Genuine Human Connection

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TOP SOURCESAlain de Botton, “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person,” The School of Life, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EvvPZFdjykJoanne Davila, “Skills for Healthy Romantic Relationships,” TEDxSBU, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gh5VhaicC6gJohn Gottman, “The Science of Love” TEDxVeniceBeach, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uazFBCDvVwDr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings, “4 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships,” TEDxSquareMile, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4Y5Mr8rZ9AKatie Hood, “The Difference Between Healthy and Unhealthy Love,” TEDtalk, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ON4iy8hq2hMAlso SourcedWillie Earley, “Truth Telling in Relationships, Are We There Yet?” TEDxJerseyCity, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTxM5ilU4MUDr. Liat Yakir, “What is Love – Scientifically?” TEDxEilat, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0akiEFwtkyASandy Gerber, “The Secret to Successful Romantic Relationships,” TEDxBearCreekPark, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MrMr4k8-ukNathan Ware, “Why We're Unhappy -- The Expectation Gap,” TEDxKlagenfurt, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KiUq8i9pbEMaya Diamond, “The Surprising Key to Building a Healthy Relationship that Lasts,” TEDxOakland, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xvb-v83qJ8UFemi Ogunjinmi, “How To Tell If Someone Truly Loves You,” TEDxXavierUniversity, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44J3FGYKltITheodore Zeldin, “The Art of Being a Couple,” TEDxOxford, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FJ5gAN5TK8MUSICSmokey Eye by Cheel

SOURCESCraig Howe, “Oceti Sakowin - The People of the Seven Council Fires,” produced by South Dakota Public Broadcasting, 2007, https://www.pbs.org/video/south-dakota-documentaries-oceti-sakowin-seven-council-fires/Josie Green, "Our Tiospaye," Teach for America, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtfeffHUuTAJohnathan Santos Silva, "Our Tiospaye," Teach for America, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtfeffHUuTAMaria Helena Heim, “Is Blood Thicker Than Water?,” TEDx Dornbirn, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6jdK_jNy0sThe Chiseled Adonis, “Family Vs Friends... Who's More Important,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FoXynusLONYCatalina Ritzinger "Friendship and Family," TEDx, ParkCity Youthtalk, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bug8fAZdh5s&t=333sWarren McCall, “Family -vs- Friends,” Catered Conversation Podcast, Episode 4, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6atLNJZq1cMike Leftwich, “Family -vs- Friends,” Catered Conversation Podcast, Episode 4, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6atLNJZq1cFiona Douglas, “How Did Your Parents Mess You Up?,” TEDxPuxi, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_w5vfWPuMoChristy Harden, “The Struggle with The Cult of Motherhood,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtH88gaG4rQSheryl Ziegler, “Why Moms Are Miserable,” TEDxWilmingtonWomen, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwvctN3UejgCorinne Maier [author of No kids, 40 reasons not to have children], [m]otherhood, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCpKk1iq7rcMUSICSmokey Eye by CheelAll other music, sounds, and vocals incidentally accompanied my sources during production

SourcesSusan Oh, Power of Not Belonging, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8YpK7bPeNMSadhguru, Troubled by Fear? Just Change Your Channel! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7hYf0yIK5wFrank Shamrock, Fear is an Illusion, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xh2tmvbT3QTrillion Small, Overcoming the Fear of Love, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39Zcwc4lr08Courtney Ryman, I Have No Friends, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SHwM1yeH0wKaren Dolva, All the lonely people, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-Gil9l8yIEMarnix Pauwels, No more fear of life, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMi3rHuK0c4MusicHeart of Nowhere by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045Artist: http://incompetech.com/Impending Boom by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045Artist: http://incompetech.com/Eternal Garden by Dan Henig

SourcesLouis CK, “Solider on a Plane,” Live at the Beacon Theater, 2011BBC Learning English YouTube channel, “It's The Thought That Counts,” The English We Speak, 2019, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLyLyzzw2tcAdam Grant, “Are You a Giver or a Taker,” TED talk, 2018, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YyXRYgjQXX0Abigail Marsh, “Why Some People are More Altruistic than Others,” TED talk, 2016 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uq-6T6TAu74Ramani Durvasula (Doctor Ramani), “What is ‘narcissistic supply'? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUnmx3tgKZICraig Malkin, “Does Narcissism Appear In Neuro Imaging?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kudJLEdc9vAMusicMorning Mandolin by Chris HaugenHeart of Nowhere by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045Artist: http://incompetech.com/Unrest by ELPHNT

MUSICChangePerformed by Jay TriiipleWritten by Alyssa Taylor and Mic CoatsProduced by Mic CoatsRainbowPerformed by Jay TriiipleTime FliesPerformed by Jay TriiipleWritten by Alyssa Taylor and Connor Ray

CREDITSMark Day, Generic Facebook Birthday Wishes, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYZ3iaS5hygMary Coussons-Read PhD, CBS Denver, Happy Birthday On Facebook: Too Easy?, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySjw7akG8xsProfessor John Cacioppo - Connected Minds: Loneliness, Social Brains and the Need for Community, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iu6RM_Ib30AEskil Burck, Learning Psychology YouTube channel, psychology of shared birthday,https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YH0reKn_MoARobert Cialdini and Steve Martin, Influence at Work YouTube channel, the Science of Persuasion, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFdCzN7RYbwVanessa Van Edwards, Birthday Depression: Why Birthdays Are So Hard, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TasCmAjePbAJohann Hari - This could be why you're depressed or anxious, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MB5IX-np5fEEmile Warot - The power of little celebrations in our lives, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzIbbJed-icNouman Ali Khan, FreeQuranEducation YouTube Channel, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSatpMSRhSMMUSICBach Cello Suite No. 1, G Major, Prelude by Cooper CannellHeart of Nowhere by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1400045Artist: http://incompetech.com/

William Guy, The Relationship Between Human Fulfillment and Ethics, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxXiwV7mrD0Simon Sinek, If You Don't Understand People, You Don't Understand Business, 99u, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llKvV8_T95MAdam Grant, Who Are the Takers, Givers, and Matchers in the Workplace, Google Zeitgeist, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxEzJFvO2oECandace Vogler, Ultimate Fulfillment & Human Perfection, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8DpB_X94d4&t=2289sArt Bejarano, Super Human Longevity with Dr Steve Hruby, The Power of Human Connection; a Secret of Longevity, Fulfillment, & Happiness, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AN15F2bIlDwOlivia Aguilar, Sustainability and Human Fulfillment, TEDxDenisonU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNFx2uI5v0gRussell Brand, The Answer to Your Problem Is Not in Your Head, Commune, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5Okl5V5NRMHuston Smith, Human Fulfillment, Search for America, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5kTW4lLA9UMUSICDwarf Star by Freedom Trail StudioSlappy Clov by GodmodeEternal Garden by Dan Henig

MUSICChris ZabriskieELPHNTCREDITSJamil Zaki, Building Empathy in a Fractured World, Stanford Alumni, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FC3sWzIgfqwNadine Chevolleau, On Civil Society, Toronto Public Library, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbWC5VXB4sU&t=1606sChris Frith, Empathy, Serious Science, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIoA4VnbUgESir Ken Robinson, Dalai Lama Center for Peace and Education, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yu2zcmb3yAQBéalleka Makau, Radical Empathy Disrupts Entitlement, TEDxGrinnellCollege, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzQtK60yOxcChloé Valdary, Founder of Theory of Enchantment, https://theoryofenchantment.com/meet-the-founderSimon Sinek, A Bit of Optimism podcast, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jckSBkw8_7kLee Wolak, The Power of Empathy, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGmeumDv494Mark Levine, Identity and Emergency Intervention: How Social Group Membership and Inclusiveness of Group Boundaries Shape Helping Behavior, Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin 31(4):443-53, May 2005

SOURCESAngela Garvin, This Morning, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1wuflBb4sfgSusan Little, The Human-Animal Bond, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjxAewIBYJkCrystal Dilworth, Do We Love Dogs As Much As Babies?, DNews, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3k5H76KTnQ8Julian Huguet, Why We Love Dogs More Than Humans, DNews, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJZxsm6EwLcClive Wynne, ASU KEDtalk: Why are dogs special?, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbKlFjvbb4YChris Ulmer, Living with Williams Syndrome (A Condition that Makes You Friendly), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pxZ7aZMFHPEScientific Magazine, What Makes Dogs so Friendly? Study finds genetic link to super out-going people, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5CIBg3qDDMKim Brophey, The Problem with Treating a Dog Like a Pet, Kim Brophey, TEDxUNCAsheville, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46ND3suK1y8Amrat Hiranya, Train the Owner, Not the Dog, Amrut Dog Guru Hiranya, TEDxDSCE, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bh4SzcWcRRYMark Twain Quote by Scott Leffler, scottleffler.comMUSICFreedom Trail Studio, “Dwarf Star”Aakash Gandhi, “Invisible Beauty”Wagner, “Bridal Chorus from Lohengrin,” London Symphony OrchestraCat Stevens, “I Love My Dog”

On this episode of Genuine Human Connection, I speak with a former client of mine about his experiences discovering a cancerous tumor in his bladder. Ed Tilschner and his wife first met with me 2019. As our social circles and mutual interests overlapped, we started to socialize more, and I discontinued my professional relationship with them. Even through the pandemic, we have stayed in touch. In February, I learned Ed had developed a cancerous tumor. He said he wanted to share his experience with my audience. So, days after emergency surgery to remove the tumor, we talked about cancer, fear, community, and human connection.

SOURCESHuman Harmonic - A symphony of sound from the human body, The University of Colorado Hospital (UCH), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7T8jNQPrLhcAnthony Holland, "Shattering Cancer With Resonant Frequencies," TEDxSkidmoreCollege, Anthony Holland: Associate Professor, Director of Music Technology, Skidmore College. DMA, MM, MM, BM; President: Novobiotronics Inc. [a nonprofit 501(c)(3) charitable and educational company]. Discovered the ability of Oscillating Pulsed Electric Fields (OPEF) to destroy cancer cells and MRSA in laboratory experiments.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1w0_kazbb_UJames Rhodes, "Music and The Inner Self," TEDxMadrid, James Rhodes is one of the most important concert piano players of our times and a great innovator of classical music. He has been the subject of documentaries for BBC and Channel 4, he writes for The Guardian and performs in concerts all around the world. His Sunday Times and international bestselling memoir, Instrumental, published by Canongate, is a brutally honest, moving and compelling story that was almost banned until the Supreme Court unanimously overthrew an injunction in May 2015. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUUFb-1hBtw Julian Treasure, "The 4 Says Sound Affects Us," Julian Treasure is a sound and communication expert. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRepnhXq33sDavid Meltzer, "Find Your Frequency," David Meltzer is CEO of Sports 1 Marketing, 2X best-selling author, and a top keynote speaker. He is also a Top 100 Business Coach, executive producer and host of Entrepreneur's #1 show “Elevator Pitch”, host of the Top 5 business podcast “The Playbook” and serves as an advisory board member to over 45 companies and charities. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWkLtHxV63YJaggi Vasudev, "Turning Up the Voltage," https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHl9jLqFUQIDr Sangeeta Sahi is an Integrative Medical Doctor and Anti-aging Consultant, who graduated from the Christian Medical College in India, and Whipps Cross Hospital, London, UK. In addition, she received a Master of Business Administration (MBA) degree from ESSEC in Paris, France. https://drsangeetasahi.com/resources/MUSICSports Stadium Crowd Cheering Sound Effect, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiittA46RH4, SoundEffectsFactoryCooper Cannell, “Bach Cello Suite No. 1, G Major, Prelude”Freedom Trail Studio, "Dwarf Star"

SourcesVictor Wooten, Music as a Language, TEDxGabriolaIsland, Victor Wooten is an innovator, composer, arranger, producer, vocalist, and multiinstrumentalist, and has been called the greatest bass player in the world. He is a skilled naturalist and teacher, a published author, a magician, husband and father of four, and a five-time Grammy award winner. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2zvjW9arAZ0Rébecca Kleinberger, "Why you don't like the sound of your own voice," Rebecca Kleinberger is a PhD candidate doing research at the MIT Media Lab. Her work mixes science, engineering, design and art to explore ways to craft experiences for self-reflection and human connection. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3vSYbT1AcoJulian Treasure, "The 4 ways sound affects us," Playing sound effects both pleasant and awful, Julian Treasure, sound and communication expert, shows how sound affects us in four significant ways.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRepnhXq33sMichio Kaku, "The Universe Is a Symphony of Vibrating Strings," Big Think Youtube channel, Dr. Michio Kaku is the co-founder of string field theory, and is one of the most widely recognized scientists in the world today.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fW6JFKgbAF4American Institute of Physics, "The Secret Of A Tiger's Roar," Inside Science News Service, Researchers may have found the key to the intimidating and paralyzing affect that a tiger's roar has on animals, including humans. New research by bioacousticians shows that very low frequency sounds may be the key. December 29, 2000https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2000/12/001201152406.htmMark Pilkington, "The fear frequency," The Guardian, The key here is frequency: 19hz is in the range known as infrasound, below the range of human hearing, which begins at 20hz. Tandy learned that low frequencies in this region can affect humans and animals in several ways, causing discomfort, dizziness, blurred vision (by vibrating your eyeballs), hyperventilation and fear, possibly leading to panic attacks. October 15, 2003https://www.theguardian.com/science/2003/oct/16/science.faroutMusicDan Henig, "Eternal Garden"ELPHNT, "Unrest"Godmode, "Sloppy Clav"

Judith Quin's Social Media LinksFree FB Group www.Facebook.com/groups/yourwholevoiceFB Page www.facebook.com/yourwholevoiceInsta. www.instagram.com/yourwholevoiceWebsite: www.yourwholevoice.comEmail connect@yourwholevoice.comYou tube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIkStSuSl2SA3cwW0BEZ6YQLinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/judithquinvocalconfidence/ MusicAlmost in F - Tranquillity by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100394Artist: http://incompetech.com/

SourcesJune Kaewsith (Jumakae), artivist (artist +activist) and community organizer turned transformational life coach (or "life doula") and wellness advocate, “How to Connect with Your Ancestors,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c3LHfrdvtZg“How Much Neanderthal DNA do Humans Have?” Discover Magazine, https://www.discovermagazine.com/planet-earth/how-much-neanderthal-dna-do-humans-haveDr. Sada Mire, Leiden University course by faculty of archeology and the LDE Centre for Global Heritage and Development, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhpKqaIF2Z0Asha Frost, spiritual Healer, visionary, creative, “Dear White Woman Who Wants to be Like Me,” https://ashafrost.com/dearwhitewoman/ Robin DeAngelo, consultant, educator and facilitator for over 20 years on issues of racial and social justice, https://www.robindiangelo.com/about-me/Dr. Baskaran Pillai, international teacher, spiritual leader, humanitarian and scholar-mystic from Southern India, “God Consciousness,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88M3kwDle0M&t=315s Dada Gunamuktananda, trained in meditation, yoga and natural health sciences in Australia, the Philippines and India, “Consciousness -- the final frontier,” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lo0X2ZdElQ4Marcus Mosiah Garvey Jr., "Look For Me In A Whirlwind Or A Storm,"https://www.buyblackmovement.com/MarcusGarvey/AudioRecordings/index.cfmMusicDwarf Star by Freedom Trail StudioInvisible Beauty by Aakash GandhiEternal Garde by Dan Henig

Music byKevin MacLeodAmbiment - The Ambient by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100630Artist: http://incompetech.com/

Credit and SourcesLemn Sissay, When All You Need is a Hug: personal experiences of the UK care system, TEDxLiverpool, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B88dCHJ9RvgMiroslav Volf, Professor of Systematic Theology at Yale Divinity SchoolCharlie McDonald, Fun Science channel, YouTubeJanet Treviño, Touch Therapist, TEDxSanAntonio, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7m_qOn6QqMJane Anderson, Massage Therapist, TEDxUofM, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tafP2OgttCI&t=507sTiffany Field Ph.D., “Preschoolers in America are Touched Less and are More Aggressive Than Preschoolers in France,” Early Child Development and Care Volume 151, 1999 - Issue 1Elizabeth Day, On the trail of the Free Hugs founder, The Guardian, https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/sep/02/free-hug-movement-founderDr. Rhoda Lipscomb, https://drrhoda.comMusicKevin MacLeod

SourcesDr. Martin Luther King Jr., Ebenezer Baptist Church, April 30, 1967Dharma Speaks YouTube Channel, Bhagavad Gita made easy - Part 1/3Rabbi Chaim MarderAnthony Salciccioli, teacher of philosophy, Clarenceville High School Livonia, MichiganEducation and Curricular Perspectives in the Qur'an, Textbook by Sarah RishaMusic ByFreedom Trail StudioAakash GandhiBrotherhood of ManJohn LennonBob Marley

SourcesBailey Parnell TEDxRyerson Talkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Czg_9C7gw0o&t=707sPhilosophy Vibehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UClepFnDpTP3pLKxVsbLNhDAChibundu Onuzohttps://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/09/facebook-social-media-intimacy-human-contact-cravingDan Foxx TEDxChelmsford Talkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23vBLxJQk-YMusic byNate BlazeUnited States Marine BandELPHNTGodmodeChibundu Onuzo

Music CreditsAlmost in F - Tranquillity by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100394Artist: http://incompetech.com/Sonatina No 2 in F Major by Joel Cummins

Land on the Golden Gate by Chris Zabriskie is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source: http://chriszabriskie.com/stuntisland/Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/