Transformed You with Mark & Melissa DeJesus

This is a part two of our Sunday Live, as we had technical issues with our internet connection. (Our son Maximus was vacuuming during the livestream and unplugged the router.

Join us for this special Sunday live where Mark celebrates 30 years of ministry work and shares what he has learned along the way. He also takes some time to teach on 1 John 3 to help you see that identity awareness changes our behavior. (Note: we had a technical issue with our internet connection, […]

I address a question sent in about dreams and how to process dreams in a healthy way, especially if you have struggles with issues like anxiety or OCD. Watch on YouTube: Watch on Rumble: Recommended Resources: To support future broadcasts: 

Would you like some advice for how to work through scrupulosity and salvation OCD from a famous Christian author? Allow me to share with you some important insights about working through salvation OCD by highlighting a statement from John Bunyan himself, who was known to have his own battle with scrupulosity. You are not alone […]

You are probably here because you are spinning about the unforgivable or unpardonable sin that is mentioned in the Bible. Most likely you landed on this video because you are spinning about this subject, wondering if you may have committed it. Or you are so deep into this subject that you have come to some […]

Are you struggling to understand and manage your emotions, especially if you struggle with OCD? In this broadcast, I break down the challenges of emotional intelligence for those with obsessive-compulsive tendencies and provide practical insights to help you, understand the four key areas of emotional intelligence and recognize the common emotional hurdles for OCD strugglers. […]

I address a question from a wife who recognizes that her Relationship OCD and perfectionism struggles have highly influenced a critical eye towards her husband that has had a negative impact on their marriage. Today, I speak soberly to this issue and what the healing journey can look like. I provide some very specific steps […]

Today I address a question sent in on the struggle of ruminating, but this is involves ruminating over good experiences when they end. What does it look like to work through this? Watch on YouTube: Watch on Rumble: Recommended Resources: To support future broadcasts: 

Today we take the subject of trauma and make it the focus of this Sunday live, where I provide in depth feedback on questions regarding healing through trauma and emotional recovery. I also continue a Bible Study in 1 John 3:1, entitled, “The Power of Living as the Father's Child.” In this broadcast, I address […]

As someone who has worked in the trenches for decades on heart healing, mind renewal and emotional work, I want to give you some inside perspectives on some common trauma approaches in what is called inner healing. I have seen some good things, but I have also seen the goofy, the dangerous and the messy […]

I found myself repeating this so much it is worth sharing in a video. In my work, I spend a lot of time helping people to recognize and heal through the broken areas of our life that often bring a great deal of resistance to our healing journey. But many are stuck in a pattern […]

Join us for Sunday Live as we empower your healing and freedom journey by addressing your questions on mental, emotional and relationship health. I also teach a Bible study on 1 John 2:18-29, entitled, “Anointed, Discerning and Abiding,” where I talk about the anointing that is not complicated, but is at work within you. I […]

Ask a Christian how to work through trauma and you might get a wide range of responses. This contribubtes to a lot of confusion when it comes to working through a trauma healing journey. In this broadcast, I want to bring out the healing and freedom that is available in the love of the Father […]

Are you plagued by anxiety, doubt and confusion with your emotions when it comes to a romantic relationship? “The Myth of the Perfect One” offers a compassionate exploration of Relationship OCD (ROCD). You will read about my honest journey and gain insights into overcoming anxiousness, doubts, and confusion. Discover how to identify distorted thinking, break […]

As someone who's walked the challenging path of Relationship OCD, I want to share insights that can help you break free from the endless cycle of doubt and anxiety. Allow me to provide some coaching as to the important factors to be aware of when walking through ROCD. For years, I struggled with a toxic […]

We dove deep into some of life's most challenging topics: marriage, mental health, parenting, and finding authentic love. Let me tell you, being a husband and father isn't about perfection. It's about commitment to growth. Melissa and I have walked through our own brokenness, learning that love isn't about looking good on social media, but […]

In today's part 7 ROCD Q&A, I dive deep into the world of Relationship OCD, addressing the most challenging questions Christians face in dating, romance and marriage. If you've ever struggled with intrusive thoughts, anxiety about relationships, or fear of making the wrong choice, this broadcast is for you. I address a number of areas: […]

A common root issue when it comes to mental health and emotional health has to do with relationship disconnection–struggling with feeling disconnected from God, from others or even from yourself. This fuels anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, mood disorders, OCD and more. I bring this up because of the importance of mental health, but also because Christians […]

Join Melissa and I as we celebrate the launch of my newest book, The Myth of the Perfect One, a book about healing through Relationship OCD. We tell behind the scenes stories of the journey, while also bringing out some important insight in navigating this anxiety ridden styruggle. We talk about its impact on dating […]

In this continuing study of 1 John, I wanted to take some extended time to address this section, to help you discern the ways of the world, but also understanding what lust is and how to get to the root system of lust battles. You'll learn: Whether you're struggling with temptation, feeling disconnected, or want […]

In today's Sunday Live broadcast, we dove deep into the messy, yet beautiful journey of mental, emotional, and spiritual healing. My wife Melissa and I opened up about our family life, including some hilarious moments with our son Max and his artistic adventures. Throughout the broadcast, we explored everything from navigating toxic family dynamics and […]

Join us for our Sunday Live as Mark addresses your questions on mental, emotional and relationship health! I first start off by addressing a common struggle that many believers have when it comes to approaching the practice of taking communion. I spend some time walking through the Scriptures and highlighting how we can relate to […]

In this broadcast, I will review different types of therapy and support available for individuals dealing with trauma, PTSD, and CPTSD. Those who see the impact of trauma on their lives often find themselves navigating the complex landscape of trauma recovery by exploring what help and treatment can look like. It's important to remember that […]

I have questions being sent in to me, asking about statements made by Pastor John MacArthur saying, “there is no such thing as mental illness,” adding that there is “no such thing as OCD or PTSD” and others. He has expressed a number of very strong opinions about mental health, that a number of my […]

A pastor met with a woman in his church and told her to stop digging, dwelling and just forgive, while also telling people with painful childhoods to put it behind you and move on. Basically, “get over it.” This is a common experience many have when they receive pastoral feedback. What do you do with […]

I believe that complex trauma and CPTSD is a pervasive problem. Understanding it can also help to explain a driving force within many of the mental health battles that people face today. Of all the subjects of trauma, I personally find this specific area can be beneficial for many to learn and walk through for […]

Join us as we explore many topics and questions regarding mental, emotional and relationship health. Mark breaks down the five stages of grief, revealing how this process applies to various life experiences – from relationship changes to personal transitions. Learn how embracing your emotional journey can lead to profound personal transformation and healing. Connecting Through […]

We cannot walk The Trauma Healing Journey without getting an understanding of Post Traumatic Stress, which is often communicated by its abbreviation, PTSD. PTSD is a condition that affects people who have been exposed to a traumatic event or series of events, where a collection of symptoms remain long after the event.  The understanding of […]

Dive into our Sunday Live as we take a journey of healing, mental health and spiritual growth with Mark and Melissa. In this broadcast, we cover a variety of topics. You will also discover practical insights on: Whether you're struggling with mental health, seeking spiritual growth, or looking to understand yourself better, this session offers […]

Join me as I addressed numerous questions that have to do with mental, emotional and relationship health. One parent is concerned that her six year old has OCD. Another listener is obsessive-compulsive about the mark of the beast. A mom had to divorce her abusive husband, but now her kids won't speak to her. One […]

Join us for Sunday Live, as Mark and Melissa discuss the importance of motivation, overcoming resistance, and the role of love in relationships. They emphasize the need to have a clear “why” and to work through challenges with compassion. Mark provides a Bible study on 1 John 2:3-11, focusing on obeying God's commandment which is […]

When you think of trauma and you think of the Bible, those words are often explored in separate worlds. But traumatic experiences are written about all throughout both the Old and New Testament. Trauma has impacted humanity since the beginning of time and the Bible shows us its impact, where just about every form of […]

Why does it seem like trauma affects people in so many different ways? In my last session, I talked about the many signs and symptoms of trauma. For some people, you can easily detect trauma symptoms. For others, it can be much more hidden. Regardless, there are a variety of ways that trauma impacts people […]

What does the Bible say about people who act likey they have no sin? Join us as Mark does a Bible study on the book of 1 John and also takes in your questions! A psychiatrist writes in, sharing how he wants to quit, because he struggles with mental health issues himself. I also address […]

What does it mean to fall from grace? When the phrase “fall from grace” is used in our culture, it often means someone had a public scandal or moral failure. However, the biblical understanding of falling from grace is quite different. In this broadcast, I want to explore the two key ways believers can actually […]

Trauma can have a profound and lasting impact on our lives, often manifesting in ways we might not immediately recognize. But I find that it is important to understand that trauma isn't just about the event itself, but also about the imprint it leaves on our minds, bodies, and spirit. There are patterns that can […]

Join us for Sunday live, as Mark delves into 1 John and the biblical theme of walking in the light, while also discerning the influence of darkness. He also addresses questions addressing His work in church consultations and the need for church health. Mark also shares about a psychological concept called adolescent egocentrism and how […]

How do you handle weakness in your life? What about in the lives of others?  Today I want to talk about the perspective that grace brings to your weaknesses, which pushes against the cultural way that we relate to weakness in our journey. If you want to learn to experience grace more, you will need […]

Why do those with OCD have such a difficult time processing thorugh trauma? The pain of trauma is already difficult in itself, but if someone has OCD struggles, it make working through trauma even more challenging. As I continue on The Trauma Healing Journey, I must address this factor, because so many of my viewers […]

Join Melissa and I for our Sunday Live broadcast, where I teach a Bible study titled “A Full Tank of Joy” and then addresses questions on mental, emotional and relationship health. I also took some time to share about the importance of reflecting on your birth, and how Kind David experienced awe by understanding the […]

Join me on the Truma Healing Journey, where I will speak to this topic and help us get to the heart of trauma, PTSD, Complex Trauma and the overall struggle in working through painful experiences from the past. In this broadcast, I want to get into “Understanding the Impact of Trauma,” so that we can […]

In this transformative Sunday Live, join Melissa and I as we share the wisdom we have learned along our journey, while also addressing your mental health questions. Mark continues his Bible study on 1 John by teaching on “Experiencing Logos” and take in the living, powerful Word of God. Learn how to engage with Scripture […]

Grace is not sloppy, nor is it irresponsible or careless. But grace is not afraid of our messiness. In fact, where things get messy, grace has an ability to work powerfully. Today I want to get into understanding this: that while we may struggle with condemnation, fear and shame regarding our sins and struggles, grace […]

When I first began this journey of healing and freedom with my mental health, one of my goals was to learn how to relate to all my disturbing, embarrassing, conflicting, depressing and anxiety ridden thoughts. But in the long run, what I really learned was how to relate to ALL my thoughts in a renewed […]

Join us as we celebrate an incredible milestone of 1,000 videos on YouTube! As a part of this episode, Melissa asked Mark some questions, reflecting on the journey, the challenges that were face and the wisdom gained along the way. This Sunday live begins a new feature that many of you have asked for: a […]

Grace makes way for a BOLD relationship with God, which speaks of a confident interaction with God. God calls us as His children to come before Him and to practice it confidently, as the grace of Jesus Christ provides us that confidence. This confidence is not based on what we have done, but on what […]

Join me as I delve into the intricate relationship between our thoughts, emotions, and feelings and how to relate to them in fruitful ways. Many admit to a lack of training and equipping when it comes to working through their emotions and feelings. I will show you the tight connection that thoughts and emotions have, […]

Join us in this insightful Sunday Live broadcast, as Mark and Melissa have an engaging discussion covering a range of important topics related to mental, emotional, and relationship health. Mark provides thoughtful guidance to viewers struggling with social anxiety, depression, and the decision to get married or have children. Melissa offers relatable perspectives on the […]

While the subject of intimacy with God is often discussed and taught on in Christian circles, we are not always honest about the struggle that many have. Many believers wrestle with a sense of disconnection when it comes to relating to God and they can feel very alone, even isolated in the struggle. Today I […]

Today I want to share with you a helpful practice for dealing with intrusive thoughts that I call the “gentle redirect.” This will not only help you in working through intrusive and unwanted thoughts, it will also help you to relate to all your thoughts in a more fruitful way. Watch on YouTube: Watch on […]

Is ok for Christians to think about the afterlife, judgment or end times, or is that an OCD thing? How do you work through compulsive apologizing….with God….with other people? How do you work through panic attacks when you are becoming an empty nester? Is it ok for me to model or become a social media […]