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Bomber and Belle are a Black married professional couple that has embraced the sexy swinger lifestyle. They use this podcast to help other Black couples who are thinking about exploring non-monogamy or have already dared to traverse the swinger lifestyle

The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast


    • Mar 26, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
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    Latest episodes from The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast

    Episode 77: So your wife is into Black guys, Black porn wishes, and the final season of BNK

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 64:09


    Bomber and Belle give a recap of their experiences at Secret Hideaways in Florida. They also talk about the greatness of portraying true Black culture in porn and share why they will be ending the show this year.

    Black N Sex: "We're here to beat everybody's a$$" feat. the Black & Kinky DC crew

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2023 46:53


    As part of our Black N Sex, Black History Month series we are happy to feature Black & Kinky DC, who host events, educational classes and safe spaces for BIPOC individuals in the kink community. Find Black & Kinky DC on IG at blackandkinky_DC or fetlife at fetlife.com/groups/21427 POCKLE.org for more resources for BIPOC kinksters Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

    Black N Sex: Fake news, sexual colonialism and polycules featuring Gabrielle Alexa Noel

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2023 35:11


    As part of our Black N Sex, Black History Month series we are happy to feature Gabrielle Alexa Noel. Check out at Website: https://gabalexa.com/ Twitter: @gabalexa Full table talk episode on Polyamory: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=904644817023031 IG:https://www.instagram.com/gabalexa/ You can buy her book: How to Live With the Internet and Not Let It Run Your Life https://www.amazon.com/How-Live-Internet-Your-Life/dp/1922417033 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

    Black N Sex: Black strippers, pole dancing and making it rain with Aspen

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2023 45:10


    In this episode we sit down with Aspen, a sexy erotic dancer, to talk about pole dancing. Check her out at: Heartfeltmovement.com IG: Only_aspen511_ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

    Black N Sex: Black doms, sex educators and other freaks in Arizona with Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 43:48


    We are honored to have Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses on the show to talk about their expo of Black sex positive content creators, educators and performers. They discuss some of the work they do in providing critical opportunities for collaboration in the Black community in Phoenix AZ. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp For more information about Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses, check out the links below. https://www.facebook.com/omgoddesses20 https://www.omgoddesses.com/ https://twitter.com/omgoddesses https://www.instagram.com/omgoddesses20/

    Episode 76: Poly need a swinger, involuntary cucks, and mythical judgement free zones

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2023 61:37


    Belle and Bomber discuss a few things that ya'll hope gets left in 2022 as we settle into the new year. We talk about claims about judgement free zones, slut shaming, and whether we should leave all inhibitions behind. Mentions in this episode. Check out Kendra's youtube channel if you want to see what's out there in the dating world https://www.youtube.com/@KendraGMedia. Check out her interview with Parish; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCTZdYRUuiU&list=RDLVTCTZdYRUuiU&start_radio=1&rv=TCTZdYRUuiU&t=33 Learn more about Parish on IG @plateofpleasure Hitlist: Sheria Irving Lori Harvey Recommended books; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson The Heart of Dominance: a guide to practicing consensual dominance Anton Fulmen The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp Patreon: www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 75: The good, the bad and the nasty of 2022.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2022 58:48


    Topic: Belle and Bomber talk about their sexy highlights of 2022. But this year had some bullsh*t come with it too. Mentions Bulls & Queens Podcast Livin the Suite Life podcast Wanderlust Swingers Two hot wives Check out our Black n Sex series of 2022: Black Queens Vs. Black Bulls featuring Bulls and Queens Podcast Duchess Cashmere Meshai from Expansive Connection Jehn from Monogamish Pod JA from the I Hearddd podcast

    Episode 74: Halloween Parties, Swinger Horror Stories And Sexy Wakandans

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2022 61:05


    Belle and Bomber talk about their recent experiences attending two very different Lifestyle Halloween Parties. They also meet up with a newbie couple and realize how rusty they are in popping cherries. Bomber talks about how Black lifestyle parties they have attended have not taken advantage of the limitless Black cultural themes available. The sequel to the classic Black Panther was dope and we talk about how Lupita and Angela out did themselves in terms of acting and overall sexiness. Mentions: Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Two hot wives: https://2hotwives.com/2hotwives-podcast/ep/ Coastal lovers: https://www.instagram.com/coastalloversdmv/ Wanderlust swingers: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

    Episode 73: Two wives one Daddy--Poly Triads

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2022 69:38


    Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about triads with two wives one man Hitlist: Jamie Clayton https://www.them.us/story/hellraiser-2022-review-jamie-clayton-pinhead Ram Charan https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ram_Charan Mentions Swingtown blog:https://blog.swingtowns.com/polyamory/adding-third/ Nypost article: https://nypost.com/2022/10/08/nyc-judge-rules-in-favor-of-polyamorous-relationships/ Portah family: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CjWzYxMoxGc/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode72: Black swingers in the armed forces. Featuring ATL and Chi.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2022 83:42


    In this episode the Belle and Bomber discuss their thoughts on why so many Black veterans and military personnel are in the lifestyle. We talk to ATL and Chi, who both retired from the Airforce, on their lifestyle journey. Hitlist Tanerelle: https://tanerelle.com/ Steve Toussaint: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0869750/?ref_=tt_cl_t_9 Mentions: Duchess Cashmere: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cashmere-room/id1519835706 Swinging Flamingos: http://www.swingingflamingos.com/ Urban Swingers: https://www.instagram.com/urbanswingersxls/?hl=en

    Episode 71: Why didn't you shoot your shot?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2022 68:01


    Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle share reasons why people dont shoot their shot in the lifestyle. Hitlist: Tati Grabrielle: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm6616259/ Tyler lepley: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4495842/ Mentions The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362 Swinger university: https://swingeruniversity.com/ Monogamish Marriage: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-monogamish-marriage/id1586549659 Duchess Cashmere: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cashmere-room/id1519835706 Swinger help: https://swingershelp.com/swinging-tips-for-shy-women/ Average Swingers: http://www.averageswingers.com/as151-shroomed/ Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

    Episode 70: Swinger tunnel vision, multi-orgasmic men and why Black people don't like “c*ck”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2022 70:36


    Show notes— Topic of the day: Swinger tunnel vision, multi-orgasmic men and why Black people don't like “c*ck” If only we all had the attention scale and span of the Belle. The Bomber certainly does not and he knows he is not alone. Swinger tunnel vision is when you are focused on a single experience or goal in a way that blocks reason, caution and the recognition of alternative opportunities. The Benefit is that you can really get what you want out of a lifestyle experience that you tried really hard to get. The cost is that you may come off rude and may close yourself off from other experiences that could have turned out so much better. Hitlist: Usher: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up8ODGFWgFg May Calamawy: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2790595/ From Moon KNIGHT not Moon Light like I said on the show. Mentions Tribe Chat: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCosg3Ug0sTKTF8XW9nmhLNw The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362 Lovers and Friends Podcast on Male Egos: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS85SGdqTV9ycg/episode/ZTRkNGU0MDEtYmIxMi00NzJiLWJjYmUtNjQ4OWViNDc0ZTVj?hl=en&ved=2ahUKEwi-46Hgv_34AhUsEmIAHWWED6gQjrkEegQIAxAI&ep=6 Urban Swingers: https://www.facebook.com/urbanswingersxls/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

    Episode 69: Orgasms on the dance floor, Belle goes commando and other PCAP color pop madness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 66:59


    Show notes Topic of the day: Orgasms on the dance floor, belle goes commando and other PCAP color pop madness. Belle and Bomber talk about what they learned after attending Podcast-a-Palooza for the third time. Facebook Fuckshit: What happens when your husband leaves you for your sister. If you want all the details from PCAP, sign up for our patreon! https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Urban Swingers Cabin Fever Linktr.ee/urbanswingers PCAP content creators referenced: Wanderlust swingers: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/ Average Swingers: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/average-swingers/id537110554 Casual Swingers: https://casualswinger.com/ 4 our play: https://4ourplay.com/ 2 Hot Wives: https://2hotwives.com/ Bed hoppers: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Swinger University: https://swingeruniversity.com/ Life of Spice: https://www.tiktok.com/@life_of_spice?lang=en Tequila that you can sip: https://tequila3030cristalino.com/ Hitlist Stephanie Hsu https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3513533/ Joel Kim Booster https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5527841/?ref_=tt_cl_t_1

    Episode 68: When is asking not sexy? And other complicated questions about consent.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 87:32


    Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about where podcast-a-palooza sits in the limitless lifestyle events you might be considering attending. They also go into the gray areas of consent in the lifestyle and beyond. Hitlist: June Diane Raphael & Alexis Floyd Show notes— Episode shoutouts: Tribe Chat: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCosg3Ug0sTKTF8XW9nmhLNw Wanderlust Swingers: https://beacons.ai/wanderlustswingers Ask: Building a culture of consent by Kitty Stryker We gotta thing podcast: https://wegottathing.com/ S.T.O. The Smoker's Lounge: https://anchor.fm/smokethisova Swinger University: http://swingeruniversity.com Swinger help survey: surveymonkey.com/r/JK55M2F Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky PCAP https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BNK Past PCAP RECAPS https://soundcloud.com/bomber-belle/episode-63-podcast-a-palooza-encore-recap?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing https://soundcloud.com/bomber-belle/episode-58-pcap-recap-cake-farting-and-just-for-dinner?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp

    Episode 67: Epic a$$ house parties and sexy getaways featuring Urban Swingers

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 73:35


    Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about their house party experience with the Two Hotwives podcast and have a chat with Urban Swingers about their lifestyle parties in Detroit. Diary of a Mad Black Woman scene https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OT8IJX6yZj4 Come with us to PALM SPRINGS FOR PCAP!!! Purchase your tickets here-- https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BNK Episode shoutouts: Two Hot Wives: https://2hotwives.libsyn.com/34-house-parties-revisited Urban Swingers: https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Furbanswingers&e=ATOLDkyod6XKlsaBcgQlswUrYGUEt2QLMzyhhInb59h9j0uXO7EmMbHbfkKRShgxbB4HtlcxjjyKCLtT&s=1 Amour getaways: https://www.amourgetaways.com/ Monogamish Marriage shopping in Cap D' Agde buying fruits with t*ts out. |https://twitter.com/Monogamish1/status/1508482158884708355?s=20&t=ppVY6P2X9pF99qUqLBP0iw Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Wanderlust Swingers Cap D' Agde review https://www.swingingdownunder.com/podcast/podcast-capdagde/ https://www.spicymatch.com/events/28349/ Bulls & Queens podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-bulls-queens-swinger-podcast-doc-8qrIaQNe9u7/ We gotta thing podcast: https://wegottathing.com/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 66: Why more Black people don't go to the paradise that is Desire Resort

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2022 73:26


    Topic synopsis: Belle and Bomber talk about Desire Riviera Maya, reflecting on the experience, culture and demographics. They also lend their perspective to the question of why Black people are not occupying this luxurious resort. Hitlist: Simone Joy Jones Zoe Kravitz Podcasts referenced: By the bi podcast Desire Episodes https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/27764/btb-136-desire-resort-full-recap-part-1-by-the-bi/ That couple next door Desire episodes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-29-desire-riviera-maya/id1106517231?i=1000404716197 Podcast-a-palooza Desire RM https://www.desire-resort.com/?gclid=CjwKCAjwoduRBhA4EiwACL5RP9bSrK9HFdkdwVhedFFnFvctwn7UJEH02-SthrMcZiHTZkVOClSgbRoCjnEQAvD_BwE Desire Forum http://desiremexico.com/phpbb/index.php Temptations https://www.temptation-experience.com/ Cap d'Agde nude town in France https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2015/aug/27/naked-city-cap-agde-sun-swingers-shoplifting Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: tinyurl.com/y68wdbpp Twitter

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    Black in SEX (BHM 2022): Black Queens vs. Black Bulls and QOS ft. The Bulls And Queens Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2022 79:03


    Doc Chocolate & Karamel are a professional black married couple based out of Las Vegas, Nevada … who have been exploring the swinging and open relationship lifestyle since 2016. In this dynamic duo, Doc is the goofy half & Karamel is the sexy half, as they have fun & laughs twice a month with their co-hosts, exploring the kinky side of the bull, hotwife, cuckold & black lifestyle world. Twitter @bullsandqueens website https://bullsandqueens.com/ Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Black in SEX (BHM 2022): Limp d*ck tips & pelvic floors ft. Meshai from Expansive Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 75:29


    Meshai is dually licensed and certified in both Trauma Therapy and Sex Therapy. She believes in the power of living as one's authentic self, and the freedom that comes from changing perspectives. She loves putting the puzzle pieces together of a individual or couple's sexual energy and aiding them in positive and explorative movement. Her coaching work implements creative synergy, openness, self-expression, and the confrontation of challenges through self-determination. She helps individuals from diverse populations move forward with their goals while being fully aware of how trauma can affect the whole person. Meshai works with a coaching practice called Expansive Connection. Which is a team of coaches that are ready to support individuals, couples, and more-somes on their life journey. Where we seek to support you as you grow mentally, physically, and emotionally. We bring a variety of experience to provide an integrative, holistic and collaborative approach to relationship coaching...free from judgment and focused on goals. Meshai's relationship and mindfulness coaching and consulting does not fall under the scope of her license. Website: www.expansiveconnection.com Instagram @expansive.connection.coaching Twitter: @expanconnect

    Black in SEX (BHM 2022): Hedo Queens & Voyeurs ft JA from the I HEARDDD Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2022 47:53


    J.A. J.A. is your spicier version of a closeted lover of all things dating, sex and…filth. She aims to bridge the gap between those who are curious about topics that have been considered taboo, for too long, and the very people who lead lives that might include activities of which the masses may be afraid. You can hear her pretend (devilish chuckle) to be unaware of topics like swinging, bdsm, dating practices and more on I Hearddd Podcast which can be found on Apple, Spotify, and most other platforms that offer podcasts. Instagram: @iheardddpodcast website: Ihearddd.com Buy your tickets to Podcast-a-palooza: https://podcast-a-palooza.com/

    Black in SEX (BHM 2022): Dreaded Locks and Play Turnoffs ft Duchess Cashmere

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2022 33:48


    Duchess Cashmere, The Griot Erotica. Producer of The Cashmere Room Podcast & "Pillow Talk The Live Experience", and along with her husband, "Deuce The Mister", is the co-founder of The Cashmere Room LS Collective. Together they hosts Lifestyle Parties in/around the MS Gulf Coast that specifically cater to a POC audience and that are BDSM friendly. On her podcast Duchess tells sexy stories, pussy poetry & milf monologues….aka Tha' Female Dolemite. The podcast and live performances are NSFW but perfect for pillow talk with your favorite lover. Duchess usesher real life adventures being a bisexaul, polyamorous, kinky sex goddess and Femdom to fuel her imagination to produce one of a kind erotica. You can listen to the podcast everywhere podcasts are streamed or watch performances & interviews on YouTube. You can even book Duchess Cashmere for your sex positive conference, poetry showcase, or Lifestyle, event Social Media Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Duchess Instagram: @Duchess_Cashmere and @thecashmereroom Twitter: @DuchessCashmere Email: DuchessCashmere@gmail.com Support us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Black in SEX (BHM 2022): Confusing ENM labels N being Queer in Jamaica ft. Jhen from Monogamish Pod

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2022 68:48


    Wanderlust Swinger Episode on Rule Breaking "We Broke Our #1 Swinging Rule" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wanderlust-swingers-swinging-lifestyle/id1023334577?i=1000549272088 About Jhen: Born in Kingston, Jamaica, Jhen is a pansexual and polyamorous Black woman who hosts the Monogamish Pod, a podcast exploring non-monogamy and polyamory through a Black Caribbean lens using pop culture and interviews. Engaged in polyamorous practice for the past 10 years, Jhen is sharing stories and creating a deeper understanding of the different facets of non-monogamy and polyamory that BIPOC experience. Where to find The Monogamish Pod: Monogamishpod.com Instagram - @monogamishpod Twitter - @monogamishpod TikTok - @monogamishpod Facebook page Youtube - Monogamish Pod Patreon - patreon.com/monogamishpod (18+ so has to be typed in that way of course) Where to find her Twitter - @haveyoumetjhen Instagram - @haveyoumetjhen

    Episode 65: Snow sex, penis help and and lazy big d*ck owners ft Jeff Abraham of Promescent

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2022 71:40


    References Monogamish Pod https://monogamishpod.com Promescent.com More about Jeff Abraham A dynamic, once-retired business professional looks to the sexual wellness space for his encore career. Jeff beat all odds, growing up in a poverty-stricken town in Pennslyvania, moving to California in hopes of better opportunities, and striking gold through his wit, relationship-building skills, and relentless work ethic. Jeff retired in the early 2000s after years of recruiting some of the best semiconductor engineers for tech and manufacturing companies for the likes of Applied Materials, Lam Research, AMD, Motorola, and other Silicone Valley tech giants. In the midst of his career, he was instructed by a multi-billion dollar car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color during the hiring process. Subsequently, Jeff sued – and won the nearly impossible feat – going up against a giant corporation funded by personal assets. After all was said and done, Jeff scored a resounding victory, and Hyundai was forced to change its hiring practices. Ethics and doing the right thing prevailed – a mantra that Jeff lives his life by every day. In 2009, a close friend and neighbor, Dr. Ronald Gilbert approached Jeff knowing about his business acumen with a new, innovative product developed for premature ejaculation. After giving what is known now as Promescent Delay Spray a 'test-drive', Jeff immediately knew what was in store for the future of the company. He quickly invested millions of dollars of his own money into the venture becoming a majority stakeholder. Tragedy struck a few years later in 2013 when founder, Dr. Gilbert, was murdered in a case of mistaken identity in Orange County, CA. A year prior to that, Jeff was asked to become CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals (makers of Promescent®) and was on the precipice of having the company sold to a large multi-billion dollar conglomerate – the ultimate goal at the time for everyone involved. The same day as Dr. Gilbert's tragic murder, Jeff sent Dr. Gilbert a text mentioning the good things to come. The months, and the years that transpired thereafter, are nothing short of a miracle. Jeff moved Promescent to Las Vegas, NV so that he could focus on growing the business to give Dr. Gilbert a legacy and to also provide for his family. He needed a place that didn't remind him of Dr. Gilbert every time he pulled into his garage – they were neighbors after all. The multi-billion dollar conglomerate that was acting as if they were going to buy the proprietary formula and company subsequently, and at the time inexplicitly, pulled out of the deal. Some months later Jeff came to find out that this company ended up purportedly stealing trade secrets and acting maliciously to develop a product of their own after explicitly stating concerns about the total market size. A gruesome 6- year legal battle has transpired and is coming to a head in January of 2022 where Jeff will finally get his day in court. Above all else, under the leadership skills of Jeff, the once close to the bankrupt company has been able to thrive. Year over year revenue growth has been pegged at nearly 100% for the last 4-years straight with forward-looking projections to match this for the next couple of years. The Promescent brand transformed from a single product brand to a leader in providing premium sexual wellness products for a variety of needs. Now backed by over 2000 healthcare professionals in the US alone and with over 1,000,000 bottles sold to couples seeking to enhance their intimate lives, Promescent has captured a loyal audience to their brand. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 64: Deadly play sessions, panda sex and other weird sh*t that happened this year

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 59:19


    Show notes References The Naked Relationship Podcast http://thenakedrelationship.com/ Monogamish Pod https://monogamishpod.com Urban Swingers https://www.instagram.com/urbanswingersxls/?hl=en Facebook Fuckshit: Confessing same sex fantasy vs. Death Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 63: Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2021 79:22


    Show notes For information about desire Forum.desiremexico.com Podcasts referenced: Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/ Livin the suite life podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtJtcyhQvtAedjaWAIiDFbw Average Swingers: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/average-swingers/id537110554 Expansive connection: https://www.expansiveconnection.com/ Casual Swingers: https://casualswinger.com/ Colette in the news: https://youtu.be/JZgObYNhryo. Hitlist Regina King Jonathan Majors Zazie Beetz Lakeith Stanfield Delroy Lindo Idris Elba Cleopatra Coleman Topic of the day: PCAP encore Recap! Facebook Fuckshit: Homicide by face sitting Bombers Bougie Broadcast: Black folks who aren't just interested in Black spaces Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 62: Violent orgasms, ropes and drag bingo fun facts

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2021 59:49


    Podcasts referenced: Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/ Sapphic swingers: https://podnews.net/podcast/i6nmv Torrid Souls: https://torridsouls.libsyn.com/ Hitlist Logan Browning Zoe Kravitz Topic of the day: Shibari and Drag Bingo Facebook Fuckshit: Trojan vibrations tandem couples vibrating ring Bombers Bougie Broadcast: Adorable doctors talking about enm Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 61: Why we don't F*CK our vanilla friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2021 61:45


    Podcasts referenced: Bedroom Bliss https://hubhopper.com/podcast/bedroom-bliss-a-swinger-podcast/116183 Livin the Suite Life https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-livin-the-suite-life-podca-47834483/ Hitlist Felicia Pearson Elliot Knight Topic of the day: 5 reasons we don't play with vanilla couple friends 1. Friends could be unfamiliar with crucial LS knowledge and norms 2. A bad play session with friends can start to erode even the best of friendships 3. Jealousy could complicate your friend's relationship, especially if the play is only good for one of them. 4. The line between intimacy and sex can get blurred with people you have a trusting friendship with 5. Future hangouts may come with new unwanted expectations and pressures to play Facebook Fuckshit: Being in a poly relationship with one's parents is not poly. Bombers Bougie Broadcast: The undeniable diversity of judgement free zones, and what they all have in common Camp no counselors: https://www.campnocounselors.com/ Come hang out with us in Dallas Texas at Podcast-A-Palooza: Get your tickets here. http://podcast-a-palooza.com/blacknkinky Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 60: Hood sitcoms, chocolate rooms, and talking double V penetration with E-train and Lolo

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 83:14


    Get your podcast-a-palooza tickets here: podcast-a-palooza.com/BlackNKinky Check out Ms. Pat: https://mspatcomedy.com/ Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 59: When just f*ckin gets boring? How the lifestyle opens doors for new opportunities

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2021 97:31


    Monogamish marriage blog: Black N Kinky adventure:https://themonogamishmarriage.com/2021/06/24/big-black-cock-fantasy/ Robodick play: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/2021/07/01/penile-implant/ Average Swingers PCAP episode: http://www.averageswingers.com/as140-two-testicles-a-hand-grenade-and-a-penis/ Get your podcast-a-palooza tickets here: https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BlackNKinky Check out altplayground.net Livin the Suite Life Collab eps: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-livin-the-suite-life-podca-47834483/episode/bonus-episode-pcap-recap-part-84011092/

    Episode 58: PCAP ReCAP, Cake Farting and Fancy Swinger Dinners

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2021 65:42


    PCAP Shout outs Monogamish Marriage Two hot wives Average Swingers Casual Swingers Wanderlust Swingers Torrid Souls Sapphic Swingers We gotta thing Swinging outside the lines #conceitednobodi (DEAD ASS!) More PCAP info: Podcast-a-palooz.com https://www.instagram.com/Podcast_A_Palooza/ https://twitter.com/PaloozaPodcast email podcast-a-palooza at miss-jiff@asia-libertine.com Coloring books with Cake farting: Adult Coloring Book: The Dirtiest Coloring Book Ever | Sexy Naughty Dirty | The Perfect Gift https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07RB87SPL/ref=ppx_od_dt_b_asin_title_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Check out altplayground.net for the ultimate sex positive network Interested in Dinner with George? Check out https://justfordinner.com/

    Episode 57: Diversity at Hotel Takeovers, featuring Cate from Wanderlust Swingers

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 86:57


    We sit down with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers to talk about diversity at Hotel takeovers. Check out her podcast at http://www.swingingdownunder.com/ If you missed it this year, keep up to date for future events at https://podcast-a-palooza.com/ Check out altplayground.net for an open sex positive community Check out our website at blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com

    Episode 56: Race in the lifestyle part III-- The Yucks & Yums of Raceplay

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 97:28


    Bomber and Belle share their views on race play in BDSM. Tickets are nearly sold out for Podcast-a-palooza. Purchase your tickets at www.podcast-a-palooza.com Check out altplayground.net for an awesome community of sex positive singles and couples Email us at Blacknkinkylifestyle.com Checkout sydneyroseia.com for sexy attire Films/Videos Kinky: The Documentary - https://vimeo.com/414266410 http://www.darkconnections.com/library/index.htm Support Kinky Activists Support Fund Readings http://www.darkconnections.com/history/history01.htm To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave by Vi Johnson Black Men in Leather by Cain Berlinger Black Leather in Color Magazine The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, & Pornography by Ariane Cruz Additional Resources https://bound-together.net/bipoc-bdsm-resources/

    Episode 55: How to go from "Hell Naw" to "Let's F*ck"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 54:38


    Bell and Bomber talk the rare occasion where someone might change their mind. Purchase tickets for Podcast-A-Palooza by checking out podcast-a-palooza.com Sign up for one of the most open sex positive communities on the web at altplayground.net email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com

    Episode 54: T*ts and Tans. What We're Looking Forward to at Podcast-A-Palooza

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 62:03


    Purchase tickets for Podcast-A-Palooza by checking out podcast-a-palooza.com Sign up for one of the most open sex positive communities on the web at altplayground.net email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Check out some of the best porn online at blktouch.com Check out our series on Black voices in the lifestyle: Duchess cashmere Sunshine assis Livin the suite life podcast Bedroom bliss Our unicorn diaries Torrid Souls Mixxed nutz podcast Monogamish Pod

    Episode 53: Crazy profile misinterpretations N what makes you feel sexy before a night out

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2021 105:16


    In one of our longest episodes we talk about how many of the intentionally good info we are putting out there on our profiles can have a darker interpretation. N We talk about little things that make the Belle and Bomber feel ready for a sexy night out. Check out podcast-a-palooza at podcast-a-palooza.com. This hotel takeover in Miami is going to be lit!!!!! There are going to be a bunch of other podcasters there and some fun seminars. Please do come join us. Check out altlifestyle.net for the most inclusive swinger lifestyle style out there.

    Episode 52: Solo vs Group Chats, Cutting Off LS Friends and Ashy Ass Cheeks

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2021 106:53


    Check out Sidney Rose Intimate Apparel: Sidneyroseia.com Check out the most open and inclusive sex positive website online: Altplayground.net

    Episode 51: Bad Swinger Press, Black PC Politics & Best and Worst of 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 85:27


    Hitlist: Jacob fortune lloyd Dominique Fishback Sidney Rose Intimate Apparel: Sidneyroseia.com Check out the most open and inclusive sex positive website online: Altplayground.net

    Episode 50: What we have learned after 50 episodes and what is to come

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2020 96:20


    Check out alplayground.net Check out SIDNEY ROSE Intimate apparel https://sidneyroseia.com/ Support us on patreon at https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky

    Episode 49: Are Lifestyle Friends True Friends or is it Just about SEX?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 84:30


    Check us out at Blacknkinkylifestyle.com Check out Altplayground at altplayground.net for the most open sex positive community around.

    Episode 48: Check Your Sexy Privilege

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2020 78:26


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    Episode 47: Interracial Couples in the Lifestyle w/hosts of the Mixxed Nutzz Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2020 109:23


    Belle and Bomber sit down with Cory and Brenda of the Mixxed nutzz podcast to talk about what it is like being an interracial couple in the lifestyle. Brenda and Cory host the MixxedNutzz podcast were they discuss the lifestyle through an interracial couples eyes. They give reviews on events they go to, give some sexy stories and talk about the 'what the fuck" moments that they come across all while trying give you something to think about and hopefully have a good laugh! Check them out at mixxednutzz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mixxednutzz19/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MixxedNutzz Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1a7YMXupolAUvcoWvjJ9pR

    Episode 46: Questionable Arguments Opposing Ethical Non-monogamy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2020 74:06


    Belle and Bomber discuss some of the reasons against nonmonogamy that have been exposed by the Will and Jada controversy. Check out store at Blacknkinkylifestyle.com Support us on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/blacknkinky Find other Couples of Color at Amourgetaways.com use offer code Blacknkinky

    Episode 45: Single women in the lifestyle with our guest Unicorn Elle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2020 89:01


    The Bomber and The Belle sit down with Elle and talk about the Single Woman Perspective. Find Elle on instagram @ thatboudiechick Website: www.blacknkinkylifestyle.com Email us at blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/Blacknkinky facebook: www.facebook.com/blacknkinkylifestyle Subscribe on itunes: itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-b…d1369805300?mt=2 Check out Amour Getaways at amourgetaways.com for membership. Use offer code Blacknkinky for a discount.

    Episode 44: Single males and MFMs, with the hosts of Bedroom Bliss (forgive SQ)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2020 106:56


    This week we sit down and talk with Mick and Renee from the sexy Bedroom Bliss podcast. If you are interested in checking them out, click any of the links below. Twitter: https://twitter.com/bedroombliss_?lang=en Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bedroom-bliss-a-swinger-podcast/id1489652064 Also check out amourgetaways.com for access to one of the most diverse and sexiest lifestyle networks. Sound quality was not the best, but the content was on point!

    Bonus Episode: BnB's quarantine spoiler free movie review--Palm Swings (made with Spreaker) (made with Spreaker)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2020 13:48


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    Bonus Episode: BnB's quarantine spoiler free movie review--Palm Swings (made with Spreaker)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2020 13:48


    Bonus Episode: BnB's quarantine spoiler free movie review--Palm Swings by The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast

    Bonus Episode: BnB's quarantine spoiler free movie review--Palm Swings

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2020 13:48


    Bonus Episode: BnB's quarantine spoiler free movie review--Palm Swings by The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast

    Episode 43: Chat with the Pussy Party President on the war against judgement

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2020 103:18


    The Belle and the Bomber sit down with Jessie Camille who hosts the Pussy party podcast. Check out her show and other awesome content on her site at http://thepussypartypodcast.com/ Checkout amourgetaways.com to get access to host of sexy couples and opportunities to book trips around the world.

    Episode 42 Part 3: Fellaz Panel-BBC terms, denying women the D and nohomo moments in the lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2020 71:47


    Episode 42 Part 3: Fellaz Panel-BBC terms, denying women the D and nohomo moments in the lifestyle by The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast

    Episode 42 Part 2: Fellaz Panel, single men, limpdick and putting your wife out there

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2020 50:55


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    Episode 42 Part 1: Fellaz Panel introductions and thoughts on HER sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2020 59:38


    Check out part 1 of our fellaz panel. We introduce our panelist and talk about our perspective on women in the lifestyle.

    Episode 41 Part 2: The Dark side of the lifestyle, featuring Loq & Tryst from livin the suite life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020 66:49


    Livin the suite life podcast: http://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Welcome dear guests to Livin' the Suite Life! We're Loq and Tryst, and we'll be hosting you in the suite - a swinger lifestyle podcast focused on and driven by you, our guests. We are a Black married couple who are eager and excited to share our thoughts and perspectives on navigating the lifestyle. We've left you a key at the front desk. So, come in, make yourself comfortable and join us in the suite as we discuss any and everything. Be ready to hear about sexy vacations, hot clubs and parties, and naughty toys and attire. You may even hear a tantalizing tale or two. Who knows what will happen behind closed doors... twitter: @SuiteLifePod youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4um0y4sBOY0&feature=youtu.be IG: @thesuitelifepodcast Check us at Blacknkinkylifestyle.com email us at Blacknkinkylifestyle@gmail.com Check out amourgetaways.com for your LS travel needs. Leave a comment on itunes and enter in for a chance to win 3 months membership with amourgetaways.com FREE Cant want for that? Cool, check their page out and enter in Blacknkinky to get 10% off your membership fee!

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