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Have you ever heard of Gray Divorce? Find out in this new episode on Spill with Me Jenny D. Certified divorce coach Lori Heller joins Jenny D to share her own story of being blindsided, and to guide women through the divorce process toward a healthy next chapter. They discuss self-care, health impacts (including menopause), building a support team, and practical steps for rebuilding confidence and purpose. Lori explains options for amicable separations, dating after 50, and her Start Fresh with a Plan program for women navigating major life changes. Listeners learn how to stay future-focused, make better decisions, and create a life they truly want. Divorce can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to navigate it alone. With the right guidance, you can move forward with confidence. If you or someone you know needs help with their divorce please find the link below https://www.womenanddivorce.com/ September Spotlight Supporter is Seraly Dermatology located in McMurray, Pa. This month is all about SkinCare & SelfCare. Seraly focuses on Skin Wellness for your family! Call today to make an appointment. https://www.drmarkseraly.com/ All episodes are available on all the major Audio Platforms as well as Jenny D's YouTube page. Make sure to Subscribe and Follow. http://www.youtube.com/@Spillwithmejennyd Note: Jenny D. is now recording at StudioMe Productions. Please check out her YouTube Video. If you would like to be a guest or sponsor on Spill with Me Jenny D. Show please fill out the disclaimer at https://www.spillwithmejennyd.com/tell-your-story or email spillwithmejennyd@gmail.com Don't Forget to Subscribe & Follow. Thank you to our Community Partners! Note: "The views and conversations in this podcast are intended solely for informational and educational purposes. They do not constitute professional advice, and listeners are encouraged to seek their own guidance for any specific concerns." "Music Credit: Theme song, written and performed by Mark Ferrari" markferrarimusic.com
What happens when the time you thought would be your "golden years" turns gray? "Gray divorces", divorces that happen over 50, are on the rise. When betrayal occurs in the latter years of life, there are multiple factors the betrayed partner has to consider.Julie Calhoun, APSATS CPC, Trauma-Informed Certified Coach, shares the questions, the concerns, and the compassion that those walking the path of gray divorce may have. You can contact Julie at jcalhometx1@gmail.com.
Gray divorce doesn't usually begin with a lawyer. It begins with two people slowly living separate lives under the same roof. Ron Deal joins Dave and Ann Wilson to explore why long marriages drift apart, the warning signs couples often miss, and how small choices today can reshape the years ahead. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Gray divorce doesn't usually begin with a lawyer. It begins with two people slowly living separate lives under the same roof. Ron Deal joins Dave and Ann Wilson to explore why long marriages drift apart, the warning signs couples often miss, and how small choices today can reshape the years ahead. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29?v=20251111
Divorce after 50 looks nothing like divorce in your 30s or 40s. Custody battles and parenting plans give way to a different kind of high-stakes negotiation, one centered almost entirely on money: retirement accounts, pensions, Social Security, and spousal support. And with gray divorce rates doubling since 1990 for people over 50, and tripling for those over 65, Karen McMahon believes this is a conversation more couples urgently need. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, Karen sits down with Andrew Hatherly, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), trained mediator, and founder of Transcend Retirement and Wiser Divorce Solutions. Andrew is also the host of The Gray Divorce Podcast, and after navigating his own midlife divorce, has made it his mission to help others understand exactly what's financially at stake before they sign a settlement. Karen and Andrew unpack why gray divorce carries a far higher financial risk than divorce earlier in life, since there's simply less runway to rebuild retirement savings after a late-life split. They explore why bringing a financial expert to the table, alongside an attorney and a divorce coach, is essential in any high conflict divorce, and especially critical when a marriage has spanned decades and retirement accounts, pensions, and home equity are all on the table. The conversation covers what men and women both need to understand about marital property, why "his" retirement account is actually a shared marital asset, and why spousal support calculations vary so widely from state to state. Andrew breaks down a critical but often-overlooked Social Security rule: spouses married 10 years or longer may be entitled to claim benefits based on their former spouse's earnings record, without reducing what their ex-spouse receives, and why couples approaching that 10-year mark should think carefully about timing. They also discuss the tax implications of dividing different types of retirement accounts, why a $500,000 Roth IRA and a $500,000 traditional 401(k) are not actually worth the same in a divorce settlement, and why remarriage can affect spousal support and estate planning decisions down the road. Karen and Andrew close with a candid discussion about what comes after the financial settlement is finalized, and why gray divorce, despite its financial complexity, can also become a powerful catalyst for reinvention, purpose, and a stronger, more intentional third act of life. Whether you're facing high conflict divorce, navigating gray divorce later in life, or are a man trying to understand your financial rights and responsibilities in divorce, this episode offers the financial clarity and strategic insight needed to protect your future and negotiate from a place of knowledge rather than fear. Andrew Hatherly is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), mediator, and founder of Transcend Retirement and Wiser Divorce Solutions. He is the host of The Gray Divorce Podcast and author of The Gray Divorce Phenomenon, a free guide available at transcendretirement.net. Connect with Andrew: Free Gift: The Gray Divorce Phenomenon, a free guide available at transcendretirement.net. Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhatherley/ Podcast: https://www.transcendretirement.net/podcast Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod
After nearly four decades of marriage, who are you when that marriage suddenly ends?In this episode, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder talks with Dr. Tamara Monosoff about the identity shift that can accompany gray divorce and the process of discovering what you want when you've spent decades caring for everyone else.After her own 38-year marriage unexpectedly ended, Dr. Tamara found herself facing grief, shame, loneliness, and a question she couldn't answer: What do I want? Her healing eventually led her to create the kind of supportive community she wished she'd had during those difficult years after divorce.Mardi and Dr. Tamara discuss why there is no timeline for healing and why rebuilding doesn't require enormous changes. Sometimes it starts by taking a class, pursuing an old interest, saying hello to someone new, or simply giving yourself permission to discover what makes you happy. Dr. Tamara shares how she pursued a lifelong dream, packed one suitcase, moved to Portugal, and began creating a completely different life.They also explore the difference between being alone and being lonely, the importance of connection and community, and the freedom to decide for yourself what you want this next chapter to look like.The discussion covers:• Why gray divorce can create a profound identity shift• Why there is no "correct" timeline for healing• How to begin figuring out what you want again• Why small new experiences can rebuild confidence and connection• The difference between being alone and being lonely• How community can support life after divorceAbout the Guest:Host & Founder: She's Not Done Yet! (https://shesnotdoneyet.substack.com/)I'm Dr. Tamara Monosoff. I have an MA in Marriage & Family Therapy and a Doctorate in Women in Leadership. Five years ago, my 38-year relationship ended in a way I never saw coming. I walked the path from debilitating grief to feeling clear, alive, and energized again; a healthier, stronger, and happier version of myself. Now I help women 50+ design lives on their own terms after Gray Divorce -- from heartbreak to badass!To connect:Website: https://shesnotdoneyet.substack.com/)About the HostMardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC.For Mardi's gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbbConnect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinder/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.
Divorce later in life can have a lasting impact on your financial future. New research finds that more than 60% of Americans who divorce after age 50 say it delays their retirement and that's only part of the financial fallout. Nearly 70% take on new debt, often ranging from $25,000 to $50,000. For many, starting over after 50 doesn't just mean rebuilding a life, it means rebuilding a retirement plan, too.
What have 100 episodes—and nearly a decade since experiencing gray divorce firsthand—taught Andrew Hatherley? In this special milestone episode, Andrew steps away from interviews to reflect on the journey that led to The Gray Divorce Podcast, the lessons he's learned from nearly 100 guests, and the incredible resilience of people rebuilding their lives after divorce. From financial planning and discernment counseling to adult children, alternative divorce processes, and overcoming fear later in life, this episode is both a celebration of how far the podcast has come and a look ahead at the future of gray divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
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Gray divorce after 50 can affect your health, strength, bone density, muscle, and independence. Learn practical ways to rebuild stronger.When we talk about gray divorce, we usually talk about the house, retirement accounts, Social Security, spousal maintenance, and the fear of beginning again. But we do not talk nearly enough about the body carrying us through it all.In this solo episode of Doing Divorce Different, Lesa Koski shares why physical strength deserves a place in every woman's gray divorce plan. Drawing from her own breast cancer recovery, osteopenia diagnosis, menopause journey, and experience with OsteoStrong, Lesa explores how small, sustainable choices can help women care for their bones, preserve muscle, support balance, and protect their independence.You'll hear a thoughtful discussion about bone-density screening, strength and weight-bearing exercise, nourishment during stressful seasons, and questions to ask your healthcare provider—especially if you are postmenopausal, have cancer-treatment history, or use a GLP-1 medication such as Ozempic, Wegovy, or Zepbound.Gray divorce can make the future feel uncertain, but caring for your body is one place where you can begin reclaiming agency. You do not have to transform everything at once. One walk, one nourishing meal, one appointment, or one conversation can become the next strong step in your comeback.This episode is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult your physician or another qualified healthcare professional about your personal health, medications, nutrition, exercise, and bone-density screening.If this episode encourages you, please follow the show, save it for later, and share it with a woman navigating gray divorce, menopause, weight loss, cancer recovery, or another major midlife transition.Timestamps (approximate):(00:00) Why physical strength matters during gray divorce(02:35) Bone loss, osteopenia, and the hidden risk to independence(05:10) Reclaiming agency through small, healthy choices(07:45) Lesa's breast cancer recovery and bone-health wake-up call(11:05) Lesa and her mother's personal experience with OsteoStrong(15:35) Bone-density screening, DEXA scans, and questions for your doctor(19:10) How divorce stress can disrupt sleep, food, and exercise(22:30) GLP-1 weight loss, muscle loss, and bone-health conversations(27:10) Five ways to support strength, mobility, and independence(33:20) Why nourishment and community belong in your comeback plan(37:40) Choosing one strong next step after divorceKey Takeaways:Physical strength supports mobility, balance, confidence, and independence during and after gray divorce.Bone loss can be silent, so women should ask a qualified healthcare provider whether bone-density screening is appropriate for them.Small, repeatable actions—walking, resistance training, nourishing meals, rest, and medical appointments—can restore a sense of agency.Women experiencing significant weight loss, including those using GLP-1 medications, should discuss muscle, nutrition, and bone health with their healthcare providers.Community is part of strength; supportive groups, friends, faith communities, and wellness spaces can help women feel seen during major transitions.Guest Bio:This is a solo episode featuring Lesa Koski, a divorce mediator, divorce coach, attorney, educator, author, breast cancer survivor, and host of Doing Divorce Different. Lesa helps women approach divorce with clarity, dignity, and hope while creating a strong, meaningful life on the other side. Her guiding message is: Midlife is not your crisis—it's your comeback.Resource Links:Explore OsteoStrong Minnesota through Lesa's affiliate link: https://osteostrongmn.com/affiliate-referral-koski/Learn about Soberlink for divorce and family law through Lesa's affiliate link: https://www.soberlink.com/divorce/family-law?utm_source=affiliatelink&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=lesa-koski-affiliatelinkLearn more about Lesa, divorce coaching, mediation, and her community: https://lesakoski.comAffiliate disclosure: Lesa may receive compensation if you use an affiliate link. This does not increase your cost. OsteoStrong is not medical treatment, and individual experiences vary. Consult an appropriate healthcare professional before beginning a new health or exercise program.Tags/Keywords:gray divorce, gray divorce after 50, divorce after 50, women and divorce, bone health for women, bone density after menopause, osteopenia, osteoporosis prevention, strength training after 50, menopause bone health, GLP-1 muscle loss, GLP-1 bone health, Ozempic and bone health, Wegovy and muscle loss, Zepbound and strength training, women over 50 health, midlife comeback, divorce recovery, rebuilding after divorce, healthy aging for women, independence after divorce, Doing Divorce Different, Lesa Koski, divorce coach, divorce mediator, OsteoStrong Minnesota
Gray divorce hit 36%, Danny Glover went public with his Alzheimer's diagnosis, BPC-157 quietly became legal again, a new bill takes aim at menopause discrimination at work, and celebrities are lining up to undo their own plastic surgery. Chalene Johnson breaks down why this is all happening at once. Chalene digs into why Kylie Jenner, Simon Cowell, and Kim Zolciak are all now saying they regret work they once defended, why Emily Simpson and Angie Katsanevas are living out the gray divorce numbers in real time, and why lawmakers like Debbie Dingell are stepping in on menopause discrimination at work. Topics discussed: gray divorce, Real Housewives of Orange County, Emily Simpson, Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, Angie Katsanevas, Shawn Trujillo, Danny Glover, Alzheimer's, magnesium, BPC-157, Botched Presents: Plastic Surgery Rewind, Kylie Jenner, Nicki Minaj, Simon Cowell, Kim Zolciak, Menopausal Workers' Fairness Act, Debbie Dingell Go Beyond The Podcast Join Chalene on her private podcast
Gray divorce continues to be on the rise. Why? We tell you in this episode. My guest is Divorce, Relationships and Life Coach, Michèle Heffron and we get into what to expect in a gray divorce, as well as tips for those in it or who are about to be in it. Read Michèle's article on the subject here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/gray-divorce-what-it-is-why-its-different-and-how-to-move-through-it-well/
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In this message, Pastor Karl walks through Matthew 19, where the Pharisees approach Jesus with pointed questions about divorce — testing him against the competing rabbinic schools of Shammai and Hillel. Rather than settling the debate on their terms, Jesus redirects them to God's original design for marriage from Genesis, addressing not just the surface question but the deeper issue underneath it: a hardened heart that looks for loopholes instead of surrendering to God's standard.Pastor Karl unpacks what Scripture teaches about marriage, divorce, and remarriage with pastoral care and honesty about how difficult these teachings can be to live out. He also explores the chapter's turn toward children, and the story of the rich young ruler — a man who came asking about religious righteousness but was really wrestling with money and control.The big idea: Jesus confronts the hardness of our hearts because his kingdom calls for commitment and sacrifice, while our natural tendency is to search for loopholes and excuses. This message is an invitation to let Scripture rebuke, correct, and train us — and to rely on the power of God's Spirit rather than our own willpower to live faithfully.Join us in person 8:00am, 9:30am & 11:00am every Sunday morning.37193 Ave 12 #3h, Madera, CA 93636For more visit us at flipside.churchFor more podcasts visit flipsidepodcasts.transistor.fm
In Episode 99, Andrew Hatherley welcomes Nicole Sodoma, founder of Sodoma Law and one of the Southeast's leading family law attorneys, to discuss one of the most overlooked risks during divorce: social media. From vacation photos and new relationships to LinkedIn profiles, text messages, and even "likes," Nicole explains how your online activity can impact your credibility, increase litigation costs, and complicate negotiations. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Why Men Chose Work Over Their Wife And Women, Children Over Their Husband!He buries himself in work. She pours everything into the kids. And somewhere in the middle, the two people who promised forever stopped choosing each other.In Ep462 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn Morrow take on both sides of the same wound—why men choose work over their wife, and why women choose the children over their husband—and land on the deeper question underneath all of it.Core reframe: It isn't really about work or kids—it's escape. Whether it's late nights at the office, phones, gaming, or substances, both spouses retreat to where they feel competent, safe, or appreciated instead of facing failure at home.Cass and Kathryn break down "the unexpected triangle" with children, why work feels safer than home for high-achieving men, and how to stop playing the victim so you can rebuild real connection.
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Signs Your Spouse Has Emotionally Checked Out!Your partner didn't just leave. They left a long time ago.The "quiet divorce" is the emotional and psychological departure that happens years before anyone ever files legal paperwork. When a struggling marriage suddenly gets quiet, most people mistake the peace for a good sign. In reality, that calm after the storm isn't a resolution—it's resignation.In Ep456 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn Morrow unpack the hidden mechanics of emotional withdrawal, the rising wave of mid-life "gray divorce," and why a partner who stops fighting is far more dangerous than one who is still arguing.
Welcome to The Mental Breakdown and Psychreg Podcast! Today, Dr. Berney and Dr. Marshall discuss the increase in the number of divorces for people over the age of 50 and how aging is changing now that we are living longer lives. Read the articles from The New York Times here and from Psychology Today here. You can now follow Dr. Marshall on twitter, as well! Dr. Berney and Dr. Marshall are happy to announce the release of their new parenting e-book, Handbook for Raising an Emotionally Healthy Child Part 2: Attention. You can get your copy from Amazon here. We hope that you will join us each morning so that we can help you make your day the best it can be! See you tomorrow. Visit Psychreg for blog posts covering a variety of topics within the fields of mental health and psychology. The Parenting Your ADHD Child course is now on YouTube! Check it out at the Paedeia YouTube Channel. The Handbook for Raising an Emotionally Health Child Part 1: Behavior Management is now available on kindle! Get your copy today! The Elimination Diet Manual is now available on kindle and nook! Get your copy today! Follow us on Twitter and Facebook and subscribe to our YouTube Channels, Paedeia and The Mental Breakdown. Please leave us a review on iTunes so that others might find our podcast and join in on the conversation!
Welcome to The Mental Breakdown and Psychreg Podcast! Today, Dr. Berney and Dr. Marshall discuss the increase in the number of divorces for people over the age of 50 and how aging is changing now that we are living longer lives. Read the articles from The New York Times here and from Psychology Today here. You can now follow Dr. Marshall on twitter, as well! Dr. Berney and Dr. Marshall are happy to announce the release of their new parenting e-book, Handbook for Raising an Emotionally Healthy Child Part 2: Attention. You can get your copy from Amazon here. We hope that you will join us each morning so that we can help you make your day the best it can be! See you tomorrow. Visit Psychreg for blog posts covering a variety of topics within the fields of mental health and psychology. The Parenting Your ADHD Child course is now on YouTube! Check it out at the Paedeia YouTube Channel. The Handbook for Raising an Emotionally Health Child Part 1: Behavior Management is now available on kindle! Get your copy today! The Elimination Diet Manual is now available on kindle and nook! Get your copy today! Follow us on Twitter and Facebook and subscribe to our YouTube Channels, Paedeia and The Mental Breakdown. Please leave us a review on iTunes so that others might find our podcast and join in on the conversation!
Is inherited money really "yours" in a divorce? Not necessarily — and the details of how that money was handled can make or break your case. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in later-in-life divorce: inheritance. Sparked by a recent Business Insider article on how baby boomer divorce is "rerouting inheritance" and reshaping retirement, Karen and Catherine break down why common assumptions — "it came from my parents, so it's mine" — often don't hold up once documentation, commingling, and state law enter the picture. They cover: Why inherited property isn't automatically protected, and how commingling and transmutation can change everything The three categories of documents you need: source documents (wills, trusts, probate records), path documents (account statements, deeds, business records), and forward-looking documents (tax returns, beneficiary designations, prenups/postnups) Why "spreadsheets are not source documents" — and what actually holds up in a settlement The unique financial stakes of gray divorce, where inheritance and retirement often overlap and there's less time to rebuild The emotional side of inheritance disputes — caregiving, expectation, and adult children's role (or lack thereof) in a parent's divorce How one inherited asset can ripple through an entire settlement: affecting home division, equalization payments, cash flow, support, and taxes Why estate planning — beneficiary designations, retirement accounts, life insurance, powers of attorney — needs review after divorce, especially when generational wealth is involved Karen and Catherine's bottom line: inheritance in divorce isn't just about where the money came from — it's about documentation, title, use, tax consequences, and long-term stability. Before you agree to divide or waive anything tied to an inheritance, get the full financial picture first. Referenced in this episode: Business Insider, "Baby Boomer Divorce Boom Reshaping Retirement Savings, Inheritance for Millennials" By Emily Stewart — https://www.businessinsider.com/baby-boomer-divorce-boom-reshaping-retirement-savings-inheritance-millennials-2026-6 This conversation is for educational purposes only and is not legal, financial, or tax advice. Every state handles divorce and inheritance differently. Please consult your attorney, financial advisor, or other divorce professional before making decisions. Learn more at MyDivorceSolution.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do finances shape dating and relationships after gray divorce? In Episode 95, Andrew Hatherley sits down with Dr. Lauren Harris, researcher and Assistant Professor of Human Development and Family Studies at the University of New Hampshire, to explore how older adults approach love, money, independence, and remarriage later in life. From prenups and inheritance concerns to caregiving and adult children, dating after 50 looks very different from our younger years and financial independence plays a big role. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
This episode is dedicated completely to gray divorce-divorce over 50. My guest is Florida divorce attorney and mediator, Anthony Diaz, and we talk about the issues in a gray divorce, and how to set yourself up for the best possible post-divorce life.
While divorce rates among younger adults have declined in recent decades, one demographic is experiencing a dramatic rise in separation: adults over 45. According to research from Bowling Green State University, roughly one-third of all U.S. divorces now occur among couples in midlife and beyond—a phenomenon often referred to as “gray divorce.” The American Psychological Association notes that these life transitions can bring major emotional, financial, and identity-related challenges, while also opening the door to profound resilience, reinvention, and personal growth. In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Heather Theisen-Gándara, founder of Reignite Collective, to explore what it truly means to rebuild life after divorce—and why women over 40 are discovering that their next chapter can become their most powerful one yet. Dr. Theisen-Gándara shares her remarkable journey from rural Wisconsin to becoming an internationally experienced leader, educator, and mentor. As the first person in her family to hold a passport, her life expanded through extensive work and travel across Latin America, where she developed fluency in Spanish and a deep passion for cross-cultural connection. With a Doctorate in Educational Leadership, a Master's in Counseling, and more than two decades of experience in international diplomacy and large-scale organizational leadership, she has partnered with global organizations including the United States Department of State, ExxonMobil, and Baker Hughes. But behind the impressive résumé was a deeply personal reinvention story. After the end of a 24-year marriage, Dr. Theisen-Gándara faced the emotional and financial realities that many women experience after divorce. Instead of allowing that season to define her, she rebuilt from the ground up—reclaiming financial independence, prioritizing wellness, losing nearly 100 pounds, and rediscovering her confidence, identity, and purpose. Through Reignite Collective, she now helps women navigate holistic recovery after divorce by focusing on emotional healing, wellness, financial empowerment, self-confidence, and personal style. Her message is both compassionate and transformational: divorce is not the end of a woman's story—it can be the beginning of her most empowered chapter. In this conversation, we discuss: This episode is a powerful reminder that healing and reinvention are possible at any stage of life—and that sometimes the most beautiful chapters begin after everything changes. For more information: https://www.reignitecollective.com/ Follow: @HeatherGlowsAgain Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How does parental divorce impact adult relationships later in life? In this eye-opening interview, Kent Darcie shares his personal journey from experiencing parental divorce to becoming a dedicated advocate and resource for adults and couples affected by it. Whether you are dating, preparing for marriage, or looking to strengthen your current relationship, this episode offers practical guidance on healing, specialized premarital preparation, and building a healthy marriage rooted in faith. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN: The Hidden Impact: How parental divorce silently affects trust, communication, and vulnerability in adult relationships. Tailored Premarital Counseling: Why standard premarital prep often overlooks the unique hurdles faced by adults with divorced parents. Emotional Reprogramming: Practical steps for identifying, healing, and changing negative beliefs and emotional wounds left behind by divorce. Building a Strong Foundation: How to use biblical principles and intentional conversations to establish a thriving, healthy marriage. Equipping Families & Churches: Available resources and support networks designed for children and adults of divorce. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Hope4ADP.com Choose a Better Path (Book) Divorce Care Program Divorce Care for Kids TTD365 Membership– Were you not able to join us at TTD this year? Don’t miss out on the encouragement. Listen to all sessions through our membership! ABOUT THE GUEST: Kent Darcie, founder of Adult Children of Divorce Ministries, is committed to breaking the cycle of divorce among adults with divorced parents. Kent received his Masters in Counseling Psychology from Moody Theological Seminary and is a Licensed Professional Counselor. He authored “Choose a Better Path: Overcoming the impact of Your Parents' Divorce which is a devotional that helps adults with divorced parents identify and process issues (i.e. anger, mistrust, fear of abandonment, father hunger) created by their parents' divorce. Since 2004, Kent has written and spoken extensively on the impact of parental divorce that continues after their kids are grown. He is also addressing the latest wrinkle in parental divorce, Gray Divorce, which occurs after the children have grown. Kent's newest book is “Preparing to Say ‘I do’ When Parents said ‘I don't’: A Premarital Guide for Adults with Divorced Parents”. Kent has been married to his high-school sweetheart, Kathy, for over 40 years. They have three adult children and live in Southeast Michigan. PODCAST SPONSOR: The need of the hour is not simply more educated people—but grounded leaders. We need men and women with the courage to stand for truth in a culture that's drifting. At Bob Jones University, we live that out through the BJU Promise—to prepare each student to pursue a higher calling. We anchor students in truth through a biblical worldview across every discipline. We mentor them in wisdom through faculty who invest personally in their growth. And we strengthen their faith through intentional discipleship, meaningful community, and daily opportunities to walk with Christ. It's why homeschool families love BJU—over 30% of our students come from homeschool backgrounds and they would love to meet you and share what God is doing at Bob Jones University. Schedule your visit at BJU.EDU.
Send Jay comments via textThe Strategic Settlement: Managing Marital Uncertainty and Gray Divorce After the Kids Launch.When the constant background noise of full-time parenting finally clears, the resulting quiet can cause a long-simmering marriage to become suddenly loud. Tamara Frankfurt Odinec and Shari Joseph (former American Express corporate strategy leaders and co-founders of the expert-led divorce support platform My Next Chapter) join Jay Ramsden to dismantle the isolation surrounding midlife relationship transitions. Whether you are dealing with "marital uncertainty," actively co-parenting through a "deferred divorce" limbo, or facing a sudden gray divorce once the nest is empty, this conversation provides a high-level operational map for your next steps.Drawing from their own contrasting corporate-level and high-conflict experiences, Tamara and Shari unpack why having just a therapist and a lawyer often leaves high-achieving parents feeling completely overwhelmed. They share data-driven insights on shifting cultural stigmas and explain why research shows that adult children in their twenties often face unique structural identity crises when a long-term family framework disinvests. Discover the tactical utility of confidential, anonymous spaces for legal and financial auditing before retaining counsel, how to balance intense guilt with personal freedom, and how to spot the "glimmers" of an intentional, self-sovereign second act.Strategic Highlights:The Marital Uncertainty Audit: Understanding why taking a pause to research options does not automatically mean choosing divorce.The Limbo Framework: Navigating the practical living arrangements, communication systems, and boundaries of a deferred divorce.The 20s Identity Shift: Managing the psychological impact of midlife family restructuring on young adult children.Pre-Legal Infrastructure: Utilizing targeted financial templates, mental health checklists, and anonymous communities to anchor yourself before hiring an attorney.Tamara Frankfort Odinec & Shari Joseph Bios (Learn More): Tamara Frankfurt Odinec and Shari Joseph are corporate strategy veterans and co-founders of My Next Chapter. They blend digital marketing, legal frameworks, and mental health resources to help individuals navigate marital uncertainty, gray divorce, and high-stakes identity reorganization.Support the showSUPPORT THE MISSION: If this episode provided strategic value, please Follow and Save the show on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your "Save" helps us reach more families navigating the challenge of change. WORK WITH JAY (1:1 PRIVATE ADVISORY): Move beyond general advice. Jay works with a select number of parents in a 6-month Private Advisory Container to navigate identity recalibration and second act design. Book a Second Act Strategy Session
Gray divorce is on the rise, and many investors are missing a key opportunity: Social Security benefits tied to an ex-spouse. Richard rosso & Jonathan McCarty explain how divorced spousal benefits work, including eligibility rules, timing decisions, and how much you may be able to claim. If you were married at least 10 years, you could receive up to 50 percent of your ex-spouse's benefit, or even more through survivor benefits, without impacting their payout. Key topics include: 0:00 - INTRO 0:19 - Financial Repercussions of Gray Divorce 1:47 - Economic Numbers Review 2:16 - Data Center & Power Station Build Outs 4:40 - Interest Rates & Kevin Warsh 6:22 - Apartment Build Outs - Function Over Form 9:39 - Gray Divorce Rates - One in Three: Financial Vulnerabilities 12:58 - Going Back to Work After Divorce 14:23 - Demographics, Ageism, & Merit-based Immigration 18:24 - AI & Content Creation : Lessons About Business 20:15 - Taxation Following Divorce 21:37 - Mishaps with Social Security After Divorce 23:02 - Longevity & Empty-nester's 25:29 - Timing Matters - All in the Family 29:39 - Financial Advisor as Referee 35:15 - Social Security: Spousal Benefits, Survivors Benefits Qualifications 38:32 - Don't Make These Divorce Mistakes 41:53 - First Rule When You Know You're Divorcing 45:22 - The Middle Class is Being Bolstered by Growth in Assets 46:14 - Will AI replace FA's? 50:56 - Candid Coffee Event 5/16 Hosted by RIA Advisors Director of Financial Planning, Richard Rosso, CFP, w Senior Investment Advisor, Jonathan McCarty, CFP Produced by Brent Clanton, Executive Producer ------- Do you enjoy our content? Rate us on Google: https://bit.ly/4b9JtEo ------- Watch Today's Full Video on our YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/live/rXi5IdkLNRM ------- Watch today's "Before the Bell" feature, "Market Stalls as Risks Build," here: https://youtu.be/SSzwq4AG2-0 ------- Watch our previous show, "Fed Holds Rates as Powell Stays On," https://youtube.com/live/oYQSPI-_BqE?feature=share ------- * REGISTER for our next Candid Coffee, Saturday, May 16: "Financial Organization Made Simple:" https://streamyard.com/watch/SA6aj2aMdMhf -------- Resources Mentioned in Today's Show: "Hormuz: Why Markets Are Shrugging Off The Oil Shock" https://realinvestmentadvice.com/resources/blog/hormuz-why-markets-are-shrugging-off-the-oil-shock/ "The Dollar's Funeral Keeps Getting Rescheduled" https://realinvestmentadvice.com/resources/blog/the-dollars-funeral-keeps-getting-rescheduled/ ------- Download Lance's Latest e-book, "Laws of Money & Wealth:"https://realinvestmentadvice.com/ria-e-guide-library/ -------- SUBSCRIBE to The Real Investment Show here: http://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealInvestmentShow -------- Visit our Site: https://www.realinvestmentadvice.com Contact Us: 1-855-RIA-PLAN -------- Subscribe to SimpleVisor: https://www.simplevisor.com/register-new -------- Connect with us on social: https://twitter.com/RealInvAdvice https://twitter.com/LanceRoberts https://www.facebook.com/RealInvestmentAdvice/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/realinvestmentadvice/ #GrayDivorce #SocialSecurity #RetirementPlanning #DivorceFinance #WealthManagement
Gray divorce is on the rise, and many investors are missing a key opportunity: Social Security benefits tied to an ex-spouse. Richard rosso & Jonathan McCarty explain how divorced spousal benefits work, including eligibility rules, timing decisions, and how much you may be able to claim. If you were married at least 10 years, you could receive up to 50 percent of your ex-spouse's benefit, or even more through survivor benefits, without impacting their payout. Key topics include: 0:00 - INTRO 0:19 - Financial Repercussions of Gray Divorce 1:47 - Economic Numbers Review 2:16 - Data Center & Power Station Build Outs 4:40 - Interest Rates & Kevin Warsh 6:22 - Apartment Build Outs - Function Over Form 9:39 - Gray Divorce Rates - One in Three: Financial Vulnerabilities 12:58 - Going Back to Work After Divorce 14:23 - Demographics, Ageism, & Merit-based Immigration 18:24 - AI & Content Creation : Lessons About Business 20:15 - Taxation Following Divorce 21:37 - Mishaps with Social Security After Divorce 23:02 - Longevity & Empty-nester's 25:29 - Timing Matters - All in the Family 29:39 - Financial Advisor as Referee 35:15 - Social Security: Spousal Benefits, Survivors Benefits Qualifications 38:32 - Don't Make These Divorce Mistakes 41:53 - First Rule When You Know You're Divorcing 45:22 - The Middle Class is Being Bolstered by Growth in Assets 46:14 - Will AI replace FA's? 50:56 - Candid Coffee Event 5/16 Hosted by RIA Advisors Director of Financial Planning, Richard Rosso, CFP, w Senior Investment Advisor, Jonathan McCarty, CFP Produced by Brent Clanton, Executive Producer ------- Do you enjoy our content? Rate us on Google: https://bit.ly/4b9JtEo ------- Watch Today's Full Video on our YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/live/rXi5IdkLNRM ------- Watch today's "Before the Bell" feature, "Market Stalls as Risks Build," here: https://youtu.be/SSzwq4AG2-0 ------- Watch our previous show, "Fed Holds Rates as Powell Stays On," https://youtube.com/live/oYQSPI-_BqE?feature=share ------- * REGISTER for our next Candid Coffee, Saturday, May 16: "Financial Organization Made Simple:" https://streamyard.com/watch/SA6aj2aMdMhf -------- Resources Mentioned in Today's Show: "Hormuz: Why Markets Are Shrugging Off The Oil Shock" https://realinvestmentadvice.com/resources/blog/hormuz-why-markets-are-shrugging-off-the-oil-shock/ "The Dollar's Funeral Keeps Getting Rescheduled" https://realinvestmentadvice.com/resources/blog/the-dollars-funeral-keeps-getting-rescheduled/ ------- Download Lance's Latest e-book, "Laws of Money & Wealth:"https://realinvestmentadvice.com/ria-e-guide-library/ -------- SUBSCRIBE to The Real Investment Show here: http://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealInvestmentShow -------- Visit our Site: https://www.realinvestmentadvice.com Contact Us: 1-855-RIA-PLAN -------- Subscribe to SimpleVisor: https://www.simplevisor.com/register-new -------- Connect with us on social: https://twitter.com/RealInvAdvice https://twitter.com/LanceRoberts https://www.facebook.com/RealInvestmentAdvice/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/realinvestmentadvice/ #GrayDivorce #SocialSecurity #RetirementPlanning #DivorceFinance #WealthManagement
Episode SummaryWith Mother's Day right around the corner, this episode highlights an important—and often overlooked—reality in financial planning: too many women are still taking a back seat when it comes to managing their financial future.Drawing from real client experiences, this episode explores why financial planning works best when both partners are actively involved, and why it's especially critical for women to engage in the process.From differences in financial goals and investment behavior to the long-term impact of widowhood and divorce, this conversation makes a compelling case for shared financial decision-making—and the risks of sitting on the sidelines.What You'll LearnWhy financial planning is more effective when both partners participateCommon differences in how men and women approach investingHow misaligned goals (even in something like vacations) reflect deeper planning gapsThe financial realities women often face after divorce or widowhoodWhy women tend to outperform men as investorsThe risks of deferring financial decisions to a spouseKey TakeawaysFinancial planning is not a “set it and forget it” process—especially for couplesWomen are statistically more likely to experience the long-term outcomes of financial decisionsBeing uninvolved in financial planning can lead to costly consequencesWomen often bring discipline, patience, and better long-term behavior to investingShared planning leads to better alignment, better decisions, and better outcomesTips, Tricks & StrategiesWant to get more involved in your financial life? Start here:Attend financial meetingsBe present in conversations with your financial advisor. If you don't have one, consider working with a professional.Build your financial knowledgeListen to podcasts, watch videos, or read about personal finance. The basics are more approachable than you think.Run a “what if” scenarioIf you had to take over all financial responsibilities tomorrow, would you be ready? Know your accounts, contacts, and plan.Notable Stats from the EpisodeWomen often experience a larger drop in income after divorce than menWomen tend to live longer, making long-term planning even more criticalA significant percentage of women defer financial decisions to their spouseStudies show women often outperform men in investing due to more disciplined behaviorFinal ThoughtA better life is the result of better planning—and better planning requires participation. If you're not at the table, it's time to pull up a chair.ReferencesDo women live longer than men in the US? | USAFactsThe Economic Consequences of Gray Divorce for Women and MenWomen Are Strong Savers. So, Why Do Their Balances Often Lag Behind?Women Put Financial Security at Risk by Deferring Long-term Financial Decisions to Spouses
What do you do when life looks successful on the outside but deep down you feel stuck, unfulfilled, and disconnected from yourself? In this episode of Productivity Smarts, Gerald J. Leonard sits down with Anne Smith, a seasoned corporate trainer and HR expert who transformed her life after the end of a 29-year marriage. Instead of staying stuck, Anne chose to rebuild, turning her journey into her powerful memoir Gray Divorce: My Life, Rewritten. Gerald and Anne dive into what it really takes to create meaningful change, not just externally but internally. From developing self-awareness and breaking lifelong patterns to using journaling as a tool for clarity, Anne shares how she moved from simply surviving to intentionally designing a life aligned with her values. They explore the hidden cost of "hustle culture," why many high achievers feel stuck despite success, and how small daily practices like early morning routines, reflection, and creative thinking can unlock a completely new direction in life. Anne also shares practical tools like the "Five Whys" framework, identifying core values, and asking the right questions to uncover what is really holding you back. If you have ever felt like you are going through the motions or questioning what is next, this episode will challenge you to pause, reflect, and start rewriting your story. What We Discuss [00:00] Introduction [02:03] Meet Anne Smith [04:12] The secret sauce: making space for your own feelings [05:57] Why hustle culture fails us [06:38] Making time to write: waking up at 4:30 AM [08:32] The role of self-awareness in divorce and productivity [08:57] Being the common denominator in two failed marriages [11:47] Journaling for self-reflection [14:46] Advice for feeling stuck in your 40s and 50s [16:24] The Five Whys (Lean/Six Sigma) for personal growth [17:34] Limiting beliefs and the shadow self (Peter Pan metaphor) [21:35] 95% of life is non-conscious how to wake up [24:04] How to discover your core values (the dinner party exercise) [26:08] Protecting your peace as a core value [27:00] The importance of being creative [29:19] FedEx, banks, and thinking differently [32:19] "This I Believe" exercise from Jeffrey Berlin [36:04] Where to find Anne's book and website [37:18] Podcast outro Notable Quotes [04:12] "I think the core of it for me, I had to learn to listen to what I needed. And in order for me to do that, I had to make space for my feelings." – Anne Smith [06:53] "I was never going to magically find the time, they were not going to be extra hours manufactured and added to my day or my evening that I needed to make the time." – Anne Smith [09:00] "I was the common denominator in both relationships. It's easy to point fingers, but you miss out on learning about yourself." – Anne Smith [15:16] " Whatever environment you operate best in to listen to yourself. Make space to listen to yourself and don't numb yourself. Don't stay so busy." – Anne Smith [16:35] "The Five Whys is a fabulous tool for professional and personal life. It's like peeling the onion to get to the root cause." – Anne Smith [20:24] "The shadow self that you created as a child that helped you grow up is no longer serving you, and you've got to unscrew your shadow." – Anne Smith [26:08] "Protecting my peace became a core value. I realized I had sacrificed it for 10 or 12 years." – Anne Smith [27:38] "Creativity takes many forms…connecting different dots is creativity in itself." Anne Smith [33:13] "We tend to focus on all the things that keep us up at 3:00 in the morning that we can't affect or change." – Anne Smith [32:41] "Oftentimes our fears when we put them down, when we acknowledge them, they're really not that big." – Anne Smith Resource and Links Annee L. Smith Website: https://Anneelsmith.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Anneesmithauthor/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AnneeLSmithAuthor Book: Gray Divorce: My Life, Rewritten Productivity Smarts Podcast Website - productivitysmartspodcast.com Gerald J. Leonard Website - geraldjleonard.com Turnberry Premiere website - turnberrypremiere.com Scheduler - vcita.com/v/geraldjleonard Kiva is a loan, not a donation, allowing you to cycle your money and create a personal impact worldwide. https://www.kiva.org/lender/topmindshelpingtopminds
Divorce is rarely just emotional—it can be financially devastating. Lance Roberts and Jon Penn break down the many costs and consequences of divorce, with a focus on “financial infidelity” and how hidden spending, secret accounts, and undisclosed income are tearing marriages apart. Key topics include: 0:00 - INTRO 0:58 - Earnings Season Chugs Along 4:01 - What's Hanging Over Markets Now 5:31 - Market Breadth Narrows 10:34 - Private Jets & Early Wake-up Calls 11:24 - Cohabiting, Marriage, & Financial Conflict 16:14 - Forensic Accountants & Secret Families(!) 18:52 - Splitting & Combining Money - The Zero-based Budget 21:52 - Two Biggest Causes of Divorce 23:06 - The "Gray Divorce" Phenomenon 25:08 - Financial Infidelity & Gambling 30:08 - Biggest Risk in Marriage (Poll) 32:34 - "Half!" 36:10 - Pre-marital Financial Counseling 37:56 - The Real Meeting 42:07 - Financial Habits are Hereditary 47:17 - Beware Lifestyle Creep Hosted by RIA Advisors Chief Investment Strategist, Lance Roberts, CIO, w Senior Investment Advisor, Jonathan Penn, CFP Produced by Brent Clanton, Executive Producer ------- Do you enjoy our content? Rate us on Google: https://bit.ly/4b9JtEo ------- Watch Today's Full Video on our YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/live/sSYl1w7TUek?feature=share ------- Watch today's "Before the Bell" feature, "Narrow Rally Warning," here: https://youtu.be/KOvVspATC_o ------- * REGISTER for our next Candid Coffee, Saturday, May 16: "Financial Organization Made Simple:" https://streamyard.com/watch/SA6aj2aMdMhf -------- Watch our previous show, "Why is the Market Ignoring the Strait? " https://youtube.com/live/tpVJst4GNkE?feature=share ------- The latest installment of our new feature, Before the Bell, "Don't Chase These All-Time Highs" is here: https://youtu.be/fcqpg6b8GPQ ------- Resources Mentioned in Today's Show: "Hormuz: Why Markets Are Shrugging Off The Oil Shock" https://realinvestmentadvice.com/resources/blog/hormuz-why-markets-are-shrugging-off-the-oil-shock/ "The Dollar's Funeral Keeps Getting Rescheduled" https://realinvestmentadvice.com/resources/blog/the-dollars-funeral-keeps-getting-rescheduled/ ------- Download Lance's Latest e-book, "Laws of Money & Wealth:"https://realinvestmentadvice.com/ria-e-guide-library/ -------- SUBSCRIBE to The Real Investment Show here: http://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealInvestmentShow -------- Visit our Site: https://www.realinvestmentadvice.com Contact Us: 1-855-RIA-PLAN -------- Subscribe to SimpleVisor: https://www.simplevisor.com/register-new -------- Connect with us on social: https://twitter.com/RealInvAdvice https://twitter.com/LanceRoberts https://www.facebook.com/RealInvestmentAdvice/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/realinvestmentadvice/ #StockMarket #SP500 #MarketBreadth #Nasdaq #EnergyStocks #DivorceCosts #FinancialInfidelity #PersonalFinance #MarriageAndMoney #WealthManagement
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Why is there a rise in gray divorce? Dr. Dana McNeil, PsyD, LMFT, is a licensed couples therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist specializing in emotional safety, relationship repair, and long-term compatibility. She is the founder of The Relationship Place and Therapy Getaway, where she provides intensive couples therapy for high-conflict relationships. Dr. McNeil serves on the Advisory Board of MYA and is a national media expert and frequent speaker on modern relationships.In this episode:Why there's a rise in gray divorceWhat erodes in long term marriages that leads to divorce later in lifeHow an empty nest amplifies relational issuesThe emotional and identity challenges unique to later divorceHow to repair a fractured marriage later in lifeConnect With Dr. DanaWebsite: www.danamcneil.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeilInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/The Relationship Place www.sdrelationshipplace.comInstagram: @sdrelationshipplace @drdanamcneil►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►FREE download: “The Green Light Guide to Dating After 50” https://lastfirstdate.com/green-light-guide/ ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate
Gray divorce is becoming more common, yet many women don't realize the financial implications until it's too late. In today's episode, Maraya Brown is joined by Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Laurie Itkin to explore divorce financial planning, spousal support, marital assets, and how women can protect their financial future. About Laurie Itkin: Laurie Itkin, CDFA®, is a highly-rated certified divorce financial analyst in California. She works with individuals and couples throughout the state. Laurie Itkin is a past board member for the Association of Divorce Financial Planners and is a member of the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts. She is also the author of the Amazon best-seller, Every Woman Should Know Her Options: Invest Your Way to Financial Empowerment. Through her financial consulting company, The Options Lady, she provides divorce-related financial planning and analysis to individuals and couples throughout all stages of the divorce process and has worked on over 550 divorce cases either as a financial neutral or advocate to one spouse. She speaks at seminars for divorce attorneys and mediators on how to divide equity compensation, including restricted stock units and non-qualified and incentive stock options. Laura has appeared as a guest expert on investing and financial aspects of divorce on television, radio and podcasts. She has been quoted in numerous publications including the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, San Diego Union Tribune, Chicago Tribune, Christian Science Monitor, U.S. News and World Reports, Parade, Redbook, and Forbes. Connect with Laurie: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOptionsLady/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurieitkin/ Website: https://www.theoptionslady.com/ Check out Laurie's Blog here. The Women's Vibrancy Accelerator Trifecta: Your 90-Day Health Reset Ready to take your health to the next level? The Women's Vibrancy Accelerator Trifecta offers deep, personalized support to help you regain control of your energy, hormones, and well-being. This program includes: Three one-on-one calls with Maraya Dutch Plus Test and full assessment Bi-weekly live Q&A sessions Self-paced health portal covering energy, hormones, libido, and confidence Podcast listeners get an exclusive discount. Use code PODCAST. Learn more and enroll now: https://marayabrown.com/trifecta/ _______________________ Free Wellness Resources Access free tools like the Menstrual Tracker, Adaptogen Elixir Recipes, Two-Week Soul Cleanse, Food Facial, and more. Download now: https://marayabrown.com/resources/ _______________________ Subscribe to The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and Spotify. _______________________ Connect with the Show Find us on Facebook, Linkedin | Website | Tiktok | Facebook Group _______________________ Apply for a Call with Maraya Brown Start your journey with personalized support. Apply here: https://marayabrown.com/call _______________________ About Maraya Brown Maraya is a Yale and Functional Medicine-trained Women's Health and Wellness Expert (CNM, MSN). She helps women feel energized, confident, and connected to themselves and their lives. With over 25 years of experience, she specializes in energy, hormones, libido, confidence, and deep transformation. _______________________ Disclaimer The content of this podcast is for informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute medical or professional advice. Listeners should consult with a qualified professional before making any health decisions. This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
When people talk about gray divorce, the conversation usually focuses on the couple: finances, retirement, and starting over later in life. But there is another group deeply affected by these late in life separations that often goes overlooked: adult children. The divorce rate for couples over 50 has more than doubled in recent decades, and as more long term marriages end later in life, families are navigating a transition many never expected. Even when children are fully grown, the divorce of their parents can reshape family dynamics, create loyalty conflicts, and disrupt long standing family roles. In this episode of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Carol Hughes, co author of the groundbreaking book Home Will Never Be the Same Again. Carol first joined the podcast in 2021 with co author Bruce Fredenburg to discuss their research on adult children of gray divorce. She returns to share updated insights from both research and real world experiences about how adult children are affected when their parents divorce later in life. Together, Susan and Carol explore why gray divorce can be more emotionally disruptive for adult children than many parents realize, the common mistakes parents unintentionally make during this transition, and the powerful ways families can protect relationships even as the family structure changes. This is an essential conversation for anyone navigating divorce after 50, adult children trying to understand their parents' separation, or professionals working with families where gray divorce is reshaping the entire family system. What You'll Learn in This Episode • Why gray divorce affects the entire family, not just the couple • How loyalty conflicts can place adult children in painful and inappropriate roles • Why feeling unheard is one of the leading causes of estrangement between parents and adult children after divorce • How empathy, healthy boundaries, and thoughtful communication can help protect family relationships Additional Resources If you want to explore this topic further, be sure to read the companion blog article for this episode on the Divorce & Beyond website. You can also download Susan's practical guide: How to Tell Your Adult Children You Are Getting Divorced: A Conversation Planning Guide This supportive resource helps parents prepare for one of the most difficult conversations families face during gray divorce, with insights on what adult children often experience, what to say, what to avoid, and how to approach the conversation with empathy and care. Visit the blog page for this episode at DivorceAndBeyondPod.com to read the article and download the guide. About the Guest Carol Hughes holds her doctorate in Clinical Psychology, achieving both summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa honors. She is also a two-time Fulbright Scholar. In 2003, Carol was a co-founder of Collaborative Divorce Solutions of Orange County, an interdisciplinary practice group of divorce professionals dedicated to respectful, peaceful divorce solutions for families. In her practice in Laguna Hills, CA, as a California licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and family-focused divorce professional, for more than thirty years, she has assisted hundreds of divorcing families as a therapist, child and co-parenting specialist, divorce coach, and mediator. Connect with Carol Hughes Website: http://divorcepeacemaking.com Book: Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce https://amzn.to/4blt1jx Carol's Workbook for Parents Going Through Gray Divorce: https://divorcepeacemaking.com/register-for-a-free-gift/ Episodes Mentioned: Gray Divorce: What It Takes. What It Gives Back. With Maryjane Sweet Special Episode Resource: Gray Divorce and the Impact on Adult Children Today's episode has a companion blog article where Susan breaks down the key insights on gray divorce and the impact on adult children. Read it and share it with someone who may need it at divorceandbeyondpod.com. Make the Most of Your Listening Experience: If this episode resonates with you, be sure to: Subscribe to Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with friends or loved ones who need hope and healing. Leave a 5-star review to help us reach even more listeners. Follow Us Online: Divorce & Beyond: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com, IG: @divorceandbeyondpod Meet Our Host Susan E. Guthrie®, Esq. is one of the nation's leading family law and mediation experts, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate divorce and conflict with clarity and compassion. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker, trainer, and practice-building consultant. Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast, where she shared her insights on gray divorce and the changing landscape of relationships. Her expertise has also been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC's Chicago Today, among many others. As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with more than 3.4 million downloads, Susan brings together top experts and powerful personal stories to help listeners move through divorce and beyond with confidence, insight, and hope. Learn more about Susan and her work at susaneguthrie.com. Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond! ***************************************************************************** A Smarter, Simpler Way to Navigate Your Divorce Looking for a clearer and more affordable way to move through your divorce? Check out Hello Divorce. 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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you.Hey friends. Today we're talking about something that's happening more and more, and honestly, it surprises a lot of people when they see it.Gray divorce.Yup, that's the term for divorce after 50, and the numbers have actually doubled since 1990. And in our law practice, Sapere Law & Mediation in Temecula, California, we've even seen what I call “extra gray divorce”… couples in their seventies and eighties deciding it's time to move on. Divorce later in life looks very different from divorce in your 30s or 40s. By this stage, you've usually built a life together over decades. There may be retirement accounts, pensions, adult children, grandchildren, and a lot of shared history. And that's… extra tough.So the question becomes: how do you untangle all of that without blowing up your financial future or your family relationships?Here's what we're digging into today: What “gray divorce” actually means and why it's becoming more commonWhy long-term marriages create different financial challengesRetirement accounts, pensions, and how they get divided in divorceWhy spousal support is often part of divorce after a long marriageThe emotional reality of ending a relationship after decades togetherHow adult children and grandchildren are affected (and they are!)Why mediation is often a smarter path than courtroom divorceDivorce after 50 is not just about splitting assets. It's about protecting your financial future, your emotional wellbeing, and your family relationships. And how divorce mediation can help you protect your retirement, reduce stress, and keep family relationships intact.Have a listen, or share this episode with a loved one who may be facing their own “gray divorce.” RESOURCESMEDIATION STARTER GUIDE: https://mailchi.mp/2939c428981d/mediation-resourcesKELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name https://a.co/d/e4VguRkLEGAL & MEDIATION HELP: https://saperelawfirm.comINSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/saperelawfirmFACEBOOK: https://facebook.com/saperelawfirm
Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Tantric sex educators Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown pull back the curtain on the trending phenomenon now being called 'meno divorce' — the wave of women in midlife who are initiating divorce at the exact moment their hormones shift. But this episode goes far beyond statistics. It's an honest, shame-free exploration of why this happens, what it means, and how couples can use this pivotal transition to actually deepen their connection.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSWhy divorce rates spike for women aged 45–55 — and the real hormonal reason behind itHow your estrogen and progesterone levels directly affect your tolerance in relationshipsThe 4 hormonal seasons of your cycle — and how to track them in menopause using the moonWhy adrenal health is the missing piece most women never hear aboutHow tantric practices can reset — or bring honest clarity to — your relationshipEvidence-based solutions: bioidentical HRT, herbs, peptides, and lifestyle shifts that actually workEPISODE LINKS AND THE VIDEO VERSION CAN BE FOUND HEREROOTED IN DESIRE. A Journey Back to Your Feminine Essence If you're a heart-centered woman ready to embody your femininity, awaken your sacred sexuality, and fall deeply in love with yourself, this immersion is for you. Register: https://www.sexreimagined.com/rooted-in-desire THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. Support the show FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and Workbook SxR Website Dr. Willow's Website Leah's Website
Are you financially and emotionally prepared for divorce after 50 — or could gray divorce jeopardize your retirement and future security?Gray divorce is on the rise, and for many women, ending a long-term marriage later in life brings a unique set of financial, legal, and emotional challenges. Retirement accounts, alimony, property division, long-term security, and rebuilding confidence after decades of partnership all carry higher stakes. In this episode, matrimonial attorney Mia Poppe shares how women can navigate this transition strategically — protecting what they've built while stepping confidently into their next chapter.Gain clarity on how gray divorce impacts retirement, finances, alimony, and long-term planningLearn practical legal strategies to protect yourself and secure a fair outcomeDiscover how to rebuild confidence, independence, and purpose after a long marriagePress play now to learn how to protect your future, reclaim your power, and confidently navigate gray divorce with the right strategy in place.Join us on our podcast as we navigate the complexities of marriage, divorce, separation, and all related legal and emotional aspects, including adultery, alimony, child support, spousal support, timesharing, custody battles, and the financial impact of dissolution of marriage. Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women's Law Group Website- https://women-winning-divorce.captivate.fm/fwlg Mia Poppe's Links: Official website: https://www.miapoppe.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miapoppe.esq/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PoppeandAssociatesPC/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/law-firm-of-poppe-associates-pllc/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nylawsaDisclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue,...
Community Meditation Sign UpAbout Katie FarinasKatie Farinas is a midlife coach, yoga teacher, and spiritual guide who helps women navigate midlife with clarity, peace, purpose, and empowerment. Through yoga philosophy, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and energy-based practices, Katie supports women in reconnecting with their intuition and stepping fully into their most aligned and authentic selves.✨ Explore Katie's work and offerings:Visit Katie's websiteJoin the newsletter for soulful insightsRead and watch on SubstackBook a reflective Insight SeatSchedule a Clarity Call
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Summary In this conversation, Michele Magner interviews Anne Smith, author of 'Gray Divorce, My Life Rewritten.' They discuss the phenomenon of grey divorce, the societal changes affecting women's choices in midlife, and the importance of self-discovery and empowerment. Anne shares her personal journey through divorce, therapy, and finding love again, emphasizing that women deserve happiness and fulfillment at any age. The discussion highlights the significance of recognizing one's own needs and desires, overcoming fears, and embracing change as a path to a more joyful life.TakeawaysGrey divorce is a growing phenomenon affecting many couples over 50.Women today have more options and autonomy than previous generations.Many individuals feel stuck in unhappy relationships but fear making changes.Therapy can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and healing.Recognizing the signs of a failing marriage is crucial for personal growth.It's important to prioritize one's own happiness and needs.Ageism affects women's perceptions of their worth and opportunities.Facing fears about financial stability is common during life transitions.Finding love again is possible and can be fulfilling at any age.Rediscovering joy and purpose is essential for a meaningful life.Sound Bites"You need to lose your shadow.""It's okay for us to want more.""You have beautiful things to give."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Grey Divorce and Its Significance03:50 Understanding Grey Divorce: Statistics and Trends07:09 Personal Reflections: The Impact of Upbringing on Relationships10:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery Through Therapy13:02 Recognizing the Fault Lines in Marriage15:44 The Aha Moment: Realizing the Need for Change18:55 Empowerment and the Importance of Self-Value21:48 Navigating Ageism and Embracing Change25:10 Facing Fears: Financial and Emotional Concerns27:46 Finding Love Again: A New Relationship31:01 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Growth33:51 The Gift of Aging: Rediscovering Joy and Purpose37:00 Conclusion: Embracing Change and Moving Forward51:34 Podcast Intro Music Project (MASTER BOUNCE - OUTRO).mp3KeywordsGrey Divorce, self-discovery, empowerment, relationships, therapy, ageism, personal growth, women's issues, divorce, happinessConnect with Anne Smith Buy the book: Gray Divorce; My Life RewrittenRagini Michaels ProgramsBook Recommendation: Tara Westover, EducatedInspired Caring is THE family support & education program that helps families feel calm and confident to make better decisions faster. Inspired Caring is also offered as an annual membership tobusinesses to provide for the families they work with.Connect with Michele Magner:WebsiteE-mailInstagramFacebookLinkedInYouTubeCustom podcast music written and produced by Colin Roberts. He does custom songs for any occasion.
Gray divorce is one of the fastest-growing divorce trends, yet it remains one of the least talked about experiences. It is not just the end of a marriage. It is the unraveling of decades of shared life, identity, routines, and expectations. In this episode, Susan Guthrie is joined by gray divorce coach Maryjane Sweet for a deeply moving conversation about what it truly takes to navigate this transition with intention, emotional awareness, and integrity. Susan and Maryjane explore why gray divorce can feel so destabilizing, especially when it arrives unexpectedly, and how the loss extends far beyond the marriage itself. They talk about grief, identity shifts, nervous system overwhelm, and the invisible emotional labor women carry as they try to hold themselves and their families together during profound change. What You'll Learn Why gray divorce is not just a legal ending, but a profound emotional and identity shift after decades of shared life Why rituals around loss, such as leaving a family home or removing wedding rings, help create closure and support healing How daily anchors like sleep, nourishment, movement, and connection are essential tools during divorce Why adult children are deeply impacted by gray divorce and how parents can model integrity, resilience, and self-compassion How focusing on how you want to feel can help guide decisions when the future feels like a black hole Why coaching support can be critical during gray divorce and how it helps women move forward without getting stuck in the past About the Guest Maryjane is a gray divorce coach and consultant. She combines the lived experience of ending a 26-year marriage with deep professional training to help women navigate the emotional and practical complexities of gray divorce. She holds a master's in Organizational Behavior and is an !CF-certified PCC coach with over 1,500 client hours worldwide. She's trained in mindfulness and meditation through Duke University, is a certified trauma-informed yoga instructor, and has taught university courses on well-being and neuroscience-based stress regulation. With more than twenty years in leadership development and human transformation, she offers women a grounded, evidence-based pathway through midlife divorce - one that honors both the unraveling and the rising. Connect with Maryjane Sweet Website: http://maryjanesweet.com Instagram: @thegreydivorcecoach Blog Article + Free Downloadable Resource
Sex and intimacy don't disappear with age, but they do change. Andrew Hatherley welcomes JenMG, intimacy coach and educator, for a candid conversation about sex, desire, and connection in midlife and beyond. From long-term marriages and sexless relationships to rediscovering pleasure after divorce, this episode explores how intimacy evolves with aging bodies, changing hormones, and deeper self-awareness, and how reclaiming it can transform life after gray divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Dr. Becky Whetstone to talk honestly about marriage crisis, gray divorce, and what happens when one partner wants out and the other doesn't. Together, they unpack the emotional reality behind ending a marriage, the five stages of a dying relationship, and why divorce doesn't have to mean destruction—especially when children are involved. This conversation is compassionate, eye-opening, and filled with practical wisdom for anyone navigating the crossroads of love, loss, and midlife reinvention. What You'll Learn The five stages of a dying marriage and how to recognize where you are Why so many couples stay stuck in limbo—and how to break free What gray divorce is and why it's rising in midlife How managed separation can prevent unnecessary emotional damage What it really takes to create a more amicable, child-centered divorce ✨ A must-listen if you're questioning your marriage, facing divorce, or supporting someone who is.
2026 Dating Trends with the "Digital Matchmaker"Are you ready to "outsmart Cupid" in 2026? In this episode of the Cupid's Coach podcast, host Julie Ferman sits down with a true industry rockstar: Julie Spira, America's top online dating expert and founder of Cyber Dating Expert. With four decades of digital innovation and media experience, Julie Spira has watched every major trend shift—from the dial-up days of AOL to the AI-driven world of today.The two Julies dive into Spira's latest feature article, "Dating Trends to Expect in 2026," which outlines why singles are now demanding clarity, consistency, and emotional substance over surface-level thrills. Whether you are navigating a "gray divorce," re-entering the dating world after being widowed, or curious about the new role of AI, this episode is a masterclass in modern romance.Inside this Episode:* The 2026 Recalibration: Why "emotional safety" is replacing high-octane chemistry and performative "love bombing".* Gray Divorce as a Gateway: Viewing a late-life split as a "courageous recalibration" rather than a failure.* Widowed & Ready: Giving yourself permission to find companionship without guilt and why the "two-year rule" is officially outdated.* The "Tiny Town" Dynamics: Exploring dating in community-driven markets like Palm Springs versus the freeway-focused grind of Los Angeles.* The Digital Shift: How daters are using AI as a "warm-up tool" for pre-date nerves and why crowdsourcing your dating life on Reddit is going by the wayside.Join us for a candid look at the future of connection. It's time to stop playing games and start finding the partner who treats you right on a Monday morning—not just a Saturday night.Read the Full Article: Check out Julie Spira's Dating Trends to Expect in 2026 at CyberDatingExpert.com.#CupidsCoach #DatingTrends2026 #GrayDivorce #CyberDating #EmotionalSafety #RelationshipAdvice #Matchmaking #JulieSpirahttps://cyberdatingexpert.com/2026-dating-trends/
Send us a text“I don't want something new. I want something true.” That line becomes a compass as we unpack the rise of gray divorce and the very real reasons so many couples over 50 are choosing to end long marriages. We look beyond headlines and into the lived dynamics: years of emotional neglect, unresolved betrayals, the caretaker trap, and the quiet identity loss that can hide under busy family life. Once the house empties and the calendar clears, the state of the relationship stands in sharper focus—and for many, the choice becomes about integrity, safety, and being deeply known.We talk candidly about trauma responses after discovering an affair, why women often initiate midlife splits, and how longevity, retirement, and changing cultural norms reshuffle the equation. Emotional safety isn't a luxury; it's the floor. When stability asks you to abandon yourself, the cost becomes too high. You'll hear practical ways to get clear on your why, assess whether you like your reasons, and decide between repair and release. If repair is possible, it requires accountability, full honesty, and new patterns of connection. If leaving is right, you're not “starting over”—you're starting from wisdom, with new boundaries, better tools, and a stronger voice.This conversation offers grounded guidance for anyone navigating divorce after 50: how to handle grief and relief living side by side, how to rebuild identity and community, and how to make peace with dreams that need a rewrite. We also get real about dating later in life, financial confidence, and the shift from caretaking to true partnership. If betrayal, gaslighting, or long-standing disconnection have left you walking on eggshells, consider this your permission to choose truth and design a second half built on peace, purpose, and emotional intimacy.If this resonated, share it with someone who needs it, subscribe for more real talk about healing after betrayal, and leave a review so others can find the show. When you're ready for deeper support, visit lifecoachgen.com—your happily even after starts today.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 45 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com
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In this greatest hits episode of The Marriage Life Coach Podcast, I'm resharing one of my most important episodes for the long-term health of your marriage: teams versus alliances. This framework explains why some marriages thrive for decades while others dissolve—and gives you specific tools to strengthen yours starting today. Here's what made this especially timely: Oprah recently did a whole podcast episode on gray divorce (which has tripled for people 65+ since 1990). I've been talking about this phenomenon since 2016, and honestly? It made me do a little happy dance to see this conversation going mainstream. Because the more you understand what's driving gray divorce, the more you can prevent it in your own future. In this episode, I share updated research on gray divorce, then dive into the original framework about what separates marriages that stay strong from those that quietly drift apart. You'll discover: The exact difference between a team and an alliance (you'll immediately know which one you are) Why teams create happiness and resilience while alliances eventually run out of reasons to stay together Three mindset shifts to build more team spirit in your marriage Ready to make your marriage not just functional, but five-star? Let's dive in. RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Questions for Couples Journal Private Coaching with Maggie Growth Gap Workshop (FREE) Marriage Mindset Makeover Episode #1: How to Have a Better Marriage Bowling Green State University research on gray divorce Institute for Family Studies research
Women in midlife are questioning their marriages at record rates often feeling more independent, less willing to people-please, and deeply hungry for real emotional connection. But what is actually happening inside women (and men) during this season of life? In this timely and powerful episode, I sit down with renowned therapist and bestselling author Terry Real to unpack what's really driving the "gray divorce" trend — and why so many long-term relationships feel strained during perimenopause and postmenopause. And if you've ever wondered whether midlife relationship struggles mean your marriage is broken or simply ready to evolve, this episode offers the nuance, compassion, and tools that short-form advice can't. To view full show notes, resources mentioned, discount codes, transcripts, and more, visit https://drmindypelz.com/ep318/ Check out our community membership at https://resetacademy.drmindypelz.com Please note our medical disclaimer.
Do you feel like you might be heading toward a gray divorce after sharing a lifetime together? Tess was blindsided when her husband fell in love with her best friend. She spent six miserable years drowning in resentment, looking for a way to end the tension and arguments between them, and toying with the idea of divorce. She felt desperate and stuck. Then she realized the only way out was to change what was within. Today? Tess feels ridiculously happy. Her husband asked her to marry him again, she loves living life by his side, and they're enjoying their grandchildren together in ways she never imagined possible. Discover the vulnerable moment with a coach that changed everything, the hardest Intimacy Skill Tess had to master, and how she went from being alone and insecure to feeling safe, loved, and cherished in her golden years. If you're wondering whether it's too late to save your marriage, Tess's story will show you it's not only possible—it can become better than you ever dreamed. The Ridiculously Happy Wife group coaching program is on sale right now for the best possible price. Register now to get the discount and transform your own marriage! Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4pz66Xc
Susan Guthrie welcomes journalist and author Kelly James for a powerful, candid conversation about the financial realities and career reinvention that often accompany gray divorce. Kelly brings humor, vulnerability, and a generous heart as she reflects on starting over at 52, returning to the corporate world after decades as a freelancer, and navigating the emotional load of single parenting. Together, Susan and Kelly explore the truth behind the fears, the unfair expectations, the unexpected challenges, and the surprising strengths that emerge when life takes a turn you never planned for. What You'll Discover in This Episode The financial reality of starting over in midlife is real and heavy, but not impossible Reinvention in your fifties isn't about dramatic leaps, in fact, Kelly explains how losing a financial safety net pushed her back into corporate life after 20 years as a freelancer How the emotional load can be heavy, but but one courageous choice at a time can help you steer your own life EPISODE RESOURCES: Article: Gray Divorce Is Different: Financial Realities No One Tells You and the Episode FREE Downloadable Resource: The Midlife Divorce Financial Reset Checklist More About Our Special Guest: Kelly K. James "escaped from the law" more than 25 years ago to become a fulltime freelance journalist. The former attorney is the author of books including The Book That (Almost) Got Me Fired: How I (Barely) Survived a Year in Corporate America; Writer for Hire: 101 Secrets to Freelance Success, and Six-Figure Freelancing: The Writer's Guide to Making More Money, Second Edition. She's now a full-time legal content manager and part-time freelancer who works, writes, plays 8-ball, and attempts to golf from her home outside Chicago, which she shares with two teens, a rescue pup, and an extra-chunky spoiled cat. Kelly's Website and Book: The Book That (Almost) Got Me Fired: https://amzn.to/48kPmNA kellykjames.net Social Media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellykjames ******************************* Make the Most of Your Listening Experience: If this episode resonates with you, be sure to: Subscribe to Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with friends or loved ones who need hope and healing. Leave a 5-star review to help us reach even more listeners. Follow Us Online: Divorce & Beyond: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com, IG: @divorceandbeyondpod Meet Our Host Susan E. Guthrie®, Esq. is one of the nation's leading family law and mediation experts, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate divorce and conflict with clarity and compassion. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker, trainer, and practice-building consultant. Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast, where she shared her insights on gray divorce and the changing landscape of relationships. Her expertise has also been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC's Chicago Today, among many others. As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with more than 3.4 million downloads, Susan brings together top experts and powerful personal stories to help listeners move through divorce and beyond with confidence, insight, and hope. Learn more about Susan and her work at susaneguthrie.com. Divorce & Beyond is a Top 1% Overall and Top 100 Self-Help podcast designed to help you with all you need to know to navigate your divorce journey and most importantly, to thrive in your beautiful beyond! ***************************************************************************** A Smarter, Simpler Way to Navigate Your Divorce Looking for a clearer and more affordable way to move through your divorce? Check out Hello Divorce. Their guided online platform combines easy-to-follow tools with real legal and coaching support to help you complete your divorce with less stress, less confusion, and far lower costs than a traditional courtroom battle. They have created a special page just for Divorce & Beyond listeners. Explore your options at hellodivorce.com/susan. ****************** Special Offer from Blue Mercury! Treat yourself to luxury skincare, makeup, and fragrance favorites from Blue Mercury, your destination for beauty and self-care. Divorce & Beyond listeners receive 15% off their first order when they use the special link in the show notes. Because you deserve to look and feel your best, inside and out. 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Robert Redford has passed away at 89 years old. Should he be the next inspiration for the next Bob's Movie Club? Here's the need-to-know of Monday Night Football. A classic Sarah and Vinnie story: The Lucky Butt! Can these eye drops replace reading glasses? We're living longer than we used to, and Japan has set a new record for people over 100. Plus, the dating app stigma is officially dead. Sofia Vergara skipped the Emmys for the Emergency Room. And guess what! Her SISTER is coming to our screens soon. Can you name the TV shows that made these songs famous? It's National IT Professionals Day - THANK YOU for suggesting we try turning it off and back on, it usually does work. Keep your eyes peeled for a new iPhone update. The kids are online shopping on their parents' credit cards. California is expanding its fast charging network for electric cars. “We” have a new president! We put our trust in Samwise Gamgee, or Bob from Stranger Things. Thank your knee caps today if they're still serving you well. Seth Rogen and Aziz Ansari's new movie almost took out Keanu Reeves'. If you see Elton John, be sure to compliment his new jewelry. Vinnie warns us of the dark side of the web. GenX and Boomers can agree! The Coachella lineup is here, and whether you want bands, popstars, or EDM there's something for you! Gavin Adcock is not impressed by Zach Bryan's antics - is anyone?? Jelly Roll is still cruising through Europe - dropping LBS and sporting LV! Iron Maiden takes on the National Anthem in Pittsburgh. Today's new term: Gray Divorce! Stay together for the kids? Nah, they're adults now. Plus, lots of giggles.
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