Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!

In Part Two of Veronika's story, Behk & LAH follow her through the exhausting and emotionally brutal reality of ongoing court battles. Despite facing relentless legal abuse from her ex—who continues to use the system as a tool for control—Veronika refuses to back down.Instead of letting the trauma define her, Veronika is reclaiming her voice and channeling her pain into action. She shares her vision for a nonprofit organization designed to support other parents navigating the same hellish terrain—those whose abusers are hiding behind custody filings and exploiting loopholes in a broken family court system.This episode is about more than survival—it's about rising, rebuilding, and refusing to let injustice win. Veronika is creating a path forward not just for herself, but for countless others trapped in the same cycle.Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of legal abuse, family court trauma, child molestation, and emotional manipulation that may be triggering for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down to share the heartbreaking and harrowing story of Veronika—one of LAH's friends—who has endured a lifetime of high-conflict men, beginning with an emotionally abusive father. That pattern carried into adulthood, culminating in an abusive relationship with the father of her three children.Veronika's experience goes beyond emotional and psychological abuse—she was drugged, raped, and manipulated by her partner, a man who continues to torment her through the legal system. Despite her attempts to create a peaceful co-parenting plan for the sake of their children, he weaponizes the court system to try and strip her of her parental rights. His motivation isn't the well-being of the kids—it's control.Join us as we explore the trauma of abuse that doesn't end when the relationship does, and the ways the family court system can be manipulated by narcissists to further harm survivors. Veronika's strength and clarity shine through in this raw and revealing episode about motherhood, resilience, and the fight to protect your children when the system seems stacked against you.Books Mentioned:How to Kill a NarcissistWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual assault, abuse, and legal manipulation that may be triggering for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, your hosts Behk and LAH sit down with a remarkable guest, Penny, whose story is a powerful reminder that breaking the cycle is possible. Penny takes us through her family's legacy of generational trauma, starting with a grandfather who led a double life—maintaining a secret second family he chillingly referred to as “the others.” His cruelty left lasting scars on his children, including Penny's father, who spent much of his life chasing an unattainable approval. In turn, Penny's father became emotionally absent in her life, leaving her to navigate the pain of emotional abandonment, even though he never physically left.But amidst the dysfunction, there was love. Penny's relationship with her mother was a deep, beautiful friendship that helped her hold on to hope. She shares how these early wounds shaped her understanding of love, identity, and parenting.Now a mother herself, Penny has rewritten the story. Through therapy, reflection, and a committed partnership with her emotionally present husband, she's raising emotionally intelligent children in a home full of empathy, trust, and open communication.This is a conversation about what it means to break the cycle, redefine love, and choose healing—even when it wasn't modeled for you. Don't miss this vulnerable and inspiring episode.Topics Covered:  The hidden costs of generational trauma  Emotional abandonment and its long-term effects  The power of maternal connection  How to raise emotionally healthy children  Rewriting your story when the past looms largeWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Cleo, whose powerful story we'll be following over time. Cleo opens up about growing up with generational trauma and the deep, healing bond she formed with her sister-in-law—a woman who became more than family. Her unexpected passing has left a painful void, one made even more difficult by the arrival of a manipulative new woman dating Cleo's brother-in-law.We explore how toxic people don't just harm their partners—they fracture families, twist narratives, and sow division in the wake of grief. Cleo shares the heartbreak of watching someone you love fall under the spell of a toxic relationship and the helplessness of trying to intervene before they're ready to face the truth.This is a story of love, loss, and the long shadow toxicity can cast—and it's just beginning. Stay tuned as we continue to follow Cleo's journey in future episodes.Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of emotional manipulation, grief, and family trauma.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a woman who believed she had found her soulmate in a 9-year relationship, only to uncover a shocking web of deceit.Discussions in this episode:Meet a listener, ShirleySeemingly perfect eight yearsShocking discovery of her partner's affairsUnraveling his pattern of serial cheatingEmotional and psychological impactJourney to healing and reclaiming her lifeComplexities of betrayal and infidelityResilience and finding strength after heartbreakShirley's world is turned upside down when she discovers that her seemingly perfect partner not only cheated on her but did so with his first cousin. As the layers of his infidelity unravel, Shirley learns he is a serial cheater, hiding numerous affairs behind a facade of loyalty.Join us as we explore Shirley's journey through love, betrayal, and the path to reclaiming her life after such a devastating revelation. This episode is a raw and honest look at the impact of infidelity and the strength it takes to overcome it.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH reconnect with a familiar face—Buddy! If you remember his whirlwind romance that ended in heartbreak, buckle up: it's been a year since the split, and Buddy is back with a fresh perspective, a lighter heart, and some hard-earned wisdom.We dive into his healing journey: the deep work of changing old patterns, finding joy in new experiences, and—most importantly—rebuilding a relationship with himself. Buddy opens up about the last conversation he had with his ex-wife and the unexpected moment of growth it revealed. He's now happily single, focused on his health, and embracing a new chapter rooted in self-awareness and strength.One powerful theme we explore in this episode is the importance of men supporting men—through open conversation, emotional honesty, and shared growth. Buddy talks about how being vulnerable with other men has helped him dismantle the toxic masculinity that often discourages emotional expression. His story is a reminder that healing isn't just personal—it's communal.In this episode, we cover:  •  What healing has looked like for Buddy over the past year  •  The power of breaking toxic patterns  •  The importance of doing things just for yourself  •  That final conversation with his ex—and the surprising clarity it brought  •  Why being "happily single" can be the healthiest place to be  •  How vulnerability and support among men is key to true healing and changeTune in for real talk, reflection, and a whole lot of inspiration.Follow Buddy: IG | FB | TikTok | bsky @brillianceproperWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join Behk and LAH on this week's episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" as they catch up on the latest, from a friend's wild holiday mishap in Europe to diving into the twists of the show "YOU." Plus, get ready for an insightful follow-up as Buddy from our recent replayed series "Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak" joins us next week to discuss the journey of healing after a year. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and plenty of unfiltered commentary!Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy's story, delving deeper into the aftermath of his whirlwind marriage. Discover the shocking reason his ex-wife ended up in jail and how this event plunged their relationship into further turmoil. Tune in to continue Buddy's emotional journey and listen to the end to hear his powerful message to men about the importance of mental health and therapy.Follow Buddy: IG | FB | TikTok @brillianceproperWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We will be back in two weeks. In this replay episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk's friend, Buddy, a man who found himself in a whirlwind romance that led to a quick marriage after just four months of dating long distance. What seemed like true love quickly turned injurious as Buddy discovered his wife's severe bipolar disorder and alcoholism. In Part 1, we explore the red flags he later realizes, leaving you with a cliffhanger that will have you eagerly awaiting the conclusion in Part 2. Tune in to hear Buddy's journey's emotional twists and turns and the harsh realities of rushing into commitment.Follow Buddy: IG | FB | TikTok @brillianceproperWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the fearless and unforgettable Amanda Arnier, host of the viral podcast The Dichotomy Diaries. Amanda was last on the show nearly a year ago, and a lot has happened since then.In Season 1 of The Dichotomy Diaries, Amanda peeled back the layers of her explosive relationship with her now ex-husband — a man who sold the world a carefully curated image of a devout, family-first Christian husband. But behind closed doors? A web of lies, secret lives, infidelity, a gambling addiction, and even male escorting. The story captivated listeners around the globe, and Amanda's unfiltered honesty quickly turned her podcast into a viral hit.Now, with Season 2 on the horizon, Amanda returns to our show to talk about:Life after the storm — healing, growing, and dating againThe unexpected ways her story resonated with thousandsWhat listeners can expect in the new season of The Dichotomy DiariesAnd the lessons she's learned about truth, trauma, and reclaiming your powerAmanda's story is a masterclass in resilience, and she's not done telling it. Buckle up for an episode full of laughter, hard truths, and some serious behind-the-scenes revelations.Listen to and follow Amanda's podcast:The Dichotomy Diaries on Spotify and Instagram If you've ever been gaslit by someone who hides behind a Bible — this one's for you.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse: emotional abuse, gaslighting, trauma, narcissistic abuse, eating disorders, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Grace, a woman whose journey through an abusive marriage and the challenges of motherhood will leave you in awe of her strength and resilience.For years, Grace endured emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of her narcissistic husband. But her world was turned upside down when he was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Instead of receiving compassion, Grace and her son were met with abandonment, as her husband withdrew from them both. The weight of this isolation became even heavier as Grace's son battled a dangerous eating disorder, a struggle that nearly cost him his life.Through this unimaginable turmoil, Grace's story unfolds, revealing the heartbreak of being rejected by her husband and the deep love she has for her son. Despite everything, Grace fought for her son's recovery, even when her husband refused to offer any support, and they were left homeless after his cruel ultimatum.This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the unwavering love of a mother, and the healing power of perseverance. Tune in as Grace shares her journey of survival, courage, and how she found the will to move forward despite the profound challenges she faced.Don't miss this emotional and inspiring conversation on how to rise from the ashes of betrayal and find a way back to hope.If you or someone you know is experiencing similar challenges, please reach out to a professional or trusted support system for help.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse: emotional abuse, gaslighting, trauma, narcissistic abuse, eating disorders, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the remarkable Jen Peters, author of Coming Home: The Path to Healing Your Inner Child. Jen opens up about her harrowing journey through trauma, resilience, and the healing process that has shaped her life and work today. Jen's memoir, Coming Home, takes us through her life story, including growing up with an alcoholic and abusive father, a traumatic gang rape in her teenage years, and the subsequent co-dependency and people-pleasing tendencies that played a major role in her toxic marriage. After escaping her abusive relationship, Jen began a deep healing journey, reconnecting with her inner child and eventually becoming a healer herself, helping others overcome their own trauma.In this episode, we dive into:Jen's personal journey: The impact of an abusive childhood and the aftermath of trauma in adulthood.Co-dependency and people-pleasing: How these tendencies often form in response to trauma and contribute to unhealthy relationships.Healing the inner child: The importance of reconnecting with the parts of ourselves that were hurt and forgotten.Resilience in the face of adversity: How Jen rebuilt her life after trauma and found strength through her healing process.Thriving after trauma: How healing is possible and how individuals can move forward to live empowered, fulfilling lives.Jen's story is a testament to the power of resilience and the possibility of healing, even after the most difficult circumstances. Whether you're navigating your own trauma or helping others through their healing journey, this episode is full of wisdom, hope, and inspiration.Thank you for tuning in. Jen's incredible story shows that healing and thriving are possible no matter the trauma. Please don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast to hear more from our inspiring guests.Heal with Jen Peters:Jen's WebsiteJen's Book: COMING HOME THE PATH TO HEALING YOUR INNER CHILDJen's Socials: Instagram YouTubeOther Books Mentioned:How to do the Work, Dr. Nicole LePera, 'The Holistic Psychologist'Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms toxic abuse; emotional and physical abuse, gaslighting, trauma, rape, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, an international guest from Geneva, Switzerland, to unpack her shocking story of deception, manipulation, and betrayal. Sarah thought she had found her dream man—a charming and successful financier who swept her off her feet. But the man she believed was her soulmate turned out to be a master manipulator, a serial cheater, and a future faker who left a trail of broken hearts across Europe.Sarah reveals how this man led a double life, frequently traveling to Ireland to care for his "ailing mother," while in reality, he was involved with multiple women and making promises of a future that would never come. His deceit went even further, as he got several women pregnant, coercing them into terminating their pregnancies. Most recently, he became romantically involved with Sarah's own foster daughter, who he had once been a father figure to, taking advantage of her when she turned 18.Throughout this episode, Sarah shares how she connected with other women across Europe whose lives have been deeply affected by this man's lies and manipulation. Many of these women, now in their late 30s, had spent years in relationships with him, believing they had a future together—only to find out they had been future-fake, losing valuable time and possibly their chance at having children.Tune in to hear Sarah's heartbreaking yet empowering story, as well as a discussion on the red flags of narcissistic behavior, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation. You'll also hear how Sarah finds healing, how to spot a future faker in your own life, and why trusting your instincts and standing up for yourself when faced with toxic relationships is crucial.Key Takeaways from This EpisodeSarah's emotional journey through being deceived by a narcissist.The tactics narcissists use to manipulate and future fake.How Sarah connected with other women who shared similar experiences.The emotional toll of being in a relationship with a narcissist or cheater.Empowering advice for moving forward and healing from toxic relationships.Don't miss this gripping episode—available wherever you get your podcasts. Remember to subscribe, rate, and review *Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!* to help others find this important conversation.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms toxic abuse; emotional and physical abuse, gaslighting, trauma, alcoholism, animal abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Elisea, aka ‘Leecy,' who bravely opens up about her painful journey through a toxic relationship that consumed much of her 20s. Leecy shares her experience with constant gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and physical assault by a friend of her ex. Her partner, who presented himself as a "good Christian guy," demanded she take on all the responsibilities of the home—despite her working full-time and being independent.Leecy dives deep into the cycle of abuse, discussing the psychological toll it took on her and how she was made to believe everything was her fault. She reflects on how the constant fighting, drinking, and twisted behavior of her ex shattered her self-esteem. But through it all, Leecy found the strength to heal.Now, as a survivor, she offers powerful advice to young women currently stuck in toxic relationships. Leecy's message is one of hope, empowerment, and resilience, as she encourages listeners to reclaim their lives and break free from harmful dynamics.This episode is a raw and real conversation about the complexities of abusive relationships and the journey toward healing. If you or someone you know is struggling, this episode is a must-listen.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms toxic abuse; emotional and physical abuse, gaslighting, trauma, alcoholism, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Jessica, a resilient woman who has overcome unimaginable childhood trauma and broken the cycles of abuse in her family. Jessica opens up about her father, an alcoholic who fathered nine children and subjected her to verbal and mental abuse while forcing her to care for her younger siblings. She shares her shocking story of learning he was her biological father at age 10 and being forced to live with him due to her mother's substance abuse disorder.Jessica speaks candidly about her journey of going no contact with her father, breaking free from the toxic patterns she was raised in, and her commitment to not repeating those cycles with her own children. She discusses her success on TikTok, where she shares her story and finds a community of people who have walked similar paths. In addition to being a dedicated mother of three, Jessica is a successful boudoir photographer who has carved out a space for herself in the creative world. Listen in as she opens up about her journey toward healing, her new life as a mom and entrepreneur, and the strength it takes to cut ties with a toxic past.Key TakeawaysJessica's experience growing up with an alcoholic and abusive father.The importance of going no contact to protect mental health and break family cycles.How Jessica navigates life as a mother of three and an entrepreneur and the lessons she's learned along the way.The power of TikTok and social media in building supportive communities and sharing personal stories.Follow Jessica:Jessica's TikTok: @fearlessboudoir IG: @fearlessboudoirportraitsWebsite: fearlessboudoirportraits.comContent Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, alcoholism, and any other topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned into a nightmare.Within a year of dating, James moved into Melanie's home, bringing along his children from a previous relationship. Despite Melanie's unwavering love and hospitality, James took advantage of her kindness, never contributing financially or helping with household responsibilities. As the world grappled with the challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic, their relationship took a sharp turn for the worse.James's alcoholism and narcissistic tendencies exacerbated the toxicity of their relationship, leaving Melanie emotionally drained and exhausted. Join us as Melanie shares her courageous journey of reclaiming her life and finding the strength to break free from the Hobosexual trap that ensnared her. This episode offers a poignant reminder of the importance of recognizing and addressing toxic relationships, even in the face of adversity.What is a hobosexual you ask? A Hobosexual is a person who gets into relationships to avoid being unhoused or being financially responsible for a home or utilities.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of alcoholism, toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with fellow podcaster Kim Davis, co-host of Slaycation, to explore her personal journey of healing from a childhood with an abusive, tyrant father. Kim opens up about how these early experiences influenced her relationships in her 20s, leading her to mirror the toxic behaviors she had learned.We dive deep into Kim's path to self-awareness, the critical role therapy played in helping her unlearn these negative patterns, and the importance of listening to your instincts. Kim shares valuable insights on staying emotionally and physically safe by not engaging with people who don't serve your well-being.This episode blends personal vulnerability with practical advice. It touches on difficult subjects like domestic abuse, toxic relationships, and the power of personal growth. We also discuss how true crime can shape our understanding of safety and the significance of trusting ourselves regarding red flags.Listen to an inspiring conversation about overcoming adversity, protecting your peace, and creating healthier relationships.Join us for this raw, candid discussion, and don't forget to subscribe for ad-free episodes.As mentioned, check out LAH's ArtContent Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this eye-opening episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Charlotte Rivers, a brave woman who shares her unsettling experience within the gaming community, which was marred by toxic masculinity. Charlotte takes us through her journey of finding a supportive, inclusive gaming community—only for it to be shattered by rampant sexism and harassment.Charlotte opens up about her experience with a local gaming store owner who crossed boundaries with inappropriate comments and even coerced her into an uncomfortable back rub. When Charlotte stood up for herself, she was banned from both the store and the wider gaming community. Even worse, no one came to her defense, and she was left to face the fallout alone.The conversation takes a darker turn when Charlotte explains how, after leaving a truthful review of the store, the owner and his wife launched an online smear campaign against her. They accused her of cheating on her deployed husband and even threatened her.This episode is a sobering reminder of the importance of calling out toxic behavior, especially when it comes from men who have the power to protect or harm women in these spaces. We discuss how the gaming world—and society at large—needs men to step up and challenge harmful behavior when they see it, rather than stay silent.Charlotte's strength and resilience in the face of this injustice are truly inspiring. Listen in to hear how she fought back and how we can all work together to create safer, more respectful environments for everyone.Join us for this raw conversation, and don't forget to subscribe for more episodes of real talk on toxic behavior, safety, and standing up for yourself.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Growing up with a covert narcissistic mother, Michelle was conditioned to accept toxic relationships—leading her to marry a covert narcissistic husband. For years, she carried the weight of the relationship, handling everything on her own while seeking therapy to heal. When she finally recognized the patterns of manipulation and emotional abuse, she decided enough was enough. In this episode, Michelle shares her powerful journey of standing up for herself, breaking free, and creating a healthier future for her daughter. Tune in for an inspiring story of resilience, healing, and breaking generational cycles.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we sit down with Alice, who shares her compelling and heart-wrenching journey from growing up in a family with a special needs brother to navigating a marriage marked by narcissism, selfishness, and infidelity. Alice's story sheds light on the emotional toll of being in a relationship where one partner refuses to grow up, leaving the other to shoulder the weight of responsibility.Alice opens up about her childhood, where her family's focus was largely on her brother, leaving her feeling isolated and socially limited. As an escape, she turned to online gaming, where she met the man who would eventually become her husband. From the start, his immaturity and extreme selfishness were apparent, but Alice was determined to make things work.Throughout their marriage, Alice worked tirelessly to support their small family, balancing school, housework, and financial responsibilities. Despite her dedication, she repeatedly discovered signs of betrayal: inappropriate online relationships and explicit images on his phone. Alice's resilience was tested time and again as she tried to keep everything together, but eventually, after nine years of marriage, she found the strength to leave.Join Behk and LAH as they dive deep into Alice's story, unpacking the dynamics of narcissism, gaslighting, and infidelity, and how Alice broke free from years of emotional turmoil to rebuild her life. This episode is a powerful reminder that healing and self-empowerment are possible, even after years of emotional neglect and betrayal.Tune in for a raw and inspiring conversation on surviving toxic relationships and reclaiming your life!Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic behavior, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Rena, who discusses her shocking and emotional experience with Pitre, a man who seemed perfect on the surface but was hiding a darker side.Rena met Pitre while they were both bartenders, and he charmed her with his affection, making her feel like the center of his world. Everyone loved him — her family, friends, and coworkers. But behind closed doors, Pitre was battling a severe drinking problem that spiraled out of control. His addiction led to lies, financial mismanagement, and emotional manipulation that slowly eroded their relationship.As the wedding day approached, Rena realized she couldn't move forward with a man who had been deceiving her. Just weeks before the big day, she bravely decided to call off their wedding. Tune in as Rena opens up about how she found the strength to walk away and what she learned from her time with Pitre.This episode is a powerful reminder that sometimes the hardest decisions are the ones that lead to the most healing.Don't miss this raw, insightful conversation that highlights the importance of trusting your instincts and protecting your peace!Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic behavior, alcoholism, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome back to Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!—we're back with regular programming and we've got a powerful episode to kick things off! Hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Katie, a woman who's been through the emotional wringer in relationships that seemed to repeat the same painful patterns.In this raw and revealing conversation, Katie opens up about her marriage to an ex-husband who was emotionally checked out, cheated, and even refused to attend the birth of their third child. She shares the deep anxiety and self-doubt that grew in her as she tried to make sense of a marriage with someone who didn't show up, emotionally or physically.Katie then takes us through her first relationship after the divorce—one that, at first, seemed promising but soon mirrored the emotional neglect she'd experienced before. With a partner who traveled often, refused to validate her feelings, and consistently shut down when she opened up about her triggers and past trauma, Katie's struggle to find support continued.This episode is a deep dive into how emotional neglect and narcissistic behavior can warp your sense of self, and the repetitive patterns that can show up in relationships when healing is still a work in progress. Join us for this intimate, vulnerable, and empowering conversation—because breaking the cycle starts with recognizing it.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After a brief holiday hiatus, hosts Behk and LAH are back and ready to dive into the new year with fresh energy! In this return episode, they share exciting updates about the podcast and announce they'll be back with full episodes next week. The duo reflects on their own New Year's resolutions and intentions for 2025, discussing how to set meaningful goals for growth and healing. They also talk about practical tips for managing seasonal depression, offering listeners strategies to stay grounded and positive during the colder months. Tune in for a heartfelt and motivational episode to kickstart the year with self-care and empowerment!Mentioned in the Episode:The Cozy Babes Club Kloee TaylorHeartbreak to Wholeness: Untangle the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships Bre WoltaContent Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the season two finale of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH go deeper than ever as Behk shares the story that started it all — her very first encounter with a narcissist. At just 15 years old, Behk found herself in a toxic relationship with a 21-year-old man she met online. What began as a seemingly innocent connection soon unraveled into a web of manipulation and harm, leaving scars that would impact her and others for decades.Joined by her best friend as a special guest, Behk revisits the ripple effects of this early trauma, the permanent marks it left, and the shocking revelation she uncovered after reaching out to a recent ex of her abuser. Over the years, this man's behavior has only escalated, combining substance abuse and worsening mental health issues to become a significant danger.The conversation takes an even more personal turn as Behk's best friend opens up about her own experience with a narcissistic relationship, one tied to Behk's. Together, they discuss the red flags they wish they had recognized, the importance of breaking the silence, and the power of sharing your story to help others find healing.This season finale is an emotional and empowering episode you won't want to miss. Tune in for a raw, honest, and ultimately hopeful conversation about survival, resilience, and reclaiming your voice.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH reflect on the podcast's journey through season two, celebrating the milestones, growth, and incredible community support they've seen this year. They share behind-the-scenes stories, listener feedback, and how the show's success has exceeded their wildest expectations.As a teaser for the much-anticipated season finale, Behk gives a glimpse into a personal story she's never fully shared before—a relationship she had as a teenager with an older man she met online. The full story will unravel in the next episode, with a special guest joining her for an eye-opening discussion. Don't miss this candid wrap-up and a preview of what's coming in the season finale!Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In part two of Emily's story, Behk and LAH reveal the powerful conclusion to her journey through a toxic relationship and the hold of her manipulative mother-in-law. After noticing unusual phone records and suspicious bank charges, Emily discovered her husband Tom's infidelity. This painful revelation led her to confront the reality of her marriage and lean on her family, who rallied around her when she needed them most. With unwavering support from close friends, Emily found the strength to walk away and ultimately chose divorce. Now, she's embracing a path of healing, self-discovery, and renewal. Join us as we conclude Emily's story with reflections on resilience, support, and reclaiming her life.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH dive into the complex dynamics of a marriage marked by control and manipulation. Guest Emily shares the beginning of her journey with her military ex-husband, whom she met at 22 before moving across the country to start a new life with him. As she settled in, Emily quickly encountered her toxic mother-in-law—a woman determined to maintain control over her 27-year-old son and create drama to keep herself at the center of his world. Emily describes the early warning signs and red flags in her husband and his mother, shedding light on their shared narcissistic traits.Emily opens up about her own family background, explaining how those early experiences may have conditioned her to overlook the red flags her husband displayed. This episode sets the stage for Part 2, where Emily will explore the unraveling of her marriage and the deeper psychological impact of these relationships.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we sit down with Nicole and A, two passionate Facebook group admins who set out to create a haven for like-minded crunchy women seeking support, empowerment, and camaraderie in a Southern town. Their intentions were pure, their vision radiant – to cultivate a positive and loving online and in-person community where women could thrive together and find a healthy lifestyle for their families in the deep-fried south.But as we all know, even the most idyllic landscapes can fall prey to a single rotten apple. In this case, that rotten apple was one toxic and deceitful individual who disrupted the harmony that Nicole and A had worked so hard to foster. Join us as we explore the journey of these two admins, the highs, the lows, and the heartbreaking downfall of a community that was torn apart by the actions of one toxic person.They'll share the warning signs that went unnoticed, the challenges faced by Nicole and A, and the devastating consequences of toxicity within a supportive group. This episode serves as a cautionary tale for online community leaders and members alike, reminding us of the fragility of even the most well-intentioned spaces.Tune in to "One Rotten Apple" as we reflect on how a vision of empowerment and love can take an unexpected turn, leaving us to ponder the age-old question: Can the actions of one truly spoil the goodness of many? Oh my, let's get into it.Discussions in this episode:How it beganThe warning signsThe devastation of toxicityLingering anxietyLessons learnedContent Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic behavior, loss of life, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH welcome friend Steven, whose story is a rollercoaster of love, betrayal, and transformation. Steven opens up about his tumultuous relationship with his ex-boyfriend of several years, a love story that began at Nashville's former after-hours club, Kiss. What seemed like a fairy tale eventually turned into a nightmare, as Steven discovered years of infidelity, compounded by his ex's meth addiction, constant gaslighting, and domestic abuse. Blinded by love and in deep denial, Steven struggled to accept what was happening behind his back.Now, Steven is fully immersed in his healing journey after spending some time single. He's embraced a new chapter of his life, living joyfully and authentically in a gay campground community. Tune in as we talk about Steven's path to rediscovering himself, the lessons he learned, and how he's now living a life brimming with happiness.Listen in for a raw, honest, yet funny conversation about resilience, self-love, and finding joy after heartbreak.Follow Steven on his socials for laughs and tons of fun:TikTok InstagramThreadsFacebookX/TwitterYouTubeHis website (Coming the end of October)https://congruentlyqueer.comThe Gay Campgroundhttps://mywhisperingoaks.orgWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, drug addiction, domestic violence, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special Halloween edition, Bekh and LAH break from their usual format to bring you all the spooky fall vibes! They kick things off by sharing their favorite autumn activities, from nature walks and pumpkin pies to cozy simmer pots! The episode gets a little creepier as the hosts dive into some personal ghost stories—prepare to be chilled! A special guest joins the show to read a haunting creepypasta story that will give you goosebumps! So light a candle, grab a blanket, and settle in for some spine-tingling fun. This episode is packed with spooky, cozy goodness!Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Bethanie shares her deeply personal story of surviving an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship. She recounts the gaslighting, constant accusations of infidelity, and the overwhelming pressure to handle 100% of the home and childcare—including raising twin boys—while her ex-partner retreated to his own room. The conversation highlights the ingrained misogynistic and patriarchal expectations placed on her, but Bethanie's resilience shines through. With a mix of humor and insight, she opens up about the lasting effects of his control and how trauma therapy has helped her reclaim her life and joy. Bethanie's story is heartbreaking and inspiring, offering hope to anyone navigating their own path to healing.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic abuse, toxic abuse, alcoholism, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this lighthearted episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into a fun conversation about all things autumn. From the spiritual significance of the autumn equinox and Mabon to their favorite Halloween movies, they share what makes this season so magical. The two also dish on their recent experience as guests on Bre Wolta's podcast, reflecting on what it's like to share their story on someone else's platform. Wrapping up the episode, they give listeners a sneak peek into what's ahead for Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! as the fall season unfolds.Listen to Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangle the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic RelationshipsHave a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Amanda, who bravely opens up about her personal journey through polyamorous relationships and the unique challenges of navigating co-parenting with three different fathers. Amanda's story highlights the complexities of love and relationships, as well as the strength it takes to confront her mistakes, patterns, and growth.Through her raw honesty and reflection, Amanda shows that healing and self-awareness are possible, even in the face of difficult choices. Her journey is a powerful testament to owning your truth, learning from the past, and doing better for the future. This episode offers profound insights into the resilience of the human spirit, the power of self-discovery, and the importance of healing.Tune in for an inspiring conversation, and share this episode with anyone who may benefit from Amanda's story. Stay tuned for more empowering stories in future episodes!We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic abuse, toxic abuse, alcoholism, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, a true survivor in every sense of the word. After conquering cancer, Sarah faced another battle—one that left scars far deeper than her illness. Amid the liver complications caused by her treatment, she found herself in a toxic relationship with Bud, a man who embodied everything she never thought she'd accept. An alcoholic and emotionally and physically abusive partner, Bud pulled Sarah into a downward spiral at a time when she was already at her most vulnerable.Join us as Sarah bravely shares her journey of surviving cancer, enduring the pain of abuse, and ultimately finding the strength to reclaim her self-worth. This is a story of resilience, heartbreak, and the incredible power of survival.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic abuse, toxic abuse, alcoholism, sex addiction, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special expert POV episode of "NGC, Oh My!", we welcome Bre Wolta, founder of Lucid Living and host of the podcast Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangle the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships. Bre brings her deep expertise and compassionate insights to help us navigate the complex dynamics of narcissistic relationships.Join us as we dive into the tangled web of manipulation, control, and emotional turmoil that defines these toxic connections. Bre shares her personal journey of healing and the powerful tools she developed to reclaim self-worth and find wholeness. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and break free from the cycle of narcissistic abuse. Whether you're in the midst of a challenging relationship or on the path to recovery, Bre's wisdom will provide clarity, support, and hope.Tune in and take the first step towards untangling your mind and finding your way back to yourself!Bre Wolta is a Relationship Clarity Coach and a Certified Practitioner in Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) + The Clearing Work™ Learn more on her website at www.brewolta.comListen to her podcast: Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangle the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic RelationshipsFind her on these social platforms IG/FB/TikTok: @lucid.living.with.breWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of narcissistic abuse, toxic abuse, alcoholism, sex addiction, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy's story, delving deeper into the aftermath of his whirlwind marriage. Discover the shocking reason his ex-wife ended up in jail and how this event further impacted their already tumultuous relationship. Tune in to continue Buddy's emotional journey and listen to the end to hear his powerful message to men about the importance of mental health and therapy.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk's friend, Buddy, a man who found himself in a whirlwind romance that led to a quick marriage after just four months of dating long distance. What seemed like true love quickly turned into a nightmare as Buddy discovered his wife's severe bipolar disorder and alcoholism. In Part 1, we explore the red flags he later realizes, leaving you with a cliffhanger that will have you eagerly awaiting the conclusion in Part 2. Tune in to hear Buddy's journey's emotional twists and turns and the harsh realities of rushing into commitment.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect; no names and little descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH dive into the latest updates, tackling a mix of current events and personal life stories with their signature charm and wit. Join them as they reveal exciting upcoming guests who will be sharing their incredible journeys and insights.Please bear with us as we navigate the ups and downs, and thank you so much for tuning in. We truly appreciate your support!We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, infidelity, sexual abuse, drug addiction, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk's friend, Sam, about her courageous 13-year journey through an abusive, toxic marriage with an addict and diagnosed narcissist ex-husband. Through her incredible strength and determination, Sam not only survived but thrived in the aftermath.Episode HighlightsThe Early Years: Exploring the beginnings of the relationship.The Descent into Abuse and Addiction: Understanding the growing challenges.Breaking Point and Seeking Help: Sam's turning point and her steps to find support.The Journey to Healing: Navigating the path to recovery and healing.Empowerment and Self-Discovery: Sam's journey to reclaim her life and identity.Moving Forward: Lessons learned and the road ahead.Sam's story is a testament to resilience and the capacity for healing. It reminds us that it's never too late to break free from toxic relationships and find our path to happiness and self-discovery. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse or addiction, please seek help and support. You are not alone.Thank you for tuning in to Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! If you found this episode inspiring, please share it with others who may benefit from Sam's journey to healing. Stay tuned for more uplifting stories of triumph over adversity in future episodes.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, infidelity, sexual abuse, drug addiction, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!", co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into Lauren's harrowing tale of her ex-boyfriend, Jason, who later referred to himself as Mr. Sexual. The story takes a dark turn when Jason reveals his hidden kinks much later in their relationship and forces Lauren to participate against her will. But that's not all — Lauren's experience goes beyond just the unveiling of Jason's secrets.Join Behk and LAH as they explore the complexities of manipulation, the impact of coerced consent, and the red flags that often go unnoticed until it's too late. This episode sheds light on the dark side of relationships and the importance of recognizing and standing against toxic behavior.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, infidelity, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into the harrowing tale of Kate and her ex-boyfriend, Justin. Kate opens up about her relationship with Justin, who secretly spiraled into meth addiction without her knowledge. As his addiction worsened, bizarre and unsettling events unfolded, leaving Kate in a state of confusion and fear. Join us as we unravel Kate's story, exploring the impact of addiction on relationships and the strange twists that accompanied Justin's descent. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that highlights the importance of awareness and self-care in the face of unexpected challenges.Tune in for an intense and emotional journey through the complexities of love, trust, and the dark side of addiction.Content Warning: This episode discusses drug addiction and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.If you feel like you or anyone you know is showing signs of drug abuse or addiction please call the American Addiction Center at 877-768-9614 or sign up for confidential and free 24/7/365 text support through the website.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this heartfelt kid-friendly episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH bring a unique and touching perspective to the table as LAH dives into a special conversation with Behk's 11-year-old daughter. Through her youthful eyes, she shares her insights on toxic relationships, drawing from stories of her schoolmates and the memorable 5th-grade dance where many of her friends ended up crying over boys.Topics Discussed:Behk & LAH banterMeet Behk's DaughterStrangers OnlineWhat healthy relationships look likeConsentGaslightingBulliesEqualityBoundariesRed FlagsImportance of communicatingKind celebrities5th Grade Dance DramaAppropriate dating ageWith a mix of enthusiasm and wisdom, Behk's daughter shines a light on the importance of focusing on fun and friendship rather than the drama of boyfriends and girlfriends at such a young age. Her candid reflections and positive message remind kids to enjoy their childhood and not let relationship woes overshadow the joy of events like school dances.Tune in for an episode filled with laughter, genuine moments, and valuable lessons from a child's perspective on navigating the complexities of growing up and toxic relationships.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with their friend, Charlie, who found herself in a web of toxic friendships and in a marriage with a woman growing in the opposite direction. Married in their twenties, our protagonist and her spouse began to drift apart as the pressures of maintaining a certain lifestyle mounted. Surrounded by a friend group that could be cast in a real-life "Mean Girls" saga, she struggled to meet her partner's ever-growing demands, all while never receiving the basic love and affection she so desperately needed.Topics Discussed:Meet CharlieYoung LoveLifestyle PressuresMean Girl FriendshipsImportance of Self-Worth & AuthenticityHealing and Growing toward a Better FutureJoin Behk and LAH as they explore the emotional turmoil of trying to please everyone in a world where mean girls reign supreme. They'll discuss the impact of toxic friendships on romantic relationships and the heartbreaking journey of seeking validation and love from someone who can't or won't provide it. This episode sheds light on the difficult balance between external pressures and internal desires, and the painful reality of love lost in a mean girl haze.Tune in for a raw and relatable discussion that underscores the importance of self-worth and the courage to break free from toxic ties to heal and grow positively.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, infidelity, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode (2 of 2), co-host LAH picks up her story after year one of her tumultuous relationship. Sitting down once again with her co-host, Behk, LAH dives deep into the emotional roller coaster, financial problems, and sexual trauma that marked her married years. She shares the highs and lows, the moments of hope and despair, and the ongoing struggle to break free from a toxic cycle. Join LAH and Behk as they navigate the complexities of surviving and healing from such profound challenges.Topics Discussed:LGBTQ+ marriageToxic family dynamicsCouples financesSexual coercionLAH's healing journeyJoin LAH and Behk as they explore the complexities of codependency and the impact of childhood trauma. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with similar issues or looking to understand the dynamics of toxic relationships better.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.JOIN OUR FACEBOOK GROUPContent Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, drug addiction, child neglect, child molestation, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode (1 of 2), co-host LAH sits down with her co-host, Behk, to share a deeply personal story. LAH opens up about her childhood trauma and how it shaped her adult relationships. She briefly delves into her childhood, recounting experiences that led her into an 8-year codependent and toxic relationship with an addict.Topics Discussed:Disclaimer of all disclaimersWho is LAH?LAH's childhoodLAH's first long-term relationshipCocaine bluesJoin LAH and Behk as they explore the complexities of codependency and the impact of childhood trauma. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with similar issues or looking to understand the dynamics of toxic relationships better.We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, drug addiction, child neglect, child molestation, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH welcome the incomparable Dyson, also known by her stage name, Trinity Monroe. A two-time title-holding drag queen, Dyson joins us in the studio to share his remarkable journey through the world of drag performance.Topics Discussed:How Behk celebrates Pride Month with LGBTQ+ friendsWhere do we find Soul Minor's Daughter music?Renaissance Fair and spittin' fairiesThe younger DRAG generationKeeping old-school DRAG aliveHistory of DRAG and William ShakespeareThe bad rap DRAG gets from some “straight” folkThe effects of having to grow up masking who you areLosing family and friends to AIDSWhy do some parents not accept their gay kids?About Trinity MonroeRemembering Bianca PaigeMessage from DysonFrom starting out in the vibrant yet challenging drag scene of 1980s Nashville to rising as a celebrated performer, Dyson's story is one of resilience and passion. He opens up about his experiences with the elder gays who paved the way, the profound loss of friends and lovers to AIDS, and the transformative power of performing drag.Join us for an intimate conversation that dives deep into the highs and lows of a drag performer's life, the evolving landscape of the LGBTQ+ community, and the enduring spirit of those who perform in the face of adversity.Tune in for a tribute to the art of drag, the memories of those we've lost, and the enduring fight for acceptance and equality.Don't miss this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! – it's one you'll carry with you long after the final curtain call.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, AIDS, child molestation, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Behk and LAH welcome a dear friend from their early twenties, John, to share his compelling and raw story from an LGBTQ+ perspective. Join us as John opens up about his tumultuous journey through a toxic relationship with a successful and influential partner who helped open doors for him in the theater world.Topics Discussed:Behk runs into a fan adjacent in the wildMeet Behk's bestie, JohnA lesbian, a gay guy, and a witch walk into a barJohn talks about his toxic relationship with “the greatest showman”Understanding the narc is a conundrumStarting overThe Stephen Baldwin StoryWhile navigating the complexities of a power dynamic that often left him feeling overshadowed, John balanced his own ambitious endeavors—running for office and launching a non-profit in Africa. At the peak of his game, instead of receiving support, John faced manipulation and betrayal. His narcissistic partner employed various tactics to steal the spotlight and even cheated on him, adding layers of emotional turmoil to an already challenging situation.Naturally woven into the conversation, the trio's ADHD veers them off into a series of fun topics and wild stories from their youth, reminiscing about the carefree days and the adventures they shared.Tune in for a heartfelt and candid discussion blends introspection with nostalgia, and eye-opening insights, shedding light on the complexities of love and friendship.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special collaboration episode, Behk & LAH of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" sit down with Amanda Arnier, the insightful host of "The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast." Together, they explore emotional intricacies in relationships, focusing on the challenges of dealing with narcissists and toxic people. Topics Discussed:Meet Amanda Arnier of the podcast, The Dichotomy DiariesTrust – is it earned or a gift?Why Amanda started “The Dichotomy Diaries” podcastThe importance of sharing our storiesThe case of DickThe dual mothership theory by Dr. VakninWe're Carl JungiansAttachmentsAmanda's healing journeyWhat's next for “The Dichotomy Diaries?”Amanda brings her unique perspective from "The Dichotomy Diaries," where she recounts her relationship with Dick and shares the experiences of other women who were also involved with him. This episode discusses the complexities of narcissists, strategies for navigating toxic dynamics, and the importance of sharing these stories for healing.Please tune in for an intimate and revealing dialogue that offers a deeper understanding of Amanda's mission and the powerful stories she shares with her audience.Subscribe and listen to "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" and "The Dichotomy Diaries" on your favorite podcast platforms. Don't forget to rate, review, and share! Book mentioned in this episode:The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Values, and Spiritual Growth by M. Scott Peck M.D.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a woman who believed she had found her soulmate in an 8-year relationship, only to uncover a shocking web of deceit. Discussions in this episode:Meet a listener, ShirleySeemingly perfect eight yearsShocking discovery of her partner's affairsUnraveling his pattern of serial cheatingEmotional and psychological impactJourney to healing and reclaiming her lifeComplexities of betrayal and infidelityResilience and finding strength after heartbreakShirley's world is turned upside down when she discovers that her seemingly perfect partner not only cheated on her but did so with his first cousin. As the layers of his infidelity unravel, Shirley learns he is a serial cheater, hiding numerous affairs behind a facade of loyalty.Join us as we explore Shirley's journey through love, betrayal, and the path to reclaiming her life after such a devastating revelation. This episode is a raw and honest look at the impact of infidelity and the strength it takes to overcome it.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, drug use, incest, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH take a break from the heavy and dive into a whirlwind of ADHD-fueled topics, from holler goblins, men who just don't get it, to our favorite songs from Taylor's The Tortured Poets Department album.Discussions in this episode:What is sassy water?The 5th-grade dance dramaUpcoming guestsCorporate event butt sketch artistsThe Kinky Renaissance FairHave you ever heard of the Holler Goblins?Harry the BigfootFuck venomous snakes!Bear vs Man in the WoodsThe clueless guyTaylor Swift and TTPDYou can tune in to this episode for a rollercoaster ride of topics, sprinkled with lots of laughter.The Podcasts, Docu-Series, and Documentaries Behk mentioned:HellierThe UnbindingGreg & Dana Haunted PodcastFinding BigfootContent Warning: This episode discusses snakes and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to be a guest and share your story on the pod or do you have a question for us to share and answer on one of our banter episodes? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we delve into the harrowing story of Jodi, whose life took a dark turn when she entered a relationship with a friend. Thinking she knew him well after five years of acquaintance, she never imagined the horror that awaited her.Discussions in this Episode:Bloody Noses and TornadoesMeet a listener, JodiJohn moves in, turns out to be a nightmareGets Jodi hooked on methPolice frequently visit her homeJohn ignores protective ordersDrains Jodi's life in 10 monthsSons sense troubleJodi struggles to break freeTherapy and support help her regain strengthJodi starts to reclaim her life and find happiness againInitially charming, he quickly turned into her worst nightmare. An audacious narcissist, he manipulated her with ease, saying all the right things to gain her trust. After letting him move into her home upon his release from jail, things spiraled out of control. He got her hooked on methamphetamine, and soon police became frequent visitors to her once peaceful home.Despite protective orders, he refused to leave, leaving Jodi trapped in a living nightmare. In just 10 months, he managed to drain her of life, both mentally and financially. Even her sons sensed something was deeply wrong, though shielded from the worst of his abuse.Overcoming manipulation, addiction, and the constant threat of danger, she finally managed to escape. But the battle wasn't over; it was just beginning. The process of healing and rebuilding her life was slow and painful. Therapy and support became her lifeline as she worked to regain her strength and sense of self. It is a journey filled with setbacks and challenges, but gradually, Jodi starts to reclaim her life.Join us as we explore Jodi's journey from trust to betrayal, shedding light on the insidious nature of methamphetamine addiction and the devastating impact it can have on lives, especially when coupled with the manipulation of an audacious narcissist.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, drug use, domestic violence, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Help us keep the show going on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.