk about the concept behind Noir and her journey of opening a Black-owned bookshop on the Southside of St. Louis. Statistics show Black-owned bookshops only make up a small portion of Indie bookstores within the United States at only 6%. Despite this, Ymani hasn't allowed this to hinder her but plans for the pillars of the bookshop to bring more into her community. Black bookshops can serve as gathering spaces, support emerging authors and provide educational programs. As self-described well read Black girls Ymani and Syd discuss their favorite novels, authors and why some series were left better as books instead of television series.  For more exciting news regarding the soft-opening of Noir or order a few of the books we discussed online at @TheNoirBookshop and  you can follow Ymani @YmaniWince  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com   Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Let's start off by saying, Happy Women's History Month! Kenny is out for this week's episode but Sydney is holding down the fort with this week's guest. Joined by wellness artist, doula and writer, DaTiana stops by to talk about holding space as a healer for those looking for support in their reproductive journeys. Recent statistics show within the U.S. the rise of maternal mortality, which is highest among Blacks and Latinos. Doulas not only support the physical and emotional changes you experience throughout pregnancy but they provide education. Time and time again doulas advocate for their patients thus allowing them to become confident in advocating for themselves. Whether you are a mother, planning to be one in the future or not at all interested there's a lot discussed within this episode that can resonate with anyone.  Give our healing consultant wellness writer, curator and revolutionary baby momma a follow on her social platforms on IG @datianaguerrero or visit her website at datiana.com If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Hey friendzzz! The ladies are back in the studio with just themselves. We had additional listener submissions from our Valentine's Day episode, which we read this episode for ‘Red Flag or Nah?' and ‘Last Dating Fed Up or F*cked Up.' This episode is also popping hot as Kendall shared her recent run in with a reality television star on a very popular dating series. Based on her experience, we pose the question of if you should snitch on a serial cheater? We both see nothing wrong with it and further discuss dignity/respect in relationships. Also, can we all agree that the Euphoria season finale was a bit underwhelming? If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. Visit the website as well at anopodcast.com  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

It's still February, which means it's still Black History Month! We're back with a new episode and new guests, as promised. Joined by Shannon Clash, a friend of the show and nationally recognized storyteller, this week's discussion focuses on the time of year when we celebrate and honor all of the contributions African Americans have made to this country. Yet, with every BHM that rolls around we feel as though we're still fighting to be recognized. Throughout the episode we share our own experiences with learning Black history, intersectionality and recent efforts to restrict how schools teach about Black history, race and racism. Interestingly, our conversation leads back to the fallacy of White ‘discomfort'. We all agree that while Black history is integral to our national narrative, Black people should not be tokenized to educate non-Black Americans.  Give our amazing guest, Shannon a follow on Instagram and Twitter to keep up with more of her visionary storytelling. If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Love is in the air baby! We're back with a new episode and new guests as requested. Joined by DeVon and Stu, this week's discussions focus on Valentine's Day, every annoyance that comes with the holiday. Getting deeper into our dating/romance bag, we share listener submissions of romantic fed up or f*cked ups and our own love languages. One piece of advice we all agree on is being good with you first. Plus sending additional love to those in our life for platonically and familial reasons.    Follow our lovely guests on Instagram Stu - @stu.fisher and DeVon - @flightschool33.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Yooooooooo! We're back with a new episode.  Kenny and Sydney dive into a heavier topic as they discuss winter time blues..The ladies get open and honest about mental health. Considering Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) affects more than 16.1 million American adults, it's not uncommon to hear about people battling chronic depression. Yet, we try our best to mask these feelings of sadness and hopelessness.  TRIGGER WARNING: there is mention of both depression and suicide during this episode. Often to clear our mind of the clutter and keep ourselves on track it's best to do an audit of your stress.  If you or someone you know is in emotional distress or a suicidal crisis, please call (800)-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Yooooo! We're back and we have exciting news. Syd is happy to share that this week's guest will be co-hosting a few upcoming episodes with her. Yes, friend of the show and two-time guest, Kenny will be helping Syd co-host, Annoyed Not Offended. The ladies have plenty in common as they discuss working in corporate communication,relationships, their obsessions with skincare and somehow end up discussing which Avenger they'd see themselves as. Let just say you all are infor plenty of humorous and fun conversations.  We already know you couldn't get enough of this episode. Give our new co-host a follow on her curated and perfected Instagram @KendallAHerbert.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

We have officially arrived in 2022! Syd brings in the year with a solo situation, ready to remind us that while it is a new year, there's nothing wrong staying completely the same. At the beginning of every single year we see so many posts about fresh starts, shedding dead weight and how we'll finally mold ourselves into who we want to become. Yet, no one ever includes that it's actually quite challenging to do a complete 180 in our own lives. Rewiring bad habits and behavior is not something that's done overnight. Even though most people are aware of this we still beat ourselves up. If anything we should challenge ourselves to be okay with trying to make progress and still having lapses here and there. Don't ever let the journey of self improvement turn into self hatred.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended. Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com 

‘‘Twas the night before Christmas…..we dropped an episode! Syd is joined this week by homegirls in chaos, McKenzie and Kenny for a hilarious episode. Between inflation, Omicron and climate change, the holidays feel a lot different than before. We all think we'd be better off by just rescheduling this year's festivities. Yet despite that there are plenty of funny holiday memories to get us by. Also, for some reason we discuss taxes during this episode

Back and better….or should we say bitter? It's a solo situation this week with just Syd. But she has enough resentment and bitterness for a studio of 4. However, in all seriousness the conversation for this episode focuses on grudge holding. Why does holding a grudge get such a bad rap? By grudge I mean a persistent feeling of ill will or resentment resulting from a past insult or injury. We've always been told holding a grudge is bad for you but I think holding a grudge can present a few benefits. If anything you may learn to stick to your boundaries and take more time to process. If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Back at it again! Looks like we've kept our promise for this week with another new and exciting guest. Syd is joined by Karin Freeland, speaker, life coach and author of the hilariously relatable novel, “The Ins and Outs of My Vagina: A Penetrating Memoir.” The ladies discuss everything from floundering through puberty, gynecologist appointments,  accepting your body and why your esthetician asking you to get on all fours can be quite awkward. Did you even know that only 20% of women can achieve orgams through penetration? Overall, vaginas are actually amazing organs and if anything they can tell you a lot about how your life is going. So if you have one make sure you're listening attentively.  If you have a vagina or love hearing more about them make sure to order Karin's book, “The Ins and Outs of My Vagina: A Penetrating Memoir,”  via Amazon or give her a follow on Instagram @KarinFreeland If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

What's up! Fair warning, y'all are in for a great ass episode this week. Rapper, creative and mental health advocate, Sir Eddie C joins Syd for a discussion about leveraging your talent as a musician. In an industry as competitive and cut throat as entertainment, talent and popularity can only get artists so far. There are many levels to receiving a major record deal, but there are only a few artists who attain this and actually benefit. Touching on Soundcloud, streaming, 360-deals and management, we navigate the best route for artists to thrive. Again, we're super appreciative of Eddie for dropping gems and being open about his journey within the industry.  Go ahead and support this week's guest by checking out all of his dope music, along with a follow for Eddie at @SirEddieC. He's headed to the top, so you really don't want to miss out on his journey.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

We'd ask if you missed us but we already know the answer!  This week's episode is a solo situation with just Syd in the studio. Outside of life moving as fast as possible, this episode is about taking a moment to catch your breath and bring a bit of clarity into your life. Moving on from any bad situation, such as a bad relationship, friendship turned sour or even letting go of what you thought was your dream career, requires a bit of self-forgiveness. Self-forgiveness enables you to separate who you are from the mistakes you have made. However, it's often easier said than done.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended.https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

What's up compadres! We're back in the studio with a new guest for this week's episode. Syd is joined this week by the latest comedian out of the South, Kyndra Crump. Both witty and hilarious, Kyndra share's more about how she got into comedy and her knack for making skits on Instagram. As a female comedian, she's had her share of wtf's in the entertainment industry but despite the adversities laughing about it is always the best medicine.  If you're in need of a laugh check out Kyndra's comedy skits on her platform and a follow on Instagram @thekyndracrumpshow  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

What's up all! Syd is joined this week by a new acquaintance, who's come on to discuss a rather serious issue, cyberstalking. Happy to be joined by another Black woman, Amber and Syd discuss the frightening reality of cyberstalking.  More common than we think, 41% of Americans have personally experienced some form of online harassment.  Most times the stalking is carried out by someone the victim knows, usually an ex-spouse, ex-partner or former associate. Considering how much we often share online it's scary to know there's the potential for someone to become obsessed with you and tracking your every move.  Give our guest Amber a follow on Instagram at @bayou.blipster. Also, if you and anyone you know is currently dealing with a harassment online, visit https://www.thecyberhelpline.com/guides/cyber-stalking If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

Back and better after a cute 2-week break! However, we have a great explanation as to why we were missing in action. It just so happened that we were a part of a wedding! Syd is joined by longtime friend and newlywed, Jazzmine aka Mrs. Parrish. We can say that the wedding was pretty much the event of the year and a beautiful occasion. Yet, despite the joy in the air we knew a few annoyances would lurk in the shadows. For this episode we'll quickly chat about how people go about annoying newlyweds with probing questions. Don't think those annoying questions will stop once you say "I do", there are a whole host of new questions people will annoy you with. If you're curious to take a peak at those gorgeous wedding photos we discussed, give Mrs. Parrish a follow on Instagram at @JazzParrish__ If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Did you miss us? Welp,here we are back with another episode. DeAndre aka Mr. Everlasting, co-host of Tha Souf Got Sumthin 2 Say and The Safe Word joins Syd for a discussion on polyamory. Inspired by the book, The Ethical Slut, she and her guest explore the dynamic of non-monogamous relationships. Touching on myths regarding polyamorous lifestyles both agree that non traditional relationships require more communication, honesty and trust. If your entire reason for becoming poly is to acquire as many sexual encounters as possible, we'd advise you to seek otherwise. Also, it seems as though Only Fans made headlines about it's recent backtrack on banning sexually explicit content. Guess what that means? Go ahead and support this week's guest by checking out both of his podcasts,The Safe Word w/ Mystique and Mr.Everlasting or Tha Souf Got Sumthin 2 Say, along with a follow for DeAndre at @officialeterniti If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

Hey friends and friends of friends! We're back with a solo situation for this week's episode. Syd dives into the notion of not selling yourself short and setting standards in your life. Ironically, our society often tells us to set standards but not to make them too high. Throughout the episode Syd shares about finding balance in setting standards and helping yourself align with what you want to excel at. If they're too low, you risk people walking over you and being directionless but if they're too high, you may feel like you're always falling short of who you want to be. If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Hey Friendz! Seems as though we managed to whip up an episode for this week despite how chaotic life has gotten. Joined by podcast host of Sweetened with Ash Lemonade and might I say longtime guest of the podcast, Ashley shows up and out as she always does. Both Ashley and Syd had the pleasure of celebrating the 1-Year Anniversary of their podcasts. While the endeavour has allowed both women to tap into another side of their creativity, everything comes with challenges. Yet despite them, both women are still triumphing through and assessing the best way to reach their goals. Also, LMAO at the pause break while Ashley checked on her neckbones. We love duality.  If you want more of this wholesome content, check out Syd and Ash's previous episode WDN or tune in for more of Ash's culturally curated content at Sweetened Podcast with Ash Lemonade. Make sure to follow Ash and the podcast on Instagram @sweetendedpodcast @iamashlemonade If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Hey Friendzzz! We're back with an episode this week, which I'm sure is our funniest episode yet. Yes, Syd has once again forced her friends to join her for an episode, including this week's guests Selah and Kendall. Lol so they actually weren't forced and enjoyed being part of this week's conversation as we discussed Girl Code. Known as the unwritten ethics and rules women tend to abide by in the name of friendship, we discuss it all! Between sex, dating, being a good wingwoman and sometimes hoping in the back of unidentifiable SUV trucks nothing is off limits. Also, while we do claim these as what can make or break a friendship, it seems as though most of it is just common sense. Lastly, all of the ladies agree that they are tired of seeing baby shower announcements for Nick Cannon. It's disgusting. If you love my guests as much as I do please follow them online at @selah.v and @kendallaherbert. I'm sure you were already curious to see who they were, so hit that follow button.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Yerrrrrr! Back in the mf building. Nothing like a solo episode for this week's episode with Syd. Sharing her continued annoyance with the willingly ignorant, we still don't understand why people willing defend individuals they don't know. Is it a mental illness?  But on to other things, Syd provides a bit of a wildcard episode by answering a few off the wall questions. If you've been listening for awhile it's bit like our first episode, so why not take a trip down memory lane.  If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Back to business and churning out another episode! Syd is joined by a guest whose show she also had the pleasure of appearing on, Reece L. co-host of Carbon Ops Rawcast. Discussing a more serious, yet untouched topic the pair get real about controlling partners in intimate relationships. A partner who's controlling or overly dominant can be detrimental to a relationship even if the control tactics are subtle and passive. We both agree that control is often about a level of respect one partner refuses to give the other due to their own insecurities. If you even find yourself being controlling, take a step back and look at why you feel everything must go your way.  Go ahead and support this week's guest by listening to S1 of his podcast, Carbon Ops Rawcast or a follow @co2rawcast, along with a follow for Reece at @goodeveningmrblack If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Back after a quick a break! We're happy to be back and brining a new guest. Syd is joined this week by the ZenMami herself, Nia Hendrix host of the podcasts, Keep that Same Zenegery and The Goods. Focused on trying to stay zen during all the commotion and agitation of everyday life we discuss the annoyances of being someone that's laid back trying to keep the peace. Often we're so busy trying to keep up with the hustle and bustle of life, we take the time for ourselves to release those small stressors. At the end of the day, it's always worth it to check out from your surroundings and check in with yourself.  Find your own peace of mind by tuning into Nia's podcast, The Lex Mix and follow on IG @Keepthatsamezenergy, along with a follow for Nia at @niahendrix_ If you haven't already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

Late but better late than never! Going into this week with a solo situation, Syd is up discussing how the people who want to be most helpful usually are the least. We've all come across Negative Ninnies who can offer criticism without offering a solution. She also goes more into the notion of thinking you should have it all together before you can actually prosper in life. We’re all guilty of thinking well “Once I get this accomplished, I’m set and I’ll be happy….but until then…” Yet in reality, we're missing out on how perfect the present is and the fact that literally no one has it 100% figured out.  If you haven’t already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new content! Syd is joined this week by long-time friend Kameron to chat about what some people will never understand about being biracial. This topic comes at a time when race relations in America are very much at peak chaoticness. We dive into what it's like being biracial in a country that is as segregated as it is diverse. Considering most of the population is still confused by the difference in ethnicity, race and nationality, why is there always the expectation to only identify with one side of your background? While there may be some complexities compared to being a single-raced person, we both agree that identity is generally shaped by the culture you feel most comfortable and should not be forced upon anyone.  If you enjoyed this conversation then follow Kameron on Instagram at @kammycarlonne and as he said before if you know any youth in need contact the street outreach program for his org, Youth in Need at (314) 280-0941. If you haven’t already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com. 

After a short two week, we’re happy to be back with a new episode! Syd is joined by music aficionado, Lex of The Lex Mix, a weekly music playlist curated according to the latest and greatest of all genres. Inspired by the most recent documentary ‘Tina’ focused on the legendary and iconic, Tina Turner, we chat about her story. Like many musicians today she faced hardship and strife but used her undying passion for music to propel herself into stardom. Like can you imagine the annoyance of creating a lane unlike anyone before you yet only receiving your credit much later on? Surprisingly this isn’t uncommon in terms of Black musicians.    If you enjoy music as much as my guest this week subscribe to her weekly music playlist, The Lex Mix and follow it’s Twitter @TheLexMix, along with a follow for Lex at @_lexxtherexx If you haven’t already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com.

New week, new episode! We’re back but not sure if we’re exactly better. Syd shares how she's pretty much at wits end with being completely depleted and exhausted. As she looked further into it she’s realized she’s sorta nearing a burnout. Quite common considering our society’s culture of working and giving our all until we have nothing left, burnout occurs when you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unable to meet constant demands. If being burned out is more than annoying since the longer you ignore it the worse it gets. For all those like Syd, overworked and mentally exhausted try to schedule some sort of rest.  If you haven’t already, make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @AnnoyedNotOffended. https://linktr.ee/AnnoyedNotOffended  Let me judge your annoyances both big and small to see if you should be annoyed or offended. Email them to AnnoyedNotOffended@gmail.com