Everyday Joy

"We love because He first loved us."1 John 4:19 It's easy to love people who think like us, agree with us, and make life easy. But what about the people who frustrate us? The people who see the world differently? The people we'd rather avoid? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Shaylee unpack the powerful truth at the heart of 1 John 4:19: our ability to love others begins with understanding how deeply God has loved us first. Together, they explore why Christianity isn't a "pick and choose" faith, the challenge of loving people we disagree with, and how the story of the Good Samaritan completely reshapes what it means to be a neighbour. They discuss the danger of reducing people to their politics, beliefs, mistakes, or past, instead of seeing them as human beings made in the image of God. This conversation is a powerful reminder that loving others isn't about agreement. It's about grace. After all, God didn't wait for us to get everything right before He loved us. If you've been struggling with difficult people, feeling challenged by differing opinions, or needing a reminder of God's heart for others, this episode will encourage you to love the way you've been loved. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you."Matthew 7:7 Have you ever felt like God was distant, silent, or difficult to find? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Shaylee unpack one of Jesus' most encouraging promises from the Sermon on the Mount: ask, seek, and knock. Together, they explore the truth that God isn't hiding from us. He invites us to come to Him with everything, not just the "big" problems. Whether it's a difficult season, a major life decision, uncertainty about the future, or simply needing wisdom for today, God welcomes us into His presence. Ash and Shaylee also discuss the difference between seeking God's hand and seeking God's heart. While many of us approach prayer hoping for answers, provision, or breakthrough, often God uses the process of seeking to transform us, strengthen us, and draw us closer to Him. Through a beautiful picture of friendship and familiarity, they reflect on how a relationship with Jesus grows over time. What begins with knocking on the door can eventually become the kind of relationship where we know His voice, trust His character, and confidently walk into His presence. If you've been feeling spiritually dry, disconnected, or unsure where to start, this conversation is a reminder that God is closer than you think and that He promises to meet those who seek Him. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Learn to use your lives for doing good and helping anyone who has a need. Then you will not lead useless lives."Titus 3:14 What if you're not actually waiting on God... but God is waiting on you? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Shaylee unpack a challenging truth that many Christians wrestle with: sometimes we're so focused on finding God's next big calling that we completely miss what's already right in front of us. Together, they discuss the temptation to wait for a special revelation, a clear sign, or a detailed plan before stepping out in faith. But what if God has already made your next step clear? What if faithfulness isn't always about discovering something new, but about being obedient to what God has already asked us to do? From serving others and meeting practical needs to sharing our faith and building God's Kingdom, this conversation explores what it means to live a fruitful life instead of a stagnant one. Ash and Shaylee also reflect on spiritual complacency, rediscovering passion for Jesus, and overcoming the excuse of "I don't know if God's called me to it." If you've been feeling stuck, waiting for direction, or wondering what God wants you to do next, this episode is a powerful reminder that purpose often begins with simple obedience. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts."Proverbs 4:23 What if the biggest thing shaping your life right now isn't your circumstances... but your thoughts? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Shaylee unpack the incredible power of our thought life and why Proverbs 4 reminds us to guard it carefully. Together, they explore how seemingly small thoughts can influence our relationships, emotions, decisions, and even the direction of our lives. From disappointment and offence to anxiety and insecurity, they discuss how unchecked thoughts can slowly shape the way we see ourselves, others, and the world around us. They also reflect on the ripple effect our thinking has on the people around us, because no one lives in isolation. The way we think impacts our words, our actions, and the communities we're part of. If you've ever found yourself spiraling into worst-case scenarios, struggling with negative thought patterns, or carrying offence longer than you should, this conversation is a powerful reminder that while we can't always control our circumstances, we can choose what we do with our thoughts. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love from the center of who you are. Don't fake it. Run for dear life from evil. Hold on for dear life to good... Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord."Romans 12:9-12 Have you ever looked back at your younger self and realised you were more passionate about Jesus than you are today? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Shaylee unpack Romans 12 and reflect on what it means to have genuine faith, authentic love, and a passion for God that doesn't fade with time. Together, they wrestle with a challenging question: have we become complacent? From sharing their faith with strangers and boldly talking about Jesus, to navigating the realities of adulthood, responsibilities, and busy seasons, they explore how easy it is to lose the zeal we once had and settle into comfortable Christianity. This conversation is a powerful reminder that our relationship with God doesn't grow accidentally. Just as a gardener prunes a plant so it can become more fruitful, we need to regularly examine our lives and ask: what needs to be cut back so that my faith can flourish again? If you've felt spiritually tired, less passionate than you once were, or aware that God is calling you deeper, this episode will encourage you to reflect, reset, and rediscover the joy of living wholeheartedly for Christ. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"The Lord said, 'I will go with you, and I will give you peace.'"Exodus 33:14 What if the thing you're searching for most isn't an answer... but God's presence? In this reflection episode, Ash explores one of God's most comforting promises to Moses: "I will go with you, and I will give you peace." As Moses faced uncertainty, responsibility, and a future he couldn't fully see, God didn't provide a detailed roadmap or explain every step ahead. Instead, He offered His presence. So often, we're looking for certainty. We want God to show us exactly how things will work out before we're willing to take the next step. We want answers about our future, our relationships, our careers, our finances, and our disappointments. But peace isn't found in having all the answers. Peace is found in knowing the God who does. In this honest reflection, Ash shares her own struggle with uncertainty and the challenge of trusting God's presence in the middle of unanswered questions. Because while it's easy to see God's faithfulness in hindsight, learning to trust Him in the moment is where faith truly grows. As you listen, take some time to reflect on the areas of your life where you're waiting for answers and consider what it would look like to trust that God is already there, already working, and already walking with you. This episode includes guided reflection questions and prayer to help you find peace in God's presence, even when the future feels uncertain. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"A farmer who plants just a few seeds will only get a small crop, but if he plants much, he will reap much."2 Corinthians 9:6 What are you holding on to that God might be asking you to release? In this reflection episode, Ash explores the powerful connection between generosity and trust. While this verse is often misunderstood as a conversation about building wealth, Paul is actually teaching something much deeper: generosity is an act of faith. Whether it's our money, time, resources, encouragement, or availability, generosity always costs us something. It requires us to loosen our grip on what feels safe and trust that God is able to provide what we need. Ash shares her own journey of wrestling with generosity and tithing, the fear of not having enough, and the surprising freedom that came from trusting God with what she was holding most tightly. Because often the greatest harvest isn't what comes back to us. It's what God does within us. As you listen, take some time to reflect on the areas where trust feels difficult and allow God to speak into the places where fear, control, or self-reliance may have taken root. This episode includes guided reflection questions and prayer to help you grow in generosity, trust God's provision, and discover the freedom that comes from surrender. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Let my words and my thoughts be pleasing to you, Lord, because you are my mighty rock and my protector."Psalm 19:14 What if your greatest spiritual battle isn't happening in your circumstances, but in your thoughts? In this reflection episode, Ash explores the powerful connection between our thoughts, our words, and our relationship with God. Looking at Psalm 19:14, we're reminded that following Jesus isn't just about our actions. It's about allowing God to shape the things happening beneath the surface of our lives. Before words are spoken, they're formed in our minds. Before habits are built, they begin with a thought. That's why David's prayer is so powerful. He doesn't just ask God to guide his actions. He asks God to shape his thoughts and words as well. Together, we'll reflect on the patterns of thinking that may be holding us back, the words we speak over ourselves and others, and the small daily choices that help us become more like Christ. This isn't about perfection. It's about direction. It's about allowing God to gently redirect our hearts, one thought and one conversation at a time. This episode includes guided reflection questions and prayer to help you examine your thought life, align your words with God's truth, and grow in spiritual maturity. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"I know what it is to be poor or to have plenty... Jesus gives me strength to face anything."Philippians 4:12-13 What if the thing you're chasing isn't actually the thing you're missing? In this reflection episode, Ash explores one of the greatest struggles many of us face: believing that happiness, peace, or contentment is waiting somewhere in the future. Whether it's a promotion, a relationship, financial security, a house, or simply a different season of life, it's easy to convince ourselves that then we'll finally be satisfied. But writing from prison, Paul shares a very different perspective. He knew what it was like to live with plenty and with lack, yet he discovered a secret that many people spend their entire lives searching for: true contentment isn't found in our circumstances, it's found in Christ. As you listen, take a moment to reflect on where you're placing your hope and whether you've been waiting for a future outcome to bring the satisfaction that only God can provide. This episode includes guided reflection questions and prayer to help you grow in contentment, trust God in your current season, and discover the joy that comes from finding your strength in Him. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Don't take things for granted or go slack working for the common good. Share what you have with others. God takes particular pleasure in acts of worship, a different kind of sacrifice that take place in the kitchen, the workplace, and on the streets."Hebrews 13:16 When you think about worship, what comes to mind? For many of us, worship begins and ends with singing on a Sunday. But what if worship is so much bigger than that? In this reflection episode, Ash explores the connection between worship and sacrifice, and challenges us to consider what it looks like to honour God in the everyday moments of life. From serving others and showing generosity to surrendering our own comfort, preferences, and pride, worship is often found in the ordinary acts of obedience that nobody else sees. As you listen, take some time to pause, reflect, and invite God to speak into your heart. What might He be asking you to surrender? How could your workplace, family, conversations, and relationships become acts of worship? This episode includes guided reflection questions and prayer, designed to help you draw closer to God and live a life that worships Him not just on Sundays, but every day.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Don't assume that you know it all. Run to God. Run from evil."Proverbs 3:7 What if pride isn't always loud, obvious, and arrogant? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash Couchman and Shaylee unpack a challenging truth: pride doesn't have to take over your whole life to impact your relationship with God. Sometimes it's found in the small ways we resist correction, hold tightly to our own opinions, refuse wisdom, or struggle to submit our plans and preferences to God. Together, they explore the tension between healthy authority and unhealthy control, the importance of humility in the Christian life, and why Jesus consistently calls us to lay down our own agendas in order to follow Him. They also discuss the difference between asking hard questions and assuming we know better, along with the dangers of allowing pride to quietly shape our decisions, relationships, and faith. If you've ever found yourself thinking, "I've got this handled," or "I don't really need help," this conversation is a powerful reminder that humility isn't weakness. It's the starting point of a healthy relationship with God. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."Romans 12:15 When does empathy become something unhealthy? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash Couchman and Shaylee unpack what it really means to walk alongside people in difficult seasons without taking on burdens, anger, and offence that were never yours to carry. Together, they explore the difference between healthy empathy and emotional overload, why so many of us absorb other people's hurts, and how second-hand offence can quietly damage our relationships, our peace, and our perspective. They also discuss the importance of living in harmony, choosing our words wisely, and learning to support others without carrying what belongs to them. If you've ever found yourself angry on someone else's behalf, weighed down by other people's problems, or struggling to know where compassion ends and unhealthy emotional responsibility begins, this conversation is a powerful reminder that we're called to walk with people, not become them. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"I am the Lord your God. I am holding your hand. So don't be afraid. I am here to help you."Isaiah 41:13 What would change if you truly believed God was with you right now? In this thought-provoking conversation, Ash Couchman and Shaylee unpack Isaiah 41:13 and wrestle with one of the biggest challenges of faith: surrendering control. Together, they discuss why it's so easy to trust God with some areas of our lives while holding tightly to others, and what it looks like to live as though God's Kingdom is already here. From fear about the future to the desire to stay in control, this episode explores the tension between knowing God's promises and actually living like they're true. If you've ever struggled to trust God fully, felt overwhelmed by life's uncertainties, or found yourself relying on your own strength, this conversation is a powerful reminder that God is already holding your hand, already going before you, and already inviting you to experience His peace today. What would your life look like if you truly believed God's Kingdom wasn't just coming one day... but was available right now? Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning."Lamentations 3:22-23 What if you've been living in one of two unhealthy extremes: excusing your sin or drowning in shame? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash Couchman and Shaylee unpack one of the Bible's most encouraging promises: God's mercy is new every morning. As they explore the context of Lamentations 3:22-23, they discuss the tension many Christians face between living in condemnation and becoming comfortable with sin. Together, they reflect on the stories of Samson, David, and Israel, highlighting a powerful truth: God doesn't disqualify imperfect people, but He does call us to repentance. His mercy isn't a licence to stay the same, and His grace was never meant to leave us trapped in shame. If you've been wrestling with guilt, feeling distant from God, or wondering whether you've messed up too many times, this conversation is a beautiful reminder that God's heart is always for redemption. His mercies are new today, and His love for you has never changed. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"The Lord is the one who is going ahead of you. He will be with you. He won't abandon you or leave you. So don't be afraid or terrified."Deuteronomy 31:8 What do you do when the future feels uncertain and you're not sure what's waiting around the corner? In today's episode of Everyday Joy, Ash Couchman and Shaylee unpack one of the Bible's most comforting promises: God goes before us. Looking at the moment Moses passed leadership to Joshua, they explore what it means to trust God through change, uncertainty, disappointment, and seasons where life doesn't go according to plan. Together, they discuss why it's so easy to place our confidence in people instead of God, how to remain faithful when circumstances shift, and why we can face the unknown with confidence knowing that God is already there. If you've been feeling anxious about what's next, discouraged by change, or fearful of the future, this conversation is a powerful reminder that God has never left you before, and He's not about to start now. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."Galatians 6:2 What if the very thing keeping you stuck is the thing you've been trying to carry on your own? In this powerful conversation, Ash Couchman and Jacquie Scott unpack Galatians 6:2 and the biblical call to carry one another's burdens. Together, they explore why so many of us isolate ourselves when life gets hard, how shame and pride can keep us trapped in our own thoughts, and why healing often begins when we allow trusted people into our struggles. From sin and temptation to grief, anxiety, relationship breakdowns, and seasons of doubt, this episode is a reminder that God never designed us to do life alone. Sometimes the breakthrough we're praying for starts with simply being honest about what we're carrying. If you've ever felt stuck in your own head, overwhelmed by life's challenges, or reluctant to ask for help, this conversation will encourage you to let others walk alongside you and discover the freedom that comes when burdens are shared. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Plow your fields, scatter seeds of justice and harvest faithfulness. Worship me, the Lord, and I will send my saving power down like rain."Hosea 10:12 What if the biggest thing holding you back in your faith isn't your church, your circumstances, or your past... but the responsibility you've been avoiding? In this challenging and deeply practical conversation, Ash Couchman and Jacquie Scott unpack Hosea 10:12 and the powerful image of ploughing the soil of our hearts. Together, they explore what it means to actively pursue God, deal with the areas of our lives that have become hard and unfruitful, and take responsibility for our own walk with Jesus. This episode is a reminder that spiritual growth doesn't happen by accident. Just as a farmer prepares the ground before the harvest, we're invited to seek God, repent, grow, and create space for Him to work in our lives. If you've been feeling spiritually stuck, distant from God, or hungry for more, this conversation may be the wake-up call you didn't know you needed. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

So be content with who you are and don't put on airs. God's strong hand is on you. He'll promote you at the right time."1 Peter 5:6 Have you ever felt like you needed to be different to be more effective, more successful, or more important? In this encouraging conversation, Ash Couchman and Jacquie Scott unpack what it really means to walk in humility, trust God's timing, and find contentment in who He created you to be. Together, they explore the pressure to compare ourselves to others, the temptation to chase recognition, and the freedom that comes when our identity is rooted in Christ instead of achievement. Jacquie shares a powerful reflection on discovering that the very things she once saw as flaws were actually part of God's design and purpose for her life. If you've ever questioned your worth, compared yourself to others, or wondered whether you're enough, this episode is a beautiful reminder that God's hand is on your life, and His timing is always better than striving for your own promotion. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Weeping may stay overnight, but there is joy in the morning."Psalm 30:5 What if the reason so many of us feel disappointed in our faith is because we've confused happiness with joy? In this thought-provoking conversation, Ash Couchman and Jacquie Scott unpack one of the biggest misconceptions Christians often wrestle with: the difference between happiness and true joy. Reflecting on Psalm 30:5, they explore why joy isn't the absence of pain, hardship, or unanswered questions, but a deep confidence in God's goodness that remains even when life feels difficult. Together, they discuss what it means to find joy in salvation, why life's circumstances can never fully satisfy us, and how a deeper relationship with Jesus becomes the foundation for lasting hope. If you've ever wondered why the Bible talks so much about joy when life can be so hard, this episode offers a perspective that might change the way you think about faith altogether. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Observe how God loved us. His love was not cautious but extravagant. He didn't love in order to get something from us, but to give everything of himself to us. Wow. Love like that."Ephesians 5:1-2 How do you love people extravagantly without completely burning yourself out? In this honest and practical conversation, Ash Couchman and Jacquie Scott explore the tension between living a sacrificial life and looking after yourself. As they unpack Ephesians 5:1-2, they discuss what it really means to imitate Christ, why rest is more than just self-care, and how being filled with God's love enables us to love others well. Together, they wrestle with boundaries, burnout, serving others, and the surprising truth that we can't pour into others if we haven't first allowed God to fill us. If you've ever felt torn between helping everyone around you and taking care of yourself, this episode offers a refreshing and biblical perspective on living a life of purpose, generosity, and wholehearted love. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control..."Galatians 5:22-23 Why is self-control so hard... even when we know exactly what we should be doing? In this honest and relatable conversation, Ash Couchman and Shaylee unpack one of the most challenging fruits of the Spirit: self-control. From endless scrolling and phone addiction to discipline, distraction, and the habits that quietly shape our lives, they explore why so many of us struggle to choose what we know is best. Together, they reflect on the modern world's constant noise, the things competing for our attention, and the uncomfortable question every Christian eventually has to ask: has something taken God's place in my life? If you've ever felt stuck in unhealthy habits, frustrated by your lack of discipline, or challenged by the amount of time you spend on your phone, this conversation is a practical and encouraging reminder that spiritual growth doesn't happen by accident. It happens one choice at a time. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"The Lord is my protector; he is my strong fortress. My God is my protection, and with him I am safe. He protects me like a shield; he defends me and keeps me safe."Psalm 18:2 Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, trying to plan every detail of the future? In this honest conversation, Ash Couchman and Shaylee Stansbury unpack the pressure of making big life decisions, navigating financial uncertainty, planning for the future, and wrestling with the feeling that everything depends on getting it right. Together, they explore the reality of anxiety, our desire to control what's ahead, and the freedom that comes when we trust God with the things we were never meant to carry alone. Reflecting on Psalm 18:2, this episode is a powerful reminder that God isn't distant from our worries. He is our protector, our fortress, and our source of hope, even when the future feels uncertain. If you've been overthinking, stressing about what's next, or struggling to trust God in the unknown, this conversation will encourage you to take a breath, release control, and remember that God is already holding tomorrow. Get Connected: Follow Ash & Everyday Joy on Instagram! Subscribe to Everyday Joy Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Join the conversation on Facebook: Everyday Joy Community See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Speak encouraging words to one another. Build up hope. So we’ll all be together in this. No one left out. No one left behind.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:11 What if the encouraging thing you're thinking about saying could completely change someone's day? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shay for a conversation about the power of our words, the importance of encouragement and what it looks like to intentionally build the people around us up. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 reminds us that encouragement isn't just about being nice. We're called to build up hope, strengthen one another and make sure no one is left behind. Ash and Shay talk about how easy it is to keep a compliment to ourselves, assume someone already knows what we think of them, or focus on what's frustrating rather than what's good. But sometimes the simplest words—"I love that about you," "I'm proud of you," "You're doing a great job"—can make an enormous difference. They also have an honest conversation about how easy it is to become our own worst critics. We can walk around assuming people are disappointed in us, that we've upset someone or that others see us far more negatively than they actually do. Sometimes we need someone else to speak truth and encouragement into our lives. But there's a deeper challenge too: are we genuinely encouraging people, or are we only being nice to their face? Ash and Shay unpack the difference between simply being "nice" and allowing God to change what's happening in our hearts, so that our encouragement is genuine both publicly and privately. The conversation also explores what it means to live out God's Kingdom right now. We don't have to wait for everything to be fixed or for Jesus to return before we start building people up, growing in maturity and bringing hope into the world around us. Because we are surrounded by enough negativity. We don't need to add to it. We can choose to be people who build up hope, speak life and make sure the people around us know they aren't alone. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if the thing you’re struggling with isn’t something you have to overcome on your own? In 2 Peter 1:3, we’re reminded that God has already given us everything we need to live a life that pleases Him. That doesn’t mean we’ll never struggle, get frustrated or get things wrong — it means we never have to face those things alone. Ash and Shay unpack what it looks like to rely on God in the middle of the struggle, stay aware of His presence and allow Him to challenge us and grow us — even in the small, everyday moments. Because following Jesus isn’t about getting everything right. It’s about continually becoming more like Him.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of heaven, and those who lead many to righteousness like the stars forever and ever." — Daniel 12:3 What if you don't need a big platform to make a big difference? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shay for a conversation about influence, faithfulness and what it really means to shine like the stars. Daniel 12:3 was written in the context of a difficult future. God's people would face persecution, suffering and trouble—but Daniel was reminded that faithfulness would not be wasted. Those who remain wise, follow God and help others move towards Him would shine. Ash and Shay unpack what it means to be someone who points others towards Jesus—not necessarily through a massive social media following or a public platform, but through the ordinary influence we already have. Our families, friendships, workplaces and everyday conversations all give us opportunities to influence the people around us. They also talk honestly about the tension of sharing your faith publicly without making everything about yourself. How do you use your platform without becoming self-promotional? How do you point people towards Jesus while still being authentic? And what does it look like to keep shining when life gets difficult? The conversation explores why some of the wisest and most influential people aren't necessarily the loudest people in the room. They're the people who are consistent—people whose faith doesn't completely change depending on what's happening around them. Because shining for Jesus doesn't mean having a perfect life. It means continuing to trust Him, obey Him and point people towards Him—even when life gets hard. If you've ever wondered whether your influence really matters, felt uncomfortable about sharing your faith, or questioned whether the ordinary way you're living your life is making a difference, this episode is a reminder: your faithfulness is not wasted, and you don't need a huge platform to shine.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Proverbs 15:1 ERV A gentle answer makes anger disappear, but a rough answer makes it grow. What usually comes out of me when I'm hurt, frustrated or angry? Is there a person I need to respond to differently — not because they deserve it, but because I want to become a different kind of person? God, what would a gentle response look like in the situation I'm dealing with right now? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

James 5:12 MSG Just say ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Just say what is true. That way, your language can't be used against you. Do my words match who I actually am? Is there somewhere in my life where I've been saying “yes” when I really mean “no” — or saying what someone wants to hear instead of telling the truth? God, is there somewhere you want me to become a person whose words people can genuinely trust?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Titus 3:14 ERV Learn to use your life for doing good and helping anyone who has a need. Then you will not have an empty life. Today's episode is another more reflective episode on Titus 3:14, take the time to think, reflect and wait on God as you think about these questions. 1. Who has God placed around me right now who might need something I can give? 2. When I look at the way I'm spending my time, what is actually making a difference — and what is just keeping me busy? 3. What is one thing I might need to let go of in order to focus on things that truly matter? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trying something different today! A quick reflection on Proverbs 29:23, with some time to wait and reflect on these questions... 1.Where in my life am I finding it hardest to admit that I might be wrong? 2.God, is there something you're trying to teach me that my pride is getting in the way of hearing? 3.God, where in my life, do I believe I don’t need you? WHere I am good at taking control, is it work, Family, career, church? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if helping others doesn’t have to mean solving every problem? Joel A'bell National Director of Convoy of Hope Australia, joins Ash to talk about serving people in need, the life-changing impact of access to clean water, and what it really means to live out the gospel. Joel shares heartbreaking stories from communities without reliable water, but also the incredible transformation that happens when people are given the opportunity to build a better future for themselves. And his challenge is simple: “Do the next kind thing in front of you.” Because we might not be able to change the whole world—but we can all do something. Donate Here: https://convoyofhope.org.au/water-for-life/thelight/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Don't hoard treasure down here... Stockpile treasure in heaven, where it's safe from moth and rust and burglars." — Matthew 6:19–20 Donate to Water For Life Day : https://convoyofhope.org.au/water-for-life/thelight/ What if the biggest danger isn't having money or possessions—but becoming so comfortable that we forget we need God? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Kate for an honest and challenging conversation about possessions, comfort, generosity and what we're actually living for. Together, they unpack Jesus' words in Matthew 6 about storing up treasure in heaven rather than building our lives around things that eventually break, disappear or get taken away. They explore why this can be particularly challenging in the Western world, where comfort is so readily available that we can sometimes go days—or even weeks—without acknowledging how much we need God. Kate shares honestly about the sentimental things she's held onto after losing her mum, and how possessions can slowly move from something we enjoy into something that weighs us down. Ash and Kate also explore the difference between having possessions and being possessed by them, and why the real question isn't necessarily how much money we have, but how tightly we're holding onto it. The conversation challenges us to think about what it means to live with an open hand: Am I willing to have less if it means someone else can be blessed? Am I using what God has given me for myself—or for His kingdom? Because Jesus' teaching isn't simply about having less. It's about investing in what lasts. Generosity, caring for the poor, serving others and using our resources to make an eternal difference are the kinds of treasures that don't disappear when the things around us do. If you've ever wondered whether your pursuit of comfort, money or possessions is becoming too important—or simply want to rethink what it means to live generously—this conversation will challenge you to loosen your grip, refocus your priorities and ask what you're really building your life around.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Celebrate God all day, every day. I mean, revel in him!" — Philippians 4:4 (MSG) What happens when we become so focused on what we don't have that we forget what God has already done? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Kate for an honest conversation about finding joy when life feels heavy, circumstances aren't changing, and it's easy to get stuck focusing on everything that's going wrong. Together, they unpack Paul's words in Philippians 4:4 to "revel in" the Lord—and why those words are so powerful when you realise Paul was writing them from prison. Rejoicing doesn't mean pretending life is perfect or ignoring the hard things. It's choosing not to let the hard things become the only thing we see. Ash opens up about a season where anxiety and heaviness caused her to become increasingly focused on what she didn't have, what wasn't changing, and what she felt God hadn't done yet. She shares how shifting her focus outward—praying for friends, celebrating their stories, and remembering God's faithfulness—began to change her perspective. They also explore the power of worship and Christian community, and why remembering what God has done before can give us confidence that He is still at work now. Sometimes we need other people to remind us of the stories we've forgotten and help lift our eyes beyond our current circumstances. This episode is a reminder that joy isn't found in having perfect circumstances. It's found in knowing the One who remains faithful through all of them. If you're feeling stuck, discouraged, disappointed, or consumed by what hasn't changed yet, this conversation will encourage you to lift your eyes, remember God's faithfulness, and draw from the "wells of salvation" for the joy, hope and strength you already have in Christ.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"I'm giving you a new commandment: Love each other in the same way that I have loved you." — John 13:34 What if we're sometimes so focused on being right that we forget what Jesus actually told us to do? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by singer-songwriter and worship leader Kate for an honest conversation about one of Jesus' most challenging commands: love one another as I have loved you. Together, they unpack why Christians can sometimes get so caught up in disagreements, denominations, theology and the things that divide us that we lose sight of the thing Jesus placed right in front of us—loving people. But this conversation goes even deeper. Kate and Ash explore what it actually means to love others when we're running low on patience, grace and kindness. Because the reality is, we can't keep pouring out something we're not receiving ourselves. Jesus doesn't simply tell us to love more—He invites us to first understand how deeply we are loved by Him. When we become more aware of God's love for us, we have a deeper well to draw from when loving the people around us gets difficult. This episode is a reminder that following Jesus isn't about being perfect, having all the answers, or winning every theological argument. It's about becoming people who reflect the love we've received. If you've ever found yourself frustrated by disagreements within the church, struggling to love someone you don't agree with, or simply running out of patience with the people around you, this conversation will encourage you to come back to the starting point: receive God's love, and let it overflow into the way you love others.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Consider it pure joy whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance." — James 1:2–3 What if the season you're desperately trying to escape is actually producing something in you that comfort never could? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Kate for an honest conversation about suffering, discomfort, and finding joy when life isn't going the way we hoped. Together, they unpack one of the Bible's most challenging instructions: "Consider it pure joy whenever you face trials." Because let's be honest—none of us are naturally excited about hard seasons. We live in a world built around convenience, quick fixes and avoiding discomfort whenever possible. So what does James actually mean when he tells us to consider our trials joy? Ash and Kate explore how difficult seasons can test our faith, develop perseverance and reveal where we're turning when life gets hard. They talk about the difference between finding joy in suffering and pretending that suffering doesn't hurt, and why Christian joy isn't something we simply manufacture when circumstances are terrible. They also reflect on what it looks like to keep trusting God when nothing changes, prayers seem unanswered, and you're still facing the same circumstances you were months or even years ago. This episode is a reminder that God can produce deep faith in seasons we'd never choose for ourselves. Sometimes the joy isn't found in the circumstance changing—it's found in discovering that God is faithful even when it doesn't. If you're walking through a difficult season, waiting for something to change, or struggling to understand where God is in your suffering, this conversation will encourage you to keep turning to Him, keep trusting Him, and remember that your hard season isn't necessarily a wasted one.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." — Ephesians 4:2 What if some of the biggest problems in our relationships aren't caused by what people actually did—but by what we expected them to do? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Kate for an honest conversation about unmet expectations, giving people grace, and learning to make allowance for each other's differences. Together, they unpack Paul's challenge in Ephesians 4:2 to be humble, gentle, patient, and willing to make space for other people's faults. They explore why we can be so quick to judge others by their actions while giving ourselves grace because we know our own intentions. Kate shares what years of living with housemates have taught her about extending grace, assuming the best of people, and "filling the gap with trust" when we don't know someone's intentions. They also explore how this applies to marriage, friendships, family, church, and the workplace. One of the biggest reminders from this conversation is that relationships don't have to be based on agreement—they can be based on understanding. Sometimes making allowance means accepting that someone sees the world differently, communicates differently, or responds differently than we would. If you've ever been frustrated because someone didn't meet your expectations, taken something personally, or found yourself assuming the worst about someone's intentions, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, ask questions, give grace, and create space for people's humanity.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Be on your guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13 What does it look like to have a faith that can stand when life gets difficult? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Jacquie unpack 1 Corinthians 16:13 and explore what it means to actively build a faith that is strong, courageous, and grounded in God. Together, they discuss why following Jesus isn’t about simply hoping life works out—it’s about intentionally guarding your heart, staying close to God, and choosing to stand firm even when circumstances feel overwhelming. Ash shares vulnerably about walking through a challenging season and the reminder that carried her through: “My God is good, and He’s good all the time.” They unpack how courage isn’t the absence of fear, but the decision to keep trusting God even when fear is present. They also explore how faith is strengthened through hardship, why we can’t just let life happen to us, and how daily practices like reading God’s Word, prayer, and pursuing a deeper relationship with Jesus prepare us for whatever comes our way. If you’re feeling tired, overwhelmed, uncertain about the future, or wondering how to keep your faith strong through difficult seasons, this episode is a reminder that God is your foundation—and He will give you the courage and strength to keep standing. Because a faith built on Jesus isn’t shaken by the storm. It stands firm through it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Love your enemies and let them bring out the best in you, not the worst.” — Matthew 5:44 (MSG) What happens when the person who hurt you is someone you’re still called to love? Forgiveness can be one of the hardest things we’re asked to do—especially when the hurt is deep, the relationship has changed, or the pain still feels real. But what if holding onto that hurt is hurting us more than it’s hurting the person who caused it? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jacquie for an honest conversation about Matthew 5:44 and what it means to love our enemies, forgive those who have hurt us, and allow Jesus to transform the way we respond. Together, Ash and Jacquie unpack the difference between forgiveness and pretending something didn’t happen. They discuss why forgiveness doesn’t mean ignoring pain, excusing someone’s actions, or automatically restoring a relationship—but instead choosing freedom over bitterness and allowing God to heal what has been broken. Jacquie shares vulnerably about her own journey of forgiveness after divorce, and how choosing to see someone as a human loved by God changed the way she processed hurt, anger, and disappointment. If you’re carrying resentment, struggling to forgive, or trying to navigate a painful relationship, this episode will remind you that forgiveness isn’t about letting someone off the hook—it’s about refusing to let their actions steal your peace. Because when we choose forgiveness, we’re not just releasing someone else… we’re allowing Jesus to bring out the best in us.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“If someone has done you wrong, do not repay them with a wrong. Try to do what everyone considers to be good.” — Romans 12:17 What do you do when someone hurts you? Our first instinct is often to defend ourselves, get even, or make sure the other person understands just how much damage they caused. But what if Jesus invites us into a completely different response? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jacquie for a conversation about Romans 12:17 and what it means to choose peace, kindness, and grace when we’ve been wronged. Together, they unpack why “not repaying evil with evil” doesn’t mean ignoring hurt, avoiding difficult conversations, or pretending everything is fine. Instead, they explore how honest communication, vulnerability, and confronting issues with love can actually lead to healthier relationships and deeper healing. Ash and Jackie discuss the difference between seeking revenge and seeking restoration, why we often avoid hard conversations, and how one brave conversation can completely change the direction of a relationship. They also unpack a powerful example of two Christian artists choosing humility over conflict, showing what can happen when we move away from public reactions and towards honest conversations. If you’ve ever felt hurt, misunderstood, offended, or tempted to make someone “pay” for what they did, this episode will encourage you to respond differently—not because the hurt doesn’t matter, but because Jesus offers a better way. Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do after being hurt… is choose peace.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.” — Galatians 6:9 What happens when you’re doing your best to follow God… but life still feels incredibly hard? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jacquie for an honest and vulnerable conversation about what it looks like to keep trusting God when prayers aren’t answered the way we hoped, circumstances don’t change, and faith starts to feel exhausting. Together, Ash and Jacquie unpack Galatians 6:9 and the reminder not to give up doing good—even when we wonder if it’s making a difference. They explore the difference between believing God will always make life easy, and discovering a deeper faith that knows God is still good even in the middle of suffering. Ash shares openly about walking through a challenging season of anxiety, doubt, and learning what it means to build a theology of suffering—a faith that isn’t dependent on everything going right, but is anchored in the unchanging character of God. This conversation explores why some of the deepest growth in our faith often happens in the hardest seasons, how prayer changes us even when our circumstances don’t immediately change, and what it means to stand on the rock of Jesus when everything around us feels uncertain. If you’re walking through a difficult season, feeling tired, questioning God, or wondering how to keep going when nothing seems to be changing, this episode is a reminder that your faith is being strengthened—even in the storm. Because sometimes the greatest evidence of God’s goodness isn’t that He removes the storm… it’s that He teaches us how to stand through it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful." — Luke 6:36 What if one of the biggest obstacles to healthy relationships isn't what people do—but the stories we tell ourselves about why they did it? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jacquie for a practical conversation about what mercy really looks like in everyday life. Together, they unpack Jesus' command to be merciful, exploring how choosing compassion over condemnation can transform our relationships at home, at work, and everywhere in between. Ash and Jacquie discuss why we so often assume the worst when someone sends a blunt text, forgets to reply, or says something that hurts us. They introduce a powerful mindset shift—considering a person's intent rather than just the impact—and reflect on how extending mercy can prevent bitterness before it even begins. Rather than waiting until we're hurt enough to need forgiveness, this episode invites us to adopt a posture of mercy from the very beginning. It's a reminder that the same grace God has shown us is the grace we're called to extend to others. If you've been navigating difficult relationships, feeling misunderstood, or finding yourself quick to take offence, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, assume the best, and let mercy shape the way you love people.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Do all you can to live a peaceful life. Mind your own business and earn your own living..." — 1 Thessalonians 4:11–12 (ERV) What if one of the greatest ways to honour God is simply taking responsibility for the life He's given you? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shaylee for a thought-provoking conversation about what it really means to live a life that points others to Jesus. Together, they unpack Paul's encouragement to live peacefully, work faithfully, and earn the respect of those around us—not through perfection, but through integrity and wisdom. The conversation also tackles a challenging question many Christians wrestle with: How do we know when God is speaking—and when are we simply making our own decisions? Ash and Shaylee discuss the importance of using discernment, being careful with phrases like "God told me," and why taking responsibility for our choices is an essential part of spiritual maturity. This episode is a reminder that while God absolutely leads and speaks to His people, He has also given us wisdom, discernment, and free will. The way we represent Him—in our conversations, our decisions, our workplaces, and even the everyday moments—shapes how others see Jesus. If you've ever wondered how to faithfully follow God's leading without using His name carelessly, or how to live a life that genuinely reflects Christ to the people around you, this conversation will encourage you to pursue wisdom, humility, and a faith that speaks through both your words and your actions.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“We know what love is because Jesus gave His life for us. That's why we must give our lives for each other.” — 1 John 3:16 Love is easy to talk about—but much harder to live. In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shay to unpack what the Bible says about real love. Together, they explore why love is more than a feeling, how Jesus modelled sacrificial love, and what it looks like to love people even when it's difficult. They also wrestle with an important question: How do we lay down our lives for others without trying to carry burdens that only Jesus can carry? If you've ever struggled to love difficult people, balance healthy boundaries with serving others, or wondered what Christ-like love really looks like, this episode will encourage you to love with wisdom, sacrifice, and the heart of Jesus.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much…” — Luke 16:10 We're intentional about our careers, our finances, our relationships, and even our holidays. But are we just as intentional about our walk with God? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shay to unpack one of Jesus' most challenging parables and what it teaches us about faithfulness, stewardship, and living with eternity in mind. Together, they explore why our spiritual lives can so easily become an afterthought, how small daily decisions shape our relationship with God, and why being faithful in the little things prepares us for greater things. Because following Jesus isn't something we fit into our lives when we have time—it's the foundation everything else is built on. If you've been feeling distracted, spiritually dry, or challenged to put God back at the centre of your priorities, this episode will encourage you to live with greater purpose, faithfulness, and an eternal perspective.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“If you are wise and understand God’s ways, prove it by living an honourable life, doing good works with the humility that comes from wisdom.” — James 3:13 Have you ever wondered if you’re being humble… or if you’re just holding yourself back? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shay for an honest conversation about true wisdom, humility, and what it looks like to live a life that reflects Jesus. Together, they unpack why wisdom isn’t just about what we know—it’s about how we live. They explore the difference between pride and insecurity, why humility isn’t about putting ourselves down, and how God calls us to step forward with courage because of who He is. Shay shares her own experience of feeling unqualified to step into worship, only to realise God wasn’t asking her to be perfect—He was asking her to be willing. Because humility isn’t thinking less of yourself. It’s recognising that everything we have comes from God, and trusting Him enough to use us for His purpose. If you’ve ever felt not good enough, held yourself back, or struggled to believe God could use you, this episode will encourage you to walk in confidence—not because of who you are, but because of who God is.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourself, measuring yourself by the faith God has given us.” — Romans 12:3 Have you ever stopped to ask… “Am I using God’s perspective, or my own?” In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Shay for an honest conversation about pride, humility, and learning to see ourselves through God’s eyes. Together, they unpack why we often measure our lives against the wrong things—our achievements, other people, or our own opinions—and why true humility isn’t about thinking less of ourselves, but recognising our need for God. Because when we make ourselves the standard, we’ll always feel either proud or not enough. But when we let God define us, we discover grace, freedom, and the identity we were created for. If you’ve been trying to navigate life in your own strength, this episode will encourage you to look up and let God lead.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this inspiring episode of the Everyday Joy Podcast, host Ash Owen welcomes guest Lucy Holmes to discuss the incredible truth found in Ephesians 3:20 (MSG): "God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams!" Together, they explore the limitless power and possibilities that come with trusting in God's plan for our lives. Lucy shares her personal experiences of witnessing God's extraordinary work, often exceeding her expectations and dreams. She talks about the moments when God surprised her with blessings and opportunities she never thought possible. Tune in to hear how embracing this verse can transform your faith, encouraging you to dream big and trust that God can do more than you could ever imagine. Don't miss this uplifting conversation that will inspire you to believe in the boundless potential of God's plans for you. Get Connected: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayjoypod Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/everydayjoypodcast/ Email us: everydayjoy@positivemedia.com.au TheLight: thelight.com.au/everydayjoySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How does being kind to those in need reflect our relationship with God? In this episode, Ash Couchman and Tilly Hosannee unpack Proverbs 19:17 and discuss how acts of kindness aren’t just good deeds—they’re offerings to God. Tilly shares stories of generosity, the unexpected blessings that come from giving, and how small acts of compassion can make a lasting impact. Be inspired to see kindness not as an obligation, but as an opportunity to partner with God in loving others.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey friends! In this episode, Ash Owen (Couchman) is joined by guest Mahala Cohen as they dive deep into Romans 12:16 (GNT): "Have the same concern for everyone. Do not be proud, but accept humble duties. Do not think of yourselves as wise." Ash opens up about how she once thought pride wasn’t her struggle—until God revealed otherwise. Together with Mahala, they unpack how pride can sneak into our lives in unexpected ways, and why embracing humility is key to spiritual growth. Mahala shares her own experiences with pride and how God’s gentle convictions have led her to greater self-awareness and transformation. If you’ve ever felt like pride wasn’t an issue for you, this conversation will help you see things from a fresh perspective. Join Ash and Mahala as they explore the power of humility and how God calls us to a life of service, free from the chains of self-importance. Get Connected: Follow us on Instagram: Everyday Joy Podcast Join the Facebook Group: Everyday Joy Podcast Community Got something to share? Email us at everydayjoy@positivemedia.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” – Proverbs 9:10 Today, Ash is joined by her husband Toby as they unpack what it really means to fear God. Toby shares how he used to think it meant being scared of God, but he’s realised it’s actually about having awe and deep respect for Him. They talk about how having reverence for God shapes the way we make decisions, helps us become more teachable, and guides us to seek His wisdom rather than relying only on our own strength. Ash and Toby also reflect on their first year of marriage and how learning to slow down, listen, and seek God’s wisdom has helped them grow. If you’re someone who struggles to let go of control or wants to better understand what it means to fear God in a life-giving way, this conversation will be both practical and encouraging. ✨TICKETS FOR EVERYDAY JOY LIVE AVAILABLE HERE Get Connected:Follow us on InstagramJoin the Facebook CommunityGot something to share? Email us at everydayjoy@positivemedia.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special Heart-to-Heart episode of Everyday Joy, Ash sits down with Victoria Sinis, founder of Creating Gems, to hear her extraordinary testimony of moving from the adult content industry to a life completely transformed by Jesus. Victoria shares how years of searching for purpose, success, and identity led her into helping build one of Australia's largest OnlyFans agencies. What began as a business opportunity quickly became something she could no longer ignore, leaving her wrestling with deep questions about purpose, truth, and the value of every human life. After a series of unexpected encounters, Victoria met Christians who responded with compassion instead of condemnation—and everything changed. Within days she walked away from the industry, began following Jesus, and started a journey of healing, freedom, and discovering her true identity in Christ. Together, Ash and Victoria also unpack the realities of digital culture, the influence of pornography and social media on young people, the hope available for anyone struggling with shame or addiction, and why no one is beyond the redeeming love of God. This episode is an honest, hope-filled reminder that your past does not define your future. No matter where you've been or what you've walked through, Jesus is able to redeem, restore, and give you a brand new identity. https://www.instagram.com/victoria.sinis/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil..." — 1 Timothy 6:10 Is money controlling you—or are you controlling it? In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash is joined by Jen for an honest conversation about one of the Bible's most misunderstood verses. Together, they unpack what Scripture actually says about money, wealth, and contentment, revealing that money itself isn't the problem—it's when money becomes the thing we trust, pursue, and build our identity around. Ash and Jen reflect on the messages they learned about money growing up, how financial pressure can quietly shape our priorities, and why so many of us find ourselves constantly chasing "just a little bit more." They also explore the powerful truth that contentment isn't something we stumble into—it's a spiritual discipline we learn. This episode is a reminder that God isn't against wealth, but He does want to protect our hearts from allowing money to become our master. Real freedom isn't found in having more—it's found in trusting God with what we already have. If you've ever felt anxious about finances, struggled with comparison, or found yourself believing that happiness is just one pay rise, promotion, or purchase away, this conversation will encourage you to pursue contentment, generosity, and a life centred on Christ instead of possessions.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.