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Listen to Divorce Team Radio as Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, explores divorce and mortgage refinancing with Atlanta mortgage expert Ryan Jacobs of Homespire Mortgage. Ryan and Todd discuss mortgages, refinancing, and the 6 Tips you MUST know if mortgage refinancing is a requirement in your divorce!

In this show, Leh starts off with an announcement that is both happy and sad all at the same time.  Then Leh and Todd discuss resources to help save your marriage if it is in the middle of a crisis; to help you improve your marriage; to help you prepare for your next marriage; and to help you improve your communication skills.  They explain how to listen to their past shows together to gain the greatest benefit.  The shows they reference in this episode are listed below: 11 - Can I Save My Marriage if it is on the Edge of a Divorce? 14 - Marriage Tips from a Divorce Lawyer 25 -  How to Run TOWARDS Difficult Conversations 39 -  Marriage Intensives and Workshops 55 - The Five Love Languages - An Interview with Dr. Gary Chapman 90 -10 Things You Can Start Doing Today to inoculate your marriage 91 - Taking Your Marriage to the Next Level:  Practicing Healthy Communication 102 - New Life after divorce with Bill Butterworth 107 - Healing Past Divorce with Joshua Ludlum 131 - What is Discernment Counseling and How It Can Help If You Are Considering Divorce with Matt Driggers 148 - Seeking Wise Counsel to Build a Thriving Marriage or Survive a Divorce 158 - 4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Filing for Divorce 160 Ellen Marmon A Divorce with a Happy Ending - A Story of Reconciliation 162 - Raising an Organized Child in a Blended Family 189 - 10 New Year's Resolutions for Your Marriage

In today's show, Leh and Todd discuss Mediation, how it is structured, who is involved, why it is so valuable, and how to prepare for it.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd take on a variety of questions on different topics surrounding divorce and custody cases. The questions they take on include: Can my ex get out of selling the house by filing for bankrutpcy? Does the opposing party have to file a response with the Court in order to get a Court date for custody. If I do not file a response to a Motion for Judgment, am I in default? Can my child's father get rights to see our daughter if I choose not to have him involved? Can I move myself and my child across state lines when my child's father has week off and week on parenting time? If the Court Order says we share the tax deduction for the children, what will happen if my ex filed for both kids the past few years? If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd explore what happened in Brittney Spears' conservatorship case and discuss the 'political' discussion that erupted from it.  They explain what a Conservatorship is; when is it appropriate to appoint a conservator; review the facts that led up to the original appointment of a conservator and the facts that led up to its dismissal; and finally look into the difference between a family and a professionally licensed conservator.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  answer a variety of questions dealing with several different topics.  The questions they discuss involve: What to do if you and your co-parent live in different states and there is no court order regarding parenting time?   When should you file for a motion for contempt to enforce your parenting time?   If my ex-wife continued to live with me and withdraw money from our joint bank account after the divorce, will I have to pay her back owed child support after she moves out? When is it appropriate to have a no contact provision in a settlement agreement? Can my soon to be ex-wife sleep with her lawyer that represents her in her TPO action? If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

The reason that Leh and Todd do this show is to help people going through difficult times.  That includes sharing resources that they believe will help their listeners.  In today's show, they interview the co-hosts of the new podcast Co-Parenting Dilemmas.  Their podcast takes listener questions and answers them on the show!  After Diane and Rick explain the why, what and how behind their new show, Leh and Todd discuss the dark side of Georgia's 14 year old election statute.  Diane and Rick share their concerns and the negative consequences of allowing a 14 year old to decide with whom they want to live. 

A divorce can quickly ruin the holidays for you and your children.  It is rough.  But, there are steps you can take to help create new positive memories for your children rather than nightmares they will never forget.  In today's show, Leh and Todd talk about the D.A.I.L.Y. steps you can take to help improve your situation and create positive memories despite the pain of a divorce.  The pneumonic stands for Days matter; Attitude; I, I, I (it is not all about you); Live in the moment; Y do you feel like you have to yell?   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

It is that time of the year again where Leh and Todd talk about what the undead and monsters can do about their family law problems.   To be clear, they both take what they do seriously, but this show is just for fun.  This year, they get a visit from an old favorite, Dracula.  He is having trouble seeing his grandkids because his daughter's family has gone vegan.  Following Dracula, they get a visit from Jaques Th'rippa.  He wants to get a name change because everyone thinks his name is Jack the Ripper.  Leh almost gets blasted by a Predator that is not happy he has been served with a stalking protective order from Arnold Schwarzenegger.  They wrap up the show with a letter from  Frankenstein's monster about how he can get his neck bolts (and other items) back from his ex-wife who took them at the end of the divorce.  

Commentary on some recent YouTube videos triggered today's show.  The commentator was surprised by the responses women had to a recent award of alimony to Kelly Clarkson's soon to be ex-husband.  In this show, Leh and Todd discuss alimony.  They explore how it is gender neutral as written (in Georgia, at least), but often it is not gender neutral in application.   They close out the show by discussing steps you should take make the best possible claim for alimony in light of your circumstances. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd discuss eight simple tips to help create room for an amicable divorce.  Not all the steps are easy, but they are simple.  The steps they include: Learn how to speak “respectfully”  Give each other “space” when sharing common spaces in the home Consider alternate sleeping arrangements Respect your spouse's safe haven Respect your spouse's personal property (clothing, collectibles, work-related info/items, etc.) Respect the marital property When it may be time to move out of the home Stay away from Social Media If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd came across a question that had many layers.  These layers ran deeper than just the question on the surface. So, they decided to spend most of the show breaking it down.  Here is the question they tackled - How can I file for and successfully navigate the divorce process when I don't currently have income?  I am a full time college student, a senior, my husband is the sole provider. We have two special needs kids that make the situation even trickier. I don't want him to be able to keep them overnight. He cannot handle their meds and the care they need for more than a few hours. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.  

Leh and Todd finish up their review of the Rules of Evidence.  In particular, they focus on the exceptions to the hearsay rule.  While these rules can get complicated, they take their time to present them in an understandable way.  If you can't survive an 'objection' to your evidence, the Judge won't be able to consider it. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd take on the rules of evidence.  More specifically, they discuss the exceptions to the hearsay rule.  Hearsay is somewhat straightforward:  It is an out of court statement that goes to the truth of the matter asserted.  What makes this simple rule complicated are all the exceptions to this rule.  In order to properly introduce your evidence in Court, you have to know these rules.  But, Leh and Todd do their best to point out the ones your will most likely encounter in a divorce case and what you need to know about them. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd spend some valuable time explaining the rules of evidence, where they come from, why they are there, and how they can seem complicated. When you know the purpose behind the rules of evidence and how they have been developed over time, it is much easier to understand them when you try to apply them in Court. Even if you are represented by an attorney, understanding these rules will help you work with your attorney to better prepare for trial.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on at https://mtlawoffice.com/podcasts   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it at https://mtlawoffice.com/reviewit  

In this show, Leh and Todd  discuss the four primary forms of evidence that you can present at trial. If you cannot introduce evidence in your trial, then there is a high likelihood that you will not win. If you cannot settle your case, then it is extremely important that you know what evidence you will need to win and how to introduce it into the courtroom.   The four kinds of evidence include lay witness testimony, expert witness testimony, documentary evidence, and photographic/audio/video physical evidence.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our at www.mtlawoffice.com   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it at https://mtlawoffice.com/reviewit

As a follow up to the last show, Leh and Todd talk about more divorce strategies that do NOT work.  Over the years, they have seen many attempts by people to 'pull a fast one' on them.  They share what they have seen, what does not work and why.  Examples include: Blasting "your story" to others - Social Media; text messages; emails Filing a TPO with unsupported allegations  Contacting your spouse's employer to impact their employment Passively Interfering with Parenting Time Making the kids your “allies” in the coming custody dispute Shutting down and not participating in divorce process Intentionally trying to delay the divorce process Engaging in settlement discussions prematurely I will settle now and fix the terms later I have an attorney, so I am going to let them handle everything I don't have an attorney & don't know the system, but I am sure “it will all work out” I will just dismiss the case if things are not going well for me. If you want to get a transcript of this show, you can find it at www.divorceteamradio.com  If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it at www.mtlawoffice.com/reviewit 

Leh and Todd dive into divorce strategies that do NOT work and explain why they do not work.  While some folks think these things are a good idea, what they often do not realize is that most lawyers have been trained to spot these strategies and how to counter them.   The strategies they know typically fail include: Having no strategy at all Stop working or reduce your income to reduce or eliminate your child support or alimony obligation Choosing to avoid getting a job to increase your support amount Hiding income Hiding assets Moving all the marital assets into only your name Spending more money to increase your 'need' for support Blocking your spouse from financial resources Stopping the payment of marital expenses Locking your spouse out of the house Moving out of the house without an agreement Intentionally making co-habitation difficult on your spouse (so they want to leave) Serving your spouse with divorce paperwork with the intention of embarrassing them If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.    If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Bill Eddy comes back on the show to share his newest book, Mediating High Conflict Disputes.  One could say that this book has been in the works for a couple decades.  Bill and his co-author, attorney Michael Lomax share what works and doesn't work when mediating a case with a High Conflict Personality.  Their book is a game changer for those who want to settle their case but are dealing with someone who may have a personality disorder, making settlement near impossible.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our Website.    If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.  

After taking countless questions over the years, Leh and Todd identified several misconceptions, or myths, the people often have about divorce. So, they decided to tackle 21 divorce myths that they often hear from people considering a divorce.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

With Leh and Todd today are Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg for a repeat appearance are the authors of the book: Home Will Never Be the Same: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce.   Carol and Hughes discuss the Gates divorce, what may have lead up to it, and what kind of advice would they give to their adult children if they came to them for counseling.    If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd talk about the Four Truths that exist in every courtroom in a divorce or family law case.  And, they break down the 6 things you can do to make sure that your truth is the one that is the one that the Court accepts.    The 4 truths are: Your truth, Your spouse's truth, The actual truth, and The only truth that matters - what the judge (or jury in some cases) thinks is the truth.    The 6 things you can do to help the Judge adopt your truth are:   Maintain Self-awareness and Accept the 4 truths regardless of the fairness. Hire an attorney that knows the Judge Listen to your attorney If you can, choose a mediator that knows the Judge and can give you some great reality checking Get a case evaluation from another lawyer who is familiar with the Judge Testify with Humility If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.  If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd answer more of your family law questions.  The questions they answer include: What do I do to get this situation handled and get this woman away from me? Can I get my domestic violence charges dropped since it's been seven years ago and I've never been convicted of any of them? Can copies of medical records left behind by ex fiancé be used in a domestic violence protective order proceeding? A judge heard my TPO complaint and told me that I was going around the system and holding it for another judge in a different county, what do I do? Does mediation stay any discovery in a pending custody case and if I believe violence may follow can I bypass mediation? If you would like a transcript of this show,  you can find it on our website using this LINK.   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how?  You can read about it using this LINK.

In this show, Leh and Todd  dedicate a whole show to family violence questions, something they had never done before. The questions they tackle include: If I filed a TPO but haven't heard from courts yet, do I have to respond to the abuser? Can I get an order of protection if I do not know my husband's current address? Why would a divorce judge ignore a restraining order?  If I reside in Georgia and the non-custodial parent resides in California, can I get a restraining order in Georgia on him? What can I do if my wife had TPO put on me last year and she has shown up at several different family homes i was staying. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  take on more questions that are focused on child custody issues. The questions they tackle include : Can I leave GA with my 2 kids to get away from my emotionally and mentally abusive husband? What is the most likely response from a superior court judge when a temp order has been broken during a divorce? How likely can a divorce by publication that gave me sole custody be reversed? Can a custodial parent move kids to another state after the divorce in Georgia? Does a court ruling in the best interest outweigh the court needs to weigh fundamental liberties? How can I get custody of my niece if she's in an unfit home?    If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

A recent commissioned survey found 4 out of every 10 U.S. adults that are married, in a civil partnership or otherwise living together are keeping a major money secret from their current partner. In this show, Leh and Todd  discuss the surprising results of this study. They explore why people commit 'financial infidelity' and why it is such a big problem. They wrap up the show with a discussion about what to do about it if you or your partner is 'financially unfaithful.'   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Experts can be used to not only help win a case, but also to simplify complicated issues to help parties settle their case. In this show, Leh and Todd  break down the experts that you commonly see in a divorce case. They explain the type of experts that you can hire in child custody disputes, asset disputes, as well as in child support and alimony disputes. If you are having trouble with an issue in your divorce, an expert may be able to help. Tune in to hear the types that are available.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  tackle several divorce and child custody questions, and in so doing explain various aspects of the law through real live examples.  The types of questions they tackle include: Married for 1.3 yrs, can I divorce my wife if she is verbally abusive? How can I file for Divorce in GA if my spouse lives in NC? Can out of state travel consent be revoked or conditional? In the event something happens to me, will my child's father get my son?  What rights does my child's father have?  Are notarized documents binding in court? Can He kick me out? If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Continuing their series about procrastination, Leh and Todd  discuss how procrastination can hurt your child support and alimony case and what you can do about it.  If you are looking to help your support case, you will want to listen to this show.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd are excited to have author Bill Eddy back on the show to discuss his new book, BIFF for CoParent Communication. At the time of recording the show, it was  number 1 on Amazon under “Divorce & Separation Family Law.” Check it out by clicking here: BIFF for CoParent Communication.   There are some people that are simply high conflict personalities.  They are difficult to deal with and can make your co-parenting life a living hell, especially when you do not know how to communicate with them.  Apart from being an author and speaker, Bill Eddy is a lawyer, counselor, and mediator.  He started the High Conflict Institute and has written and co-authored sixteen books as of 2020.  In his informative and practical new book, he gives you practical advice on how to handle a high conflict co-parent and what you can do to improve your communication with that person.    If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd talk about what you should NOT do during the various parts of the divorce process, give specifics on how a lack of preparation can crush you, and discuss what you should be doing to make sure you are prepared as it relates to a fair division of assets.   Who does this apply to?  Everyone!  Someone with a large marital estate can be harmed more, but when you scale the harm considering income, it can impact everyone the same.  If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.  

In this show, Leh and Todd  give examples of what happens when you miss legal deadlines or you do not take action on certain legal issues. They discuss when the failure is fatal to the case, and when you might be able to do something about it. The examples we tackle include:  If I missed a Court Hearing, can I file an appeal because I can barely see my daughter? My Marriage application was voided by the Probate Court because I did not file the proper steps, does that mean that I don't have to file for divorce because the marriage is not valid? When we got married, it turns out that my husband's divorce was not final. Does that mean we have to get remarried? I was separated from my deceased husband for years, but he died recently. We never bothered to get a divorce. No I want to get remarried but I can't get a marriage license because the Court keeps saying I still married. My former mother-in-law put on the death certificate that he had been divorced.; What happens if my rights were terminated and I want them reinstated?; and a few more!   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  discuss how the stress of a divorce or custody battle can really hurt communication between co-parents. In order to help, they used Dr. David Berlo's basic communication model, SMCR, as a framework to break down the 4 basic elements of good communication. They talked about the different ways that parents can work on improving their communication to help reduce the tension in their divorce and hopefully reduce the costs of their litigation as well. They offer simple suggestions that can go a long way in making sure you don't say something that launches World War 3 with your children caught in the middle of the battle.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

As a follow up to episode 191, Leh and Todd  take a deep dive into the impact of procrastination on child custody cases. They go through each phase of a case involving a contested custody matter, break down the negative impact of procrastination and discuss how not to procrastinate. The aspects of the case they walk through include: Guardian ad Litem & Custody Evaluation Mediation Temporary Hearing Final Hearing If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  break down how procrastination can really hurt a valid cause of action. Sometimes the delay has a negative legal impact. Other times it has an adverse practical impact that can be just as bad. They discuss what happens when you delay bringing a variety of actions, including divorce, legitimation, modifications, child support, and contempt. If you want to learn more about Leh and Todd, you can visit www.mtlawoffice.com   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd discuss 10 Resolutions that the recently divorced should make to improve the quality of their lives and their children.  These 10 things will make sure that you move forward in your life on the best possible foot from a personal, mental, physical, and financial standpoint. The 10 things they discuss include: 1) Stop fighting battles from a dead marriage. 2) Find a good counselor 3) Forgive Your Spouse 4) Forgive Yourself 6) Update your will, trusts, insurance policies, and estate plans (if any). 7) Get Your finances in order 8) Hire a good financial planner. 9)  Develop a regular exercise program to banish depression. 10) Read at least one book on Co-Parenting and one self-help book.  If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Once a quarter, Leh and Todd  like to dedicate a show to marriages. From seeing 1000's of failed marriages, they learn many things not to do in marriage as well as things you should do to help build a healthy, happy marriage. In today's show, they pull together 10 new years resolutions to help build a healthy marriage in 2021. They assembled ideas from different counselors, authors, and psychologists and put them into a short list of action items for 2021 to strive for.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd tackle questions about Adultery.  The questions they answer include: Do I have to answer all questions if I am being deposed as a mistress?   Can I sue my ex for cheating while we were married Or get better child support ?   Can I sue the man, my wife is cheating on me with.  How much a stay at home mom should get from her ex husband that earns 6 figure salary and owns properties?   How can I apply for alimony pendente lite in GA? You can read more about Leh and Todd at www.mtlawoffice.com. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Divorces caused by adultery are filled with emotion for obvious reasons.  But what impact does it have on the actual outcome of the case from a legal perspective?  In this show, Leh and Todd explore its impact on Child Custody, Child Support, Alimony, and Equitable Division of Property.  They also discuss the Financial and Emotion impact it has on the case.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  explore the claims that Nicole Young is making against her husband's (Dr. Dre) assets.  They also discuss the interesting claim that Orianne Cevey is trying to make against Phil Collins 12 years after their divorce.  They wrap up the show by answering certain specific questions about the division of marital assets and dealing with property issues post-divorce.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website  www.mtlawoffice.com   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

Leh and Todd  had the privilege of interviewing Erika Anne Englund, the Chief of Strategy for SupportPay.  Erika came on the show for two reasons.  First, she shared with us SupportPay.  This App really helps co-parents easily and quickly manage their child support and shared child expenses.  She told us the inspiration for the software as well as how it works.    Second, she broke down the top five child support mistakes parents make and how to avoid them.  After listening to the show, check out Support Pay at www.supportpay.com    If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

You only get one chance to deal with the debt in a divorce, so it is critical to get it right.  When you don’t, it can become a nightmare that feels like it will never go away.  In this show Leh and Todd discuss some forms of debt that arise in a divorce and how to deal with them, including Credit Cards, Store Credit, Auto Loans, Taxes, Business Loans, and Mortgages.  

Leh and Todd decide to tackle a question that they often get :  Does My Divorce Have to Be Nasty?  They break down this question; explain what they mean by “Nasty”; why it is so important to avoid letting your divorce get nasty; and discuss multiple scenarios where it is extremely difficult to keep from getting nasty and how to keep a level head. 

Recently, Leh and Todd  received a question asking what a Judge can legally consider when dealing with a contested custody case.  The answer to this question could be explored in multiple shows, but they were able to condense the information down to an overview of the factors that a Judge has been authorized to consider when determining the parenting time for each parent.     If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  take on various questions surrounding child custody.  They break down the questions and discuss the issues that each question presents.  The questions include: What can I do to prevent the mother of my child from leaving the state before she is served with a Legitimation Petition? What chances does the father of my son have of winning custody if we never married and he waited 3 years before even trying to become involved in his life? Can I put limits on my ex-husband's new wife's ability to see my children? Can I relocate my child to my home country? Should I allow the father of my child to visit with my 8 month old if he is not complying with CDC Covid guidelines? If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how, you can read about it here.

While the rules of evidence have not changed, presenting a case in a virtual courtroom has its own set of challenges that differ from an in person hearing.  In this show, Leh and Todd, break down the three p's of a virtual hearing (Preparation, Practice, and Performance).  They discuss how to prepare, practice for and present your case at a virtual hearing.  With these tools, you will improve your chance of a positive outcome at Court.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  answer a series of questions surrounding divorce procedure and evidence.  They tackle questions like: In a child custody case, how far back can a Judge look regarding evidence of drug use? What are my options for a speedy divorce if my husband is not coorperating?  It has been 6 months since the hearing, but there was no written order.  What can I do to get the Court to sign the final decree of divorce?   What are the documents I need to file for an uncontested divorce? If I dismissed my divorce case before a final hearing, what can I do to stop my husband from selling our house without my permission? If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd  examine the allegations made by Nicole Young in her divorce against Dr. Dre, whose estate if valued around one billion dollars.  He has asked the Court to enforce the Pre-nuptial Agreement.  She has moved the Court to throw it out based on a number of claims, including the allegation that he had torn up several copies of the agreement three years into the marriage.  Leh and Todd discuss the validity of her claims and under what scenario she might win.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd interview Simon Brady, a Certified Financial Planner, from Anglia Advisors, about the top financial mistakes he sees people make after their divorce is over.  A life lesson he learned early in life inspired him to focus his practice on helping those who are recovering from a divorce.  He wants to ensure that his clients set their financial future in the right direction.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd had the honor of interviewing Dr. Carol R. Hughes and Bruce R. Fredenburg about their new book “Home Will Never Be the Same Again:  A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce.”  This book was written to help those adult children who are struggling with their parent's divorce.  With the booming ‘gray’ divorces, there are countless adult children struggling out there.  They are afraid to ask for help because they are supposed to be adults . . . they can handle this . . . after all, that is why their parents waited to file for divorce.  Unfortunately, they are the unknown casualty of a gray divorce.  In their eye-opening book, Carol and Bruce discuss what is happening, how important it is for the adult children to seek out help, and what they can do to cope with the pain.  The book is not just written for the adult children.  It is also written to the parents that are going through the divorce.  By reading this book, you will learn how your children are actually feeling but too afraid to tell you.  You will also learn how to be more considerate of their feelings during this painful process.  In so doing, you will improve your post-divorce life and still get to see the grandkids.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.   If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

In this show, Leh and Todd   take on some challenging family law & divorce questions surrounding real and personal property.  The discuss the problem, how to deal with it, and how to best avoid it to begin with.  The questions include: What do you do when an ex who co-owns a vacation property just disappears? How do you remove an ex-spouse from a house that you were awarded in a divorce? How do you remove an ex-spouses personal property from the house without getting into trouble? If someone is opening up a business, is it better to get a post nuptial agreement, or place the business in the name of a family member?   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.