Lets Not Be Trash

Evan and Joel, are joined by Natalie Peña & Nkwa Asonye their LNBT cohost debut (and Patrick joins from the road in the second half). They discuss the broader issues of workplace harassment that Joe Budden demonstrated in his actions at his podcast network and why dudes gotta stop trying to "save" women at the strip club and beyond.

On this episode of Let's Not Be Trash: Trash Talk, Evan, Funnyman Stan, and Patrick discuss what these youngins think they know, what they don't, Seinfeld v. Friends (Seinfeld), flats v. drums (flats, though not unanimous), Tim Scott and Kamala Harris both showing America is racist whilst saying it is not, and we end with story times & the final Take Out the Trash segment. (Image: Disney)

Evan, Stan F., and Joel discuss triflin' male hygiene deficiency (TMHD) and how it connects to misogyny, the concept of repurposed misandry, and unpack the intricacies of being confident in your appearance.

Stan D., Stan T., Patrick, and Evan discuss a relationship with no bed, go on a tangent into Haitian and Italian names, and Chris D'Elia's recent video discussing his indiscretions. 0:00 - 15: 27 - Stan D. dated somebody without a bed (by her choice)15:27 - 35:47 Intro & tangent into Hatian and Italian names35:47 - 1:22: 59 - Chris D'Elia and closing

Evan, Stan, and Patrick start on an absolute tangent discussing Connecticut v. NY drivers and the MTA before exchanges valentine and romantic woes.

Evan, Courtney, and Patrick discuss how to process January 2021 we enter February, Black History Month, and continue an ongoing discussion of dating habits that drive us buck ass wild. They also pay homage to legends who have passed away, Hank Aaron and Cicely Tyson, as well as living legend Denzel Washington.

Evan and Courtney discuss the frustration of the 'ghost-block,' respond to a thread on how to respectfully approach women, and reactions to the inauguration of President Biden, VP Harris, and what it means going forward. 0:00 - Intros and "outdoor dining" during Covid3:30 - Ghost-blocking15:40 - Responding to a thread on how to 'respectfully' approach women35:33 - The Inaguration, shade, shine, and the road forward.49:15 - Big updates for Courtney

Patrick, Stan D., and Evan are joined by prison reformer, health & wellness advocate, and youth mentor, Hernán Carvente Martínez to discuss what rehabilitation, accountability, and justice can truly look like. Brief appearance by our man Courtney Starks as well. Evan and Stan discuss cars for the like 10 min because we can.8:17: Evan and Stan D. stop talking about cars 8:18: We remember to introduce the show.Round 2 min later: We talk about the Capitol riots and hoe ass logic 17:00 - Interview w/ Hernán re: prison and police reform v. foundational change, and 70 million Trumps supporters. 1:00:00 - Courtney joins and gives his take on the discussion re: 70 million Trump supportersCheck out the following organizations mentioned in the podcast:https://www.healingninjas.org/Instagram: @consentisthestandard

Let's Not Be Trash: Trash Talk returns with a BBQs sized cup of flaming basura of dangerous white nonsense for the first show of 2021. Patrick and Evan (and a brief cameo by Courtney) discuss the Domestic Terrorist Insurgence on the Capitol.

Evan and Stan are joined by poet, author, and activist Danyeli Rodríguez del Orbe, founder of afrodominicanxthings platform on Instagram and co-host of Loose Accents podcast.They discuss immigrant experiences across coasts, misinformation and anti-blackness between Dominican and Haitian communities, and what masculinity looks like in 2020 and how far it has to go to be equitable for all genders active in dismantling sexism.

Evan is joined by Courtney Starks, and returning co-hosts Jordan Taylor and Patrick Mackendy to draw on personal experience and socialized norms discuss a few topics frequently conflated in modern dating.

Jordan Taylor and activist, organizer, and photographer, Jay Espinoza to discuss anti-blackness ans the divide between Hatian and Dominican communities at home and abroad. We also revisit the status of Joe Biden's campaign and policing.

On this special Episode of Let's Not Be TrashWe have an amazing panel of guests including:Coutrney Starks, Host, Courtney's CornerJordan Taylor, BLM activist, Hudson Valley, Writer, ComicPatrick Mackendy - Writer, Founder, "Write Night"Jamall Blake - Founder, blkmttrmvmt Justin Jenkins, Writer, thegqgentlemen; Writer and Producer, cre8tivetibe. Co-hosted by Comedian, Stan Talouis

Stan and Evan dedicate this show to discuss how we can still laugh during these times, the continued protests, riots, and responses regarding George Floyd's murder and the decades long pattern of systemic police brutality against black people.

Stan and Evan talk about the intricacies as to what qualifies as comedy, good comedy, and Stan discusses more details about the industry itself. We then revisit the Ahmaud Arbery murder and the ongoing issue of police brutality in the US. We close by discussing a Vice HBO documentary on consent.

Three Albanians, an Italian, and a Haitian Walk Into a Zoom (and leave w/ a construction contract).Stan and Evan are joined by NFL DE, Kristjan Sokoli, Comedian, Leonarda Jonie, & Director, Redon Demushi. We discuss gender, sports, comedy, art, politics, and family as they relate to Albania and the US. A war in the Balkans did not break out, as Leonarda had expected, once a critical mass of "Shqipes" congregated. Although there is still time.

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Evan is joined by both co-hosts, Stanley Fritz and Stan Talouis. The three revisit consent and the friendzone in wake of allegations of sexual misconduct and assault against two prominent influencers. We also discuss how to approach voting in 2020, given the choices we have--and what our vote really means.

In a Zoom being grimey shortened episode of an otherwise great show, Stan and Evan interview BX-15 congressional candidate, Tomas Ramos, who is running for Congressman Jose Serrano's open seat. Recording resumes in the middle of Tomas detailing his own experiences with the criminal justice system, what must change and what he plans to do in office, as well as his already impressive body of work with securing substantial funds and supplies to help communities during the covid-19 pandemic,

Stan T. and Evan are joined by Tom Biddulph, who has channeled his experiences with a spectrum of emotions, including grief and anger, to his blog and YouTube channel, Good Grievings. Tom discusses how he coped with trauma, tragedy, and loss and found resiliency through therapy, writing, and connecting with others--but it took a journey to get there. Stan and Evan discuss their own journeys from adolescence through adulthood to express emotion in healthy ways as men. Then, they discuss how to deal with our current situation of mass quarantine, which has left many feeling lonely and disconnected.

Evan and Stan are joined by Sexologist Michelle Hope as she returns to the show to discuss how quarantine is affecting sex lives for those who are single and in relationships. She also discusses her charity for domestic violence survivors who are in an especially vulnerable position during this time.

In LNBT quarantine edition #4, Stan survives the Rona and exchanges funny tales with Evan about Rona etiquette and past adventures.

Rona, Barack Obama, Trump, customizing baseball rosters, dating quests in quarantine, a terrible prank, a terrible apology, and delinquency during Toy Story 3, all come together in this episode of Let's Not Be Trash.--Image via Shutterstock

Stan & Evan are joined by Comic and Porn Personality, Minnie Scarlet to discuss, how she is a damn essential worker during these times (for two essential services) her securing that bag during quarantine, her plans to livestream content to keep us all in good spirits, and thoughts about issues she and women still face this Women's History Month.

Stan and Evan are joined by Comedian and "Not Your Therapist," Sarah Garner.Evan and Stan are joined by comedian Sarah Garner to discuss struggles women encounter in the comedy world, quarantine & coping, cats, and why the government wants to shut us down because of Stan's revelation.

Stan and Evan are joined by Comedian Ariel Leaty. They discuss tf the words life-in-quarantine are doing in our mout. Cooking away woes. Ariel's come up in the comedy world, and the obstacles she still encounters as a queer woman comedian of color. We seasoned the shit out this podcast, so you don't have to.

Evan and Stan are live from their beds and living rooms w/ poor connections and unemployment. They catch up and talk shit before introducing a fire lineup of women comics for one of our best episodes yet.

Evan and co-host, comedian Stan Talouis are joined by podcaster and writer, Naledi "Slim" Anderson to discuss: - that Rona- Women's History Month- what is a man's role in women having better sex- how to communicate during sex- what intersectionality looks like - what men supporting women (especially black women) DOESN'T look like- interracial relationships - A Supreme Court of Public Opinion- chicken wings- and, of course how men can best support women

For this special episode of International Women's Day, Evan and guest host, Comedian Stan Talouis, are joined by comic and porn start personality, Minnie Scarlet, and political consultant and author, Natalia Alfonso.In part two we continue our discussions on experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. As well as how men can best support women in 2020. (Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).

For this special episode of International Women's Day, Evan and guest host, Comedian Stan Talouis, are joined by comic and porn start personality, Minnie Scarlet, and political consultant and author, Natalia Alfonso.In part two we continue our discussions on experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. As well as insights on sex work and experiences w/ poly-amorous relations.(Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).

For this special episode of International Women's Day, Evan and guest host, Comedian Stan Talouis, are joined by comic and porn start personality, Minnie Scarlet, and political consultant and author, Natalia Alfonso.In part one we discuss experiences with: sexual assault, the justice system (and lack thereof) for assault survivors, and police accountability. (Thumbnail cover art: Kelsey Drake).

Evan and Stan discuss Bernie Sanders, the close of Black History Month, the Start of Women's History Month, and the OnlyFans hack.

Evan is joined by guest host, friend and comedian Stanley Talouis. They discuss a WIDE ASF range of topics from inopportune times to be sick to toxic masculinity in comedy to tumblr to tumblr porn to tumblr porn leading to police involved shootings livestreamed on Instagram to Black History Month to an innovative reparations proposal involving Venmo to the politics of comedy, cancel culture, letting people have moments & separating the art from the artist, and alll the way back to porn (in a more wholesome way). Naturally this episode was 69 minutes. We back. Start your week all over the place w/ Let's Not Be Trash.

Stanley and Evan are rabble rousin for the first 10 minutes of the show and then remember they have a podcast to do. Unfortunately, our great interview with Social Worker and Political Strategist, Natalia Alfonso was technically challenged. Remember, we still type broke. But her comments made it to the show's discussionThe Superbowl, Latino influence and diaspora, black history, Valentines, & Singles Awareness Day (SAD), Only Fans Accounts (OFA), pressure to "settle" in relationships, and Sachel Page are discussed. As you can see, your boys got layers.Corrections: Edgar Renteria was born in Baranquilla, Colombia--not Cartagena.More info on common misconceptions between "Hispanic" and "Latino."https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBt5rMD2aDc

Evan and Stanley answer listener questions on the illegitimate continued perception--and valuation--of the male "player" in 2020, why people flake online, unfair assessments of women's emotions, how we can hold space for grief and trauma, Kobe, his family, fans, and survivors of sexual assault, and then, reflect on a year of writing, podcasting, and listening through Let's Not Be Trash.

Please keep this statement in mind: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivefamilies/photos/a.116712285649145/505491453437891/?type=3&theaterStanley and Evan address topics and questions brought up by friends and listeners, starting with how to suggest that a partner should get more exercise, breaking the news to a partner the desire for an open relationship--then receive literal breaking news about the death of Kobe Bryant.After addressing the immediate impact, especially to Stanley, whose favorite athlete is Kobe, they try to move on to the rest of the topics including: society valuing narcissism in dating and how it shows up on a nearly clinical level; the epidemic not understanding the female orgasm;going from a long term relationship right to new one;how to effectively, and decently and strike up a conversation in the "#MeToo" era;how online dating complicates communicating certain important personal details early on to a potential partner.

Evan meets with Avi Klein from "Hey, Man" podcast.They discuss how they got into their work, why it's important for men to discuss masculinity, #MeToo, how awkward moments are vital to healthy relationships, and how to "call men in" to the fold.

Stanley and Evan discuss bail reform, the Sanders-Warren feud, whether we as men should accept the label of "sexist," the occasional misappropriation of toxic masculinity, and current Let's Not Be Trash literature.

On this special episode of Let's Not Be Trash Stanley and Evan interview State Senator Alessandra Biaggi. We discuss: - The transition from being candidate to elected - and your journey entering politics. - Why the woman’s reproductive rights act was so important? And what it took to pass. - Navigating in a space that can be a "boys club" & how she's seen sexism in her life and career? - Taking on the governor and his campaign contributions - How can we (men, constituents) support you and your initiatives.

Stanley and Evan discuss recent Let's Not Be Trash Literature on antisemitism and some of the things they've learned over the past decade, and since starting LNBT, regarding dating and masculinity.

Evan and Stanley are joined by friend, activist, and radio correspondent José Garcia. They discuss what they've learned this year, and in a decade retrospective, about dating, relationships, and how they've evolved emotionally, with conceptions of masculinity, and better ways to treat women. Sports tangents & AIM & Myspace nostalgia included.

On this episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan gives two anecdotes, which unexpectedly challenged his views on dating and what 'the work' looks like. Stanley posits a controversial view on sexing.

Stan and Evan discuss Colin Kaepernick's tryout, Stephen A. Smith's comments, and a documentary on reforming police interactions w/ people in mental health crisis.

On this episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Stanley and Evan are joined by renown sexologist, Michelle Hope.Michelle discusses her journey to her profession and what it entails, sex work, polyamory, better sex through communication, street harassment, sexual assault experienced by men and women, and the intersections between race and sexuality.

On this episode of Let's Not Be Trash, while Stanley is away living his best grown, hennything possible life en Puerto Rico, Evan is joined by two amazing guests: Podcast host and radio contributor, Naledi "Slim" Anderson, and athlete and founder of Latinos Run, María Solís Belizaire.We discuss T.I.'s practice of taking his grown ass daughter to the gynecologist and his comments on both her privacy and body and those of his wife, Tiny; We break down whether Rep. Katie Hill should have resigned and the severity of the offenses committed by and towards her. During the interview segment we talk with María regarding her career as a runner and what drove her to found her own organization, Latinos Run. She also shares her experiences with sexism within her profession--personally and on a public scale.Naledi and María then discuss the right and wrong ways for men to interact with women in the work place, as well as their experiences with street harassment.As always, we end with how to support women.

LNBT is joined by Boss Baes and Weekly Hustle Podcast co-founder, Jennifer Lyn. Jennifer and Evan discuss podcasting, Jennifer's advice for women who want to get into media and start their own organization, and how men and women can better support each other.

On this two part (three part due to technical difficulties) remote episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan and Stanley discuss Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, Stanley comments on Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, cultural appropriation, people's comments on Stanley's comments on Tank's comments on qualifies as gay, Kanye's new album, and Evan's piece on what it means to care for women.

On this two part (three part due to technical difficulties) remote episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan and Stanley discuss Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, Stanley comments on Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, cultural appropriation, people's comments on Stanley's comments on Tank's comments on qualifies as gay, Kanye's new album, and Evan's piece on what it means to care for women.

On this two part (three part due to technical difficulties) remote episode of Let's Not Be Trash, Evan and Stanley discuss Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, Stanley comments on Tank's comments on what qualifies as gay, people's comments on Stanley's comments on Tank's comments on qualifies as gay, cultural appropriation, Kanye's new album, and Evan's piece on what it means to care for women.

Stanley and Evan are joined by comedian, writer, and rapper, Jordan Taylor. Evan and Jordan discuss how to respectfully be attracted to women and experiences with both male and female attraction that made us uncomfortable.Stanley gives his views on why fighting is an important character building experience.Then, we all discuss comedy in a "woke olympics" world, including Dave Chappelle's most recent standup special "Sticks and Stones.

The guys are joined in Studio by Naledi "Slim" Anderson of Lethal Lipz Podcast. They talk about Takashi 69's snitching. Stanley's wasted money on a Fans Only Account, and Naledi's journey through a toxic ass relationship