Podcast appearances and mentions of gray divorce

"What I really was grieving was the loss of what I'd hoped my marriage would have been." – Pat Fenner Our hosts, Stephanie McCullough and Kevin Gaines, sit down with author and podcaster Pat Fenner, who shares her powerful journey through "gray divorce"—divorce that happens to women over 50, typically after a decade or more of marriage. After 37 years of marriage, Pat found herself having to start over at an age when most couples are planning retirement together. Her story brings to light the unique challenges facing women in gray divorce, from employment gaps that make renting an apartment nearly impossible to the crushing blow to self-worth that comes with feeling "unemployable" after decades focused on family. Pat's transformation from feeling like she'd "end up being a greeter at Walmart" to building a successful podcast production business offers hope and practical wisdom. Her journey highlights hidden skills many women possess but don't recognize—skills developed through years of unpaid but invaluable work managing households, raising children, and caring for aging parents. Perhaps most powerfully, Pat discusses reclaiming her identity and becoming what she calls the family "matriarch,” which is not someone who controls, but someone who serves by sharing hard-won wisdom. Her advice to women in similar situations is to take inventory of your skills, involve yourself in family finances before you have to, and remember that "being a grown ass woman" isn't selfish. It's actually inspiring!   Key Topics ●      “What the Heck is Gray Divorce?” (02:14) ●      Employment and Housing Challenges (03:56) ●      The Emotional Toll and Self-Image Impact (06:30) ●      Discovering Hidden Skills and New Purpose (17:48) ●      Overcoming Financial Shame (22:37) ●      Redefining Retirement Goals (28:16) ●      Embracing the Role of Matriarch (34:39)   Resources: ReBuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce (book) Pat Fenner Website Pat Fenner Gray Resources Silver Women with a Bright Future Podcast   If you like what you've been hearing, we invite you to subscribe on your favorite platform and leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode! Or better yet, tell us what you want to hear more of in the future. stephanie@sofiafinancial.com   You can find the transcript and more information about this episode at www.takebackretirement.com.   Follow Stephanie on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.  Follow Kevin on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube and LinkedIn.

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Join Eric, @CSIBillCrane, @TimAndrewsHere, @Autopritts, @JaredYamamoto, Greg, and George LIVE on 95.5 WSB from 3pm-7pm as they chat about Radioactive Wasps, Magical Armpit Odor, Gray Divorce and so much more! *New episodes of our sister shows: The Popcast with Tim Andrews and The Nightcap with Jared Yamamoto are available as well!

This excerpt from FutureSTRONG Academy's website examines the growing trend of gray divorce, exploring how men and women express indifference differently inrelationships. It highlights the role of biology, particularly serotonin levels, and societal expectations in shaping these differing expressions. The article also discusses the impact of a lack of positive reinforcement and the challenges faced by women who prioritize family over career. Finally, itemphasizes the importance of open communication and understanding in navigating relationship difficulties, whether leading to separation or reconciliation. This podcast helps us answer these questions:  How do societal expectations influence gray divorce rates? What biological and psychological factors fuel marital indifference? How does evolving self-perception affect relationship dynamics? Read the article HERE: How Men AndWomen Display Their Indifference Can Be A Prelude To Separation: ⁠https://futurestrong.org/2024/01/12/how-men-and-women-display-their-indifference-can-be-a-prelude-to-separation/

This episode of The D Shift highlights the importance of knowing your options, particularly when going through a gray divorce. Mardi Winder-Adams is joined by Laura Phillips, a respected and seasoned reverse mortgage specialist. Together, they explore the realities and misconceptions surrounding reverse mortgages. Laura brings more than three decades of experience in mortgage lending, and her passion for helping older adults navigate this little-understood financial option is evident throughout the conversation.Laura traces the origins of reverse mortgages to the Reagan era, clarifying that these products are government-regulated loans intended for homeowners aged 62 and older. She dismantles some of the most stubborn myths, like the fear that the government will take away your home or that a you can be left unprotected. Instead, Laura explains, homeowners retain full title, and the loan simply functions as a means to convert home equity into usable cash, either through lump sums, monthly payments, or lines of credit, all without the obligation of a monthly mortgage payment.They share a practical comparison between reverse mortgages and traditional HELOCs, highlighting how reverse mortgages can be especially useful for those with limited income in retirement, offering flexibility without demanding repayment until the homeowner sells or moves out of the property. Laura also notes recent legislative changes that further protect borrowers, ensuring better safety if both spouses reside in the home.The discussion extends to considerations for anyone looking to age in place, including the ability to use reverse mortgage funds to modify homes for accessibility or to pay for in-home care. Laura urges listeners to approach these decisions thoughtfully, consult professionals, and always disclose their circumstances honestly, especially when dealing with properties that have rental units or additional occupants.This episode is a great resource for individuals contemplating their financial future after divorce, widowhood, or simply as part of their retirement planning. Laura's expertise makes the sometimes-intimidating topic of reverse mortgages feel much more manageable and relevant for anyone seeking clear information on the subject.About the Guest:Laura Phillips is a Licensed Reverse Mortgage Specialist with a mission to guide people through the entire HECM/Reverse loan process, so they feel confident about the options available for their next 30-year financial strategy. From helping real estate professionals, customers, and financial advisers navigate home financing, she helps customers find mortgage solutions that work for them. 25+ years of experience in real estate lending have taught Laura that it is not just a person's house; it's their home, and it's one of the most significant financial commitments a person will make in their life. She helps people devise strategies to enjoy their best years in their family homes. Licensed in Colorado, Arizona, California, and Florida, Laura specializes in the standard FHA HECM and proprietary PortfolioJumbo Reverse loans. As a Broker, she works with several primary reverse lenders, providing loans to enhance a client's cash flow, preserving retirement assets, or purchasing a home that meets future needs. Married 35+ years, a mother of two amazing daughters, and a pet guardian of a rambunctious King Shepherd, a German Shepherd hybrid. Having hailed from many states, all west of the Mississippi and a couple of overseas homes, she gladly calls Colorado home.To connect with Laura:Website: https://lauraphillips.com/Linkedin.com/in/laurawphillips YouTube.com/@laurawphillipsAbout the Host: Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in

In this eye-opening episode of We Chat Divorce, we welcome Kara Chrobak, a Colorado-based family law attorney who brings deep insight into high-net-worth divorce, complex asset division, and marital agreements. Kara recently launched her own practice—Bespoke Law LLC—after over 15 years in big law. What we talk about with Kara: Why mediation sometimes feels more like pressure than resolution—and how to shift that narrative How to approach settlement with a risk tolerance lens rather than fear Why documentation and financial clarity are non-negotiable before negotiating The nuances of gray divorce, including retirement planning, lifetime maintenance, and emotional shifts When and how to consider a postnuptial agreement—and the legal pitfalls to avoid The critical importance of aligned communication between attorneys and financial professionals How MDS clients enter legal conversations more prepared and empowered Kara also shares her thoughtful, compassionate approach to working with clients and why education is the antidote to anxiety in divorce. Whether you're divorcing at 35 or 65, this conversation offers clarity, wisdom, and real-world advice from professionals who believe in empowering you with knowledge. Connect with Kara Chrobak, Esq., Founder, Bespoke Law LLC, Colorado  bespokelawllc.com Next Steps: Take the Free Divorce Financial Assessment Share this episode with someone navigating a high-net-worth or gray divorce Follow us for more empowering conversations Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Housewives stars Alexia Nepola and Jennifer Fessler are joining forces to give you the latest in divorce news! Which A-list celeb is having his own "gray" divorce? (And some tips on how to navigate your own silver situation). Plus, Alexia explains how watching her own marital issues play out on camera, right now, makes her feel! And, the women give their thoughts on fellow housewife Porsha Williams' post-divorce interview. Email us at: IDOPOD@iheartradio.com or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"What if the loneliness you feel in your marriage is actually preparing you for the solitude that could set you free?"Pat Fenner thought she knew how marriages were supposed to end. After 37 years, the slow drift into loneliness felt normal. But when divorce blindsided her, this mother of five discovered something unexpected: she had been lonely even when married. What followed was a journey from feeling like a "hard little kernel" to coming home to herself in ways she never imagined. Pat's story challenges everything we think we know about fighting for relationships versus fighting for ourselves."I absolutely love my life right now," Pat declares—words she couldn't have said for fifteen years. Through raw honesty, she reveals the red flags she missed, the fear that kept her trapped, and the surprising difference between solitude and loneliness. Her advice? Stop thinking marriage gets worse with time. Sometimes the very thing we think will destroy our relationship—standing up for ourselves—might actually save it. For those facing gray divorce or feeling alone in their marriage, Pat's journey offers both hope and practical wisdom.Pat Fenner is a podcast producer, author, and advocate for those navigating gray divorce, Her book "Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Joy, and Significance" features her signature STRENGTHS framework designed to help women savor simplicity, rebuild trust, and embrace their future. Pat also produces the podcast "Silver Women, Bright Future," exploring resilience and personal growth through real-life stories and biblical wisdom. Having transformed her own pain into purpose, Pat proves that life doesn't end post-divorce—it transforms into something even more authentic and joyful.About The Show: The Life in Transition, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we're given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online.In This Episode: (00:00) Pat's Divorce Story Begins(03:50) Marriage Red Flags and Warning Signs(09:04) The Phone Problem in Relationships(16:42) MidLife Transition Mastery Ad(19:11) When Did You Know It Was Over?(28:49) Life After Divorce - Growth and Healing(34:19) Building Authentic New Relationships(46:55) Transition Mastery Coaching Ad(49:47) Advice for Those Facing Gray Divorce(58:17) Journaling as a Self-Discovery ToolLike, subscribe, and send us your comments and feedback.Resources:Pat Fenner Website: https://www.patfenner.me/Gray Divorce Resources: patfenner.me/gray-divorceBook: "Rebuilding Your Life After A Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Significance and Joy" (Amazon)Email Art BlanchfordLife in Transition WebsiteLife in Transition on IGLife in Transition on FBJoin Our Community: https://www.lifeintransition.online/My new book PURPOSEFUL LIVING is out now. Order it now: https://www.amazon.com/PURPOSEFUL-LIVING-Wisdom-Coming-Complex/dp/1963913922Explore our website https://lifeintransitionpodcast.com/ for more in-depth information and resources, and to download the 8-step guide to mastering mid-life transitions.The views and opinions expressed on the Life In Transition podcast are solely those of the author and guests and should not be attributed to any other individual or entity. This podcast is an independent production of Life In Transition Podcast, and the podcast production is an original work of the author. All rights of ownership and reproduction are retained—copyright 2025. 

This week, Damon Roberts and Matt Deaton discuss the evolving landscape of retirement planning, focusing on the fears surrounding financial security and the necessity of comprehensive financial strategies. They explore the implications of working into retirement, the impact of inflation, and the rising trend of gray divorce. The conversation also delves into the role of annuities in providing guaranteed income, emphasizing the importance of education and understanding in making informed financial decisions. For more information or to schedule a consultation, call 480-680-6868 or visit www.successinthenewretirement.com! Follow us on social media: Facebook | LinkedInSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episode 337 - The rate of gray divorce—defined as divorce after the age of 50 following a long-term marriage—has increased in recent years. The financial impact can be especially difficult for women.

In This Week's The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz, Ilyssa Welcomes Life and Relationship Coach Dianne Harris on Love Bombing. Attorney and Co-Founder of the Family Law Department at Brach Eichler Sean Smith on Gray Divorce and Alzheimer's Awareness Month The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz is a safe and comfortable place for listeners to put their feet up and escape from the daily grind while we offer you comfort and advice during a challenging and often isolating time in your life. It is hard to turn to friends and family who don't understand what you are going through emotionally, mentally, or economically but we do and there is nothing to feel ashamed about! While the topics and guests will vary every week – the messaging is always the same: we are going to help you get through this dark period and despite how bleak you may think things look. If you cannot see the audio controls,

Divorce hit me to the core, and it totally broke me. The good news is that I'm still alive. And because of that, I know my story isn't over. Pat Fenner So glad to know Pat Fenner and you will be too after listening to our conversation today. You will hear how someone who thought they were "married for life" got through the pain and brokenness and began to flourish again. Pat provides simple (not always easy) baby steps to get you started again in a new life, single again, and finding new opportunities for self-discovery as well as deepening your relationship with God.  Get your book today and share it with a friend who may need to hear real-life experience of a "gray divorce" - defined and what to do next. We are hosting a giveaway of: Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce – A Path to healing, Significance, and Joy Leave a comment on social media or email me at sue@welcomeheart.com to be entered. And you may want to buy one for your church, your pastor or your financial advisor!    

In This Week's The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz, Ilyssa Welcomes Founder, DivorceCoach4Women, Mardi Winder-Adams, to Discuss The Challenges of Gray Divorce. The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz is a safe and comfortable place for listeners to put their feet up and escape from the daily grind while we offer you comfort and advice during a challenging and often isolating time in your life. It is hard to turn to friends and family who don't understand what you are going through emotionally, mentally, or economically but we do and there is nothing to feel ashamed about! While the topics and guests will vary every week – the messaging is always the same: we are going to help you get through this dark period and despite how bleak you may think things look. If you cannot see the audio controls,

In this episode of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew tackles one of the most emotional and financially complex aspects of late-life divorce, the fate of the family home. From affordability to emotional attachment to tax implications, this episode offers a deep dive into how to make thoughtful, informed decisions about selling or keeping the house after divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!

Send Jay comments via textWhat happens to long-term relationships when the kids leave home? In this candid conversation, relationship coach Dr. Marie Murphy shares her insightful and judgment-free perspective on the growing phenomenon of gray divorce—the trend of couples separating after the age of 50. With her PhD in sociology of sexuality, Dr. Murphy challenges conventional views on infidelity and relationship transitions. She emphasizes the importance of being honest with ourselves about what we truly want: “Do you want to reconnect, or do you just think you should want to reconnect?” This distinction lies at the heart of our discussion and leads to deeper explorations of relationship dynamics during midlife.Highlights:Understanding gray divorce: 40% of divorces now occur after age 50, often linked to infidelity.The role of intentional curiosity in revitalizing relationships and fostering deeper connections.The dilemma of feeling responsible for others' emotions and how it conflicts with cultural ideas of individualism.Empowering thoughts that help you navigate your relationship choices without guilt or shame.Key Takeaways:Approaching infidelity with a non-judgmental mindset allows for clearer decision-making.The sociology of sexuality focuses on understanding actual behaviors in relationships rather than adhering to societal norms.Making relationship choices often involves balancing competing desires rather than straightforward right or wrong decisions.Marie Murphy's BioDr. Marie Murphy is a non-judgmental infidelity coach, and the host of the podcast Your Secret is Safe with Me. Much of the so-called advice out there for people who are engaging in infidelity is little more than thinly veiled judgment, but that's not what Marie provides. Marie offers guidance and support that respects the fullness of your humanity, and the complexity of your situation - no matter what you're doing in the infidelity department. To learn more about Marie and her coaching services, go to https://www.mariemurphyphd.com.Find Marie Online: Instagram, FacebookSupport the showFREE WORKBOOK3 Steps to Loving Your Empty Nest Life ENJOY THE SHOW?Don't miss an episode, subscribe via Apple Podcasts or follow on Spotify and many more. LOVE THE SHOW?Get your THIS EMPTY NEST LIFE swagReview us on Love the Podcast, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify -- reviews and ratings help others find us and we'd appreciate your support greatly.CONNECT WITH JAYEmail, LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok

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In this episode of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce and Beyond, host Mardi Winder-Adams welcomes back Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP and a seasoned divorce attorney and financial analyst. They delve into the complexities of gray divorce, focusing on the unique challenges faced by women over 50.Lisa shares her expertise on critical topics such as:• The financial impact of divorcing after a long-term marriage• The realities of alimony and why permanent support is increasingly rare• Strategies for rebuilding financial independence post-divorce• The importance of understanding and dividing retirement assets• How to approach the division of the marital home and other significant assetsThey also discuss the emotional aspects of starting over later in life and the importance of seeking professional guidance. Lisa highlights resources like Savvy Ladies, offering free financial counseling to women navigating these transitions. The conversation also addresses the need for careful financial planning and working with trusted advisors who can help clarify budgets, retirement funds, and sustainable lifestyle choices. Lisa and Mardi examine the impact of adult children's involvement in divorce negotiations, encouraging parents to put their own well-being first. Additionally, they discuss decisions around the marital home and vacation properties, highlighting tax considerations and the importance of prioritizing personal needs. Throughout the conversation, Lisa's advice always circles back to the need for clear understanding and realistic planning to secure a stable future after divorce.Whether you're facing a gray divorce, supporting someone who is, or simply want to be informed, this episode provides valuable insights to help you move forward with confidence.About the Guest:Lisa Zeiderman is Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, based in New York. A matrimonial attorney, CFL and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, she regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters, as well as pre- and post-nuptial agreements for high-net-worth individuals. Named to the Crain's New York list of Notable Leaders in Accounting, Consulting and Law for 2024, Notable Woman Attorneys for 2021 and 2022, as well as a Crain's New York Notable Diverse Lawyer for 2022, a Hudson Valley Best Lawyer in 2022, 2023 and 2024, and a Super Lawyer, Lisa has received a host of awards recognizing outstanding client service and others that reflect peer review. Lisa is a founding member of the American Academy of Certified Financial Litigators and a member of the panel for Attorneys for Children. In addition to authoring a well-read blog on Psychology Today, “Legal Matters: Understanding Mental Health Issues as They Apply to Divorce and Child Custody,” and co-hosting the Savvy Ladies podcast “The Power of the Ask”, Ms. Zeiderman is regularly published in Financial Advisor Magazine, The New York Law Journal, and by the Forbes Business Council. She is also interviewed on issues ranging from financial empowerment to tax issues to child custody in a host of media and podcasts and speaks to groups on these topics as well. Ms. Zeiderman, a Fordham University of Law graduate, serves as Board Chair of Savvy Ladies, Inc., and serves on the board of Family Legal Care (formerly known as LIFT, Legal Information for Families Today). Lisa is also a member of the Forbes Business Council and Chief.To connect with Lisa:Website: www.lisazeiderman.com Social Media: @LisaZeiderman on LinkedIn, FB, Insta, XAbout the Host: Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal,...

Andrew chats with Lisa McCluskey, host of The Silver Divorce Podcast, who talks about her personal journey through divorce after retirement and how it inspired her to launch a platform to support others navigating mid-to-late life divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!

In Anita's lifetime, the divorce rate for Americans over 55 has doubled. People are living longer, divorce stigma has decreased and women are more financially independent. But leaving a decades-long marriage … is a big life upheaval. Anita gets personal accounts from two gray divorcees about what it was like to rebuild their identities, finances and freedom post-divorce. They discuss money management, surfing and why women initiate divorce most often in heterosexual partnerships.Meet the guests:- Laura Stassi is a writer, editor and the host of the podcast "Dating While Gray"- Dr. Stephanie Han is a literature scholar, award-winning author and educatorSpecial thanks to Nanette Murphy and Linda Lingo for sharing their thoughts for this episode!Read the transcript | Review the podcast on your preferred platformFollow Embodied on Instagram Leave a message for EmbodiedPlease note: This episode originally aired August 15, 2024.Update: Stephanie's guide to writing your divorce story and her class on the same topic was featured on Oprah Daily. You can check out Climbing the Walls here.

In this episode of Divorce Explored, co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan unpack the themes from Time Magazine's viral article, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce” by Ada Calhoun. They explore the emotional and financial realities facing Gen X women navigating midlife questions, career shifts, and marriage fatigue. Drawing from personal experience and professional expertise, Karen and Catherine offer a grounded, supportive take on the “3 a.m. moment” many women face—and what it really means to want something more. Highlights Include: The emotional turning point that prompts many midlife divorces How financial clarity can bring confidence before making big decisions Why not all women who explore divorce are seeking to leave The importance of knowing what you have before deciding what you want Listen & Subscribe: Catch this episode and more on We Chat Divorce—your go-to resource for navigating the financial and emotional side of divorce with confidence. Visit our website: mydivorcesolution.com Have a question or an idea for a future topic? We want to hear from you!! Email us: WeChat@ck11.net  Special thanks to Ada Calhoun for sparking this important conversation through her powerful essay, “When Having It All Becomes Wanting a Divorce,” published by time. We encourage everyone to read the full piece: https://time.com/7216367/gen-x-women-midlife-divorce-essay  Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tracy Moore-Grant and guest Andrew Hatherley discuss the benefits of amicable divorce, particularly for those over 50, known as gray divorce. They explore the financial implications, emotional recovery, and the importance of having the right professionals involved in the divorce process. The conversation emphasizes the need for a team approach to navigate complicated assets and the significance of maintaining relationships post-divorce.To dive deeper into the amicable approach; get your own copy of our new book Divorce Amicably: Your Road to Resolution covering everything you need to know to be well-informed. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find it on Amazon⁠⁠⁠More from ADN on IG and all your other socials:@amicabledivorcenetwork@divorceamicably

Divorce after 50—often called gray divorce—comes with its own unique challenges and hidden truths. In this eye-opening episode of Doing Divorce Different, I sit down with seasoned attorney Michelle to dive deep into the emotional, financial, and relational complexities of gray divorce.Whether you're an empty nester questioning your future, someone who's felt controlled or stuck in a long-term marriage, or a woman wondering if there's still time to rebuild her life—this episode is for you.We're talking real talk:

What if the end of a long marriage could be the beginning of financial freedom? In this episode, Jaime sits down with Haleh Moddasser, Managing Partner and Senior Wealth Advisor at Stearns Financial Group, to explore the financial realities of Gray divorce—when couples split later in life. Haleh shares why women over 50 are initiating divorce more often, the costly mistakes they need to avoid, and how to negotiate from a position of strength. From understanding the true value of assets to rethinking alimony and navigating Social Security benefits, this episode is packed with essential advice for building financial independence after divorce. Whether you're facing a Gray divorce or supporting someone who is, Haleh offers both insight and inspiration for what's next.Need help from Haleh? Contact her by visiting www.stearnsfinancial.com.Check out Stearns' Women in MotionGet Haleh's book, "Gray Divorce, Silver Linings"If you are in need of legal assistance in North Carolina, contact us at Gailor Hunt by visiting www.divorceistough.com.Like this show? Rate it here! While the information presented is intended to provide you with general information to navigate divorce without destruction, this podcast is not legal advice. This information is based on specific to navigating relocation by the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

"Gray Divorce – Navigating the New Chapter"Divorce rates among couples over 50 are on the rise, leading to what's now called Gray Divorce. In this episode, we explore the unique challenges and emotional shifts that come with ending a long-term marriage later in life. From financial implications to rediscovering independence, we discuss how to heal, rebuild, and embrace this unexpected new chapter. Whether you're going through it or supporting someone who is, tune in for insight, advice, and real-life experiences on navigating love, loss, and self-discovery in the later years.#GrayDivorce #LifeAfterDivorce #StartingOver #DivorceOver50 #SelfDiscovery #Healing #NewBeginnings #LoveAndLoss #FinancialFreedom #RebuildingLife

Sheryl Rowling, editorial director for financial advice at Morningstar Inc, discusses the financial and tax issues that could come up during and after a gray divorce.Limiting the Financial Impact of a Gray DivorceHow to Budget After DivorceWhat to Do if There's a Budget Shortfall Social Security Divorce BenefitsGray Divorce Near RetirementWill a New Tax-Filing Status Result in Higher Taxes? How to Fairly Split Assets in Divorce How to Avoid Tax Penalties When Dividing Retirement AccountsPros and Cons of Keeping the Family HomeSelling the House and Downsizing After DivorceWhy Hire Professionals to Help with a Gray Divorce  Read about topics from this episode.  Gray Divorce: 10 Financial and Tax Issues You Must Know After 50Maybe You Shouldn't Delay Taking Your Social Security Benefits After AllSix Retirement Withdrawal Strategies That Stretch Savings6 Retirement Financial Myths to AvoidWhat You Need to Know About Capital Gains DistributionsHow to Choose a Financial Advisor What to watch from Morningstar. Why the Bond Market Looks Brighter Than It Did in 2022Where to Find Bargain Stocks in an Expensive Market These 4 Dividend ETFs Strike the Right Balance for Income Investors Vanguard Fee Cuts May Be Small, But They're a Win For Investors Read what our team is writing:Sheryl RowlingIvanna Hampton Follow us on social media.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MorningstarInc/X: https://x.com/MorningstarIncInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/morningstar... LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/5161/ 

Divorce has been an unfortunate reality for many years, but more couples are calling it quits over age 50. As Valentine's Day approaches, Sarah and Tennille share suggestions for strengthening marriages as we age, in hopes of preventing "gray" divorce.

In a special Valentine's Day episode of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew interviews nationally acclaimed dating coach Bela Gandhi. Bela discusses the work she does with gray divorcees, coaching them through the dating process. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!

In episode 49 of the Law in the Family podcast, host Aaron D. Weems speaks with attorney Bob Salzer about issues he has encountered with older litigants, and the unique challenges facing the Baby Boomer generation in divorces. Robert Salzer, Esquire is a partner with Williams Family Law in Doylestown, Bucks County. Bob is a fellow with the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys and frequent speaker on family law issues, when he's not playing hockey or spending time with his family. The Law in the Family podcast host, Aaron D. Weems, is a partner and family law attorney at Fox Rothschild LLP in Blue Bell, Pa. *audio editing, voice over & music by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Nick DeMatteo

Rebuilding Life After Gray Divorce, with Author Pat Fenner (North Fulton Business Radio, Episode 841) In this episode of North Fulton Business Radio, host John Ray speaks with Pat Fenner, a podcast producer, author, and host of the Silver Women, Bright Future podcast. Pat shares her personal journey through a gray divorce and how she […] The post Rebuilding Life After Gray Divorce, with Author Pat Fenner appeared first on Business RadioX ®.

Rebuilding Life After Gray Divorce, with Author Pat Fenner (North Fulton Business Radio, Episode 841) In this episode of North Fulton Business Radio, host John Ray speaks with Pat Fenner, a podcast producer, author, and host of the Silver Women, Bright Future podcast. Pat shares her personal journey through a gray divorce and how she […]

Heather & Terry share their highs and lows of 2024 and sage advice going into 2025 INCLUDING: Terry's journey to getting board certified (again), IMPORTANT NEW YEAR HEALTH TIPS FROM THE DUBROWS (including one thing that can indicate how you'll live), and How to spend your money on yourself and your kids! PLUS: Is it possible to have a BAD time in Courchevel? Is flying private worth it? What have the other housewives been saying about Terry?? Would you rather be cherished or respected? What is GRAY DIVORCE? And why are Heather and Terry proponents of KILLING THE MESSENGER??? Let's Talk is sponsored by G-Defy sneakers! Head to GDEFY.com and use code HEATHER for 50% off your entire order!

"Gray divorce" is on the rise and Dee and Miles are on the case! Tune in to for a discussion on the cause and effect of this booming situation and leave with a few tools to help combat this thing! Dee's, "Who's mans is this!" is a doosie! For questions and comments, email Dee and Miles at deeandmiles@gmail.com or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683 (LOVE). You can check Dee and Miles on the socials @deeandmilespodcast on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok. Intro: (00:30) Listener Letter: (03:13) Who's mans is this: (08:03) The grays F'n up the holidays: (10:34) Mr. Miles' tool of the day: (19:40) Wrapup: (25:44) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deeandmiles/support

Are you prepared for the unique challenges—and opportunities—of navigating divorce later in life?Gray divorce is on the rise, and if you're considering or facing a late-in-life divorce, this episode is your guide to safeguarding your financial future, protecting your assets, and securing the lifestyle you deserve.Discover practical strategies to protect your retirement accounts, pensions, and other valuable assets.Gain insights on planning for long-term care and health insurance post-divorce.Learn why prenuptial agreements and estate planning are essential if remarriage is in your future.Tune in to gain invaluable financial and emotional strategies for navigating your next chapter, with expert insights from Kimberly Nelson, Certified Financial Advisor and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.Join us on our podcast as we navigate the complexities of marriage, divorce, separation, and all related legal and emotional aspects, including adultery, alimony, child support, spousal support, timesharing, custody battles, and the financial impact of dissolution of marriage.Interact with us on socials! Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women's Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/Kimberly Nelson's Links: Official website- https://coastalbridgeadvisors.com/LinkedIn-https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-nelson-cfa-9113316/ Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women's Law Group.Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast's advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast's creator is prohibited.Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com

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In this episode of The Matt Feret Show I interview divorce and family lawyer Seth Nelson. Seth has over sixteen years of experience family law and hosts the divorce and marriage podcast How to Split a Toaster. We discuss the nuances of gray divorce, or a divorce between a couple in middle age and beyond. Seth breaks down social and financial considerations and provides his expert advice on how to find a divorce lawyer that fits individual needs and circumstances. Introduction to Seth Nelson with Matt Feret [1:09]Unpacking Gray Divorce Trends with Seth Nelson [3:46] Breaking Down the Separation Stage of Divorce with Seth Nelson [13:46]Navigating the Financial Complications of Gray Divorce with Seth Nelson [17:48]Finding a Divorce Lawyer with Seth Nelson [56:33]Gray Divorce Final Thoughts with Matt Feret and Seth Nelson [1:06:16]Connect with me via the podcast website, LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram.Check out Seth's LinkedIn, firm website, and How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a textAndrew chats with Marianne Oehser, a Certified Retirement and Relationship Coach. They discuss the link between retirement and late life divorce and the danger that an unstructured, poorly planned retirement can have on a marriage. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss the unique challenges and opportunities that come along with different seasons of parenting, from newlyweds to the empty nest. How can you keep your marriage strong in every season?Questions to Discuss:1. What's your favorite season of the year? (Winter, spring, summer, fall)2. How can you keep your marriage strong in your current season of marriage and parenting?3. Regardless of the season you're in, what are the priorities for your marriage and family?4. What can you do today in your marriage to help you finish the race strong?Scriptures:PR 15:22Luke 6:47-49John 16:331 Corinthians 7:28Phil 2:3-4Mark 10:45Eph 5:15-16Romans 12:2Hebrews 12:1-2Resources:Are You at Risk for Gray Divorce?, by Focus on the Family

Mariah Carey is over a very specific kind of light, Dave Grohl is in therapy and Khloe Kardashian opens up about a procedure she had on her face. Plus Kelly Ripa teaches us what a Gray Divorce and we find out what MyTalker's think of the Heidi and Leni Klum lingerie photoshoot. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mariah Carey is over a very specific kind of light, Dave Grohl is in therapy and Khloe Kardashian opens up about a procedure she had on her face. Plus Kelly Ripa teaches us what a Gray Divorce and we find out what MyTalker's think of the Heidi and Leni Klum lingerie photoshoot. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode of The Loving Truth, I discuss the unique challenges and opportunities of going through a 'gray divorce'—divorce after the age of 50. Divorce is never easy, but divorcing later in life comes with its own set of complexities, from financial considerations to emotional shifts. I share valuable insights, statistics, and advice for those navigating this stage of life and relationship changesMentioned In This EpisodeNEED ANSWERS ABOUT YOUR STRUGGLING MARRIAGE?I'll teach you how to get them in my FREE video series, 4 Ways to Find Clarity in Your Struggling Marriage. No more paralyzing indecision or fear of regret; just a clear, realistic path toward happiness.Get instant access at https://sharonpopefreetraining.com/training. If you've been stuck and struggling in your marriage for years or even decades, and you're serious about finding the confidence, clarity, and peace you desire, it's time to book a truth and clarity session.Go to clarityformymarriage.com to fill out an application.