The Sister Circle Podcast

How do you recover after you've let yourself down? When the motivation begins to wane and the guilt begins to set in, you can find yourself in a low place. But my friend, you can't stay there.  The enemy wants nothing more than for you to wallow in your shortcomings until it becomes [...]

Forgiveness isn't forgetting. And it definitely isn't approval. But it is freedom—and in this talk, we walk through how to forgive what still hurts, especially when the memory won't let go. In this video, we explore: Why forgiveness isn't about excusing what happened How to process pain with God instead of pretending it [...]

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by money struggles or buried under shame about your finances, you are not alone. I recently had the privilege of sitting down with Tiffany Aliche, also known as The Budgetnista, and her story is proof that no matter how deep the hole feels, there's a way out. Tiffany [...]

So many women find themselves completely caught off guard by menopause. We prepare for different seasons of life - marriage, motherhood, career changes - but this transition often arrives quietly, with symptoms we don't recognize and challenges we don't expect. We often feel unprepared for “the big M”, often seeing it as something [...]

Recently, I took a break from my podcast. That break ended up lasting much longer than I intended, and I found myself struggling to get back into the rhythm – until last night. I finally decided to just turn on the camera and start. I didn't wait for perfect graphics. I didn't wait [...]

Does the new year mean a new year? Well, that depends. Surely the start of a new year brings opportunities to level up your life, but it also brings pressure to take off at full speed. But even if you feel pressure, you don't have to give in to it. While there certainly [...]

Can we be real? Life can be overwhelming. Between responsibilities, relationships, and the endless to-do lists, self-care often gets pushed to the back burner. But here's the truth: self-care isn't just something that's nice to have. It's a must. It's not about indulgence; it's about living well, honoring God, and showing up as [...]

It's that time of year again! That's right, it's time for my annual Christmas Collection. I always look forward to sharing my top picks for gifts, but this year I decided to switch things up a bit. (Don't worry, the tradition of wearing cozy Christmas onesies is here to stay.) This year, instead [...]

How do you navigate the holidays when grief is a close companion? If you've experienced a significant loss, then you know what it's like for the holiday season to feel more like a sorrowful time of year than a wonderful one.   My mother passed away in December 2019. This last month of the [...]

Do you remember when you first fell in love with God? When your heart was on fire and you did everything you could to draw close to Him? The moments of getting to know someone are so special in the beginning because you understand the value of spending time together. But after a [...]

Twelve minutes a day. That's all you need in order to read the entire Bible in one year. So why is it so important to commit to reading God's word consistently? After all, connecting with God through Scripture is how intimacy with God is formed. Much like learning about a loved one through [...]

Have you ever felt like you were spinning out of control? Sometimes, anxiety can make you feel as though you can't slow down no matter how hard you try. But that feeling isn't always rooted in reality; it's often rooted in your perception of reality. Don't get me wrong, there are definitely times [...]

Are you tired of putting on your superwoman cape for everyone and everything?  As a woman, I can certainly identify with feeling overrun and overworked. And specifically, as a Black woman, the pressure to constantly be strong can feel downright debilitating. Now, this experience isn't a new phenomenon for the women in my [...]

What is keeping you from walking in your full authority? No matter what may be holding you back, with God and with time, you can find your stride again. As a woman who wears many hats, I have to be intentional about tethering myself to God through every season so that as life [...]

Do you know that as a daughter of the King, you are royalty? Yes, you!  I know it's easy to forget this truth in the hustle and bustle of daily life, but it's one we need to hold onto.  Let's be real. Life can be rough.  Along the way, many of us balance [...]

When was the last time you allowed yourself to dream? I know that life can cause you to silence the desires of your heart. Sometimes, it takes the wisdom of someone who has gone before you to remind you to dream again. My “Aunt Jo” is that source of wisdom for me. She's [...]

Do you ever feel like life is one big to-do list that never seems to get shorter? Have you been searching for the perfect planner, the ultimate system, or that one life hack that will finally help you “do it all” and “do it right?”  We live in a world that celebrates optimization [...]

Sometimes, I look at the women in my life, and I can see it all in their eyes. The anxiety, the fear, and the worry are evident without them saying a word. We girls often carry the weight of the world on our shoulders and the worry that often comes with it. No [...]

Have the wounds of rejection caused you to believe you're not enough? Maybe rejection has left you feeling that you will never be enough. Never enough for your family to accept you. Never enough to be included in the friend group. Never enough for the promotion you've worked so hard for.  If you [...]

How did I celebrate the 500th episode of my podcast? By taking a trip down memory lane with my one and only sister, Priscilla Shirer, of course! On this special episode of The Sister Circle Podcast, I sat in the hot seat while Priscilla interviewed me. She's my personal cheerleader, and even though [...]

Are you in a season of new experiences at every turn? If you're struggling with making sense of your current situation, know that it's okay to do so without shame. After all, every single woman you know is navigating something. Maybe you're a new mom learning how to care for a little one [...]

Are you aware of the impact you have on others? I'm often caught off guard (in the best way possible) when someone tells me that something I said helped them in some way. Even if no one has told you yet, the wisdom that you have to share with others matters as well. [...]

Are you terrified of making the wrong decisions? When choosing whether to walk into a new space or out of your current one, feelings of uncertainty can convince you that you're better off not making a decision at all. Many of us are tasked with making choices at every turn. The fatigue that [...]

Is it time for you to set boundaries in your friendships? I know this is a deep question, so let's break this thing all the way down. Let me start by saying this: It's also okay for you to communicate your limits with your acquaintances and even your besties.  Not only is it [...]

For many moms, the idea of homeschooling sounds nice, but it can feel too far out of reach. And I get it. Teaching kids at home without a supportive community and access to resources can appear to be a daunting task. But it doesn't have to be.  Sometimes, you just need to hear [...]

Is it hard for you to show kindness to certain people in your life? Better yet, is there anyone that you love out of obligation rather than out of the love of Christ? Listen, I think most of us have been there. Despite our best efforts, we don't get along with everyone and [...]

Are you paying attention to your life? If you find yourself coasting through life without intention, then, my friend, it's time for a change.  Just think about it. Have you ever traveled somewhere, and the next thing you know, you've arrived at your destination with no recollection of the journey? Well, it's that [...]

Is the Lord calling you to pivot in this season of your life? You may have a specific outcome in mind for your life, but when things look differently than you hoped, it may be a chance to step out of your comfort zone and step into faith. Listen, sometimes you must go [...]

Have you ever experienced a friendship breakup?  Losing a friend can be tough to navigate, especially when you don't see it coming. But honestly, it's tough even when you know a friendship is coming to an end.  Sometimes a friendship ends as a result of a disagreement or a lack of reciprocity in [...]

Have you ever felt like your gifts don't align with the season that you're in? Maybe you have a gift that you feel compelled to share with the world, but the doors aren't opening up for you. Instead of getting stuck in a place of discontentment, I challenge you to view a closed [...]

Have you taken the time to prepare for what you've prayed for? When we submit our desires to God, we can become so focused on getting to our destination later that we fail to live our lives well in the here and now. Our rush to reach our goals can cause us to [...]

How much intentionality do you put into your friendships? The work of developing and maintaining your circle of friends can be challenging at times, but you know what? It's totally worth it. It would take all day for me to explain all the ways in which my sister circles have enriched my life. [...]

What a friend we have in Jesus. If I close my eyes, I can hear the melody of this hymn in my head. And while the lyrics ring true, there are times that I have to remind myself that Jesus is indeed my friend. Of course, I understand this in my head, but [...]

When I reflect on my life, do you know what stands out? All of the small things I've done that led me to the big things God had in store for me.  I can trace this back to many experiences in my life. I ran track in high school. While I loved the [...]

One recent weekday evening, my daughter, her husband, and their children stopped by for dinner. That means two adults and five children descended upon my home, bringing with them, a little bit of chaos. Adding even more fun to the slightly frenetic atmosphere, my friend Michelle also stopped by. She arrived with vegan [...]

What is keeping you from taking the leap in your life? If the thought of going after your dreams scares you, then it may be time for a shift in your perspective. The truth is that leaping can look different for each person and each season of life. Sometimes, you may feel led [...]

What words do you use to talk about your body? Are you more negative than positive when it comes to acknowledging what you see in the mirror? I know there is a body positivity movement going on, but what about those of us who can't find any good in our bodies because of [...]

Have you ever looked at the limitations in your life as gifts from God? I know how difficult it can be to stay positive when you feel stretched thin by life's demands.  You may find yourself feeling like there's never enough time to check off your neverending to-do list. The energy spent chasing [...]

When I first started my podcast ten years ago, I had no idea where this journey would take me. Armed with a borrowed microphone and basic recording software like GarageBand and QuickTime Player on my Macbook, I embarked on a path to share my thoughts in four categories –  faith, family and friends, food and [...]

Have you ever looked up and all of a sudden you don't know where the time has gone? Well that is how I am feeling about this episode because here I am celebrating 10 years of podcasting!  That is correct - 10 years I've been at this podcasting business. I'll never forget the day (or [...]

When was the last time you went on a date with your spouse? Depending on what's going on in your life, it might be difficult for you to prioritize time with your significant other or even a friend. However, consistently connecting with those who matter most is key to living life well. This [...]

When was the last time you tried to restore life to something that appeared to be on its last leg? Maybe it was a project you started years ago. Maybe a relationship you did not want to release. Or maybe it was simply some left-overs you really did not want to throw away. [...]

Is there a business dream you want to bring to life but can't figure out where to start? Have you taken the steps to start a business only to become discouraged along the way? I know that pursuing a side hustle or a full-fledged business can feel daunting, to say the least. When [...]

Do you remember when God's voice was the loudest voice in your life?  The privilege of connecting with God on an intimate level can be easily overlooked in busy seasons of life. Slow seasons offer the margin needed to discern the voice of God, but when the noise and distraction increase, it doesn't [...]

Have you become comfortable with doing just enough to get by? What would it look like for you to go beyond what's expected of you?  As women, we tend to feel overlooked and unappreciated in the many roles we play. It's like we know we're called to serve others, but over time, we [...]

How do you hold on to hope in moments of suffering? When you experience heartache and loss, you can feel like things will never get better. As the days pass by, I know firsthand how the weight of disappointment grows greater with the passing of time. Even if you are trying to hold [...]

I'm on a plane for work about 15-20 times a year. I don't always fly first class, but I believe in maximizing the use of my credit card so I can increase the status with my favorite airline to maximize my points and get bumped up to first every now and again! As [...]

Is it hard for you to see Jesus at work in your everyday life? The busyness of life can often blind you to the very things God is trying to reveal to you. My oldest daughter, Kariss Farris, has learned how to look for Jesus in real-life moments. She notices Him while running [...]

Are your feelings trying to tell you something? As someone who feels deeply, I can assure you that the feelings you express (intentionally or unintentionally) are often an outworking of what is going on in your heart. (Luke 6:45) When you keep your feelings inside, you might also be setting yourself up for [...]

Why are adult friendships so complicated? If you've ever wondered why making and maintaining friends is difficult the older you get, trust me, you're not alone. According to the U.S. Surgeon General, loneliness is an epidemic in this country.  How is it possible that we are more connected than we've ever been but [...]

Are you a good steward of your relationships? Do you make time for your spouse? Do you encourage your children?  If you struggle to answer any of these questions, know that you will have a tough time pouring into others if you don't first pour into yourself. In this episode of The Sister [...]