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Join us for a special Tuesday live, where I address your questions on mental, emotional and relationship health. I share about my recent trip to Texas to officiate a wedding, while sharing the powerful experience I had visiting the region in Hunt, Texas that was hit with devastating floods this past July. Here are some […]
In this episode of Awaken into Love, Kiyomi dives into one of the biggest and most confusing parts of life with ROCD: expansion. How do you grow, evolve, and follow your purpose when your mind is constantly pulling you back into fear and doubt? We explore: The paradox of wanting change while fearing it Common fears around outgrowing your partner or making the wrong choice How society's messages about purpose can trigger obsessive thinking Why community is core medicine for OCD and ROCD Expansion doesn't have to mean leaving your partner behind — it can mean opening to more love and authenticity right where you are. Join our October Masterclass on Expansion at Awaken into Life Learn more about ROCD and find support at rocdcourse.com
Heute habe ich Christian zu Gast. Christian ist Betroffener von pädophilen Zwangsgedanken (POCD) – also der Angst, pädophil zu sein, obwohl man es eigentlich nicht ist. Zusätzlich hatte er aggressive Zwangsgedanken und Zwangsgedanken rund um seine Beziehung (ROCD). In dieser Folge erzählt Christian seine Geschichte und teilt: Wie es bei ihm zum Ausbruch seiner Zwangsgedanken kam Wie ihm eine tiefenpsychologische Therapie gar nicht helfen konnte Wie er erkannt hat, dass er unter einer Zwangsstörung leidet Was ihm am meisten geholfen hat Wie er es geschafft hat, mit dem Grübeln aufzuhören Was er von Achtsamkeits-Coaches hält Wie es ihm heute geht Wieso es ihm wichtig ist, über pädophile Zwangsgedanken zu berichten Welche Tipps und Empfehlungen er für andere Betroffene hat Und vieles mehr In der Folge erwähnt: Artikel-Reihe zum zwanghaften Grübeln, Community Forum, Therapie-Suche, Podcast-Folge mit Thomas Hillebrand zu Expositionen bei aggressiven und sexuellen Zwangsgedanken Hinweis: Der Name ‘Christian' ist ein Pseudonym. Das Bild im Banner zeigt nicht die echte Person aus dem Podcast, sondern wurde mithilfe künstlicher Intelligenz erstellt. Wir kennen den vollständigen Namen der Person und diese Podcast-Folge ist ein Mitschnitt eines realen Gesprächs. Mehr von OCD Land: Informationen zu OCD Land Gold | Mitgliedschaft abschließen Mehr von OCD Land (Experten-Blog, Betroffenenberichte, Instagram, Podcast, YouTube) Hinweis: Unser Angebot ist kein Ersatz für eine Therapie. Solltest du an einer psychischen Erkrankung leiden, wende dich bitte an einen Arzt oder Psychotherapeuten.
Do you find yourself in emotional flares, forgetting what you know to be true, where your emotions feel disconnected? Then allow this broadcast to be an empowerment to you. What about using your gifts and talents? Do you overthink your motives and live in fear that you will end up being the wicked servant in […]
We're back for season 2 of the Awaken into Love podcast! In this first episode, Kiyomi and Manon explore what it really means to thrive with OCD and ROCD, beyond perfectionism, societal pressure, and comparison. This is the first part of the conversation. For the complete VIP episode, our Thriving Masterclass, and the LIVE deepening circle on Sept 27, join us inside our new membership: Awaken into Life. --- Awaken into Life If you are ready to explore LIFE beyond ROCD/OCD and find deeper love, peace, purpose, and community. Join us here!
We're back for season 2 of the Awaken into Love podcast! In this first episode, Kiyomi a Manon explore what it really means to thrive with OCD and ROCD, beyond perfectionism, societal pressure, and comparison. This is the first part of the conversation. For the complete VIP episode, our Thriving Masterclass, and the LIVE deepening circle on Sept 27, join us inside our new membership: Awaken into Life. --- Awaken into Life If you are ready to explore LIFE beyond ROCD/OCD and find deeper love, peace, purpose, and community. Join us here!
In this episode, I share more about Relationship OCD (ROCD) and how social media can fuel the cycle of comparison, doubt, and intrusive thoughts. From seeing engagement posts to scrolling through "perfect" couple photos, social media can create pressure that can send many into ROCD spirals, leading to rumination and reassurance-seeking.As a Swiftie since her debut album, I share my excitement about the news of Taylor and Travis getting engaged, while also unpacking how public figures and certain images of love can intensify ROCD themes. I hold space for acknowledging how difficult it can be to live with ROCD, while providing hope for those who feel alone and isolated in the cycle...adding in the importance of self-compassion when we are caught up in the cycle.Feature on the Unbothered Podcast: Living with Relationship OCDSTAY CONNECTED:INSTA: @trustandthriveTIKOK: @trustandthriveEMAIL: trustandthrive@gmail.com
"Do I love them enough? What if I'm making the wrong choice? What if they don't actually love me?" Welcome to the world of Relationship OCD (ROCD). This week, Chloe is joined by therapist + Trust & Thrive podcast host Tara Montazeri to talk about ROCD and the endless loop of doubt it can create. From intrusive thoughts to compulsions, we break down what ROCD looks like, how it impacts love, and tools for riding the wave instead of spiraling.Follow Unbothered on IG and TikTok Follow Chloe & AlexaListen to Tara's podcast Trust & Thrive. Follow Tara on IG and TikTok
In this insightful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt unpacks the complexities of Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (ROCD), a condition that plagues many individuals with intrusive and obsessive thoughts about their romantic relationships. With her signature blend of humor and candidness, Brianne explores the symptoms and behaviors associated with ROCD, shedding light on how this disorder can create emotional turmoil and self-doubt.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her own experiences and the stories of those who have battled with ROCD, illustrating the relentless cycle of doubt and anxiety that can arise in relationships. She discusses the key characteristics of ROCD, including compulsive behaviors like seeking constant reassurance, comparing relationships, and the emotional exhaustion that comes from ruminating over perceived flaws in partners.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the difference between normal relationship anxiety and the obsessive nature of ROCD. Brianne emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and offers practical coping strategies, such as grounding techniques, journaling, and focusing on the present moment. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that understanding and addressing one's mental health is crucial for building healthy relationships.
In this broadcast, my Melissa and I open up about 19 years of marriage—sharing the honest challenges, the lessons we've learned, and the intentional steps we've taken to grow together in love and communication. I also dive into 1 John and cover the importance of receiving and giving out God's love. Plus, we answer your […]
Todayyy we talk about relationship anxiety and the urge to leave EVEN IF you don't want to. We dive into why this theme can be so hard and painful to the one experiencing it and to the significant other. I share my early experiences with ROCD and how it morphed feelings I had for my now husband. I end the episode with a listener update from a recent episode!! Our first update!! yay!!Call 909-817-1742 to leave a “Dear Abbey” voicemail or leave a text with a question or asking for advice!! Love you guys!!
In this solo episode, I open up about my personal experience with Relationship OCD (ROCD), including how it's shown up in my current relationship and how I navigated these thoughts before I even knew I lived with OCD. I share both about my personal relationship, while incorporating what I've learned as a therapist and in my work.I also answer your questions from Instagram and TikTok, including how to tell the difference between real concerns and OCD, exploring one's relationship to guilt, and how to talk to your partner about OCD.While OCD can feel incredibly isolating and there can be a great deal of shame and guilt that comes with ROCD specifically, I hope this episode can remind you that you're not alone and that you just as deserving of love as anyone else.As always: this episode is for education and entertainment purposes — it is not a replacement for therapy or professional mental health services.STAY CONNECTED:INSTA: @trustandthriveTIKOK: @trustandthriveEMAIL: trustandthrive@gmail.com
In today's midweek Q&A, we dove deep into some challenging mental health topics that many of you are wrestling with, including: I shared insights on how OCD can distort our perceptions of love, relationships, and even our connection with God. Whether you're struggling with doubts about your marriage, battling intrusive thoughts about your children, or […]
Todayy I jump right on in (kinda rude of me) and talk about when brain rot goes too far and about taking your power back from wasting lots of time doom scrolling. I then talk about 3 things your OCD brain can and will use against you to stay in control, (from my personal experience). Those three things are your knowledge, desire to do good, and the desire to be loved/to love. We end the episode with a dear abbey submission asking about how to deal with ROCD on the wedding day!!Call 909-817-1742 to leave a “Dear Abbey” voicemail or leave a text with a question or asking for advice!! Love you guys!!
You got married and thought the anxiety would go away—but the doubts are still here.“What if I made a mistake?”“What if this wasn't God's will?”In this episode, we talk about why anxiety can show up after marriage, how ROCD and spiritual fears play a role, and why it doesn't mean you're in the wrong relationship.We also share what to do if you're stuck in anxious spirals—and how to avoid falling into the relationship anxiety trap.You're not broken. You're not alone. And you didn't ruin your life.Hope you enjoy!
In episode 492 I chat with Sheva Rajaee. Sheva is a psychotherapist who specialises in the treatment of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and other related anxiety disorders. She is the founder of the Center for Anxiety and OCD (CAOCD). Sheva authored the book Relationship OCD: A CBT-Based Guide to Move Beyond Obsessive Doubt, Anxiety, and Fear of Commitment in Romantic Relationships. We discuss an update on her, her center's couples protocol for working with relationship OCD (rOCD), treating the system with rOCD, attachment theory, attachment insecurities, emotion focused therapy (EFT), having healing couples conversations, helping the partner navigate the OCD and relationship, self compassion in the context of the couple, sex and intimacy, values based sex, and much more. Hope it helps. Show notes: https://theocdstories.com/episode/sheva-492 The podcast is made possible by NOCD. NOCD offers effective, convenient therapy available in the US and outside the US. To find out more about NOCD, their therapy plans and if they currently take your insurance head over to https://go.treatmyocd.com/theocdstories Join many other listeners getting our weekly emails. Never miss a podcast episode or update: https://theocdstories.com/newsletter Thanks to all our patrons for supporting our work. To sign up to our Patreon and to check out the benefits you'll receive as a Patron, visit: https://www.patreon.com/theocdstoriespodcast
In this new episode led by Manon, our Director & ROCD/RA Expert at Awaken into Love, Sherin (Awaken into Love Graduate & Member of Our HOME peer-support group) shares her struggles with Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (ROCD), detailing the shame and guilt that accompanied her feelings of disconnection from her partner. After two years of suffering in silence, discovering the existence of ROCD brought immense relief and a sense of validation. Through her journey at Awaken into Love, she learned the importance of self-trust and self-compassion, recognizing that her intrusive thoughts do not define love. » ROCD FREE CHECKLIST: https://free.rocdcourse.com/checklist » ROCD/RA ACADEMY (COURSE): https://academy.rocdcourse.com/join » AIL HOME (PEER-SUPPORT): https://home.rocdcourse.com/join Disclaimer: All of the information listed in this channel is for informative, motivational, and educational purposes only. Please note that this channel is not meant to diagnose you or treat a mental health disorder but serves only as education and motivation.
In this new episode, we sit down with Kim, a beloved member of the Awaken Into Love community, to talk about her powerful journey through ROCD (Relationship OCD), anxiety, and healing. Kim opens up about discovering ROCD later in life after years of uncertainty, perfectionism, and self-doubt—and how the Awaken Into Love course and peer support community (formerly KIC, now HOME) helped her find clarity, resilience, and ultimately, love. Kim shares: -Her early experiences with OCD, spiritual scrupulosity, and hyper-responsibility -The grief of missed connections and a life spent waiting for certainty -The moment she found ROCD content online and felt seen for the first time -How the course helped her shift from obsessive research to real healing -Why joining the group felt terrifying—but ultimately transformative -The role of grief, acceptance, and empowerment in building a healthy, grounded relationship -How she learned that love is a choice—and that being human means embracing imperfection -Her heartfelt advice to her younger self and others just beginning this journey Kim's story is one of vulnerability, courage, and awakening—a reminder that healing isn't linear, but it is possible. Whether you're struggling with ROCD, relationship anxiety, or looking for real stories of hope, this episode is for you.
We get to visit the world of Joe Goldberg one last time. The final season of YOU is out and from literacy and to love addiction, there is so much to chat about. We are so glad Joe is fictional, but that won't stop us from missing this character.Email us: KillerFunPodcast@gmail.comFollow us on Facebook: fb.me/KillerFunPodcastAll the Tweets, er, POSTS: https://x.com/KillerFunPodInstagram: killerfunpodcast
This is a part two of our Sunday Live, as we had technical issues with our internet connection. (Our son Maximus was vacuuming during the livestream and unplugged the router.
I address a question from a wife who recognizes that her Relationship OCD and perfectionism struggles have highly influenced a critical eye towards her husband that has had a negative impact on their marriage. Today, I speak soberly to this issue and what the healing journey can look like. I provide some very specific steps […]
It’s normal to have doubts and questions about our relationships sometimes. Am I in love with my partner? Am I spending enough time with my parents? Are my friends mad at me? But what happens when those normal, passing concerns turn into an obsession? In this episode, we explain the difference between ordinary relationship concerns and relationship OCD (ROCD), how to identify when ROCD is showing up, and what the next steps are for helping clients manage it. Resources and links: Webinars, books, and training by Melbourne Wellbeing Group OCD training workshops by Dr Celin Gelgec OCD focused supervision for healthcare professionals with Dr Celin Gelgec Connect: https://www.melbournewellbeinggroup.com.au/ http://www.drcelingelgec.com.au/ This show is produced in collaboration with Wavelength Creative. Visit wavelengthcreative.com for more information.
Are you plagued by anxiety, doubt and confusion with your emotions when it comes to a romantic relationship? “The Myth of the Perfect One” offers a compassionate exploration of Relationship OCD (ROCD). You will read about my honest journey and gain insights into overcoming anxiousness, doubts, and confusion. Discover how to identify distorted thinking, break […]
As someone who's walked the challenging path of Relationship OCD, I want to share insights that can help you break free from the endless cycle of doubt and anxiety. Allow me to provide some coaching as to the important factors to be aware of when walking through ROCD. For years, I struggled with a toxic […]
In today's part 7 ROCD Q&A, I dive deep into the world of Relationship OCD, addressing the most challenging questions Christians face in dating, romance and marriage. If you've ever struggled with intrusive thoughts, anxiety about relationships, or fear of making the wrong choice, this broadcast is for you. I address a number of areas: […]
In this deeply personal episode, Kiyomi reflects on the journey that began in 2017 with her first vulnerable video about Relationship OCD (ROCD). She shares how that one act of courage has grown into a global movement through Awaken into Love, helping thousands find words for their pain and a path toward healing. Kiyomi revisits her journals, old Facebook photos, and memories from 17 years of living with ROCD. She shares how her pain became a portal for transformation—not just for herself, but for thousands of others around the world. She introduces the four core pillars of Awaken into Love: Humanness – Embracing the shared experience of suffering and healing. Love – Redefining love in its most truthful and unconditional form. Empowerment – Reclaiming your worth and releasing the shame and hyper-responsibility often tied to ROCD. Awakening – Using ROCD as a catalyst for growth, connection, and purpose. Kiyomi opens up about stepping back from the spotlight, expanding the team with incredible coaches, and continuing to grow behind the scenes. She speaks of healing, her now-thriving relationship, and becoming a mother—proof that life can radically transform. She ends with a loving invitation to join the free 31-Day “Back to Love” Challenge, a journey she's taking alongside the community to reconnect with love, self-compassion, and hope. https://free.rocdcourse.com/backtolove ✨ "Your ROCD doesn't define you—it awakens you. You're not alone, and you are right where you're meant to be." ✨ » ROCD FREE CHECKLIST: https://rocdcourse.com/the-checklist » ROCD/RA ACADEMY (COURSE): https://rocdcourse.com/ » AIL HOME (PEER-SUPPORT): https://rocdcourse.com/peer-support Disclaimer: All of the information listed in this channel is for informative, motivational, and educational purposes only. Please note that this channel is not meant to diagnose you or treat a mental health disorder but serves only as education and motivation. #ROCD, #Relationshipocd, #Relationshipanxiety, #OCD #anxiety #mentalhealth #love
Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 488 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into developing a more positive relationship with anxiety disorders. In this episode, I share my personal story of overcoming Relationship OCD, detailing the challenges and triumphs along the way. For anyone struggling with OCD or anxiety, I offer a free 30-minute discovery call to explore potential support. Visit robertjamescoaching.com for more details or check the link in the show notes. Listen in as I discuss how expectations in relationships can sometimes lead to unnecessary fear and doubt, and how overcoming compulsions and embracing acceptance commitment therapy can lead to a more fulfilling partnership Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
When you're experiencing relationship anxiety, hearing "trust your gut" or "listen to your intuition" can be one of the most triggering things you can hear. Is your intuition telling you to leave, or is it ROCD? Tune in with Chelsea Joy Horton, OCD specialist with her masters in dance movement therapy and counseling. Together we share the more accurate measurements of determining how to trust your decision about your partner. Email List - Stay in touch I'm going on maternity leave in January! I'll be in touch via email for a while. Please subscribe! As thanks, I'll send you my free relationship anxiety meditation to help you snap out of ruminating. Get that here. Both Feet In - Get help at your own pace Get my signature program to help you pull your other foot out the door in your relationship, open your heart, and make a decision you feel proud of either way — all in your own time. PDFs, audio/video recordings, and support from other students. Get that here. Patreon - Join my community Lastly, if you love my work, please consider sponsoring me on Patreon! I appreciate it so much. I offer discounts, some exclusive content, and a monthly community support call on Zoom where you can ask me anything, for $5-9/month, cancel anytime. Become a patron here.