Whatever She Says

Welcome to a new episode of “This Too Shall Pass”This week I'm joined by "Single Mom Attorney" Gianni C Avalos—both a family law attorney, her firm sues baby daddies for a living! Together, we tackle the realities of co-parenting, child support, and custody, breaking down the legal and emotional challenges single moms face. We'll explore the distinction between financial support and visitation, the impact of absent parents, and the role of judicial discretion in custody cases.   Gianni shares key insights on legal advocacy, documenting parental involvement, and maintaining integrity in co-parenting. Whether you're considering legal action or seeking guidance, this episode provides practical advice and encouragement to help you move forward with confidence.   Tune in for an empowering conversation!     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

  Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Can transparency in relationships be more costly than rewarding? In this heartfelt episode, I open up about the raw realities of single motherhood—co-parenting challenges, family dynamics, and the importance of community support.    We tackle custody battles, fathers' rights, and proactive steps to stay involved in children's lives, inspired by a listener's question. I also share the emotional journey of preparing my family member, Andre, for independence, while addressing homelessness, mental health, and fostering open communication. Join the conversation—share your experiences and insights as we navigate these complex, yet deeply relatable, topics together.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

In this inspiring episode, we explore the power of reflection, resilience, and setting intentions for the year ahead. As we embrace the lessons of 2024 and look to the opportunities of 2025, we dive into personal growth, triumphs, and the value of overcoming life's obstacles.     A special shoutout to Natalia Sanchez, a cherished listener who loves our family segments—stay tuned for an exciting mix of guest appearances, solo episodes, and more moments with the kids next year.     We also spotlight Linda J, an exceptional Orlando realtor, in our "Her Voice, Her Story" segment. Hear how her dedication and expertise made my first home-buying experience unforgettable, and gain inspiration to celebrate your own milestones and the support systems that lift you up.     Discover the transformative power of vision boards as I share my journey from skeptic to believer, balancing aspirations with gratitude. Plus, we tackle parenting challenges, including teaching empathy by addressing real-life situations, like bullying, to help shape compassionate kids.    As we move forward together, I thank you, our listeners, for your unwavering support. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe—your engagement keeps our community thriving. Here's to growth, gratitude, and an incredible year ahead!       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Tying a tie for my son's homecoming was more than knots and loops—it was a moment of reflection on shame and societal expectations. This simple task became a mirror, revealing the pressures and feelings of inadequacy we all face. In this episode, I share how shame, while often a moral guide, can also become a barrier if left unchecked. Raised in the church as a Florida girl, I explore how faith and life experiences taught me to embrace uncomfortable truths and use shame as a tool for growth and authenticity.   From navigating school struggles to meeting familial expectations, we delve into the deep-rooted societal pressures faced by daughters, particularly Black women. I recount five pivotal moments of vulnerability, illustrating how feelings of inadequacy shaped my identity and led to cycles of shame and disruptive behaviors. These stories reveal how reading struggles and the weight of parental expectations influenced my sense of self and the coping mechanisms I developed.   We also examine the emotional toll of absent fathers and the challenges of single motherhood. Through personal anecdotes and reflection, I discuss the guilt and struggles mothers face in filling the gaps left by non-participating fathers, and how this affects children's identities. My story of teen pregnancy and isolation is shared to inspire strength in vulnerability. This episode is a call to build community support, embrace unique narratives, and find healing through openness and understanding.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Feeling weighed down by invisible burdens? Join me and my guest, Carla Wilmaris , as we share stories of releasing the "dead weight" in our lives—whether it's relationships, jobs, or overconfidence that no longer serve us. Through honest reflections, including my experience with a difficult first marriage, we discuss how letting go creates space for personal growth and well-being.     We also explore the complexities of setting boundaries in friendships and evolving relationships, using my friendship with Carla as an example. From clear communication to addressing changes before they turn toxic, we highlight the importance of maintaining balance and protecting personal space.     In a playful yet insightful segment, "Pick it Up and Preach," we turn a sticky pad into a metaphor for sharing blessings and embracing vulnerability. This episode is all about fostering self-acceptance, setting healthy boundaries, and finding courage to release what no longer serves us.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join us as we explore the complexities of teenage life and family dynamics. In this episode, I sit down with my 14-year-old daughter, Hailey, a high school freshman and cheerleader, to discuss her experiences navigating friendships, academic pressures, and the balance between independence and safety. We're also joined by her protective older brother, Andre, who shares his perspective on sibling relationships and support.     Hailey opens up about reconnecting with her father after years of absence and reflects on the emotional impact of parental choices. We also discuss a tragic story of a teen's attachment to an AI chatbot, raising questions about human connection and societal shifts.     Through candid conversations, we highlight the value of empathy, open communication, and intentional relationships within families. This heartfelt episode invites you to reflect on growth and connection in the lives of teenagers and their families.           Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Should children be compensated for their appearances on social media, just like they are for chores? We tackle this provocative question as we explore the intricate ethics of family vlogging. With examples like the LeBrants and Ruby Frankie, the conversation traverses the fine line between sharing genuine family moments and exploiting children for profit. Our discussion encourages you to reflect on the importance of giving children a voice and setting boundaries in the digital age.   In a touching exchange with my son Dre, we delve into his journey navigating social media as a 16-year-old. Dre candidly shares how these platforms have shaped both his personal and family life, highlighting the benefits and challenges of growing up online. Together, we emphasize the significance of consent and open communication between parents and children regarding their online presence, while Dre recounts how this digital involvement has positively influenced our living situation.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join us for an engaging discussion on family dynamics and identity exploration as I, Ariel, welcome my amazing cousin Cameron to the podcast. Together, we reflect on our experiences growing up as Black women and the powerful influence of family on shaping our identities. In the *Her Voice, Her Story* segment, I celebrate Cameron, not only as a remarkable cousin but also as a cherished friend.   We dive into the generational differences within our family, exploring the older generation's preference for privacy and formality compared to our more open, candid approach. This conversation shines a light on the structured nature of our family gatherings, steeped in tradition and etiquette, while also highlighting how our understanding of these dynamics has shifted over time.   We also explore the complexities of parenting and communication styles, reflecting on the lessons learned from our own upbringing and how they now shape our approach to raising children. Emphasizing the value of open communication, we challenge traditional views that equate gentle parenting with weakness. Instead, we advocate for fostering environments where children feel heard, respected, and empowered to express their needs and boundaries confidently.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Hey Tribe!! We know it's been a while, but we're back with a brand new episode of This Too Shall Pass! This week, we're diving into the topic of child support. Now, I want to be clear—I'm not an attorney. What I'll be sharing is based on my own experience navigating the child support system here in Florida.   In this episode, we answer listener questions on everything from starting the process to dealing with situations where the other parent lives in a different state or even another country. The insights we share aren't just for single moms—fathers out there are also doing their best with the tools they have, trying to ensure the best possible outcomes for their children. Tune in, take a listen, and walk away with some valuable information on this important topic!   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join me, Ariel, on this week's episode of "This Too Shall Pass," where I share my unexpected journey from being let go from my job to discovering the power of social media as a source of multiple income streams. I'll open up about the unsteady yet hopeful transition and tackle a listener's question about high-yield savings accounts. Learn about my experiences with American Express and UFB Bank, and gain insights into how these accounts work. We'll also explore the challenges of maintaining gratitude while juggling motherhood, with children ranging from preschool to high school, and finding financial stability amidst life's unpredictability.   In our discussion on personal health and family dynamics, we touch on the complexities of balancing personal health, motherhood, and personal growth. Hear about my struggles with weight gain, the importance of understanding family health history, and the challenges of stepping out of my comfort zone. We'll also embrace the joys of summer with kids and the simplicity of daily life without school-year stress. Plus, I share the mixed emotions surrounding a co-parent's move to Florida and the intricate dynamics of extended family relationships. And, for a lighter note, get ready to laugh at the humorous and awkward moments that come with dating.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

  How do you navigate the challenging maze of survival guilt while raising five kids on your own? Discover the raw and emotional journey of a single mother who finds hope and inspiration through community support and personal growth.    This week's episode of "This Too Shall Pass" is a heartfelt exploration of my life, as I grapple with the complex emotions tied to survival guilt and the unwavering gratitude I have for those who help my family thrive. Listen as I share how the Orlando City Rec center has been a beacon of opportunity for my children, especially my 16-year-old son, Andre, and my 13-year-old daughter, Haley. Their stories highlight the indispensable role of community programs and mentorship in shaping the futures of young lives.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

How do different parenting styles shape our children's emotional resilience and safety awareness? Join me, Ariel, as I navigate the intricate world of single parenting alongside my daughter Aaryn and my sister Akilah. We dive into the complexities of managing conflicts, emphasizing the importance of communication over physical discipline. Aaryn shares her personal growth story, and we highlight the invaluable feedback from our dear listeners who have become a part of our supportive community.     Gentle parenting, effective communication, and the nuances of sibling relationships take center stage, offering insights that go beyond traditional parenting methods. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of family dynamics, personal growth, and fostering resilience through open and honest communication.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com or call 321-300-6082  Join the email list HERE and don't miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

What does parenthood look like without the traditional authoritative fear often emphasized in our culture? Join us on "This Too Shall Pass" as we explore the raw and honest journey of single motherhood within the black community. From the cultural nuances of enjoying an espresso martini to the laughter-filled yet revealing conversations it sparks, we share personal stories that highlight the struggles and triumphs of parenting five children solo. Carla and Paola join me as we shift the conversation to my apprehensions about re-entering the dating scene, navigating the murky waters of online dating, and exploring the hesitant yet hopeful forays into platforms like Hinge.   Our conversation takes a deeper turn as we discuss the importance of co-parenting, personal growth, and the unique challenges of raising children, particularly boys. We reflect on the influence of upbringing on love languages and the struggle to foster independence and responsibility in our kids while maintaining love and support. Personal anecdotes reveal the pressures of being the eldest sibling and balancing household chores, emphasizing the need for positive and respectful parent-child relationships. Through it all, we navigate the societal and familial expectations that shape our parenting journey, striving for a balance that allows our children to flourish.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com or call 321-300-6082  Join the email list HERE and don't miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join me on a journey through the complexities of personal growth and parenting as we navigate the tough waters of breaking generational curses. Listen in as I share my candid experiences as a single mom of five, handling everything from the importance of self-check-ins to the challenges of maintaining discipline and the power of non-verbal communication in teaching our children life lessons. From the trenches of single parenthood to the front lines of family dynamics, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of the trials and triumphs that shape us. Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Hey tribe we're back as promised with another episode! Listen in as we explore the evolving challenges of parenting in the digital era, where the virtual playgrounds have become the new norm, creating a generational shift in children's social and play habits. We talk about the impact this has on family life and the importance of understanding and respecting our children's individual preferences. I also address the tricky landscape of real estate in Orlando, voicing the frustrations many face with the rental and housing market, and inviting you to weigh in with your experiences and solutions.   So grab your headphones and let's navigate these topics together, fostering a space for learning, laughter, and a reminder that through it all, we're not alone.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Can we ever truly heal from the scars of our past, or is it more about the miles we put between ourselves and the memories that once pained us? Get ready to unwrap this question as I, Ariel, take you through my own personal expedition of healing, single motherhood, and the brave steps toward new beginnings in love.    Join me for an episode where we celebrate my son Andre's sweet 16 and grapple with the joys and challenges of raising five unique spirits, each with their own story and co-parenting dynamic. Amidst the festivities and reflections, we also ponder the impact of companionship and community in our lives, especially when faced with the longing for a partner's support on this wild ride called family.     ‌ Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Listen in as I kick off the year with raw reflections on single motherhood and the relentless quest for personal growth. With the fresh canvas of 2024 before us, I share the complexities of navigating absent fathers and child support, while setting my sights on spiritual fortitude, health, and financial savvy. It's about making our money work for us, building a fortress of support, and shattering stereotypes.    Join me in setting the stage for a year of transformation and invite you to share your own top three aspirations for this exciting new chapter.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com or call 321-300-6082  Join the email list HERE and don't miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Could you handle the truth about single motherhood, or understand the depth of a child's innocent embarrassment? Today, we pull back the curtain on the reality of raising a little ones on your own, with all the mortifying, yet adorable moments included. As I share the escapades of my three-year-old, Owen, and his knack for public proclamations, you'll find a mix of laughter and empathy within these stories. in this episode we sift through our listener's mailbag, ensuring you that in the world of complex relationships and parenting, you are anything but alone.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Hey Tribe! As we wrap up the year, I'm excited to reflect on some highlights from Season 1. Wishing you all a joyful holiday season, and get ready for a fresh start with brand new episodes returning next week!   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast   ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join me, Ariel B, in a heartfelt conversation as we explore some sensitive topics, navigating the uncharted waters of victim shaming, forgiveness, and the complexities of relationships. As a survivor of domestic violence. I offer a unique perspective on these issues. I share my own journey, touching on my personal experiences, stressing the importance of not judging others' reactions to trauma, and the dangers of assumptions based on social media.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast   ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Ever wonder how other moms juggle work, family, and self-care without losing their sanity? Do they have a secret superpower, or is there a supportive community backing them? If you are a mother, know a mother, or planning to be one, this is a must-listen.   This episode is all about the village, and how crucial it is for the well-being of both children and mothers. The reality is that being a mom isn't easy, especially without a support system in place. We touch on maintaining a sense of identity amidst the demands of motherhood, finding ways to cover expenses, and the sacrifices made by mothers who lack a village. But it's not all about struggles; we're also sharing advice on generating additional income and how to stay positive in the face of adversity.    In the second half of our episode, we're switching gears to discuss the challenges of parenting as our children grow up and move out, and how our own upbringing influences our approach to parenting. We also address a listener's concern about a friend's relationship and offer guidance on setting boundaries while providing support. Wrapping up, we discuss the often-overlooked topic of financial literacy, the importance of creating a safe space for friends to share their experiences, and our guest Carla's moving journey. So sit back, tune in, and join us on this emotional and enlightening ride.     ‌ Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Have you ever had to testify in trial…against your abusive ex husband? How about being a mom of 5 and being displaced from your home of 3 years? Well in this episode, I talk about how I am dealing with both of these experiences in the span of under 2 months. I have been working through these hardships but with the help of my supporters, I have been able to keep pushing. So sit back and tune in on this vulnerable episode that I hope will help others know that we all can use unfortunate experiences as blessings and lessons.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Budgeting did not come to me naturally. As a single mother of five, I had to learn how to make ends meet and I had to learn fast. I never wanted to sacrifice the joy of providing for my kids and putting a smile of their face at Christmas…but this did come at the price of putting my ego aside. In this episode I discuss my tips and tricks of how I started my budgeting journey and how humbling myself allowed me and my kids to become financially stable.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

In this week's episode, I share the many struggles I dealt with after an abusive relationship. I thought I had no where to turn and no support until I was forced to speak my truth regarding my abuse. The hardships I faced while getting through this pivotal moment in my life not only gave me clarity but showed me that you are more than your partner and your situation. Join me in this discussion of learning when to ask for help and knowing your true value.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

In this week's episode, I was joined by a woman I just met 7 years ago…my sister Akeelah. Throughout our discussion, we chatted about familial troubles, the story of how my estranged uncle told me that I was adopted, and the effects that my adoption has had on our entire family. As we dive deeper into each topic, I was able to shed light on my journey in finding my birth family and touch on how similar we are even though we grew up in different households.   Tune in and see how our crazy yet beautiful family tree has allowed us to form an amazing and loving bond that can't be broken.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

I remember feeling the weight of the world on my shoulders as I navigated the complexities of an abusive relationship, often feeling a deep sense of isolation. I somehow found the courage to emerge from this darkness, and that's why we're here today, to candidly discuss surviving domestic violence. We delve into the fear and humiliation that often silences victims, the contrasting dynamics of healthy and unhealthy relationships, and the transformative power of speaking out. Our conversation is dedicated to shedding light on the harsh realities of domestic violence and providing useful resources for those who may be in need. We bring you invaluable insights from Harbor House, a beacon of hope in Orlando, Florida, serving victims of domestic violence. We discuss their commendable work, including providing legal assistance and the critical steps involved in filing for restraining orders. Our intention is to create a compassionate community, allowing survivors to share their experiences and inspire strength in others.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

On this week's captivating episode of This Too Shall Pass, we're joined by my children, Haley and Andre. Listen in as we share heartfelt stories and experiences from our lives. Haley and Andre open up about the unique challenges and lessons learned from being raised by a single mom. They candidly discuss the values of patience, communication, and understanding, which they believe have been pivotal in their growth and maturity.   Our conversation takes a twist as we explore the role of social media in the lives of today's youth, specifically in Haley and Andre's relationships with their fathers. They share their experiences navigating these complex dynamics, highlighting the significance of maintaining open and respectful dialogues about family matters. We further discuss the responsibilities that come with being the eldest child and the expectations that come with it.   In the final segment, we unpack their aspirations for the future and the additional responsibilities they've taken on as the eldest children in the family. We discuss how single parenthood has shaped their perspective and outlook towards life. Lastly, we address the challenging aspects of co-living, parenting, and balancing personal relationships. Tune in for an honest, open discussion on family dynamics, parenting, and growing up in a single-parent household.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: http://www.thistooshallpasspod.com   Watch Full Video On YouTube   Email your letters/advice questions to thearielbpod@gmail.com Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Ever wondered about the roller coaster ride that is motherhood or been curious about the magic and mess of raising five children as a single, working mom? Tune in as I, Ariel, share an intimate look into my life, my tribe and my unique parenting journey. From the excitement of my oldest son's high school football initiation, to the anxieties of my youngest son's steps into preschool, and everything in between, this episode is a raw and real peek at my summer with my family. We'll also dive into my perspectives on parenting, and the often underestimated significance of seeking help. Join me for an episode full of truth, inspiration and a good dose of laughter as we navigate the beautiful chaos of life together.   Join the email list HERE Email thearielbpod@gmail.com   This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Podcast Productions

Ever found yourself as a clueless adult, in the midst of chaotic parenting, wondering who you really are? What if you could navigate these challenges with grace and resilience, learning to appreciate the journey rather than the destination? Welcome to the premiere episode of my podcast, Too Shall Pass! In this raw and unfiltered episode, I dive deep into my past, exploring my traditional upbringing, and my subsequent struggles in coming to terms with a harsher reality. From the challenging dynamics of raising five children on a single income to discovering my worth and voice, I open up about my journey with brutal honesty. As we navigate through my experiences, we also delve deeper into the struggles associated with domestic violence and the triumphs of survival. Join me as we celebrate the strength of the human spirit, and remember, no matter the storm, This Too Shall Pass. (2:22) Ariel responds to a comment left on her infamous Pivot with Purpose Interview (3:50) Ariel gives flowers to a friend who inspires her to be a better person (7:35) Who is Ariel B? A DV survivor, Single Mom, Family secret? (20:15) Ariel shares her insight on how she has grown on social media (23:30) It's Above Me Now: Summer Camp- and why we should let kids be kids Join the email list HERE Email thearielbpod@gmail.com

Introducing "This Too Shall Pass," a captivating new podcast hosted by Ariel B, a remarkable mother of five who has weathered the storm of leaving an abusive relationship, and is now courageously navigating the challenging journey of raising her children single-handedly on a single income.   Ariel invites every parent longing to be seen and heard into her world, creating a safe space where their voices can resonate. With each weekly episode, she skillfully intertwines heartfelt anecdotes, raw emotions, and genuine humor to connect with her audience on a profound level. Through her captivating storytelling, Ariel offers solace, inspiration, and reassurance to parents who may find themselves in similar circumstances, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles.   Podcast produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions Need help launching a podcast schedule a Clarity call with Idea to Launch Productions CEO Carla Wilmaris

In this week's episode Carla and Wax discuss responsibilities of a step parent,  financial differences, and having your partner's best interests at all times.  [3:18] Pet peeve of the week: Telling someone something for their benefit and them not following the advice  [7:19]From the therapist couch: What is your responsibility as a step parent and how involved should you be in the different stages of the child's life? [43:35]Topic of the day: does financial differences make a couple unevenly yoked, [53:07] woman donates kidney to boyfriend then he broke up with her, [57:39] man proposed to girlfriend with a receipt of student loan payoff   [1:04:35] Listener Letters: We recently added a new baby to our family, my partner hasn't been making the best decisions financially and it's starting to affect my feelings toward him what should I do please help? [1:15:25] My girlfriend has a problem with my friend using my crib to have sex  [1:19:37] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 14:21 It is a sin to despise one's neighbor, but blessed is the one who is kind to the needy.

It's the first episode of the new year! In this week's episode Carla and Wax discuss good/bad of being in business together, leaving thing behind in 2021, and how-to support your partner during a difficult time.  [6:38] : Pet Peeve of the week - Double standards in the household in regards to passing gas    [13:24] From the Therapist's Couch: How involved are you and each other's work lives, What are the consequences good and  bad being in business together?   [22:16] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Normalize Scratching the kitty ladies [28:14] Loss of attraction due to pandemic weight gain  [34:12] one thing you want to leave  behind in 2021 [37:18] supporting your partner during a difficult time    [41:56] Listener Letters: Over the years I feel slighted with gift giving in my marriage, how to do I tell my wife I feel under appreciated ? [49:37] I want my friend's husband because I know I can make him happier, what should I do [57:10] My sister in-law makes gagging noises whenever I kiss or complement my fiancé, this bothers me how to I set boundaries respectfully?   [01:02:34] Pass Da Word: Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. www.whoswax.com Use code WSS for 10% off   Join the Elite Podcast Society   Free Vision Board Party Sign Up

In this week's episode Carla and Wax discuss The Mother/Daughter vs Father/Son affection love comparison, can love distract your goals? and parental lessons on marriage/relationship.   There is also a discussion centered around communicating to your partner how you want to be treated in a relationship    [2:18] Pet Peeve of the Week: Wax always wants Carla to give the kiss face when he comes around   [7:13] From the Therapist's Couch: The positives effects of therapy, has therapy helped you change your way of thinking on a certain subject   [12:25] TOPIC OF THE DAY: The Mother/Daughter vs Father/Son affection and love comparison [26:40] should we tell people how to treat us? [32:57] Can love distract you from your goals? [36:57] what did you learn about marriage/relationship from your parents?   [43:15] Listener Letters: I'm catching feelings for my co-worker who's not single help [50:15] My husband and I had a fight 3 weeks ago reminiscent of my past childhood trauma, now we don't talk at all what should I do?   [1:01:50] Pass Da Word: Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus   “When David faced Goliath he didn't talk about how dangerous Goliath was he talked about how great God is don't talk fear talk faith” - T.D Jakes   Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss    

Today's Show is brought to you by McDonalds. In this week's episode Carla and Wax discuss Prioritizing date night,  recap their most rent date night , and how there's no such thing as a “perfect person” while dating    There is also discussion about the dating question “what do you bring to the table” and how it can be viewed as degrading    [3:08] Pet Peeve of the Week: Carla is over it because the dog has runaway three times this week   [10:50] From the Therapist's Couch: Dating Advice from a therapist: There is no such thing as a perfect person and some people have more flaws than you can tolerate, don't deceive yourself into thing you can change what you don't like long term relationship are built on liking your partner don't people that a long list of things that you want to change    [20:31] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Prioritizing date night   [23:18]Recap story of last week date night   [31:31] Tony Gaskins against the question “what do you bring to the table    [35:44} Megan Trainer & husband purchase his and hers toilets    [44:13] Listener Letters: I don't want to marry my fiancé and I want to break up, what should I do? [50:23] together for 9 years my sex drive has spike after I stop taking birth control, it's difficult for my husband to initiate sex after all the times I've told him. What can I do to help our sex life?   [54:15] Pass Da Word: Colossians 3:13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss   Today's Show is sponsored by AHA Sparkling Water!

This week Carla and Wax discuss the benefits of marriage, proper tipping etiquette, and swingers  They also talk about surprise gift giving and get down to the bottom of why Carla doesn't like flowers but also doesn't mind flowers as gift. It's her world… he just lives in it! Take a listen to this week's episode    [07:54] Pet Peeve of the Week: Wax hates that Carla drinks out of water bottles and put them back in the fridge.   [09:50] Carla has an issue with the wine restrictions in New Jersey    [13:26] From the Therapist's Couch: What are the benefits of being married, do you marry for comfort or love?   [24:58] TOPIC OF THE DAY:  Are you supposed to tip when you pick-up food from a restaurant? [29:13] How often should you get your girl a surprise gift? [34:24] What is worst? a person who never acknowledges their wrong doing or a person that always says sorry but doesn't change their behavior?    [41:44] Listener Letters: My husband after 15 years decided to tell me he wants to try a “swingers” club with me after a show sparked his interest, how do I approach change and interests as the years go by?   [50:48] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.   Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss

INNOVATE HER NOW Win a Free Trip to LA and VIP Tickets to the Podcast Summit This week's Carla and Wax discuss dealing with individual trauma in a relationship, opposite sex friends and worldly sins.   They also have a discussion about falling in love with potential and if people eventually grow out of cheating when they find “the right one” umm, let's  just say there are two different opinions. But at the end of it all the final word is “Whatever She Says”     [04:15] Pet Peeve of the Week: People going to the bathroom and leave with washing their hand it's disgusting.   [12:50] From the Therapist's Couch:  dealing with past trauma in a relationship but individually     [29:30] TOPIC OF THE DAY:  How you change as a person when you find the right person [32:17] The feeling that you get when you find the right person [40:30] Opposite Sex Friends [48:00] Telling someone you're not ready for a relationship but still expected a relationship   [01:00:46] Listener Letters: I'm in one-hour long distance relationship, She I be ok with my boyfriend hangout with his female friend? [01:07:51] Step-parent boundaries, As a step mother how can I discipline my step child?   [1:15:16] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 20:22 Do not say, “I'll pay you back for this wrong!” Wait for the LORD, and he will avenge you.     Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss      

This week's Carla and Wax discuss doing things you don't like out of love, Polygamy and Responsibilities of co-parenting.  They also open a discussion about premarital counseling and what Wax really thinks about what happens at a bachelorette party! A compromise was made but... let's just say Carla's Island bachelorette party idea may require another conversation. [05:20]Pet Peeve of the Week: Cellphones At the dining room table, Dining room table should be a place where we spend uninterrupted time together [10:30] From the Therapist's Couch: Getting compromise from a man's perspective of being your protector [22:44] TOPIC OF THE DAY : Doing things you don't like out of love for your partner [27:25] What does Polygamy look like? And do I want to be a polygamist? [31:31] Responsibilities of co-parenting [45:21] Listener Letters: I am unhappy at work, should I quit my job without knowing where/how income will flow to spend time with my kids and to be a happier me? [53:16] How do I tell my partner what I need sexually without hurting their feelings? and how do I give direction he will follow? [1:03:26] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 10:17 Whoever heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray. Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% OFF your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss  

Take the Innovater Her Now Survey to win a Flight and Free ticket to our Summit in LA! This week's Carla and Wax chat about How long should couples wait to have another baby after the firstborn? And how social media beef in effects relationships. They also recap Wax's birthday celebration. Wax explains the day's events as only Wax can meanwhile, Carla gives the complete story from her POV its whatever she says! [07:08] Pet Peeve of the week: When Sexytime turns in to bedtime, Mama is tired [12:05] From the Therapist's Couch: Having clear goals for your future   [20:05] TOPIC OF THE DAY:  How long should couples wait to have another baby after their first? [26:56] Social media beef in relationships   [ 34:53] Listener Letters: how much privacy is appropriate between your partner and their kid's parent like if they say what they talk about is none of your business. [37:26] if you're out at dinner and your partner asks for some food out of your plate and you say no is that selfish If he's the one paying?   [46:00] Pass Da Word: 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.   Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss

In this week's episode they chat about how relationship dynamic changes after kids, hormones, adjusting, and living apart for months after the baby was born. [02:39 ]Pet Peeve of the Week:  Taking just to talk… saying things for no reason  [04:52]From the Therapist Couch Shutting Down -Do you speak of the problem right away or keep it to yourself? [48:10 ]Pass Da Word:  Psalm 91 : “He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty."   Get your Who's Wax Gummies www.whoswax.net and use code WSS for 10% off We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/wss

Carla & Wax have a very dynamic schedule. With a new born and two ambitious hustlers in the household there is a likely chance of feeling overwhelmed. In this week's episode they chat about the frustration and teamwork it takes to transition into their busy and unpredictable traveling schedule. Pet Peeve of the Week: @WaxKyng tries to butter Carla up by flipping the pet peeve of the week on himself. He thinks he did it successfully, tell us what you think? 12:00: From the Therapist Couch: We are officially sponsored by Better Help! Carla & Wax have been going to therapy to maintain the strength of their relationship. To get 10% off your first month: Trybetterhelp.com/WSS 53:00 - Pass Da Word James 2:14 : What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them?" ——————————————————— Connect with us: whatevershesayspodcast@gmail.com @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax

Pet peeve of the week : Not reading the manual or instruction guide while building or putting something together!   Tune in to see how Wax almost… well, just tune in… I don’t want to write anything incriminating lol.   Therapist Couch: Seeing a future with someone is important. Not in a crazy “omg are we getting married” on the first date kind of way.   Wax & Carla talk about how alignment is the foundation of a long-term relationship.   Valentine’s Day Virtual date Ideas: If you are dating someone but cannot be with them on Valentine’s Day, we give you some pretty cool ideas to still enjoy this man made holiday.  Also, you'll get to hear the story about Wax sending his teacher to the hospital   Pass Da Word: Luke 18:1 Then Jesus told his disciplines a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.   In this segment we explore the power of persistence. Are you persistent about the outcomes that you want in your life? Are you seeking the things that give your joy and make you feel aligned?    Connect with us: whatevershesayspodcast@gmail.com @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax

This episode is very special to us because we are finally welcoming Baby Pslam to our Whatever She Says, family! Thank you for all of your support and warm wishes, we have been showered with love daily.   This week we catch you up on the craziness of Psalm’s birth. Remember when the doctor told us Psalm would be here in February? Yeah, looks like the little man had his own agenda. [5:00] Pet Peeve of the week: TV infidelity ! [24:00] We also talk to you about ABO incompatibility and provide you all with updates about Psalms ‘Jaundice status. Stay tuned because even insert audio footage from the car ride to the hospital after Carla’s water broke.   [40:00] Pass Da' Word Psalm 55:22 Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.   “The Wait Defines The Weight of your relationship.“ Pastor JJ   Links Mentioned: “Stretch Marks” Journey Church https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krh-GZ0_HDI    Connect with us: @Whatevershesayspod @CarlaWilmaris @IdeaToLaunch @Waxkyng @WhosWax

Carla is officially 9 months pregnant this week!! Can you guess when the baby is going to come?! [5:00] Apple Podcast Review Thank you for leaving a podcast review to help grow our show. We get a lot of DM’s and people who have emailed us to show their support. It would help the show immensely if you go leave that 5 star review :).   We even learn from the reviews, for example Wax is learning how to say: “Callate La Boca. Por Favor”   [7:00] Pet Peeve of the week Garbage Etiquette When do you take the initiative to take out the trash? Are you the type of person to   [11:00] From the Therapist Couch Trust is a choice regardless of your past conditioning. [16:06] Work Life Balance: Is work life balance a real thing? Carla & Wax discuss how they can both work and still keep things balanced in the relationship.  [28:00] Listener Letters: I found messages in my husbands phone and need advice on how I should take it. My brother doesn’t like my new boyfriend & he said something that made me raise an eyebrow and reevaluate our relationship. I need help   [47:00] 50/50 Court: Plaintiff bring defendant to court because he does not drink enough water. Tune in to find out what the benefits of having a water dick! [1:02] Pass Da Word Pslam 27:11 Teach me your way, LORD; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors.   Connect With Us:  @Whatevershesayspod  @carlawilmaris @waxkyng --------------------------- Need therapy? Try Better Help therapy and 10% off your first month at: https://betterhelp.com/30

Cheers to the New Year!  [2:30] Pet Peeve of the week: This week Carla and Wax dive into proper phone etiquette! Is it wrong for a person to put you on speaker phone without letting you know? [10:00] Therapist Couch: Wax and Carla started going back to therapy and continue to strengthen their communication and unpack patterns that cause conflict in their lives. Aside from drinking tea and telling the therapist that she’s wasting her time… Wax is learning a lot and this week he teaches Carla something in therapy! [24:00] Black Men and their Relationship To Vulnerability: The world has manipulated our society into thinking that vulnerability is “soft” or "weak" when in fact it's a very brave act. This week Carla encourages Wax to lean into being vulnerability and challenges him to “feel” his feelings instead of suppressing them. Wax in return challenges Carla to adopt multiple views of “vulnerability” and to not expect him to react in the same ways that she would to a situation. [37:00] Listener letters: 37:21 If you would like to seek advice fro Carla & Wax email us at WhateverSheSaysPodcast@gmail.com [51:02] 50/50 Court: This week we have a special 50/50 episode! Let us know what you think! [54:00] Pass Da’ Word: Malachi 3: 10 Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it. Amen!    Who’s Wax Care Package Give Away: The first 10 people who email us at whatevershesayspodcast@gmail.com gets a chance to win The Who’s Wax care package. We are selecting: 10 people from CA 10 people from everywhere else Make sure to hashtag #WSSpod #WhosWax when you recieve your package Post on your social media and tag us to let us know you emailed us ——————————————————— Connect with us: whatevershesayspodcast@gmail.com @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax ————

ATTENTION: We are Looking for a destination wedding planner! Please reach out or refer anyone you think will be great! We are specifically looking to support a black business!     [3:00] Pet Peeve of the week:   Unannounced Visitors! It might’ve been okay as a teenager to show up unannounced at a neighbor’s house but as an adult, it is inappropriate. This week Carla & Wax talk about unwarranted guest etiquette where they both agree and disagree on the proper decorum. Tell us what you think!     [7:50] From The Therapist Couch: Don’t confront situations while processing them, AKA I didn’t listen!     [16:00] Yearly Wrap- Up/ Reflection: This episode Carla & Wax reflect on major events during 2020. They discuss pivotal cultural moments, along with personal/ professional accomplishments. In just one year they were able to start a multiple businesses separately & together, convince a child, and get engaged! Woah…     [34:00] Listener Letter’s     [48:00] 50/50 Court: Plaintiff V is bringing defendant Nicole to court because she is tired of being silenced about her poops. Defendant counter argues Plaintiff has no boundaries and talks about pooping at the wrong times!     [1hr] Pass Da Word: Psalm 51:2  Wash away all my iniquity     and cleanse me from my sin.