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There are going to be days when you feel down in your marriage.Sad. Overwhelmed. Tired.And, that's OK.That's normal and human.Instead of trying to “buck up,” take care of yourself first.Acknowledge you are feeling down, see what you need, and meet that need.Then, think about other ways you can think in the future.Heal first, fix later.Learn more in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. Want to join our Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership program? It's just $200 per month to create a loving, intimate marriage and change the whole trajectory of your family's future. We're looking for 500 men willing to do that this year. Open now! CLICK HERE to join us! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Why do strong men struggle to lead at home, feel disconnected from their kids, and stay stuck in surface-level growth even when they've read all the books and done the work?In this episode Dino from the We Evolve Together podcast and Ben from RISING KINGS collaborate again, diving deep into the unseen reason men in their 40s lose respect, presence, and purpose.What they uncover isn't another tactic—it's a truth most men avoid:Growth isn't found in the grind. It's found in the space you create for yourself and for others that allows you to navigate the challenges. Inside, they explore:The real reason your wife and kids feel distant (even when you're “showing up”)Why better questions unlock the clearest version of who you areHow to stop rushing to fix everything and lead through presence insteadThe close bond inside RISING KINGS that men outside rarely experienceHow to reclaim your fire, identity, and soul-driven clarity without sacrificing your edgeWhether you're a father, husband, or business owner feeling like something's “off” beneath the surface, this episode will hit you in the gut in all the right ways.Connect with DinoInstagram: @weevolv3Podcast: We Evolve Together FREE MIDLIFE DRIFT ASSESSMENT
There are two main forces of power available to you as a husband and father.One is a destructive force.This force is a “my way or the highway” energy.It intimidates to get its way.And, it is more powerful than doing nothing.And, it ends in people wanting to create distance from you, making you feel lonely in your marriage.The other force available to you is the TRANSFORMATIONAL force.This power allows you to stop what needs to be stopped…But in order to build what you want to build…A loving relationship with your wife and children.It is MORE POWERFUL than the destructive force, because it INCLUDES, DEFEATS and TRANSFORMS the destructive force.Learn how to access this TRUE power of transformation in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the importance of instilling consistent and automatic character in kids to prepare them for proper leadership roles. As the world witnesses a trend of young men gravitating toward authoritarian leaders, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the dangers of this mindset and the need for parents to guide their children toward understanding biblical leadership. She advocates for following the example of servant leaders, particularly Jesus, to foster a generation equipped to discern healthy leadership. The discussion also touches on a recent poll from the UK revealing concerning attitudes among young adults towards governance. Tune in for valuable insights on nurturing future leaders with integrity and discernment.
In our marriage and parenting, we're often too hard or too soft.When we're too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do.This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently.And, it leads to people distancing from us.When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak.And, our wives and kids kind of like that…But they don't respect us or feel safe with us.And we don't feel safe or respect ourselves.Thankfully, there is a “just right” place to be a parent and a husband.One where we have the love AND respect of others…And we love and respect ourselves.Learn about this in today's episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmxd3VzEvgoAnd to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Send us a textReturning guest Jake Saenz joins the show for an incredible interview regarding a journey that led to his enlistment in the military and eventual deployment overseas. We also ask, " why do men hate attending church?' Has the church failed men by becoming too feminized and are churches building audiences instead of armies? This and so much more on today's episode of the Deep Dive. Thanks for listening, enjoy!Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/DeepDivewithDonFlamingo Email: flamingo.1.ag@gmail.com“X” account: @garza_aaron
You want to be the best husband.You want to be the best father.You want to be the best at your job.That pressure can help you perform…But it also leads to a feeling of pressure, stress…And even rejection and not feeling good enough.Unfortunately, those aren't the best feelings to build a family foundation on.Instead, you can view your family as a garden.A garden that God is in charge of, and that you have a part in.A garden that if you make a mistake, God can heal it.Now you can rest, play, grow and create. And work. But you don't have to work to earn rest or earn your place in the garden.You belong.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Emotional impulsiveness can derail even the strongest of men. Samson was physically powerful and divinely gifted, but he was emotion-driven rather than Spirit-led. Samson allowed his emotions, particularly anger and pride, to dictate his actions, leading to a cycle of revenge, violence, and, ultimately, loss. We must reject emotional impulsiveness and instead pursue humility, accountability, and self-awareness, and admit our need for God's help and strength.
Emotional impulsiveness can derail even the strongest of men. Samson was physically powerful and divinely gifted, but he was emotion-driven rather than Spirit-led. Samson allowed his emotions, particularly anger and pride, to dictate his actions, leading to a cycle of revenge, violence, and, ultimately, loss. We must reject emotional impulsiveness and instead pursue humility, accountability, and self-awareness, and admit our need for God's help and strength.
Emotional impulsiveness can derail even the strongest of men. Samson was physically powerful and divinely gifted, but he was emotion-driven rather than Spirit-led. Samson allowed his emotions, particularly anger and pride, to dictate his actions, leading to a cycle of revenge, violence, and, ultimately, loss. We must reject emotional impulsiveness and instead pursue humility, accountability, and self-awareness, and admit our need for God's help and strength.
What happens when doing the right thing costs you everything? Meet the man who chose integrity over compliance—and lived to teach others how to do the same.Stephen Davis is a battle-tested leader who's worn multiple hats:U.S. Army combat medic and Special Forces candidateDecorated fire battalion chief with 15+ years of serviceAuthor of Alone in the Fire, exposing government corruptionFounder of the Raising Alphas Project, mentoring next-gen leadersIn 2021, as an Orange County Fire Department battalion chief, Davis was ordered to punish firefighters resisting COVID mandates. When he discovered the disciplinary lists included exempt personnel—close friends and colleagues—he refused. The result? Termination. But his fight was just beginning.Quotes:"Your most passionate performers are your strongest leaders when they're not heard, when they're not listened to, when their voice isn't given any level of respect." - Stephen Davis"Isn't the downhill part the best part of the ride? Anytime you go on a roller coaster, isn't that the time we're all screaming with fun?" - Stephen Davis"What I can control is the family that I'm raising. What I can do my best to do is build these tribes." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Audit Your IntegrityAsk yourself: "Where have I compromised my values to avoid conflict or protect my position?"Action: Write down one principle you're unwilling to bend on—no matter the cost.Challenge Authority (Wisely)Lesson: Blind compliance enables corruption. Leaders question unjust orders.Action: The next time you're pressured to enforce something questionable, ask: "Is this lawful, ethical, and morally right?" If not, push back.Build Financial & Emotional ResilienceLesson: Davis survived losing his career because he had other skills and income streams.Action: Start a side hustle, learn a trade, or save 6 months' expenses. Freedom requires options.Conclusion:Stephen Davis' story isn't just about losing a job—it's about what happens when one person refuses to kneel. His stand cost him his career, but it revealed a timeless truth: real leadership isn't about authority—it's about moral defiance.Final Thought: The systems around us want compliance. They fear conviction. So ask yourself:What hill am I willing to die on?What legacy will my choices leave?If I don't stand now, when will I?Davis proved that one voice can ignite many. The question is—will yours be next?Subscribe for more unfiltered leadership insights. ChiefStephenDavis.com
I used to think that the way to heal was three simple steps.Step 1 –Identify your old, negative, unattractive patterns.Step 2 – Create new positive attractive patterns.Step 3 - Practice the new patterns until you can't get them wrongAnd, that sequence does work.However, it misses some important things.Mainly, it misses acknowledging why the old patterns were there in the first place.It doesn't give compassion to the younger you's and the current you that are acting the way you are because you're scared or sad.And, because of that, you don't really heal and keep acting out the same old patterns.Learn what to do instead in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming better husbands and fathers, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Samson was a man set apart by God from birth, empowered with supernatural strength, and bound by Nazarite vows. Despite his divine calling, Samson repeatedly made destructive choices—he was a powerful man with a dangerously weak will. He had so much God-given potential, yet again and again, he made poor decisions and self-destructed. But while Satan loves to make strong men weak, God delights in making weak men strong.
Samson was a man set apart by God from birth, empowered with supernatural strength, and bound by Nazarite vows. Despite his divine calling, Samson repeatedly made destructive choices—he was a powerful man with a dangerously weak will. He had so much God-given potential, yet again and again, he made poor decisions and self-destructed. But while Satan loves to make strong men weak, God delights in making weak men strong.
Pastor Josh and Sharon McPherson sit down with Pastor John Lovell and his wife for a passionate, unscripted conversation about raising boys in today's culture. From battles with broken school systems to hilarious and heartfelt parenting stories, they explore what it means to raise daring, risk-taking, God-fearing young men.Key Topics: - Raising boys without crushing their spirit - The dangers of over-medicating boys - Why the system is failing our sons - The mom's vital role in building strong men - Real talk on marriage, submission, and mutual respectAND... Becca shares about her upcoming book... a must-read for moms and dads seeking clarity, conviction, and courage in parenting. Support the showThanks for listening! Go to www.StrongerManNation.com for more resources.
If you're like me, your wife and kids make you mad.Maybe it happens a lot.If your anger seems extreme for the situation…(like when I got upset this week when my oldest son said goodbye to other people in the family or not me)...There's probably a younger you that needs caring for.And the adult you also needs to recognize the hurt…And then choose from an adult mindset what to do about it.Learn how to do this in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to join us in becoming better husbands and fathers, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Missiles are flying, nuclear sites have been bombed, and now Donald Trump has declared a ceasefire. Why do Israel and Iran hate each other? Who are the men in charge? And how much is ego fuelling this conflict?
Gil Alderete of Catholic Men's Fellowship (CMF) continues his conversation with Deacon Jeff Kosidowski about his life of faith and his work with the Church.Listen live to Gil's show Men of Faith at https://www.spiritfilledevents.com/radio-podcast Monday -Friday at and 12:30pm Pacific Time. Podcast is available https://www.spiritfilledevents.com/men-of-faith and other podcast outlets. Support the show
I've had a pattern in my marriage.I feel hurt by something.The kids or Elizabeth ignoring me. The kids being rude. Elizabeth turning away from a hug or kiss.Then, I get mad.I pull away. I think to myself “Fine, if they don't want me then they can pay for everything themselves!”I picture leaving them alone to fend for themselves.I can say mean things and get angry when I feel this way.Then later, I calm down and regret this…But there's been damage done. I've scared my family and created lack of safety.I've been trying to get rid of this pattern for a LONG time.But I feel like I've found the answer.It's working on my inner child.You see, my inner child is looking for my family to provide unconditional love. To take care of me.And, my younger me's do need that.But, it's not my kids' job to take care of me. It's my job to take care of them.And, it's not my wife's job to be my unconditionally loving “mother.” It's our job to work in partnership in life together. She needs a husband, not another kid.And so, it falls on me to parent those younger me's and give them unconditional love.I'm just starting the journey, and I think it's the key to breaking some very difficult patterns.Learn more on today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to become a man who makes this generation better than the last, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
In this episode of Excess Returns, Matt Zeigler sits down with Peter Atwater—President of Financial Insyghts, author of The Confidence Map, and expert on decision-making under uncertainty. Peter lays out a bold and timely framework: in a world led by dominant nationalist figures, global corporations—and their investors—must now navigate a high-stakes game of being labeled either beneficiaries or victims. This conversation digs deep into how these dynamics shape capital flows, investor sentiment, policy risk, and the future of globalization.
This past week I had the chance to stand up for someone else.A large man was being threatening and eventually physically aggressive to his wife or girlfriend (not sure which it was)..Thanks to the MMA training I've been receiving from Ethyn Ewing (here's a recent knockout of his)...I felt confident to confront the guy and stop him from continuing to abuse this woman.It felt great to join the ranks of men who will stand up physically for what's right.It made me realize that confrontation is one of the main masculine traits.The willingness to confront and fight others is a lot of what makes a man.Whether that confrontation is physical, mental, emotional or spiritual.And it takes physical, mental, emotional and spiritual strength to step into that confrontation.Hear more about what happened on today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And to become a man who fights for what is right, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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“Be the hard man, be the virtuous one, be the disciplined one.” Resources, skillset, mindset, and fitness. These are four pillars of survival that serve as a framework for becoming the kind of man who can lead through anything. Preparedness isn't paranoia—it's leadership and peace of mind for those you love. In this episode, you'll hear what it really means to be ready when comfort collapses and crisis hits. From stockpiling water and food to developing real-world skills, we bring you the essential methods men need to weather chaos with clarity. G Michael Hopf shares how to build a bug-out bag, store potable water using bathtub bladders, and why you might want to stash lighters, knives, and even toilet paper. He breaks down the mental and physical conditioning required to keep your family safe—and why your preparedness today will be their security tomorrow. Hopf is the bestselling author of 40 apocalyptic novels and the man behind the viral quote, “Hard times create strong men.” He teaches real-world resilience through story and strategy. Learn more & connect: https://www.gmichaelhopf.com/ You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.
When you wife says she wants space…It's SCARY!Our brains usually go to thinking she wants to leave, whether that's true or not.Usually we either go to pleading for her not to leave…Or we go to anger.Both of these are unattractive and push our wives away.Instead, we can share what we're actually feeling…Ask for her help…And take care of ourselves.Learn more about this in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5FvaokDOcYAnd join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
It can be scary and frustrating if your wife doesn't want to pray with you.Or maybe it's that she doesn't want to go to church or read scriptures with you.You can worry that your marriage won't make it.That your kids won't grow up with God.That your wife and kids are on the fast track to eternal damnation.Unfortunately, this fear usually makes you anxious and controlling…Which drives your wife and kids away more.Learn what to to instead…In today's episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEubK6OeKkIAnd join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.” When comfort becomes the norm, weakness takes root—and that's when the real trouble starts. We're living through a time where traditional values are under attack, strength is mocked, and confusion is celebrated. This episode explores why hard times are back—and why strong men are more important than ever. Geoff Hopf talks about the cycle of history, where each generation shapes the next—and how we're now in the “crisis” stage. From political division to collapsing culture, he lays out what happens when weak leadership takes over and what it'll take to turn things around. G. Michael Hopf is a former Marine and bestselling author of over 40 novels, including The End and The Cries of a Dying World. His quote “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times” has become a global rallying cry—and a lightning rod for controversy. Learn more & connect: https://www.gmichaelhopf.com/ “The End” – by G. Michael Hopf https://a.co/d/bX1Nbc4 “The Cries of a Dying World” – by G. Michael Hopf https://a.co/d/apKGKts You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.
What's your goal for your marriage?A wife who is excited to see you?A wife who hugs, kisses and has sex with you?A wife who appreciates you?And that should happen all the time, right?And if not, something is wrong. Right?Well, this mindset of having an “endpoint” to marriage usually leads to frustration.God helped me see that it's much better to see your wife and marriage as a plant.Something that has seasons. That needs consistent nourishment. Something living that doesn't have an “end point.”Something that needs a good husband to care for it.Learn how to do this well in today's episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8o_L3TnIoEIAnd join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Is tyranny the default of human existence? Strongmen are rising. Democracies are faltering. But how does tyranny end?
In this unique return visit to Secrets of Statecraft, New York Times columnist Bret Stephens discusses why defending Ukraine is in America's interest, and reflects on the perils of Western flirtation with authoritarian figures. Recorded on May 16, 2025.
It can be easy to get into a downward spiral about our wife and marriage.The sex isn't there.The connection isn't there.We're dealing with infidelity, separation or divorce.It can all seem pretty hopeless.And, when we feel hopeless, we don't feel good, we're not attractive, and we don't solve our problems.Fortunately, there's a way out of this.It's gratitude.Not necessarily for our wife, but for the fact that God has our back.When we can see and feel that, we feel empowered, which is attractive.And, we can start solving problems effectively.Learn more in today's episode.This is a tool from the book The Tools Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.And join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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In this week's episode of The Gedunk Show, Bobby and Dan dive deep into the idea that the little things matter. From Shedeur Sanders' drop in the NFL Draft to how accountability—or the lack of it—shapes everything from locker rooms to the Oval Office, we explore the intersection of humility, leadership, and power. We look at how Shedeur's story isn't just about football—it's about race, economics, and what society values. Then we pivot to the political world: Trump, Pete Hegseth, and Michael Waltz, and how dodging the “small stuff” has led to some of the biggest national failures in leadership. In both sports and politics, character counts. And it's often revealed in the moments most people overlook.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 697, Become a Better Man: The 4 Pillars of Masculinity w/ Chris Harper Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon.
We've all heard the quote, “Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times.” Today, I have the author of that quote, Geoff Hopf on the podcast to talk about what he meant when we penned that phrase. Today, we talk about moral weakness and lacking skillsets, why masculinity does not need to be redefined, why accepting reality is such a crucial part of men's growth, why all men want to be part of something great, the 4 pillars of survival, and overcoming illogical belief systems. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 01:24 – Geoff's background and law enforcement experience 06:35 – Transitioning to writing and becoming an author 11:18 – Daily writing habits and productivity 15:47 – Finding purpose through creative work 20:26 – Violence, masculinity, and raising boys 26:55 – Personal responsibility and fatherhood 33:10 – Social media, distraction, and mental clarity 39:42 – Freedom of speech and cancel culture 44:51 – Lessons from fatherhood and legacy 50:15 – Final thoughts and where to find Geoff's work Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Does your wife feel distant?Does she seem to not really care about you?Does she seem to care more about the kids than you?Do you tell her that she should be paying more attention to you, hoping to get more from her?Well, maybe it's not actually about you at all!And maybe asking her to do more will create MORE distance instead of connection.Learn how to approach your wife in a strong, supportive, secure way when she feels distant…So you can feel the closeness you desire.Learn how in today's episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.And join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Do you wish you had more in your marriage?More sex?More conversation?More connection?More fun?It's not a problem to want more.However, your emotional state when you desire and ask for more can be a BIG problem.Most of us ask for more from a place of whininess and “not enough.”This usually just makes our wives feel like they're not doing enough and less motivated to do anything more.Learn a new and better way to get more in your marriage…In today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.And join the program to learn how to do this together.(This is from a book The Gap and The Gain by Benjamin Hardy)Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
In this episode of International Horizons, RBI director John Torpey speaks with Stephen Hanson and Jeffrey Kopstein, co-authors of The Assault on the State: How the Global Attack on Modern Government Endangers Our Future (Polity Press, 2024). In this conversation, they discuss how today's right-wing movements, from the United States to Hungary, are waging a new form of politics that undermines the very foundations of the modern, rules-based state. Drawing on Max Weber's concept of “patrimonialism,” Hanson and Kopstein explore how these leaders erode public trust, demolish impersonal bureaucracies, and replace rational governance with personal loyalty and whim. Along the way, they examine the role of conspiracy theories, the rise of “deep state” narratives, and the uneasy alliances connecting libertarians, Christian nationalists, and advocates of an all-powerful executive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/political-science
In this episode of International Horizons, RBI director John Torpey speaks with Stephen Hanson and Jeffrey Kopstein, co-authors of The Assault on the State: How the Global Attack on Modern Government Endangers Our Future (Polity Press, 2024). In this conversation, they discuss how today's right-wing movements, from the United States to Hungary, are waging a new form of politics that undermines the very foundations of the modern, rules-based state. Drawing on Max Weber's concept of “patrimonialism,” Hanson and Kopstein explore how these leaders erode public trust, demolish impersonal bureaucracies, and replace rational governance with personal loyalty and whim. Along the way, they examine the role of conspiracy theories, the rise of “deep state” narratives, and the uneasy alliances connecting libertarians, Christian nationalists, and advocates of an all-powerful executive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/sociology
In this episode of International Horizons, RBI director John Torpey speaks with Stephen Hanson and Jeffrey Kopstein, co-authors of The Assault on the State: How the Global Attack on Modern Government Endangers Our Future (Polity Press, 2024). In this conversation, they discuss how today's right-wing movements, from the United States to Hungary, are waging a new form of politics that undermines the very foundations of the modern, rules-based state. Drawing on Max Weber's concept of “patrimonialism,” Hanson and Kopstein explore how these leaders erode public trust, demolish impersonal bureaucracies, and replace rational governance with personal loyalty and whim. Along the way, they examine the role of conspiracy theories, the rise of “deep state” narratives, and the uneasy alliances connecting libertarians, Christian nationalists, and advocates of an all-powerful executive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
In the compelling second half of Lisa Bilyeu's conversation with Jason Wilson, the focus shifts to solution-oriented frameworks and the revolutionary concept of “the comprehensive man.” Jason breaks down the key differences between the traditional masculine man—trapped by stoicism, performance, and aggression—and the comprehensive man, who brings emotional range, compassion, and true partnership into every area of his life. Lisa and Jason walk through the “green flags” of a healthy, emotionally mature partner, drawing a practical roadmap for women and men seeking deep, lasting connections. Jason explores the roles of fighter, provider, leader, lover, nurturer, friend, husband, father, and son, explaining how each archetype transforms when a man is free from cultural conditioning. Together, they address building boundaries, overcoming generational trauma, healing, and how both men and women must re-learn what it means to love and be loved. If you're ready to drop outdated scripts and build real intimacy, this powerhouse conclusion will inspire you to rethink everything you know about relationships. SHOWNOTES 29:19 The Need for Men to Do Deep Emotional Work 31:24 Why Men Can't Heal Until They Heal Themselves 33:44 Generational Conditioning of Men & Women 35:38 Balancing Strength and Vulnerability — Lion & Lamb 38:36 The Comprehensive Man vs. The Masculine Man 39:16 Fighting, Providing, and Leading: A New Framework 41:30 The Benefits of Healthy Marriage for Men and Women 43:08 The Comprehensive Leader: Fairness Over Force 45:36 Can a Woman Lead the Family? Rethinking Roles 47:33 The Lover: Sacrifice, Self-Love, & True Partnership 48:53 The Nurturer: Men as Caregivers and Coaches 51:09 The Gentlemen: Why Chivalry Matters—And How to Revive It 53:10 Chivalry and Modern Dating: Encouraging Respect 57:10 The Friend: Real Support and Reciprocal Love 59:49 Men, Confrontation, and Grace vs. Aggression 1:03:12 The Husband: Partnership and Respect 1:07:12 The Father: Breaking the Cycle and Healing Generational Wounds 1:11:43 The Son: Purpose, Maturity, and Family Responsibility 1:16:43 Why Both Genders Must Unlearn Harmful Programming 1:19:17 Healing Ourselves to Transform Relationships 1:23:34 The Power of Starting Over: Building from a New Foundation 1:25:43 Where to Find Jason & Final Words of Encouragement FOLLOW JASON WILSON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjasonowilson Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/MrJasonOWilson Website: https://mrjasonwilson.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with transformational coach, speaker, and best-selling author Jason Wilson for an unfiltered, eye-opening conversation on men, masculinity, and emotional connection. Jason is the founder of the “Cave of Adullam,” a life training academy for boys and men, and he's developed a reputation for helping men break free from emotional suppression and cultural programming. With the communication gap between men and women wider than ever, Jason joins Lisa as a much-needed “translator,” decoding what men think but often don't say. Together, they dig deep into generational wounds, emotional barriers, and the misunderstandings that keep men and women disconnected from one another. Through a game of “Why Does a Man…?” Jason exposes surprising truths about commitment fears, intimacy, cheating, and why men fear vulnerability. Lisa shares her own honest reactions, highlighting the ways that society's conflicting scripts hurt women, too. Whether you're struggling to understand the men in your life or looking to heal and set boundaries, this episode is a must-listen. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction — The Communication Gap Between Men & Women 00:33 Jason's Mission: Translating The Emotional Language of Men 01:15 Why Does a Man Fear Commitment? 02:25 Boys Don't Cry: The Damaging Message of Stoic Masculinity 03:43 The True Struggle Behind Men's Emotional Walls 04:14 Jason's Advice: Guard Your Heart & Set Standards 05:09 Why Some Men Seek Sex But Hide Their Phones 05:53 Why Does a Man Say He Loves You But Cheats? 07:20 Redefining Love and Faithfulness for Men and Women 08:03 Jason's Story: Culture, Virginity, and the “Manhood” Script 10:51 The Double Standard: Women Shamed, Men Pressured 12:10 Jason's Perspective on Sex, Standards, and Commitment 13:17 Changing the Narrative Around Sex for Both Genders 14:29 The Problem with “Happy Wife, Happy Life” & “Ball and Chain” 16:30 Self-Maintenance vs. Self-Love for Men 18:13 The Mantras That Are Damaging Men's Health 19:59 Words, Emotional Abuse, and the Impact on Both Genders 20:12 Words Women Say That Hurt Men 22:42 Learning to Communicate Deeper Vulnerabilities 24:18 The “Honey-Do” List and Men's Need for Peace 25:36 Practical Ways Women Can Encourage Rest & Vulnerability 26:33 Why Does a Man Ignore You When You Talk? 28:08 The Emotional “Crayon Box” Divide & Why Men Shut Down FOLLOW JASON WILSON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjasonowilson Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/MrJasonOWilson Website: https://mrjasonwilson.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are you hiding in your marriage?Do you avoid speaking your mind?About money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time?Do you get defensive with your wife?All of these symptoms are due to a fear…A fear of part of you being exposed or rejected.Learn how to overcome that fear…Through acceptance of your “Shadow…”Watch on YouTube here.And join the program to learn how to do this together.(This series is from the book The Tools https://amzn.to/42410JT )Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Send us a textWhat happens when a successful businessman who views God as merely "a hedge against going to hell" suffers a massive heart attack that leaves him paralyzed with fear each night? Eric Bucher's powerful testimony of transformation takes us from that moment of crisis to an extraordinary spiritual awakening that changed everything.After his heart attack, Eric found himself questioning life's purpose while driving to visit his critically ill father. Suddenly, he saw himself clearly—a "chrome polisher" presenting different versions of himself to different people while rusting from within. This moment of painful self-awareness led to a profound surrender on his knees, asking Jesus to either take his life or give him a new one.What followed was nine days of what Eric calls "chaotic joy"—an overwhelming emotional and spiritual experience where he felt heaven touching earth. Most remarkably, despite being new to faith, Eric received what can only be described as a supernatural download of biblical understanding, allowing him to discuss theological concepts with a depth that astonished even his Bible-studying wife.This transformation wasn't just internal. Eric immediately began putting James 1:22 into action—"Don't just be hearers of the word, go and do what it says." He founded multiple ministries, including reading scripture to elderly nursing home residents, prison outreach, and creating "Sons of Men," a father-son wilderness experience teaching intentional spiritual leadership.Throughout his testimony, Eric emphasizes how authentic community with other men has been integral to his growth, providing spaces where he can be vulnerable about his failures without fear of judgment. His story powerfully illustrates how surrender, intentionality, and brotherhood create the foundation for lasting transformation from broken to whole.Support the showWe have BIG plans at Foxhole Symphony and sure could use your financial support. Would you prayerfully consider a small monthly contribution to support us in our mission to catalyze transformation in the hearts of men? Support Our MissionFind us at:https://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw
Does your wife make you mad?When she criticizes you?When she seems to care about the kids more than you?Do you feel like just a paycheck?When we get into this negative spiral…It doesn't do us or anyone else much good.Thankfully, there IS a way out of it…A way we can feel FREE instead of TRAPPED.We can feel powerful no matter what our wife or others might be doing.Learn how in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5fciTKrrSIAnd join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
We've been studying David, a “man after God's own heart,” and how such a mighty man inspires others to Man Up! We now move to one of the most sobering stories in Scripture. Part 5 of our series examines what leads mighty men to fall.The Bible doesn't sanitize the shortcomings of our heroes. God uses imperfect men to fulfill His perfect plan of redemption. Moses had a massive anger problem, Noah had a drinking problem, and Peter had a confidence problem. We step into this story in 2 Samuel to learn from David's fall and mistakes and how to get back up and in the fight for those who have found themselves at the bottom looking up. The Anti-Principles are what not to do. These are the steps to take if we want to fall. We step into Scripture to feel the weight of David's example. This is a warning to every man.Website:www.experienceredemption.comFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/experienceredemptionInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/experienceredemption
Are you feeling “stuck” in your marriage?Do you avoid having difficult conversations?Do you avoid asking for what you want?Are you stuck in “roommate mode?”There's one big reason for the “stuck” feeling in your marriage.It's avoiding pain.It's normal to avoid the pain of a hard conversation and risking rejection.It just keeps you stuck.Learn a tool from the book The Tools how to REVERSE your desire to avoid pain…And learn to LOVE the pain that helps you grow.Watch on YouTube here.And join the program to learn how to do this together.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Former podcast guest, author of Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges Tosha Schore on how we can help boys develop healthy communication skills and learn emotional intelligence. Creating safe spaces for boys to express themselves without fear of judgment. Challenging stereotypes and normalizing diverse emotions. Modeling emotional intelligence in everyday moments. The importance of emotional work for parents. Understanding your child's emotional style and respecting boundaries. Practicing self-reflection to improve emotional parenting. Discussing emotional labor in parenting and supporting each other. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (suggested amount $15) 732-763-2576 call to leave a voicemail. info@authenticparenting.com Send audio messages using Speakpipe. Join the Authentic Parenting Community on Facebook. Work w/Anna. Listeners get 10% off her services.
Everywhere we turn, society continues to downplay the critical role of fathers. But let's make one thing clear: that's flat-out wrong. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos brings to light some shocking statistics about the devastating impact fatherlessness is having on our youth. Men, it's time to rise up, take charge, and mentor this generation that's been left without fathers. This message comes from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon.
I've recently started to take MMA lessons and I am LOVING it.Here are some of my big takeaways:-Having a strong base keeps you prepared and stable-Having a strong base in God does the same-You won't die if you take a punch-You won't die if you take an emotional punch from your wife or kids-You can be confident in caring for yourselfHear more about this and what I've been learning in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1n_NXQm5R4Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157