Men, Sex & Tantra

Ever felt like you're not getting a straight answer from a woman? Like her words are wrapped in layers of implication, energy, and mystery?In the realm of sex, intimacy, and tantra, what appears vague is often an invitation to go deeper. I explore why women communicate the way they do, what's actually happening beneath the surface, and how men can meet that energy—not with frustration or force, but with curiosity and conscious leadership.This episode is a wake-up call for men who want to stop skating on the surface and start penetrating the truth with presence, precision, and power.Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

Tanja is solo today talking about her work with couples... Couples don't communicate well and when it comes to sex it's usually even more tragic. Why you should read and watch what she does to ask better questions and stop making assumptions. Improve your sex life.Intro Coaching Session HereTanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

People often wonder what happens in your life when you heal your past patterns and wounds and start to move into self care. Is it selffish to put yourself first? Farren joins me again and shares the successes on this journey to being true to youself.Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com  Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

In a world where good men don't want to be jerks, the idea of saying no to others can be hard. How can you be true to yourself and not hurt others. Learning to say no, without explanations will be the power you need to get back to living the truth of your life and stop putting yourself last.Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com  Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

My guest today is Farren West, one of my friends and clients. He shares his path since his divorce 5 years ago and how he was stuck in the nice guy space and suffered unhappiness for many years. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com  Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

What is the difference between addiction and strategies? Are your strategies working for you or hurting you. Alberto discusses his journey through different addictions.Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com  Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

Alberto is with me again and we are tackling the self love dilema. What actually is it and how do you make it happen? There are 4 pillars to self love, self commitement, self trust, self respect and self love. Explore the way to fall in love with yourself and why it matters.Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com  Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

Meet Alberto Bercich who's becoming a Neo Tantra Certifued Coach in my Program.He reveals why he's doing it and what he has learned in the process. Lots of gems dropped in this episodeBandbbotanicals.comhttps://www.facebook.com/bandbbotanicals?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfrHiveholisticcenter.comhttps://www.facebook.com/hiveholistic?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfrTheconnectioncoaches.comHit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.comIntro Coaching Session HereBecome a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

Hey lovebirds and laughter lovers!

Lukasz and Tanja discuss sexual empowerment and the poly world. Do you need to be sexually open to lots of sex and people to be liberated and sexually healthy? You might be surprised at what two very sex-positive people have to say about it.IG @lukdrakiWebsite www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz and Tanja tackle the real reason you are flagging in the sex department. How you are inadvertently tanking your testosterone and sex life and what to do about it. Phylates are a big culprit, along with soy and deodorant.IG @lukdrakiWebsite www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz and Tanja take a trip to fairyland. Fairyland is the new age blissed-out scene where spiritual seekers go to live in ungrounded unconditional love and high vibration.Is it a great place to hang out? Or should you avoid it at all costs?IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz Darmosz is Tanja's new guest, and the conversation about tattoos, energy, hidden messages in water, and the intention you carry surprises them both.Lukasz can be found IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Shibari is the ancient Japanese art of tying knots. Strider is a fan, and this episode has some twists and turns as Tanja weaves the episode into some other considerations when entering the kink world.To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Energetic Ethics? What the heck is that when it comes to objectification? Strider has a 5-second rule of looking at someone, and Tanja gets into the nitty gritty of checking someone else out at the gym.To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Erotic Authenticity - Strider and Tanja break down what this means. Tanja believes that just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it—what does it mean to be erotically authentic? There is a lot of juice in this episode.To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Join me and my new guest, Strider John Peterson, as we explore masculine containment. How to show up as a protective man and not be confused about what that means. Create safety when protecting.Reach Strider here https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

It seems straightforward that your family relationships impacted your intimacy abilities, but maybe you have never seen how. James D lets us in on how the relationship with his brother impacted his dating and sex life. A very candid and vulnerable share and interesting look into the complexity of relating.

Life doesn't always give you a break or even provide you with what you want. Dealing with challenges can leave you feeling angry and frustrated, blaming others for those feelings. The inability to deal with these negative feelings will impact your relationships and career.Rejection can be crippling, and we talk about strategies to make sure it doesn't stop you.

James D and Tanja dive into the idea of the Irish proverb, “You don't give a man a weapon until you've taught him how to dance.”There are so many instances where this is applicable, and of course, sex is one of them. Do you use your penis as a weapon.?.. Learning to balance empty and full is the name of the game.

Tanja's new guest is James Deirmendjian https://www.facebook.com/fightfittPhilosopher, and founder of Fit Fight Training, James is a sports-performance coach for BJJ fighters and first responders.I invited him to the show because he had some exciting things to say about men, desire, and aggression... and some pretty fancy vocabulary to boot.

Tanja and Darshan wrap up Sacred masculinity with why you want to access your feelings with a nice little incentive; it's called Feeling MORE sexual and other pleasure.Yes, the 15-30 seconds of pleasure you feel now called ejaculation is such a paltry amount of pleasure you have access to!!Get in the know, increase her desire, your desire, and find out why we get excited about the outcomes... no pun intended.Find Darshan at heartspace33healing@yahoo.com or FB https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

Tanja and Darshan believe men can be clueless, but this is a societal and programming problem, not a lack of caring on men's part. Between childhood programming, societal pressures, and ignorance, as a man, you will have to WANT to change things if they aren't working for you.Here are some practical tools to get you started to a better life and sex.Find Darshan at heartspace33healing.com and on FB at https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

I have a new guest with me Darshan Gregory, and we tackle the topic of Sacred Masculinity. You know how I tend to get picky when it comes to spiritual words just thrown around like we all know what they mean? So check out what happens with the topic of Sacred Masculinity because most of the time, people can't explain what they mean by these terms, which seem unattainable.You can contact Darshan at heartspace33healing@yahoo.com or find him on FB https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

Tanja and Michiel talk about women and what they want. Call this the Euro version because here we get into the fact being friends is NOT a bad thing and the real meanings behind trust, connection, and intimacy.I've seen men and women struggle with the definitions of these seemingly simple words, so we get into it.MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

Tanja and Michiel tackle polarity because, face it, there can never be enough times we talk about it! So much confusion surrounds the topic, and I think things are getting more extreme and not helping anyone.MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

Tanja and Michiel get real about how European men and American men differ regarding dating, women, and life.Although you might find this hard to listen to at times, I believe it's critical to understand the dynamics as a man you might be missing.I'd love to know what you think. Are American men Man Babies?

Tanja Talks with a new guest, Michiel Doorn, from 2nd Life Strategies. Tanja and Michiel get together, have some laughs, and talk about a piece of Michiel's Nobel Peace prize, his mission, and some ego banter. Michiel Doorn has authored numerous publications and two books, one in Dutch and one in English: The Mantis and the Mirror. A gifted speaker and teacher who has lectured at two universities, Michiel writes and speaks in understandable and inclusive ways, making complex topics simple but not simplistic.MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

We talked about Tantra last time; let's talk about Tantric sex and get that clear. Is it all medications, eye gazing, and long orgasms, or??

Tantra, Tantra, Tantra, so misunderstood and misused. Let's get clarity, shall we?

What if sex were just an activity, like going to the zoo. Imagine a world where you could say, Hey, want to go to the zoo, and your partner was like... naw it's kinda cold and rainy, I'll stay home> You were totally ok with that and went to the zoo on your own, and everyone was ok.Let's check it out... we need to have a more light-hearted approach to sex, just sayin'

Yep, they say every man does it, and it's no big deal, but internet porn is causing so many problems in the bedroom. It's being cited as a big reason for divorces as well. Come hang out and find out the true cost of internet porn.

What is a nice guy? Why do we think nice guys should finish last? Because they are actually dangerous.Lean in and find out the difference between nice and kind and why one is what women are looking for and the other is what we all hope to avoid.

Sniper and Tanja dive into masculine confidence. Sniper says it's the #1 thing men want to know about and don't want to talk to women about. I certainly get a lot of phone calls from men about it and so I would say men might not want to talk to their interests about it, but they want to know from the pros, men or women who work with men on this topic.Confidence is sexy and we are going to let you in on some ways to get more of it.

Dating and especially that first date can be harrowing. What are some of the best do's and don't when it comes to making the date great? Well, I found out a surprising question every man should ask before the first date in this episode. Sniper and Tanja dive into the dating scene.

Tanja and Sniper get real about the life of a Bar King and the upside and downsides of this way of scoring women. Are you or so you want to be a King of the Bar scene? Check this out!

Today I have a new guest with me and his moniker is the Intellectual Sniper, or sniper for short. We are dropping into the world of dating, confidence, nice guys, Bar Kings, and more over the next 5 episodes.

I get a lot of questions about sexual compatibility and what it really means. It is definitely important but one of the things that can usually be worked on in a relationship. Sadly most people don't give it much thought until it causes problems for them.Questions - email me Tanja@tanjadiamond.com

We hear about this so-called "spark" but what is it really? Sexual chemistry is not about how someone looks, or a good reason to have a relationship. Understanding sexual chemistry and how it works is vital to a good sex life.Questions you want me to answer email me Tanja@tanjadiamond.com

Faking Orgasms, why do women do this, and can men really tell? I think it's pretty sad women do this at the alarming rate they do AND how we can all make a difference in how we approach sex so they don't feel they need to.

Do you buy into the Seduction community BS? Tanja takes this episode on solo to talk about why what you know about getting sex and love might be all wrong

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex. I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Diane.

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex. I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Amber.

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex. I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Tina

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex. I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Judy.

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex. I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Sasha

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex. I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Mandy.

Are you a saver and righteous about it? Are you a spender and feel you're way is the right way to live? Find out how your ideas about the right way to do IT (and we do mean sex and money) are keeping you from having the best sex you can.

Can you get financially naked with your partner? Your money story impacts your sex life and we want to show you how to make sure it affects it on a good way.

Introduction to Ed Coambs a financial intimacy expert. Money and sex are linked in ways you might not expect, come check it out.Find out more about Ed here www.healthyloveandmoney.com

When we say turned on we mean more than just being horny. We mean full life turn on that makes taking a breath orgasmic... yep