Activate Purpose: Finding Purpose Through Action While Balancing Motherhood + Career

I’m sharing how I decided to speak with a person who unexpectedly showed up in my world and forced me to confront an uncomfortable truth. I’ll talk about how a comment sparked this conversation and required me to ask myself, am I allowed to accept a compliment from someone I have vilified in the past? What if a person you think you don’t like unintentionally inspires you to do something remarkable? How do you reconcile the two? I’ll talk through how things went and where I stand.To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSListen to my new podcast, Post MBA PivotTo learn more about me:visit activatepurpose.com visit careermixology.comconnect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing why a recent comment from a peer made me completely rethink a lie I’ve been telling myself and, even perhaps more broadly, challenge a single story that I identify with. Listen as I contemplate whether calling myself a risk-averse or even a risk-averse risk taker may be preventing me from seeing the truth, which is that I am quite courageous. And if I am courageous, why does saying that out loud make me feel so uncomfortable?Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: The danger of a single storyTo leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSListen to my new podcast, Post MBA PivotTo learn more about me:visit activatepurpose.com visit careermixology.comconnect with me on LinkedIn

Today’s episode was inspired by a book that mentions: everything you need to get started is within your reach. I used that idea and extended the concept to remind myself that I have everything I need right now to succeed. So often, the temptation is to look externally, be it a new class, a new person, or a new product or service, to make you feel confident enough to either start something or succeed at it. But I’ll share how embracing and applying this philosophy to three areas of my life has made all the difference this past month.  To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSListen to my new podcast, Post MBA PivotTo learn more about me:visit activatepurpose.com visit careermixology.comconnect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing why I took a much-deserved break from podcasting and really all things outside of maintaining my day-to-day existence. The past few months have allowed me to heal, reset, and reflect after a year that tested my boundaries. As I start shifting back to my natural mode of taking action, I thought it was important to bring you back and share key moments from the past few months.To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me:visit activatepurpose.com visit careermixology.comconnect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing how a message from one of my friends let me down a Twitter rabbit hole that eventually led me to the stunning realization that I could choose not to care anymore. I’ll talk about how this aha moment to stop letting other people’s opinions control my emotions led to so much needed mental freedom over the past couple weeks. To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing how I am carving out my own space to adjust to the new normal in the current environment of the pandemic, social justice, and parenting 24/7. Instead of being filled with anxiety about what the future holds and trying to balance too many things at once, I took this month to reset and focus on the question : what do YOU want Victoria?To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing how a piece of feedback unintentionally spread into other facets of my life and allowed me to not only find my voice but also finally say no to a request that I would usually find a way to work on. Parenting during Covid-19 is taking on a life of it’s own but this was a breakthrough week where I learned the importance of once again managing life and work on my terms.To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing how a journey to find a picture led to a rediscovery of the past and reflection of just how far I’ve come.Article referenced in episode: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/02/business/covid-economy-parents-kids-career-homeschooling.html---To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing the difference that a couple of weeks can make. My last recording was mentally and emotionally draining and after I said my peace, I decided to get lost in the world of Storytelling and further immersing myself in an online workshop that ended up being my saving grace. The opportunity to connect with people from all over the world gave me the time and space I needed to heal while also strengthening a skill that is very much needed in life: the ability to communicate and connect using stories.To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing what Black Lives Matter  means to me and explore my own struggles coming to terms with recent events. This is an emotional and tough topic for me to talk about but I am only hurting myself by not sharing and reflecting upon my own experiences. To leave a rating or short review click here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn 

I'm talking about how I couldn’t stop thinking about a passage in the book Working Identity by Herminia Ibarra. It forced me to think about how we are all guilty of holding ourselves back and how if you are trying to make a career transition or reinvent your career, you may be self-sabotaging the outcome. I’ll reflect on my experiences and see where it goes from there so let’s get started.If you liked the show, I would be grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedInWorking Identity: Unconventional Strategies for Reinventing Your Career by Herminia Ibarra

I'm sharing how my daughter forced me to face my biggest weakness and how this past week has been a struggle for me. While I don’t have a well thought out conclusion or a big lesson that I’ve learned, I do know that it’s important to step back and acknowledge that I survived the day, and that is a win itself.If you liked the show, I would be grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing one of the many insights from Seth Godin’s book, The Icarus Deception, that has made me reflect on major turning points in my career. I’ll talk about how I felt invisible at work and how a jolting moment was the tipping point to get me to move on. I’ll also share how looking back, I realize that my perspective and behavior may not have been as helpful.If you liked the show, I would be grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing why I am creating a personal website and thinking about what it means to be a personal brand.  The process has been terrifying, frustrating, and just the type of challenge that I needed.If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn 

I'm sharing how I am coping through COVID.  While I’m incredibly fortunate to still have my consulting income coming in, the uncertainty, being cooped up at home with two young children, and bouts of sickness have left our family feeling anxious at times. On the positive side, I will share how this experience has led me to reconnect with friends and oddly enough given me the time to think about next steps in my own career.If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'll continue sharing what I have been up to for the last few months, which included working, parenting, and traveling abroad for most of the summer. Sounds glamorous when you are on a one week vacation but less so if you are trying to work, parent, and travel with a 6-month old and a 4 year, consulting projects, and a heat wave without A/C. Get ready to hear about a trip that tested my sanity but ultimately transformed our lives.If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing what I have been up to for the last few months, which included working, parenting, and traveling abroad for most of the summer. Sounds glamorous when you are on a one week vacation but less so if you are trying to work, parent, and travel with a 6-month old and a 4 year, consulting projects, and a heat wave without A/C. Get ready to hear about a trip that tested my sanity but ultimately transformed our lives.If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrSTo learn more about me visit activatepurpose.com or connect with me on LinkedIn

I'm sharing how reading a New York times article on pregnancy and motherhood led me to once again be reminded of the quote says, “Do not confuse movement with progress.” Whether you are a mom or have no plans to be, I’ll be candid and share why you need to be vigilant about your career - well before you may think you need to. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode30

I'm sharing how I keep my sanity as an ambitious career and what I call life-driven mom. Whether you are a mom or a driven professional, or both, you will learn my tips and approach to staying sane while also embracing my undeniable desire to do and be more. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode29

I'm sharing how a question I came across is shaping not only how I view myself and do my work but also how I act and relate to others at work. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode28

I’m once again talking about the often dreaded “finding your passion question” but this time I’m sharing a new perspective that turned out to be a game-changer for me. Learn why focusing on my gifts and NOT my passions has resulted in me taking on a new position and finally getting paid to do something that I would actually do for free. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode27

I’m sharing why I think having patience is an increasingly undervalued skill and virtue in today's impatient world. I'll share why patience and ambition don't always seem to go hand-in-hand but do, in fact, complement each other quite nicely. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode26

I’m sharing my goals for 2019 and explaining how the "Power of 1" is allowing me to navigate the madness of taking care of my infant and preschool-aged daughters while I work part-time AND start a new set of projects for the year. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode25

I'll give you an update on the goals that I made as part of my 2018 New Year's resolutions, and share three lessons that resulted from trying to achieve those goals. I'll also share some wonderful news that will give new meaning to balancing motherhood and career. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode24

I share the difficulties I’ve had these past two weeks accomplishing a goal I set out at the beginning of the year as part of my New Year's Resolution: To write a children’s book based on my grandmother’s childhood in Kenya. Stay tuned to find out the unexpected challenges I faced as I was putting this book together and what I would do differently next time. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode23

I share a lesson from The Happiness Advantage book that made me rethink how I view negative or adverse events and taught me why they are never truly as bad as we think they are. If you are struggling with not making certain decisions or doing certain things because you are constantly fearful of the outcome, this is the show for you. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode22

I share how a random visit to the bookstore for a fun thriller novel led me to a book that I wasn’t even sure I needed. Learn how advice from The Happiness Advantage Book helped me to overcome some serious self-doubt issues and get back to a place of excitement. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode21

I talk about vulnerability and share why I have been feeling especially vulnerable these past few weeks. I don’t have some big epiphany to share on how to overcome this feeling but I do think sharing my struggles will give you a honest, behind-the-scenes view of what I’ve been thinking lately. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode20

I discuss why “follow your passion” just doesn’t work for most people, including me. I’ll talk about how an article that a friend shared with me gave me a whole new perspective on finding my purpose and why I should be asking myself a completely different question. Learn how that one question led to a weekend full of discussion and discovery for me and my husband. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode19

I talk about how an exercise I found while scrolling on LinkedIn gave me a well needed perspective on why I was feeling stuck on a creative project, even after I thought I had made this great decision. I’ll share how 3 simple questions allowed me to pinpoint exactly what the issue was and I’ll tell you what I decided to do about it. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode18

I share how a 4 week break from podcasting led to a 4 month break and what I learned about myself during that time. I’ll also share how my tendency to take action and quickly execute on ideas ironically left me paralyzed when it came time to slow down. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode17

I'll share how in this age of social media and online friends it's easy to envy online friends and overlook the physical friends or acquaintances in your own life who are trying new things and finding their own way. I'll share how three of my friends have recently inspired me to think bigger and re-think #squadgoals. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode16

I talk about this new book 'm reading, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***, that argues that happiness requires struggle. I'll share how this concept is shaping the way I approach my work even though I'm not yet 100% convinced it's true. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode15

Let's talk about jealousy. That word alone makes me cringe, but I recently experienced a case of jealousy that had me in a funk for almost a week. To be clear, this episode is about me feeling jealous of someone else's success. I'll talk about what happened and how I was finally able to move past it. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode14

Welcome to Activate Purpose, where I talk about trying to find purpose through action while balancing motherhood and career. In today's episode, I’ll walk you through my progress on some of the 2018 goals that I committed to at the beginning of the year as part of my New Years Resolution. I’ll share some of the things I’m doing well along with some of the things that I’m struggling to stay focused on. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode13 Topics mentioned in this episode include: TedTalk, Tedx, implementing an idea, bookbaby, children's book, children's illustrator, writing a book, creating a logo, wordpress theme, Maternity Leave, The Insider's Guide to Maternity Leave

Welcome to Activate Purpose, where I talk about trying to find purpose through action while balancing motherhood and career. In today's episode, I'm going to discuss three common traps to avoid after you have an idea for a new product/service/customer-oriented passion project that you just can't get out of your head. I'll also share some do's and don'ts that I've learned over the past few years to help me overcome the initial doubts that keep many people from taking that first step. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode12 Topics mentioned in this episode include: entrepreneurship, pursuing your passion, implementing an idea, creating a logo, Canva, Tailor Brands , Logojoy, common blocks, target customer

Welcome to Activate Purpose, where I talk about trying to find purpose through action while balancing motherhood and career. I'm very excited for today's episode because I have a special guest: my husband! I always get questions from readers and listeners who want to know what my husband's perspective is on me leaving my full-time job to pursue my entrepreneurial ideas while also caring for our daughter. I didn't want to speak for him so I thought it would be a great idea if he could share his perspective on my journey with you. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode11 Topics mentioned in this episode include: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield, The Insider's Guide to Maternity Leave, Marriage, Relationships, Supporting your partner, motherhood, career, following your dreams, finding your purpose, quitting your job

I break down three of my goals for 2018 and share some of the steps I'm taking to turn those goals into reality. I'll also talk candidly about the inner struggles I faced trying to come up with new and fresh potential ideas. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode10 Topics mentioned in this episode include: Goals, Goal setting, New Years Resolutions, TedTalk, Tedx, The Insider's Guide to Maternity Leave, Tim Ferriss, 3 Critical Rules of Branding, Children's Books

I share my journey overcoming an addiction to praise and seeking validation to how I'm learning how to become more confident by trusting myself. And while some people seriously hate New Year's resolutions, I personally love them, and I'll share my reasons why. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode9 Topics mentioned in this episode include: Myleik Teele, My Taught You, Addiction to Praise, Seeking Validation, Gaining confidence, Inner confidence

Welcome to Activate Purpose, where I talk about trying to find purpose through action while balancing motherhood and career. In today's episode, I will share some stories and facts about me while answering questions that I borrowed from Tim Ferriss' latest book, "Tribe of Mentors". You will learn six things that you probably don't know about me, including what motivates me, a purchase of $100 or less that has most positively impacted my life in recent memory, and the unusual habit and absurd thing that I love. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode8 Topics mentioned in this episode include: Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show, Tribe of Mentors, Four Hour Work Week, Motivation, Staying Focused, Entrepreneurship, Side Hustle

I discuss how having a flexible job has given me the freedom to search for my purpose while also allowing me to thrive professionally in a whole new way. I also share how you can learn where I go to find professional, flexible, mom-friendly jobs. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode7 Topics: mentioned in this episode include: Flexible work options, Independent consulting, Work-at-home mom, Mom-friendly jobs, remote jobs.

I talk about the difference between being interested versus being committed. I’m going to share three things that I have committed to doing on a daily basis and the quote that has forced me to stop creating excuses and start doing the work I need to achieve my goals. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode6 Books/topics mentioned in this episode include: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield; Positivity; Affrimations; meditation

I talk about my love-hate relationship with the law of attraction, the steps I'm taking to create the future I want, and the one technique that has single-handedly changed the way I start and end my days. I'm also going to share one recent example of how being intentional transformed an ordinary client interview into a once in a lifetime opportunity. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode5 Books mentioned in this episode: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield; Law of Attraction; The Insider's Guide to Maternity Leave; Visualization

Today's episode is all about addressing that ever-present inner critic. You know, the one that tells you that you haven't really accomplished anything with your life or perhaps the one that tells says you're not a good mom? Learn the simple, embarrassing, and yet very effective tools I'm using to overcome my inner critic and insecurities. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode4 Books mentioned in this episode: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield;

I talk about dreaming big and actually believing in those dreams. I'll share my struggles to dream big and the actions I'm taking to overcome my limiting beliefs. I am also going to (nervously) share three of what I'm calling my "Dare to Dream Big" goals. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode3 Books mentioned in this episode: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield; TED Talks The Official Ted Guide to Public Speaking by Chris Anderson; The Insider's Guide to Maternity Leave by Victoria Hefty

I share my experience trying to answer the loaded question, "what is your biggest strength?" Stick around to learn how I overcame the shame of not even knowing how to answer this question as an educated working professional and the practical approach I took to help find the answer. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode2 Topics discussed include: The Success Principles by Jack Canfield; CliftonFinders (formerly StrengthsFinders); My "Signature Themes" Results;

I share the one formula that has dramatically shifted the way I think when I want to complain about something, how I carve out that ever elusive "me" time that all busy moms need, and the four things I've changed in my daily routine that allow me to meditate every single morning, even with my daughter's ever-changing sleep routine. If you have iTunes and liked the show, I would be forever grateful for a rating & short review here: http://bit.ly/2j4mnrS For show notes and links, visit http://www.activatepurpose.com/episode1 Topics discussed include The Secret; The Success Principles Book by Jack Canfield; Guided Meditation; Headspace

I'm Victoria Hefty - MBA graduate, mother to a precocious toddler, author, and independent consultant. I clearly have a lot of passions but I am in search of something MORE. Using my own experience as a test case, I want to translate my desire for a more meaningful, purposeful, and successful life into action. While also acknowledging the very real challenges that motherhood and a demanding career can bring. Visit www.activatepurpose.com to learn more.