How Did I Get Here?

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Have you ever entered a situation and asked yourself, “How did I get here?!” Well, life long friends Alex and Amber have… A LOT. Join the girls as they share old stories and explore the crazy from dating, to job interviews, to human interactions that make you go “WTF”

Amber and Alex


    • Apr 21, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 46m AVG DURATION
    • 35 EPISODES

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    COVID Diaries: Finding Positivity in Quarantine

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2020 44:51


    Quarantine is tough, but our guest this week, Tina, has a unique approach to thinking about this strange time. Tune in and hopefully you leave with a fresh new perspective on sheltering in place.Checkout Tina's Youtube Channel "the backroad"If you like what you hear, please give us a review on the Apple podcast app or slide into our Instagram DMs @howdidigetherepod.

    COVID Diaries: Quaran-Couples Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2020 57:51


    Hey everyone! What are you doing? Same shit as yesterday? Us too!We hope you are happy and healthy out there. Tune in to this week's episode as we do a deep dive into the life of couples who are quarantined together. What is the worst part about being quarantined with a significant other? What's the best part? We also give heartfelt advice to couples who are struggling through this time, because we all are!If you like what you hear, please give us a rating on the Apple podcast app or slide into our Instagram DMs @howdidigetherepod.Stay safe. Stay health. Stay the fuck home!We love you, we'll be back next week with more corona stories.Amber & Alex

    COVID Diaries: Coping with Coronavirus like a QuaranQUEEN

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2020 60:15


    How's everyone doing out there? It's been a rough few weeks, no doubt. We hope you are safe and healthy. Tune in as we chat with our longtime friend and QuaranQUEEN, Lo Charles. We discuss how we're managing in quarantine and share old stories from college.

    COVID Diaries: Dating in Quarantine

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2020 53:35


    How did we get here?! If you live in California or any major city in the US, you're likely "sheltering in place" to avoid COVID-19. These are crazy, wild times. We are learning to adjust to our "new normal". Tune in as we discuss how to date during these times. We speak with Lindsey who's going on virtual first dates, with Alyssa who is virtually dating someone she's been seeing for a few months and Christina who is long-distance dating her boyfriend of 6 years.We also give our best advice on how to cope during these times.If you like what you hear, please give us a rating on the Apple podcast app or slide into our Instagram DMs @howdidigetherepod.Hang in there, friends. We'll get through this together.

    Surviving Mercury Retrograde

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2020 27:39


    Communication flubs? Technology troubles? Travel disasters?Blame Mercury in Retrograde!Tune into this episode as we discuss what this phenomenon is, why is ruining our lives, and give you tips on how to survive it. We're in this together!

    We're Back on your R.A.D.A.R!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 37:35


    Your favorite babes are back for Season 2 of the How Did I Get Here Podcast. We have a really cool intro episode for you. We discuss what we did over our breaks. THEN, we reveal the R.A.D.A.R method of relationship communication. R.A.D.A.R. stands forReviewAgree to the AgendaDiscussAction PointsReconnectWe were mind-blown by this idea! If you want more information visit our website howdidigetherepod.com and use the contact us form. We'll send you the information.Don't forget to leave us a review in the Apple podcast app!Also, here's the link to the "Long Drive Home" playlist we discuss in this episode.

    How to Quit Your Corporate Job and Start Your Own Business

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2019 45:06


    Leaving a comfy corporate job is scary, but worth it. Tune in as the girls that with Samantha Kearns of Kearns and Company. Samantha made the leap, and it's paying off! Tune in as we chat aboutWhy she decided to start her own companyThe biggest rewards and the biggest challengesWhat she's learned about herself on this journeyHer favorite tradeshow horror storiesWhat advice she has for others looking to make the jumpConnect with Samantha:https://www.kearnsandcompany.net/https://www.linkedin.com/in/samantha-kearns-cmm-98b3a325/https://www.instagram.com/sdkearns/?hl=enDon't forget to subscribe to our podcast at Howdidigetherepod.com and send us a note at thegirls@howdidigetherepod.com.Like what you hear? Leave us a review on the Apple podcast app and share this episode with a friend!

    Is Technology Ruining our Friendships?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2019 34:18


    In this episode, Amber and Alex get drunk and talk about how technology makes us more connected... sure... but it also can make us feel more alone than ever. Are group chats killing 1:1 deep, personal connection?Does Instagram make us feel good our bad about ourselves?We also explore all of the new phenomenons we ALL partake in because of technology. (ie. gender reveal parties, engagement photos, etc)It's a weird world and we're talking about it.Like what you hear? Visit our website www.howdidigetherepod.com

    Happy Thanksgiving and Gratitude!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2019 29:02


    Happy Thanksgiving to our listeners! We truly can't thank you enough for listening to us blab every week. In this short episode, we talk about our plans and traditions for Thanksgiving and share what we're thankful for this year.We also announce the launch of our WEBSITE www.howdidigetherepod.com! Check out the site for:Cute pics of usA webplayer to listen directly from the webLinks to subscribe on Spotify, Apple, and GoogleLinks to follow us on socialCute bios to learn more about usA messaging tool to contact us directly (holla!)Don't forget to subscribe and if you like what you hear, please for the love of all things leave us a review :) We love you, we appreciate you, and Happy Thanksgiving!

    Breadcrumbing Post Break-Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2019 55:42


    Breadcrumbing is when you lead someone on romantically through social media or texting. Think Hansel and Gretel being tempted onwards to their doom by the witch. It basically means they're stringing you along, but with the help of modern technology.Have you ever had an Ex text you out of the blue just when you were starting to get over them? Then you, my friend, have been breadcrumbed!Tune in as Amber and Alex discuss Amber's recent experience with this, how she handled it, and what she wishes she would have said... Have you been breadcrumbed? Do you think Amber should block this Ex?We want to hear from you! Message us on Instagram @howdidigetherepod

    Cohabitation Quirks

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2019 41:22


    Thinking about moving in with your partner? Already living with your partner and need some tips for keeping the peace? On this episode, we discuss everything you need to know about cohabitating. Tune in as our lovely guest, Simran, shares here experience, Alex adds tidbits from her personal experience, and Amber decides that she'll be perfectly content living alone forever :) jk, but really.

    Mini Episode: First Kiss Drama

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 14:20


    Tune in for this short, 15 minute, mini-episode with our good friend, Lydia! We chat about when is the right time for a first kiss. 2nd date? 3rd date? 7th date?

    Bye-Bye Stinky Pits, Hello Natural Deodorant!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 36:13


    Have you ever smelled someone coming from a mile away? We've been dealing with body odor since our pre-teens and until now Teen Spirit and Secret have done the job for us. But what is in drugstore deodorant? Is it OK to put on our skin?In this episode of the "How Did I Get Here" podcast, we bring on our new friend Chatti Brown who makes Amber's favorite all-natural deodorant. Chatti is the Owner and Founder of Remy and Rose Soaps in the great state of Colorado!Tune in as Chatti shares her "How Did I Get Here" story and we talk about all things herbology.Like what you hear and want to buy some Remy & Rose products?Use our special HDIGH discount code at check out: STINKYPITSDon't forget to follow Remy & Rose on Instagram @RemyandRose

    Work-Life Balance?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2019 46:58


    "Work-Life Balance" you've all heard about it... but does any actually have it? Tune in to this episode as Alex and Amber share their very different opinions on this topic.Should we strive for work-life balance or work-life harmony? What is balance anyways?The girls breakdown Forbe's 6 tips for achieving work-life balance.We also talk about how Amber got front row tickets to the Warriors vs. Lakers game last weekend and how Alex loves to look at model homes. Thanks for listening!

    Manifesting the Life You Want

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 42:54


    We just took a DNA test and it turns out we're 100% those PODCAST BITCHES!We just got back from an amazing event in Atlanta for all-female podcasters. We came home feeling inspired to make our dreams a reality... but how?Tune in as we chat about our trip and share real-life stories about manifesting the life you want. We set some pretty ambitious goals for this podcast (Amber says she puts the "Amb" in ambitious). We're sharing them with you on this episode and putting them out into the universe. Just like a seed, we hope that these goals sprout, grow, and blossom into the lives we want.Tune in and don't forget to subscribe!If you like what you hear, do us a favor and share our show with a friend (or two) that you think would enjoy it too!Questions, comments, or wanna just shoot the shit? Email us at TheGirls@howdidigetherepod.com

    A Season of Change is Upon Us... Set Your Intentions

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2019 45:00


    In this episode, the girls discuss the importance of setting intentions during this season of change. Is it selfish to focus your energies inward and removing yourself from relationships or energies that deplete you? Tune in to find out.

    Short, Sweet, and Single...

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2019 28:24


    It's been a long week, and it's only Tuesday! In this mini-episode, Amber & Alex explain why they're feeling so low and chat about ways to re-energize themselves. They discuss breakups, makeovers, Hygge, dermaplaning, and BFF trips to ATL... Short... Sweet... and Single (again)

    Hot Girl Summer, Clumsy Girl Fall

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2019 50:42


    Hey guys and gals, it's a been a while, but were BAAAACK!Tune into this episode to hear what we've been up to this summer while we took a mini-break from podcasting.

    From Books to Boots: a Coming-of-Age Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2019 48:16


    On this week's episode, our friend Tina shares her story of growing up in a very conservative, highly academic Asian-American household. Tune in to hear her story of studying hard through her childhood, getting into the best Ivy League schools, starting her successful career, and exploring new passions (like country music, banjo jam sessions, dragon boat racing, and Irish dancing) as an adult. This is a BEAUTIFUL coming of age story, of life, learning, love, and family. Thank you, Tina, for opening up and sharing your story with us and the world. You're an inspiration to us all!

    Leading with Empathy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2019 48:37


    Join us and our special guest, Susie. We'll discuss the advantages women have in business leadership. We'll cover everything from being a woman in a man's world to embracing our feminine qualities in business, to managing work, family, and your passions without burning out.

    Everything You Need to Know About Buti Yoga

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2019 50:35


    What the heck is Buti Yoga? That exactly what we said when we first learned about it too. Tune in as we chat with Buti Yoga instructor, Rhea Hollis, MA, as we discuss everything you need to know about this exciting, fun, sexy new form of yoga! We also talk about yoga farts... it's great.

    Taking Charge of Your Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2019 46:22


    Tune in as Alex and Amber chat with special guest, Mat, about the journey that is life. Tune in to learn about Mat's Journey. He's making a big life transition this year. How did he get here? What informed this choice? How is he navigating the change?Alex and Amber left the conversation with Mat inspired, and we think you will too! Be sure to tune in!

    Real Talk: Insecurities

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2019 39:54


    Insecurities... Let's face it we all have them. In our most raw episode yet, we dive deep into each of our own personal insecurities. we discuss everything from insecurities at work, in relationships, and our bodies.It's important that women discuss insecurities with one other: you are not alone. We hope this podcast helps you feel that. Lean on your girlfriends to build you up. Lean on us! We love you just the way you are: perfection

    Two Girls Just Shooting the Sh*t

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2019 43:52


    Tune in as the girls catch up. Alex talks about her new roommate, Kiba. Tips and tricks for growing back your eyelashes and a real-time review of their favorite skincare and makeup products.

    Growing & Glowing Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2019 45:40


    Getting older is a beautiful thing. Tune in as Ambs and Al discuss turning thirty, becoming more self-aware, how their Meyer's Briggs personality scores have changed over time, and so much more.

    Girls Gettin' Ghosted

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 80:22


    Have you ever been "ghosted"? Have you ever ghosted someone? What even is ghosting?Tune in as Alex and Amber uncover it all, no one is innocent here. Don't miss when Amber calls the ex-boyfriend who ghosted her 3 years ago LIVE on the podcast... You won't want to miss this episode.

    Making Friends as Adults

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2019 51:49


    Making friends as adults is hard! Join the girls as they discuss tips and tricks for making new friends. Wether you're moving to a new city or just looking to expand your network, they'll cover it all with special guests Terra and Rob.

    Exploring the Cosmos: Super Moon + Spring Equinox

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2019 48:23


    Join the girls and special guest, Dylan, as he explains the unique super moon + spring equinox event happening Wednesday, March 20th, 2019. We'll discuss how the cosmos impact our emotions and how to prepare for the coming super moon. Set your intention for this spring with the girls of HDIGH!"The Equinox brings equal parts to the day and night, allowing us to see who and what we value (or values us) and helping us move towards what we love." - The Hoodwitch

    The Importance of Female Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 49:12


    Sisterhood is powerful. Inspired by a weekend celebrating Amber's mom's 60th birthday with her best girlfriends, the girls talk about the importance of a strong girl gang. How do those bond change as you find partners and start families? Get mom's advice for sticking close to your core and maintaining your friendships. I think the Spice Girls said it best... "If you want to be my lover you've GOT to get with my friends..." Ya hear?Let's go girls!

    Dating Horror Stories Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2019 55:09


    Back by popular request, the girls return with dating horror stories from their college pal, Lydia. From trying to find a free public bathroom in New York City to having a date bring her into a board meeting to causing an all out BRAWL at a family wedding... Lydia is full of stories you won't want to miss out on.

    The 5 Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2019 53:14


    Communication is important... the girls should know - they majored in it! Join the girls and special guest Will Finnie as they discus the 5 Love Languages: Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Receiving Gifts. Is it important for partners to have the same love language? How do love languages translate to friendships? To work relationships? You won't want to miss this episode.

    Sisterhood of the Traveling Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2019 61:23


    Tune in as Amber goes to Miami, Alex goes abroad, and Morgan travels domestic throughout the United States. Get advice from all three girls on tips and tricks for traveling and all the funny stories in between.

    Dating Horror Stories Pt. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 85:07


    Looking for love in all the wrong places? The girls have been there... By popular request, Alex and Amber share their most outrageous, hilarious, and infuriating dating stories from the past decade and lessons learned from each.

    The Conundrum of Choice & Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2019 37:04


    In a world full of endless choices and unlimited swipes, why would so many options result in a conundrum? Join the girls and special guest, Julie, as they discuss how the Tinder generation is having more trouble finding love and less satisfaction with their right swipes. Could jars of jam answer our questions? Tune in to find out!

    Meet the Girls of HDIGH

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019 24:00


    Have you ever entered a situation and asked yourself, “How did I get here?!” Well, life long friends Alex and Amber have… A LOT. Join the girls as they share old stories and explore the crazy from dating, to job interviews, to human interactions that make you go “WTF”.In this episode you'll meet the ladies of HDIGH, Amber and Alex, as they discuss how they got here and why they're starting this podcast.

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