The Infertile Mafia: Real talk about infertility, IVF, and trying to conceive.

Kaela & Sarah are discussing harmful situations plaguing the infertility community.  They discuss a fertility nurse who stole fentanyl, replacing it with saline, leaving patients undergoing egg retrieval surgery in excruciating pain.  They comment on her sentencing, how she was treated, and how her victims were portrayed.  They also discuss the dilemma of misrepresentation in social media.  If you know someone isn't being truthful, should you say something?   Lisa Ransome joins the podcast again to talk about self-care and what it means to proactively take care of our mental and physical health.  Instagram: seeds_for_hope   Fertility Center Nurse Swaps Fentanyl for Saline

Sarah interviews Katie & Alex about their experience with fertility treatments and eventual decision to remain child free. Katie's shares her experience with PCOS, endometriosis, and eventual need for hysterectomy and oophorectomy. This loving and supportive couple is thriving and their story will warm your heart!   Find Katie on Instagram: @mkaties1

Kaela is joined by her fertile sister and brother-in-law (this already feels biblical) to discuss infertility throughout history - especially in the advent of Christianity- and its affect on modern day stigmas around women and fertility.   They also discuss the hit Hulu series, The Handmaids Tale, and talk about how infertility is portrayed in this modern day drama and what the show gets right and what it gets very wrong!   Follow us on Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela interviews board certified urologist, Dr. Mary Samplaski, who specializes in male factor infertility. Dr. Samplaski answers listener questions on a number of topics including - who should see a reproductive urologist, what's the deal with morphology, what is a varicocele and when should it be repaired, sperm DNA fragmentation, frequency of ejaculation, environmental effects on male fertility, general tips for success, and so much more.   Sarah and Kaela also discuss their experience with the first dose of the Covid-19 vaccine and reflect on Sarah's viral Instagram post!   Find Dr. Mary Samplaski here: Instagram: @drmarysamplaski https://www.maleinfertilitydoc.com/

Sarah & Kaela are discussing TTC superstitions including: McDonald's french fries, pomegranate juice, brazil nuts, pineapple core, warm socks, and even Mucinex!  Are these based in any factual evidence?  Listen to find out!  They also discuss a surrogacy row scandal, and defend some unpopular opinions! Lisa Ransome joins the podcast again to talk about how to regulate our feelings. Lisa Ransome: @seeds_for_hope 5 IVF Superstitions  Surrogacy Row   Follow us on Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela interviews Regina Townsend, founder of The Broken Brown Egg. She shares her perspective on what it means to be a person of color in the infertility community.  Regina also shares her personal experience of missed diagnoses and being dismissed by doctors, the significance of self advocacy and compassionate medical care, and the importance of mental health during infertility, pregnancy, postpartum and beyond.    Follow Regina here: https://thebrokenbrownegg.org/

In today's episode Sarah interviews OG mafia member, Becca, and her sister-in-law, Kylie, about their experiences with being married to brothers who both share the same type of male factor infertility. Kaela and Sarah also discuss three person baby making.  Three Person Baby Article   Email us - infertilemafia@gmail.com Find us on Instagram - @infertilemafiapodcast  

Kaela & Sarah discuss the recent Oprah interview with Meghan Markle and Prince Harry and discuss an open letter Meghan wrote for the New York Times about a recent miscarriage.  They also talk about Chrissy Teigen's vulnerability after sharing intimate details of having a stillbirth son.  They discuss the importance of sharing our struggles and how validating and healing it can be for people who aren't able to share or may be suffering in silence.  Always be kind - you never know what someone is going through.   Sarah also shares a questionable incident at an eye clinic, and starts a feud with a beloved Reproductive Endocrinologist! ;-)   Meghan Markle Miscarriage - New York Times Chrissy Teigen Stillbirth

Sarah & Kaela discuss a new treatment for male factor infertility, a new heartbeat bill in South Carolina, and a fertility doctor in Australia that is breaking all the molds on what it means to have a successful fertility clinic. Lisa Ransome, registered psychologist, joins again to give tips on sensory grounding and the benefits of staying grounded in the present moment.  Find Lisa on Instagram @seeds_for_hope   Articles cited in this episode: Injecting protein into testes South Carolina Heartbeat Bill Dr. Lynn Burmeister   Follow us on Instagram: @infertiliemafiapodcast  

Kaela & Sarah are talking about the internet rumor that the Covid-19 vaccine causes miscarriage.  They also discuss THC and pros and cons of marijuana and fertility treatments.  And, for the Out of the Box segment, Botox is the topic; but it's not what you think.   Lisa Ransome, a registered psychologist in New South Wales and Victoria, Australia, shares a moment for your mental health on mindfulness.  Find Lisa on Instagram and Facebook @seeds_for_hope   Articles cited in this episode: The Covid-19 Vaccine Does Not Cause Infertility Miscarriage Reports Are Not Proof of Covid-19 Vaccine Danger to Pregnancy

Sarah & Kaela are talking about the pandemic wreaking havoc on fertility treatments and Paris Hilton doing IVF to have boy/girl twins. They also share some of their favorite pandemic binges!   TRIGGER WARNING: Talk of depression, anxiety and abuse in this episode starting at 23:25.   Pandemic article here Paris Hilton article here   Follow us on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

TRIGGER WARNING: Just in time for Halloween, Sarah & Kaela are serving up another episode of creepy, spooky, horrifying stories related to fertility!  Included in this episode is an unbelievable story about syphilis and the US government experimenting on African-American men. They also talk about the devastating, sadistic, and demented ways the Nazis caused infertility for their own citizens and how they treated victims of the Holocaust.     They share the story about the 74-year-old woman from India who gave birth to IVF twins.  They discuss if it's an ethical choice and also share a crazy plot twist on the father of the twins!  Read about it here.   To balance out the horror, they end the episode with some hilarious facts about animals and their fertility and mating rituals.  A lot of animals have it worse than humans, and they definitely have the drive to procreate just as much as people!    CALL THE CONSIGLIERE: The guest spot this week goes to Dr. Sasha Mikhael, MD.  Dr. Mikhael is a Reproductive Immunologist practicing in Michigan and talks about weight and infertility treatments.  What's the real reason some doctors will not treat patients over a certain weight or BMI?  And finally, in keeping with the episode, she shares a really creepy story about an artificial insemination...yikes, it's a doozy!   Find Dr. Mikhael on Instagram: @sashamikhaelmd   Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are talking about infertility related books!  This includes fiction, non-fiction, memoirs, children's books, stories that will make you laugh and some that will make you cry - something for everyone!   Joining the show is Tess Kossow, author of I'm Very Ferris a children's book about In Vitro Fertilization.  Tess shares her inspiration behind writing a children's book about such a complicated (and sometimes confusing) topic and shares what an impact infertility has had on her own family.  Find Tess here: www.tesskossow.com Instagram: @tesskossow   CALL THE CONSIGLIERE: The guest spot this week goes to Meg Keyes, author of The Waiting Line: What To Do (And Not Do) When Someone You Love is Struggling With Infertility. She recaps some of the most common missteps people take when trying to care for those with infertility, and helps redirect them toward a more productive approach! Find Meg here: www.thewaitinglinebook.com Instagram: @thewaitinglinebook   Other books featured on the show can be found at the following links: It Starts With the Egg: How the Science of Egg Quality Can Help You Get Pregnant Naturally, Prevent Miscarriage, and Improve Your Odds in IVF by Rebecca Fett Fueling Male Fertility: Nutrition and Lifestyle Guide for Men Trying to Conceive by Lauren Manaker MS, RD Not Broken: An Approachable Guide to Miscarriage and Recurrent Pregnancy Loss by Lora Shahine, MD FACOG Hilariously Infertile: One Woman's Inappropriate Quest to Help Women Laugh Through Infertility by Karen Jeffries Your Fertility. Your Family: The Many Roads to Conception by William Schoolcraft, MD The Art of Waiting: On Fertility, Medicine, and Motherhood by Belle Boggs Little Dream by Celeste Rankine   Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

October is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month.  1 in 4 women experience a miscarriage and millions of women have lost infants during pregnancy or after birth.   Unfortunately, many of them suffer in silence. In this episode, Kaela is joined by Christine McDonough, of Infertility Illustrated, and together they are breaking the silence by sharing stories from listeners about how they have honored their losses and what has given them closure and comfort.     October 15th is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day and the International Wave of Light.  Light a candle at 7pm in your respective time zone in honor of all the little lives lost too soon.   Special thanks to Dr. Lora Shahine of Pacific Northwest Fertility for joining the podcast to tell us about her incredible #NOTBROKEN campaign.     Instagram: @drlorashahine Website: lorashahine.com       Featured song: “Rizpah” by Families  Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast  

PCOS is the topic for this episode!  After a podcast break during PCOS Awareness Month, Sarah & Kaela are offering some new information about PCOS - signs, symptoms, treatments and even discuss an article about what your poop says about you (and PCOS)!    They cover the New York Times article "When You're Told You're Too Fat To Get Pregnant" and share their own opinions around weight and fertility treatments.  And finally, they get real talking about taking control of habits and coping skills to ensure healthy lifestyle choices.    CALL THE CONSIGLIERE: The guest spot this week goes to Melissa Groves of Avocado Grove Nutrition & Wellness.  Melissa shares practical tips around nutrition for women with PCOS, foods to avoid (hint: avoidance isn't part of her philosophy) and foods that may help a PCOS diagnosis. Follow her on Instagram: @the.hormone.dietitian Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are baaaaack!  In this episode they talk about the biggest news in fertility from this past summer - the couple that had the WRONG embryos transferred, gave birth to twins, only to discover that they belonged to two different families!  They also share some podcasts they binged over the summer and respond to a crazy Mom rant that went viral about Disney World and “childless women.”    They introduce a new segment to the show - CALL THE CONSIGLIERE: The guest spot this week goes to the Mafia's own Nurse Mandy who gives us an exciting update on her life!  Follow her on Instagram: @courageouslyinfertile_rn Finally, they share some new changes with the podcast, including exclusive merch designed specifically for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness month!   TRIGGER WARNING: Starting at minute 1:01 Sarah and Kaela talk candidly about mental health and infertility, being a new Mom, and their own experiences with postpartum depression. Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela are talking about taking a break from trying to conceive.  They share their own experiences when it comes to taking a break, and how they spent their time - good, bad, and ugly.  And, they share comments from listeners about when and why they took a break and how it helped (or not)!   They also discuss whether they're team Ross or team Rachel on the “We were on a break!” FRIENDS topic!  And, they ponder things like mushrooms for men and their favorite wedding moments. Finally, stay tuned to the end of the episode - they have some big news, and need your help!  Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are talking about ways to have a positive impact in the infertility community, including ways to get involved whether through support groups, social media, or active advocacy for continued and expanded rights for people seeking fertility treatments.    They also revisit the topic of IVF tourism and share some of the highlights from their recent live show and RESOLVE: Chicagoland Walk of Hope. And finally, they expound on some of their favorite Would You Rather Questions! Get involved! resolve.org     Website: infertilemafia.com Email: infertilemafia@gmail.com Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela have FINALLY met - and they're talking about it, live in Chicago, with lots of infertile friends and healthcare professionals.  Enjoy this episode full of inspiration from these amazing special guests! Christine McDonough, the artist behind Infertility Illustrated, is such a talent! We instantly bonded after meeting her over a year ago.  She shares some of the inspirations for a few of her favorite illustrations (and wins the award for the best giveaway item!). Kaela & Sarah are so glad to call her a friend and so proud of the amazing support she gives the infertility community. ⁣ She also gives them a really exciting life update!!! You can find her here: Instagram: @infertilityillustrated Website: infertilityillustrated.com   Dr. Lauren Schneider, DC is a wonderful resource and advocate for the infertility community with years of experience working alongside fertility specialists. She also personally understands the struggle of infertility and gives an update on her gestational carrier (sorta)!  She also wins the award for worst “Would You Rather?” question, but her husband's outburst from the audience wins the award for best response!  You can find her here: Instagram: @drlaurenschneider Website: conceptionconsultant.com   Dr. Lora Shahine MD,FACOG is a board certified reproductive endocrinologist practicing at Pacific Northwest Fertility in Seattle, Washington where she specializes in recurrent pregnancy loss.  She has been incredibly supportive of The Infertile Mafia and is actively sharing such a positive and inspiring message to the infertility community. And, she does it with such kindness and humility (and humor)!  In this interview with her she talks about the negative effects of toxins on our fertility and practical ways to mitigate the damage!⁣  You can find her here: Instagram:@drlorashahine Website: lorashahine.com   Dr. Roohi Jeelani MD, FACOG is a board certified reproductive endocrinologist practicing at Vios Fertility Institute in Chicago, IL.  She had everyone in tears sharing her personal story about her experience with IVF and how she's doing her part to erase the shame and stigma around infertility. ⁣ And, she's an incredibly kind and wonderfully intelligent physician educating the infertility community - and doing it with style!  You can find her here: Instagram: @roohijeelanimd   Dr. Natalie Crawford MD, FACOG is a board certified reproductive endocrinologist practicing at Aspire IVF in Austin, TX.  She is also the host of the popular podcast As A Woman and an incredible FORCE for good - for all women! What an inspirational and empowering voice. Kaela & Sarah are so thankful she speaks so passionately on behalf of women and so honored that she joined them for this live show. ⁣ Hear her talk about the importance of the presence of medical professionals on social media. You can find her here: Instagram: @nataliecrawfordmd Website: nataliecrawfordmd.com     Website: infertilemafia.com   Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies

TRIGGER WARNING: Sarah & Kaela are discussing new abortion laws and the government making decisions that could affect your access to fertility treatments (you can skip this portion from 12:00 to 27:30).  They answer some of your questions about secondary infertility, PGS tested embryos, and their favorite types of wine!  They also give you some updates on Facebook happenings, and finally, they discuss the importance of puppy therapy.   Don't forget to get your tickets to the Infertile Mafia Podcast LIVE SHOW happening June 8th!  Event details and tickets can be found at www.infertilemafia.com   Join the Infertile Mafia Podcast team for the RESOLVE: Chicagoland Walk of Hope and donate to help us reach our fundraising goal! Chicagoland Walk of Hope Resolve.org   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are unpacking their recent time at the Infertile AF Summit!  Hear live clips from the cocktail hour where Kaela talks to women, and men, from all walks of infertility including adoption, secondary infertility, miscarriage, child-free not by choice, and others about their empowering experience at the summit. They also share some exciting news about what's next for the Infertile AF Community!   Sarah & Kaela also share some big news about their upcoming LIVE SHOW in Chicago, IL. Join the Infertile Mafia Podcast at The Abbott Mansion, a historic Chicago landmark, for an interactive LIVE show on Saturday, June 8th! Hors d'oeuvres and drinks are included in your ticket purchase, along with fun giveaway items and exclusive merch from the Infertile Mafia Podcast and local partners such as Integrative Fertility (IG: @integrative_fertility) and Infertility Illustrated (IG: @infertilityillustrated). Tickets and event details can be found at infertilemafia.com! Each ticket purchase also includes a $5 donation to the RESOLVE Chicagoland Walk of Hope. Space is limited, and sales close in two weeks on Tuesday, May 28th. Hurry - get your tickets now!   Infertile AF: Website: infertileaf.org Instagram: @infertileafcommunity     Website: www.infertilemafia.com Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters: infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram: @infertilemafiapodcast

Mother's Day is Sunday and Sarah & Kaela know this day can really blow when you're infertile.  In this episode, they share listener comments about some fun and unique ways they're planning to spend the day that might make you feel, think, laugh, or take up gardening.  They also discuss the trending 90's fashions, a cactus mishap, and they get raw and real about how they deal with difficult emotions. Finally, JOIN US in Chicago on June 8th, for the RESOLVE: Chicagoland Walk of Hope (9am) and a fun evening of dinner, drinks, and swag with the Mafia!  Check our social media in the coming weeks for more details.  Here's some stuff they talked about in this episode: RESOLVE: Chicagoland Walk of Hope Beyond Mother's Day The Waiting Line: What To Do (And Not Do) When Someone You Love is Struggling with Infertility   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

It's the last day of National Infertility Awareness Week, and the theme this year is "Infertility Uncovered." As the week comes to a close, Sarah & Kaela talk about that awkward thing that no one talks about...except Kaela.  Just in time for her birthday, this episode is all about the jerk off room.  Over the course of the podcast, many listeners have shared their often hilarious mishaps from the other side of that infamous door - and now they're all in one place for your listening...pleasure.  They also give an update on on Steph Kelly (Episode 59: Mafia Meet Steph - Endometriosis Awareness Month) about her recent radical surgery to correct her severe Endometriosis and her third FET with donor eggs and a gestational carrier.  She's been busy! Find Steph on Instagram: @kerseyknowsbest   Clips were taken from the following episodes:  Episode 5: Adventures in the Jerk Off Room Episode 14: It's Time To Evict My Eggs Episode 24: Your Wait Time Is Now... Episode 31: Let's Hear It For The Boy Episode 55: The Keto Diet (Part 1) Never hesitate to share a jerk off room story with the mafia.    This week, use the hashtag #infertilityuncovered to spread awareness!  And also, visit resolve.org if you would like additional information and support.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

It's the sixth day of National Infertility Awareness Week, and the theme this year is "Infertility Uncovered." Today, Sarah & Kaela share an exciting update from Kassie Moon, the popular YouTuber and Instagrammer behind the popular Instagram account @kassiemoon They revisit the episode where she talks about crowd sourcing and how she raised money for IVF after years of trying and failed fertility treatments.   Kaela & Sarah also share resources about finding companies that offer infertility insurance coverage, offer some creative ways to raise money and find “free” meds.  And finally, they close with a cringe-worthy game of "Would You Rather?" that might make you squirm! Clips in this episode are from Episode 27: Mafia Meet Kassie Moon -  Crowd Funding for IVF This week, use the hashtag #infertilityuncovered to spread awareness!  And also, visit resolve.org if you would like additional information and support.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

It's the fifth day of National Infertility Awareness Week, and the theme this year is "Infertility Uncovered." Today, Sarah & Kaela are revisiting the topic of infertility and family.  This episode is all about the perspective of someone who isn't infertile, but still wants to be caring and supportive to those who are.  They share clips from Episode 47: "You Might Be Infertile If..." when Kaela sits down and talks to her (fertile) sister.  Lara openly and candidly talks about ways she fields inappropriate fertility comments, discusses her dislike for pregnancy complaints and gender disappointment, and offers a heartfelt apology on behalf of all the well meaning people who keep asking you, "When are you going to have kids?" Kaela also plays a game with her sister that reveals whether or not she knows some of the insider lingo among the infertility community - and some of her answers might surprise you! This week, use the hashtag #infertilityuncovered to spread awareness!  And also, visit resolve.org if you would like additional information and support.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

It's the fourth day of National Infertility Awareness Week, and the theme this year is "Infertility Uncovered." Today, Sarah & Kaela share a big update from Christine McDonough, the popular illustrator behind the hugely popular Instagram account @infertilityillustrated They also revisit the episode where she shares the motivation for her Instagram account and talks about how art helped her cope with infertility.   Christine explains her process as an artist and tells Sarah and Kaela the inspiration behind some of their favorite illustrations.  She also shares her own experience with infertility and has some great answers for our out of the box segment!  Finally, Christine will be joining Kaela as a guest co-host for a live podcast on Saturday, April 27th, in Chicago at the Infertile AF Summit.  If you're attending, please stop by and say hello!  Details can be found here: infertileaf.org Clips in this episode are from Episode 36: Mafia Meet Christine - Infertility Illustrated and find Christine on Instagram and her website infertilityillustrated.com This week, use the hashtag #infertilityuncovered to spread awareness!  And also, visit resolve.org if you would like additional information and support.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

On this third day of National Infertility Awareness Week, Kaela talks all about relationships with Founder and Editor in Chief of Pregnantish, Andrea Syrtash.  Pregnantish is an online lifestyle magazine helping people of all walks of life - singles, couples, LGBTQ, people of color, navigate fertility treatments and infertility.     Andrea is also a relationship expert and has authored books such as “It's Okay to Sleep With Him on the First Date - And Every Other Rule of Dating Debunked”,  “He's Just Not Your Type - And That's a Good Thing” and “Cheat on Your Husband - With Your Husband.”   She's appeared in the media countless times including ABC's The View, Good Morning America, NBC's Today Show, CBS This Morning, Your World with Neil Cavuto on Fox News, The Wendy Williams Show, The Meredith Vieira Show, CNN, HLN, Discovery ID, VH1, NPR's Marketplace, On-Air with Ryan Seacrest (to name a few).   Andrea shares her unique path to parenthood via surrogacy (after LOTS of failed treatments), and an amazing story about her gestational carrier and their Jewish heritage.  She also talks about her inspiration and on-going motivation for the incredible content on pregnantish.com. And finally, she uses her expertise to answer your questions about relationship struggles and infertility!   Find Andrea and Pregnantish here: Pregnantish.com AndreaSyrtash.com Instagram: @pregnantish Instagram: @andreainny Twitter: @pregnantishmag   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast  

It's the second day of National Infertility Awareness Week, and the theme this year is "Infertility Uncovered." Today Sarah & Kaela are revisiting a topic near and dear to their hearts - humor.  They believe it's absolutely essential to survive infertility!  In this episode, you hear from Karen.  She's the author, Spanish teacher, Instagram influencer, wife, and mother behind the wildly popular @hilariously_infertile on Instagram.  Karen shares clips from her book, and talks about her motivation for writing and self publishing on the topic of humor and infertility.  It's good stuff! Finally, we share details about her upcoming parlay into stand-up comedy!  She's got a show in a few weeks and you should be there!  Details can be found here: www.hilariouslyinfertile.com Clips in this episode are from Episode 32: Mafia Meet Karen - Hilariously Infertile" This week, use the hashtag #infertilityuncovered to spread awareness!  And also, visit resolve.org if you would like additional information and support.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

It's the first day of National Infertility Awareness Week, and the theme this year is "Infertility Uncovered." To kick off the first day, Sarah & Kaela are talking about men and infertility.  In this episode, you hear Kaela talk to her husband Bill, you learn about the scandalous way sperm was discovered, and you get to hear Sarah and Kaela role play! Clips in this episode are from Episode 31: Let's Hear It For The Boy." This week, use the hashtag #infertilityuncovered to spread awareness!  And also, visit resolve.org if you would like additional information and support.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are teaming up with British co-hosts Gabby & Emma of the Big Fat Negative Podcast for a podcast swap!  They've asked burning questions like, “What's the worst part of infertility?” and also questions like, “When it comes to the Royal Family, are you ‘Team William' or ‘Team Harry?'”   Gabby & Emma talk candidly about their infertility “journey's” (spoken in the best valley girl accent you can muster) and give some insight into how the healthcare system treats infertility in England.  They also talk about their husband's - affectionately referred to as “Mr. Gabby” and “Mr. Emma” - and share some things you may not know about the UK!   Finally, Sarah & Kaela respond to some of their questions and try their hand at a British accent.  They share some of their favorite British things and Kaela finds out she and Emma have the same sentiment about the Beatles!   Tune into the Big Fat Negative Podcast to hear Kaela & Sarah answer questions from Emma & Gabby!   Big Fat Negative Podcast: Instagram: @bigfatnegative Website: www.bigfatnegative.com   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela talk to the popular beauty vlogger/blogger Brittney of BellBelleBella about her rare experience with a molar pregnancy.  She also shares her perspective on infertility as a woman of color including discussing some common myths and stereotypes surrounding women of color and their fertility.     She talks about her family's response to her “coming out” as an infertile person, shares an interesting frozen embryo transfer protocol that included vaginal viagra (what?!), and gives some encouragement to all women about their infertility experience - no matter the outcome!   Finally, she talks about the “big chop,” some of her favorite beauty products, and why she loves old and historic things!   Find Brittney here: Instagram: @BellBelleBella YouTube: BellBelleBella Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela is joined by chiropractic doctor, certified acupuncturist, and fertility expert Dr. Lauren Schneider. Dr. Lauren to talk all about surrogacy.  Dr. Lauren debunks myths about surrogacy, explains what it means to be a surrogate vs. a gestational carrier, and gives a list of “must have's” if you're considering surrogacy.   She also speaks candidly about her own personal experience with surrogacy, the steps she took to reach the decision to use a gestational carrier, and her thoughts on pregnancy and childbirth after the decision to partner with a surrogate. Finally, Kaela and Lauren discuss the most famous TV mafia, The Sopranos, and speculate on how the Infertile Mafia can improve their game. Find Dr. Lauren Schneider in these places: Instagram: @integrative_fertility Website: conceptionconsultant.com Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are joined again by board certified reproductive endocrinologist and recurrent miscarriage specialist, Dr. Lora Shahine!  In part two of this interview, Dr. Shahine is answering more listener questions about miscarriage with PGS tested embryos, efficacy of reproductive immunology, advice for an unexplained infertility diagnosis, and the one vs. two debate on embryo transfers.  She also gives some advice for men going through infertility and how they can be supportive partners (and even gives a few jerk off room tips).   We learn that Dr. Shahine struggled with infertility herself and she sheds some light on why so many doctors in reproductive medicine also do fertility treatments.  She talks about the thrill seeking hobby she picked up in her forties.  And finally, she tells us the real truth about whether on not doctors care if fertility patients shave their...ummm...legs! ;-)   Find Dr. Lora Shahine here: Twitter: @drlorashahine Instagram: @drlorashahine Website: lorashahine.com Website: www.pnwfertility.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/drlorashahine     Find her books here: Planting the Seeds of Pregnancy: An Integrative Approach to Fertility Care   Not Broken: An Approachable Guide to Miscarriage and Recurrent Pregnancy Loss   Not Broken Illustrated: A Gift for Those Who Have Suffered Pregnancy Loss     Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela are joined by board certified reproductive endocrinologist and recurrent pregnancy loss specialist, Dr. Lora Shahine!  She currently practices at Pacific Northwest Fertility & IVF Specialists in Seattle, Washington. She's also authored books on the topic of fertility and pregnancy loss (linked below) and is an all around awesome person!     In part one of this two part episode, Dr. Shahine covers many topics including; the importance of a good IVF lab and embryologists, egg freezing for fertility preservation, recurrent pregnancy loss and miscarriage, the truth about Intrauterine Insemination (IUI), and all the pros and cons of social media for both patients and doctors.  She also speaks candidly about the highs and lows of being a reproductive endocrinologist and her dedication to being a supportive caregiver. Kaela sheds a few tears in this episode, and I'm guessing you might too!   Find Dr. Lora Shahine here: Twitter: @drlorashahine Instagram: @drlorashahine Website: lorashahine.com Website: www.pnwfertility.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/drlorashahine     Find her books here: Planting the Seeds of Pregnancy: An Integrative Approach to Fertility Care   Not Broken: An Approachable Guide to Miscarriage and Recurrent Pregnancy Loss   Not Broken Illustrated: A Gift for Those Who Have Suffered Pregnancy Loss     Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

It's officially March which means it's Endometriosis Awareness Month!  Kaela and Sarah are talking to Steph Kelly about her experience with Endometriosis and Adenomyosis.  She's experienced years of pain and misdiagnosis, and was eventually diagnosed with stage four Endometriosis and “frozen pelvis” (or terminal Endometriosis).   She shares how Endometriosis is often misunderstood and how important it is for women to educate themselves and be their best advocate when seeking medical treatment.  She also opens up about how she copes on the hard days and how important a support system has been for her.   Finally, she tells us about her upcoming surgery to correct her Endometriosis and her hopeful path to parenthood via donor eggs and surrogacy.  Enjoy this hilarious, witty, and inspiring woman!   Find Steph in these places - Instagram: @kerseyknowsbest YouTube: I'm Ready Already   Join Nancy's Nook!   Take the Pregnantish Survey here to win a $50 Amazon Gift Card and a bonus treat from Sarah & Kaela! Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela are talking about changing doctors/clinics and the many factors that go into such a big decision!  They share listener comments and experiences about why/when they decided they needed to make a switch. Are you feeling like a change will do you good?  Infertility is hard enough, feeling like you have a competent and supportive doctor is an important part of the equation!   On the topic of change, they're also asking you to participate in a survey from their friends at Pregnantish.com and one lucky listener will win a $50 Amazon gift card from Pregnantish and a little bonus gift from Sarah & Kaela!    “At Pregnantish, our mission is 'Real Talk About Fertility' and we are committed to breaking the taboo of infertility. Our goal is to empower patients and healthcare providers to have a better experience and relationship during the fertility treatment process. Because too many readers have expressed their concerns, we've created this short survey to invite 'real talk' from you on your experiences.  Your answers will help us share important feedback with healthcare providers (fertility doctors, OB/GYNs, and clinics), which could ultimately improve the patient experience. Please note that your personal information (name, age, email) will not be revealed or shared publicly. This survey should take approximately 5 minutes.”   Take the Pregnantish survey here!   And last but not least, with Spring Break right around the corner, they talk about - swimsuit shopping.  Dun, dun, duuuuuuuun! Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah cover OHSS (Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome) and talk about what it is, symptoms to look for, and ways to mitigate it!  Kaela shares her own experience, and even shares a throwback clip from her YT channel. They're also joined by Christine (@infertilityillustrated) to discuss her personal experience with OHSS - twice!     And finally, they share one man's theory on how climate change is causing infertility, they debate whether or not Baby Center is a safe place to do “research,” and they talk about the pros and cons of dry shampoo!   Find Christine (Infertility Illustrated) in these places: Instagram: @infertilityillustrated Website: www.infertilityillustrated.com   Here's a link to Kaela's YT video about OHSS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKxu0RSE3rI&t=7s   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela continue exploring the Keto diet in part two of this two part episode.  This time, they talk about the downside of Keto including health risks, long-term side effects, and even some not so pleasant short-term ones (like Keto breath and Keto flu...ew).  They also share insight from Registered Dietitian Nutritionist Melissa Groves who answers listener questions and shares her professional opinion on this popular fertility diet - hint: she's not a big fan!  Finally, Kaela shares an embarrassing confession and Sarah talks about her unfortunate dilemma when she's not the only “Sarah” in the waiting room at the fertility clinic.   Find Registered Dietitian Nutritionist Melissa in these places: Instagram: @the.hormone.dietitian Website: www.avocadogrovenutrition.com   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah explore the trendy Keto diet in part one of this two part episode.  In this episode, they share some positive aspects of the Keto diet and discuss why it's so popular among women trying to conceive, especially those with PCOS.  They also share the opinion of a reproductive endocrinologist who prescribes the Keto diet to all of his patients. But, despite some of its appeal, Kaela isn't totally convinced and she shares her ongoing concern.     Sarah shares a few big secrets with Kaela (one of them might be that she's starting the Keto diet), and they discuss how basically all food is bad for you!  Finally, they cover topics like beauty queens, Tom Brady, the super bowl, some epic jerk off room stories, and give a shout out to all the female doctors for National Women's Physician Day!   Full Interview with Dr. Robert Kiltz of CNY Fertility https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdZ3Gst14mI&t=602s   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela are talking about the paralyzing feelings surrounding infertility treatments!  They share their own experiences and that of listeners about their fears when it comes to big treatment decisions as well as things that motivated them and gave them encouragement to move forward and take another step.  They also share some recent news about three parent (DNA) IVF babies and a woman who gave birth to triplets - as in an IVF baby and spontaneously conceived twins! Your Fertility. Your Family. :The Many Roads to Conception - by Dr. William Schoolcraft M.D. HCLD  Available on Amazon now! IVF Three Parent Baby https://www.newsweek.com/assisted-reproduction-ivf-maternal-spindle-transfer-three-parent-babies-1302044 Woman Gives Birth to Twins And IVF Baby at the Same Time https://www.insideedition.com/woman-gives-birth-twins-and-ivf-baby-same-time-miracles-do-happen-50126 Don't forget! Kaela & Sarah are matching iTunes reviews with a donation to RESOLVE!  For every review on iTunes, for the next month, they'll donate $5 on your behalf! Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela & Sarah are discussing the egg retrieval surgery!  They let you know what their experience was like and share advice and stories from other listeners (ahem, up your fiber intake).  They also talk about new stats on adenomyosis and an article linking a missing protein with infertility in women with endometriosis.  And finally, they share a story about a man who injected himself with his own semen...to cure his back pain. Yep, you read that right.   Articles referenced in this episode: Irish Man Injected Himself With His Own Semen... https://www.rt.com/news/448995-irish-man-injected-semen/   Protein May Help Explain Why Some Women With Endometriosis Are Infertile https://www.sciencenews.org/article/protein-may-help-explain-why-some-women-endometriosis-are-infertile   Don't forget! Kaela & Sarah are matching iTunes reviews with a donation to RESOLVE!  For every review on iTunes, for the next month, they'll donate $5 on your behalf!   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela are joining listeners in the Infertile Mafia Podcast facebook group as they dish about more celebrities who have shared their infertility stories and unique paths to parenthood!  They cover a number of topics that celebrities have dealt with from unexplained infertility to cancer to the inability to adopt (lookin' at you Australia). They also cover topics like their favorite 90's pop songs (lookin' at you Celine and Mariah), movies, spray tan salons, karaoke, and share the results of a celebrity quiz!  And listen to the end for a bonus clip about high school choir trip shenanigans, stalkers, and reality TV.   Don't forget! Kaela & Sarah are matching iTunes reviews with a donation to RESOLVE!  For every review on iTunes, for the next month, they'll donate $5 on your behalf! resolve.org Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com  Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

What do an actress, a comedian, a supermodel, and a pop star have in common?  You guessed it...infertility.  In part one of this two part episode, Kaela and Sarah talk about four celebrities who have recently been open about their struggles with infertility and their unique paths to parenthood.  We salute these brave men and women for being courageous, sharing their stories, and giving the infertility community support and encouragement! They're also matching iTunes reviews with a donation to RESOLVE!  For every review on iTunes for the next month, they'll donate $5 during the month of January 2019! resolve.org Full interview with Oprah Winfrey and Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade on the OWN YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/yzZLLtixCeg Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook groups: The Infertile Mafia / The Infertile Mafia - Bosses and Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela say goodbye to 2018 and bring in the new year by sharing listener emails about infertility and the holiday season.  They also discuss everything from Legally Blonde to Golden Girls and horrifying “infertility themed” Christmas gifts! And finally, Sarah reveals an inconvenient truth about pineapples.  Hint: the infertility community and swingers have more in common than you think. Happy New Year, Mafia - we're toasting to YOU! Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela reunite in this episode to talk about infertility and surviving the holiday season!  They share listener comments of solidarity and ways to cope with nosy relatives, awkward gift exchanges, and the overall crippling sadness and depression that is being infertile during the holidays (hint: wine is often involved)!  They also talk about Michelle Obama opening up about miscarriage and IVF, share an IUI success story, and swap Black Friday stories! We know this is a hard time of year...we're thankful for good food, good wine, and good friends.  Happy Holidays Mafia! Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com  Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

In this episode, Kaela is talking to chiropractic doctor, certified acupuncturist, and fertility expert Dr. Lauren Schneider. Dr. Lauren debunks myths about fertility diet fads, prenatal vitamins, toxins, and acupuncture! Kaela also talks with her about topics like MTHFR, immunology, men's health, alcohol, and the importance of individualized medical support for pre and post conception care. They also discuss their favorite Thanksgiving food. Don't worry, Dr. Lauren says you can have the day off...but Friday it's back in the game! Contact Dr. Lauren Schneider, DC here: Instagram: @integrative_fertility Website: conceptionconsultant.com Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Gender disappointment, whiny pregnant women, infertility and family dynamics, being an egg donor, surrogacy, MTHFR, progesterone shots - these are some of topics you'll hear in this episode as Kaela is joined by her guest co-host, and younger sister, Lara.  As a “fertile” person, she offers her perspective on ways she has learned to be an advocate for the infertility community and Kaela shares how thankful she is for her supportive sister. She also issues an apology, on behalf of the fertile population, for all the stupid things they say to infertile people!  And finally, during this week's out of the box segment, these sisters debate topics like Disney movies, double dipping, women who wear rompers, and people who Instagram their food.   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Kaela is joined this week by the talented, Christine, of the popular Instagram account "Infertility Illustrated." These two have teamed up to talk about trigger shots!  They'll give you the low down on different types of triggers, their pros and cons, and what to expect when it's go time!  They also talk about stimulation drugs, and all their lovely side effects (ie; rage, weight gain, and uncontrollable sobbing).  And finally, they give some insight on breaking IVF news of two Mom's who carried the same baby (yeah, you read that right) and a false positive pregnancy test recall! Here's the articles discussed in the episode: Faulty Pregnancy Tests Give False Positives https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-6244933/Mother-33-wrongly-told-pregnant-faulty-test-claims-ruined-holiday.html Same Sex Couple Carries The Same Baby https://abcnews.go.com/US/sex-couple-carries-baby-calls-experience-priceless/story?id=58768828   Here's where you can find Christine: Instagram: @infertilityillustrated infertilityillustrated.com   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group(s): The Infertile Mafia Podcast & The Infertile Mafia - Bosses & Babies Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Today is World Fertility Day! Thanks to the ladies at IVF Babble, an online fertility magazine, for dedicating this entire day to providing the infertility community with support, guidance and lots of positive and empowering resources. Check them out on Facebook, Instagram (@ivfbabble), and their website ivfbabble.com for more information and to join in their live Q&A's with fertility experts all day long! And finally, meet our friend Natalie the host of The Fertility Podcast.  In honor of World Fertility Day, she reached out to us to do a mini podcast swap!  Natalie is a fantastic advocate for the infertility community, and her podcast is a great resource for anyone needing additional support.  She interviews skilled and knowledgeable professionals in the field of fertility and also offers her own heartfelt commentary because she's been there, she gets it!  You can find The Fertility Podcast anywhere you listen to you favorite podcasts.  And you can also find Natalie in these places: Instagram: @fertilitypoddy Website: www.thefertilitypodcast.com Use the hashtag #worldfertilityday to spread awareness, share your stories, offer support and provide encouragement throughout the infertility community today!

Just in time for Halloween, Kaela & Sarah are holding nothing back in this horrifying episode! They give you an in depth look at some of the scariest and creepiest “treatments” and rituals for infertility from Ancient Rome to modern day including - a bronzed “package”  in Paris, fertility caves in South Africa, and a penis parade in Japan. And then, there's the not so fortunate rituals like exorcisms, executions, or getting whacked in the face with a sacrificial goat. And finally, they share an epic drunk fertility segment! This time you'll learn about a scandalous menage-a-trois in France, and also how the father of modern day gynecology was both a pioneer but also a racist jerk. This episode will really put things into perspective. Infertility sucks balls, but at least no one's getting burned at the stake. Warning: This episode contains adult themes including blood, guts, violence against women, and other unsavory topics.  Listener discretion is advised!   Article about James Marion Sims https://www.history.com/news/the-father-of-modern-gynecology-performed-shocking-experiments-on-slaves   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group: The Infertile Mafia Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast

Sarah & Kaela are answering your questions in this episode!  They cover all sorts of topics including if penis length affects fertility, coping with baby showers, juggling work and doctor appointments, anxiety during pregnancy after infertility, sperm morphology, alcohol and fertility treatments, and they even touch on topics like porn stars and satin sheets!  Spoiler alert, length doesn't matter at all - at least not for fertility.   Bree Molyneaux - Hypnosis for Fertility https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/hypnosis-for-fertility/603391428   Bree Molyneaux - Hypnosis for IVF https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/hypnosis-for-ivf/603374475   Email questions, comments, and other mafia matters to infertilemafia@gmail.com Join the closed Facebook group: The Infertile Mafia Follow on Instagram @infertilemafiapodcast