Thanks Divorce

We've come a long way together and so much more to go! In this micro-episode, I mentioned a few things. Here are the links to all the things. This is not a goodbye. More like a see you soon! -- Divorce Retreat: http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat) - type 'FIRSTFIVE" for a $200 discount Private Discord for Divorced Women: http://thanksdivorce.com/discord (http://thanksdivorce.com/discord) Travel Concierge: http://lovgistics.com/ (http://lovgistics.com) Fancy Lunch & Yoga Location in Tulum (included in the divorce retreat):http://azulik.com/ ( http://azulik.com) My instagram: http://instagram.com/yessjanine (@yessjanine) My first TEDx Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/janine_hausif_the_impact_of_comfort_commerce (here) --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Links on links on links! I mentioned so many things on this episode. Here's all the things I mentioned. Divorce Retreat: http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat) - type 'FIRSTFIVE" for a $200 discount Private Discord for Divorced Women: http://thanksdivorce.com/discord (http://thanksdivorce.com/discord) Travel Concierge: http://lovgistics.com (http://lovgistics.com) Fancy Lunch & Yoga Place in Tulum: http://azulik.com Our Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast) --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

This is a lovely conversation with such a self-aware, self-possessed human being. She recently left her marriage for no other reason than she knew she deserved better- which she is willing to give to herself. -- Rain Supreme is a Queens born, burlesque bombshell! She's a founding member of The Assorted Chocolates, and the inaugural recipient, and namesake of the Jeezy's Juke Joint: Make it Rain Supreme Scholarship! Audiences have called her "unbelievably, incredibly fun to watch!" You can find Rain on a stage near you, or in your dreams. Here's http://rainsupremeny.com ( her website ) and her http://instagram.com/rainsupremenyc (Instagram) to see more of her! -- We also mentioned http://instagram.com/theperlenoire (Perle Noire) in this episode. I stan for her, Rain does too. -- Our Divorce Release Retreat is now available! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

In this episode, I answer the following questions that were sent via instagram Is it wrong to begin dating during the divorce process? When is the right time to start a new relationship after divorce? Tools/tips for applying your healing/learning in your dating life. -- Our Divorce Release Retreat is now available! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

This is a major tool in my toolbox during my divorce. Here I spell out all the ways it can be helpful for you too. Let me know your thoughts and what else you've used to heal through your divorce! The more the merrier. --- A Divorce Retreat is underway! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast gD703EBlbcYZX0aGOuXM

Here's an extensive list of the exact things I did to heal from my divorce. I've never really spelled out a list of my actual process like this before so I'm happy to share now. I hope this helps some one. I will do this on TikTok with a video for each and with more detail. It was lovely to share this with you all. Take what resonates, leave what doesn't. ----- A Divorce Retreat is underway! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

This can be trickyyyyy! Let's dig into the mature and the immature ways you could respond....and ultimately the best way to respond. -- A Divorce Retreat is underway! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

I gush about how proud I am of myself then I gush about how proud I am of all divorced women! There's also some new things that's been added! Let me know your thoughts! -- I'm offering coaching to newly divorced women! We talk self-discovery, and post-divorce life design. Learn more http://thanksdivorce.com/coaching (here.) A Divorce Retreat is underway! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) A Mother's Day Retreat is http://getawaymothersday.com/ (in the works too)! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

How to set yourself up for your bet possible life. Once you have a goal in mind, it's a matter determination after that. Listen to hear the carrot you need in front of you to make sure you reach your goals. -- I'm offering coaching to newly divorced women! We talk self-discovery, and post-divorce life design. Learn more http://thanksdivorce.com/coaching (here.) A Divorce Retreat is underway! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) A Mother's Day Retreat is http://getawaymothersday.com (in the works too)! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Listen to hear what happens when a self-aware woman (who's walking firmly in her power) talks about her journey. There was no better title for this episode than "Gems on Gems on Gems" because Tonya speaks so candidly and eloquently about where she is in her life, and what she's about. See below to learn more about Tonya and how to reach her: Tonya Rapley is an award-winning millennial money expert and creator of My Fab Finance. Its mission is to help 100,000 people make at least one financial decision they're proud of. As an internationally recognized speaker and sought-after media personality, Tonya helps educate and empower other people to break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck – so they can live life on their terms and do what they enjoy. She is co-host of the Ashton Kutcher-produced show Going From Broke and is the author of the Amazon best-seller, The Money Manual. Tonya has worked with countless Fortune 50 brands and built a million-dollar financial education business that has impacted the lives of thousands across the world. She has been featured in Forbes, Vogue, Essence, and the Washington Post; and has been seen on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Headline News, and countless local media outlets. In the episode we mentioned https://www.instagram.com/tonya.rapley (her instagram) and her business https://myfabfinance.com/ (My Fab Finance.) You'll find everything you need there or there. Thank you for listening! As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Sometimes children are part of the deciding factor why people stay or go. This is a tough spot to be in. A touchy topic that I handled with as much care as possible. I am one person with a few thoughts about this. I tread lightly as I give out my thoughts. You know what's best for you and i don't know you personally enough to give "should's" and "you ought to's." Please take what I say with a grain of salt unless it undeniably resonates. Please also consult with your therapist, coach, Rabi or whoever you go to for advice on your personal life. I hope this helps someone. --- In other news: I'm offering coaching to newly divorced women! We talk self-discovery, and post-divorce life design. Learn more http://thanksdivorce.com/coaching (here.) A Divorce Retreat is underway! Learn more about it http://thanksdivorce.com/retreat (here.) A Mother's Day Retreat is in the works too! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

The "glow up" is essential after your divorce and I tell you why! It's the missing piece to starting your new life. Listen to hear why it's so important. Warning: explicit language was used in the making of this episode. --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! To get more information about my "Glow-Up Coaching" you can learn more http://thanksdivorce.com/coaching (here.) You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Divorce is a bunch of feelings wrapped in one. In this episode I speak about the ever so common: grief and happiness that we may feel after a divorce. -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Nope, the circumstances aren't ideal, but we can't cry over spilled milk forever. So what do we do? Keep on trucking! And we dream BIG as we do it! ----- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

This is a little something for a select few mothers who are parenting differently. If you know one, send this to her. ----- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Here's a short but powerful list of ways to support your friend who is going through a divorce....and also what not to do. In whichever way you choose to support, make sure to proceed with care and compassion. *****This is the final episode of the season. I will return with more episodes for the third season starting May 10th**** In the meantime, you can always contact me via instagram or our website! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Life happens, and in our case, LIFE HAPPENED! Here's a quick reminder that all is not lost and you can reclaim the time and move forward! You don't know how? I gotcha covered! Hear some hows and whys. -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

This is a call to action, a check-in and an invitation. Let's talk about how juicy it can get after you've healed from your divorce. Try some things, say yes more, rid yourself of any guilt and go for it. In this episode I talk about why it's important to explore sexually after divorce and the benefits of doing so. I have some personal experience sprinkled in there too. -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast #selflove

This is such an important part of the healing process that can't be overlooked. In this episode, I tell you why it's needed, how we got here, some suggestions how to do it, and the glory/benefits of doing it. ----- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #selflove #selfawareness

Let's cut straight to the point. In this episode, I talk about six ways you can jumpstart your healing. Add this to all the other ways you're healing. "I don't have all the answers Sway," but I have a few ;-) I hope this helps in your journey! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Let's talk about choosing yourself! What it is, what it's not, how to do it, how to react if someone chooses themself. I hope you get something valuable from it. It's a game changer if you get it right.

Like, how?! You didn't want it, you didn't ask for it, you didn't plan on it.....So how, Sway?! In this episode, I give you my best advice on how to build your new life post-divorce. I mention two lovely people in the episode and their contact info can be found below. You can find Evita Sawyers on https://www.instagram.com/lavitaloca34/?hl=en (Instagram) You can find https://open.spotify.com/show/7b2cM4WncDPBl7r4CGb3LH (Sober In The Morning) on Spotify and all places podcasts are played. -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepod

Here I talk about the importance of friendships, how to make friends as an adult, what happens to friendships during divorce (or vice versa), how to ask for help, and the difference between friends and a support system. I also announce my latest offering...... (drum roll)....... small group coaching for divorced women!!!! I'm super excited about it! I'm so ready to bring together all my experience, all the interviews I've done, all that I've learned through this process into an experience to help other women heal. Or at least move them along in their healing journey. If you want to learn more about the coaching program, visit http://thanksdivorce.com/coaching (thanksdivorce.com/coaching). See you there!!!

After being blindsided by her ex-husband's decision to divorce, Sarah found healing in friendship - old ones and new ones. One takeaway I got from this conversation is that you never know until you try. Come get these gems! If you got any insights from this episode and want to find out more about Sarah, you can find her here: https://www.sarah-woodward.com/ or instagram at https://www.instagram.com/sarahwoodward_divorcecoach/

In the episode, Navi Bliss talks candidly about her divorce story and how she healed from it. She also talks about her relationship with her parents and how that shaped her love live (for better and worse). Toward the end, she gives really great advice on self love, introspection and how to approach dating after divorce. If you enjoy what she has to offer and would like to learn more, you can reach Navi on Instagram or Twitter at https://www.instagram.com/navibliss/ (@navibliss). Her website http://naviblisscoaching.com (naviblisscoaching.com) has all her coaching information as well. -- As always, if you enjoyed this episode please subscribe, rate, and review. Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Off the heels from the last Thanks Divorce episode, I hosted an Instagram Live asking people to come on and share their wins from 2021. What came of it was absolutely beautiful. I spoke with 7 people who shared so candidly about their personal wins for the year. Here are the approximate start times for each person: 7min:40sec- Malika 22min:13sec- Tamika 40min:30sec - Shayla 1hr:07min- Zerina 1hr:34min- Sharlynn 1hr:43min- Tam 2hr:05min Michael Enjoy! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here).  Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Tis the most reflective of the yearrrrrrrrr! I made this episode to encourage us to pause and reflect on our wins and triumphs that happened this year: large and small. May we take time to celebrate ourselves regardless of all the circumstances around us. We f*ckin made it! ---- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast  (@thanksdivorcepodcast )or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

In this episode we learn what it's like to divorce a spouse of 10+ years and move across the country during a pandemic. A whirlwind is an understatement. There's also bits about polyamory which she and her husband were for the majority of their marriage, lots of notes on healing and harm reduction and some funny sprinkled throughout. Listen as Evita speaks candidly and thoughtfully about her breakup and cross-country move. What a pleasure it was to chat with Evita http://instagram.com/lavitaloca34 (Lavitaloca) Sawyers - someone who exhibits radical self-awareness and can see multiple sides of a situation beyond their own. If you want to know more about Evita, you can find her on instagram at http://instagram.com/lavitaloca34 (@lavitaloca34). You are guaranteed to learn something from her feed. As always you can visit us on: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (instagram) http://thanksdivorce.com (website) Make sure to review and subscribe on Apple podcasts.

She went from the girl who saved herself for marriage to the woman hosting pleasure-filled events (also full of consent). In this episode, I chat with my good friend Malika Cumbie about her road to sexual freedom and how she is helping others find theirs as well. If you loved or learned anything from the episode, subscribe, share it with a friend or follow us on instagram http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast.) A bit about Malika.... Malika Cumbie is a Consent Polyamory educator and Pleasure Activist. She curates events, and is professional cuddler and yoga teacher. Malika received her 200hr RYT at Sacred Brooklyn, and a Pre-nat certification at Integral Yoga and is also a Birth Doula. Malika is a cis-queer, pansexual femme who cares deeply about her community. She is a Solo-polyamorous, with relationship anarchist leanings and is always open to discussions around healthy relating. She believes in love without ownership. A Brooklyn native, a mother, her passions include creating community rooted healing, wellness, removing shame from pleasure, and centering black folks. She is the owner of NYC Love House which host many events such as Cuddle Puddle, Sex Church, The Poly Bar and Polyamorous meetups and Erotic/BDSM gatherings. All events center the importance of consent, boundaries, & community. You can find/follow Malika on instagram at http://instagram.com/nyclovehouse (@nyclovehouse)

Here's I share some practical, actionable steps on how to love yourself. I share a little of my backstory and my top three things to do to maintain that love. Self-love is a journey with windy roads and unexpected dips but it's definitely a necessary road to travel to have a fulfilling life. If you got any value from this episode, send me a line on instagram http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast). If you know anyone who would benefit from hearing this, share it with them. Thank you so much for listening! Til next time, friends. xoJanine

This interview was inspired by https://www.instagram.com/p/CSFs7fsrmIb/ (a post on social media) where Christine spoke very lovingly about her ex-husband as it related to their co-parenting relationship. It was so beautiful that I had to ask her to come on the show. In the episode, we learn more about their relationship and how they came to a point where she can speak so lovingly of him online. As with anything, it takes work to get there and in this episode, Christine talks about that work. I hope you walk away from this episode with new ways to approach co-parenting or inspired by her perspective. If you enjoyed the episode, share, subscribe, review. Do all the things! THEN, follow us on instagram http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast). About Christine: Featured in The New York Times and The Washington Post, Christine Michel Carter is the #1 global voice for working moms⁣. She is also the bestselling author of children's book Can Mommy Go To Work? and adult novel MOM AF. In 2015, Christine created the first national mommy and me professional development networking event called Mompreneur and Me, which was featured in Adweek and Entrepreneur⁣. She's worked with the Congressional Caucus on Black Women & Girls, the U.S. Department of Labor and the U.S. Chamber of Commerce on maternal and child care related issues. She's also worked on the maternal initiatives of Vice President Kamala Harris and received a Congressional Citation from the U.S. Senate for going “above and beyond in ensuring that Black Moms and Moms of Color have access to important health information for their children and families.” https://christinemichelcarter.com/ (http://christinemichelcarter.com/) https://www.instagram.com/cmichelcarter/ (Her instagram)

I once heard someone say "the people closest to the problem are closest to the solution." I think Lucinda is a great example of that. She is a divorced mom and in her life-coaching practice, she helps divorced moms...and others. We're a unique group with a specific set of challenges. Lucinda gets it. She's been there. I will say, this episode leans towards divorced moms but the information is applicable to divorced people in general. As you listen, you'll see. There's information about building a life post-divorce keys to guilt-free self-care life visioning ....and more If you enjoyed this episode, share, subscribe, write a review. Do all the things! And then follow us on instagram http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (here) Here's more about Lucinda: Lucinda Testo is a psychotherapist turned life coach for divorced moms. She transitioned to life coaching after more than 17 years as a psychotherapist so that she could help moms all over the globe. Having been a divorced mom herself, Lucinda understands the tornado of emotions that can make it difficult to move on and rebuild. Lucinda's passion is in helping moms define their new identity and reclaim their awesomeness after divorce!   Her website is http://www.lucindatesto.com/ (www.lucindatesto.com) Her instagram ishttps://www.instagram.com/coach_lucinda_testo/ ( here)

This divorced mother of three, has got some things figured out. Listen in to hear us talk about self-love, conscious uncoupling/co-parenting, self-liberation and so much more. Lisa is such a heart-centered person and this conversation is so rich with soul-filled advice and perspective. She calls herself the "Wholehearted Woman," and it shows. About Lisa: Known as The Wholehearted Woman, Lisa Winneke is a Visionary and Leader who is passionate about supporting women and men to cultivate the commitment, compassion and courage required to transform their lives and relationships, so they can embody their authentic selves and create a life, from their hearts, that lights them up from the inside out! After overcoming decades of living with depression and an eating disorder which led to a life defining experience in 2018, Lisa courageously chose to leave her 20-year marriage with the commitment to leave a legacy for her boys and the world, of what it takes to lead and love with our whole hearts. Lisa knows firsthand what it takes to overcome fear, self -doubt, judgement, worry and guilt and through her own lived experience, she now passionately supports people to cross the bridge from broken hearted to living wholeheartedly. This work is NOT for the faint of heart! You can reach her here: http://lisawinneke.com https://www.instagram.com/lisawinneke https://www.facebook.com/winnekelisa/ --- As always, if you enjoyed this episode, like, subscribe, share. Tell a friend to tell a friend. Follow us on instagram here: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)

Cindy Drummond has gone where very few women have gone before! Her experiment (challenge and healing method) is one for the books! So much so she wrote a book about it. Hear what this divorcee' had to say about dating after divorce. Cindy drops quite a few gems about how to approach dating after divorce and how to navigate the dating pool with power and freedom. ----- Cindy's information: Cindy Drummond is the author of Reflections from the Dating Pool. A story about resilience, the importance of finding a tribe and the power of falling in love with again with yourself.  Refusing to let the traumatic arrest of the man she thought she was in love with define her, Cindy worked through her pain by reinventing herself. Creating a weekend retreat for women (WOW) gave her the confidence to start dating again. Her challenge to date 50 men in 52 weeks became a journey of self discovery and empowerment.  Cindy lives in Calgary, Alberta with her new husband, Geoff, her daughters (Jenna and Sierra) and Luna, the cat.  www.Cindydrummond.ca

When we go through a divorce, our finances can be deeply effected. In this episode, I talk to Pamela Sams, a Behavioral Financial Advisor (listen in to find out what that is). We talk about how divorce affects finances, how to get back on track, when to hire a financial advisor and how (what questions to ask). Also, how to determine when we need help - and not rely the "I'll figure it out" method so much. See Pamela's bio and contact below. Pamela's Bio and Contact: For 19 years, Pamela has been helping women improve their personal and financial wealth through solid financial life planning. She focuses on helping her clients secure their financial futures so they can sleep well at night. Pamela has become a strong voice in the area of personal finance for women. Her knowledge in this area has made her a sought-after speaker. She has been quoted in articles in various financial publications. Pamela was featured in the Women in Wealth section of Fortune Magazine November 2020 issue as a top Wealth Manager in the Washington DC metro area.  Website/Contact info: https://www.jacksonsams.com/ (https://www.jacksonsams.com) FB and IG: @jacksonsamswealth

In this episode I talk to B about her divorce journey, what she learned from it, and how it led to her work with Spirit Moxie. In our conversation, I learned that B is a calming presence and an agent for change. Listen to hear her ideas on how we can focus on the little things to change our perspective- which I found to be a great idea for someone going through a divorce. It doesn't have to be a seismic shift, it can be small things that make all the difference. About B: B Sedgwick is the founder of Spirit Moxie, a vision of the little things that can change the world. As a writer she is known for Conversation posts on the Spirit Moxie website and as the author of the globally available book Moxie Moves: 10 easy ways to make a powerful difference. Currently she mentors people out of angst and overwhelm to calm and ease and is known for having been present and calm during COVID. You can find her here: http://www.spiritmoxie.com/ (http://www.spiritmoxie.com)

This is a "Just Janine" episode- no interview, just me and a mic. I haven't done one in a while. I felt compelled to do a "one on one." In the episode, I list 20 ideas on how to handle yourself with care during your down days. And sprinkled in are ideas on how to prepare for your down days. For anyone going through a tough time (divorcing or just living in a pandemic!) this is for you. Since the seasons are changing and seasonal depression can happen for some people, I think it's an apropos time to slide this episode in the mix. The list goes until around the 16:25 mark. The last few minutes is me checking in with listeners, asking for feedback, letting you know how the podcasting "experiment" has been going for me. It's like a "long time no speak" temperature check. Please do offer feedback on the https://www.thanksdivorce.com/contact (website). Oh and this is feedback for the show (as a whole) not just this episode :) ----- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

Divorce profile: Married her best friend at 21. Religious background. No children. She initiated the divorce What I love about this episode is the transparency and candor. Stephanie is a divorceé currently living in Shanghai, China. How did she get there? She divorced and moved across the planet to create mental and physical space so she needed to heal. Stephanie is an introspective person, a seeker, and her take on her divorce is very enlightening. We talk about what it meant to marry her best friend, and at a young age. How their families and her religious community were rooting for them- but consciously and subconsciously created pressure for them to stay together longer than she knew she should stay. We talked about co-dependency and being married to someone with substance abuse issues. Listen to hear more about Stephanie's story. We also talk at length about the Circle Process starting at the 30:00 mark. *Ask google about it if you want to learn more. A little about Stephanie and how to reach her: Stephanie is a mental health expert, life coach, and passionate advocate for Circle Process, which she believes is a practice that can transform so much of what ails us as humans.  By day, Stephanie works as a School Counselor at an international school in Shanghai, China. By night she is a multi-passionate entrepreneur who is learning to harness her skillset in the online space to support the growth and healing of the collective.  Stephanie loves to help people navigate the grey areas of the human experience by creating safe spaces designed for connection, personal transformation, and expanded consciousness.  Facebook Group - Collective Spirit Inner Circle  https://www.facebook.com/groups/200651451778228/ (https://www.facebook.com/groups/200651451778228/) Instagram:http://instagram.com/stephanieressler_coaching ( @stephanieressler_coachin)http://instagram.com/stephanieresslercoaching (g) --- ----- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com/ (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

In the final episode of the season, I interview Psychotherapist and Couples Coach Cheri Timko.  Divorce Profile: Currently 20 years into her second marriage. Has 3 teenage daughters. First marriage was at the age of 21, lasted for 4 years. After the first marriage, she swore off marriage completely until she met the man she felt more "in step with" who she eventually married. Guest Bio:  Cheri Timko is a Couples Relationship Coach who teaches couples to use straightforward relationship habits to build their relationship so they can build their relationship even while focused on other things. She has been happily married for 20 years. She is also a veteran psychotherapist and homeschool mom to three teenage daughters. You can find out more about Cheri here. In this episode we talk about her former marriage, her current one, and her coaching methods and philosophies. What Cheri shares is useful for anyone in any of these three stages: someone exiting marriage, someone in between relationships and someone in a committed relationship. The tools (specifically the Three Systems) are applicable no matter which one you are. At the end of the episode, I give a brief farewell as I take a break from releasing episodes. I also give a preview of what Season 2 has in store - and I mention of some soon-to-be-released merch! While I take this two week hiatus, you can find me at any of the links below. ----- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! Instagram: http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast)  Website: http://thanksdivorce.com (thanksdivorce.com) Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

Meet Daphne Wells Divorce Profile: Mother of 4. Divorced 20 years ago. Currently working as a business coach and numerologist helping women transform their lives.  In this episode, we learn about what it was like to get divorced 20 years ago, disrupting the taboo, going against the norm. Daphne shares her experience of being the first in her family to divorce and how she got through it.  So much so, she starts her "Thanks Divorce" response with  "for being an option."  As a newer generation divorcee', I'm thankful to people like Daphne who were brave enough to live in their purpose and provide examples for us women to look to as a possibility. She's a keen reminder that things weren't always this way.  Beyond that part of the episode, I dove deep into her coaching practice and her philosophy and approach when it comes to coaching. If you're looking for a business coach, take a listen and see what type of service (and care) Daphne provides. Her contact info is listed below.  Guest Bio: Hey, I'm Daphne.  I'm a professionally certified and credentialed Business Success and Freedom Coach and Numerologist helping heart-led leaders, coaches and healers get exactly what they want. Through my life-changing coaching, masterminds and my book “Decide: Choose your own PATH”, I'm here to shake up your approach to business and life. I deliver insanely powerful insights that give you radical permission show up in your power and fulfill your purpose in the world. When I'm not inspiriting women around the globe to make more money in record time, you'll find me creating magick with fabric and threads, getting my hands dirty growing what I eat or frolicking in the waves. Website: http://www.daphnewells.com/ (www.daphnewells.com) FB profile: https://www.facebook.com/daphne.wells.37/ (https://www.facebook.com/daphne.wells.37/) -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

What happens when you marry a pastor and later determine you don't want to be married to him anymore? Listen to find out.  Kelly Irene, joins me for this interview where she talks openly about her experiences and how she eventually created the life she is truly in love with!   This conversation discusses topics like listening to your inner knowing, trusting yourself, and finding the healing you need- when and how you need it.  A little about Kelly: Kelly Irene is passionate about highlighting stories of womxn who have chosen the brave path of breaking out from the chains of other people's expectations to live as their truest, most authentic self. She is the host of the Most True You podcast and can be found at http://www.mosttrueyoupodcast.com/ (www.mosttrueyoupodcast.com) or http://www.instagram.com/ikellyirene (instagram.com/ikellyirene). Kelly lives in Northern California with her two human kids and one cat baby. When she's not working, podcasting, or hanging with her kids, she's often found with her feet up, a book in one hand, and a glass of kombucha in the other. -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review! You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

We initially connected on Instagram: she in Australia, I in Jamaica (visiting). This episode is our DM conversations, turned in a podcast episode. Just two moms navigating a divorce, swapping advice and tales. Her Divorce Profile: Was married for 9 years. Been separated for 1 year. Two children (under 10 years old). Was a stay-at-home mom for 6 years.  We learned that we have a lot in common and found connection in the overlap of our stories.  In the episode, we chat about being a mom of two small children while navigating a divorce- how to talk to them about it and how to recognize behavioral changes in them. We also talk about changing our names post-divorce. She has chosen a brand new last name! Not the one she had when she was married, and not the one she was born with!....which I find fascinating and totally understand.  We also both define "single motherhood" and what it means to us individually.  And toward the end, her response to "Thanks Divorce for _________" is heart-warming and powerful. Enjoy! -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here).  Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepodcast #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

Have you ever had random ideas about life and love and also had a podcast to say them on? I do and I do.  This episode is a compilation of 5 ideas. I won't give it all away but this is the gist of the 5 ideas:  Whether people in relationships should live together or not How long I think marriages should be How to document when we're going through a tough time in life My ideas on what first dates should be How we're stronger than we think This episode is short and sweet, but it had to be said! I'm sure I'm not the first to have these thoughts. This is just Volume One of the "Hear Me Out" series. There's more to come. I'm full of random ideas like this. Let me know your thoughts! Find me on IG or submit a form on the contact page of our website. I'd love to hear from you.  --- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). My sound engineer, Henry can be found https://www.instagram.com/son_of_sound/ (here). I can't recommend him enough. Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

In this episode I speak with grief healer and licensed counselor,  Katie Rossler (all her contact info below) We speak candidly about about grief as it relates to divorce, how to recognize it and how to address it. She also defines grief in a very relatable and gives us tools on how to de-stigmatize it. I learned a lot in this episode. I hope you do too! Katie brings a wealth of experience and expertise to this episode and it was a pleasure speaking with her. She has an upcoming book release on October 5th, 2021. The book is called "The New Face of Grief." You can learn more about it here: http://www.thenewfaceofgrief.com/ (www.thenewfaceofgrief.com). If you want to get more information about Katie and her work, her website is http://www.katierossler.com/ (www.katierossler.com) and her Instagram is @katie.rossler. -- As always, if you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). My sound engineer, Henry can be found https://www.instagram.com/son_of_sound/ (here): highly recommend! Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

The podcast's first interview! They grow up so fast, don't they?! haha! In this interview I speak to my good friend and producer extraordinaire: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aidahzmuhammad/ (Aidah Muhammad).  We talk about who she is, her marriage and divorce story, and everything she's learned from all the above. She talks about the importance of home (external and internal), the importance of listening to our inner knowing....and a whole heap of other insightful things. She honestly drops gems all throughout. Gotta catch them all, like pokemon! -- If you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). My sound engineer, Henry can be found https://www.instagram.com/son_of_sound/ (here). Highly recommend! Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

Dating after divorce can bring up a lot of emotions. In this episode,  I talk about where to start and how to navigate your post-divorce dating life. I also discuss, how to know if you're ready to start dating again, how to approach the dating scene and a few dating tips for your brave new world.  -- If you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepodcast (@thanksdivorcepodcast) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com (here). My sound engineer, Henry can be found https://www.instagram.com/son_of_sound/ (here). Highly recommend!  Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast

This episode invites listeners to remove romantic love from the center of your lives, and make room for other types of love. I talk about how we've been socialized to put romantic love on a pedestal and how we may not be giving enough attention to the other types of love that exists in our lives.  I also give ideas on how to decentralize it. "She's invited to the party, just don't take up so much space while you're here!" File this under: "Hear Me Out" On another note, this one was fun to record! ....By fun, I mean scary! This was a live recording/simulcast on https://www.clubhouse.com/club/thanks-divorce (Clubhouse)! I was nervous, sweating and breathing heavy but I powered through it with what I had to say. After I stopped recording, the people in the room with me came on stage and we had an impromptu hour-long conversation about the topic. I guess another take away from the episode is to try new things, even scary things! You never know what will come of it.  If you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're listening to this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod) or visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #divorcerecovery #selfhelp #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

This episode is about seeing the wonderful opportunity that divorce has given us in being able to write your own script for our lives.  But wait, there's a script?! Of course there is!  I talk about "loosening the reigns of what society has prescribed for us and go for what we actually want!" Take a listen to learn about the script that's been handed down to us, how we "drank the kool-aid" and how to make our own! If you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're hearing this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #podcastaboutdivorce #breakuppodcast #podcastaboutbreakups #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

In this episode, I talk about the three lists that will make your post-divorce life much easier, grounded and clear: The Needs List, The Non-Negotiable List and the List of Likes.  I tell you the importance of these lists, how they impact your post-divorce life and I share a little about what's on my personal lists. Get your pens and paper ready to make your lists and level up in life. Send me a note in Instagram when you do your list. I'd love to hear all about it.  If you enjoy this episode please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're hearing this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #podcastaboutdivorce #breakuppodcast #podcastaboutbreakups #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

Allow me to re-introduce myself, my name's Janine! We're two episodes in and I've finally come around to formally introducing myself. You will, of course, get to know me as I release more episodes and my personality shines through. But in this episode I share some specific details about my personal and professional life. I also share where I am (emotionally) in my divorce process, and finally I share a newfound superpower that I've developed while going through this process.  If you enjoy this podcast please subscribe, rate, and review where ever you're hearing this podcast. You can follow us on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (@thanksdivorcepod). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #podcastaboutdivorce #breakuppodcast #podcastaboutbreakups #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message

In this bonus episode I acknowledge the land and the people that make this podcast (and me) possible. It's an indigenous practice gone digital! I'd personally be remiss if I did not mention these things before making more episodes.  In this episode, I mention my friends over at Black Earth Wisdom. You can learn more about them https://www.blackearthwisdom.com/ (here.)  As always, you can follow the podcast on Instagram http://instagram.com/thanksdivorcepod (here )and visit our website http://thanksdivorce.com/ (here). Thank you for listening! #thanksdivorce #thanksdivorcepod #divorcepodcast #podcastaboutdivorce #breakuppodcast #podcastaboutbreakups #relationshippodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thanksdivorce/message